They were in ministry together for decades. Everyone thought they had a great marriage. Behind closed doors? Roommates. Disconnected. (Rare) duty sex. No affection. No real intimacy in years. Then Jody looked at David after a premarital counseling session he was leading and said: "You're a hypocrite." He didn't just hear her. He heard God through her. David joined Masculinity Reclaimed. Jody followed into Delighted Wife weeks later. Both changed 180 degrees. Today, they cuddle every night, truly "make love" for the first time in years, resolve conflict in minutes, and are living what they preach day in and day out, after 40 years together. Jody said through tears: "I didn't think we were gonna finish well. And we're gonna finish well." If you're living a life of quiet desperation in your marriage, there's hope. Even if you're a pastor or ministry leader. Maybe you know someone. Pastor David and Jody had friends that took the courage to share -- maybe you're called to simply send this to someone who needs hope -- or inspiration that God is still healing marriages even after 40 years! Take the first step. God bless, Belah Rose Delight Your Marriage (AI helped write this email)
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PPPS - Here is what (another) recent Coaching Graduate had to say: [before coaching], "Here I was a hypocrite ministering to others in pre marriage counseling. I was providing principles and practices for others while neglecting the most important person in my life. I was at the point that I couldn't see her beauty, and I neglected seeing who she was in Gods eyes."[after coaching] "It had to begin with me. I had to change my ethos and take responsibility for owning where we had drifted to. Change had to begin with myself first. God would never give me more that I can handle...I needed to take the reigns and cause the ship to be aright. The incarnational reality of God in us really manifested within me. God was not angry with my wife, why should I be. God saw my wife's beauty, how come I couldn't see it."
