ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗
A conversational podcast exploring lust, sex, and addiction through real recovery stories. Each episode features candid dialogue from people who've lived it-sometimes serious, sometimes funny, always real. The show offers experience, strength, and hope without sounding clinical or preachy.
Update frequency:
every 4 days
Average audio length:
72 minutes
Guest interviews
English
United States
50 episodes
since Nov. 9, 2025
episodic
LATEST EPISODE 🔗
Margie and Paul share how addiction, betrayal, passivity, and the urge to run nearly ended their marriage—and why pursuit, accountability, and recovery changed its direction. They talk about handwritten memory cards, using “old marriage” as a warning bell, and bringing their own ick into parenting …
PREVIOUS EPISODES 🔗
Luke joins Pasha and J. to talk about fatherhood, flexible recovery, and why checking every box isn’t the same as staying connected to God. They get practical about missed meetings, changing diapers, unloading the dishwasher, and learning to show up for the two girls at home. Plus: sobriety-date tr…
Pasha and J. talk about honoring a man who died sober, getting right-sized by a newcomer, and finding the deeper fellowship that meetings alone can’t always provide. They unpack phone-call boundaries, post-meeting hangs, and a local WhatsApp community—plus an unexpected sidewalk conversation about …
Shim F joins Pasha and J. to unpack why “recovered” can feel loaded and why tough love doesn’t work if you can’t feel the love. They get into patient sponsors, bear hugs, sobriety-date competition, and the power of simply coming back. Along the way, they ask how fellowship can feel more like hangin…
Molly joins Pasha and J. to talk about entering male-dominated meetings in a giant puffer coat, leaving recovery for ten years, and finding her way back through loneliness and a sketchy alley. They get into fellowship across gender lines, prayer that feels real, and the monk resentment that unexpec…
Pasha and J. unpack the retreat high, the lonely crash afterward, and why recovery friends can feel like home. They explore building community beyond formal meetings through chaotic WhatsApp threads, spontaneous group calls, poker nights, and a small winter retreat—with plenty of side quests along …
Ash and Catherine join the guys at the retreat to talk sponsorship, relapse, and the relief of not having all the answers. They get honest about dating, shame, surrendering outcomes, and learning to connect with people without lust running the conversation. Along the way, J. questions the relentles…
At the retreat, the guys dig into surrendering what matters most—money, sex, dating, anger, and the illusion of control. Mike shares how a roof repair tested his sense of security, why buying coffee nearly wrecked his serenity, and what it means to let God have the good and the bad. They also wrest…
Nicole and Brennan join J. and Pasha to talk about separation, relapse after 90 days of treatment, and why they had to recover apart before they could recover together. They get honest about broken trust, Sunday recovery marathons, learning when to shut up, and the difference between being helpful …
At an SA retreat, Scott and Austin join the guys to talk sponsorship, first-step feedback, and the difference between doing all the things and actually surrendering. They get honest about ignored phone calls, bruised egos, East Coast bluntness, West Coast laughter, and why J. should never ask wheth…
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