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Update frequency:
every 16 days
Average audio length:
43 minutes
English
United States
17 episodes
since Oct. 8, 2025
episodic

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Step behind the curtain of adult entertainment and high-stakes performance. In this episode, Zach sits down with GayVN and Grabby Award-winning performer and intimacy coordinator Joel Harrison for an uncensored look at modern sex culture. They examine how intimacy is staged on set versus how consen…

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Zach takes the desk for a breakdown on current happenings in zeitgeist. This week, we're dissecting Nathan Fielder's You Can See Everything and the complex psychology of Elizabeth Holmes. Why are we spending hours scrutinizing women while men collect backend compensation and build empires off their…
The camera might turn off, but the performance never stops. Zach is joined by actor Brian Knoebel to break down the social psychology of "the audition." Together, they audit how the entertainment industry conditions us to constantly seek validation, transforming networking, friendships, a…
Reality TV isn’t trash culture—it’s high-stakes human strategy. Zach is joined by reality producer Lindsey Lewis (Ink Master, The Challenge, Basketball Wives) to break down why unscripted television serves as a digital time capsule for modern society. They dive deep into the parasocial obsessions a…
We measure everything, but are we actually learning anything? Zach sits down with writer, producer, and director Katie Mancuso to break down the mechanics of data, how modern media misuses metrics, and why our obsession with tracking is shaping the future of storytelling. KATIE LINKS: https://www.…
On today's episode, we have been graced by 818's finest for a yap sesh covering everything from relationships, side hustles becoming the main hustle, and restoring PLAY into our lives. <3 KAMI:IG: https://www.instagram.com/kamiyuhkaze/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kamiyuhkaze HELP FUND QUEER…
Who would win in a fight: Julianna Margulies as Alicia Florrick or Kim Kardashian as Allora Grant? LINKS: Our previous episode together: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDtdwdH8I6Q&t=2915s THE 71TH FLOOR: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@The71thFloor IG: https://www.instagram.com/the71thfloo…
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Brought the only straight yt man I trust in to cover all my blind spots to bring you the ULTIMATE 2026 Oscar's Breakdown. Brendan's socials: https://www.instagram.com/_brendanpatterson_/ https://letterboxd.com/brendan_/
We are SO back besties! Today we're filtering through all the BS that has been streaming since we've been off the air and I put a MAGA loser in his place.
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