Quick Script Flip: Borrow My Belief

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This script flip is for you.
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If you're running low on the belief in yourself right now, welcome to Flip the Inner Script, a podcast for female founders who are over their inner critic showing up when they are scaling to bigger things.
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This podcast is for the woman who has built something and still finds herself wondering why success doesn't feel the way she thought it would.
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We'll dive deep into inner stories, social conditioning, self-leadership, identity, and what it actually takes to master being the woman who meets her next level.
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This is your permission slip to finally flip the script so that you can unlock the success you dream about.
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Let's go.
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Hey, wherever you are right now, I've got you.
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This script flip is for you.
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If you're running low on the belief in yourself right now, because girl, you are human, and humans run out of gas sometimes.
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Maybe you're in a season where the doubt is louder than the vision, and the version of you who is typically anchored in belief is nowhere to be found.
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You're in a season where you keep asking yourself, can I actually do this?
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Like, what was I thinking?
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What am I doing?
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And lately the honest answer is I'm not sure if I can.
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Here's the old script.
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I have to believe in myself a thousand percent of the time, or I'm not cut out for this.
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That one's a lie, by the way.
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It's just another way we abandon ourselves.
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We somehow decide that a wobble in our belief means that we aren't qualified to do what we love to do.
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Nobody believes in themselves every single day.
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I definitely don't.
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Not the woman you look up to either.
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Not anyone who's built anything real.
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Your belief in yourself isn't constant.
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It's like a rhythm, it's like a pendulum swinging back and forth.
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It comes in, it dips out, it comes back.
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So here's what I want you to actually take in today.
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Not just here, but actually absorb into every cell of your body until it becomes your belief.
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You don't have to carry all of the belief all of the time by yourself.
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That's the flip.
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When I run out of belief in myself, I get to borrow it from someone else until mine comes back.
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You can borrow mine.
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I believe in you.
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Someone else's certainty can hold me while I find my own again.
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I don't have to do this alone, and needing to borrow a belief for a while doesn't make me less capable.
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It just makes me human.
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And you are human.
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And again, you can borrow my belief.
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Right now, today, in this moment, I believe in you.
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Not like half-ass believe in you, or like, you know, oh cool, you believe in me.
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I know that you are put on this earth to do what your heart is calling you to do.
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I mean this for you in your ears today.
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I believe that the thing that you're building, even the parts of it that you're scared to say out loud or the dreams that you have, I believe in those too.
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I believe in your desire to have your situation, your life, your business feel different.
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And I believe that you are capable of more than the doubt that you are feeling today.
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And I'll keep believing in you on all of the days that you can't.
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You don't have to prove anything to me first for me to believe in you.
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I just know it's there.
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And you can borrow it anytime you need it.
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Just let someone else hold the belief while you just take a breath.
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This is what real support actually looks like, by the way.
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You know, like just real community and people there.
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That's what community is.
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That's what coaching relationships are for.
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Nobody, nobody was meant to white knuckle their way through all of these big things and all of the self-doubt on their own.
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So today, if the belief in yourself feels very far away, don't shame it, don't guilt it, don't force it, just borrow mine.
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Because you can borrow it for as long as you need to.
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Let's anchor this one in.
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I don't have to believe in myself perfectly every day on my own.
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Borrowing belief isn't weakness, it's wisdom.
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I lead from within, and sometimes leading means letting someone else steady me for a minute.
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Because my belief will come back just like the pendulum swing, it always does, and I'm not alone.
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Take a breath in and let it go.
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I've got you today.
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That's the flip.
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And I'll see you in the next one.
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That's a wrap on today's episode.
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Now go flip that inner script.
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See you next time.