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biweekly
Average audio length:
54 minutes
English
United States
16 episodes
since March 1, 2026
episodic

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Just Say Hi!

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Send us Fan Mail Everyone says they want connection, so why does it feel like nobody wants to make the first move? We go straight at the awkward truth of the lifestyle: a simple "hi" can feel like a high-stakes proposition, and that pressure keeps people stuck in a loop of waiting, watchi…

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