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Video podcast
English
United States
262 episodes
since Nov. 6, 2025
episodic

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Paul from XY discusses the two types of sexual teasing—arousal and stimulation—and explains techniques like visual teasing, teasing through words and touch, and manual stimulation to bring a man to the edge without finishing. He covers signs of male arousal, what can happen, and how to build limits…

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This episode explores limerence — an obsessive, idealised infatuation that can devastate marriages and families. Paul explains what limerence looks like, how it differs from mature love, and why it often leads to emotional affairs and broken relationships. He warns those in the early stages to cut…
This episode examines Laurie’s Wayback post "Why Won't She Touch Me?" (Aug 7, 2017) and the hurt husbands feel when wives avoid touching parts of their bodies. It explores possible reasons for avoidance—cultural messages, past trauma, or discomfort—and the emotional impact of feeling rejected. Pra…
Paul revisits a Wayback Post from his XY Code blog that explores why many men masturbate in the shower, including survey results on how often it happens and common reasons such as sexual frustration, convenience, avoiding porn, or preparing for sex. The episode emphasises that most men see shower …
In this episode Paul revisits a Wayback Post from The Generous Husband about using two fingers to provide combined internal (G-spot) and external (clitoral) stimulation. The piece explains positioning, hand placement, movement variations, and how to build arousal before using the technique. Practi…
On this episode (Oct 12, 2026) Paul and Lori share a busy week — Lori’s gallbladder surgery and harvest season — and a special guest post roundup from their archives: The Generous Wife, The Generous Husband, and The XY Code. Paul republishes six top posts (two from each blog) and links are in the s…
This episode explores how our focus during sex—mechanics versus emotional connection—affects marital intimacy and pleasure. It highlights that God‑intended sex is meant to draw spouses together emotionally while also being enjoyable physically and mentally. Paul offers practical advice on finding …
In this episode Paul explains how our brains focus and predict, causing us to miss obvious things or interpret our spouse through expectations. He uses examples—like unfounded jealousy or thinking a partner is angry—to show how focus can create problems. Paul suggests practical steps: check yourse…
Paul and Lori explore how hyper-focus and automatic acknowledgements (“uh‑huh”) can leave important things unheard in marriage. Rather than blaming, the episode offers practical steps: choose a good time, ask if it’s a good time to talk, request that your partner pause their activity, state your ma…
On this episode of Doing Marriage Well (Oct 6, 2026), Paul explores how everyday distractions — kids, pets, phones, and media — can drown out your spouse and harm connection. Missing what your partner says can communicate indifference even when unintentional. Practical advice includes making liste…
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