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English
United States
60 episodes
since Aug. 9, 2025
episodic

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We can be full of joy and sadness at the same time. We can recognize our strengths without pretending our limitations do not exist. As we continue our Character Development series, we explore integration: the ability to hold intense realities together rather than forcing life into either-or categor…

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We do not have to choose between having no boundaries and building a brick wall. A chain link fence offers a different picture: a clear sense of where we end and another person begins, with room to see, speak, and stay connected. As we continue our Character Development series, we explore separatio…
Attachment begins with a simple truth: we need to need. From infancy onward, trust grows as our cries are heard, our needs are recognized, and we learn that connection is safe. When those early experiences are disrupted, the effects can follow us into adulthood through difficulty naming feelings, i…
Character development is not only about behaving well or producing visible results. It is a set of skills and abilities that help us meet the demands of real life, including the realities of relationships, work, home, and our inner world. We picture this work as a tree. Its fruit appears in our peo…
We are learning to hold together the reality of illness and the deeper spiritual identity that remains true through it. In the middle of cancer treatment, changes to the body can affect how we see ourselves and how others see us. The reminder "I'm still in here" has helped us remember that a diagno…
When a diagnosis, disappointment, or season of sorrow leaves us without the strength to hold on, we can rest in the truth that God loved us first and is already holding us. In this conversation, we reflect on how that reality has steadied us through Jason's stage four stomach cancer diagnosis. We t…
When a hard season makes the future feel uncertain, we can wonder whether the good things God has spoken over our lives are still true. In this conversation, we reflect on 2 Corinthians 1:20 and the reassurance that every promise of God finds its yes and amen in Christ. Jason shares how that truth …
When life brings us face to face with what we cannot control, we can spend so much energy rehearsing worst case scenarios or trying to force every problem out of the garden. In this honest conversation, we share what has steadied us through Jason's stomach cancer diagnosis: the reminder that we hav…
We can carry a surprising number of assumptions into marriage: who should work, who should clean, who should make the decisions, and what it means to be a husband or wife. But a role is not an identity. Roles are activities that can flex and change with the season, while our identity is something d…
We didn't grow up assuming our home would feel safe - and if that's true for you too, you're not alone. This week we're talking about what it actually takes to build a safe place, in a marriage and in a home, and why safety rarely happens by accident. We talk through the tension between order and c…
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