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00:00:25.217Well, welcome everybody to episode 11 of the Confident Choice. I'm your host, Dr.
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00:00:40.937My wife keeps telling me we need rain, and it's been super dry.
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00:00:45.917As you guys probably know, there's been some fires in the Gainesville area,
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00:00:48.977and then it's up in Georgia, right? There was something going on in Georgia. Yeah.
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00:00:54.381Well, anyway, we've had quite a run in these last three weeks.
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00:00:58.981I think you guys can all agree that the last three hosts or guests that we've
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00:01:02.801had, I'm the host of the guests, last three guests that we've had have been
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00:01:04.741fantastic. I thought Dr.
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00:01:11.761Basil was a great addition and complimented well the, you know,
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00:01:18.881And it's just great to hear the perspective of somebody with a little bit different
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00:01:23.021training than us, but still a very talented and gifted surgeon.
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00:01:32.901And I thought last or two weeks ago with my brother, really bringing the entire
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00:01:42.561kind of defining it and bringing these things to light and explaining how it was that we came to be.
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00:01:49.141And I think that I'm so proud of our academy And I'm so proud of what we've
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00:01:52.241always, what we've been able to achieve as facial plastic surgeons.
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00:01:57.281And, and, you know, it's, it's kind of one of the things that my dad talked about.
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00:02:02.181I won't get into dad's lesson yet. That's for later in the show. But just...
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00:02:06.489Keep your head down and keep grinding. You don't need to scream.
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00:02:11.229You don't need to be boastful. You never need to hurt another business or prevent
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00:02:12.849another business from doing work.
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00:02:17.269You just focus on your work and you do the best thing that you can possibly do.
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00:02:22.569And I think that's been something that across the board has been taught at not
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00:02:27.189only the academy level, but it's also being taught at the fellowship level that
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00:02:30.989you can only really control what you have in front of you, right?
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00:02:34.669And the patient that's in front of you, instead of worrying about what other
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00:02:38.509surgeons are doing and whether they're taking food off your plate or whatever
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00:02:44.649you might conjure up in your head, you're not helping the patient when your mindset is there.
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00:02:49.029And so I've always had the mindset of, I don't care what other practices are doing.
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00:02:53.109I don't care if people, you know, other specialties are doing surgeries that
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00:02:55.169maybe aren't as specialized as we are.
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00:02:58.309If they're doing good work, and I've said this before, if you're doing good
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00:03:00.469work, you're doing good work. I mean, and it's just a fact.
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00:03:06.689And so I thought that was a good kind of encircling of this specialty.
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00:03:12.069And, you know, last week with Mrs. Goldman, she's incredible.
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00:03:14.749Do you guys know what she does?
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00:03:19.569Like, you know, she says she's a business person. You ever been to like a Smithsonian business.
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00:03:23.335The museums and these big museums, like the Met or whatever,
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00:03:36.115She makes those, her company does those. So she's really gifted and she's done
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00:03:38.875exceedingly well. Come to think of that, actually.
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00:03:42.375We were in Gainesville this past weekend for my oldest daughter,
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00:03:44.115Isabella. Congratulations, baby.
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00:03:47.515Graduated from the University of Florida, advertising and marketing degree.
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00:03:55.595we had bought them. It was a Florida Gator themed puzzle.
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00:04:06.035rooting and they're doing different things, but the color schemes of it are really challenging.
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00:04:09.415Well, we built that puzzle this weekend, the kids and I.
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00:04:14.175And of course, I left it on the table to show my brother-in-law that we're not
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00:04:18.295all cretins and we can complete things like that in a very brief period of time.
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00:04:26.047All joking aside, I think as we enter into the last part of this season one,
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00:04:32.147and I have some really interesting ideas that I want to bring in in season two.
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00:04:38.587outside of the realm of plastic surgery.
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00:04:42.127I can't tell you how many people have come up to me and said,
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00:04:44.107hey, can I be a guest? Can I be on your podcast?
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00:04:48.207So we'll probably start bringing in other people. I get tired of hearing myself
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00:04:51.407talk. I like listening to other people talk, believe it or not.
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00:05:03.167But today, we're going to close out this season with what I think is a very serious topic today.
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00:05:23.867when should we do revision surgery and what you can expect as a patient from
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00:05:32.047Let me first define what revision surgery is because, you know,
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00:05:36.707individuals have different, I guess, interpretations of what that word means.
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00:05:43.827I consider revision surgery any kind of correction of something that is happening
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00:05:55.067And generally, it's a year, okay? Now, I used to have this steadfast rule,
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00:06:01.107and you might remember it, Laurie, that I wouldn't correct anything for a year.
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00:06:06.767And then as I got older, I said, now, I know kind of around six months or so
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00:06:10.067when I see something that I don't like, I know it's not going to really get
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00:06:19.327So the definition is exactly that.
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00:06:23.487Anything that you have to correct outside of the normal healing parameters.
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00:06:28.847What is not a revision is when somebody is coming back four or five years later
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00:06:38.687That should not fall within the calculation of a surgeon's revision rate.
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00:06:48.447So when I look at what my revision rate is compared to what the national average is,
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00:06:53.827and I'm going to get into certain surgeries have higher revision rates.
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00:06:59.027And it really, if you were to think of what constitutes the elevated revision
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00:07:04.587rate, it really comes down to surgeon experience, complexity of surgery.
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00:07:09.067And believe it or not, guys, it's not always the surgeon's fault.
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00:07:12.927Patients, and I think I've talked about this in prior episodes,
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00:07:18.427Alyssa, where I've said you can have the same patient who I do a surgery on
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00:07:21.467today and 10 years later I do the same surgery on.
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00:07:26.687Again, not a revision, but a tweaking, so to speak, and the patient heals completely different.
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00:07:34.427So what's going on inside of the person's body has a huge implication as to
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00:07:41.547how they heal, and hence whether they might need revision work in the future.
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00:07:49.847And so I'm always of the opinion, at least in my practice, that I don't skirt any kind of revision.
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00:07:57.247And if I see something that's not right, and I see something that I don't think.
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00:08:03.312Is what I envisioned for the patient, then more than likely I'm going to recommend
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00:08:07.292to them, hey, listen, there's something here I don't like. We need to tweak it. Okay.
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00:08:14.472And I used to be a little bit more bulldoggish with my revisions in terms of
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00:08:16.592charging patients and whatnot.
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00:08:20.912But, and there's every year at the academy meetings, there's always a discussion,
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00:08:22.432should you charge for revisions?
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00:08:26.252If you don't charge for revisions and you're accepting culpability,
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00:08:31.112if you don't charged for by you charging revisions and you're telling the patient
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00:08:34.132it's not your fault that this is a natural healing.
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00:08:39.592I don't really get into all that. I don't really look at it as if I have to
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00:08:41.292tweak something, it's my fault.
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00:08:46.372The same way I don't blame a patient for, you know, potentially being their fault.
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00:08:49.872It doesn't mean it doesn't matter, right? We're not keeping score.
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00:08:54.272What matters is can we see a problem that needs to be corrected?
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00:08:59.832Should it be corrected? And when will that get corrected. And in my hands and
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00:09:06.652in my experience, I fix my own problems and I don't charge people for revision work.
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00:09:12.352Now, the national average, or rather the national incidence overall,
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00:09:15.372I think, did I just say this, what the percentage was?
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00:09:23.072It's about 15 to 20%. And within that, rhinoplasty is the highest revision rate, okay, hands down.
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00:09:28.052And due to the complexity of the surgery. And the fact that there's a lot of
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00:09:34.192forces within the nose that can alter cartilages and bones and scarring in different
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00:09:43.472I've never really calculated my revision rate, but it's certainly lower than that.
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00:09:51.752What I do see a lot as a face specialist is I do see a lot of revisions of nasal work done elsewhere.
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00:10:00.238And I don't really want to comment on who is doing this type of work or should
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00:10:01.598they be doing this type of work.
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00:10:11.238That matters nothing to me. I had this patient who had had rhinoplasty five times.
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00:10:20.398Yeah. And really sweet girl. It's a funny story because she had no bridge at
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00:10:22.718all. Now, the bridge is this part of the nose here.
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00:10:29.138And due to the multiple surgeries, blood flow had impacted her nasal skeleton.
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00:10:34.678And so she was really concave in this area here, calling it a saddle nose deformity.
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00:10:38.918You may see that term if you ever look it up. But and she was exhausted.
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00:10:43.418She had been to multiple places and she'd had multiple small procedures.
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00:10:47.658And each time they were just kind of chipping away at the nasal skeleton of the nose.
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00:10:51.658And ultimately, she came in. Now, the only reason I'm telling you this story
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00:10:57.118is because we did what I consider to be a major reconstruction to her nose.
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00:11:01.358And I thought it turned out really well. And so did she.
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00:11:08.558She was on, she had this site on TikTok or Instagram. It's funny.
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00:11:12.498She's such a sweet lady. And if you're watching this, hello.
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00:11:14.378I have not talked to you in a couple years.
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00:11:19.498And comment on my podcast. I always comment on your Instagram post.
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00:11:24.638But anyway, the cool thing about this young lady is she has this, this.
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00:11:32.180This Instagram channel, you remember this girl where she, she deals with a lot
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00:11:37.480of people who have anxiety and they don't want to be scared at movies.
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00:11:40.620So, you know, people like scary movies, but they don't like to be scared.
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00:11:42.320I don't know. I don't get it.
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00:11:46.260I don't, I don't really particularly care for roller coasters with drops.
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00:11:50.160I just don't get on roller coasters with drops, but some people really like the theater.
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00:11:57.600And so she would do like these spoiler uh things on instagram and so that people
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00:12:00.920would expect and they wouldn't be jump scared or whatever it was when the time
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00:12:04.700came in the movie and i thought it was really thoughtful you know like really
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00:12:07.080thinking about people's emotions in these movies right,
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00:12:11.460i mean i wish i would have known her when halloween or friday the 13th came
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00:12:14.380out when i was a kid all right i still have nightmares over that amy you know
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00:12:18.060you remember that michael myers was literally the scariest person.
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00:12:22.580I'll never say, I've never seen Jamie Lee Curtis in the same light since that movie.
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00:12:27.180But either way, so this was what she did. So she was a very bold person, right?
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00:12:30.000And so she was out in front of a lot of people and she was doing,
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00:12:34.000she was filming episodes every week and this really bothered her.
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00:12:39.220And so the emotional impact of revision surgery, more importantly,
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00:12:40.920you have to understand something.
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00:12:45.620Your best chance at a surgery is the first chance. The moment you go into a
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00:12:49.180second surgery, you have a 50% success rate, 50.
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00:12:54.700And the higher the complexity, the lower the success rate becomes. Okay.
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00:12:57.880Now I always tell patients, if you're going to revise something,
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00:13:00.400make sure it's a small revision.
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00:13:06.020Make sure it's a small tweak of a tip or a septal deviation or a small little residual bump.
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00:13:09.580But when you get into a major reconstructive revision, like we did with this
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00:13:13.520young girl and I prepped her for it, I said, your chances of success are less than 50%.
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00:13:22.360And the emotional impact that that particular conversation gives to a patient is scary.
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00:13:25.200Because now all of a sudden they're saying, hold on a second.
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00:13:28.525The three other revision surgeons, they didn't tell me that.
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00:13:31.365They said, yeah, yeah, I'll take your money and I'll fix it.
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00:13:37.885And the onus is on us, and I'm speaking to all you facial plastic surgeons who
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00:13:45.105watch this, always with revision surgery, under promise, and hopefully over deliver, okay?
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00:13:49.245You don't want to tell, you don't want to promise patients anything.
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00:13:55.225I don't care how talented and skilled you are, that patient's face is scarred.
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00:13:59.745That patient's healing is unpredictable. And you have to assume,
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00:14:05.765you can't assume that with a revision surgery, especially one where you think a surgeon did it wrong,
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00:14:09.045you can't assume that in this particular case, like this young lady,
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00:14:12.165that she had four bad surgeons, right?
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00:14:19.065There was something inherently in her that was causing this malcreation of a
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00:14:20.885normal aesthetic line to the nose.
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00:14:26.705So I prepped her for that. And I said, listen, there is a strong likelihood
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00:14:29.005that you're not going to get the result that you're looking for.
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00:14:34.545We're going to strive for this and I'll do everything in my power to help you achieve that.
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00:14:39.985And so there's a strong emotional like, oh, you know, here I was, I came to see this guy.
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00:14:43.185I heard he's great at doing this. This is one of his specialties.
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00:14:49.085And again, I do a lot of these revision surgeries, but I'm very upfront with
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00:14:50.545people. I'm very honest with them.
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00:14:55.545And I always kind of say, hey, listen, we got to go into this with kind of an open mind here.
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00:14:59.905And I kind of see that with aging face. I mean, just yesterday,
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00:15:04.585two of my facelifts were not, I don't want to call them revision,
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00:15:06.705but they'd had facelifts in the past.
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00:15:10.405You know, so these patients were coming back and they'd had facelifts with somebody
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00:15:13.765else. No, one of them had had a facelift with me about nine years ago.
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00:15:17.085The other one had had a facelift with somebody probably 15 years ago.
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00:15:23.685And you don't know what you're getting into with that person who's had surgery somewhere else.
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00:15:27.993While I may look at the operative notes and kind of get an idea and a picture
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00:15:32.873of what I'm to be facing in this revision, it's very challenging because the
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00:15:36.473surgeon may say they did one thing, but the way that the body heals is going
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00:15:37.653to dictate something else.
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00:15:42.353And so we always kind of try to take that into consideration.
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00:15:47.613And there are times that I'll look at a revision and not because I'm afraid
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00:15:53.653to take it on, but I just don't think the patient is emotionally ready and prepared
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00:15:57.033to go through this roller coaster ride again.
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00:15:58.833You know, and oftentimes I'll
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00:16:01.293tell somebody, listen, why don't we just sit on this for a little while?
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00:16:06.113You know, we don't have to jump into this right now. We can keep you at,
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00:16:09.073it may not look great, but it's not a deformity.
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00:16:13.073You know, if it's a deformity, I understand we need to do something sooner.
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00:16:18.253But the fact that it doesn't look great and, you know, not super happy with it.
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00:16:21.887You can probably wait. And I'll give you an example, actually,
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00:16:23.147that happened today in clinic.
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00:16:28.807This girl who I spoke to FaceTime consult, it was about two months ago,
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00:16:31.027and she wanted her lower FaceTime.
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00:16:33.907But at the same time, she said, or during the consultation, she said,
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00:16:36.207you know what, I had a rhinoplasty in the past.
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00:16:39.787I can't stand this dip here. I feel like he botched my nose.
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00:16:42.407She even told me today that she reached out to the bot show,
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00:16:45.147and they said they're not taking any new applications.
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00:16:50.007Okay. She told me that today. So she drove all the way from Mobile to,
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00:16:53.727for me to look at this area here and potentially fill it with something.
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00:16:56.587So, and I had told her during the consultation, I said, listen,
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00:17:00.367you can probably do something conservative that will really help you.
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00:17:05.307You may not need it. In her head, she had this huge revision surgery already planned out.
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00:17:07.567She's telling me all this money that she's saving and all this.
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00:17:09.287And I said, why don't you just come see me?
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00:17:13.907So she came today and I said, let's just try something.
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00:17:19.047She had a dip here. She had a hump here. So I filled in with a little bit of
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00:17:20.927a filler called Restylane.
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00:17:24.787It's going to last me six months. I get it. I'm not looking for longevity,
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00:17:28.207but I'm looking to see if we can get the aesthetics that we're after.
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00:17:33.227Guys, I'm not kidding you. I injected a small aliquot of this.
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00:17:36.107I massaged it into the area. She starts crying.
00:17:36.687 -->
00:17:39.947She says, oh my God, I didn't never thought my nose would look like this again.
00:17:39.947 -->
00:17:46.827And in my head, I'm thinking she worked herself up over something that was a
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00:17:49.90710-second fix, you know?
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00:17:52.767And so I said, so you like it?
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00:17:56.627Oh, my God, I love it. This is exactly how I always wanted my nose to look.
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00:17:59.727I said, all right, good. Save yourself a revision surgery.
00:18:00.267 -->
00:18:04.627And in about six months, we'll come and we'll put something more permanent in here, and you're done.
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00:18:09.667And you never have to worry about this again. And it was like this weight had been lifted off of her.
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00:18:12.387And that...
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00:18:22.050Ladies and gentlemen, all you guys, that is where the honesty and the virtue,
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00:18:25.430the surgical virtue has to show up.
00:18:25.550 -->
00:18:28.390You have to do something that's right for the patient.
00:18:28.630 -->
00:18:33.630And telling her, oh yeah, you need a revision surgery, it's X thousands of dollars,
00:18:33.910 -->
00:18:36.650isn't the surgically virtuous thing to do.
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00:18:45.830And so I do think that taking into consideration somebody's emotions plays a huge part in this.
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00:18:51.290So I think we're, you know, because we've covered a lot of stuff today,
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00:18:54.790and this is kind of a deep, more serious podcast.
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00:19:00.630And again, I think I've said this before. You go see a surgeon who says that
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00:19:03.170they've never had this complication, they've never seen this,
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00:19:04.210or they've never seen that.
00:19:04.770 -->
00:19:07.230Two things are happening. and this is factual.
00:19:07.830 -->
00:19:11.010They either, they don't have enough experience, which means they haven't done
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00:19:14.830enough and they're lying to you. That's a fact.
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00:19:18.650And you should ask your surgeon, have you ever had to do any kind of revision
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00:19:20.150work in this type of area?
00:19:20.610 -->
00:19:23.950And I have patients ask me that probably once a week. And I said, yeah.
00:19:24.410 -->
00:19:28.210In fact, I would be concerned if I went to a surgeon who said,
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00:19:33.930no, I've never had revision surgery because it has, yes, surgeons can have good
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00:19:35.630and bad days. I get all that.
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00:19:42.890But I pretty much do a very similar surgical entry into the face on my procedures.
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00:19:44.790Okay. There's not a lot that changes.
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00:19:51.010But what I cannot control is the protoplasm or the inner workings of that human.
00:19:51.912 -->
00:19:55.812I don't know if that human has a collagen problem that they can't heal as well
00:19:55.812 -->
00:19:58.552as the other one. I don't know if there's a nutritional problem.
00:19:58.712 -->
00:20:02.832I don't know if they're, you know, vaping and they didn't want to say anything
00:20:02.832 -->
00:20:05.972or they're drinkers and they didn't want to say anything or they're smokers
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00:20:07.272and they didn't want to tell me anything.
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00:20:15.652So, no, no, no. And this happens, right? And so then I get faced with the ramifications
00:20:15.652 -->
00:20:18.932of a lot of these things that I didn't know going into it, right?
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00:20:23.352And so as much as we try to ask patients and get all that information up front,
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00:20:26.132those are the challenges that I can't see coming.
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00:20:31.452And so I think a good take-home point from this is if you're ever faced with
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00:20:36.392revision surgery, get your mind out of the finger-pointing game.
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00:20:40.312Because all that's going to do is make you angry and keep you up at nighttime.
00:20:40.612 -->
00:20:44.372And so I tell patients, they come in, they say, well, this doctor did this and that. I said, stop.
00:20:44.712 -->
00:20:47.792We're not worried about things that happened in the past. The only thing we
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00:20:53.832can control is what steps are in front of us and whether we should even consider taking those steps.
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00:21:01.792So I'm going to close with, I found a really cool one the other day because
00:21:01.792 -->
00:21:05.252I found myself telling it to my daughter who just graduated.
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00:21:13.772And I said, man, I remember my dad telling me this one. And the idea of plan
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00:21:19.052your work in detail and then you work your plan, right?
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00:21:23.312And write it out, lay it all out. I think I've mentioned this before.
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00:21:29.592When I was 20 years old on a napkin at a bar in Milwaukee, right?
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00:21:35.114I wrote down what I wanted 50-year-old Roberto to look like.
00:21:35.254 -->
00:21:37.574I'm not kidding you. I don't know what I did with that napkin,
00:21:37.594 -->
00:21:40.774but I kept it for a long time. I moved so many times I probably lost it.
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00:21:45.314And I said, all right, this is my goal at 50.
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00:21:50.954What do I got to be at 40 in order to jettison me to that 50?
00:21:51.294 -->
00:21:54.574What do I got to do at 30 to get me to that 40?
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00:21:59.114Where do I have to be? What do I have to have accomplished?
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00:22:01.954Accomplished and then what do I have to accomplish at
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00:22:04.73425 and then 20 and then I even went
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00:22:07.554to the micro level of all right what do
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00:22:10.214I got to do this semester what do
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00:22:13.574I got to do this month what I got to do this week and what do I got to do tomorrow
00:22:13.574 -->
00:22:21.394and so I reverse engineered my plan now things have changed you know but for
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00:22:27.174the most part I can tell you this guys if you in a detailed manner or you plan
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00:22:29.934what you want that 50-year-old you to look like,
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00:22:32.434and you work that plan back,
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00:22:35.654nine times out of 10, you will hit it on the mark.
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00:22:42.974So all you parents, pass this one on to your kids. Make them all get a piece of paper.
00:22:43.754 -->
00:22:49.394And Amelia, that's a good example. We have Amelia in the studio today who's
00:22:49.394 -->
00:22:50.794Alyssa's beautiful daughter.
00:22:51.354 -->
00:22:52.914We're going to actually, your
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00:22:55.714homework for next week, she's playing with a centipede thing right now.
00:22:56.962 -->
00:23:00.882Your homework for next week is to give us what you want to look like when you're 25.
00:23:01.302 -->
00:23:05.902Not look-wise, just what is Amelia going to be at 25?
00:23:06.462 -->
00:23:09.462And you're going to work it backwards. And we're going to do a little test.
00:23:09.822 -->
00:23:12.382I'm kidding. We're not going to tell anybody about it. All right,
00:23:12.442 -->
00:23:15.942guys. Thank you so much. I love you all. This has been a great episode.
00:23:16.482 -->
00:23:20.722And we've been working through a few glitches on Instagram, I've been told.
00:23:21.602 -->
00:23:25.342Sound, audio, we got them all figured out. All right? We're newbies at this.
00:23:25.442 -->
00:23:28.842We're figuring it out. I got the best team in the game working with me.
00:23:28.982 -->
00:23:31.742So I appreciate the comments of positivity.
00:23:32.142 -->
00:23:35.502So look forward to seeing you guys next week. And next week,
00:23:35.522 -->
00:23:38.442we are talking, oh, yeah, this is a good one.
00:23:39.342 -->
00:23:43.382Kind of gone full circle now. We've started off with what kind of things do
00:23:43.382 -->
00:23:47.182you need to be, what's bringing you into the consultation?
00:23:47.842 -->
00:23:51.502What's bringing you to seeking information? We've talked about a lot of these
00:23:51.502 -->
00:23:56.122things throughout the season. and we're going to close out the season with what
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00:24:01.042kind of questions do you now need to ask once you've decided that you want to
00:24:01.042 -->
00:24:02.382move forward, all right?
00:24:02.462 -->
00:24:05.782Where does your head need to be and what do we need to start planning?
00:24:05.902 -->
00:24:10.022And we might actually even touch on what Jackie was saying last week about the
00:24:10.022 -->
00:24:16.042nutritional plans and what we can do preoperatively and postoperatively.
00:24:16.342 -->
00:24:20.442So thank you guys very much. Have a wonderful weekend. And remember,
00:24:20.702 -->
00:24:24.302good decisions come from good information. Have a good day.