00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:06.400
In June of 2023, I got a text from an agent that I've known for years, and she said, Who's doing your social media?
00:00:06.639 --> 00:00:07.519
And I said, Me.
00:00:07.679 --> 00:00:09.359
I'm running it all through ChatGPT.
00:00:09.519 --> 00:00:10.400
I went to a training.
00:00:10.480 --> 00:00:11.039
You love it.
00:00:11.119 --> 00:00:12.160
I'll send you the link.
00:00:12.320 --> 00:00:15.359
And she said, Yeah, I can tell.
00:00:15.599 --> 00:00:16.879
It doesn't sound like you.
00:00:16.960 --> 00:00:20.559
I was actually texting you to call out your social media manager.
00:00:21.120 --> 00:00:26.399
I want you to sit with that for a second because that hit different than I expected it to.
00:00:26.719 --> 00:00:34.320
This is someone who is my friend who knows me, not someone that I met at a conference or was like a client, even.
00:00:34.640 --> 00:00:39.920
This is someone who I had real conversations with who knows how I think and how I talk.
00:00:40.079 --> 00:00:44.479
And she read my content and she thought someone else wrote it.
00:00:44.799 --> 00:00:45.759
And she was right.
00:00:46.000 --> 00:00:49.200
Now here's the thing that I had to reckon with.
00:00:49.520 --> 00:00:51.600
I wasn't posting bad content.
00:00:51.759 --> 00:00:53.200
I was, it was structured.
00:00:53.439 --> 00:00:55.600
It was readable and professional.
00:00:55.759 --> 00:01:04.159
And by algorithmic measures on Instagram and Facebook, the quality had gone up since I started using AI.
00:01:04.640 --> 00:01:09.280
But quality and authenticity are not the same thing.
00:01:09.519 --> 00:01:16.640
And the content was better by those metrics, but it had completely stopped sounding like me.
00:01:16.879 --> 00:01:26.640
And I was too busy creating it and posting it and doing the real work in real estate of working with clients, then pay it to pay attention.
00:01:26.799 --> 00:01:29.280
And that part bothered me.
00:01:29.519 --> 00:01:37.680
It was so focused on the tool and what it could produce that I stopped asking whether what it was producing was actually mine.
00:01:38.239 --> 00:01:45.599
So I want to talk about what happened and more importantly, why it happens, because I am sure I'm not the only one.
00:01:46.079 --> 00:01:48.159
Welcome to the Creative Authority Podcast.
00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:49.359
I'm Matt Goldman.
00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:51.599
I am a real estate agent with 12 years of experience.
00:01:51.760 --> 00:02:05.760
I've built two real estate businesses across two different markets using AI, and I've done deep work in this space, and I'm helping agents now use AI in a way that amplifies you as opposed to quietly replacing you.
00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:10.719
And the reason I do this work is because I went through this thing that I just described.
00:02:11.199 --> 00:02:12.400
Like I lived it.
00:02:12.639 --> 00:02:17.039
So I figured better figure it out on this side.
00:02:17.360 --> 00:02:18.319
I lived it.
00:02:18.560 --> 00:02:19.599
So here's the problem.
00:02:19.840 --> 00:02:27.280
As cleanly as I can state it, every AI training that I've ever been to or attended leans heavily into the prompts.
00:02:27.520 --> 00:02:36.719
Here's the seven prompts to write a listing description, or here's the four prompts to write an email template, or the framework for a market update.
00:02:36.960 --> 00:02:39.039
Get all this stuff done in 30 seconds.
00:02:39.280 --> 00:02:41.439
And I'm not saying that those don't work.
00:02:41.599 --> 00:02:41.919
They do.
00:02:42.080 --> 00:02:50.240
They produce output, real, usable output, but they all skip a question that matters more than any of them.
00:02:50.719 --> 00:02:54.240
What is the AI actually working from?
00:02:54.400 --> 00:03:00.639
Because here's what AI training is doing right now it's teaching you to run before you even know where you're going.
00:03:00.879 --> 00:03:04.240
It hands you a tool and says, here, use this.
00:03:04.560 --> 00:03:11.759
And you use it and it produces something and you post it and it looks fine, but fine is not the same as you.
00:03:12.400 --> 00:03:23.759
And in a business built on trust and relationships, and the very specific way that you show up for your clients, fine is a liability.
00:03:24.080 --> 00:03:25.280
Let that sit.
00:03:25.759 --> 00:03:30.719
When you open a new chat and you type a prompt, the AI doesn't know who you are.
00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:33.439
It doesn't know what you believe about real estate.
00:03:33.520 --> 00:03:37.919
It doesn't know how you talk to a seller who just got a lowball offer.
00:03:38.080 --> 00:03:44.319
It doesn't know the specific way that you slow down a conversation when someone is feeling overwhelmed.
00:03:44.560 --> 00:03:47.759
It doesn't know what words you'd never use.
00:03:48.000 --> 00:03:53.759
It doesn't know the position and your beliefs that you've held for 15 years and why you hold them.
00:03:53.919 --> 00:03:58.080
It knows nothing about you specifically.
00:03:58.800 --> 00:04:03.759
So it does what it always does when it knows nothing about you specifically.
00:04:04.080 --> 00:04:10.240
It produces the average, the average real estate agent that it has ever read.
00:04:10.479 --> 00:04:32.959
Every generic listing description, every boilerplate follow-up email, every market update that you know starts with in today's real estate landscape, or it's a seller's market out there, all of this is blended together into something that technically is correct, but is vapid and completely indistinct.
00:04:33.040 --> 00:04:34.639
And that's what my content had become.
00:04:34.720 --> 00:04:37.360
Not bad, just indistinct.
00:04:37.600 --> 00:04:49.279
And when I built a business around being specifically and recognizably me, indistinct be it was as good as becoming invisible.
00:04:49.439 --> 00:04:52.720
I assumed the tool would just figure out my voice.
00:04:53.199 --> 00:05:00.319
I assumed if I used it enough or I gave it examples, I would eventually it would eventually start to sound like me.
00:05:00.560 --> 00:05:02.000
And it doesn't work that way.
00:05:02.240 --> 00:05:10.000
AI is not learning you, it reflects the quality and the specificity of what you put into it.
00:05:10.160 --> 00:05:14.800
Every single session, put in vague input, you're going to get vague output.
00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:17.920
Generic context, generic content.
00:05:18.399 --> 00:05:24.720
Every time, without exception, it is designed on averages.
00:05:24.879 --> 00:05:31.920
The agents who are getting consistent on brand output from their AI are not better at prompting.
00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:33.199
Come on, Matt.
00:05:33.600 --> 00:05:37.920
They are not like technically more sophisticated.
00:05:38.160 --> 00:05:41.519
They did something before they ever wrote a prompt.
00:05:41.759 --> 00:05:44.560
They gave the tool a foundation to work from.
00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:47.839
And that foundation is made of two things.
00:05:48.079 --> 00:05:50.240
One, your mission statement.
00:05:50.399 --> 00:06:00.160
This is not a tagline, not your brokerage's value proposition, not everything I touch turns to sold, or helping you find your way home.
00:06:00.319 --> 00:06:12.879
This is a real working document, one that captures how you actually think, how you make decisions, how you serve specifically, and where your boundaries are.
00:06:13.279 --> 00:06:19.680
This is a document that answers what is AI permitted to do on my behalf and what must it never do.
00:06:20.079 --> 00:06:26.160
Because here's what happens without it AI will fill a vacuum with defaults.
00:06:26.319 --> 00:06:31.279
And its defaults are built for the broadest possible audience.
00:06:31.439 --> 00:06:41.600
The safest possible answer, the most agreeable possible take, it like softens your opinions, it avoids actual positions, and it hedges everything.
00:06:41.839 --> 00:06:44.879
That's one of the AI drifts of the week.
00:06:44.959 --> 00:06:59.360
If you're watching on Instagram, like it starts to soften all of your actual opinions by putting qualifiers in and saying, you should really consider, or if I were in your position, I would.
00:06:59.680 --> 00:07:02.879
And people are paying for your opinion.
00:07:03.360 --> 00:07:13.439
Any real estate agent who can't actually take authority and do the job and advise their clients with confidence is not worth paying.
00:07:13.600 --> 00:07:15.279
So clients can tell.
00:07:15.519 --> 00:07:20.160
They may not be able to name it or put their finger on it, but they can feel it.
00:07:20.399 --> 00:07:23.199
The conviction is gone, your specificity is gone.
00:07:23.360 --> 00:07:30.000
The thing that made your communication feel like it came from someone who actually knows something, that's gone.
00:07:30.160 --> 00:07:35.279
My agent friend knew that and she texted me too, and I'm forever grateful for her.
00:07:35.600 --> 00:07:39.519
So the second thing is the canonical voice reference.
00:07:39.680 --> 00:08:04.720
This is a document that captures how you actually communicate, written and spoken, the rhythm of how you explain something complicated to someone who's nervous, the words you'd never use in an actual client conversation, the way that you handle pushback, the way you open a difficult conversation before you have to say the hard part, that's not tone setting.
00:08:04.959 --> 00:08:09.439
That's not make this edgy or make this friendly.
00:08:09.680 --> 00:08:10.959
This is the real thing.
00:08:11.120 --> 00:08:17.680
This is the actual texture of how you show up for people, the architecture of your language.
00:08:17.839 --> 00:08:27.120
And the reason it has to be documented, the reason you can't just assume AI will pick it up is that your voice is not AI's training data.
00:08:27.360 --> 00:08:32.159
Your specific way of working is not publicly available anywhere.
00:08:32.399 --> 00:08:38.399
The only way that tool can know it is if you tell it explicitly before the session starts.
00:08:38.639 --> 00:08:46.480
So without this canonical voice reference document, AI defaults to the average voice the same way that it defaults to the average content.
00:08:46.639 --> 00:08:56.480
And the average voice is like a blurred composite of every professional who's ever typed into it or put anything on the internet, period.
00:08:56.720 --> 00:08:58.639
That's just what my content sounded like.
00:08:58.879 --> 00:09:03.759
It wasn't bad, wasn't offensive, it wasn't wrong.
00:09:04.000 --> 00:09:06.159
82% of the time, it wasn't wrong.
00:09:06.320 --> 00:09:07.759
It just wasn't me.
00:09:07.919 --> 00:09:13.600
Your AI sounds generic because you told it nothing real about yourself.
00:09:13.759 --> 00:09:14.639
That's the whole thing.
00:09:14.799 --> 00:09:16.799
The entire problem in one sentence.
00:09:17.039 --> 00:09:19.279
It's not the tool, the tool's fine.
00:09:19.519 --> 00:09:38.639
It's that most agents open a new chat, type a request, and expect that tool or prompt, and expect that tool to know something in their market, in their personality, and their 15 years of judgment and the very specific way they've earned the trust of people in their business.
00:09:38.720 --> 00:09:40.080
And it doesn't know any of that.
00:09:40.240 --> 00:09:43.200
Like it can't unless you put it in there.
00:09:43.600 --> 00:09:47.759
Now I want to be clear about something because I think this can get misunderstood.
00:09:47.919 --> 00:09:49.840
I'm not telling you that AI doesn't work.
00:09:50.000 --> 00:09:50.559
It works.
00:09:50.720 --> 00:09:52.159
I use it every day.
00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:59.600
I'm telling you that AI without a foundation is like hiring an assistant and never briefing them.
00:09:59.759 --> 00:10:01.039
Like they'll do the work.
00:10:01.200 --> 00:10:06.480
Hopefully, they'll be competent and they'll do it in their own way, but that's going to be average.
00:10:06.559 --> 00:10:08.240
They're going to do it safe.
00:10:08.799 --> 00:10:12.799
They're going to make it so they don't get fired, basically.
00:10:12.960 --> 00:10:14.399
And that's not your way.
00:10:14.559 --> 00:10:19.600
If you're a top-producing agent, if you're a veteran agent, you have beliefs, you have things that you can say.
00:10:20.080 --> 00:10:23.200
You didn't hire an assistant, you got an AI.
00:10:23.440 --> 00:10:26.879
So make your AI do the thing that you want it to do.
00:10:26.960 --> 00:10:28.799
That foundation is the briefing.
00:10:28.879 --> 00:10:35.200
It's the thing that tells the tool who you are, what you stand for, and how you're going to show up for people.
00:10:35.360 --> 00:10:37.919
And once you have it, everything changes.
00:10:38.159 --> 00:10:41.519
The output stops being generic and starts being yours.
00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:45.759
Not perfect, yours, which is pretty close to perfect.
00:10:46.080 --> 00:10:47.600
But that's the whole point.
00:10:47.759 --> 00:10:49.519
Why else are you using AI?
00:10:49.759 --> 00:10:51.519
Here's what I want you to take from this.
00:10:51.759 --> 00:11:01.279
If your content has started to feel a little off, if you read it back and it doesn't quite sound like you, that's not a prompting problem.
00:11:01.440 --> 00:11:03.120
That's a foundation problem.
00:11:03.279 --> 00:11:04.639
And it's fixable.
00:11:04.879 --> 00:11:08.080
The work of building that foundation is not complicated.
00:11:08.240 --> 00:11:11.360
It does not require a conference in Toledo, Ohio.
00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:17.360
It doesn't require you to become a different kind of agent or learn a new set of technical skills.
00:11:17.519 --> 00:11:21.519
It requires you to write down what you already know.
00:11:21.919 --> 00:11:32.559
What you believe, who you serve, how you talk, what you'd never say, the positions that you've held over your career that you've never actually put down on paper.
00:11:32.960 --> 00:11:36.559
That's the work that creative authority is built around.
00:11:36.720 --> 00:11:42.399
The mission statement, the canonical voice reference, the research lens, the marketing statement.
00:11:42.879 --> 00:11:46.559
That foundation is what makes everything else work.
00:11:46.960 --> 00:11:57.840
And if you've ever spent money on AI training that hands you prompts with no foundation under them and wonder why the output still doesn't sound like you, that's why.
00:11:58.080 --> 00:11:59.759
And that's what we fix.
00:12:00.159 --> 00:12:03.440
So the link is in the description if you want to know more.
00:12:03.759 --> 00:12:08.559
I hope this triggered something for you, like it did for me three years ago.
00:12:08.799 --> 00:12:09.840
I'll see you in the next one.