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[SPEAKER_00]: Drainaged woman melts down over pool attire.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Daylight savings might be going away, and fans are shocked by their faves, ultra-scent appearance.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Hey, ladies, let's talk about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's how you work at ladies.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All right, ladies, so let's get into this Drainaged woman harassing people when they are just trying to have a good time out by the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Can we just leave each other alone?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, is it really that serious guys?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, it just is not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So anyway, there's been a couple of instances of stuff like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm sure you've heard of some, but this is the one we're gonna hang in on most today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This involved two women, they were taking photos, who's side at their community pool and coastal Virginia.
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[SPEAKER_00]: According to the women, they were simply posing for social media pictures
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[SPEAKER_00]: approach them and it complained that the photo session was inappropriate because our husband's sons and nephews and other children were nearby.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The video of the confrontation with viral in early June of this year.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And in the footage, the mother reportedly told them that their behavior was inappropriate and not appropriate around families.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of the women responded by suggesting that if the woman's husband was looking, he just simply looked elsewhere.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The woman may tell you that they were doing nothing different from other people at the pool and were far away from the family that complained.
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[SPEAKER_00]: According to reports, the one woman says, we were just mining our own business, taking pictures.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And she noticed that others at the pool were wearing similar pool attire.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So this story spread very far across social media, especially Instagram and TikTok, TikTok primarily.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it is because the viewers really felt that this complaint was unreasonable and completely unnecessary.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that these women were single out for a really strange reason, including body shaming, racial bias, and, you know, just hate against social media culture.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So here's my thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And these are our reports from Atlantic Black Star and Tiktok and a few other places.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Here is my thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all know that some people show too much of the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Did watch this video.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a like a phone video.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did watch it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And these women are literally so far away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like they're on the complete other side of the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And from what I saw their bathing suits were not anything that most people would deem as inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were wearing bikinis, but there's a difference between.
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[SPEAKER_00]: a bikini and a bikini.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, were you bikini and bikini?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it kind of can't everything is hanging out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: These women were not rocking the dental floss bikinis.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing thongs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing the small triangle shoes, where the triangle is so small.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's only covering the nipple.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, you know, where your whole breast is covered and full coverage bottoms like I don't see the problem and again, we all know what our personal our personal modesty and our personal belief systems are around modesty and a lot of us here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That do listen to the channel do have a shared sense of modesty and all of that and believes around modesty and most of us here are pretty modest like and that is how we should be.
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[SPEAKER_00]: At the same time, I don't believe people have the right to kind of force people to have their same viewpoints on modesty, what I don't think is okay is for women to be wearing dental floss bikinis around kids, that's just a little weird and gross like why are your whole cheeks out like that, like we shouldn't be saying if I'm seeing cheeks, that's when I start to get like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't get angry.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, hey, that dumb and I look in the other direction, you know, like you just ignore it, like, or if it's that bad or there's also vulgar activity going on, I'm just going to leave, you know, like that's all you have to do, but to actually go up to someone and try to tell them what they shouldn't be wearing, especially how crazy people are nowadays for your own personal safety.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not about to do that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, um, I had we had taken the kids out to a water park, honey, and there was one lady out there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I guess she had just gotten that BBL done honey, and those cheeks were cheeking.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Them cheeks were glistening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Them cheeks were out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She had on a song, bikini, and she had the tiniest tiniest top just covering the nippies.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I didn't appreciate, I was like, girl, I mean, girl, say that for Miami Beach, say that for the French Riviera, say that for the new beach because you basically knew you know what I'm saying, like, say that for over there, why you got to bring that to the kids, which were like, this is legit.
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[SPEAKER_00]: kids resort.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But again, even that situation where she was inappropriate, I was still never go up to her and be like, what are you wearing?
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[SPEAKER_00]: My kids are here looking at that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So if is that bad, I'm going to be like, hey, we're leaving, you know, we're going to come over here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Or I'm going to teach my children, hey, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Just because there is something, you know, too much going on in front of you doesn't mean you have to look at it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying what the women are wearing is right, but the only thing you could do is help them.
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[SPEAKER_00]: increase their own level of self control, they can choose not to look, they can choose to turn away, they can choose to kind of change the subject and talk about something else because you know, we all snicker some people snicker and laugh to themselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't actually, if I see anyone doing something inappropriate with their clothing, I literally just do not respond.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel like in 2026, we need to just like still snicker about people who dress inappropriately, who cares.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's on him, you know, so, but again, especially with the men, that's going to carry them farther because if they can't control themselves, at the end of the day, if they begin to then engage inappropriately, they're only going to hurt themselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, it, it, it's a two-way street that people should dress modestly and at the same time, if someone is being in modest, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Turn around, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: um now there was something funny here that I key key at um she does say hey if you're if your family members and your husbands are looking tell them don't look and you know and if you're insecure about it and I'll see she came at her like that because she already came at the situation crazy by even coming over there to say anything these women were mining their happy business
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were mothers too.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They had their kids out there at the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Their bathing suits were not inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were simply two pieces.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They had their hair done, you know, makeup.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They just look cute.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like it was just a family, like cute.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm cute, lounge about the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm gonna take my social media pictures.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It is what it is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I feel like the reaction was funny because that's all you're going to get from someone if you're going to try to police their behavior, you know, unfortunately.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What I think people should do is try to get to know people more like before you actually say something to them like maybe if she had a said, you know, hey girls.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm how you all doing today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got some extra treats you guys want some treats and stuff for the kids, you know, okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's nice.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, thank you so much.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Then maybe let 20 minutes go by and come back.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, hey, y'all, you know, mind doing me a favor.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got, you know, some people over here they're kind of struggling with, you know, which I'll do, which remind just for me, you know, just kind of, you know, don't let it down a little bit or anything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Even though I personally wouldn't even do that, I can at least respect and approach like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can respect that they are trying to come at it from a friendly level.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Instead of, you know, this condescending really rude, like thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We just have to get comfortable with people behaving in different ways that we would around us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, like there's always controversy and again, for those of you who are in my, my close in it community, you know, I can remember growing up and it was like, oh, well, if you were a part of this, you know, if we all went to the same place every Sunday, well, they you have to only wear one piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Not everybody's body fits a one piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Me, for example, I have a very short torso and most one pieces are so long on me when I wear them my crotch my veggie is showing on the bottom because it's too long.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's super inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's definitely not what I'm trying to show.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But if I get an underwear bottom, I don't have to worry about it being too long, like it's gonna fit and it's gonna stay up and it's gonna cover all my bitties.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So just because something works for you or your own idea, there's levels, you can have a two piece on.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and still be modest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There are tankinies that cover a good amount.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There are boy shorts with a crop top, like there is a lot that can be done.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And even I feel like the past two years, I've gotten some really cute yet modest bathing suits that I like, you know, for me, I'm not a person who likes to show their bottom.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't like anything with my cheeks exposed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This is just
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[SPEAKER_00]: So some people will wear the full coverage bottoms and they will let their cheeks, you know, if it rises up and it is a cheeky moment, they're cool with it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not I don't like the way my booty looks.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got stretch marks galore and I just feel it just does not look good on anyone, no matter if you're thin or big.
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[SPEAKER_00]: to have your cheeks out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I personally prefer something like boy shorts or even now I have swim skirts.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that way my whole booty is covered.
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[SPEAKER_00]: My entire bum is on lock.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like no cheat.
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[SPEAKER_00]: are showing okay but then I like to have a little bit more fun with my tops because I feel like my top half you know I'm a little bit more comfortable with um I don't have enormous breasts but they're kind of on the mid slash smaller side maybe so it's not like they're jumping out at you you know if if I'm wearing a triangle top so I have like little skirts and
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[SPEAKER_00]: I have triangle tops to match it, but it overall gives a more covered appearance.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, again, you can't just be like, oh, two piece inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, two piece unattentable.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, some of y'all will want pieces on look terrible, and they're in modest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Some of these want pieces now have thong bottoms, but y'all will sit up here and say, this is more modest when your whole cheeks are out just because it's a one-piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I mean, make it make sense, like I can't with some of this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, I think that the reaction to this speaks for itself.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people call this woman a not very nice word.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They call her a Karen.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they were like, you were just doing way too much girl.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You need to sit down.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Those ladies were not being inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were out there with their kids too.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And like I said, I saw the video, and I did not see anything that looked inappropriate, anything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And there's a deeper conversation that can be had about the spouse thing as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll touch on a little bit, leave most of it for another day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to pools right we all go to pools.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to beach like
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[SPEAKER_00]: be realistic about it, do we walk around like wearing bikinis all the time wearing swimwear all the time?
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[SPEAKER_00]: No, we don't.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it is natural when we're in that environment.
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[SPEAKER_00]: People are going to look, you know, regardless of what you look like.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As long as a mate isn't having a lingering stare, you know what I'm saying, putting on sunglasses, it's slouching down, trying to get an extra peak when they know about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As long as none of that's going on, like what are you so upset about?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: to the point that you have to go police someone else like.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to the beach, we all go to the pools.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you are in a relationship, if you're married, the eyes are going to wander.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're looking at the little hot guys walking around and they're looking at the little hot girls walking around.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it's not within intent to have this whole thing about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's just your eyes glant and then you go, look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, time to look away and you just look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, but you're not going to not see it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I just feel like as women to me for me unless it's a legit problem and this is a trend that your husband has not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've got a trend of always talking to other cheeks.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You always have been somebody's face.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Any time somebody walk by with a little less close on he's got to be all up in their grill and who Glenn and Google in and I glass is up and somewhere up and trying to look to the side, you know, that's another issue that needs to be addressed you need to have a conversation with your husband.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, because at the end of the day, the issue is with them because people are going to do whatever they want the only thing we could control is our own actions.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying that people dressing inappropriately is okay because it isn't.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But some people, even when they're monosly covered up, they could be covered up from head to toe.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're still going to notice their body.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're still going to notice their physique.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So again, the issue that people have to work on them, men, especially is some control.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, can you literally control yourself?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, go, don't have your man.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, making you so insecure that you're literally going up to random strangers and like being rude to them.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I just think that's really dumb.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Dumb, diddy, dumb, dumb, dumb, and dumb, okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: next subject now.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's talk about this right here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We have heard this so many times that I'm kind of sick of hearing about at this point, but daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So right now the current administration is looking to make daylight savings time permanent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I want to be clear about
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[SPEAKER_00]: and not changing it, the conversation is keeping daylight saving time as the permanent as opposed to simply keeping standard time as the permanent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So those are two completely different things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One is keeping the time daylight savings time when you turn the clock back and it's a little lighter earlier.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's what we're talking about.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Standard time is when you turn your clock
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[SPEAKER_00]: back going into the winter and now you know it's it's darker a little bit earlier okay so this is a big thing like I don't think we realize how much it is a big thing so first of all there are some health issues associated with switching to daylight savings time did you know that did you know that did you know that um so here's some things that have happened before
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[SPEAKER_00]: that the experts have seen because the sleep scientists and the mental health scientists do monitor this and they monitor what is the best, you know, ideal timing and all that for the body, circadian rhythms.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And what they've found over the years is that a rough, we have sometimes a roughly 24% increase in heart attack on the Monday after the spring time change.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now isn't that interesting?
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[SPEAKER_00]: A roughly 24% increase in heart attack on the Monday after the spring time change.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and the reason for this is researchers believe that sleep deprivation as a Katie and disruption are the major contributors.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do feel like I feel better on the winter sleep cycle.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Drop something to chat if you feel the same way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do like having the extra light during the summer, but like I just feel like I just sleep so much better, you know, in the winter and everything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Another thing that experts say is an issue with daylight savings time is fatal traffic accidents rise.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So one of the strongest links involves deadly car crashes.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A study published in current biology examined more than two decades of US fatal crash data and found.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And estimated 6% increase in fatal traffic accidents during the week following the spring shift.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So here we go again with that spring the spring clock changes causing some issues researchers estimate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This translated into dozens of additional deaths annually.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so the reasons, of course, our sleep deprivation reduced alertness, so reaction time and dry while the body clock is disrupted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, another issue.
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[SPEAKER_00]: with daylight savings time is workplace fatalities and serious injuries.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Research has found increases in workplace accidents during the spring time chain.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A study examined mining injuries found that more workplace accidents, more severe injuries and greater loss work time after the clock shift.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And for that particular issue, it's believed that fatigue is the major factor.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So this is what we see in industries involving heavy machinery, transportation and construction industry.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, kind of if you have husbands that work in this, maybe around daylight savings have them take a day or two off to just kind of get adjusted to that different time frame so that you know, grow they ain't out there on the back home and then all of a sudden, you know, they they crash into something and it's a big issue, you know what I mean, we touched a little bit on stroke risk, but I will say this several studies have also found a temporary increase in stroke following the transition into daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The effect of years strongest among older adults and people with existing health conditions, and that is due to the, again, sleep disruption and the cardiovascular stress that is caused by sleep disruption.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, the experts are pretty clear about this, changing clocks twice a year is more harm than good.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the healthiest alternative then?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What time is best for our body?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Researchers are telling us that the permanent standard time, not daylight standard time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But permanent standard time is the health healthiest so permanent standard time is better by because you're again you're on that timeframe of where it gets a little darker earlier but again that kind of is more so hard bodies are synced up with nature.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I find this topic, excuse me, to be pretty interesting because we've been doing this for so long.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can remember as a little kid, this like coming up and like, oh, we should get rid of daylight savings time and all that stuff.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think maybe it's time now to finally like, what is the rest?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What are we gonna do?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Are we gonna do this or what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And if you are doing it,
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[SPEAKER_00]: like I want one time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think we'd all probably feel a little bit better with that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So let's talk about the history of daylight.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Same as a little bit because some people were like, okay, wouldn't it?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What was even the point of this?
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[SPEAKER_00]: This was actually started in 1918.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It created a couple of standardized U.S. time zones and established the first nation-wide daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was first actually called War Time because it was around, you know, between that period between World War One and World War Two.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it was called that originally and, you know, it also was in part because of the farming industry, giving the farmers extra, you know, time to.
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[SPEAKER_00]: get up and get things going because of course they are producing the food for the country, especially back then when we kind of relied more so on our own farmers for producing all of our food, we do subsidize some things out now to our neighbors primarily in Mexico.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they do a great job, I mean, they do so, so good, they're in those two countries as well, pretty, pretty healthy standards and safety things around food there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's a good thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, it I really feel like at this point in time though, that's a little outdated like we do we really need it, you know what I mean, like I don't think, you know, a lot of things about the laws when so many things were created that are foundational to the US and you know how we function, you know, you have to think things as time goes on like that worked for then, but it just.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, isn't as much as a thing now.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It just isn't for all the different reasons.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think it could be great to do that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would encourage you the American Academy of Sleep Medicine has published a lot of research on this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they have been really kind of blowing the whistle on this for years and have argued that you're around standard time is what aligns most closely with our natural
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[SPEAKER_00]: um, they got some great articles that you could check out on their website.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There was one woman.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, last week I actually watched an interview with her and she shared some even more like statistics and things like that on this topic.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, she's probably linked in on that website as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, because I've do believe she was an official, uh, from that organization.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I would definitely take
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[SPEAKER_00]: We can get to one set time, okay, one set time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now let's move it right along.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Moving it along.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This will be the last one that we chat about today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of,
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[SPEAKER_00]: The faves and I've always kind of like liked her stuff enough like whatever became popular.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not like a die hard fan or no like every every song or anything, but the little lady who is now during doing the she's on tour and she was in a very.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, popular movie that I did not see just because the title itself just kind of told me it wouldn't be something that I would be interested in.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, but she seems.
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[SPEAKER_00]: like, right in front of her eye, a lot of people are concerned about Ariana Grande that she is looking a little bit then, um, I don't know a lot like about her, of course, we always, you know, wish people the best in everything, but um, this is one of the ones before because
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[SPEAKER_00]: I call it, it was like a vegan diet, but like everybody was switching to being vegan and kind of going into it, not really counting the costs or what that looked like for them personally.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And she attributes her naturally small frame to a vegan diet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's had some weight fluctuations.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She has publicly discussed, which I think is good that she's publicly discussed, that she does have anxiety.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's also talked about her struggles with hypoglycemia, and a few other things she was.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She did say that she had PST, a PTSD, excuse me, following the 2019 Manchester Arena bombing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And some of that is wanted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you've been through, which I think I'm reading this correctly, that she did go through that event.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If that is incorrect, you know, everything is alleged, you know, you know, I'm just kind of gathering here from what's available online and some things can be wrong.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, but that's understandable and sometimes when you have a traumatic event, it kind of makes you hyper fix on other things that you can control because the way the mind works is that when you have kind of a loss of control, then you kind of start to get hyper fix on control and the things that you can.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so some people have pointed out like kind of following that incident is when she really started to like get
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if you guys have ever known any one that has had an eating disorder, but I have known two individuals personally that have had eating disorders.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when I say eating disorder, there's a lot of different types of eating disorders.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm referring to eating disorders where it's more so distorted eating, limiting eating, not eating at all, eating only certain things, going way too long without eating.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So basically doing things to be thin, and I can't stress how unhealthy that is when you're starting
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[SPEAKER_00]: all of the bones that is usually a sign that whatever you're doing isn't working so kind of time back in with a vegan diet which is something that she has shared to me this looks a little bit more than just a vegan diet issue this looks like perhaps okay maybe someone who is only eating vegan things and very few of them um now you can get really thin on a vegan diet
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[SPEAKER_00]: For most people of the weekend, diet is just not going to be something that they can maintain.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Unless they had like vegan parents and they've grown up vegan.
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[SPEAKER_00]: their whole lives and so they really know like all the things to do, they have like a more I'll say their taste palette is like more geared towards having all the different vegan things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's just a little easier for people who kind of are vegan from birth and have
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[SPEAKER_00]: vegan parents, but if it's something you're transitioning into, personally, it is not going to be easy, especially if you are a mom of any age, mom of little kids, mom of teens.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Mom of adults, okay, it's not going to be easy to do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying it can't be done, but you have to do it healthy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You have to make sure that you are getting everything that you need.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that could be something going on here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you look at pictures of her before like when she first came out, she was already dead.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She looked great and now this is kind of
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[SPEAKER_00]: going into the realm of being really, really, really, really concerning, like really, really concerning.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One thing that I can always tell about people when they have an actual eating disorder and I'm not saying that's what she has, you know, but what I've noticed with the two that I know is that they have this stare.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's like their body is running on such little fuel that they don't blink as much and like they just stare kind of like this very faint kind of thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I kind of felt like I mean, he's seeing some similarities there, but yeah, this basically came out recently because her towards this kick drop and fans noticed that she was looking pretty pretty pretty.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it could be a lot of things that kick off eating disorders and that's a whole conversation that we could have one day again, not saying that she has that, but sometimes when you're going through relationship issues and that has been some things that she has gone through.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, there was when she was with this one guy, they were both kind of
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[SPEAKER_00]: kind of overlapping with their existing marriages and then they ended up getting married and there was issues all around with both relationships.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you just never know what people are going through and what could actually trigger distorted eating or, you know, just not wanting to eat or only eating certain things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: anything like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So who knows, whatever happened, I did find an interesting know, you know, this this little controversy about some of her relationships, you know, it's funny just you, we hear so many other things like you would never think anything like this as she, you know, had these different relationships and some of them were a bit controversial, you know,
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[SPEAKER_00]: because people, you know, she kind of just has that eternal kid look like very just kitty and girly and all those things, but then some very adult things are happening with marriages and marriages and being involved with other people and overlapping things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you just really know never know what people are actually, you know, doing it and what, you know, some of the
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[SPEAKER_00]: you know, what's happening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So we're hoping that everything's good.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Even sometimes people can be on certain medications or, you know, additional,
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[SPEAKER_00]: on orthodox medications.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll say that, you know, you just don't know what people are doing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So we're hoping for them as, you know, I wanted to highlight this one because, you know, we are always so quick to look at people who are putting on weight as they, you know, go through their musical careers.
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[SPEAKER_00]: These people are kind of...
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[SPEAKER_00]: in our public.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh, my goodness, this person has put on weight on my gracious.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This person has also put on weight like they're just getting big and blah, blah, blah, which is just so gross and unnecessary.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But then, you know, when people are thin, it can almost be crazed, which is not good when people are unhealthy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's what I'm talking about.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Either extreme being
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[SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, need some attention, need some assistance, need some guidance issues that have to be addressed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, yeah, definitely I wanted to highlight this one because I feel like that, you know, seeing someone who might be having an issue like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: is a little less common and gets talked about a little less and it almost kind of gets turned into like oh that's just ridiculous eat something like you're being ridiculous just go eat something but it's a lot deeper than that on both it's some people eat because they have emotional trauma and some people do not eat because they have emotional trauma so
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[SPEAKER_00]: Anywho, we are wishing, oh girl, the best, you know, you know, hoping for the best as all we can do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All righty guys.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hope you have found this information to be helpful and I'll see you next time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Bye bye.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry to interrupt, but it's important.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Drainaged woman melts down over pool attire.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Daylight savings might be going away, and fans are shocked by their faves, ultra-scent appearance.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Hey, ladies, let's talk about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's how you work at ladies.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All right, ladies, so let's get into this Drainaged woman harassing people when they are just trying to have a good time out by the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Can we just leave each other alone?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, is it really that serious guys?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, it just is not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So anyway, there's been a couple of instances of stuff like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm sure you've heard of some, but this is the one we're gonna hang in on most today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This involved two women, they were taking photos, who's side at their community pool and coastal Virginia.
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[SPEAKER_00]: According to the women, they were simply posing for social media pictures
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[SPEAKER_00]: approach them and it complained that the photo session was inappropriate because our husband's sons and nephews and other children were nearby.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The video of the confrontation with viral in early June of this year.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And in the footage, the mother reportedly told them that their behavior was inappropriate and not appropriate around families.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of the women responded by suggesting that if the woman's husband was looking, he just simply looked elsewhere.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The woman may tell you that they were doing nothing different from other people at the pool and were far away from the family that complained.
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[SPEAKER_00]: According to reports, the one woman says, we were just mining our own business, taking pictures.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And she noticed that others at the pool were wearing similar pool attire.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So this story spread very far across social media, especially Instagram and TikTok, TikTok primarily.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it is because the viewers really felt that this complaint was unreasonable and completely unnecessary.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that these women were single out for a really strange reason, including body shaming, racial bias, and, you know, just hate against social media culture.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So here's my thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And these are our reports from Atlantic Black Star and Tiktok and a few other places.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Here is my thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all know that some people show too much of the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Did watch this video.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a like a phone video.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did watch it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And these women are literally so far away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like they're on the complete other side of the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And from what I saw their bathing suits were not anything that most people would deem as inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were wearing bikinis, but there's a difference between.
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[SPEAKER_00]: a bikini and a bikini.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, were you bikini and bikini?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it kind of can't everything is hanging out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: These women were not rocking the dental floss bikinis.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing thongs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing the small triangle shoes, where the triangle is so small.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's only covering the nipple.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were not wearing that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, you know, where your whole breast is covered and full coverage bottoms like I don't see the problem and again, we all know what our personal our personal modesty and our personal belief systems are around modesty and a lot of us here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That do listen to the channel do have a shared sense of modesty and all of that and believes around modesty and most of us here are pretty modest like and that is how we should be.
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[SPEAKER_00]: At the same time, I don't believe people have the right to kind of force people to have their same viewpoints on modesty, what I don't think is okay is for women to be wearing dental floss bikinis around kids, that's just a little weird and gross like why are your whole cheeks out like that, like we shouldn't be saying if I'm seeing cheeks, that's when I start to get like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't get angry.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, hey, that dumb and I look in the other direction, you know, like you just ignore it, like, or if it's that bad or there's also vulgar activity going on, I'm just going to leave, you know, like that's all you have to do, but to actually go up to someone and try to tell them what they shouldn't be wearing, especially how crazy people are nowadays for your own personal safety.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not about to do that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, um, I had we had taken the kids out to a water park, honey, and there was one lady out there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I guess she had just gotten that BBL done honey, and those cheeks were cheeking.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Them cheeks were glistening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Them cheeks were out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She had on a song, bikini, and she had the tiniest tiniest top just covering the nippies.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I didn't appreciate, I was like, girl, I mean, girl, say that for Miami Beach, say that for the French Riviera, say that for the new beach because you basically knew you know what I'm saying, like, say that for over there, why you got to bring that to the kids, which were like, this is legit.
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[SPEAKER_00]: kids resort.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But again, even that situation where she was inappropriate, I was still never go up to her and be like, what are you wearing?
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[SPEAKER_00]: My kids are here looking at that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So if is that bad, I'm going to be like, hey, we're leaving, you know, we're going to come over here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Or I'm going to teach my children, hey, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Just because there is something, you know, too much going on in front of you doesn't mean you have to look at it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying what the women are wearing is right, but the only thing you could do is help them.
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[SPEAKER_00]: increase their own level of self control, they can choose not to look, they can choose to turn away, they can choose to kind of change the subject and talk about something else because you know, we all snicker some people snicker and laugh to themselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't actually, if I see anyone doing something inappropriate with their clothing, I literally just do not respond.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel like in 2026, we need to just like still snicker about people who dress inappropriately, who cares.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's on him, you know, so, but again, especially with the men, that's going to carry them farther because if they can't control themselves, at the end of the day, if they begin to then engage inappropriately, they're only going to hurt themselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, it, it, it's a two-way street that people should dress modestly and at the same time, if someone is being in modest, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Turn around, don't look.
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[SPEAKER_00]: um now there was something funny here that I key key at um she does say hey if you're if your family members and your husbands are looking tell them don't look and you know and if you're insecure about it and I'll see she came at her like that because she already came at the situation crazy by even coming over there to say anything these women were mining their happy business
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were mothers too.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They had their kids out there at the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Their bathing suits were not inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were simply two pieces.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They had their hair done, you know, makeup.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They just look cute.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like it was just a family, like cute.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm cute, lounge about the pool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm gonna take my social media pictures.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It is what it is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I feel like the reaction was funny because that's all you're going to get from someone if you're going to try to police their behavior, you know, unfortunately.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What I think people should do is try to get to know people more like before you actually say something to them like maybe if she had a said, you know, hey girls.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm how you all doing today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got some extra treats you guys want some treats and stuff for the kids, you know, okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's nice.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, thank you so much.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Then maybe let 20 minutes go by and come back.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, hey, y'all, you know, mind doing me a favor.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got, you know, some people over here they're kind of struggling with, you know, which I'll do, which remind just for me, you know, just kind of, you know, don't let it down a little bit or anything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Even though I personally wouldn't even do that, I can at least respect and approach like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can respect that they are trying to come at it from a friendly level.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Instead of, you know, this condescending really rude, like thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We just have to get comfortable with people behaving in different ways that we would around us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, like there's always controversy and again, for those of you who are in my, my close in it community, you know, I can remember growing up and it was like, oh, well, if you were a part of this, you know, if we all went to the same place every Sunday, well, they you have to only wear one piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Not everybody's body fits a one piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Me, for example, I have a very short torso and most one pieces are so long on me when I wear them my crotch my veggie is showing on the bottom because it's too long.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's super inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's definitely not what I'm trying to show.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But if I get an underwear bottom, I don't have to worry about it being too long, like it's gonna fit and it's gonna stay up and it's gonna cover all my bitties.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So just because something works for you or your own idea, there's levels, you can have a two piece on.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and still be modest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There are tankinies that cover a good amount.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There are boy shorts with a crop top, like there is a lot that can be done.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And even I feel like the past two years, I've gotten some really cute yet modest bathing suits that I like, you know, for me, I'm not a person who likes to show their bottom.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't like anything with my cheeks exposed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This is just
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[SPEAKER_00]: So some people will wear the full coverage bottoms and they will let their cheeks, you know, if it rises up and it is a cheeky moment, they're cool with it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not I don't like the way my booty looks.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I got stretch marks galore and I just feel it just does not look good on anyone, no matter if you're thin or big.
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[SPEAKER_00]: to have your cheeks out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I personally prefer something like boy shorts or even now I have swim skirts.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that way my whole booty is covered.
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[SPEAKER_00]: My entire bum is on lock.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like no cheat.
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[SPEAKER_00]: are showing okay but then I like to have a little bit more fun with my tops because I feel like my top half you know I'm a little bit more comfortable with um I don't have enormous breasts but they're kind of on the mid slash smaller side maybe so it's not like they're jumping out at you you know if if I'm wearing a triangle top so I have like little skirts and
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[SPEAKER_00]: I have triangle tops to match it, but it overall gives a more covered appearance.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, again, you can't just be like, oh, two piece inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, two piece unattentable.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, some of y'all will want pieces on look terrible, and they're in modest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Some of these want pieces now have thong bottoms, but y'all will sit up here and say, this is more modest when your whole cheeks are out just because it's a one-piece.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I mean, make it make sense, like I can't with some of this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, I think that the reaction to this speaks for itself.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people call this woman a not very nice word.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They call her a Karen.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they were like, you were just doing way too much girl.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You need to sit down.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Those ladies were not being inappropriate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They were out there with their kids too.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And like I said, I saw the video, and I did not see anything that looked inappropriate, anything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And there's a deeper conversation that can be had about the spouse thing as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll touch on a little bit, leave most of it for another day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to pools right we all go to pools.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to beach like
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[SPEAKER_00]: be realistic about it, do we walk around like wearing bikinis all the time wearing swimwear all the time?
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[SPEAKER_00]: No, we don't.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it is natural when we're in that environment.
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[SPEAKER_00]: People are going to look, you know, regardless of what you look like.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As long as a mate isn't having a lingering stare, you know what I'm saying, putting on sunglasses, it's slouching down, trying to get an extra peak when they know about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As long as none of that's going on, like what are you so upset about?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
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[SPEAKER_00]: to the point that you have to go police someone else like.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We all go to the beach, we all go to the pools.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you are in a relationship, if you're married, the eyes are going to wander.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're looking at the little hot guys walking around and they're looking at the little hot girls walking around.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it's not within intent to have this whole thing about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's just your eyes glant and then you go, look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, time to look away and you just look away.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, but you're not going to not see it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I just feel like as women to me for me unless it's a legit problem and this is a trend that your husband has not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've got a trend of always talking to other cheeks.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You always have been somebody's face.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Any time somebody walk by with a little less close on he's got to be all up in their grill and who Glenn and Google in and I glass is up and somewhere up and trying to look to the side, you know, that's another issue that needs to be addressed you need to have a conversation with your husband.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, because at the end of the day, the issue is with them because people are going to do whatever they want the only thing we could control is our own actions.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying that people dressing inappropriately is okay because it isn't.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But some people, even when they're monosly covered up, they could be covered up from head to toe.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're still going to notice their body.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're still going to notice their physique.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So again, the issue that people have to work on them, men, especially is some control.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, can you literally control yourself?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, go, don't have your man.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, making you so insecure that you're literally going up to random strangers and like being rude to them.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I just think that's really dumb.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Dumb, diddy, dumb, dumb, dumb, and dumb, okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: next subject now.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Let's talk about this right here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We have heard this so many times that I'm kind of sick of hearing about at this point, but daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So right now the current administration is looking to make daylight savings time permanent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I want to be clear about
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[SPEAKER_00]: and not changing it, the conversation is keeping daylight saving time as the permanent as opposed to simply keeping standard time as the permanent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So those are two completely different things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One is keeping the time daylight savings time when you turn the clock back and it's a little lighter earlier.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's what we're talking about.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Standard time is when you turn your clock
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[SPEAKER_00]: back going into the winter and now you know it's it's darker a little bit earlier okay so this is a big thing like I don't think we realize how much it is a big thing so first of all there are some health issues associated with switching to daylight savings time did you know that did you know that did you know that um so here's some things that have happened before
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[SPEAKER_00]: that the experts have seen because the sleep scientists and the mental health scientists do monitor this and they monitor what is the best, you know, ideal timing and all that for the body, circadian rhythms.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And what they've found over the years is that a rough, we have sometimes a roughly 24% increase in heart attack on the Monday after the spring time change.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now isn't that interesting?
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[SPEAKER_00]: A roughly 24% increase in heart attack on the Monday after the spring time change.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and the reason for this is researchers believe that sleep deprivation as a Katie and disruption are the major contributors.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do feel like I feel better on the winter sleep cycle.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Drop something to chat if you feel the same way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do like having the extra light during the summer, but like I just feel like I just sleep so much better, you know, in the winter and everything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Another thing that experts say is an issue with daylight savings time is fatal traffic accidents rise.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So one of the strongest links involves deadly car crashes.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A study published in current biology examined more than two decades of US fatal crash data and found.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And estimated 6% increase in fatal traffic accidents during the week following the spring shift.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So here we go again with that spring the spring clock changes causing some issues researchers estimate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This translated into dozens of additional deaths annually.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so the reasons, of course, our sleep deprivation reduced alertness, so reaction time and dry while the body clock is disrupted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, another issue.
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[SPEAKER_00]: with daylight savings time is workplace fatalities and serious injuries.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Research has found increases in workplace accidents during the spring time chain.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A study examined mining injuries found that more workplace accidents, more severe injuries and greater loss work time after the clock shift.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And for that particular issue, it's believed that fatigue is the major factor.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So this is what we see in industries involving heavy machinery, transportation and construction industry.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, kind of if you have husbands that work in this, maybe around daylight savings have them take a day or two off to just kind of get adjusted to that different time frame so that you know, grow they ain't out there on the back home and then all of a sudden, you know, they they crash into something and it's a big issue, you know what I mean, we touched a little bit on stroke risk, but I will say this several studies have also found a temporary increase in stroke following the transition into daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The effect of years strongest among older adults and people with existing health conditions, and that is due to the, again, sleep disruption and the cardiovascular stress that is caused by sleep disruption.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, the experts are pretty clear about this, changing clocks twice a year is more harm than good.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the healthiest alternative then?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What time is best for our body?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Researchers are telling us that the permanent standard time, not daylight standard time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But permanent standard time is the health healthiest so permanent standard time is better by because you're again you're on that timeframe of where it gets a little darker earlier but again that kind of is more so hard bodies are synced up with nature.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I find this topic, excuse me, to be pretty interesting because we've been doing this for so long.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can remember as a little kid, this like coming up and like, oh, we should get rid of daylight savings time and all that stuff.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think maybe it's time now to finally like, what is the rest?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What are we gonna do?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Are we gonna do this or what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And if you are doing it,
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[SPEAKER_00]: like I want one time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think we'd all probably feel a little bit better with that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So let's talk about the history of daylight.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Same as a little bit because some people were like, okay, wouldn't it?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What was even the point of this?
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[SPEAKER_00]: This was actually started in 1918.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It created a couple of standardized U.S. time zones and established the first nation-wide daylight savings time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was first actually called War Time because it was around, you know, between that period between World War One and World War Two.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it was called that originally and, you know, it also was in part because of the farming industry, giving the farmers extra, you know, time to.
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[SPEAKER_00]: get up and get things going because of course they are producing the food for the country, especially back then when we kind of relied more so on our own farmers for producing all of our food, we do subsidize some things out now to our neighbors primarily in Mexico.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they do a great job, I mean, they do so, so good, they're in those two countries as well, pretty, pretty healthy standards and safety things around food there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that's a good thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, it I really feel like at this point in time though, that's a little outdated like we do we really need it, you know what I mean, like I don't think, you know, a lot of things about the laws when so many things were created that are foundational to the US and you know how we function, you know, you have to think things as time goes on like that worked for then, but it just.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, isn't as much as a thing now.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It just isn't for all the different reasons.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think it could be great to do that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would encourage you the American Academy of Sleep Medicine has published a lot of research on this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they have been really kind of blowing the whistle on this for years and have argued that you're around standard time is what aligns most closely with our natural
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[SPEAKER_00]: um, they got some great articles that you could check out on their website.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There was one woman.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, last week I actually watched an interview with her and she shared some even more like statistics and things like that on this topic.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, she's probably linked in on that website as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, because I've do believe she was an official, uh, from that organization.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I would definitely take
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[SPEAKER_00]: We can get to one set time, okay, one set time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now let's move it right along.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Moving it along.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This will be the last one that we chat about today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of,
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[SPEAKER_00]: The faves and I've always kind of like liked her stuff enough like whatever became popular.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not like a die hard fan or no like every every song or anything, but the little lady who is now during doing the she's on tour and she was in a very.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, popular movie that I did not see just because the title itself just kind of told me it wouldn't be something that I would be interested in.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, but she seems.
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[SPEAKER_00]: like, right in front of her eye, a lot of people are concerned about Ariana Grande that she is looking a little bit then, um, I don't know a lot like about her, of course, we always, you know, wish people the best in everything, but um, this is one of the ones before because
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[SPEAKER_00]: I call it, it was like a vegan diet, but like everybody was switching to being vegan and kind of going into it, not really counting the costs or what that looked like for them personally.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And she attributes her naturally small frame to a vegan diet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's had some weight fluctuations.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She has publicly discussed, which I think is good that she's publicly discussed, that she does have anxiety.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's also talked about her struggles with hypoglycemia, and a few other things she was.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She did say that she had PST, a PTSD, excuse me, following the 2019 Manchester Arena bombing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And some of that is wanted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you've been through, which I think I'm reading this correctly, that she did go through that event.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If that is incorrect, you know, everything is alleged, you know, you know, I'm just kind of gathering here from what's available online and some things can be wrong.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Um, but that's understandable and sometimes when you have a traumatic event, it kind of makes you hyper fix on other things that you can control because the way the mind works is that when you have kind of a loss of control, then you kind of start to get hyper fix on control and the things that you can.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And so some people have pointed out like kind of following that incident is when she really started to like get
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if you guys have ever known any one that has had an eating disorder, but I have known two individuals personally that have had eating disorders.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when I say eating disorder, there's a lot of different types of eating disorders.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm referring to eating disorders where it's more so distorted eating, limiting eating, not eating at all, eating only certain things, going way too long without eating.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So basically doing things to be thin, and I can't stress how unhealthy that is when you're starting
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[SPEAKER_00]: all of the bones that is usually a sign that whatever you're doing isn't working so kind of time back in with a vegan diet which is something that she has shared to me this looks a little bit more than just a vegan diet issue this looks like perhaps okay maybe someone who is only eating vegan things and very few of them um now you can get really thin on a vegan diet
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[SPEAKER_00]: For most people of the weekend, diet is just not going to be something that they can maintain.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Unless they had like vegan parents and they've grown up vegan.
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[SPEAKER_00]: their whole lives and so they really know like all the things to do, they have like a more I'll say their taste palette is like more geared towards having all the different vegan things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's just a little easier for people who kind of are vegan from birth and have
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[SPEAKER_00]: vegan parents, but if it's something you're transitioning into, personally, it is not going to be easy, especially if you are a mom of any age, mom of little kids, mom of teens.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Mom of adults, okay, it's not going to be easy to do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying it can't be done, but you have to do it healthy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You have to make sure that you are getting everything that you need.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So that could be something going on here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you look at pictures of her before like when she first came out, she was already dead.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She looked great and now this is kind of
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[SPEAKER_00]: going into the realm of being really, really, really, really concerning, like really, really concerning.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One thing that I can always tell about people when they have an actual eating disorder and I'm not saying that's what she has, you know, but what I've noticed with the two that I know is that they have this stare.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's like their body is running on such little fuel that they don't blink as much and like they just stare kind of like this very faint kind of thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I kind of felt like I mean, he's seeing some similarities there, but yeah, this basically came out recently because her towards this kick drop and fans noticed that she was looking pretty pretty pretty.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it could be a lot of things that kick off eating disorders and that's a whole conversation that we could have one day again, not saying that she has that, but sometimes when you're going through relationship issues and that has been some things that she has gone through.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, there was when she was with this one guy, they were both kind of
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[SPEAKER_00]: kind of overlapping with their existing marriages and then they ended up getting married and there was issues all around with both relationships.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you just never know what people are going through and what could actually trigger distorted eating or, you know, just not wanting to eat or only eating certain things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: anything like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So who knows, whatever happened, I did find an interesting know, you know, this this little controversy about some of her relationships, you know, it's funny just you, we hear so many other things like you would never think anything like this as she, you know, had these different relationships and some of them were a bit controversial, you know,
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[SPEAKER_00]: because people, you know, she kind of just has that eternal kid look like very just kitty and girly and all those things, but then some very adult things are happening with marriages and marriages and being involved with other people and overlapping things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you just really know never know what people are actually, you know, doing it and what, you know, some of the
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[SPEAKER_00]: you know, what's happening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So we're hoping that everything's good.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Even sometimes people can be on certain medications or, you know, additional,
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[SPEAKER_00]: on orthodox medications.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll say that, you know, you just don't know what people are doing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So we're hoping for them as, you know, I wanted to highlight this one because, you know, we are always so quick to look at people who are putting on weight as they, you know, go through their musical careers.
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[SPEAKER_00]: These people are kind of...
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[SPEAKER_00]: in our public.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh, my goodness, this person has put on weight on my gracious.
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[SPEAKER_00]: This person has also put on weight like they're just getting big and blah, blah, blah, which is just so gross and unnecessary.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But then, you know, when people are thin, it can almost be crazed, which is not good when people are unhealthy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's what I'm talking about.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Either extreme being
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[SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, need some attention, need some assistance, need some guidance issues that have to be addressed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, yeah, definitely I wanted to highlight this one because I feel like that, you know, seeing someone who might be having an issue like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: is a little less common and gets talked about a little less and it almost kind of gets turned into like oh that's just ridiculous eat something like you're being ridiculous just go eat something but it's a lot deeper than that on both it's some people eat because they have emotional trauma and some people do not eat because they have emotional trauma so
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[SPEAKER_00]: Anywho, we are wishing, oh girl, the best, you know, you know, hoping for the best as all we can do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All righty guys.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hope you have found this information to be helpful and I'll see you next time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Bye bye.
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