Q&A with Neo & Trinity

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This is unplugged and turned on, where we drop the masks, challenge the rules, and explore what connection, desire, and relationships really look like beneath the surface.
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This is an adult podcast and is not intended for anyone under the age of 18.
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So if you're under 18, go find something else to listen to.
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I'm Neil.
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And I'm Trinity.
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And together we're getting into the real stuff: attraction, intimacy, communication, and the moments that actually create chemistry.
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No scripts, no pretending.
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Just honest conversations about what turns us on.
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Mentally, emotionally, and physically.
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So go ahead.
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Unplug a little.
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And let's turn something on.
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Hi everybody.
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This is Neo.
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And I'm Trinity.
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And this is episode 13.
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I think last time I said it was episode 11 when it was really 12.
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I'm trying to get things right, but who knows?
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And who cares?
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One, two, skip a few.
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99 a hundred.
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I love that.
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Yeah.
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Keep going.
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Who cares?
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Any more of those?
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Uh now you put me on a spot.
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I've got a zero, zero of those.
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All right.
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So today we're going to do just something a little bit different.
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We've got some new expansion cards for a lifestyle deck that we have.
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And we're just kind of, I think, keep it chill tonight and ask each other questions and see where this goes.
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I thought it would be I opened the pack up and started reading the first card.
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I thought this would be fun to do on a podcast.
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And we have not looked, I looked at one card and then we put them away.
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Like, nope, we have not looked through the cards.
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We have no idea.
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So here we go.
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Hopefully, I don't make a total ass of myself.
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Who cares?
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Like you said in the tags.
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We've only got one listener anyway.
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So that's yeah, right.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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Thank you.
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All right, so let's have fun.
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You know who you are.
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Say it again like that.
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You know who you are.
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Oh, there we go.
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See, that's I know we have two listeners for sure.
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We have at least two because I've spoken to them.
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I think we have three that I know of.
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Okay.
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Okay, let me count on my my do some um math on my toes.
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We take my shoes off.
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All right.
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Uh who's starting it?
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Who's kicking us off?
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Girl, the lifestyle's run by the women, apparently.
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They keep hearing that.
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So I'm so I've been told.
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She go first.
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Okay.
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Uh what is a surefire way to turn you on?
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Hmm.
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Interesting.
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I think confidence in a woman is what turns me on the most.
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And I think what surprised me about some of that is like you have the picture in your mind about who you think is sexy, and then that changes based on just how a person shows up.
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And I love that.
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So for me, like if you want to start getting me going out there, ladies, if we ever see you out there and about, like confidence, like go after what you want.
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And I like that.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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And I'm gonna I I guess the assumption is we're gonna keep this lifestyle context.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I know what turns you on, baby, but what turns you on in the lifestyle?
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Um I would say um how um a partner treats their partner like with the respect.
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That seems like that's that's that can be a turn on of like being really um thoughtful and and yeah, courteous.
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That's a turn on.
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Okay.
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Cool.
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So it's my turn now.
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Is that it?
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Yes, that's yes.
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Yes, Bob.
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Okay, so do you prefer having sex with the lights on or off?
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On.
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Like hundreds of on.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Because I think for me, like part of the fun is visual.
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Like, yeah, I want to see I want to see what masterpiece I'm working with here.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Also looking at each other.
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Yeah, like that's um I like to look into your eyes, yeah, see see what's going on.
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Yeah, and I think we've always done that, even just you and me in our marriage.
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Like, it's always been lights on.
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That's what we've always preferred.
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I think in the lifestyle, like I like lights on too, but I think I also like all of the mood lighting, you know what I mean?
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I was thinking that too.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, because we even do that in our own room now, is you know, it's the lights are still on sexy time.
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They're they're just not harsh.
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Because I think for me, environmentally, it can't just be this harsh, like I don't know, fluorescent lights.
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Like, no, we're not the gynecologist office.
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We though it's like, okay, sensual, sense using our senses.
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Gynacological office, though.
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That sounds pretty hot.
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It always has.
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Like, I've always wanted a like what a what a great job.
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And then you realize it's probably not.
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I would say no.
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Okay.
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What level?
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I'm gonna say this in a sexy voice.
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This is not a sexy question.
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What level of grooming?
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Maybe it could be sexy.
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What level of grooming do you like?
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Fully bare, a little patch, but mostly smooth or o natural?
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I think I am A, B, and maybe some of C.
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Like smooth is good, a little patch is good, right?
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I know somebody.
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Uh-huh.
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And mostly smooth is good too.
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I think oh natural, no, not really.
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And that's more because even in our sexual relationship, like growing up, um, and all the years spent doing what I love to do, which is being down below, like the hairs in my teeth are not something that I enjoy.
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Yep, there were things that I dealt with, and that was fine.
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It didn't necessarily turn me off, but it's so much nicer, I think, not having to worry about that.
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And then I think like just being me and orally and like to put things in my mouth and lick things, like the smooth texture of a pussy is so much nicer than dealing with the hair down there.
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But to each his own, for me, I like it smoother.
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So um, there's a like a um like a nuance I want to like ask about is what if it's au naturel but tidy?
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Is it s does your answer still apply because Yeah, because you kept it tidy, right?
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So I'd still prefer less hair down there.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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Wherever your mouth is gonna go, like sand's hair, like no hair.
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I think so.
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Like, you know, I don't think it would uh I don't think having hair down there would prevent me from playing with somebody, but I definitely prefer minimal hair down there.
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Okay, so I'm gonna keep going.
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Keep going, pull the thread or the hair.
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Ah no, don't don't don't pull.
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Um sorry, I had to use those.
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Uh and dye too.
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My understanding is that the current trend is that our natural is back.
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Yep.
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What are your thoughts on that?
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Uh do what makes you happy.
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Okay.
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I still prefer if I'm gonna be down there, I would like less hair.
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Your preference is your preference.
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Yeah, but I'm not gonna tell anybody what they should or shouldn't do.
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Like women shave your armpits, don't shave your armpits.
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I don't care.
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Like what you want to do, do.
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What I prefer in my mouth is what I prefer in my mouth.
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Oh, that's good.
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Um, for me, um wow, I think um foley bears, okay.
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Um, a little patch, uh, fine.
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A natural, okay, as long as it's tidied up.
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Again, I don't want a mouthful of hair either.
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But if you have body hair, I feel like that is how we are created and made.
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And if you want to have hair, keep your hair.
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Um, like for me, I have a little bit of hair because I do not want to be totally bare.
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I want to still represent a woman.
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Thank you.
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Thank you very much.
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Thank you very much.
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And women have hair.
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You may get some more sound effects.
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I I call it my soul patch, but I love your soul patch.
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It's a soul patch.
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It absolutely is.
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Yeah.
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I don't know how you can request that when you get it waxed or lasered, but I call mine a soul patch.
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Yeah.
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Have you ever been caught having sex?
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Um, caught.
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Hmm.
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So I'm assuming like you didn't intend to get caught, maybe.
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Um yeah, having sex somewhere and somebody opens up the door or whatever.
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I'm guessing that's what that means.
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I'm gonna say no.
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I don't recall anything like that.
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That seems like it would be traumatizing.
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I do not remember anything like that.
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Yeah.
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Do you have a different recollection?
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No, I'm just trying to think, like, for us, like, I don't know.
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I've never been caught having sex like before you.
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We were almost caught recently.
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Tell me, tell me more.
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We were in the living room, and oh my god.
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Jesus.
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Shut up.
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Anyway.
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Yeah, I remember.
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Anyway.
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And then I realized that the front door wasn't vacuum.
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Yeah, we're like, the front door is locked, right?
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Yeah.
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Yeah, of course it is.
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I always locked it up.
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It wasn't, and we were expecting someone to visit us at some point, and they came in, and we were fortunately.
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I had, you know, an alert from the front door camera with just enough time to throw some clothes on and pretend that we were just watching TV.
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Yes, because we're boring.
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So there was that.
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Well, that's all we do is watch TV.
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But I still think and maybe that's a whole different thing.
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I mean, maybe like as parents, us being parents, maybe I don't think so.
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We were wrestling.
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I'd I think that's a good thing.
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I do remember something about wrestling, like talking about wrestling.
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Yeah, I don't think that's just typical that it didn't matter.
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If you got kids, you know, you know the drill.
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And we didn't have sex after that for a long time.
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Yeah.
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Right.
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Yeah, right.
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Okay, really, that was both of our answers.
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So now your turn.
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Do you like spontaneous sex or do you like it to be somewhat planned?
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I like sex in all its forms.
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I think if I had to choose between the two though, I don't know.
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Spontaneous is pretty damn fun and hot.
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Um planned can planned can absolutely be the same.
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Um, you know, we've talked about this quite a lot.
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I think planned can for me maybe add a little bit of pressure, but I think at the same time, what I've found, and we've talked about a little bit, is as you get into something, whether it's planned or not, that's when your body starts coming alive.
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So planned is is probably just as good.
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It's hard for me to pick between the two.
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Um, spontaneous can be fun, planned can absolutely be awesome.
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I think it's all about where you're at in your headspace at any given time, though.
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Wow, that was pretty a deep answer.
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I talk out of both sides of my mouth.
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I don't know.
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But I like sex, so there you go.
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One way or the other.
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Three answers, yes.
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Yes, please.
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I I um I think there's I I like them both, yes.
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I like the somewhat planned that way my mind, I can get my mind there and kind of build up the anticipation.
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Yeah.
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Um I think I like that.
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Like if we and I are kind of or whoever, we're texting back and forth and kind of building that.
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I think that's kind of um that can be hot, um, spontaneous.
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Yeah, like I look at it like the outcome is the same.
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Amazing.
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I agree.
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And uh yes, yeah, awesome.
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Yeah.
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Um, I do I do not think that planned, because I've heard this before, like, oh, planned, what a drag.
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You gotta plan it.
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Like you're protecting it at time.
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I it might seem like it's a drag, but I like I liked I like knowing that it's coming.
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I also would say like planned sex is better than no sex at all.
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So there you go, especially if you got kids in the house, like planned may be the only thing you get.
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And yeah, I used like we didn't we didn't necessarily stick to it, but I liked I used to have it on the calendar like every week or two, like booty Tuesday or whatever it was, like it was on the calendar, and at least you get to think about it.
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Um like you said, it builds a little bit of anticipation.
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Well, also knowing that oh, we're doing this tomorrow, at least like now where we are in our life, like oh, we can like we can really plan some quality time around this.
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So awesome.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Okay.
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Did I uh what was the question?
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Uh that was my question about spontaneous.
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Oh, yeah, that's right.
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I answered it because I said yes.
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Exactly.
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Okay, so I already know the answer to this, but I'm gonna ask you anyways.
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When playing in a foursome in a hotel room, would you rather have one king bed or two queens?
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One king bed.
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Uh, we learned early on, our first experience um was on two queens, and it's just uh we want to be together, um kind of spaghetti making spaghetti, like everybody kind of just flowing and moving around.
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When you're on two separate beds, it's very separate, yeah, contained.
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Yeah, that's my answer.
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Yeah.
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And that's really our answer.
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That's what we found the first time.
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I still think um, you know, at some point we we might try two queen beds and see how that goes, but at the same time, like right now, where we're at, the touching spaghetti pile, all of that stuff is is really where we're at, and we do like that.
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Doesn't say again, like we wouldn't try anything in the future, but definitely where we're at right now, spaghetti pile.
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Because we like to be connected to each other and we also like to see what's going on with each other, and it's harder to do when you're in two separate groups.
00:16:13.440 --> 00:16:17.840
So if like you and I are gonna jump back to each other, like we're right there.
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Yeah.
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Or I'm gonna reach over and touch somebody, like they're right there.
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Right.
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Instead of like this two and two.
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It's right.
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Oh no, it's and each partner can reach over and touch their partner while they're doing things and you know stay connected that way.
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So yeah.
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Yeah.
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I I can see the kind of the, I wasn't gonna say the value, but um benefit of the two separate beds in the same room being like you can focus on the partner you're with.
00:16:48.240 --> 00:16:52.480
And that might kind of ease any like feelings of overwhelm because you're with your partner.
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For us, it was our first experience when we did that.
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And so it was like constantly trying to break in my neck to see like what's happening over there, and like what's happening over here.
00:17:03.279 --> 00:17:05.599
So I remember talking about it like, whoa, what's going on?
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What's going on?
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What's going on?
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Just because it was our very first time.
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Yeah, but I feel more confident now, so maybe a different um like uh experience for us.
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I don't know.
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Yeah, we're open to that.
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We'll see.
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Okay, your turn.
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That's me.
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Yes, ma'am.
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Okay.
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Which sexual scenario would you prefer?
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Yes.
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M F M or FMF?
00:17:36.480 --> 00:17:38.960
I still like the MFM.
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Um did we do you would you consider the one experience we had FMF?
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No, I it is too brief.
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It was like two minutes.
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Yeah, once when the male uh partner went to their restroom.
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No.
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Yeah.
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I I if you really wanted to like get technical, but I got like three minutes of that experience.
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It was fun.
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I enjoyed that.
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I still think I like the MFM dynamic because joking or not, like I can tap out for a little bit and watch or go get a drink or whatever, and the other guy can as well.
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And I I also think that, again, my opinion only, like women have more capacity than guys.
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I think if it was M FMF, like there's only so much I can do.
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And then if I start wearing out when, like for you, you're not by, we're done.
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What are the two ladies gonna do?
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But wait for me to recover.
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Yeah, we're gonna take a break, go get a snack.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And and you'd be like, is that all you got?
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And it's like, my energy is being depleted two times faster now.
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So yeah, that's all I got.
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You're like, I only have one mouth.
00:18:56.559 --> 00:18:56.720
Yeah.
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Sorry.
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Yeah.
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Um yeah, I don't know.
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We've only had the MFM experience, so it's hard to say um what I'd prefer because I'm like, I don't know, that's been good.
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Um, we haven't had the um the FMF experience.
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So it's really hard for me to give like a complete answer to that.
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I've enjoyed the I'm trying to be really careful.
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M F M.
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I really enjoyed that.
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That's been really good for the points that you've listed.
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Um, also, I'm a receiver and a giver, but like I don't have to, it's an easier on the mind to you don't have to worry about the other person and the other connection.
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Yeah.
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So the other person and the other connection.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Um, you know, and I also think on the FMF side, like I don't know how many, because ultimately I think that's talking about unicorns, like how many unicorns out there are not bi.
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So what are they looking for?
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Or willing besides FFM, but still because you can be bi and still not play bisexually.
00:20:09.359 --> 00:20:09.599
Yep.
00:20:09.839 --> 00:20:12.559
You can just say, oh, this is just not the dynamic we're doing right now.
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It's like, what are you more interested in?
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So that yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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So what you got?
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What you got for me?
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Anything you won't do in bed.
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Um, yeah.
00:20:26.319 --> 00:20:27.680
Oh, what is that?
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Hold on.
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Let me get my list.
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She's just kidding.
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I'm just kidding.
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There's anything I won't do in bed?
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Um, it depends on who I'm with.
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You have like lot more openness.
00:20:45.359 --> 00:20:47.680
Yeah, there's less limits for you.
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Um, just because of trust and my comfort level.
00:20:52.319 --> 00:20:54.880
For others, yeah, there's definitely a list.
00:20:55.599 --> 00:20:55.839
Okay.
00:20:56.240 --> 00:20:58.559
Am I supposed to say um give some examples?
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Um I'm not I'm not into pain at all.
00:21:04.880 --> 00:21:06.880
So this goes with for you as well.
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Um, so anything that's pain related, any kind of impact play?
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No.
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Like a little, like, yeah, receiving reasons.
00:21:16.720 --> 00:21:20.799
Yeah, I can I'm learning to be more the giver.
00:21:21.119 --> 00:21:21.440
Yeah.
00:21:21.680 --> 00:21:27.359
To yeah, to provide that for someone for but I feel like that's a little different too.
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But for me, um yeah, it's no spitting.
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That's just absolutely disgusting.
00:21:36.400 --> 00:21:39.759
Like just because you've seen it on porn does not mean that someone wants that.
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That is no.
00:21:42.079 --> 00:21:44.799
Um, anal, absolutely not.
00:21:45.359 --> 00:21:46.480
Um with others.
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Yeah, with others.
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Um, you pee on me, that'll be the last pee you have.
00:21:51.519 --> 00:21:53.119
Um, I'm just kidding.
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Uh I I don't even know if that's even happening.
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Kidding, not kidding.
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Kidding, not yeah.
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I mean it.
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Okay.
00:22:01.680 --> 00:22:04.319
Um, but it's pretty that's kind of extreme.
00:22:04.559 --> 00:22:04.799
Okay.
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Um, yeah.
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Pain.
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Stay away from pain.
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Pain is a big one for you.
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Including hair pulling.
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Like I'm still trying to figure out how I do it.
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I don't think everyone knows how to do it.
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One, I don't want it done, but I don't think people know how to do it.
00:22:18.079 --> 00:22:22.559
And I'm like, uh no, that's not what no, that's a no.
00:22:23.279 --> 00:22:28.240
Yeah, I still kind of hope that I can figure out the right way to do that.
00:22:28.559 --> 00:22:30.000
Oh, I'll demonstrate it for you.
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You can't demo it on me though.
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No, on me.
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I can, yeah.
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Yeah, because there's ways to do it, I think, that would be okay and that would not cause you pain.
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And also good for me.
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Close to the root.
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Yeah.
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You can't just pull someone's hair.
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Like.
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Yeah.
00:22:47.839 --> 00:22:50.240
I feel like someone does that, you're gonna get a slap.
00:22:50.480 --> 00:22:52.240
Yeah, because it's gonna be an instant reaction.
00:22:52.559 --> 00:22:52.640
Yeah.
00:22:52.799 --> 00:22:52.960
Yeah.
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No pain.
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Yeah.
00:22:54.319 --> 00:22:57.839
So that's my um a a few of my stuff, my things.
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Sure.
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Um, what was the question again?
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Is there anything you won't do in bed?
00:23:02.640 --> 00:23:03.759
I think you answered.
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I there's more, but yeah, that's a good start.
00:23:06.799 --> 00:23:07.440
There's a list.
00:23:07.680 --> 00:23:12.559
Yeah, but uh for me, there they are irrational.
00:23:12.799 --> 00:23:13.920
They are rational.
00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:17.519
I wanted to make sure I enunciated that.
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They make sense for me.
00:23:19.599 --> 00:23:19.839
Yeah.
00:23:20.079 --> 00:23:20.720
And to me.
00:23:20.960 --> 00:23:23.599
Okay, so is there anything that I won't do in bed?
00:23:23.839 --> 00:23:26.079
I don't think there's a lot that I won't do.
00:23:26.240 --> 00:23:32.319
I think the only thing that really sticks out about what won't you do, that is uh.
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I'm trying to figure out the right words.
00:23:37.119 --> 00:23:43.200
I've probably lost it, but I think bodily fluid, like who play and pee play.
00:23:43.359 --> 00:23:44.960
Like, no, that's not for me.
00:23:45.599 --> 00:23:48.720
But you don't mind the um the squirting.
00:23:48.880 --> 00:23:49.680
The squirting, no.
00:23:49.759 --> 00:23:51.200
I mean, yes, I get it.
00:23:51.519 --> 00:23:55.440
Whatever people say it's pee, it's pea mixed with stuff, whatever that is.
00:23:55.599 --> 00:23:55.920
That's fine.
00:23:57.839 --> 00:23:59.039
I'm talking more about like golden.
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It's fairy dust.
00:24:00.160 --> 00:24:01.680
I'm talking about like golden showers.
00:24:01.920 --> 00:24:04.799
No, I don't think I'm interested in that unless what is it?
00:24:04.880 --> 00:24:07.200
I have a stingray bite.
00:24:07.440 --> 00:24:08.160
Oh, I think so.
00:24:08.640 --> 00:24:10.960
I learned that that's like a bunch of hooey.
00:24:11.039 --> 00:24:12.799
That's not a thing, but yeah.
00:24:13.359 --> 00:24:16.960
I it would probably be worth a shot if my foot was on fire.
00:24:17.200 --> 00:24:18.160
And I'd probably let you do that.
00:24:18.400 --> 00:24:18.799
Why not?
00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:20.799
It wouldn't be sexy though, not in my bed.
00:24:21.039 --> 00:24:23.759
So poo, pee play, whatever you want to do.
00:24:23.920 --> 00:24:24.880
So no fecal matter.
00:24:27.119 --> 00:24:33.920
And then beyond that, I will know it when I don't like it, but I'm okay with all of it.
00:24:34.240 --> 00:24:34.559
Okay.
00:24:34.880 --> 00:24:35.519
Yeah.
00:24:36.160 --> 00:24:36.400
Okay.
00:24:36.640 --> 00:24:37.359
All right, your turn.
00:24:37.519 --> 00:24:37.920
It's right.
00:24:38.079 --> 00:24:39.200
We don't know what we don't know yet.
00:24:39.279 --> 00:24:39.519
Yep.
00:24:39.599 --> 00:24:40.240
Yeah.
00:24:40.799 --> 00:24:43.759
And I'm a yes till I'm a no, so there you go.
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Have you ever told anyone that you're in the lifestyle or consensually non-monogamous?
00:24:52.319 --> 00:24:55.440
If not, do you enjoy keeping it a secret?
00:24:57.039 --> 00:25:09.119
Hmm, I have only told my primary care physician one time because we were trying to get um HPV.
00:25:09.359 --> 00:25:10.240
HPV, thank you.
00:25:10.319 --> 00:25:13.119
I want I was gonna say BV, and I'm like, no, I wasn't trying to get BV.
00:25:13.440 --> 00:25:15.279
No, you can't get BV.
00:25:15.440 --> 00:25:16.720
Well, you might you might be able to do that.
00:25:17.359 --> 00:25:23.759
HPV shot, we were trying to get that, and we had such a struggle because of our age getting that shot.
00:25:23.920 --> 00:25:26.559
Um, and then I'm just like, hey, this is why I want it.
00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:30.160
And instantly was like, oh, okay, great, we'll get that for you.
00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:33.680
Beyond that, no, I haven't told anybody.
00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:36.480
Would I be open to telling somebody about that?
00:25:36.640 --> 00:25:37.759
I don't really know.
00:25:38.000 --> 00:25:49.839
I kind of like the secret of it because I know that if people who know me found out about that, they would be shocked because I've always been kind of like the good boy.
00:25:50.079 --> 00:25:56.480
And I kind of have like having this whole secret, like, if you only knew kind of life, right?
00:25:56.720 --> 00:25:59.200
Um at this at the other underestimated.
00:25:59.440 --> 00:25:59.759
That's right.
00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:14.400
And then the flip side of that is uh I don't necessarily like hiding it and hiding who I am, and and I think sharing it with others can also open people's minds, I think, and encourage them to like think for themselves too.
00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:18.480
But for now, only my primary care provider.
00:26:19.039 --> 00:26:20.160
Hmm, that's interesting.
00:26:20.400 --> 00:26:21.039
Yeah.
00:26:21.759 --> 00:26:26.400
Um I still think our kids kind of they suspect.
00:26:26.720 --> 00:26:28.000
I just don't think they're gonna be surprised.
00:26:28.160 --> 00:26:29.200
They're not gonna they're not.
00:26:29.359 --> 00:26:30.799
They're gonna be disappointed, but they won't be surprised.
00:26:31.039 --> 00:26:32.079
I don't know if they'd be disappointed.
00:26:32.160 --> 00:26:35.200
I think they would just be like, you guys are not talking about yes.
00:26:35.599 --> 00:26:36.480
You guys are weird.
00:26:36.799 --> 00:26:37.359
Okay, go ahead.
00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.240
Um, I have my answer is no and no.
00:26:41.279 --> 00:26:42.079
Next question.
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Oh my god.
00:26:42.960 --> 00:26:44.000
Oh my gosh.
00:26:44.720 --> 00:26:46.079
Have I told anyone?
00:26:46.400 --> 00:26:46.720
No.
00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:55.920
Um and unless they are already in the lifestyle, so that's a like a duh.
00:26:56.319 --> 00:26:57.920
Um no duh.
00:26:58.160 --> 00:27:00.640
Um, do I enjoy keeping it a secret?
00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:02.079
No, I hate that.
00:27:02.640 --> 00:27:03.839
Absolutely hate it.
00:27:04.079 --> 00:27:11.920
I am I like to be honest, and I don't like tr keeping track of baloney in my head.
00:27:12.000 --> 00:27:14.240
Like, okay, what am I supposed to what am I supposed to say?
00:27:14.400 --> 00:27:15.599
What's going on?
00:27:15.839 --> 00:27:18.720
Um, I just like to be as is.
00:27:19.200 --> 00:27:21.920
You see what you you get what what is that saying?
00:27:22.079 --> 00:27:23.119
You get what you see?
00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:24.480
Yeah, what you see is what you get.
00:27:24.720 --> 00:27:26.079
What you see is what you get, thank you.
00:27:26.559 --> 00:27:29.440
And this makes it difficult for me, so I don't enjoy that at all.
00:27:29.599 --> 00:27:29.920
Yeah.
00:27:30.640 --> 00:27:42.079
I do not think it's sexy or fun, or I think it's like uh an obstacle that is just um uncomfortable.
00:27:42.480 --> 00:27:43.119
Yeah.
00:27:43.920 --> 00:27:44.240
Okay.
00:27:45.279 --> 00:27:46.720
And I ladder don't.
00:27:46.960 --> 00:27:47.359
I know.
00:27:47.440 --> 00:27:48.480
I'm like, okay.
00:27:48.720 --> 00:27:55.599
Um multi-orgasmic, or is one good one enough?
00:27:56.640 --> 00:27:58.559
This is easy for me to answer.
00:27:58.799 --> 00:28:01.359
It's gonna be just a question though.
00:28:02.880 --> 00:28:04.160
Nah, how is it weird?
00:28:04.400 --> 00:28:05.200
How is it a weird question?
00:28:05.440 --> 00:28:08.160
Because it's like, are you multi-orgasmic?
00:28:09.039 --> 00:28:09.599
Yes.
00:28:10.079 --> 00:28:11.279
I am absolutely.
00:28:11.440 --> 00:28:13.200
I could go and go and go.
00:28:13.359 --> 00:28:18.160
Like the only thing that's gonna make me stop is like I just I am exhausted.
00:28:18.400 --> 00:28:21.680
And then, but the other question of that is, or is one good one enough?
00:28:21.759 --> 00:28:24.000
And it's like Oh yeah, those are two different questions.
00:28:24.240 --> 00:28:25.440
It's like, is one good one enough?
00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:29.839
Do you have one and you have to stop, or can you keep going?
00:28:30.079 --> 00:28:30.240
Right.
00:28:30.400 --> 00:28:36.240
Maybe the questions should be more like are you multi-orgasmic or do you tend to only have one and then you're done?
00:28:36.480 --> 00:28:36.880
I like that.
00:28:36.960 --> 00:28:37.440
That's better.
00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:38.000
Yeah.
00:28:38.240 --> 00:28:45.599
I am multi, and sometimes I'm like I just get greedy with my pleasure, and I don't I don't know.
00:28:46.319 --> 00:28:46.640
I'm okay.
00:28:46.880 --> 00:28:47.920
Right, last night I love that.
00:28:48.000 --> 00:28:49.119
It was example.
00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:51.519
I just I'm gonna keep taking, I'm gonna keep going.
00:28:51.680 --> 00:28:55.920
Like if you want to go um do something else, right?
00:28:56.160 --> 00:28:56.480
See ya.
00:28:56.720 --> 00:28:57.279
You gonna go read?
00:28:57.359 --> 00:28:57.599
Go ahead.
00:28:57.680 --> 00:28:58.880
I'm not done yet.
00:28:59.119 --> 00:29:00.079
And and I love that.
00:29:00.160 --> 00:29:16.960
And I think what I love about that for you too is like I don't even know sometimes, like you won't necessarily be done, but we'll be laying there and I'll maybe take a break and then I'll touch you or put fingers in you or whatever, and then you're there like again, like immediately.
00:29:17.039 --> 00:29:20.400
Like you can ride that high for a little bit, and I've I love that.
00:29:20.720 --> 00:29:26.640
What I as a guy I'm fucking jealous, but oh I'm I I can see I can see that.
00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:31.920
Um like yeah, being envious of just having that um the option.
00:29:32.160 --> 00:29:35.839
But like for me, like the first one is the hardest to get to.
00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:45.920
Yeah, there's so much of the tension that has to build and to get there, but then it's less and less, it takes less for subsequent um orgasms.
00:29:46.400 --> 00:29:52.640
And it doesn't for me, I don't think it matters what type it is or where it's what uh where it's coming from.
00:29:52.799 --> 00:29:56.720
It's like once it's there, it's like I I have access and I can keep going.
00:29:56.799 --> 00:29:58.079
It's like a wave.
00:29:59.119 --> 00:29:59.599
Yeah.
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:06.000
And I know not everyone can experiences that, and I um I feel like I'm fortunate for that.
00:30:06.400 --> 00:30:06.960
Yeah.
00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:12.240
But I don't even think you found out that you were multi-orgasmic until like a year ago.
00:30:12.480 --> 00:30:13.759
Yeah, a year or two years ago.
00:30:13.920 --> 00:30:15.279
Yeah, so you missed out on all that.
00:30:15.359 --> 00:30:16.559
So we're just making up for last time.
00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:17.599
Yeah, just waking up.
00:30:17.680 --> 00:30:17.920
That's right.
00:30:18.079 --> 00:30:20.559
Waking up for yeah, making up for lost time.
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:21.599
I'm like waking up.
00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:23.359
I am also waking up, yeah.
00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:25.200
Making and waking.
00:30:26.400 --> 00:30:30.160
So am I multi-orgasmic or is one good one enough?
00:30:30.400 --> 00:30:32.160
I don't think I have much choice in that.
00:30:32.319 --> 00:30:37.039
Like, I feel like most guys are single orgasmic.
00:30:37.200 --> 00:30:39.839
Now, recovery time is a whole different topic.
00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:41.920
Like, can you come again?
00:30:42.240 --> 00:30:46.000
Can you can he sh can Thor show up again?
00:30:46.720 --> 00:30:48.319
Um, but I still don't know.
00:30:48.480 --> 00:30:50.640
I don't consider that multi-orgasmic.
00:30:50.720 --> 00:31:07.039
I think if I have a break of 30 minutes and I'm going again and I'm excited, sure, I can probably have another orgasm, but it's nothing in comparison to you, where those orgasms can come like 30 seconds in between them, two two minutes in between them, three minutes in between them.
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:10.079
Like for me, no, you you gotta have recovery time.
00:31:10.240 --> 00:31:13.119
So am I is one good one enough?
00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:14.559
Yeah, absolutely.
00:31:14.880 --> 00:31:18.720
You're like, that's what I that's what's prescribed.
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:19.200
Yeah.
00:31:19.519 --> 00:31:31.759
So I I'm curious about um what we've learned um of like the ejaculation and orgasm can does not have to happen at the same time.
00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:46.400
It often does for gentlemen, often does, yeah, but they are two distinct actions that often they're associated with each other because often they occur at the same time.
00:31:46.720 --> 00:31:56.480
But men supposedly, according to Tantra or Sacred Sexuals, um, is that you can still have orgasms without ejaculating.
00:31:56.960 --> 00:31:59.519
I'm still waiting to find that out.
00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:02.079
We need to do some more practice.
00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:03.759
Okay.
00:32:04.079 --> 00:32:05.839
I'm game, but I have yet to see that.
00:32:06.160 --> 00:32:07.359
We've got to take a whole week off.
00:32:07.519 --> 00:32:09.039
We need some more time off.
00:32:11.039 --> 00:32:11.680
All right.
00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:12.880
Your turn.
00:32:14.880 --> 00:32:18.640
Oh, this is gonna take your mind to be creative.
00:32:19.039 --> 00:32:20.160
I'm gonna struggle with this question.
00:32:20.319 --> 00:32:20.559
Yeah, okay.
00:32:21.519 --> 00:32:22.400
But I'm deal with that.
00:32:23.279 --> 00:32:31.599
What do you think would be the hottest sexual position for a poor sum?
00:32:34.240 --> 00:32:51.200
Um, I still think I like I don't know that this will happen for us ever, but uh I still think one of the hottest positions in my mind is me fucking you from behind you again, this is where it won't happen.
00:32:51.359 --> 00:33:01.359
Your face in a pussy, and then the other guy is who's his cock is in the woman that you're eating the pussy.
00:33:01.519 --> 00:33:05.039
So I guess in reality, like like a daisy chain sort of situation.
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:05.839
Absolutely.
00:33:06.079 --> 00:33:23.359
The other the flip side of that is okay, so it knowing that you're not by and you're not gonna go down on somebody, like me fucking you, you sucking a dick, and then the other wife uh straddling the face of her partner, like all connected.
00:33:24.160 --> 00:33:26.640
That's yeah, that's hot to me.
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:37.599
Okay, or you know, vice versa, like you sitting on my face while I while I'm getting a blowjob, while the person giving me a blowjob is getting fucked.
00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:38.319
Like, that's hot.
00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:39.119
We're all connected.
00:33:40.319 --> 00:33:41.759
Yeah, yeah, that's a good yeah.
00:33:41.839 --> 00:33:42.880
I didn't think of that one.
00:33:43.119 --> 00:33:50.319
The one that popped into my head, I'm just trying to think of uh like I'm trying to do the math here, like okay, you got one person here.
00:33:51.440 --> 00:34:03.039
Um one that I thought of would be um woman um like in cowgirl.
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:11.920
It doesn't matter which way forward facing or not, the other straddling um face.
00:34:13.679 --> 00:34:15.519
So two women on one dude.
00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:16.159
Okay.
00:34:16.480 --> 00:34:16.800
Okay.
00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:25.920
And the one that's on someone's face, or the whatever one of the women are is giving a blowjob to the other guy.
00:34:26.159 --> 00:34:28.880
Okay, so I'm the guy on the bed.
00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:29.840
Yeah, so you can't.
00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:38.559
You're riding me, she's on my face, and she's sucking her partner's yeah, or I'm turned around the other way and doing the same thing.
00:34:38.960 --> 00:34:39.519
Oh, yeah.
00:34:39.760 --> 00:34:40.960
Little reverse cowgirl.
00:34:41.119 --> 00:34:42.320
Yeah, yeah, all right.
00:34:42.559 --> 00:34:44.079
So I'm I was thinking of that.
00:34:44.239 --> 00:34:44.719
There you go.
00:34:44.880 --> 00:34:47.119
But I I like that second one that you offered.
00:34:47.199 --> 00:34:48.000
That was interesting.
00:34:48.239 --> 00:34:48.480
Yeah.
00:34:49.599 --> 00:34:51.920
Monday I'm gonna I still I'm a guy.
00:34:52.159 --> 00:34:55.599
But also, like it doesn't have to all be around.
00:34:55.760 --> 00:34:59.679
I mean, there could be like kissing and then other stuff, but oh no.
00:34:59.840 --> 00:35:00.880
Yeah, okay, it's not as hot.
00:35:01.280 --> 00:35:02.000
It's not as hot, okay.
00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:04.159
Kissing is the build-up to the real thing.
00:35:05.440 --> 00:35:05.760
Okay.
00:35:06.239 --> 00:35:08.239
How much foreplay do you like?
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:09.920
All of it.
00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:12.800
I like a lot of foreplay.
00:35:12.880 --> 00:35:13.199
Yes.
00:35:13.360 --> 00:35:20.159
Like, if that's all we do, I mean, I consider that soft soft, I guess.
00:35:20.320 --> 00:35:21.599
Soft swapping.
00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:23.599
But I agree with that though.
00:35:23.679 --> 00:35:25.440
I think soft swap is foreplay.
00:35:25.679 --> 00:35:29.679
Like, yes, it is, but it's also soft swap is still sex.
00:35:30.960 --> 00:35:37.119
Um, I like even if it's like um hand sex, hand sex is still sex.
00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:40.719
Um, I love foreplay, love it.
00:35:40.880 --> 00:35:51.519
Like I I love dick, but if everyone's dick fell off or was not functioning as according that they wanted to.
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:57.599
Um, like some be like, uh dick didn't want to come out and play today.
00:35:57.679 --> 00:35:58.719
Like, that's okay.
00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:02.559
You have foreplay is amazing.
00:36:03.440 --> 00:36:04.639
Who's gonna say no to that?
00:36:05.039 --> 00:36:11.599
Maybe some people would say no, but um, I think you could have a sexual experience that is just that and is amazing.
00:36:11.679 --> 00:36:12.239
It's great.
00:36:12.400 --> 00:36:13.840
Yeah, absolutely.
00:36:14.079 --> 00:36:15.039
I love that.
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:17.039
Is that your answer?
00:36:17.599 --> 00:36:18.880
How much foreplay do I like?
00:36:19.039 --> 00:36:25.679
Yeah, well, like I'm uh I'm very much a giver, so I like as much foreplay as my partner wants.
00:36:25.760 --> 00:36:37.360
Like I could I could spend the night and enjoy it a hundred percent just going down on you, using my fingers on you, all of that.
00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:44.639
And if you had 20 orgasms, like that would be an amazing night if it if that's as far as it progressed.
00:36:44.960 --> 00:36:47.920
So I absolutely I love a lot of foreplay.
00:36:48.159 --> 00:36:56.239
For me, I think like when my dick is hard as can be, I don't need any more foreplay, and I just want to fuck something.
00:36:56.400 --> 00:36:58.400
So I you know, I love a lot of foreplay.
00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:04.719
I don't necessarily need a lot of foreplay, but I love it because I as a giver, that's who I am.
00:37:05.119 --> 00:37:05.440
Okay.
00:37:05.840 --> 00:37:08.480
Do I make sense or is that you think I'm coping enough?
00:37:09.119 --> 00:37:11.599
I am like, I want to push back a little bit.
00:37:11.760 --> 00:37:12.239
Go ahead.
00:37:12.480 --> 00:37:23.360
Um, because like that's cool that you're a giver, but oftentimes your partner's gonna want to give too.
00:37:23.679 --> 00:37:24.159
Yeah.
00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:24.880
Sure.
00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:30.800
So, like, how is that do you still enjoy foreplay when you are receiving?
00:37:32.239 --> 00:37:33.199
I do.
00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:45.280
I think you know me, like I still struggle in the receiving part, so I'm probably more in my head as I'm receiving during foreplay.
00:37:45.440 --> 00:37:47.119
But that's also like oral, right?
00:37:47.199 --> 00:37:48.400
Like kissing and all that stuff.
00:37:48.480 --> 00:37:49.760
Like, I absolutely love that.
00:37:50.079 --> 00:38:02.159
Because I like to give, and if I don't get uh an opportunity to, then like it kind of sucks because I like I take pleasure from giving and receiving.
00:38:02.239 --> 00:38:06.719
Yeah, and I yeah, it's it's a bummer when it doesn't happen.
00:38:07.039 --> 00:38:09.280
I think I love I I do enjoy it.
00:38:09.360 --> 00:38:13.119
Like, who doesn't like a good blowjob and a good hand job and all of that stuff?
00:38:13.199 --> 00:38:20.559
I think it's more about for me at least, like, are you really you've been doing this for 10 minutes.
00:38:20.960 --> 00:38:22.800
You don't have to do it longer.
00:38:22.960 --> 00:38:27.440
Are you doing it because you want to do it or because you think like it needs to keep going?
00:38:27.599 --> 00:38:39.039
So I that's where I struggle a little bit in my head is when it gets to a certain point, are you trying to produce a result or are you just enjoying yourself done?
00:38:39.280 --> 00:38:40.000
No, I get that.
00:38:40.239 --> 00:38:56.400
And also I can see that playing into like if you're not fully erect, possibly or the person's not fully erect, and some in in the woman's like working on trying that, it's like like it's gonna help anyway.
00:38:56.480 --> 00:38:57.920
It's not going to help, probably.
00:38:58.079 --> 00:38:58.559
Yeah.
00:38:58.719 --> 00:39:00.559
Um, gonna go the other way, right?
00:39:02.639 --> 00:39:04.480
So it's to hide because it needs safety.
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:16.880
Yeah, and I can see that would be more pressure, more could be, could be some uh it I'm just not everyone's that way, but it could be more pressure.
00:39:17.039 --> 00:39:17.360
Yeah.
00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:25.119
But I just want you and other gentlemen to know women like to give.
00:39:26.159 --> 00:39:32.079
We don't all feel like we have to, and it's like, oh, this is and I go back to like the script, this is what you're supposed to do.
00:39:34.159 --> 00:39:41.119
I like to give, I like to receive, but I like to give, like yeah, like 50-50.
00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:47.840
All right, don't deny me this.
00:39:48.239 --> 00:39:49.119
There you go.
00:39:51.360 --> 00:39:51.920
Your turn.
00:39:52.159 --> 00:39:52.480
Oh.
00:39:53.199 --> 00:39:54.480
I'm like, my turn again?
00:39:55.039 --> 00:39:57.360
Typical, typical Trinity.
00:39:57.519 --> 00:39:58.079
All right.
00:39:58.719 --> 00:40:03.199
On average Oh, get your get your timer out.
00:40:03.599 --> 00:40:04.320
Okay, I got it.
00:40:04.639 --> 00:40:07.920
On average, how long does it take you to reach orgasm?
00:40:12.559 --> 00:40:13.760
It depends.
00:40:14.079 --> 00:40:15.280
Yeah, it really does depend.
00:40:15.360 --> 00:40:16.960
Like, have you been drinking?
00:40:17.119 --> 00:40:20.000
Are you in a live stream situation, all this stuff?
00:40:20.079 --> 00:40:21.840
Like, there's so much that goes into it.
00:40:22.159 --> 00:40:29.840
This question if I go into the bathroom and watch some porn, how long does it take me to watch to reach orgasm?
00:40:30.400 --> 00:40:31.360
Three minutes.
00:40:31.519 --> 00:40:38.320
I mean, like, that's the joke around like hotel movies and stuff, is you only watch this movie for four minutes.
00:40:38.480 --> 00:40:39.440
Well, yeah, okay.
00:40:40.239 --> 00:40:41.679
Because you're reaching a goal.
00:40:42.639 --> 00:40:51.360
If it's you and me playing, it could be anywhere from like 15 minutes to an hour and a half, like it just depends.
00:40:52.320 --> 00:41:01.199
But I think also the whole thing around that is coming back to terms with that in itself doesn't have to be the goal.
00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:09.280
Like, there's a whole lot of fun and a whole lot of pleasure in just sex, and if you don't have an orgasm, you still have great sex.
00:41:09.599 --> 00:41:11.360
Yeah, you will later.
00:41:11.599 --> 00:41:21.119
Yeah, so I think my my average, if I had to like guess 20 minutes, I would say that.
00:41:21.280 --> 00:41:22.639
And there's a lot longer, there's a lot.
00:41:23.280 --> 00:41:27.760
Yeah, you I think you pace yourself, like yeah, with B when we're together.
00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:28.559
Well, yeah.
00:41:28.719 --> 00:41:31.440
Yeah, you want to keep it, you don't want to good times the end.
00:41:31.760 --> 00:41:38.079
I'm not there just to have an orgasm, I'm there to like pleasure you and pleasure myself at the same time.
00:41:38.159 --> 00:41:38.719
So yeah.
00:41:39.599 --> 00:41:39.920
Yeah.
00:41:40.079 --> 00:41:40.719
How about you?
00:41:40.960 --> 00:41:42.400
I I like your answer there.
00:41:42.559 --> 00:41:46.960
Um, if I'm like solo, yeah, right.
00:41:47.119 --> 00:41:54.320
I'm using like like vibe, something that's vibrating that's beyond human capacity.
00:41:54.639 --> 00:41:57.840
So of course it's gonna be like quick, yeah, quick-ish.
00:41:58.400 --> 00:41:59.360
I was quick-ish.
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:02.960
I want you know, I'm gonna take a oh I'm sorry, I'm gonna break in.
00:42:03.599 --> 00:42:03.760
Okay.
00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:07.440
I remember we had a competition in the car once.
00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:09.760
Who can have an orgasm for this?
00:42:10.079 --> 00:42:14.000
I forgot about but we were driving, so let's I don't care.
00:42:14.159 --> 00:42:16.639
Like sometimes I do that when I'm driving.
00:42:16.960 --> 00:42:18.480
Are there other guys that don't?
00:42:18.559 --> 00:42:19.119
I I don't know.
00:42:19.360 --> 00:42:22.480
I don't know, but I'm just saying you had an extra level of difficulty.
00:42:22.719 --> 00:42:27.599
Okay, but I'm still shocked at how quickly, unless you faked it, and I still don't believe you faked it.
00:42:27.679 --> 00:42:28.800
I still believe it was real.
00:42:28.960 --> 00:42:30.159
I can't believe you beat me.
00:42:30.239 --> 00:42:32.960
Like, I just figure it would have taken you a lot longer.
00:42:33.199 --> 00:42:34.960
Well, I had batteries on my side.
00:42:35.199 --> 00:42:35.599
You did.
00:42:36.159 --> 00:42:37.199
It was fucking hot too.
00:42:37.360 --> 00:42:38.639
Yeah, I had a machine.
00:42:38.880 --> 00:42:40.239
Okay, sorry, I digress.
00:42:40.480 --> 00:42:41.280
You are the machine.
00:42:41.519 --> 00:42:41.920
So for you.
00:42:42.079 --> 00:42:42.800
I had a machine.
00:42:42.960 --> 00:42:50.719
So for you, how long on average, and let's just say outside of outside of by okay, outside of masturbation.
00:42:50.960 --> 00:42:54.639
Um which I love watching.
00:42:55.280 --> 00:42:55.920
I know.
00:42:56.239 --> 00:43:12.639
Um, you know what this really depends on sometimes it doesn't happen um on how relaxed my body is, kind of my um mindset.
00:43:12.960 --> 00:43:14.960
Well, it's not like it doesn't happen great.
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:16.800
It yeah, absolutely, it doesn't always happen for me.
00:43:16.960 --> 00:43:18.480
But when you do have them.
00:43:18.960 --> 00:43:20.400
Oh man, that's so hard.
00:43:20.559 --> 00:43:30.000
I I don't know because when we're having sex, I go into like because I am a sensual, um what do they call it?
00:43:30.079 --> 00:43:42.880
Like the energetic um sexual, and I go like in a trance and I lose all sense of reality, and I have no idea how long.
00:43:43.119 --> 00:43:44.239
Yeah, I don't know.
00:43:44.400 --> 00:43:45.519
Time bends.
00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:50.880
Um, like honestly, like neo and trinity, I we are in the matrix.
00:43:50.960 --> 00:43:52.079
I'm bending time.
00:43:52.800 --> 00:43:54.000
I don't even know that was part of this.
00:43:55.679 --> 00:43:57.280
But you you probably know better than I do.
00:43:57.679 --> 00:43:59.039
Thirty minutes average.
00:43:59.280 --> 00:44:01.039
Yeah, just Most of the time, it's a little bit longer.
00:44:01.280 --> 00:44:02.800
You just cannot move and change anything.
00:44:03.039 --> 00:44:07.519
Yeah, I'd say th I say about 30 minutes, you can get there.
00:44:07.840 --> 00:44:14.639
But I would say our very first play experience, my play partner had he brought me to orgasm like so quickly.
00:44:14.960 --> 00:44:16.800
He was so fucking shocked.
00:44:16.960 --> 00:44:18.079
I was shocked too.
00:44:18.400 --> 00:44:23.440
And I'm like, he didn't do anything like special.
00:44:23.679 --> 00:44:24.639
I just I don't know.
00:44:24.800 --> 00:44:25.760
Well, obviously he did.
00:44:25.840 --> 00:44:26.800
You just didn't think it was.
00:44:26.960 --> 00:44:32.239
I was like, yeah, it was special, I guess, but like nothing like I was so you can look up on this.
00:44:35.199 --> 00:44:36.800
She's really having orgasm right now.
00:44:37.039 --> 00:44:39.599
Yeah, that the one and only time since, yeah.
00:44:40.480 --> 00:44:41.039
For you.
00:44:41.280 --> 00:44:41.679
All right.
00:44:41.920 --> 00:44:43.519
So yeah, I want to go back to that.
00:44:43.599 --> 00:44:47.599
Like, orgasm is not the goal in a play situation.
00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:49.840
It is not for me, it's not for you.
00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:50.239
No.
00:44:50.639 --> 00:44:50.880
No.
00:44:51.119 --> 00:44:52.800
We are definitely going to have one later, though.
00:44:54.639 --> 00:44:58.400
Describe a favorite or funny sexual memory.
00:44:58.639 --> 00:45:01.199
I already know mine, but you're gonna go first.
00:45:02.159 --> 00:45:02.800
Hmm.
00:45:03.840 --> 00:45:06.320
This is one of those questions that like puts me on the spot.
00:45:06.400 --> 00:45:11.679
And I'm like, I don't have any sexual memories, um, which is not true.
00:45:11.920 --> 00:45:16.400
Um, I'm gonna go first then, and I'm gonna give you time to think about that one.
00:45:16.639 --> 00:45:18.239
I'm gonna say probably, yeah.
00:45:19.039 --> 00:45:21.039
I'm gonna say like farting during sex.
00:45:21.199 --> 00:45:25.280
Oh my probably God, that was not that was recently.
00:45:25.519 --> 00:45:26.480
Was it recently?
00:45:26.719 --> 00:45:29.119
That was recently, but also queefing.
00:45:29.920 --> 00:45:34.639
And I know like it does happen, but the first time it did, it was like, say what?
00:45:34.800 --> 00:45:36.000
And I was like, you know what?
00:45:36.880 --> 00:45:49.039
Doggy style is just it happens sometimes, certain like ankles, it it just doesn't arousal, how much it makes me it still makes me laugh and go like, oh my gosh.
00:45:49.199 --> 00:45:50.559
But it's like, yeah, whatever.
00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:52.960
Yeah, that would I was that's my answer.
00:45:53.199 --> 00:45:56.159
I don't know what you're gonna say.
00:45:56.480 --> 00:45:59.519
My favorite, my favorite's always been my favorite.
00:45:59.679 --> 00:46:03.840
We lived in we lived overseas for a while.
00:46:04.079 --> 00:46:05.760
Wait, what was the question again?
00:46:06.000 --> 00:46:09.119
Describe your favorite or funny sexual membership.
00:46:09.280 --> 00:46:13.920
Oh, there's a choice funny.
00:46:14.320 --> 00:46:17.039
Yeah, because you like funny, so that was good.
00:46:17.280 --> 00:46:18.400
Okay, we'll keep that.
00:46:18.639 --> 00:46:30.079
Okay, my favorite was we lived overseas for a bit, and every night I would always tell Trinity in our whole marriage, like, if you are feeling randy in the middle of the night, wake me up.
00:46:30.239 --> 00:46:31.519
I think a lot of guys do that.
00:46:31.679 --> 00:46:33.519
Like, hey, wake me up, I'm here.
00:46:33.920 --> 00:46:35.360
Doesn't matter what time it is.
00:46:35.599 --> 00:46:38.639
And this one night you actually took me up on it.
00:46:38.719 --> 00:46:42.480
I think it was like two in the morning, one in the morning, something.
00:46:42.639 --> 00:46:47.199
You woke me up and we had amazing sex that night.
00:46:47.440 --> 00:47:01.760
And that I think will always be my favorite memory because that was when I still like we were still kids in the house, like full parenting mode.
00:47:02.000 --> 00:47:11.360
And it was the first time where you did that where I felt like okay, she actually likes to have sex, and it was hot, and that will always be my favorite.
00:47:11.679 --> 00:47:17.039
And I want to point out from like card question number two a spontaneous.
00:47:17.360 --> 00:47:19.039
Spontaneous, that's exactly right.
00:47:19.119 --> 00:47:19.920
Good job.
00:47:20.320 --> 00:47:21.920
All right, your turn.
00:47:26.400 --> 00:47:30.239
Okay, so there's I got some there's some failings on my part on this question.
00:47:30.480 --> 00:47:33.039
Um I like to read pre-read the question before I say it.
00:47:33.679 --> 00:47:38.159
Do you enjoy any kind of anal play, either giving or receiving?
00:47:38.559 --> 00:47:39.119
Yes.
00:47:40.880 --> 00:47:41.519
Yeah.
00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:42.480
Yep.
00:47:42.639 --> 00:47:43.199
Yep.
00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:45.119
Yes.
00:47:45.920 --> 00:47:50.480
I love anal play with Trinity.
00:47:50.719 --> 00:47:54.880
Um, I I I thought it was I forget.
00:47:55.039 --> 00:48:01.280
I'm not even gonna go into it, but somebody described it like oh yeah, a Wrangler on on Reddit or something.
00:48:01.760 --> 00:48:03.840
Versus I don't know.
00:48:04.159 --> 00:48:06.719
A sports car or a luxury sedan.
00:48:07.519 --> 00:48:14.639
The sports car being the mouth, luxury sedan being the pussy, and then a cheap Wrangler.
00:48:14.719 --> 00:48:21.679
And then it's a little rough, like a Wrangler where it's a little rough and always breaking down and not all that great, but you do like to take it out once in a while.
00:48:21.920 --> 00:48:24.239
Because it is an adventure, yes, it is.
00:48:24.480 --> 00:48:28.559
Um, so I do like anal play, even hate to say it.
00:48:28.639 --> 00:48:30.159
Like, well, I don't hate to say it.
00:48:30.239 --> 00:48:32.079
Like I like it.
00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:33.840
Like I like it for me too.
00:48:34.079 --> 00:48:34.800
Yeah, yeah.
00:48:35.119 --> 00:48:38.000
I mean, it's right, it's the prostate's like right there.
00:48:38.079 --> 00:48:41.920
So yeah, but I've never had a prostate orgasm.
00:48:42.000 --> 00:48:48.800
Like I've tried some of that, and maybe we'll meet somebody that will do that for you.
00:48:49.039 --> 00:48:54.320
I feel like yeah, but I don't know that anybody does that for me or for a person.
00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:59.360
It is reaching that spot, and I feel like I've done it, and I okay.
00:48:59.679 --> 00:49:01.440
Okay, yeah.
00:49:01.599 --> 00:49:03.039
So, yes, for me.
00:49:04.320 --> 00:49:12.159
Um, I uh geez, I just smacked my lips into the mic.
00:49:12.320 --> 00:49:15.199
Um trying to be really aware of that.
00:49:15.519 --> 00:49:17.039
It's not a penis, baby.
00:49:17.519 --> 00:49:18.320
Yeah, me.
00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:19.440
Okay.
00:49:20.159 --> 00:49:28.239
Um I surprisingly do, and I say surprisingly, because we did this questionnaire.
00:49:28.960 --> 00:49:31.599
Oh, Susan, what's her name?
00:49:31.679 --> 00:49:33.519
Susan Barrett Barrett.
00:49:34.000 --> 00:49:38.480
Um widely known like in the sex positive community.
00:49:38.639 --> 00:49:44.639
Um, but she has this like question, like, look, have this printout, like go through this with your partner.
00:49:45.280 --> 00:49:46.480
You mark it.
00:49:46.559 --> 00:49:48.800
Um, yes, I'm interested.
00:49:49.039 --> 00:49:53.599
Um not yet.
00:49:54.159 --> 00:49:55.440
Yeah, it was like yes or not.
00:49:55.840 --> 00:49:57.840
Or yes, maybe never.
00:49:58.239 --> 00:50:00.320
No, it's not they don't, she just not a never.
00:50:00.639 --> 00:50:01.280
But you get it.
00:50:01.440 --> 00:50:02.320
It was like not yet.
00:50:02.400 --> 00:50:08.800
And it was like, okay, anal's definitely gonna be a not yet, because I really want to say never, because that's the exit.
00:50:09.199 --> 00:50:10.880
Things don't go in the exit.
00:50:11.039 --> 00:50:13.519
I'm sorry, it's not the entrance, it's the exit.
00:50:13.760 --> 00:50:15.360
Um, but I do like that.
00:50:15.440 --> 00:50:25.280
Um, I think it to receive, it um enhances um it's just kind of enhancing.
00:50:25.519 --> 00:50:28.880
And then giving, I have a hang up on that.
00:50:28.960 --> 00:50:30.000
I absolutely do.
00:50:30.159 --> 00:50:31.519
I just do it, do it, do.
00:50:32.159 --> 00:50:45.039
Um I have tried it a couple times with like a finger, um, but I'm really cautious because I don't I know what it's like to be on the receiving end, so I want to make sure that I'm not causing like the Wrangler.
00:50:45.519 --> 00:50:48.800
I don't want it to be rough, a rough ride.
00:50:49.119 --> 00:50:54.079
Um, so I want it to be like gentle as possible.
00:50:54.559 --> 00:50:58.320
Yeah, so I'm really sucky at giving on that.
00:50:58.880 --> 00:51:00.000
Um, yeah.
00:51:00.239 --> 00:51:00.320
Okay.
00:51:00.960 --> 00:51:09.840
Receiving um like a finger is absolutely um having like penetr like like dick.
00:51:10.000 --> 00:51:11.519
No, it's not my favorite.
00:51:11.599 --> 00:51:12.639
I don't really care for it that much.
00:51:14.159 --> 00:51:20.559
Yeah, it's just been okay once or twice, but most of the time it's it's not my favorite.
00:51:20.880 --> 00:51:22.000
Mescal helps.
00:51:22.159 --> 00:51:22.800
Yeah.
00:51:23.119 --> 00:51:25.679
You super, like super relaxed.
00:51:25.920 --> 00:51:26.480
I think that's it.
00:51:26.639 --> 00:51:33.599
You gotta go super slow, like it's a lot of work, like ten times the amount of lube you think you're gonna need.
00:51:33.679 --> 00:51:34.880
And it's like, you know what?
00:51:34.960 --> 00:51:38.239
I got this vagina that's ready to go.
00:51:38.719 --> 00:51:40.000
Why don't we just use that?
00:51:40.239 --> 00:51:40.719
Yeah.
00:51:41.599 --> 00:51:41.920
Okay.
00:51:42.159 --> 00:51:42.480
Okay.
00:51:42.639 --> 00:51:45.920
Name a sexual position you'd like to try.
00:51:46.719 --> 00:52:02.239
I feel like I've tried the ones that I know of, so I don't know when to try unless it's like um some acrobat thing, and then I'm not sure I really want to try that because I'm not really acrobatic.
00:52:02.719 --> 00:52:03.039
Okay.
00:52:03.760 --> 00:52:04.480
That's the answer.
00:52:04.880 --> 00:52:07.280
That my answer is I don't have one, I guess.
00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:07.920
Okay.
00:52:08.159 --> 00:52:12.639
My answer, and maybe it's not fair, but it's my answer is still that for you.
00:52:13.039 --> 00:52:14.960
But it all starts with a D.
00:52:15.519 --> 00:52:20.880
Oh, D V P or just D P.
00:52:21.440 --> 00:52:21.920
One of them.
00:52:23.039 --> 00:52:24.559
But I think it's all the right.
00:52:25.199 --> 00:52:26.239
I'm not interested in that.
00:52:26.480 --> 00:52:27.039
I know you're not.
00:52:27.280 --> 00:52:28.159
Absolutely not.
00:52:28.480 --> 00:52:31.119
But that is one that I would like to do.
00:52:31.280 --> 00:52:31.760
Oh, yeah.
00:52:31.840 --> 00:52:32.079
Yeah.
00:52:32.239 --> 00:52:32.480
Yep.
00:52:32.639 --> 00:52:33.599
You get your own answer.
00:52:33.920 --> 00:52:34.559
That's damn good.
00:52:34.960 --> 00:52:36.000
You get your own answer.
00:52:36.159 --> 00:52:44.559
And who knows, maybe, maybe, in a given situation, it could be something that you want to try in a moment, but you know, it's like on that list.
00:52:44.800 --> 00:52:47.119
It wasn't on that list, but it could have been not yet.
00:52:47.360 --> 00:52:47.920
That's right.
00:52:48.000 --> 00:52:48.400
Yeah.
00:52:48.719 --> 00:52:54.000
Yeah, because I think you just you said like you just saw that recently when we watched something.
00:52:54.079 --> 00:52:56.800
You're like, oh, I'd never seen that before.
00:52:57.119 --> 00:53:03.039
Oh, is that game show one from oh my gosh, what is that called?
00:53:03.199 --> 00:53:04.079
That game show.
00:53:04.559 --> 00:53:05.679
I I forget.
00:53:05.920 --> 00:53:09.039
It's the German kind of I can't remember.
00:53:09.599 --> 00:53:10.159
Anyway, yeah.
00:53:10.320 --> 00:53:12.719
Yeah, it's interesting show if you catch that one.
00:53:13.039 --> 00:53:13.360
Okay.
00:53:14.159 --> 00:53:15.760
Now, go ahead.
00:53:16.320 --> 00:53:24.159
If you had to pick, would you rather a few quickies a week or one long marathon session?
00:53:24.480 --> 00:53:25.760
One long marathon session.
00:53:26.480 --> 00:53:26.880
Really?
00:53:27.280 --> 00:53:27.679
Really?
00:53:27.920 --> 00:53:35.440
Yeah, quickies are okay, but I still feel like when I have a quickie, usually that means I've had an orgasm.
00:53:35.679 --> 00:53:39.440
And I feel like that's when you're like, hey, you're tense.
00:53:39.519 --> 00:53:42.480
Let's fuck and let's get this out of your system and and go.
00:53:42.559 --> 00:53:45.360
And I feel like I've cheated you in quickies.
00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:45.760
Yeah.
00:53:45.920 --> 00:53:48.079
Because I think quickies, you don't get off.
00:53:48.239 --> 00:53:49.039
You enjoy them.
00:53:49.119 --> 00:53:49.599
You've said that.
00:53:49.840 --> 00:53:52.480
Yeah, I enjoy them, but I'm I won't orgasm.
00:53:52.639 --> 00:53:52.800
Yeah.
00:53:52.960 --> 00:53:55.760
So I would like a long marathon session once a week.
00:53:56.239 --> 00:53:58.000
And that would give me a week to recover.
00:53:58.639 --> 00:53:59.199
Yeah.
00:53:59.760 --> 00:54:00.239
Yeah.
00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:02.639
Store store pianity.
00:54:02.960 --> 00:54:03.679
What about you?
00:54:04.000 --> 00:54:07.679
Um, I don't know, because I do like quickies.
00:54:09.360 --> 00:54:19.119
Um, and I think like having a few during the week can be great like connection and I do like that.
00:54:19.280 --> 00:54:21.440
Um the connection piece is awesome.
00:54:21.760 --> 00:54:28.320
Like kind of tension reduction can be great stress reliever.
00:54:28.480 --> 00:54:28.880
Yeah.
00:54:29.119 --> 00:54:33.280
Um, yeah, so I think there's benefit from well, there absolutely is.
00:54:33.519 --> 00:54:36.800
Aside from orgasm, because we said they're not the goal.
00:54:37.039 --> 00:54:39.760
Um but if you have between the two.
00:54:40.159 --> 00:54:46.960
I know you kind of like, hey, this is not fair, and you don't want me to miss out, but like I still have a great time.
00:54:47.280 --> 00:54:54.400
I know the long marathon session, I gotta say that sometimes it's like I enjoy them.
00:54:54.880 --> 00:54:55.679
Absolutely.
00:54:55.920 --> 00:55:01.920
But knowing the amount of time that takes is like, ah, that's a lot of time out of my day.
00:55:02.079 --> 00:55:04.960
Even if you be doing with time.
00:55:05.360 --> 00:55:08.000
Like if we're not doing something, it's like, oh great.
00:55:08.159 --> 00:55:10.400
But if it's like, hey, we have some things to do today.
00:55:10.639 --> 00:55:14.000
Well, I get that uh it just seems like that's a lot of pressure.
00:55:14.400 --> 00:55:15.360
How many times is that?
00:55:15.440 --> 00:55:18.239
I'm curious how many times that you think that's happened for us, though.
00:55:18.320 --> 00:55:20.000
Where we've had a shit ton of stuff to do.
00:55:20.400 --> 00:55:21.920
No, we don't ever have a shit ton of stuff to do.
00:55:22.079 --> 00:55:22.480
That's right.
00:55:22.880 --> 00:55:25.679
Because I do not want to have a ton of stuff to do.
00:55:25.920 --> 00:55:26.239
That's right.
00:55:26.719 --> 00:55:27.440
It's called wisdom.
00:55:28.880 --> 00:55:29.360
No way.
00:55:30.239 --> 00:55:30.960
If I can help it.
00:55:31.199 --> 00:55:32.719
And what's a marathon or do you?
00:55:33.920 --> 00:55:36.159
Like uh an hour.
00:55:37.199 --> 00:55:41.199
I was thinking two hours, but oh, um an hour beyond and beyond.
00:55:41.360 --> 00:55:41.519
Yeah.
00:55:41.679 --> 00:55:42.000
Yeah.
00:55:42.159 --> 00:55:42.400
Okay.
00:55:42.639 --> 00:55:47.360
Like uh I think there's something in between that, between quickie and marathon.
00:55:47.440 --> 00:55:49.599
There's something, there's something in between that too.
00:55:49.920 --> 00:55:51.199
I'll get the kind of standard.
00:55:51.440 --> 00:55:52.000
I'll get a timer.
00:55:52.239 --> 00:55:53.599
Standard 45 minutes.
00:55:53.760 --> 00:55:55.280
Yeah, that to me is great.
00:55:55.519 --> 00:55:56.079
40 minutes.
00:55:56.320 --> 00:55:56.800
Wonderful.
00:55:57.519 --> 00:55:58.639
Everyone gets what they want.
00:55:58.800 --> 00:55:59.119
Okay.
00:55:59.440 --> 00:56:00.239
In that session.
00:56:00.559 --> 00:56:02.480
There's more than a quickie and a marathon.
00:56:02.719 --> 00:56:05.599
So you your preference would be somewhere in the middle?
00:56:05.840 --> 00:56:06.480
Yes.
00:56:07.360 --> 00:56:07.679
Okay.
00:56:08.000 --> 00:56:09.119
But that wasn't the question.
00:56:09.360 --> 00:56:10.880
I yeah, but I learned something here tonight.
00:56:11.360 --> 00:56:12.239
Yeah, something in the middle.
00:56:12.400 --> 00:56:12.960
All right.
00:56:13.519 --> 00:56:14.079
All right.
00:56:14.320 --> 00:56:24.320
Because it's like, if I was asked, like, hey, or like you were saying, oh, does that have a wonderful, like, let's just have sex all day on Saturday?
00:56:24.400 --> 00:56:31.519
I might be like, that's the romantic part of that, romanticizing part of that.
00:56:32.239 --> 00:56:32.480
Yeah.
00:56:32.639 --> 00:56:34.320
But then it's like, mmm.
00:56:34.800 --> 00:56:35.599
Are we done yet?
00:56:35.760 --> 00:56:36.400
Is there pizza?
00:56:36.639 --> 00:56:38.960
Is there well, what if there is pizza or tacos?
00:56:39.440 --> 00:56:40.880
So you can have food in between.
00:56:41.119 --> 00:56:41.679
Well, yeah.
00:56:41.840 --> 00:56:49.039
And we've had that, like like on vacations or sometimes random times on the weekend or something.
00:56:49.280 --> 00:56:54.480
But if that's all every week, mmm, no, that's work.
00:56:54.639 --> 00:56:55.760
That's called work.
00:56:56.079 --> 00:56:57.039
I get that.
00:56:57.519 --> 00:56:58.159
All right.
00:56:58.480 --> 00:57:00.800
Um I don't know.
00:57:00.880 --> 00:57:02.960
We've we're oh we're getting along.
00:57:03.039 --> 00:57:04.159
Oh, we're getting up there in time.
00:57:04.480 --> 00:57:04.639
Okay.
00:57:04.719 --> 00:57:05.760
Well, let's let's do it.
00:57:06.079 --> 00:57:06.400
Let's see.
00:57:07.599 --> 00:57:11.840
Do you ever mentally strip strangers just for kicks?
00:57:13.760 --> 00:57:14.079
Oh.
00:57:14.800 --> 00:57:16.320
Have you ever done that?
00:57:17.199 --> 00:57:17.519
No.
00:57:18.000 --> 00:57:19.360
I knew it.
00:57:20.000 --> 00:57:21.039
You've never done it.
00:57:21.280 --> 00:57:21.599
No.
00:57:21.920 --> 00:57:25.920
Because uh I feel like they you guys all look the same.
00:57:26.400 --> 00:57:27.519
A penis looks like a penis.
00:57:28.320 --> 00:57:28.960
It's a penis.
00:57:29.199 --> 00:57:33.920
Okay, different size, like, but like same one, you see them all.
00:57:34.159 --> 00:57:36.800
You might be more interested to see what the butt cheeks look like.
00:57:37.039 --> 00:57:37.199
Okay.
00:57:37.599 --> 00:57:37.920
Butts.
00:57:38.239 --> 00:57:38.559
Yeah.
00:57:38.800 --> 00:57:40.400
But mentally strip, no.
00:57:41.199 --> 00:57:48.480
Cause if I yeah, because if I can see arms and kind of a gauge the chest, I'm like, okay, I have all I need, all the information I need.
00:57:48.719 --> 00:57:49.039
Okay.
00:57:50.159 --> 00:57:53.519
I don't know that I ever have.
00:57:56.480 --> 00:57:57.920
So I don't know.
00:57:58.239 --> 00:58:00.960
Um I don't think so.
00:58:01.280 --> 00:58:01.440
Really?
00:58:02.079 --> 00:58:04.239
I've ever mentally stripped anybody.
00:58:04.480 --> 00:58:07.440
Because are you saying that because you don't want to be like a creep?
00:58:07.599 --> 00:58:08.960
No, no, not at all.
00:58:09.119 --> 00:58:09.280
Okay.
00:58:09.519 --> 00:58:15.519
I'm trying to think of a have because I think for then, like the only people in my mind, this is back to like dreaming.
00:58:15.760 --> 00:58:20.239
When you dream and you're having sex with somebody else, like I don't see any faces.
00:58:20.559 --> 00:58:20.960
Mm-hmm.
00:58:21.039 --> 00:58:22.000
I'm I'm the same way.
00:58:22.239 --> 00:58:26.880
So when I'm thinking about have I stripped anybody in my mind, I don't think so.
00:58:28.559 --> 00:58:32.559
Um I just admire them typically.
00:58:32.719 --> 00:58:40.480
Like I, if somebody's wearing some fucking hot ass yoga pants on a nice ass, like I don't picture the ass underneath it.
00:58:40.559 --> 00:58:42.559
I just oh you're just admiring what you're seeing.
00:58:42.719 --> 00:58:43.119
Absolutely.
00:58:43.440 --> 00:58:44.960
Okay, could that was gonna be my question?
00:58:45.039 --> 00:58:50.400
If you saw somebody yoga pants, ladies in a nice tush, and you're like, ooh, yeah, yeah.
00:58:50.639 --> 00:58:51.920
Like that right there is enough.
00:58:52.320 --> 00:58:52.559
Right.
00:58:52.719 --> 00:58:53.119
Absolutely.
00:58:53.199 --> 00:58:54.960
I don't picture what's underneath it.
00:58:55.599 --> 00:58:58.880
How about um how about tits?
00:59:00.800 --> 00:59:01.360
Same thing.
00:59:01.599 --> 00:59:03.519
That's hard to gauge because there's so much padding.
00:59:03.679 --> 00:59:04.320
Same thing.
00:59:04.480 --> 00:59:07.679
Like you look great in your top or you don't.
00:59:07.840 --> 00:59:08.800
Like it doesn't matter.
00:59:09.199 --> 00:59:10.719
I'm not picturing what's underneath there.
00:59:10.960 --> 00:59:13.119
So you're not just kind of like delete, clothes.
00:59:13.519 --> 00:59:14.000
Not me.
00:59:14.159 --> 00:59:14.480
Okay.
00:59:14.719 --> 00:59:15.039
Oh.
00:59:16.000 --> 00:59:16.400
Uh-oh.
00:59:16.880 --> 00:59:17.199
Okay.
00:59:18.000 --> 00:59:23.199
Um not that I not that I wouldn't, you know, in my mind think I would like to tap that ass.
00:59:23.440 --> 00:59:24.400
Well, that's different, right?
00:59:24.559 --> 00:59:25.920
That's like, oh, that person.
00:59:26.159 --> 00:59:26.320
Yeah.
00:59:26.639 --> 00:59:29.519
But trying to remove clothing removal.
00:59:29.599 --> 00:59:31.360
I think what's this person to look like without clothes?
00:59:31.760 --> 00:59:37.599
If I tried that, even as I'm looking at you right now, just I lose the face.
00:59:38.960 --> 00:59:44.159
And I think you know, for me, like I don't see it anymore.
00:59:44.400 --> 00:59:44.960
That's interesting.
00:59:45.280 --> 00:59:46.079
Kind of fades away.
00:59:46.320 --> 00:59:47.360
I feel like I'm gonna.
00:59:47.440 --> 00:59:50.079
This is my new like experiment, social experiment.
00:59:50.320 --> 00:59:51.840
You're gonna walk around stripping people in your mind?
00:59:52.000 --> 00:59:53.199
I'm just gonna be like, can I?
00:59:53.360 --> 00:59:54.800
I don't think I can.
00:59:55.119 --> 00:59:57.920
It's a little I'm like, eh, I don't want to.
00:59:58.960 --> 01:00:00.639
Like, there's no appeal to me.
01:00:00.960 --> 01:00:02.320
Yeah, I get that.
01:00:03.039 --> 01:00:04.159
What do you got?
01:00:06.239 --> 01:00:10.880
Have you ever had sex with someone whose name you never knew?
01:00:12.960 --> 01:00:13.280
No.
01:00:14.400 --> 01:00:16.239
What about in your dreams?
01:00:16.480 --> 01:00:17.519
They don't have a face.
01:00:17.840 --> 01:00:20.159
Well, okay, but have I ever had sex with them?
01:00:20.559 --> 01:00:20.880
No.
01:00:21.760 --> 01:00:22.719
So the answer is no.
01:00:22.800 --> 01:00:25.840
I've never had sex with somebody whose name I didn't know.
01:00:26.159 --> 01:00:26.880
Would I?
01:00:27.039 --> 01:00:27.840
I I don't know.
01:00:28.159 --> 01:00:28.400
Yeah.
01:00:28.559 --> 01:00:28.960
Well, yeah.
01:00:29.280 --> 01:00:30.960
I'm open to that experience.
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:33.519
You meet we meet a couple.
01:00:33.760 --> 01:00:35.599
Um we don't really.
01:00:36.079 --> 01:00:40.320
Like my name is, and I put my finger over their lips, and I'm like, shut the fuck up, let's go now.
01:00:40.559 --> 01:00:42.000
Oh, that sounds like a fantasy.
01:00:42.239 --> 01:00:42.639
I don't know.
01:00:42.960 --> 01:00:45.039
We're okay, so this sort of happened.
01:00:45.119 --> 01:00:53.920
So if we had moved forward, like we were on the dance floor being approached by somebody, would you play with you?
01:00:54.079 --> 01:01:02.559
Yeah, would you even having a quick like um conversation and we didn't get names?
01:01:03.440 --> 01:01:05.599
I think I would be open to that just to see.
01:01:05.840 --> 01:01:06.159
Okay.
01:01:06.400 --> 01:01:08.159
I think I'd be open to it.
01:01:08.880 --> 01:01:13.519
But I still think there's conversation that I want to know somebody's interest in me.
01:01:13.840 --> 01:01:14.960
Yeah, separate from the conversation.
01:01:15.039 --> 01:01:16.400
Because it's like, oh, hey, yeah.
01:01:16.480 --> 01:01:17.199
Uh-huh-huh.
01:01:17.360 --> 01:01:20.559
Because like sometimes like you don't get the names or you don't remember the names.
01:01:20.800 --> 01:01:25.440
Well, I'll let me like my mind just went somebody somewhere totally different.
01:01:25.599 --> 01:01:26.800
Oh, where to go?
01:01:27.280 --> 01:01:30.239
Like a female glory hole.
01:01:30.400 --> 01:01:31.519
I would absolutely do that.
01:01:31.760 --> 01:01:33.280
Oh, I would absolutely do that.
01:01:34.159 --> 01:01:34.559
Yes.
01:01:34.719 --> 01:01:34.960
Yeah.
01:01:35.119 --> 01:01:35.280
Okay.
01:01:35.599 --> 01:01:36.400
Does that make me a creep?
01:01:36.480 --> 01:01:36.800
I don't know.
01:01:36.960 --> 01:01:38.159
No, it does not make you a creep.
01:01:38.239 --> 01:01:38.719
I I don't think you're not a good idea.
01:01:38.960 --> 01:01:39.840
You want to be fucked.
01:01:40.000 --> 01:01:40.960
Like, and yeah.
01:01:41.199 --> 01:01:42.079
But you don't know their name.
01:01:42.239 --> 01:01:43.119
I don't know their name.
01:01:43.280 --> 01:01:45.280
Oh, it makes me think of Naughty, right?
01:01:45.360 --> 01:01:47.440
They had that room that was the dark room.
01:01:47.760 --> 01:01:48.559
Oh, right.
01:01:49.679 --> 01:01:50.400
I did not see it.
01:01:51.119 --> 01:01:52.480
But that sounded like scary.
01:01:52.880 --> 01:01:56.880
Yeah, then, but maybe there's something wet on the floor, and I just stepped in it.
01:01:56.960 --> 01:01:58.719
Like, I don't think I would like any of that.
01:01:58.800 --> 01:02:00.239
So I I don't know.
01:02:01.199 --> 01:02:03.360
There's like a lot of intrigue around that.
01:02:03.519 --> 01:02:06.320
Like it sounds sexy and oh, also it's the danger.
01:02:06.559 --> 01:02:10.480
Yeah, but then you get in there and you step in something where you're like, what the fuck did I just step in?
01:02:10.719 --> 01:02:11.440
And then you're done.
01:02:11.760 --> 01:02:14.880
Someone, yeah, someone just they're me.
01:02:15.199 --> 01:02:22.239
If they're me, they accidentally left the lid on open on the lube and just squorded it all over the damn place.
01:02:22.400 --> 01:02:26.400
I just need a attendant in there with night vision goggles on cleaning up.
01:02:26.719 --> 01:02:27.280
Then I'm okay.
01:02:27.679 --> 01:02:28.320
Interesting.
01:02:28.639 --> 01:02:30.800
Okay, so free, what was the question?
01:02:31.119 --> 01:02:31.920
Uh names.
01:02:32.079 --> 01:02:34.559
Um nope, I I've known everybody.
01:02:34.800 --> 01:02:35.920
There's not been that many.
01:02:36.079 --> 01:02:36.239
Okay.
01:02:36.400 --> 01:02:37.519
And I've known everyone's name.
01:02:37.760 --> 01:02:42.960
My last question Do you like to play with oils and lube?
01:02:43.360 --> 01:02:44.400
And of course.
01:02:44.639 --> 01:02:45.280
Who doesn't?
01:02:45.440 --> 01:02:45.840
Yeah.
01:02:46.079 --> 01:02:46.639
Who doesn't?
01:02:46.880 --> 01:02:54.000
I'm gonna say oil um on the body, like massage or coconut oil.
01:02:54.320 --> 01:02:55.119
What about Crisco?
01:02:55.519 --> 01:02:57.760
For for your dick?
01:02:58.000 --> 01:03:05.679
Like I'll do coconut oil for you, but I don't want coconut oil on me because it breaks down your kills, yeah.
01:03:06.079 --> 01:03:07.760
I was breaks down your biome.
01:03:08.000 --> 01:03:10.320
Yeah, I don't want that near me.
01:03:10.559 --> 01:03:11.760
Yeah, not up in there.
01:03:12.000 --> 01:03:14.719
But lube, absolutely, is an enhancer.
01:03:14.880 --> 01:03:15.519
Yeah, absolutely.
01:03:15.599 --> 01:03:15.760
Yep.
01:03:16.000 --> 01:03:18.400
That's a requirement for me.
01:03:18.880 --> 01:03:19.280
Yeah.
01:03:19.440 --> 01:03:22.800
And uh and I think for guys too, guys need lube too.
01:03:22.880 --> 01:03:24.960
You can't just spit do the thing.
01:03:25.280 --> 01:03:27.840
No, spit is so it can work.
01:03:28.079 --> 01:03:28.559
Limiting.
01:03:28.800 --> 01:03:29.199
It can work.
01:03:29.280 --> 01:03:29.840
It's limiting.
01:03:30.159 --> 01:03:31.360
You gotta do a buildup.
01:03:31.599 --> 01:03:36.480
And if you you're I don't know, if you don't have a lot of saliva, like forget about it.
01:03:36.719 --> 01:03:37.920
Figure it out.
01:03:38.320 --> 01:03:39.760
You can spit on my dick, though.
01:03:39.840 --> 01:03:42.159
I'll just like you said, no spitting earlier for you.
01:03:42.239 --> 01:03:45.280
But if you're not gonna do it, yeah, but sometimes you cannot get enough saliva.
01:03:45.519 --> 01:03:47.360
I totally know that's what I'm just joking around.
01:03:47.679 --> 01:03:49.039
Oh, oh, you're joking.
01:03:49.199 --> 01:03:49.679
I'm just joking.
01:03:49.760 --> 01:03:51.760
Like you can totally seriously.
01:03:52.000 --> 01:03:52.559
You do.
01:03:52.800 --> 01:03:54.480
I set the dick seriously.
01:03:54.800 --> 01:03:55.199
You do?
01:03:55.360 --> 01:03:55.599
Yeah.
01:03:55.760 --> 01:03:56.480
Yeah, it's a job.
01:03:56.639 --> 01:03:56.880
Yeah.
01:03:56.960 --> 01:03:57.119
No.
01:03:58.000 --> 01:03:58.559
I love it.
01:03:58.800 --> 01:03:59.039
Job.
01:03:59.199 --> 01:04:00.320
I take it seriously.
01:04:01.280 --> 01:04:03.039
I need the right tools for the job.
01:04:03.280 --> 01:04:05.280
So that is all the questions that we have.
01:04:06.480 --> 01:04:09.119
I think we're gonna just we're really just gonna wrap it up.
01:04:09.199 --> 01:04:11.599
Like tonight we just wanted to make it a little light, a little bit different.
01:04:11.920 --> 01:04:12.719
A little low-key.
01:04:12.880 --> 01:04:13.119
Yeah.
01:04:13.360 --> 01:04:16.320
I think we we we have a couple episodes planned still.
01:04:16.400 --> 01:04:18.639
Like, I really want to talk about our trip to desire.
01:04:19.119 --> 01:04:24.320
Um, I also want to talk about a recent house party we went to and kind of where we're at right now.
01:04:24.400 --> 01:04:26.239
Uh, but that'll be a future episode.
01:04:26.400 --> 01:04:31.679
So, really for this, just a little bit of insight into who we are, a little bit of a fun night tonight.
01:04:31.760 --> 01:04:48.239
And yeah, for those of us, for those of you that were out there looking for a drop of our podcast, I don't know, this past week, I don't know when we're gonna release this one, but I I kind of want to make sure that we're not stuck to just an every two-week schedule.
01:04:48.400 --> 01:04:52.159
Um, we don't want to produce podcasts just to produce them.
01:04:52.320 --> 01:04:58.880
Um, we want to try and keep them somewhat regular, but between life and everything else, if we skip one, then we skip one.
01:04:58.960 --> 01:05:03.440
And hopefully, you know, we still keep you guys as listeners just with that.
01:05:04.000 --> 01:05:08.000
And I think um being purposeful, meaningful is important for us.
01:05:08.239 --> 01:05:08.719
Yeah.
01:05:08.960 --> 01:05:10.559
Okay, uh that wraps it up.
01:05:10.719 --> 01:05:15.840
But um, I would really love, we would really love to hear from you guys through some of the fan mail stuff.
01:05:15.920 --> 01:05:19.360
Um but only if it's like you're telling us how amazing we are.
01:05:19.599 --> 01:05:23.519
If you have something negative, like I'm gonna file it in the waste bin.
01:05:23.920 --> 01:05:25.760
Constructive criticism, good.
01:05:25.920 --> 01:05:28.320
You tell us we suck, but we know that already.
01:05:28.400 --> 01:05:29.920
I don't need to hear it, so that's cool.
01:05:30.079 --> 01:05:34.079
Yeah, like we know we we're the we're hard as critics on ourselves.
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That's right.
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With that, we love you guys.
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I'm Neo.
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And I'm Trinity.
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Have a sexy night, people.