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✰ ABOUT ✰
How do you give yourself permission to dream again? How do you stop playing small when it feels safer to shrink? And what does it look like to step into visibility not just in your career, but also in love?
In this powerful episode, Tumelo Candice Sello (Formerly Candice Modiselle) returns to the podcast to unpack the mindset shifts, fears, and breakthroughs that come with embracing your main character energy and the accompanying mindset shift. Since her last appearance, Candice has stepped into a new chapter of life; she got married, deepened her walk in faith, and adopted a renewed mindset anchored in purpose. She shares what it looks like to release old versions of yourself, confront the fear of visibility, and boldly claim the life you know you’re meant to live.
We dive into:
The danger of waiting for permission vs. choosing yourself
Playing small, self-sabotage & unlearning “it’s not possible for me”
Moving from survival mode to possibility mode
Redefining love as agency from waiting to be chosen to choosing yourself
The turning points that help you step into your soft, bold, authentic life
This conversation is about reinvention, courage, and becoming the main character in your own story not tomorrow, not when everything is perfect, but right now.
✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰
Tumelo Candice Sello (formerly known as Candice Modiselle) is a creative entrepreneur, storyteller, and speaker whose journey embodies reinvention and bold authenticity. With a background spanning stage, screen, and business, Tumelo has become a trusted voice for women navigating visibility, purpose, and faith. Beyond her career, she is deeply passionate about conversations that empower others to shed fear, embrace growth, and step fully into who they are meant to be.
✰ TIMESTAMPS✰
00:00 - Coming Up
01:11 - Rom com maincharacter breakdown
03:36 - She’s bacckkkkkk
04:26 - Check in
05:42 - Genre check
06:59 -The title of this season of Candice’s life
08:06 - Candices top 3 characters in her life right now
09:55 - The fatal flaw
13:19 - The difference between 20’s Candice and 30’s Candice
19:30 - Listeners dispatch 1: The creative that shrinks herself/plays small
21:08 - The ways in which Candice has played small
23:23 - Candices response to the dilemma
33:39 - Candices advice to someone who is afraid to start over
37:07 - How Candice is handling Tumelo Selo vs Candice Modiselle
38:40 - Listeners Dispatch 2: Waiting to be chosen
39:36 - Candices response to the dilemma
47:54 - Candices past experience shrinking herself in romantic relationships
51:25 - Healthy compromise vs settling
56:35 - Closing credits
57:59 - Post credits
✰ SOCIAL MEDIA ✰
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Guest
Candice
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✰ LISTEN ON ✰
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0XnqZ7b...
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Castbox: https://castbox.fm/channel/id5426930?...
✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰
E-mail: hello@thebwordmedia.com
✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰
Director: Bokang Lehlokoe
Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi
Videographer & Editor: Palesa Radebe
