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A woman said to me the other day, “I’m not interested in being powerful.” The statement made me curious about what having power meant to her. It made me protective of my own power. Shonda Rhimes, a powerful woman if there ever was one, was once quoted as saying: “I’ve seen plenty of powerful women …

Have you noticed that whenever we want to change anything about our lives we tend to focus on getting something, or having something, or doing something? We put our attention on taking action. I have to eat less. I need to study more. I’ll just work harder. I have to get more clients. I need […] T…

Coaching can change your life in an instant. It can also make you a better coach.  In Episode 66 I told you all about my so-called Pam Slim Smackdown nearly a decade ago when I was in training to become “the best coach in the world!” Even back then I was living by my “be […] The post Ep #75: …

Did you hear the one about the woman who wanted to start her own business but she was so afraid to do it because, in her own mind, she’d already failed?   She said she couldn’t stop the repetitive (negative) loop in her head (the one that sounded an awful lot like her mom). It went […] T…

Do you know someone who appears to be grouchy most of the time? It’s because they’re telling themselves a grouchy story day in and day out. People like that are kinda dangerous… they can mess up your day if you let them. Likewise, people who seem to be upbeat and positive? They can turn your […] T…

I love a good story, don’t you? So why do we tell such horror-able stories about ourselves? In Episode 72 of MESS MAGIC MONEY we’re going to take a closer look at the lousy no good rotten stinkin’ scary stories we tell and why you have to rewrite yours. Turn it into a romantic comedy. […] The post…

WHAT IF everything you say you want, all your plans, all your dreams… what if all of it is being contradicted by your subconscious mind? You can see the havoc that would cause with your life, right? That’s the thing though – you can say what you want, wish for it, dream about it, “law […] The post…

Once you know what you want, how will you make sure you get it? In episode 69 of MESS MAGIC MONEY I gave you an assignment: articulate with clarity what it is you want. People will often lament the fact that life isn’t what they expected, but when you ask them exactly what it is […] The post Ep #7…

You can’t have what you want if you don’t even know what you want. Sounds obvious, I know, but if I asked you right now what it is you really really REALLY want, how would you answer? Sometimes when I ask women this question someone will say something like, “George Clooney.” In other words, she […]…