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We sit down with Judge Jason Cox of Harris County Probate Court No. 3 to pull back the curtain on what a Texas probate court actually does and why it matters even if you think you “don’t have an estate.” We get specific about wills, trusts, estates, guardianships, and the real-world probate litigation issues that show up when families disagree or paperwork is missing.
We also dig into the part of the job most people never connect to probate court: civil mental health commitment hearings in Harris County. Judge Cox explains why mental health law is so deadline-driven, how the court balances due process with safety, and what “attorney ad litem” and “guardian ad litem” mean when someone’s rights and liberty are on the line. Then we talk solutions, including Assisted Outpatient Treatment, an approach that supports people in the community with treatment plans, social worker teams, housing help, and fewer repeat inpatient hospitalizations.
On the planning side, we break down what actually helps you avoid unnecessary probate: payable on death and transfer on death designations for accounts and benefits, when a transfer on death deed can work for real property, and why getting your documents done before a hospital stay can protect your intent, especially for LGBTQ families. We close with the practical reality that courts run on people and budgets, which is why voting down-ballot matters. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a clear probate roadmap, and leave a review with the biggest myth you want us to tackle next.
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Okay.
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Fair morning.
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Yeah.
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We're recording.
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All right.
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So anything we say now?
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We have copies of it.
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Yeah, I have a record.
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So we're going to kind of dance in the conversation, but is there anything you want us to cover?
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You know, I'm happy to talk about whatever you guys want to talk about.
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Okay.
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Probate.
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So I'm a probate court judge, and probate courts are a little bit unique, and not everybody knows what pro what happens in a probate court.
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So if y'all want to talk about that a little bit.
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Let's talk about it.
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Let's introduce yourself.
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Okay, so I'm I'm Judge Jason Cox, the judge of Harris County Probate Court No.
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3.
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I was elected in 2018.
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I take the bench in 2019.
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Prior to being elected judge, I practiced in the area of probate and probate litigation since, well, for about 15 years before being elected judge.
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So probate courts, a little bit different.
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I need to get an introduction in here real quick.
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Well hey, we can't not introduce Alexis.
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Well, I mean, you know, we got to introduce the fact this is 22 sides.
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I'm Alexis and I'm here with Robin.
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And go back to the previous thing you just heard, because I'm sure you started from the beginning if you're listening to us.
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Oh, sure, sure.
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Who our guest is.
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Sure.
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Okay, now we can go.
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Well, we have we have a judge with us today.
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And you're you're already in it.
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Like tell tell the people about what you do.
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Okay, so so probate court number three.
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We're one of five probate courts here in Harris County.
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And Harris County has statutory probate courts, so it means that they're created by the legislature.
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And the legislature creates statutory probate courts in parts of the state where there's big populations.
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So we have Travis County, Tarrant County, Dallas County, El Paso.
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There's about, you know, don't hold me to it because we keep adding to it, but I want to say there's about 20 statutory probate courts in the state of Texas.
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And they're unique in that their jurisdiction deals specifically with probate.
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So we deal with wills, trusts, estates, guardianships, and related litigation.
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We have kind of a little tweak to our jurisdiction where there, if there's a case that's pending in like a district court that has a probate component to it, maybe one of the parties is an independent executor, or maybe somebody dies during the middle of the litigation.
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We can reach out and grab cases from district courts and pull them into a probate court.
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So they're very specific.
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Other smaller Texas counties, rural counties, the probate's handled in courts of general jurisdiction.
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So they may hear criminal cases, probate cases, divorce cases.
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But in Harris County, we have five that specifically hear these probate-related cases.
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In probate court three, it's even a little bit more unique than the other five in that we have, through kind of just a quirk of the way that the probate courts came to be in Harris County, we have what's called primary responsibility over all civil mental health commitment hearings in Harris County.
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So those hearings might be to commit somebody for temporary mental health services, require them to take medication, might be for somebody who's incarcerated at the Harris County jail.
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Maybe they're sick and they need medication, so they can be required to take medication through petitions filed in our court.
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Or they may need treatment in order to have their competency restored so that they can participate in their defense and they need medication for that.
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So we hear those cases also.
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Otherwise, we'd have people who are mentally ill who can't participate in their defense sitting in jail for longer than they would serve for the for the for the acts that brought them into the into the jail in the first place.
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That seems to be a general problem we have with you know people waiting for trial or waiting for doing various and sundry things.
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They they tend to spend a lot of time in jail before That's right.
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We decide whether or not they're guilty.
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Yeah.
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And and you know, they're deprived of their liberty while they're while they're inside the jail waiting for some kind of adjudication.
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And if they're sick and can't participate in their defense, that just adds to their time.
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And so we at the court can have hearings to require them to take medication so that they can participate in their defense and hopefully get an adjudication and and maybe even get you know out and on with their lives.
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Okay.
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That that brings up a whole lot of questions in my mind.
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Sure.
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Is this like always heard by a judge only, or are there juries or so that's that's a great question because you are entitled to juries in guardianship cases, in probate cases.
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Sometimes you are only entitled to a six-person jury, sometimes you're entitled to a twelve-person jury, depending on the case.
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In mental health cases, you are entitled to a jury.
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Okay.
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And you bring experts in, or we've never had a jury trial.
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Uh and in the in the in the 20 or 25 years that the judge sat before me in this court, they hadn't had one either.
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So we almost had one.
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One was requested, but it got resolved by the time the the jury trial would have come around.
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These these on the mental health side, one of the reasons that maybe we don't see more jury trials is they're they're fast-tracked.
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Okay.
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So mental health law is very deadline driven because we don't want people to be deprived of their liberty any longer than they have to be, because we're not talking about people who are criminals.
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They're just sick.
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Right.
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And so when a person's picked up on like a mental health warrant, or maybe law enforcement brings them in to a facility, you know, they have to see a doctor within 12 hours.
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The facility can only keep them for a few, uh a few, I want to say it's 48 hours, I think is what the requirement is.
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They can keep them for 48 hours, but they have to petition the court to hold them longer.
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The court has to hear their case at least within 30 days, and that's with continuances.
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Usually they are heard within about seven days.
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And so we try and get them moved through each piece of the system so they're not held any longer than they have to be.
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And the other thing I think that's interesting about this area of law is even if I sign an order saying you're committed for a period of 45 days, if the patient is getting treatment and the doctor says you're no longer, you no longer meet the criteria, you're no longer a danger to yourself or to others, or or you're not decompensating.
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You've reached your baseline.
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The doctor can sign an order discharging them and they're free to go at that time.
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And how long have you been in this seat?
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So I was elected in 2018 and I started January 1st, 2019.
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And I mean, your experience in public that I've seen, I've been at a lot of events, and I've always seen you just seem so kind and so willing to talk to people and so available.
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Like I I get around to a lot of events and I've just seen you repeatedly.
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And I think when people think of a a politician or a judge, they might think that they don't have access to them in everyday life.
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But when I see you, it's like you're just so willing to talk to people.
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I can't imagine like what your calendar even looks like.
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Like Alexis is talking about backed up cases, but you're only talking about one one branch of what you you hear.
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How often do you actually work?
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Oh, I'm I'm there every day.
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Okay.
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Uh we are we're going to be able to do that.
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Yeah.
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So you know, going back to probate court three being a little bit different than the other probate courts.
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So we have a courtroom in the civil courthouse downtown.
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We have a courtroom in the Harris County Psychiatric Center, and we have a staff of 20.
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We have a budget of about 6.4 million dollars.
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We had 20,000 cases just on the mental health side alone.
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So we keep things moving.
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I'm fortunate to have a fantastic staff and an associate judge who does an extremely good job for us.
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Who's your associate judge?
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Her name is Amy Parsons.
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Okay, just curious.
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Sure.
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And so we we we stay on top of things.
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And that the mental health crew that you know make sure everybody complies with all these deadlines and nobody's held one second longer than the law says they can be.
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Yeah.
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Uh they they come to work every day with a servant's heart and they they do a fantastic job.
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Okay.
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So so how how backed up is it if Alexis is saying, you know, maybe people are being held long or you know, trying to wrap it up.
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Not necessarily for this court, but for general courts.
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So our clearance rate is over 100 percent.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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So we've that we work very hard on that.
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And really, the the probate cases, the Wills, Trusts, Estates, and Guardianship, those are hard to clear as quickly as other cases because they stay by their nature, they stay open longer.
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Okay.
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So say take a guardianship case where somebody has an IDD intellectual disability diagnosis and they're 18 and they're getting ready to turn 19, and they're going to need a guardianship.
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They a guardianship might be established for them and they may live for another 70 years.
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And so that guardianship could be open for 70 years.
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So you can't look at that as a case that you can just get on your docket and get off your docket because if a guardianship's open for 70 years, they file reports, the court goes out and visits them, and so they that stays an active case on our docket.
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Other cases come in, you know, other cases that are like regularly litigated cases, like a will contest.
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You know, that's gonna have a beginning and an end.
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It may not be, you know, within six months, it may be a couple of years, because it's a litigated case, uh, but that'll have a definite end to it.
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Other cases don't necessarily.
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The mental health cases do, though, because at some point somebody's gonna get committed and that commitment's going to end and they're gonna be released.
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And so th those those work their way through pretty quick.
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Trevor Burrus, Jr.
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So essentially the idea of a backlog doesn't really apply to probate courts.
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Yeah, I you know, and I look at my other probate court backlogs too, because obviously I want to make sure I'm keeping up with my colleagues, and we're all doing about the same.
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We've all got close to a hundred or over a hundred percent clearance rates.
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That's nice.
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Yeah, there's a lot of civil and criminal courts who would love to have anywhere close to that.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Okay.
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So what are you doing now?
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Right now.
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What do you mean, right now?
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You running for office?
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Oh, I am.
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Oh yes.
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By the way.
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I just want to check and see.
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Yeah, yeah.
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No, I'm running for the re-elect you to keep this goodness going.
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There you go.
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I'm uh I'm running for my third term.
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Okay.
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Uh I'll be on the ballot this November 3rd.
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Early voting starts October 19th and runs through the 30th.
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Vote early if you can, so you're not subject to shenanigans on election day.
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If you don't like lines and in the voice.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And you know, and mail b mail in voting is safe, but I I always think it's a good idea to vote in person.
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And what like who can vote for you?
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Uh is that everybody?
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Everybody in Harris County.
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Okay, wonderful.
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And so when you see Judge Jason Cox on the ballot.
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At the very bottom almost.
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So keep on going.
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All the way down, all the way down.
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That's the point.
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All the way down, yeah.
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I mean, you've got to go all the way down, and this ballot's long.
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It is.
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It's like five or six pages long, maybe even longer than that.
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We've had a few people on, and and we always say, you know, the the lower down the ballot, the closer you're gonna be to people that you might actually see.
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And I think that, you know, being up against just getting out of the pandemic, a lot of people had to confront where they're at with their probate issues, you know, if they were ready for it, not ready for it, what should they have available?
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Uh I mean, and talk to their loved ones, their neighbors that may or may not have been like ready for it either.
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I mean, I can only imagine.
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And now that we're past the pandemic, some of us kind of got out of it without having to address that.
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Like, what would your average person need these days to support themselves going into probate?
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Because if you're on social media, there's a lot of misrepresentation, I think, of people saying, Oh, you're always gonna have to go to probate no matter what, or oh, you can skip probate if you just have these things handled, or you know, get lawyer representation and then you won't have to go.
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And I I think to the average person, it's it's in the feed, but I I don't think they ever get really like straight answers.
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Yeah, so there there are some things that you can do to avoid having a probateable estate.
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Okay.
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So, you know, if if you have a will and you want to leave everything by your will, your will is gonna have to be probated in order for it to be valid and enforceable.
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So that's one option.
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But if you have assets that are say they're cash in accounts, you can do you can set up the accounts so that they're payable on death.
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Or usually it's it says joint tenancy with right of survivorship or transfer on death or pay on death.
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There's usually a little box you can check on the signature card.
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If those are all of your assets in that account, you can designate somebody to be that beneficiary, and those funds will pass to that person without needing to go to probate.
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Okay.
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So if you have a bank account and you're not sure if you have someone assigned to that, if in the event that you're gonna die, because like 10 out of 10 people will.
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That's right.
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You know, I mean, maybe quick.
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When we would have clients come in and they'd say, Well, if I die, we'd say no.
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It's when you do that.
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It's when it's when I I think all of us are around 45 highway might be sooner than others.
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But you know, so you're checking with your bank account, and in the event that when you die, you have it allocated to somebody that's pay upon death, like your friend, your loved one, your partner, your spouse, your neighbor to look after your cat, like like whatever it is that you want that money to go to, just tell your bank.
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Yeah, you you can tell them and they'll help you with the paperwork.
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And it's the same for like employee benefits or insurance benefits.
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So those kinds of things that have beneficiary designations, they pass outside of probate.
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So you don't need to go to court in order to make sure that those funds or those assets transfer to the person that you're doing.
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Well, what about real property?
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You can do this with real property.
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You can create a transfer on death deed, but it ha this is if you're trying to avoid avoid going to a lawyer.
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This is one I wouldn't go avoid going to a lawyer for because transfer on death deeds need to have certain magic language in it in order for them to be effective.
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And you don't want to set something up and then have somebody file a lawsuit saying, well, this didn't pass the way you meant it to pass.
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Okay.
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So I'm talking to my mom, and my mom has her house paid off in this hypothetical example, and she says, you know, I'm not going to make it every day.
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And I'm like, okay, on the day you're not going to make it, let's get the paperwork done ahead of time.
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Right.
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Then we have to see a lawyer.
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Or we can do this by some of the things.
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Possibly.
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So there are so when you're dealing with real property in it, it's there's lots the the good thing in Texas is there's lots of options that you have for making sure that your estate goes to who you want it to go to.
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That might be why there's not like a straight answer.
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Yeah, but the other thing is they work for some assets, but not for others.
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Okay.
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So there's things like small estate affidavits where there's just real property and maybe a small amount of cash that a person can fill out by themselves.
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They're on our county clerk's website.
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You can get a form and shout out to our wonderful county clerk, Tanisha Hudspeth, who is doing God's work right now.
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No kidding.
00:15:53.279 --> 00:15:58.399
This is like a built-in commercial for Tanisha Hudsmith because uh she's amazing.
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Her coworkers are amazing, and she's also on the ballot, like probably really low down the ballot, but she is the highest person you could be voting for.
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I mean, there I mean it's a it's a contest of this election, but Tanisa Tanisha Hudspeth runs these voting polls, but she also does really great work on like what you're saying, all these forms marriage, divorce, kid forms for school.
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She even opened up weekend days in case you can't go to these offices during the week because you worked something outside of a nine to five or whatever.
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So look up those resources from the Harris County.
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Harris County Clerk's office has a really great website, and they've got forms that are probate-related forms too, kind of like what we were talking about.
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Okay.
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And I was even recently looking into this because my my my mother just purchased a car, not to brag, it's her final car, and she wants to hand it off when she's you know no longer with us.
00:16:56.480 --> 00:16:59.200
But you can't just you can't just be like, here's the keys.
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You know, you have to actually get that in on a form too.
00:17:02.559 --> 00:17:03.039
That's right.
00:17:03.039 --> 00:17:13.599
So on the title, on the back side of the title, there should be information that you can fill out after many years from now, hopefully, after your mom passes away.
00:17:14.160 --> 00:17:15.039
Yeah, not tomorrow.
00:17:15.359 --> 00:17:22.480
Not tomorrow, but there should be form on the back that's kind of like an affidavit that you should be able to fill out to transfer title to yourself.
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Okay.
00:17:23.119 --> 00:17:23.759
Okay.
00:17:23.759 --> 00:17:30.000
I think these are really scary topics that just really put a lot of people in a freeze position.
00:17:30.000 --> 00:17:36.240
And I appreciate you speaking to it because again, it's like click here and you might not ever get anywhere.
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But if you can go to these real websites where, you know, the district county has put together forms, then those are gonna be the ones you actually need when you get there in person.
00:17:47.440 --> 00:17:48.559
So you might as well start now.
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Yeah.
00:17:49.119 --> 00:17:54.400
And you know, it people do get nervous about talking about death and planning for death.
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But I think once they sit down and start thinking about it and talking about it, it becomes a much easier conversation because you know it you you kind of get past that feeling like if I if I do a will today, I'm gonna die tomorrow.
00:18:05.599 --> 00:18:08.079
Because then, you know, nine times out of ten, that's not gonna happen.
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Right.
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Right.
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And if you do, it's gonna be really suspicious.
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If you're to meet in the hospital, you know, maybe that's the case.
00:18:15.839 --> 00:18:19.920
But I think before you're in the hospital is a better time to to talk about it, though, right?
00:18:19.920 --> 00:18:44.480
I mean before you've lost a little bit of sanity, a little vitality, like like you know, people are about to gather with their loved ones, whether it's chosen community and they want to voice how they want to be taken care of, or whether it's legal community and they like haven't gotten the paperwork to back that up, like you know, like now's the time to maybe bring that to a few potlucks or a few uh, you know, uh holiday events coming up.
00:18:44.799 --> 00:18:57.920
Yeah, and you know that it you've made such a great point because especially for people in our community, you know, I'm I'm married to my husband, and I fortune I'm fortunate to have a family that accepts as a as a truly married couple, right?
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But not all of us in the LGBTQ community are.
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And if you are if you are somebody who's ill and you wait till you're in the hospital to do a will that leaves everything to your spouse, right, and they have a family that doesn't respect your relationship, that's gonna give them an opening to say, well, they were coerced to do it while they were weak and in the hospital, or they didn't have the capacity because they were on all of this medication to do it.
00:19:26.160 --> 00:19:27.759
We see cases like that.
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Not as many as we used to, but we see cases like that.
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So do it while you're feeling well and get a few witnesses.
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And I don't know, and we're in October, so it's like before you're a ghost, let's get this handled.
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Like, I mean, you know, make it about make it about the real candy and trading your assets and holding your values, not about necessarily like trick-or-treating.
00:19:50.079 --> 00:19:54.160
Yeah, the nice thing is that usually you get a few hospital stays before you get there.
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Yeah, that's right.
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Yeah, that's right.
00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:04.000
And you know, there's other documents, not just a will, that I think are really handy to think about.
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Like what?
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Like a like a power of attorney if you have somebody in your life that you really trust or that you're you know that you're married to, or is a partner of a lot of.
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They don't have to be separate.
00:20:15.200 --> 00:20:16.400
Well, that's true.
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You're right.
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But but they could be, right?
00:20:18.240 --> 00:20:25.279
Like somebody if you have a loved one that's not interested in being the one that has the final say, then maybe pick the one that can say it.
00:20:25.599 --> 00:20:32.160
Yeah, well, you know, that's that's that's a very true point because sometimes people don't want their spouse to be their agent under a power of attorney.
00:20:32.400 --> 00:20:32.559
Right.
00:20:32.559 --> 00:20:34.000
Yeah, sometimes it's for good reasons.
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Yeah.
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But but a power of attorney, you can you can execute it in such a way that it's not effective immediately, but it becomes effective upon your incapacity.
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So you say in the you know, say that you say that you execute these documents and then you have a heart attack and you can't communicate.
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That power of attorney will spring into life, and that give that agent who you've named the ability to make, you know, maybe decisions for you based on what you've expressed to them.
00:21:05.119 --> 00:21:13.119
You can have a durable one, which covers health care and things like that, or you can have a financial one, which covers your financial assets.
00:21:13.119 --> 00:21:21.279
And the other thing that you can do, which I think is really important, is you can do a declaration of guardian in the event of need.
00:21:21.279 --> 00:21:33.920
So if you you know somebody that you want to take care of you when you're in a at a time in your life where maybe you don't have mental capacity, you can name who you want to be your guardian.
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And you can also name who you don't want to be your guardian.
00:21:38.160 --> 00:21:39.920
Okay, which is just as easy to be.
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That might be a longer list.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
00:21:43.359 --> 00:21:54.559
So, and and that gives you some kind of surety and and some comfort knowing that it look, if the worst happens and I can't communicate, at least the paperwork is there that says this is what I want.
00:21:54.960 --> 00:21:55.839
That's beautiful.
00:21:55.839 --> 00:22:09.519
I mean, there's there's a conversation that can be had about a Lot of different wants, but if you can put it in some legal paper with your loved ones, do you necessarily need a like a notary or can it just be a witness?
00:22:09.920 --> 00:22:11.519
For some documents, you do.
00:22:11.519 --> 00:22:14.880
I believe the powers of attorney need to be notarized.
00:22:14.880 --> 00:22:19.119
I think the declaration of guardian in the event of need needs to be notarized.
00:22:19.119 --> 00:22:19.680
That makes sense.
00:22:19.680 --> 00:22:22.720
Wills need to be executed a certain way.
00:22:22.720 --> 00:22:29.519
So they have to have two witnesses and be notarized if you want the most straightforward, clean probate you can get.
00:22:29.519 --> 00:22:32.160
You can have handwritten wills.
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And these come up in court all the time.
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You know, a person can draft their own will and write it out as long as it's entirely in their own handwriting and has their own signature.
00:22:43.759 --> 00:22:45.519
It can be probated.
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The person will have to go to court and they'll have to have witnesses that know the handwriting and can prove it up.
00:22:52.000 --> 00:22:59.759
It's, you know, I'm a former probate attorney, so I always say, don't write your own will, always go to a lawyer.
00:22:59.759 --> 00:23:04.240
But you can do it if you have kind of a handle on how you really want things to go.
00:23:04.240 --> 00:23:18.880
The the where we see people get into a little bit of trouble is maybe the handwritten will might be a little ambiguous and it might leave some room for interpretation for somebody who might want to attack it.
00:23:18.880 --> 00:23:27.680
But you know, certainly we we saw a well, we had a handwritten will on the docket today, it didn't get reached because the person passed the hearing, but we see them all the time.
00:23:28.160 --> 00:23:34.240
And in this world of electronics, is it acceptable to do like a video or you know, of the person?
00:23:34.640 --> 00:23:35.039
Not yet.
00:23:35.039 --> 00:23:35.359
Okay.
00:23:35.359 --> 00:23:37.359
We're not we're not at that point yet.
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I will say that it when I was practicing probate as an attorney and we were litigating cases, we loved it when somebody would videotape a will execution ceremony because almost always they would put something in there that was terrible for their case.
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You know, it would they would they would think that this is this is this is gonna be great, nobody's gonna have any questions.
00:24:00.079 --> 00:24:06.640
You can show this to the jury, and they'll just see I was doing exactly what my mom wanted to do, and he'll be like, Oh, sign here, mom.
00:24:06.640 --> 00:24:08.880
No, no, sign here, here, sign here.
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Don't read that.
00:24:10.240 --> 00:24:12.400
Yeah, all on video.
00:24:12.559 --> 00:24:12.880
Oh no.
00:24:13.200 --> 00:24:20.880
I've never seen a videotaped will ceremony that ever benefited the person who thought they had a slam nut case.
00:24:20.880 --> 00:24:22.319
So that's funny.
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Don't do it.
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Don't do it.
00:24:25.200 --> 00:24:25.519
Yeah.
00:24:25.519 --> 00:24:26.960
Well, it brings up a good point.
00:24:26.960 --> 00:24:36.640
So if somebody is losing their mental capacities, and maybe this is a crossover between your branches, like there's some signs there, but it hasn't deteriorated yet.
00:24:36.640 --> 00:24:41.200
Like maybe dementia or something, is that's a time to get a lawyer.
00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:47.680
Uh that you know, that way you have a sound witness, or you know, like how how do you approach that question with your one?
00:24:48.079 --> 00:24:53.200
So in order to execute a will in Texas, you have to have what's called testamentary capacity.
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And the good news is that's actually a pretty low threshold.
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Okay.
00:24:57.440 --> 00:25:18.480
You need to know who you're who the objects of your bounty is, you know, where where you're going to give your property, what property you own, the manner that it's going to be distributed, and you have to have the mental ability to hold that all of that in your mind long enough to execute the will, and you have to know that you're executing a will.
00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:20.480
So that we've got like five elements.
00:25:20.480 --> 00:25:25.279
It's an old case from Texas that that outlines these elements, but we've kept them.
00:25:25.279 --> 00:25:28.480
But it's it's a very low level of capacity.
00:25:28.480 --> 00:25:38.079
So just by means of example, if if if we're talking about testamentary capacity, that's less than what you would need to execute a contract.
00:25:38.079 --> 00:25:47.039
So, you know, it's it's a pretty low standard to reach because we recognize that people young people generally, young healthy people don't do wells, right?
00:25:47.039 --> 00:25:52.960
It's usually somebody who's a little bit older and who's facing the inevitable.
00:25:52.960 --> 00:25:54.960
Yeah, and maybe in the hospital.
00:25:54.960 --> 00:25:56.079
It may be in the hospital.
00:25:56.319 --> 00:26:03.519
There's like so many people starting college right now that are doing questionable things more than like your average senior, but they're not right in the will, you know.
00:26:03.519 --> 00:26:04.319
Exactly.
00:26:04.319 --> 00:26:12.559
Yeah, it's just a society like has us wait until you know, we always think it's not gonna be us or it's not gonna like well, there's some more time or whatnot.
00:26:12.559 --> 00:26:18.160
But I appreciate you like touching this topic because when people do think about it, it can be a little scary.
00:26:18.160 --> 00:26:22.240
And and and no one's like, here, here's how you do it, here's how I did it with my family.
00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:26.240
I mean, there's I just don't find those conversations around me a lot.
00:26:26.240 --> 00:26:28.640
And and I I'm glad that you do that.
00:26:28.640 --> 00:26:33.119
I mean, and in your work, like, is it hard for you to maintain?
00:26:33.119 --> 00:26:38.640
Because you're obviously rerunning for the seat, and you know, but it's it sounds like it could be heavy sometimes.
00:26:39.119 --> 00:26:39.680
It can.
00:26:39.680 --> 00:26:56.720
It can, but the the benefits or or the the good feeling you get from the work that you do certainly outweighs the the days that you have where you you're just like I why am I putting myself through this?
00:26:57.279 --> 00:26:58.160
Right, yeah, yeah.
00:26:58.480 --> 00:27:08.240
So there's there's lots of you know, we're talking about probate courts like they're the worst places in the world because you're going there because somebody's dead or somebody's incapacitated or they're in a mental health crisis.
00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:11.440
But there's a lot of joyful things that happen in probate courts too.
00:27:11.680 --> 00:27:12.079
Like what?
00:27:12.400 --> 00:27:18.640
So you know, we we one of the best things that we do is a competency restoration.
00:27:18.640 --> 00:27:28.160
So so sometimes for certain kinds of mental events, they can they can render a person incapacitated.
00:27:28.160 --> 00:27:36.000
So say you have a traumatic brain injury uh and you lose your ability to really make good executive decisions, right?
00:27:36.000 --> 00:27:46.559
For somebody who experiences that, they can go through a lot of physical therapy and really regain the baseline they had before that happened.
00:27:46.559 --> 00:27:57.440
It takes a lot of work, but so you may have created a guardianship for that person when that thing happened, but through their hard work, you're able to have a hearing and to restore them to capacity.
00:27:57.759 --> 00:27:58.079
Nice.
00:27:58.319 --> 00:27:59.039
Which is really great.
00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:02.720
The other really good great one that we see is body can heal sometimes.
00:28:02.720 --> 00:28:03.440
Yeah, yeah.
00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:16.079
And for for patients, I don't want to call them patients, people who have an IDD diagnosis, especially ones who are on the autism spectrum, they may get a full guardianship right when they turn 18.
00:28:16.079 --> 00:28:24.079
But through lots of occupational therapy, lots of support in the community, they may be able to have some of their rights restored.
00:28:24.079 --> 00:28:24.480
Wow.
00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:31.599
So we had a we had a young man, he got a guardianship when he was 18, who had an autism diagnosis.
00:28:31.599 --> 00:28:39.759
And you know, we were talking to the parents, and the parents were saying, you know, you know, really you we have to take away his right to drive and his right to vote and all this.
00:28:39.759 --> 00:28:41.440
I mean, everything gets taken away.
00:28:41.440 --> 00:28:49.839
And it came out that he he really wanted to drive, and that scares the court because we don't want anybody getting hurt.
00:28:49.839 --> 00:28:51.039
You know, this is a public health issue.
00:28:51.039 --> 00:28:55.759
And he had a job where he was working at a grocery store.
00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:56.319
Okay.
00:28:56.799 --> 00:28:59.759
And they lived in a rural part of Harris County.
00:28:59.839 --> 00:29:00.079
Okay.
00:29:00.240 --> 00:29:08.160
And so we talked to them and we said, okay, look, here's let's let's figure out how we can tailor this to this person.
00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:19.200
And so we said, okay, we're gonna we're gonna start without giving you the right to drive, but why don't you go and visit with the doctors of the Texas Institute for Rehabilitation and Research?
00:29:19.200 --> 00:29:26.640
And there's another place also that does this where they can assess the ability to drive for somebody who's had an injury like that or who's somebody who's IDD.
00:29:26.640 --> 00:29:28.799
Come back and tell us what they say.
00:29:28.799 --> 00:29:29.759
So they did that.
00:29:29.759 --> 00:29:31.440
They came back, he got a good report.
00:29:31.440 --> 00:29:31.680
All right.
00:29:31.680 --> 00:29:33.359
We said, okay, here's what we're gonna do.
00:29:33.359 --> 00:29:39.039
We're gonna start off, you're gonna we're gonna limit the area that you can drive in.
00:29:39.039 --> 00:29:42.720
You know, you can drive to work and back, maybe in the neighborhood.
00:29:42.720 --> 00:29:52.720
You can, you know, during these times of days, and you're gonna tell us if you ever get a ticket or you ever have an accident, y'all are gonna tell the court and we're gonna reevaluate.
00:29:52.720 --> 00:29:54.720
So they did that.
00:29:54.720 --> 00:29:56.400
He's never had a problem.
00:29:56.400 --> 00:30:04.480
Yeah, and you know that that's you it's gonna allow them to live their life with a higher level of personal sovereignty, which is what we would all want.
00:30:04.480 --> 00:30:11.680
And that's really what Texas law wants us to do in guardianship, because Texas laws and guardianship are actually more progressive than you would believe.
00:30:11.680 --> 00:30:13.759
That's beautiful being Texas.
00:30:13.759 --> 00:30:24.799
We're always supposed to look for the least restrictive alternative and always supposed to evaluate whether there are supports and services out there that can help a person avoid the need for a guardianship.
00:30:24.799 --> 00:30:30.720
So it's not supposed to be a conveyor belt, cookie cutter, you get a guardianship, and this is what it looks like.
00:30:30.720 --> 00:30:35.279
We are supposed to consider the individual and make sure it's tailored toward them.
00:30:35.279 --> 00:30:39.680
So when we can do that and really come up with a creative solution, that's very gratifying.
00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:40.480
Wow.
00:30:40.480 --> 00:30:40.960
Wow.
00:30:40.960 --> 00:30:42.000
Thank you for sharing that.
00:30:42.000 --> 00:30:45.119
Because Houston is diverse even in its terrain.
00:30:45.119 --> 00:30:50.720
Like not everything is Highway 45, and some of these areas are really manageable if you can just get to the U.S.
00:30:50.960 --> 00:30:53.279
I would never let anybody drive on 45.
00:30:53.359 --> 00:30:54.319
I avoid what I can.
00:30:54.319 --> 00:30:57.200
You know, but it it's it's it's great.
00:30:57.200 --> 00:31:01.359
And then what are some of your questions for this area, Alexis?
00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:03.440
Because I know you do know quite a few judges.
00:31:04.079 --> 00:31:05.279
Fortunately and unfortunately.
00:31:05.279 --> 00:31:07.200
It's a week's bag.
00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:20.480
But uh no, what I was going to say though, and your thing about driving, I was at a doctor's office and talking to the person who was drawing my blood, and she said that you know she was nervous because her grandkid was just starting to drive.
00:31:20.480 --> 00:31:23.519
And so she told him, I'll buy you a car.
00:31:23.519 --> 00:31:26.640
But for the first two years, you can't go on any freeway.
00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:30.319
Yeah, you can get everywhere you want to go with back streets, but no freeways.
00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:31.440
Otherwise, I take the car back.
00:31:31.680 --> 00:31:32.480
Yeah, there you go.
00:31:32.640 --> 00:31:32.799
Yeah.
00:31:32.799 --> 00:31:36.480
And I was thinking, you know, that's probably a really good thing.
00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:37.440
Yeah, no doubt.
00:31:37.440 --> 00:31:39.519
You can get in plenty of trouble on the back streets.
00:31:39.519 --> 00:31:40.079
You can.
00:31:40.079 --> 00:31:41.519
You can get anywhere you need to go.
00:31:41.519 --> 00:31:43.359
Yeah, so I have several questions.
00:31:43.359 --> 00:31:45.200
I'm trying to figure out which order to put them in.
00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:50.960
Number one, what do you wish people knew about coming to probate court?
00:31:51.359 --> 00:31:56.319
You know, I I wish people knew that they're actually very user-friendly courts.
00:31:56.319 --> 00:32:02.480
So we have staff attorneys on the court, we have lots of people who have a background in social work.
00:32:02.480 --> 00:32:10.400
So we and we you people come in off the street all the time looking for help, you know, filling out paperwork that they need to fill out.
00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:12.799
And and we are happy to do that.
00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:18.640
And so we don't want people to feel like, you know, it's we don't want people afraid to come to court.
00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:19.279
That's great.
00:32:19.599 --> 00:32:30.000
And we, you know, especially with our neighbors who might be worried that their legal status might put them in jeopardy.
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:37.599
We want them to know that all of the services that are available to Harris County residents are available to them as well.
00:32:37.599 --> 00:32:41.039
And they are welcome to come into court and be heard.
00:32:41.039 --> 00:32:46.880
And uh if they have issues that are probate related, we are here to help them just like we are everybody else.
00:32:46.960 --> 00:32:55.119
Aaron Powell It's important to voice that in this season because people are like, where can I go safely and trust that?
00:32:55.119 --> 00:32:56.079
So thank you.
00:32:56.480 --> 00:32:56.799
Yeah.
00:32:56.799 --> 00:32:57.119
Yeah.
00:32:57.119 --> 00:33:03.599
I'm sort of excited that you know our current county attorney is starting to do some stuff like that.
00:33:03.599 --> 00:33:03.839
Yeah.
00:33:03.839 --> 00:33:08.960
Abby's having this event at the law library with most of her staff, if not all of it.
00:33:08.960 --> 00:33:10.799
And they're like, come on in, talk to lawyers.
00:33:11.119 --> 00:33:12.880
Abby Kamen, she's also on the ballot.
00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:15.519
She is please vote for Abby Kamen.
00:33:16.079 --> 00:33:19.119
We didn't really plan this being just a pure advertising, but it is.
00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:22.400
Yeah.
00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:35.759
So we we work a lot with Abby Kamen's office on the mental health side because the people who bring petitions for involuntary commitment are the county attorney's office on behalf of the state.
00:33:35.759 --> 00:33:36.319
Oh, okay.
00:33:36.319 --> 00:34:03.440
So we all, you know, and even though it's a it's an adversarial process because we have the state seeking commitment, and then we have the patient who's represented by an attorney ad lightum seeking to avoid the commitment and the court, you know, hearing the case, it's really, speaking of gratifying things about the job, it's really great because we all kind of work together at the same time to try and make these cases work for people.
00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:06.960
And just in case other people don't know what it is, what's an attorney ad lightum?
00:34:06.960 --> 00:34:14.400
So an attorney ad litum is somebody who's appointed by the court to be an advocate for them in a in a certain kind of case.
00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:25.440
And Texas law requires us in guardianships to appoint an attorney ad lightum to represent the proposed ward and advocate for whatever it is that proposed ward wants.
00:34:25.440 --> 00:34:37.440
So if that proposed ward says, I want you to oppose this guardianship with everything you've got, because I'm leaving on a rocket ship to go to the moon at the end of the week.
00:34:37.440 --> 00:34:46.639
Um, your job as an attorney ad lightum is to advocate, maybe not use that as your argument, but you know, advocate for them with everything you've got.
00:34:46.639 --> 00:34:48.400
It might even be in your client's best interest.
00:34:48.400 --> 00:34:50.000
RNAs is that guardian.
00:34:50.000 --> 00:34:52.880
But even take that case to trial if you have to.
00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:56.719
And it's the same on the mental health side as you you advocate for your client.
00:34:56.719 --> 00:35:00.559
We also have guardians ad lightum, which are a little bit different.
00:35:00.559 --> 00:35:20.400
Guardian ad lightum, it's kind of we call them the eyes and the ears of the court, and what they do is they visit with the proposed ward or the mental health patient, maybe, and they report back to the court what's in the client's, what they believe is in that person's best interest.
00:35:20.400 --> 00:35:29.599
So one is it, the attorney adlitum is an advocate, the guardian ad lightum is the one who advises the court about what they believe is the best interest of the person.
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:31.519
Okay, that's cool.
00:35:31.519 --> 00:35:36.400
So another question though, and it has nothing to do with well, maybe it does.
00:35:36.400 --> 00:35:37.920
So what do you do for fun?
00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:41.280
So my my husband and I love to cook.
00:35:41.440 --> 00:35:41.760
Uh-huh.
00:35:41.760 --> 00:35:44.639
We go through we go through phases.
00:35:44.639 --> 00:35:51.280
We've been on an Indian cooking phase lately, so he's been making naan, which has been really good.
00:35:51.280 --> 00:35:51.840
Yeah.
00:35:51.840 --> 00:35:56.000
I've gotten to where I can make doll, and that's about it.
00:35:56.000 --> 00:36:00.880
But he's he's the he's been doing things like butter chicken and doll.
00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:02.880
He did tandoori chicken the other day.
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:03.920
Nice, which is good.
00:36:04.000 --> 00:36:05.840
We did the house smells delicious, too.
00:36:06.079 --> 00:36:10.000
It does, it it smells very warm, uh, the warm and spicy.
00:36:10.000 --> 00:36:18.960
We went through a phase where we were doing Mexican cooking, not Tex Mex, but like Mexican Mexican cooking, which which was really good too.
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:20.480
And so we love to cook, right?
00:36:20.480 --> 00:36:23.039
We like to travel, we have three dogs.
00:36:23.039 --> 00:36:43.599
Uh you know, this is so funny because I was talking to him and and we were saying, you know, when when people who don't know a lot of gay people think about what their life must be like, they probably think that they're, you know, out all the time in the bars, uh on a parade float or whatever.
00:36:43.599 --> 00:36:43.760
Right.
00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:48.480
And I said, you know, all we do, and we're we're cooking, we're playing with the dogs, and we're watching the food channel.
00:36:48.480 --> 00:36:50.880
So that's that's our life pretty much.
00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:51.679
But it's a good one.
00:36:51.920 --> 00:36:52.159
Yeah.
00:36:52.159 --> 00:36:52.719
Yeah.
00:36:52.719 --> 00:36:54.239
That's it sounds really comfortable.
00:36:54.239 --> 00:36:57.360
And it sounds like you put in a lot of hard work for people.
00:36:57.360 --> 00:37:02.480
And I'm glad that your teams are working together with that same heart of service.
00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:10.960
And you know, when you're thinking about the next generation that could come into these fields, what would you say to them?
00:37:10.960 --> 00:37:14.000
Like what what would what would be a good route?
00:37:14.000 --> 00:37:17.519
Would it be to see if you could sit in on some of these things?
00:37:17.519 --> 00:37:26.719
Or you know, I mean, like how do you how do you sort of like intern or look at it without getting completely into the field at first?
00:37:26.719 --> 00:37:31.199
Because I I think sometimes that's important to just dip your toe in a little bit and see if you even like it.
00:37:31.519 --> 00:37:34.239
So we do we do have interns and clerks at the court.
00:37:34.480 --> 00:37:34.719
Okay.
00:37:35.039 --> 00:37:39.039
And I I am just holding that seat for I'm just I'm just keeping it warm.
00:37:39.039 --> 00:37:44.079
I'm not gonna be a judge forever, and when it's time for me to go, which the time is drawing nigh.
00:37:44.079 --> 00:37:50.159
I'm gonna I'm not gonna be one of these people that yeah, I'm not gonna be one of these people that you have to pry off the bench.
00:37:50.159 --> 00:37:52.400
I'm gonna be ready to go and turn it over to somebody else.
00:37:52.400 --> 00:37:55.119
So we like to have slides slide out like that.
00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:55.920
That's right.
00:37:55.920 --> 00:37:56.159
Yeah.
00:37:56.159 --> 00:38:02.639
But we like to have young people in court with us learning and seeing what it is that we do.
00:38:02.639 --> 00:38:06.719
I teach at uh U of H in the spring, I teach a probate-related course.
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:07.199
Wow.
00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:08.639
And I love doing that.
00:38:08.639 --> 00:38:10.719
I love talking to the law students.
00:38:10.719 --> 00:38:19.599
And we actually we have some of our some of our classes are on Zoom so that I can be in the courtroom and they can see what it what it looks like.
00:38:19.840 --> 00:38:20.079
Okay.
00:38:20.239 --> 00:38:26.079
Sometimes I bring in people like from the county attorney's office to talk to them about what they do on the mental health side and stuff like that.
00:38:26.079 --> 00:38:31.599
I hope that my enthusiasm for this area of law rubs off a little bit on them.
00:38:31.599 --> 00:38:46.480
But yeah, we we we we like to see people with an interest and we want to foster that because especially on the mental health side, it's a smaller group of attorneys that practice in that area, and it's a nuanced area of the law.
00:38:46.800 --> 00:38:46.960
Sure.
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:50.639
And so if somebody has interest, we want to bring them in.
00:38:50.639 --> 00:39:34.079
And if you know, younger attorneys that want to be an adum, we have a yearly free CLE that we do every October where we require anybody who wants to be one of our attorney adlitums on the mental health side, we require them to take it because we need to teach them what the law is, and then we assign them to a seasoned mental health adlitum to shadow them because it's it's kind of an onerous appointment in that it lasts for about two and a half or three weeks, and they have to go around to all of the mental health facilities in Harris County where they might have clients who are patients and actually physically meet with them and talk to them and then you know prepare their defense before the court.
00:39:34.239 --> 00:39:41.679
So and what's the youngest or lowest available starting point for that for someone to get into it?
00:39:42.400 --> 00:39:47.119
So I I you know, out of out of law school or in law school for a clerkship.
00:39:47.119 --> 00:39:47.360
Okay.
00:39:47.360 --> 00:39:48.800
We don't have an age limit.
00:39:48.800 --> 00:39:53.119
Out of in law school for a clerkship, out of law school for an appointment.
00:39:55.920 --> 00:40:00.480
So basically they get to see what the facilities are like before they do anything.
00:40:00.480 --> 00:40:02.000
Because a lot of people freak out.
00:40:02.400 --> 00:40:02.880
They do.
00:40:02.880 --> 00:40:08.400
And it's not it's not the safest job ever either.
00:40:08.400 --> 00:40:08.800
Yeah.
00:40:08.800 --> 00:40:22.639
And we've we've seen not fortunately, not any of our ad lightums get injured, but we've seen people get injured in mental health hospitals, not through any fault of their own, but just because somebody took them by surprise.
00:40:22.639 --> 00:40:24.079
And those things happened.
00:40:24.079 --> 00:40:28.480
And the people are in mental health hospitals because they're not stable.
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:29.360
That's right.
00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:34.480
And they're and and they're a danger to themselves or danger to somebody else.
00:40:34.480 --> 00:40:36.079
That's why they're there.
00:40:36.079 --> 00:40:38.400
Cool.
00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:40.000
So why should I vote for you?
00:40:40.239 --> 00:40:40.480
Yeah.
00:40:40.480 --> 00:40:41.599
Let's get into the deal.
00:40:42.000 --> 00:40:43.519
Well, let's let's talk about that.
00:40:43.760 --> 00:40:47.280
Um cross the French line.
00:40:47.280 --> 00:40:48.079
Let's go.
00:40:48.719 --> 00:40:56.079
So so for the past eight years, we've really had an opportunity to put in a lot of work in the court.
00:40:56.079 --> 00:40:57.599
We've made it more efficient.
00:40:57.599 --> 00:41:09.280
We've added a lot of technology which increases court access, especially for somebody who might be in the jail who wants to participate in their in their hearing, they can now participate via video.
00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:24.000
The other thing we did was we, along with UT Health, Probate Court 3, County Attorney's Office, University of Houston School of Social Work, and I know I'm missing somebody.
00:41:24.000 --> 00:41:28.960
We put together a program called Assisted Outpatient Treatment.
00:41:28.960 --> 00:41:40.880
And what this is, is a program where instead of committing somebody to an inpatient hospitalization, they're committed to an outpatient uh hospitalization.
00:41:40.880 --> 00:41:43.519
Well, an outpatient commitment.
00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:50.239
So when they're committed to an outpatient commitment, they get a team of social workers through the Harris Center.
00:41:50.239 --> 00:41:51.840
That's who I missed, the Harris Center.
00:41:51.840 --> 00:42:02.480
They get a team through the Harris Center who helps them with housing, make sure that they get to make it to their doctor's appointments, get their prescriptions.
00:42:02.480 --> 00:42:14.639
If they need toiletries, they help them get toiletries and get everything they need to be able to be on the outside and still complying with what is going to be a court-ordered treatment plan.
00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:22.880
And so we focus on a population of patients who are repeatedly in inpatient settings.
00:42:22.880 --> 00:42:32.239
So we we commit them to an outpatient treatment plan where they have to check in with the court and comply with their treatment plan.
00:42:32.239 --> 00:42:38.639
And it's usually for a longer commitment, but we found that people thrive on it.
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:46.559
They, not all of them, but a good number of them are able to avoid having future inpatient hospitalizations.
00:42:46.559 --> 00:43:02.159
And the other thing is, it's got a kind of a side benefit of saving the county money because the cost of one or two inpatient hospitalizations covers a year's worth of outpatient treatment.
00:43:02.400 --> 00:43:02.800
Wow.
00:43:03.039 --> 00:43:25.840
So uh we're able to, you know, keep these folks outside doing well and hopefully get to a point where they're long-term stable and can even step down or graduate from the AOT program and step down to an even less restrictive program through the Harris Center and you know continue to live and thrive outside of the you know the mental health system.
00:43:25.840 --> 00:43:39.360
We got a $2.7 million SAMHSA grant for that, ran for four years, and the grant expired, but the program was doing so well that we were able to keep it funded through the county.
00:43:39.360 --> 00:43:41.199
So it's ongoing.
00:43:41.199 --> 00:43:43.679
What else?
00:43:43.679 --> 00:43:45.119
What else about it?
00:43:45.119 --> 00:43:46.960
We're looking to expand it.
00:43:46.960 --> 00:43:53.760
We haven't yet, but we've had requests to to from other hospitals.
00:43:53.760 --> 00:43:59.760
It's usually right now, it's just available through the Harris Center for mental health and also.
00:43:59.760 --> 00:44:08.559
Also through the Harris County Psychiatric Center, but there's been other major hospital institutions that want to set up their own AOT program.
00:44:08.559 --> 00:44:12.480
As soon as we can get funding and manpower to do that, we would love to be able to do that.
00:44:12.480 --> 00:44:12.800
Okay.
00:44:12.800 --> 00:44:29.360
Had conversations with other county departments about pilot programs that focus on people coming out of jail who have mental health issues that maybe can use this as a segue into a more stable living environment.
00:44:29.679 --> 00:44:30.000
Yeah.
00:44:31.920 --> 00:44:34.320
Oh, there was something else I was going to tell you.
00:44:34.320 --> 00:44:40.480
Well, we definitely want to keep the AOT program going.
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:42.159
We want to build and expand on that.
00:44:42.159 --> 00:44:44.320
There's other projects that we're working on.
00:44:44.320 --> 00:44:50.719
The Harris County Psychiatric Center, the court facilities there, they haven't been updated since the 80s.
00:44:50.719 --> 00:45:23.119
And so we recently worked with Commissioner's Court and got funded for $850,000 to redo part of the Harris County Psychiatric Center where the court is, which is important, not just for the staff that needs a decent place to, you know, do their job out there, but it's a it's a safety issue as well when you have so many people kind of shoehorned into a small area with like we were talking about earlier, people who are ill coming in and out, it's going to be a much better situation for them out there.
00:45:23.119 --> 00:45:26.320
So we've got so we've had these successes.
00:45:26.320 --> 00:45:28.559
We want to build on them and keep them going forward and evolving.
00:45:28.960 --> 00:45:29.360
Absolutely.
00:45:29.360 --> 00:45:31.760
What's the viability of you getting elected again?
00:45:31.760 --> 00:45:35.119
Is there a competitor or I have a Republican opponent?
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:37.440
I don't know much about them.
00:45:37.440 --> 00:45:39.360
I haven't been able to find.
00:45:39.360 --> 00:45:42.880
I've heard that he's a nice man, which which is great.
00:45:42.880 --> 00:45:45.519
I'd rather be a nice man than a mean man.
00:45:45.519 --> 00:45:46.000
Sure.
00:45:46.239 --> 00:45:48.800
Uh but I if you're going out for this seat, I hope you are.
00:45:48.800 --> 00:45:52.239
Also, he can find something else to do.
00:45:52.559 --> 00:46:00.000
Yeah, and uh I haven't been able to find any kind of a website or Facebook page or really much.
00:46:00.000 --> 00:46:05.840
And I'm I'm I'm a I'm I'm a pretty avid researcher when I put my mind to it.
00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:10.480
How dare you find anything yesterday when I was looking for it either?
00:46:10.480 --> 00:46:11.519
I couldn't find anything.
00:46:12.239 --> 00:46:12.880
How dare you?
00:46:12.880 --> 00:46:20.079
How dare you run for this seat of such high need and importance and not do your work.
00:46:20.079 --> 00:46:23.360
Do not vote for people who can't put in the work.
00:46:23.360 --> 00:46:24.480
Oh my gosh.
00:46:24.480 --> 00:46:31.840
In fact, I hope the one thing that people are hearing is that it's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when these conversations come up.
00:46:31.840 --> 00:46:42.719
And even though you may not have someone with a mental capacity that is in need of some of these systems, we are all in need of these people being taken care of.
00:46:42.719 --> 00:46:44.320
Oh, yeah, it's a public health issue.
00:46:44.320 --> 00:46:48.320
And and the people who take care of them being taken care of, as you're pointing out as well.
00:46:48.719 --> 00:46:54.159
And unfortunately, we've started training the police and constables, et cetera.
00:46:54.159 --> 00:46:55.199
They do a great job.
00:46:55.199 --> 00:46:56.159
A little bit better.
00:46:56.239 --> 00:46:56.400
Trevor Burrus, Jr.
00:46:56.400 --> 00:46:57.920
Yeah, they do it, they go do a great job.
00:46:57.920 --> 00:47:00.400
We work really closely with Precinct One constables.
00:47:00.400 --> 00:47:00.800
Yeah.
00:47:00.800 --> 00:47:02.559
Yeah.
00:47:02.559 --> 00:47:08.960
And so uh they they serve our warrants and we stay in really close contact with them.
00:47:08.960 --> 00:47:29.440
And we've got such a good relationship with them that if sometimes warrants get filled out by angry spouses that maybe not have uh maybe not be as truthful, and so we've got a good enough rapport with our constables that they'll call the court and say, you know, y'all might want to take a look at this more.
00:47:29.440 --> 00:47:32.400
We're getting a real funny feeling about this.
00:47:32.400 --> 00:47:37.119
Uh and we take them seriously, and uh, you know, we treat them like a partner.
00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:47.920
No, it's important because I know the general gist of some people is that they don't want to call the cops if it's a wellness issue because they're afraid that they'll exacerbate it.
00:47:47.920 --> 00:48:01.599
And you know, you just don't want to be the one that is hearing ongoing domestic violence or ongoing mental issues of some sort, and then you're the one that like adds to it by calling the cops.
00:48:01.599 --> 00:48:13.679
And and but I I think it's important to point out that in Harris County there are people that put mental wellness first on these calls and and is also concerned for those things.
00:48:13.679 --> 00:48:15.679
You know, I mean that doesn't get enough press.
00:48:16.079 --> 00:48:28.880
And always, always, if you find yourself needing to call law enforcement, tell them if you think it's a mental health issue so that it alerts them to have their specialized folks go out there and deal with it.
00:48:29.280 --> 00:48:34.159
I've had several situations where my first question was, do you know what constable precincts you're in?
00:48:34.159 --> 00:48:38.239
And if they're in precinct one, I'm like, call the constable.
00:48:38.239 --> 00:48:38.480
Yeah.
00:48:38.480 --> 00:48:41.840
Don't call HPD, call the constable, tell them it's mental health.
00:48:41.840 --> 00:48:42.079
Yeah.
00:48:42.079 --> 00:48:43.599
Because they actually have a pretty good team.
00:48:43.599 --> 00:48:44.960
Yeah, they have a great team.
00:48:45.280 --> 00:48:48.159
They might get out there sooner, you know, like it just depends.
00:48:48.159 --> 00:48:50.719
So is there anything that we're missing?
00:48:50.719 --> 00:48:54.239
Because we obviously want this work to continue.
00:48:54.239 --> 00:48:56.800
We want you to win.
00:48:56.800 --> 00:48:59.920
Uh I mean, it but it's not a done deal.
00:48:59.920 --> 00:49:01.199
Like people have to actually get out of here.
00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:04.480
You have to vote, you have to click the box, go all the way down the ballot.
00:49:04.480 --> 00:49:06.800
You have to yeah, you have to go through the whole thing.
00:49:07.119 --> 00:49:13.760
You know, it's gonna take a while because there's a lot of propositions stuck in there that you probably know nothing about.
00:49:13.760 --> 00:49:16.320
You can get a sample ballot ahead of time or eat it.
00:49:16.639 --> 00:49:20.639
There is one about decriminalizing THC.
00:49:20.639 --> 00:49:23.280
So, you know, if that's your thing, hang in there until you get to the bottom.
00:49:23.280 --> 00:49:24.480
Then you better get out there and vote.
00:49:24.480 --> 00:49:26.480
Go through all of them until you can get through that.
00:49:28.719 --> 00:49:30.000
So you know, you gotta go through everything.
00:49:31.840 --> 00:49:32.320
Motivation.
00:49:32.320 --> 00:49:32.800
Okay.
00:49:32.800 --> 00:49:39.039
Well, you can get your sample ballot on Harrisvotes.com and uh another thing that Tanisha's doing well.
00:49:39.039 --> 00:49:42.239
Yeah, yeah, that's Tanisha's website that she runs, right?
00:49:42.239 --> 00:49:52.719
You can you can check out voting locations, you can check out the times for early voting and the location near you, the lines that may not even be in existence.
00:49:52.719 --> 00:49:58.320
But if you're concerned about like going out for lunch and then getting back in time, like check the website.
00:49:58.480 --> 00:49:58.719
Yeah.
00:49:58.719 --> 00:50:02.639
And and I think that there's well, I know there's going to be a hotline.
00:50:02.639 --> 00:50:17.679
So if there are, and I wish I had the number, but if you feel like for some reason you're being denied your right to vote, okay, you can call that hotline and speak to somebody that can assist you and give you some direction.
00:50:18.000 --> 00:50:18.239
Okay.
00:50:18.239 --> 00:50:27.360
And Alexis always points out that if you if you feel like that to talk to the actual person on location, uh I don't know, the judge.
00:50:27.360 --> 00:50:28.800
The judge of the election judge.
00:50:30.079 --> 00:50:30.639
The election judge.
00:50:30.960 --> 00:50:39.760
And you know, other people there aren't quite as up to speed on what they're supposed to do as the judge, but they are a judge at that point in time.
00:50:39.760 --> 00:50:40.320
Yeah.
00:50:40.960 --> 00:50:46.960
And that's, you know, and it's all the more reason to vote early so that if you run into some kind of a problem, exactly.
00:50:46.960 --> 00:50:50.559
Uh you can get it resolved while you still have time to vote.
00:50:50.559 --> 00:50:53.199
You don't want to be doing it at seven o'clock on November 3rd.
00:50:53.519 --> 00:50:53.679
No.
00:50:54.000 --> 00:50:54.159
No.
00:50:54.159 --> 00:51:10.159
And also take your family, take your friends, take your neighbors that may not have a ride or a plan or they don't have anything to do because I think these issues are closer to people's hearts than some of the rhetoric out there or some of the, you know, mud-slinging topics.
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Like, okay, great, we've all seen commercials.
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But, you know, when I'm with my friends and in community, the real conversations are like, what are we gonna do when our friends, family, loved ones, community members who have no one actually pass?
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Like, how can we make sure that they're taken care of?
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What are we gonna do when we're really not sure if these people do have a guardian or these people's mental well-being is slipping in sort of some ways or whatnot?
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And so it's just great to know some resources and some people that are gonna be there to look you in the face when you actually do go to probate court.
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So so thank you.
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Yeah, thank you.
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And thank you all for the opportunity to come and talk to you.
00:51:50.880 --> 00:51:53.199
So can you see your website where people can connect with you?
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Sure.
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It is re-elect judgejasoncox.com.
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Reelect judgecox.com.
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And we'll put that in the show notes.
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And are there any events coming up that you're hosting or I'm not hosting anything.
00:52:08.719 --> 00:52:11.599
I'm I'm I'm hitting the campaign trail, though.
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I'll I'll be at St.
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Peter's Church on Sunday.
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Okay.
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I'll be block walking Saturday morning.
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I'll be at drag bingo at Resurrection Church just for fun.
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Drag bingo.
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Drag bingo at Resurrection Church is a whole thing.
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That is as a as a family event that's super fun and really cheeky comments, but it's a good fundraiser, but it's family friendly people.
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It is it's so much fun.
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And so I yeah, I grew up in Houston.
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I'm a I'm a third generation Houstonian.
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All my high school friends still live here, and I I come from a very conservative family.
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And so I I am always trying to get them to come with me, and I've I've been able to get them the last few times.
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I said, look, you you can't be afraid of a drag queen singing a carpenter song at a church.
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You know, it's gonna be a good time, I promise you.
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I it's uh I have a niece and a nephew, they're twins, and I took them when they were eight because the there are kids there, you know.
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It's it's a it's a it's a friendly church, and and I told my nephew who's really into art, I said, Well, there's gonna be all these like painted faces, and I just think that'd be really cool for you to see how they put art on their face.
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And he's like, Yeah, and I said, I mean, they might be in dresses where they have all this art, and he's like, Yeah.
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And then I told my niece, I was like, Girl, you're gonna see nails that you've never seen before.
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And she was like, Yes, you know, she was like super excited, and the bingo part, they're like acting like you know, fun with the dopplers and and the things like this.
00:53:36.639 --> 00:53:39.039
And and afterwards, I said, Well, what'd you guys think?
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And my nephew goes, I think that was inappropriate.
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I said, I said, why?
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And he goes, Well, because there was drag.
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And I said, I said, what part was drag?
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And he goes, I don't know.
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And and and I said, I said, Well, you had fun.
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There, there, you know, there was some silliness, and and you even won the bingo, you got your popcorn, like, you know, calm down, sir.
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And you know, and and he had to think about that.
00:54:03.039 --> 00:54:07.039
And then fast forward, they're now 21 years old or of age to vote.
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And and and he says to me, like, I just don't know why everyone doesn't like stand for each other.
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And do you still go to church?
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I said, What makes you think I go to church?
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He goes, Well, that bingo that you took us to, and I said, No, that was at a church, right?
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And you can go there if you want, they're great and everything.
00:54:22.480 --> 00:54:25.199
But I was like, that was just like at a church, it was just an event.
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And and I said, But remember you said it was inappropriate.
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He goes, Wow, I was a jerk.
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And I said, I said, no, no, no.
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You just you're just saying things that people think and feel because they don't know.
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But you look at the pictures, they had a blast.
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You know, I said I said, Yeah, it was real inappropriate.
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You're having a you know, ton of fun.
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I'm showing the pictures.
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And he goes, Yeah, I didn't, I didn't know, I didn't know what I was saying.
00:54:47.760 --> 00:54:50.000
We've always had such a good time when we've gone.
00:54:50.480 --> 00:54:56.400
There's there's like really good fundraisers at RMCC on I think 11th and TC Gesture.
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And you know, if at times that has been a voting space.
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I'm not sure if it still is.
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Yeah, I'm I live kind of close to there, and so I drive by there on the way to work.
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I I haven't seen them as a voting location, but they're constantly doing having a blessing of the animals.
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Advocacy work.
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Yeah.
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I've taught yoga there because they've asked me to, uh, you know, like I I've I I've always been a well-received guest there.
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And and the thing about it is I've always seen everyone be welcomed.
00:55:26.719 --> 00:55:36.320
And so they have the caucus endorsements there, and you know, it's just it's a if you're looking for something in the heights to go do something like you know, plenty of parking and a good time.
00:55:36.320 --> 00:55:36.480
Yeah.
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And it's for a good cause.
00:55:38.559 --> 00:55:38.719
Yeah.
00:55:38.719 --> 00:55:41.360
So any closing sentiments?
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I was just thinking, you know, one of the things we've done over the last several years is we being Transgender Foundation of America, is we've funded people who want to start Pride someplace, like in West Texas, especially.
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And, you know, we give them money to start the first one.
00:55:57.679 --> 00:55:59.440
It's like you gotta make the money for the next one.
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Yeah.
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And I've started laughing because what Pride in West Texas first shot looks like, and it's like they do burgers, beer, and a drag queen.
00:56:07.280 --> 00:56:08.000
There you go.
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Gotta start somewhere.
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And I'm like, what else do you need?
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I mean, come on.
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It's just good to to point out what it is for people because it's gotten so blown out of proportion.
00:56:17.360 --> 00:56:27.679
And and then, hey, like if you're in a big city like Houston, like you might have been in some parades that we've been in, and and it's it's downtown, and there's like tons of floats, tons of people.
00:56:27.679 --> 00:56:36.000
And I loved seeing people in the parking garages on all these levels, like all the like four-fifth level, and people cheering for each other.
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I mean, it's one thing to be walking in a parade where there's people on your right and left, but it's a whole different world when they're like above you cheering.
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Like I thought that was so cool.
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I was like, wow.
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Just imagine if we cheered for each other in humanity.
00:56:48.880 --> 00:56:56.559
And I appreciate you coming in today because you're doing that for people who don't get to see other people all the time.
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And and your teams are doing that.
00:56:58.400 --> 00:57:02.719
And and then we want our listeners to remember that there are good people out there doing things.
00:57:02.719 --> 00:57:10.559
There are, you know, the world's working to some capacity, and sometimes our news doesn't reflect that, sometimes our conversations don't reflect that.
00:57:10.559 --> 00:57:14.639
But there's a lot of work to be done, but there's a lot of work going on every single day.
00:57:14.639 --> 00:57:19.039
And the people who are doing a lot of good work don't have time to get to the mic like this.
00:57:19.039 --> 00:57:22.480
So thank you for taking time out and just sharing with us.
00:57:22.800 --> 00:57:23.679
Yeah, it's my pleasure.
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I really enjoyed it.
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If you don't like what's going on, go vote.
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That's right.
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If you do like what's going on, go vote.
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Just for the the people that are there.
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That's right.
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That's right.
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Yes.
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It's it's not really hard.
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If you've got rage, take it out on every click button.
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You know, if you're if you're just like, you know, wanting to do something that is easier than ordering a Domino's pizza, go click buttons over there.
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Like if you want to say that you made a difference, you really, really can by showing up and voting.
00:57:53.840 --> 00:57:56.639
Because there's it's all gonna be up to like the turnout.
00:57:56.800 --> 00:57:56.960
Yeah.
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Yeah.
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For sure.
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Yeah.
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So thanks for listening.
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Thank you for sharing and thank you all for the work that y'all do.
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Yeah, thank you.
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And everyone, just take care.
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Take care.
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Thanks.
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All right, bye, everybody.
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Bye.