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Guest interviews
Video podcast
English
United States
10 episodes
since July 5, 2026
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You'd never let a client's most important goal sit untouched because the day got loud. So why does that keep happening with your own?In this episode, we take the classic time management matrix and look at it the way we'd look at any client's pattern: what's maintaining it? …

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What if the kids aren’t the only ones learning? In this episode of Define with Denise, I sit down with my friend and former colleague Kody Harms — BCBA, third-generation educator, co-founder and clinical director of Curated Family Therapeutics, and dad to Oscar. We start with one question: What is …
We’re the generation raising kids while also looking back at how we were raised. In this episode, I share pieces of my experience growing up in a Vietnamese immigrant family—from achievement and expectations to sacrifice, love, conflict, and all the things that weren’t always talked about. Because …
Our generation is trying really hard to raise kids differently. We talk more about emotions. We know more about trauma. We want our kids to feel heard, safe, and understood. But sometimes knowing what we don't want to repeat doesn't automatically tell us what to do instead. So for this ep…
Most of us already know what healthy eating looks like. We know protein is important.We know vegetables are good for us.We know drinking water matters. So why is nutrition still one of the hardest behaviors to change? Nutrition isn't about food. It's about behavior. In this episode, we&ap…
Fear has a way of convincing us that we need to feel ready before we take the next step. Ready to have the conversation.Ready to apply for the job.Ready to start therapy.Ready to ask for help.Ready to make the change. But what if that's never how change actually works? In today's episode,…
Over the last few episodes, we've explored why behavior change is hard, why our patterns make sense, and why knowing what to do isn't always enough. But this week, I wanted to press pause and share something a little more personal. In this episode, I'm sharing the story behind DEFINE…
Have you ever caught yourself repeating a pattern you fully understand... and thought, I literally know better than this? You can identify your child's triggers. See when your client is starting to avoid. Tell your friend exactly why they keep going back to the same situation. But then you sta…
If Knowing Was Enough, Change Would Be EasyWhy We Know What to Do... But Still Struggle to Do It Have you ever found yourself saying... "I'll start Monday." "This time will be different." "I know what I need to do... so why can't I seem to do it?" If you&apos…
Welcome to DEFINE. If you've ever wondered why change feels so hard, why we repeat patterns we promised we'd never repeat, or how to create meaningful change without losing the values that matter most, you're in the right place. In this short introduction, I share why I created DEFIN…
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