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50 mm 50 seconds in the fittest freaking off a restaurant 50 status decalator send it in.
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I got two investigators, dropping gym bitches trying to really sit on it.
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Oh it's finished if we own it.
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Smell like money, I can own it.
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I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say.
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It's your girl, KD.
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It's your hostess with the most is Kiki.
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What up, though?
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You know who this your boy coach DTMAK A pure motivation.
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I am Mr.
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Energy.
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Everybody love me.
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I don't have one enemy.
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I podcaster here now, so you gotta respect it.
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You never get off on us because we're never the exit.
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If you know me, then you know that I'm more than a savage who loves living life and is allergic to average.
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So in conclusion, so it's no confusions.
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If you see somebody really than us, it's an illusion.
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Let's go talk about it.
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What up, dude?
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What's good?
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What's good?
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Welcome to another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast, where you get your daily dose of relationships and reality.
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Let's go talk about it.
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What up, dude?
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What up?
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What up, dude?
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Okay, yeah, this is the world's most dangerous podcast.
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You know why?
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Because you guaranteed to grow or you guaranteed to go.
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That's just how it goes, man.
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Grow and go.
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That's just how it goes, man.
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You just say blow and go?
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Huh?
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You said grow and go?
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No, no, no.
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Yeah, grow and go.
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Grow and go.
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Okay, not blow and go.
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Okay.
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I thought she said blow and go.
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Get it.
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We got stuff to do.
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Get it poppin'.
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That's him.
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I'm doing good.
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We got stuff to do today.
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Today.
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Today is a special day.
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Today is a special day.
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Not just any day.
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You can have anything you won't show away.
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Okay, they're going.
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She can give you the credit for you.
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And I'm willing to pay for the rest of your day.
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It's not our.
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No, no, yeah.
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It's it's it's recording day.
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It's recording day.
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Oh, that's recording day.
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That's the song my husband used to sing when I used to be forgetting about our anniversary day.
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And he'd be like, damn, this bitch ain't said nothing on our day.
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I still remember your wedding anniversary.
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It's crazy.
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July 6th.
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Right.
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And July.
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We actually got married on the 16th, though.
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The 16th, yeah.
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Right.
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So I used to be just chilling.
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He was like, mm-mm.
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I'd be like, damn, that's our motherfucking anniversary.
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Damn it.
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Bitch, always forgetting shit.
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Beauty.
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The beauty of today is that we are not alone today.
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You are not alone.
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Because who's here with us?
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We got somebody.
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So we got a special guest with us, man.
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Introduce yourself.
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What up, what up, though?
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It's your boy Grayson, aka Mr.
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Moudie.
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You already know.
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Even though you what don't hear me, you definitely see me, baby.
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Yeah.
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Let's go.
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Let's go.
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All right.
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So we're gonna do a quick around the room.
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Just make sure everybody's good for this episode.
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Cause we're gonna go in yet a little bit, get a little bit, you know.
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Let's start.
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Let's start with G for a minute, man.
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G, how was your week and weekend, man?
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How's that thing going?
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And my week was smooth.
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It was smooth.
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Uh we just had a wedding that we went to.
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Okay, okay.
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Fire it all gets I love summer weddings.
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Looking like crowd.
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You know, pop your shit.
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Yeah, say it.
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Show them love.
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You know what I'm saying?
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The family loves me.
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You know what I mean?
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So that was always a blessing to be around good people.
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They came out looking like glad back.
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I know that's right.
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You know what I'm saying?
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I know that's right.
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Congratulations.
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I love a good witness.
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I love anything when I get to dress up.
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I know, right?
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I like that dressed up game.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Okay, they be like, we don't have to look that's too much.
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Scale it down.
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But sometimes you be like, I don't want to look better than the people that's getting married, though, right?
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First of all, his wife missed that memo.
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I saw them pictures out there.
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Brian, we're like, hey, like what?
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That girl was stubborn.
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Yeah, she came through with the came though.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Oh yeah, that's what's up, man.
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I'm I'm excited.
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I like hearing that.
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I love hearing about love.
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Now I will say this though.
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Who married them?
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I knew he was gonna say this.
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Uh oh, you said what I mean.
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I wasn't there, so I don't remember, you know what I'm saying?
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But it's cool.
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It's all right.
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I'm still here for you.
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Let me get remarried.
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I know that's right.
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That's what I'm talking about.
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Yeah, I'm here.
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Let's go.
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Uh I put the I put a post up not too long ago, man.
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I got so many DMs.
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Like, you already know.
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I'm coming.
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Look, I'm ready.
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Maybe ready to the time.
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Yeah, well, uh the the first five actually like book right then and then like I'm ready.
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Good, good.
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What I gotta do, send me the information.
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I'm about to lock it in.
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I was like, bad.
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So I think the one that we finna do next, he came to me before he even had a wife.
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He was like, Yo, oh okay, he did crack.
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He did come now.
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I didn't crack before he proposed to I ain't mad at that though.
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Yeah, he already knew.
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You speaking that to existence, you know it's about to you're ready.
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So I think I do believe that he probably gonna cry more than than the bride.
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Because he's been ready, yeah.
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And he's he anticipated.
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I think he's super super emotional.
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Emotional.
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Clearly, if you come in before you got a bride, yeah.
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No, that's a good sign.
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That's good.
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That's a good sign.
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I I love being around men who don't mind sharing their emotion.
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Oh, yeah.
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And I and I love how he loves her out loud.
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Yeah, all that all that trying to suppress the emotion because you want to look hard and all that.
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I don't need to look at it.
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That's why I don't need to look hard, man.
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I need my man to love me out loud, okay?
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For sure.
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Kiki.
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Yes, talk to me.
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Okay, my weekend, weekend.
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You know, I'm still getting over this dumbass cold, but I was able to go out a little bit.
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So I was like, okay, she back.
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I was feeling it, you know.
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First of all, let me tell y'all, after work we went to Cutters.
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You know, that'd be our spot after work.
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I got a love-hate relationship with this man that be in there.
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He's a regular.
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So we go into the door.
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He on the phone, but by the door.
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So he holds the door open, like, y'all going in here.
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I said, What make you think we going in there?
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The fact, no, we not going in there.
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What make you think as we coming right here that we going in there?
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So he like, oh my bad.
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I'm like, Yeah, we're going in there, open the door, no.
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We are going there.
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What's wrong with so when he gets inside, he come like, I'm buying y'all drinks all night, because she done gave me problems already.
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I said, Girl, that's how you get the drinks.
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Fuck it.
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It's flirting, but not flirting, you're right.
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Like, but don't talk, don't talk to me for real, because I don't want to talk.
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I don't, you're not gonna get my number.
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No, we're not no, we're not gonna talk for real.
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No, I'm gonna talk shit, but no, we don't.
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And he was a nice looking man, but he never left us alone the whole night.
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He kept, y'all straight, y'all straight, you want something, you want straight, you straight, you straight.
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I'm like, Yeah, he's gonna do that when he's spending money.
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Right.
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Ain't nothing wrong with it.
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He buying drinks.
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So I got he never got my number.
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But every time we go in there, he makes sure we straight.
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Like he like an older, like protector of like the bar or whatever.
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It's cool, but yeah, he's so funny.
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I'm like, he said, your girl been giving me a hard time.
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You cool, but she yeah, I don't she is something.
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I said, You like that something though, so you better calm down.
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Calm down.
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It was so funny though.
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So it's a thing every time we go now, he'd be there, he be like, We cool today, or we are we cool today, or we beefing.
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I'd be like, What you buying?
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Because that's the one the fuck that determines my level.
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My level of beef.
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But it's it's just fun though.
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But yeah, that we did that, and that was it was I don't know.
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I guess what made me think of that is like, do y'all go back to your jobs and be like, oh, I like this job so much that I'll just come back on here just to chill with the people that work here.
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Hell no, I don't like my job that much.
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Um you shaking your head now because of the type of job you have.
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But when we were working at the bar, well, that's different.
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That's the thing.
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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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So it was like a bunch of the bartenders can't, like, they was just partying, like all the birth, everybody was like, And it was looking cute.
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I was like, girl, like any you was in your work uniform, you ain't look like this, and that's why they didn't know.
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I gotta show you how can step.
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And then it'd be like where most of your friends are anyway.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So you might as well go there, and you get to show up.
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And this was like a Wednesday.
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I'm like, what why is it so it was so crowded for a Wednesday?
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We seen Warren Evans there, like it was so it'd be so many like politicians there.
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Yeah, it's that's just like the spot for for for real after work.
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I don't middle of the week, end of the week.
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They don't give a fuck, they be in there, bitch, eating.
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Cut them got good ass food though.
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They do got good and it's just good, right?
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And it's just a good vibe.
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The vibe is the vibe is just good there.
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Like, I don't eat too much food, but I mean, I got a snack, of course, but then you ain't going there for no steak and the time.
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Oh no, no, no.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like, you go, you you you go for what you you know, you go for the drinks and then you nibble.
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But people be like, oh my god, it's not girl.
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You was at the cutters, we was in the hood at cutters.
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That's a bar and grill, though.
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It ain't like uh I do believe like the vibe make the food and the drinks taste better too, though.
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That's true.
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Because you hear you having a good vibe, yeah.
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Whatever you order is gonna usually be straight, right?
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But if the vibe is already off, the food and the drink don't really have a shot.
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It's a wrap.
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Then they got the jukebox, and you know, the older people be playing.
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Well, you don't be knowing none of the worst, none of these songs.
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It'd be a whole vibe, like it'd be like seven o'clock.
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Like, oh bitch, we got to go to work in the morning.
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Why the fuck is we still here?
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Like, but that's how I gotta get up too early.
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We gotta be checking her location and be like, she be there for seven hours like this.
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My best friend done did a shift at cut it.
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It'd be so fun.
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It'd be so fun.
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It's just a vibe.
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So yeah, I did that a couple days, and then it's like they are regular.
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So I'm like, damn, am I a regular?
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That's how you know they're regular.
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I'm like, damn, am I a regular too?
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Yes.
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On Friday, they know you're coming.
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When the girl be like, Yeah, Tito's tonic water and lime.
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I said, Bitch, you're not a regular.
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They know you're gonna be there, they know they gonna be just like the pig bugger.
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Right.
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When we walk in the pig bug, they be like, Oh, you want the inner seat?
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You want the tiny, you know what I'm saying?
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As soon as we walk in the door, she gets a that's crazy.
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I never thought I'd be.
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I'm like, damn, I wasn't even drinking that, but I guess that's what I guess that's what she had already made.
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She already got it made and ready to roll.
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Hey y'all, I'm like, what's the hell is going on?
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Like, well, goddamn, let us sit over.
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I might have to change my drink.
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We gotta do that shit together.
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I know, yeah, not today.
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All right, okay, they talk about it.
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Oh, on well, don't do her the weekend weekend, whatever.
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We took our son to the winery.
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First of all, we had so much fun.
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Dog is a whole time, okay.
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Which winery y'all go to without me?
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The same one you went to without us.
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Because as soon as we walked in the door, as soon as we walked in the door, like, oh yeah, she came here without y'all.
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She said, Oh, this y'all pay back.
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And I was like, What you mean?
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That was like, she was like, Your girl was here without y'all.
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She was right there.
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I said, Oh, I said, I know you have a line.
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I said, I know she'd come here and pay for a taste, and then she knows we get these bitches for free.
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I didn't even drink that day though.
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I said, I said no, she just came here to use the bathroom.
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Yeah, I just used the bathroom.
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What'd she say?
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You sure when Trina wasn't there, I left.
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She was like, You sure?
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Because she was here for a minute.
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I saw her.
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I said, I said no, she told me she was here.
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I was like, actually, she went down the street to the Cooper club.
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And they were they was indecisive about the actual day because I think it was Friday.
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KD said it was Friday.
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She was like, she was like, No, it was a Saturday.
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I said no, it wasn't we knew Trina wasn't there on Saturdays.
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So we thought she was gonna be there on Friday, but she wasn't.
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I did see Neek.
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That's it, that's a she was the only one I know.
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But I said at the bar, and then when she wasn't, she wasn't even over there either.
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She was on the other side.
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She's leaving.
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So that's why I was like, She was like, I wasn't waiting on her, but I was about to go.
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I was like, Yeah, I'm leaving.
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So I used the band from again, and then you know, I'm gonna bother there.
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I got on the bottom.
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I ain't even getting nothing to drink or nothing.
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He's talking about, oh my god, we gotta go back.
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We didn't have fun though.
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We had fun.
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I just we just spent some time with him, kicking with him, you know what I'm saying?
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But that's nice.
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We had his.
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I took a picture of his wine because it looked like yours.
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It was like so colorful.
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Y'all know mine is never but they got then they got a bunch of new ones, so we do gotta go back because they do got a bunch of news.
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Make sure y'all invite us.
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Yeah, for sure.
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So fun, and then we all we oh my god, they was having 90s trivia.
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Did they girl?
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First of all, no, because people was cheating.
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Oh, yeah, they were definitely like no phones, people over there like we was actually trying to answer them.
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We did good for not cheating.
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She really need no help though.
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Like, I threw my little input in there now.
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I'm like, she she was like, You sure?
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I was like, Yeah, she was like, Okay, I'm gonna just put it just and I don't know.
00:14:49.600 --> 00:14:50.559
You did get one right, yeah.
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I got the one that she was she it was a basketball question.
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Like, why would you not want me to?
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Wait, I don't think there's it.
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I was the I thought I was the globe trotters, but I was that's still basketball.
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I was like, Oh, oh, my son was like, Mommy, you're not giving us a chance to help.
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I'm like, Do you know the answer?
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He like, no.
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But it was like, shut the fuck up.
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We were sitting here looking like, why does she even know this information?
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Like, what is what's what that's a lot of space in there that you can just delete?
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It's like like a phone.
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Chill out, delete that.
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It was uh one of the questions was like, What sitcom has the uh tagline?
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Do you got some cheese?
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I'm like, Oh, family matters, yeah.
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Can't they like you sure?
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I'm like, Yeah, that's cool.
00:15:29.759 --> 00:15:36.879
I know the I knew the blacks that take codes and stuff like that, the uh sitcom, but the one like the ratio cut and all that.
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I didn't know about that.
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You didn't know that?
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No, you know that what sitcom started the Rachel cut?
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The Rachel haircut, no?
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Friends, oh and I do watch friends.
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And she asked, Who uh what's Rachel's real name?
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Oh yeah, we don't store that information.
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I don't store it though.
00:15:52.879 --> 00:15:54.879
Yeah, I didn't I do watch friends, I did watch it.
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I mean, but yeah, you don't store that information.
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I know all of the things the music, I knew all of the things.
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Spice girls, oh yeah, but yeah, we had a good time.
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That sounds nice.
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So for me, that bitch told on me though.
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She ain't gonna get let's just go back to that for me.
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I'm gonna give y'all a quick, quick story time of coach, real quick, man.
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Okay.
00:16:18.960 --> 00:16:21.840
And then we're gonna get into I'm gonna do this culture check.
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I ain't get to do it, so I'm gonna do it.
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I ain't gonna do it at the live joint.
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You said cultures check?
00:16:27.440 --> 00:16:27.519
Yeah.
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Oh, okay.
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You just gotta be enthused.
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You can't really answer questions.
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You already know.
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I'm gonna help you.
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I'm definitely not gonna know it.
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You're gonna know something about story time with Coach Man.
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Uh again, in the jets, chilling, right?
00:16:43.919 --> 00:16:46.320
Getting my work on, helping helping people.
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And I got a system on how we do things, right?
00:16:49.840 --> 00:17:00.960
So we're working side by side with the maintenance crew who uh sh you know has been amazing through this process to get these 150 buildings done, units done, sorry.
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But it was just one lady who she rolled up on me the day before.
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I'm talking about she was walking at a pace that I thought it was about to go down.
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And I'm sitting up here, I'm still working, but I'm watching her come toward me.
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And in my head, I'm like, is it finna go down?
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And what do I do in this case?
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Because I don't want to put my hands on this lady, but she's walking real aggressive.
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No, it was too far by the time.
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Listen, it was at least a half hour from from the crib.
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Oh so I'm like, listen, she walking real aggressive.
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So she walked up to me, she said, When you doing my unit.
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Oh.
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I said, Uh, what unit's yours?
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Hey, like I know you.
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She was like, that one over there.
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I was like, Oh yeah, you're coming tomorrow.
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She was like, All right, cool.
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Turn around, walk away.
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The same aggressive walk back to the crib, right?
00:17:51.440 --> 00:18:02.000
So then that day comes, we pull up, she's going in, the maintenance guy, because I'm I'm I need to leave at a certain time, and you're not allowed to go in my house if I'm not there.
00:18:02.079 --> 00:18:10.079
But they like they got a rule where they said, because these are like a low-income joint where they, you know, based based off of what you make, it's what you pay.
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So it's a bunch of different rules.
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You can't have like overnight guests for so many days straight without them being approved by the office, no smoking in the building, like in the house, in the house, you gotta go outside.
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A bunch of different rules that they do to try to keep it, you know.
00:18:24.480 --> 00:18:26.160
It's a lot of apartments that's doing that now, though.
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Yeah, which is the same thing.
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So even when they were even when what's the name number living in Southfield, all that money they were spending, they couldn't smoke in the house.
00:18:32.160 --> 00:18:34.000
Yeah, or on the balcony.
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Is that what it's called?
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Yeah, yeah.
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So she said, Y'all can't come in the house when I he was like, No, unfortunately, that's not true.
00:18:41.279 --> 00:18:44.480
We gave you 48 hours notice, so we can definitely come in.
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We will only be doing what we are there to do, et cetera.
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But she was not here, none of that.
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She was still going in, right?
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I'm just listening from the sideline, doing my thing, trying to get, you know, still prepping and stuff.
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And um she rolls up on me after they walk away.
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I don't even know what the heck she was talking about, but I was like, look, I heard you going in on maintenance.
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Black lady, too.
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I'm like, come on, you send us back some years.
00:19:06.960 --> 00:19:07.359
Stop that.
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Some years.
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Stop that.
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So I'm like, listen, you are like in the middle.
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So no way you should go first.
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But I heard you say, I gotta go somewhere at a certain time.
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So I'm gonna stop everything I'm doing.
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I'm gonna knock your spot out first, then I go back to my regularly scheduled program.
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She's like, Okay, I appreciate that.
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Go back in the house.
00:19:27.839 --> 00:19:33.359
So as I'm still prepping, DoorDash lady walks up to go to a different spot, right?
00:19:33.839 --> 00:19:35.599
She passing the food out, the the food.
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Is it still DoorDash?
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But I don't know.
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Uber Eats, maybe?
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Maybe.
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But it was like grocery store food.
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Oh, it's the Kirk.
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Maybe.
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Or shoot.
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Oh so she um she passing the food out to the to the whoever ordered it.
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And on her way out, this lady was in the window looking like Pearl, and she was like, She was like, excuse me, excuse me.
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Talking to the lady.
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The lady stopped.
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She was trying to finish her stuff on her phone.
00:20:00.480 --> 00:20:05.839
She stopped, she looked up, she said, the lady said, You uh you ever heard of the dark web?
00:20:06.960 --> 00:20:08.079
The lady said, Huh?
00:20:08.160 --> 00:20:08.559
I know you.
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She said, You ever heard of the dark web?
00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:13.359
So the lady was like, Yeah, it's dark in there, don't go there.
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And just she kept walking.
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So I was like, Okay, okay, she's a nut.
00:20:18.480 --> 00:20:19.519
Lady that wanted you to do her stuff?
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Yeah.
00:20:19.920 --> 00:20:20.559
Oh, yeah, she crazy.
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That's what I was like.
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I was like, okay, she's a nut, right?
00:20:23.920 --> 00:20:26.640
So I still knock her out first and get it done.
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Now I'm going back through.
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Now, mind you, it's about maybe almost one o'clock, quarter to one.
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She's still here.
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Now, you know I like to play with people, but I I've not already seen you with the nuts, so I ain't even play with people.
00:20:38.000 --> 00:20:38.720
Right, right.
00:20:38.880 --> 00:20:41.200
So in my head, I was thinking, I'm talking to maintenance.
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I was like, yo, she didn't go nowhere.
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He's like, he's like, bro, I was gonna tell you.
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Oh my god, the police come out here like once a week for her.
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Oh, yeah.
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She's a nut, nut.
00:20:51.200 --> 00:20:56.400
Yeah, she told the police officer they came to do an eviction for somebody, right?
00:20:56.480 --> 00:20:59.359
The sheriff was out there, they were doing an eviction for somebody.
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She seen the sheriff, she walked up to the sheriff, she said, Yeah, they stole my kid.
00:21:05.119 --> 00:21:07.200
So the sheriff, like, who stole your kid?
00:21:07.839 --> 00:21:12.160
And she said, CPS from a different city, right?
00:21:12.960 --> 00:21:16.079
So he said, Well, that's not stealing if it's CPS.
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Something was wrong.
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Right.
00:21:17.680 --> 00:21:20.079
So she looked at him and said, You're not even a real cop.
00:21:26.559 --> 00:21:29.119
Well, I was like, Yeah, this poor lady.
00:21:29.279 --> 00:21:29.839
She's a nuts.
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She needs some mental help.
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Yeah, definitely.
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Yeah.
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She was like, My uh, my my stuff not working.
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I called my man and said, Look, come in here with me because I don't know.
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This might be a setup.
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I don't know what she got going behind the door.
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I'm walking in now, I'm a slave.
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I don't know what the heck going happening.
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I don't know.
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I got to a location, I'm pull up.
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Right.
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Right.
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Y'all heard the last episode.
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Y'all been listening.
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If it's too long, why are you still there at 7 30?
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I'm on my coming.
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Knocking on all the doors.
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All right.
00:22:03.119 --> 00:22:04.240
So we're going to do this thing.
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It's called culture check.
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I had to set up for the live event, but we didn't get a chance to get to it.
00:22:09.680 --> 00:22:12.079
But I think it's going to be really funny, really dope.
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What I'm going to do is I'm going to say it.
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And y'all could just it's just two of y'all.
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Y'all could just yell it out.
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It's only two of y'all.
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It's only two of y'all right now.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Katie is my my judge.
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The judge and jury.
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All right.
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You don't ever let me have no fun.
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Shout out to you.
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Well, you help with some of them.
00:22:29.359 --> 00:22:30.400
So you can't help her.
00:22:30.480 --> 00:22:31.599
You helped with some of them.
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Oh.
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But and we'll say that this is segment right here is sponsored by truly.
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Alright.
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So sometimes, you know what I'm saying?
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You just got to get your culture right.
00:22:43.599 --> 00:22:45.200
You got to get your mind right.
00:22:45.359 --> 00:22:47.440
You might deal with some nuts, you know what I'm saying?
00:22:47.519 --> 00:22:48.799
At work, you never know.
00:22:48.960 --> 00:22:54.400
And in the light of doing that, you have to get yours truly.
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It's yours truly right here.
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So that whatever lips store near you, man, go get you a sip.
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It definitely counts you down and get you right, man.
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And that's good.
00:23:06.000 --> 00:23:07.920
And it's about your sip at the same time.
00:23:09.279 --> 00:23:10.880
It also helps you when you're nasally, too.
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You know what I'm saying?
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They get you right.
00:23:12.960 --> 00:23:14.000
You better leave my best friend alone.
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Listen, from the beginning of this episode to right now, she sounds right.
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She does sound better.
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She sounds better already.
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Right, truly.
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I'm just saying.
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Shout out.
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Oh my god.
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Yours truly.
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I still feel the same.
00:23:28.880 --> 00:23:31.200
You've been taking all that mic quil all you need was some truth.
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All you needed was the truth.
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Bro.
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All right.
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That's a way.
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So in this, what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna I'm gonna give you a statement, a question, or whatever.
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You answer it.
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How you think the culture has answered it since you've been living in Biom.
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Oh Lord.
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All right.
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All right.
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All right.
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First one.
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If it ain't one thing, it's another.
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You gotta yell it out.
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All right.
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All right, for sure.
00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:01.279
I'ma help G.
00:24:03.680 --> 00:24:05.519
How do we know it was time to go in the house?
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Straight lights.
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There we go.
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There we go.
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I brought you in this world.
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I can take your motherfucking ass out.
00:24:12.880 --> 00:24:13.920
Hey, that ain't my fucking ass.
00:24:15.279 --> 00:24:16.960
Sorry, that's what my mama used to say.
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Hey, sorry, sorry.
00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:20.480
My mama went too far.
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Sorry, sorry.
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All right.
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My mother might have went too far with our shit.
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All right.
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Chill up, mama Cheryl.
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She did.
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Who was the one family member that was off limit to talk about?
00:24:30.079 --> 00:24:30.799
Grandma.
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We talked about everybody, so I don't think everybody.
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Come on now.
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I think that's that's grandma's is acceptable.
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It's mom.
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So it's my oh that's true.
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What you say about my mama?
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That's true.
00:24:47.759 --> 00:24:48.160
That's true.
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But for some people, it is their grandma because that's who raised them.
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You know what I'm saying?
00:24:53.119 --> 00:24:53.599
That's true.
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The devil is a lie.
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Let's go.
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What does you put your foot in this mean?
00:25:01.519 --> 00:25:02.880
Oh, that's your good as fuck.
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Good as fuck, baby.
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All right.
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Who is this person?
00:25:07.359 --> 00:25:09.039
Homie the clown?
00:25:09.200 --> 00:25:09.759
Oh yeah.
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I knew it.
00:25:10.640 --> 00:25:13.279
My kids are like, um, um, like my homeboy?
00:25:13.519 --> 00:25:17.519
Like, oh my god, you took it back, so they're not gonna know that.
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That's hard time.
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At all.
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All right.
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Finish this.
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Should I say it the way it's sound?
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If I say it the way it's done, it's gonna be gonna be too easy.
00:25:26.480 --> 00:25:28.640
I'm gonna just read it and see if I read it.
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And then if if I go if I go deeper, I go deeper.
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All right, here we go.
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Keeping your head above water, making a way when you can.
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Oh, I know that.
00:25:37.839 --> 00:25:39.119
That's the thing you saw on the thing.
00:25:39.279 --> 00:25:40.799
It is, it is good.
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I know it.
00:25:44.000 --> 00:25:45.440
What's the part that comes after that?
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How does it go though?
00:25:46.640 --> 00:25:51.759
Okay, keeping your head above water, making a way when you can.
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Temporary lay off.
00:25:57.759 --> 00:26:01.759
All right, so if I would have sang it, it would have been two weeks.
00:26:04.559 --> 00:26:05.519
I said the same thing.
00:26:05.759 --> 00:26:08.160
I was if I'd have sang it, I'd have had to sing it like a Caucasian.
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Yeah, very awesome.
00:26:11.039 --> 00:26:12.079
I mean, y'all still got it.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Y'all can't think about it.
00:26:14.480 --> 00:26:15.680
All right, so we'll go one at a time.
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We'll start with Kiki on just just this one.
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Give me a good struggle meal.
00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:25.359
Noodles, my fucking kids love them struggle with noodles.
00:26:25.599 --> 00:26:34.079
Or or we weren't struggling, but I used to love motherfucking bread, toast some bread, butter, and put some cinnamon on it.
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My mom was like, Why the fuck would you be eating that like it's a meal?
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I'm like, because I like it.
00:26:40.319 --> 00:26:44.880
She caught it a struggle, meal, but I like what'd you say?
00:26:45.519 --> 00:26:47.599
I'm gonna go with uh beans and wings, you know what I'm saying?
00:26:47.759 --> 00:26:48.960
Hot dogs and pork and beans.
00:26:51.759 --> 00:26:53.920
Yep, all right, cut them bitches up, yeah.
00:26:54.319 --> 00:26:55.599
But I still I like them.
00:26:55.680 --> 00:26:59.200
I mean, my kids don't eat it now, but my son said syrup sandwich.
00:26:59.279 --> 00:27:01.119
I said, What the fuck you know about a syrup sandwich?
00:27:01.440 --> 00:27:04.480
Okay, he's talking about he said he loves it though.
00:27:04.559 --> 00:27:06.799
Like he like, you don't know, mom, but I love me.
00:27:07.599 --> 00:27:08.720
People like what they like.
00:27:09.119 --> 00:27:13.039
I'm like, a syrup, yeah, bread, put syrup on it, and eat it.
00:27:13.200 --> 00:27:17.519
Think about how many people went to jail and came out and still eatups, yeah.
00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:22.400
Yeah, or how many people just heard about the cookups and make it as if they've been to jail.
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:24.960
I said I ain't gonna lie, them cookups be good as fuck.
00:27:27.599 --> 00:27:28.640
Intuitive, yeah.
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:29.599
Think of the next one.
00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:30.960
I think y'all gonna get this one too.
00:27:31.200 --> 00:27:32.799
God is good all the time.
00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:34.240
God is good.
00:27:34.480 --> 00:27:35.759
Let's go, let's go.
00:27:35.920 --> 00:27:37.119
All right, so I know you.
00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:39.599
I know y'all gonna get this one, but I'm gonna go for it.
00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:42.160
If I do this, shut up, shaka.
00:27:42.960 --> 00:27:43.920
Oh, what just happened?
00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:46.240
Speaking that song, amen, amen.
00:27:46.559 --> 00:27:47.519
Call that holy spirit.
00:27:47.599 --> 00:27:48.880
Only one of my kids knew that answer.
00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:50.559
All right, I said, Man, I ain't gonna be able to do that.
00:27:53.279 --> 00:27:54.559
My kids probably won't know that either.
00:27:54.720 --> 00:27:55.440
Wait, what Tracy?
00:27:56.880 --> 00:28:01.200
No, the uh his girl said she said, You speaking gibberish?
00:28:02.559 --> 00:28:03.039
Yeah, no.
00:28:03.200 --> 00:28:04.400
I was like, Whoa, whoa.
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:06.640
I said oh my god.
00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:08.079
All right, here we go.
00:28:08.240 --> 00:28:10.480
The black of the berry, the sweet of the juice.
00:28:10.880 --> 00:28:14.000
Go say it referring to your hair.
00:28:14.240 --> 00:28:15.519
Where is the kitchen?
00:28:16.240 --> 00:28:18.640
Oh in the back and them naps, you know what I'm saying?
00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:25.279
All right, what does the letters HBCU stand for?
00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:27.759
Uh historically black college university.
00:28:28.240 --> 00:28:28.799
Let's go.
00:28:29.839 --> 00:28:31.920
Who would finish this person's name?
00:28:32.079 --> 00:28:33.680
Dennis the Dennis.
00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:35.920
Dennis the motherfucking menace.
00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:37.119
That used to be the show.
00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:39.200
All right, and the movie.
00:28:39.519 --> 00:28:40.319
Oh, it was a movie.
00:28:41.200 --> 00:28:42.480
Yeah, it was bad as hell.
00:28:42.799 --> 00:28:44.079
Finish this scene.
00:28:44.400 --> 00:28:46.319
Wait, wait, wait, this ain't enough.
00:28:48.480 --> 00:28:49.599
Wait, say that one more time.
00:28:51.200 --> 00:28:52.880
Wait, wait, wait, this ain't enough.
00:28:56.640 --> 00:28:57.759
Make it enough.
00:28:58.000 --> 00:28:59.359
You know, I ain't gonna know no scene.
00:28:59.680 --> 00:29:00.079
From Friday.
00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:01.680
I thought I say it sounded like Friday.
00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:05.039
From Friday, well, when she was like, Smokey, y'all give me some cigarettes.
00:29:08.079 --> 00:29:08.960
Y'all don't know.
00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:10.079
I was never gonna get there.
00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:15.359
Um here's the next one.
00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:17.200
Uh God don't like ugly.
00:29:17.599 --> 00:29:18.960
It ain't too fine and pretty.
00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:25.039
Give me it with a couple things.
00:29:25.119 --> 00:29:26.880
So I'll let y'all go one at a time.
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:28.640
Oh no, no, just yell it out.
00:29:28.799 --> 00:29:33.519
Give me one thing Felicia wanted to borrow.
00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:35.279
Trigger.
00:29:35.759 --> 00:29:36.400
I don't know.
00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:37.359
That's right.
00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:41.519
Oh damn, Felicia.
00:29:42.000 --> 00:29:43.599
Felicia, what'd she want to borrow?
00:29:44.720 --> 00:29:45.759
Everybody always wanna borrow sugar.
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:48.960
She was a crackhead.
00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:50.079
She was a crackhead.
00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:51.519
She never got over that road.
00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:53.680
Where were where was she famous?
00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:57.200
Where was uh by Felicia famous from?
00:29:58.960 --> 00:30:00.079
What movie?
00:30:01.039 --> 00:30:01.839
By Felicia.
00:30:02.000 --> 00:30:02.799
It won't Friday?
00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:04.720
Oh, I'm like, I thought it was Friday.
00:30:05.039 --> 00:30:07.359
A lot of the uh a lot of these questions I put together at the same time.
00:30:07.519 --> 00:30:08.160
I had to move it on the code.
00:30:08.319 --> 00:30:09.759
Oh, I'm like, I thought it was Friday.
00:30:10.079 --> 00:30:11.039
KD, fill them in.
00:30:11.119 --> 00:30:12.480
What else did what did Felicia want to borrow?
00:30:13.279 --> 00:30:13.920
The TV.
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:16.160
Oh, yeah, she did want to borrow the TV.
00:30:17.359 --> 00:30:19.359
TV, the R sugar, VCR.
00:30:19.599 --> 00:30:20.559
Every guy down there.
00:30:20.720 --> 00:30:21.599
She was a crackhead, sir.
00:30:21.759 --> 00:30:22.400
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:30:23.200 --> 00:30:23.839
And two dollars.
00:30:24.480 --> 00:30:26.400
All right, so here's the next one.
00:30:26.960 --> 00:30:27.759
What the cloud?
00:30:28.720 --> 00:30:30.720
My name is Bennett, and I ain't in it.
00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:31.359
I ain't in it.
00:30:33.279 --> 00:30:34.000
That's for real.
00:30:34.400 --> 00:30:34.880
All right.
00:30:35.039 --> 00:30:40.880
If you're about to get KD some good gossip, how you gonna start that story?
00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:46.000
Girl, girl, you ain't gonna believe.
00:30:46.079 --> 00:30:49.119
You ain't first of all, you gotta be like, girl, who you around?
00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:50.799
Girl, who you in?
00:30:51.119 --> 00:30:51.839
Take me off speaker.
00:30:51.920 --> 00:30:52.559
Girl, who you with?
00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:53.440
You got your earpod?
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:54.000
Girl.
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:57.279
Yeah, yeah.
00:30:57.519 --> 00:30:58.799
Got some tea for you.
00:30:59.440 --> 00:31:00.079
Girl.
00:31:01.200 --> 00:31:01.759
All right.
00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:07.519
What's the instruction that we got before entering the store?
00:31:07.759 --> 00:31:09.200
You better not ask for shit.
00:31:09.920 --> 00:31:10.720
Not for us.
00:31:11.200 --> 00:31:12.319
Don't touch shit.
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:13.839
Don't look at shit.
00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:15.440
You ain't getting shit.
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:22.319
What did it mean if your parents called you by your full government?
00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:23.119
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:23.759 --> 00:31:24.480
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:24.640 --> 00:31:26.000
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:26.799 --> 00:31:28.640
Because nobody even knew my government name.
00:31:28.720 --> 00:31:30.880
So if you heard it, you'd be like, bitch, what the fuck you do?
00:31:31.200 --> 00:31:31.599
What you did?
00:31:31.839 --> 00:31:32.319
What you do?
00:31:32.559 --> 00:31:33.519
The whole name?
00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:34.640
Your real name?
00:31:35.279 --> 00:31:37.119
Bitch, we ain't even know that was your name.
00:31:38.079 --> 00:31:38.720
Who she calling?
00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:39.680
Who she's talking to?
00:31:39.920 --> 00:31:43.039
My mama, my mama's gonna throw fucking in between the first name and the middle name.
00:31:43.200 --> 00:31:43.599
That's true.
00:31:44.400 --> 00:31:45.359
What the fuck?
00:31:45.599 --> 00:31:47.119
Okay, that's the last one.
00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:51.759
What was the most scariest thing to hear from your mama after you got in trouble?
00:31:52.960 --> 00:31:54.559
And tell your daddy.
00:31:56.400 --> 00:31:56.960
That's it.
00:31:57.200 --> 00:31:58.079
And I'm telling your daddy.
00:32:02.640 --> 00:32:03.359
And I'm telling your daddy.
00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:05.359
Like, damn.
00:32:05.759 --> 00:32:06.240
Why we can't?
00:32:06.319 --> 00:32:07.599
Why we can't keep this between us.
00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:10.240
What you mean you're telling him what?
00:32:10.480 --> 00:32:11.759
Why you gotta tell him that?
00:32:11.920 --> 00:32:12.720
Why we gotta we can tell you.
00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:13.759
Can we talk about it?
00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:14.960
Can we talk about it?
00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:17.200
I used to without you telling me, I'm gonna tell on you.
00:32:17.759 --> 00:32:19.359
And now I'm not getting told on no more.
00:32:19.839 --> 00:32:21.519
All right, so we're gonna get that was it.
00:32:21.599 --> 00:32:22.000
That was it.
00:32:22.319 --> 00:32:23.279
That was good right there.
00:32:23.599 --> 00:32:24.160
That was fun.
00:32:24.319 --> 00:32:28.000
All right, let's answer this one question real quick and then we're gonna let the people ride out.
00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:35.839
All right, it says man, it's a cuss word in here, but I mean read it.
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:37.519
No, the cuss word is just argument.
00:32:37.759 --> 00:32:41.279
But it says, my wife and I got into an argument.
00:32:42.319 --> 00:32:45.920
She started recording halfway through it without telling.
00:32:46.960 --> 00:32:47.920
She started recording.
00:32:48.079 --> 00:32:49.359
Hey Meta, record.
00:32:49.519 --> 00:32:51.920
She started recording halfway through it, right?
00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:58.720
Anybody who listened in the car, they face glass if I just started up right now.
00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:00.799
Who was I said that?
00:33:00.880 --> 00:33:02.160
Hey, Meta, record.
00:33:03.200 --> 00:33:05.599
She so started, she started recording without telling me.
00:33:05.680 --> 00:33:16.319
She posted the part where I was yelling, but conveniently left out the 20 minutes before that, where she was very, very disrespectful to me.
00:33:17.039 --> 00:33:23.279
Now her friends, family, and people online think I'm that horrible person, that horrible husband.
00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:25.200
She says I didn't lie.
00:33:25.279 --> 00:33:26.640
That's exactly what you said.
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:30.559
I told her a partial truth can be a whole lie.
00:33:31.519 --> 00:33:34.880
Now she refused to she refused to delete it.
00:33:35.039 --> 00:33:36.880
What divorce?
00:33:37.200 --> 00:33:39.039
Damn, shit.
00:33:39.200 --> 00:33:40.079
Damn, Jesus.
00:33:40.559 --> 00:33:42.799
Because everybody is supporting her.
00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:44.559
That's what she wanted, though.
00:33:44.880 --> 00:33:45.519
That's why she did it.
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:46.799
Attention is supporting it.
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:47.599
Yeah, that's why she did it.
00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:48.960
For BS.
00:33:49.039 --> 00:33:49.440
All right.
00:33:52.400 --> 00:34:03.440
This one, this, this one ties directly into the current conversation around recording people and putting interaction online, which I do not agree with.
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:04.559
I don't either.
00:34:07.359 --> 00:34:10.559
Do you think your spouse got the right to put your relationship problems online?
00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:14.639
Where do you think they were wrong?
00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:15.440
How can we fix this?
00:34:15.519 --> 00:34:16.159
What's going on?
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:16.800
Let's talk about it.
00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:17.360
Let's start.
00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:18.400
Uh geez.
00:34:18.559 --> 00:34:19.519
Shout out to her.
00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:21.599
Yeah, she's wrong as hell.
00:34:21.760 --> 00:34:22.559
You know what I mean?
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:33.840
First of all, if you're recording for safety reasons or you know what I mean, just to have it like as a pattern, like, okay, I want to show you what you've been doing and the longevity of the relationship.
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:35.519
Okay, cool, it's too between y'all.
00:34:36.159 --> 00:34:38.960
Once you bring other people to your relationship, yeah, that's bad news.
00:34:39.039 --> 00:34:39.199
Yep.
00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:39.920
That's bad news.
00:34:40.079 --> 00:34:44.079
And then to make him out to be such a bad person, but you married to him.
00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:44.800
You know what I mean?
00:34:44.880 --> 00:34:46.639
So it says a lot about her character.
00:34:46.719 --> 00:34:47.039
Yeah.
00:34:47.119 --> 00:34:51.920
That she will allow herself and her family members to look at him and view him in that way.
00:34:52.320 --> 00:34:52.719
You know what I mean?
00:34:52.800 --> 00:35:00.880
Because at the end of the day you still gonna lay with this person, you still love this person, and so now your family got an opinion, and it's your fault because you brought him in there.
00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:01.440
Yep, yeah.
00:35:01.840 --> 00:35:02.320
I agree.
00:35:02.480 --> 00:35:02.800
Kiki.
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:07.519
I always been one to like keep my family out of like our relationship.
00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:14.239
So I don't, of course, I would never post it on Facebook, but I don't even tell my family, like y'all know the shit that I've been through, right?
00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:16.159
But I don't tell my family because guess what?
00:35:16.239 --> 00:35:18.159
Where I'm going, I am not about to go nowhere.
00:35:18.239 --> 00:35:21.679
Yeah, so I'm not about to have my family hating you, right?
00:35:21.760 --> 00:35:23.920
And then I'm we still about to be right here.
00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:25.119
Like, what's the point of that?
00:35:25.280 --> 00:35:30.000
Now they disrespectful to him on some shit that I done did, and now we still about to be together.
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:31.119
Then what's the point of that?
00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:32.800
Right, there's no point of that.
00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:40.239
So I don't I would never post nothing on Facebook, let alone tell my family, so they messy asses can be talking amongst themselves.
00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:43.760
Yeah, you seen what this nigga did to how you seen this shit.
00:35:43.840 --> 00:35:46.800
You seen no, no, I'm not about to do that.
00:35:47.199 --> 00:35:48.719
So I don't agree with that at all.
00:35:48.880 --> 00:35:50.159
Like, never post nothing.
00:35:50.239 --> 00:35:52.480
And then it's like you don't even want to delete it.
00:35:52.559 --> 00:35:55.199
Like, I what we doing here?
00:35:55.599 --> 00:36:01.199
Then when I be like, I'm about to file for divorce, you like, what I know we ain't doing nothing that bit.
00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:02.079
What's what happened?
00:36:02.239 --> 00:36:02.719
What happened?
00:36:03.760 --> 00:36:05.039
So we can't communicate, bitch.
00:36:05.119 --> 00:36:07.119
You ain't communicate when you put it that shit on Facebook.
00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:09.760
When you put that shit on Facebook, it won't take it down.
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:10.400
It won't take it down.
00:36:12.480 --> 00:36:12.880
Right.
00:36:14.320 --> 00:36:20.239
So I not like you said, I don't care if you record it because, like, like you said, it could be for safety, it could be whatever.
00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:22.880
I feel like you're about to put your hands on me, whatever.
00:36:22.960 --> 00:36:29.519
Like, I need this documented, but to put it on Facebook is a whole, put it on social media, you can't even delete that.
00:36:29.599 --> 00:36:31.519
Yeah, because how many people already saved that video?
00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:33.599
Screen we I was about to say, they recorded it, yeah.
00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:35.599
So it's like how many group chats is it already?
00:36:36.079 --> 00:36:37.920
Already out there because it's definitely nice.
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:46.480
Because even because even if you delete it now, people already have it, but still delete it so nobody else can like people not gonna keep doing it, yeah.
00:36:46.639 --> 00:36:51.440
So yeah, you gotta delete that because I would I'm gonna lie, I probably would leave over something like that.
00:36:51.599 --> 00:36:55.519
Yeah, I don't care how long we've been together, you just not you disrespectful, yeah.
00:36:55.679 --> 00:37:00.079
Like, and you only showed your part, so it's like what we doing here.
00:37:00.239 --> 00:37:03.280
You only want to show how I act, but that's what I was gonna say.
00:37:03.360 --> 00:37:07.519
You didn't do the whole video of how you were acting, which made me react this way.
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:08.320
Come on now.
00:37:08.480 --> 00:37:09.199
That's what I was gonna say.
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:12.000
I don't like the fact that she only recorded the reaction, right?
00:37:12.400 --> 00:37:14.960
Because how long did you antagonize him before he popped off?
00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:16.079
You know what I'm saying?
00:37:16.159 --> 00:37:21.760
Like, it'll be like if I'm if I keep messing with you, like you you probably one of the calmest, coolest people in the world.
00:37:21.840 --> 00:37:24.400
Yeah, but if I'm fucking with you, I'm with you, I'm fucking with you.
00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:26.079
Everybody got a button, right?
00:37:26.320 --> 00:37:26.960
You pushing that button.
00:37:27.039 --> 00:37:28.719
So then you pop off and I'm recording it.
00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:33.920
Yeah, now I'm posting it, but I didn't post the whole hour that it took to get you to pop off.
00:37:34.159 --> 00:37:34.480
Right, right.
00:37:34.639 --> 00:37:35.280
You know what I'm saying?
00:37:35.440 --> 00:37:37.119
So it's like, what was the end game here?
00:37:37.199 --> 00:37:40.960
Yeah, so you want people to view me in this negative way.
00:37:41.119 --> 00:37:49.599
You want people to think I'm this angry person that's just calling you out your name or whatever the case is, when the fact of the matter is, look what you did to get me here.
00:37:49.760 --> 00:37:51.360
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:37:51.599 --> 00:37:58.880
I noticed that to be a good thing for a person who wants to live two separate lives.
00:37:59.519 --> 00:37:59.840
Right?
00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:06.239
Like I want my friends to be my friends on this side, and I want my man or my girl to be my person on that side.
00:38:06.559 --> 00:38:13.679
And when you start to merge the two together, it's hard, it starts to throw off the equilibrium of messiness that you can do.
00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:14.400
Yeah, it's hard to do that.
00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:15.840
Because we all together already, right?
00:38:16.239 --> 00:38:20.079
So I can come to you and complain about KD, but you like that ain't even happening.
00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:20.559
I was there.
00:38:20.719 --> 00:38:20.960
Yep.
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:31.199
But if we if you if I make it to a way y'all don't even like each other no more, now I can come complain to you about her, I can come to you and just kick it regular, and now I got my two separate lives.
00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:33.920
So I feel like that's kind of the angle that she was going at.
00:38:34.079 --> 00:38:36.800
Oh, she's gonna have a separate life when that man leaves her, yeah.
00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:39.440
But here's the thing what we know though, right?
00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:46.400
For a lot of people, that's a long road before you actually dabble and say, I'm done.
00:38:46.480 --> 00:38:46.719
You know what I'm saying?
00:38:47.679 --> 00:38:47.920
Yeah.
00:38:48.239 --> 00:38:58.480
My so let me ask y'all, have y'all ever had a person in y'all life where you found it to be harder to just be the ear or the shoulder?
00:38:58.639 --> 00:38:59.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:01.920
When when dirt comes along, yeah.
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:06.320
Where let's say, like Kiki just really need to vent, right?
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:09.280
But her dude is just literally no good.
00:39:09.360 --> 00:39:11.360
But she's sticking with it, right?
00:39:11.679 --> 00:39:14.159
Y'all been there, they this is a good thing.
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:15.679
So no, listen.
00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:17.280
Listen, this shit we done been through.
00:39:17.360 --> 00:39:25.280
So I'm saying it to like where we haven't been to the point where it was like always violent, right?
00:39:25.360 --> 00:39:26.239
Oh no, no, no, no.
00:39:26.320 --> 00:39:26.880
Yeah, not violent.
00:39:27.119 --> 00:39:30.320
So let's say, like, if y'all you're living in a violent relationship, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:30.400 --> 00:39:33.039
Okay, and to to us, we like you doing.
00:39:33.119 --> 00:39:33.599
You gotta get out.
00:39:35.119 --> 00:39:37.599
But you like, I ain't ready to go, we can fix this, whatever.
00:39:37.760 --> 00:39:38.400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:38.800 --> 00:39:46.079
So you don't want to be the one to talk negative on the person when the negative is coming in on the person, you just kind of being the ear of the shoulder.
00:39:46.239 --> 00:39:48.159
You really want to go put your hands on somebody, right?
00:39:48.719 --> 00:39:52.480
But you know you can't do that because this person is gonna stay around, yeah.
00:39:52.719 --> 00:39:53.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:39:53.679 --> 00:39:58.400
So I think that's another hard place to be in, what they say you're gonna be able to do.
00:39:58.559 --> 00:40:02.960
I mean, I feel like I feel like my family has taught me that, right?
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:08.079
Because there's been times where it's like, bro, I'm not, you know, you don't need to be there or whatever.
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:09.360
Yeah, but then it's like shit.
00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:10.800
If you rocking, I'm rolling.
00:40:10.960 --> 00:40:22.000
Because if you choose to go back to such a situation, if I say I take my hands off of it, then I have to take my hands off of you too.
00:40:22.159 --> 00:40:22.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:40:23.039 --> 00:40:24.800
Yeah, like and you don't want to do that.
00:40:24.880 --> 00:40:30.000
I'm about to say, and I know y'all remember even the situation with our our older son a couple years ago.
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:33.760
Yeah, when I was like, bro, if he do that, if he go back there, I'm done.
00:40:34.159 --> 00:40:34.719
Right, right.
00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:36.480
And BFF got me together.
00:40:36.639 --> 00:40:37.440
You got me together.
00:40:37.519 --> 00:40:46.880
I was I literally was, and then to see it all come to light, it's like, yep, yeah, but I couldn't, you can't live, you can't live in a world of I told you so.
00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:49.840
Yeah, right because because it's their life.
00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:57.599
Yep, you give them the tools to live that life rather it's your sister, your brother, your cousin, your kids, whatever, but it's their life, yeah.
00:40:57.760 --> 00:41:07.760
And whatever it is that they want to do with their life, whether you agree with it or not, either you gotta, if they rocking you rolling, or you gotta say, I don't want to be in your life at all, which is insane.
00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:22.719
But I feel like I had to learn in the hard way because when my sister, like she was in some domestic shit, and I was just ready to like she called me on sent some pictures on some shit, and I was like, Oh, bitch, when I get off, oh yeah, I know I'm calling, I'm calling.
00:41:23.840 --> 00:41:28.480
And my brother said, Listen, listen, listen, we can't do that.
00:41:28.559 --> 00:41:29.679
I said, Why the fuck?
00:41:29.760 --> 00:41:31.119
Did you see her fucking face?
00:41:31.360 --> 00:41:32.800
Fuck you mean we can't do that.
00:41:32.960 --> 00:41:35.360
He said, We're gonna go to jail and she's gonna go right back to him.
00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:36.719
I said, You know what?
00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:39.280
Ain't nothing worse than like beating a person up, yeah.
00:41:39.519 --> 00:41:41.840
And then now you gotta keep sitting around that person, you just beat up.
00:41:42.239 --> 00:41:44.079
I had a couple hours to think about it at work.
00:41:44.159 --> 00:41:47.119
I was like, Okay, bitch, you're right, because I got kids at home.
00:41:47.199 --> 00:41:49.119
I can't be going to jail on some shit to shit.
00:41:49.199 --> 00:41:50.320
No, so we was on our way.
00:41:50.480 --> 00:41:51.840
Because I just couldn't believe it.
00:41:51.920 --> 00:41:56.079
I'm like, how can somebody beat somebody up this bad and you talk about we ain't about to do nothing?
00:41:56.639 --> 00:42:00.719
But then, but then now two years later, I said, you know what?
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:01.519
Where's she at?
00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:02.079
You're right.
00:42:02.159 --> 00:42:03.360
That's he was right.
00:42:03.440 --> 00:42:05.039
So it made me think about it.
00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:10.559
But at the time, oh yeah, I said, bitch, when I get off work, it's uh first of all.
00:42:10.639 --> 00:42:11.360
She had already caught us.
00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:13.440
Hey, when I get off work, I'm coming to hey, whatever.
00:42:13.599 --> 00:42:18.880
It's um to like pour into that person though, because some of those things could be like mental health, you know, right?
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:28.480
I I feel like it was, I feel like it was that, and it was it was mental health for sure, but I feel like it was more drug related.
00:42:28.639 --> 00:42:29.599
Okay, you know what I'm saying?
00:42:29.679 --> 00:42:34.400
Like you're tied to a person that's you know what I'm saying, y'all doing the same thing, you're whatever.
00:42:34.639 --> 00:42:38.559
So it was just like she ain't want to go because she, I love him.
00:42:38.800 --> 00:42:40.559
I love him, and I love him.
00:42:40.639 --> 00:42:43.039
And I just I said, I know you fucking lie.
00:42:43.920 --> 00:42:49.599
I know you fucking like look at your fucking why you so I told her, don't send me no pictures, don't tell me shit.
00:42:50.079 --> 00:42:56.400
Don't send me no unless you're ready to go, because if I make this call, it ain't no taking it back.
00:42:56.480 --> 00:42:57.679
Like, you know what I'm saying?
00:42:58.000 --> 00:42:59.119
So don't do that.
00:42:59.280 --> 00:43:04.880
Like, don't send me no pictures and be like, look, this is what this nigga did, and expect me to like the nigga.
00:43:05.280 --> 00:43:07.039
Cause I'm never gonna like the nigga again.
00:43:08.239 --> 00:43:10.960
I gotta respect them because y'all are together, right?
00:43:11.039 --> 00:43:12.400
Y'all doing whatever, right?
00:43:12.559 --> 00:43:14.800
So I'm never gonna not have my sister.
00:43:14.960 --> 00:43:17.679
In order to have my sister, I gotta see the nigga.
00:43:17.920 --> 00:43:18.079
Right.
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:20.800
Don't ever expect me to talk to the nigga again, though.
00:43:20.960 --> 00:43:21.119
Right.
00:43:21.199 --> 00:43:23.840
No, you don't expect me to kick it, but you know how I do.
00:43:24.000 --> 00:43:25.920
Like, I'm never talking to the nigga.
00:43:26.079 --> 00:43:29.519
We could be in the same room, don't say nothing to me.
00:43:29.679 --> 00:43:31.280
Yeah, I don't respect you.
00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:36.239
Now she can respect you and she can be with you, but I'm never fucking with you again.
00:43:36.320 --> 00:43:39.280
Yeah, now if you can do that, I'm never fucking with you again.
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:51.679
What if it's a situation where the pictures that were sent was uh like protection from him, like he was protecting himself, like retaliation.
00:43:51.840 --> 00:43:54.079
Like like she was beating me with a bat.
00:43:54.400 --> 00:43:56.079
I just so happened to get my hand on.
00:43:56.320 --> 00:43:59.760
And I I can see, but my my thing is the picture wasn't.
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:04.480
No, I know it wasn't, but I'm just giving that as a butt so that's what my brother was saying.
00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:07.199
Like maybe they fight, whatever, da da da right.
00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:09.519
I know my sister not perfect, right?
00:44:09.679 --> 00:44:11.199
I know she be doing bullshit.
00:44:11.840 --> 00:44:14.079
But the picture was of her face missing.
00:44:14.320 --> 00:44:18.320
The nigga bit her face to where the skin was, ain't no way.
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:20.880
Black eyes, no, like all of that.
00:44:21.039 --> 00:44:22.480
You could have just restrained her.
00:44:23.360 --> 00:44:24.239
You a big nigga.
00:44:24.320 --> 00:44:25.360
She not that big.
00:44:26.079 --> 00:44:28.079
So I can see you restraining her.
00:44:28.159 --> 00:44:29.199
I can see all of that.
00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:34.159
But for her face to be that fucked up, you did way more than just restraining her.
00:44:34.719 --> 00:44:36.000
And I don't respect that.
00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:39.280
I don't respect no nigga that put his hands on no woman like that.
00:44:39.760 --> 00:44:43.199
Whether she started it or not, whether she was doing it or not, y'all do stuff.
00:44:43.280 --> 00:44:44.480
So I know y'all do stuff.
00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:46.079
I know y'all not perfect.
00:44:46.639 --> 00:44:48.239
And I told her, somebody gonna die.
00:44:48.400 --> 00:44:50.079
Somebody gonna die in this situation.
00:44:50.559 --> 00:44:52.400
He's gonna kill you or you gonna kill him.
00:44:52.559 --> 00:44:53.599
Y'all both gonna die.
00:44:53.679 --> 00:44:55.679
Some it's not it's not gonna end well.
00:44:56.559 --> 00:44:58.800
But for me to respect him, I cannot.
00:44:59.119 --> 00:44:59.679
I cannot.
00:44:59.760 --> 00:45:02.239
After seeing that picture, I'm never gonna respect you again.
00:45:03.039 --> 00:45:06.880
Because you could have restrained her and been gone, but you chose not to do that.
00:45:06.960 --> 00:45:07.119
Right.
00:45:07.519 --> 00:45:09.119
You chose to go overboard.
00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:11.840
So don't expect me to ever respect you again.
00:45:12.000 --> 00:45:13.599
I'm never talking to you again.
00:45:13.920 --> 00:45:15.760
And he's and he still be trying.
00:45:15.920 --> 00:45:19.760
Hey, I said, I said, hey, tell him not to talk to me.
00:45:19.840 --> 00:45:21.760
Because I talked to you, I caught you.
00:45:22.079 --> 00:45:23.519
Why is he talking to me?
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:25.599
Still trying to, he's trying to plead his case.
00:45:25.679 --> 00:45:26.400
He's trying to steal it.
00:45:26.559 --> 00:45:27.360
It's not gonna ever happen.
00:45:27.519 --> 00:45:28.559
This happened years ago.
00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:29.840
This ain't even fresh.
00:45:30.400 --> 00:45:31.519
And I'm still mad.
00:45:31.599 --> 00:45:32.639
Like, you have a right to do that.
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:36.719
But I can't be more mad than she is, so I'm like, I gotta cheer over it, bitch.
00:45:37.679 --> 00:45:38.559
But you know what it is?
00:45:38.719 --> 00:45:53.440
I think too, a lot of times when we are in our healthy space and we're dealing with our friend who may be friend, sister, cousin, whoever, who may not be in that healthy space in the area that we're talking about, we can see better than they can.
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:54.320
You know what I'm saying?
00:45:54.400 --> 00:45:56.559
We can see that this ain't yeah, you deserve better.
00:45:56.639 --> 00:45:59.199
You you shouldn't be in this situation, whatever the case may be.
00:45:59.280 --> 00:46:02.719
But the person who's in the picture is like, nah, we're gonna work it out.
00:46:02.800 --> 00:46:03.840
Yeah, we're gonna fix it.
00:46:03.920 --> 00:46:14.400
And yeah, as KD and I talk about this often, sometimes they'll see that we've been rocking for 27 years and they be they wanna they want that.
00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:22.079
So they like, I'm gonna put up with whatever, not knowing that you know it's still limits to the whatever that you gonna put up with.
00:46:22.320 --> 00:46:26.320
Yeah, nobody so much nobody knows what that limit is until you hit that.
00:46:26.639 --> 00:46:27.199
Until you hit it.
00:46:27.519 --> 00:46:29.760
I tell them that all the time, I can't tell you what your limits are.
00:46:29.840 --> 00:46:31.840
Your limits and my limits may or may not be the same.
00:46:31.920 --> 00:46:32.239
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:32.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:46:32.960 --> 00:46:36.079
Because you gotta think about like all the stuff your sister goes through.
00:46:36.320 --> 00:46:39.280
What make what might make her leave can be so minute.
00:46:39.360 --> 00:46:39.920
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:40.159 --> 00:46:43.519
So he be like, girl, you don't put up with this, this, this, that, you leaving for that.
00:46:43.679 --> 00:46:46.000
Yes, you leaving because he ate your slice of cake.
00:46:46.079 --> 00:46:47.119
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:46:47.199 --> 00:46:48.239
But it that's how it is.
00:46:48.320 --> 00:46:58.159
Like, yeah, people put up with some of the most astronomic shit that you will ever think of, and then the thing when they tell you what they broke up about, you be like, say what now?
00:46:58.320 --> 00:46:58.719
That's true.
00:46:58.880 --> 00:47:02.400
Yeah, I broke up because you ain't gonna the grocery store at seven o'clock, you went to eight o'clock.
00:47:02.960 --> 00:47:03.760
Oh, okay.
00:47:04.079 --> 00:47:06.320
Yeah, yeah, that'd be true.
00:47:06.400 --> 00:47:09.039
It'd be dealing with this because they be like, one more thing, and I'm done.
00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:12.159
Because you what they say, you know, you never know the straw that's gonna break the camera's back.
00:47:13.199 --> 00:47:16.079
I've been dealing with this 10 years, so I can't take one more of nothing.
00:47:16.159 --> 00:47:17.119
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
00:47:18.159 --> 00:47:18.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:47:18.960 --> 00:47:22.239
Like I'm that some people think that oh, you hear me, that you love me.
00:47:22.320 --> 00:47:23.760
They've learned over time, yeah.
00:47:24.159 --> 00:47:24.480
For sure.
00:47:24.800 --> 00:47:29.039
I'm just gonna say that because you got people, no matter what relationship they in, yeah, it's domestic, yeah.
00:47:29.199 --> 00:47:31.199
And they can bring it out like you can know the person, right?
00:47:31.280 --> 00:47:39.760
You can know the other person, and then you'll hear the domestic part of it, and you like that ain't even that's not yeah, that's not even them, it's not on that, yeah.
00:47:39.920 --> 00:47:44.639
So, what are you doing different that's bringing that out of somebody that it's not in?
00:47:44.800 --> 00:47:46.000
You know what the problem is.
00:47:46.239 --> 00:47:52.159
I feel like the problem is we know people from outside, and then it'd be like the inside shit that we don't know.
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:55.840
So then you be like, What he did what he never did nothing like that.
00:47:56.639 --> 00:47:58.960
Nigga, I've been living with this nigga for 12 years.
00:47:59.039 --> 00:48:00.800
I'ma tell you what this nigga been doing.
00:48:00.880 --> 00:48:09.039
Yeah, yeah, but I'm gonna say, like, we talked about this before, even in like one of the previous relationships that you were in during our break.
00:48:09.280 --> 00:48:13.039
Some of the stuff the girl was telling me, I'm like, Who girl, who are you talking about?
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:14.079
He did what?
00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:17.519
And I'm asking him, like, bro, you really did that?
00:48:17.599 --> 00:48:21.760
He like, yeah, he let her but because he because she pulled it out of him, yeah.
00:48:21.920 --> 00:48:29.519
And he was saying, like, it's not something that he's proud of that he did, yeah, but he did, and I'm like, because she was like, Girl, I don't know how you put up with that.
00:48:29.599 --> 00:48:33.920
He be pushing on me, and I'm who no way.
00:48:34.000 --> 00:48:36.480
I say this no way he's over there shaking you up.
00:48:37.039 --> 00:48:44.239
I say this in every in every ceremony that I do, that relationship is one of the highest things you can deal with, right?
00:48:45.119 --> 00:48:48.880
Because the right relationship is gonna pull the right stuff out of you.
00:48:48.960 --> 00:48:49.440
Yeah, that's real.
00:48:50.000 --> 00:48:51.920
The wrong one is gonna pull the wrong stuff out of you.
00:48:52.079 --> 00:48:52.400
I got it.
00:48:52.480 --> 00:49:01.440
And the problem is gonna be sometimes we stay in the wrong relationship way longer than we're supposed to because we don't want to admit that we've made a mistake.
00:49:01.679 --> 00:49:02.960
Oh that's true.
00:49:03.039 --> 00:49:03.280
That's real.
00:49:03.519 --> 00:49:04.159
No, that's true.
00:49:04.400 --> 00:49:07.039
They say that don't stay in a mistake just because you made it.
00:49:07.119 --> 00:49:08.960
Yeah, are you looking for love in all the wrong places?
00:49:09.199 --> 00:49:11.599
All the wrong places, you gotta love yourself first, you know.
00:49:13.280 --> 00:49:17.920
Or you know, you got people, I gotta stay because we got a baby and I want my kids to come from a broken home.
00:49:18.079 --> 00:49:22.079
Yeah, but sometimes that home that you ain't breaking is way worse.
00:49:22.320 --> 00:49:23.760
That's how my mama used to be, though.
00:49:23.840 --> 00:49:26.559
She said, No, I took these vows and I'm gonna take these vows in the end.
00:49:26.719 --> 00:49:28.480
But I'm like, sometimes you gotta choose you, yeah.
00:49:28.639 --> 00:49:33.280
Yeah, but she took she took our vows seriously, so she's like, I'm never getting into divorce.
00:49:34.719 --> 00:49:36.880
Sometimes you gotta back then.
00:49:37.280 --> 00:49:40.719
Again, you only knew your your environment, your surroundings, right?
00:49:40.880 --> 00:49:47.840
Yeah, so you didn't even really hear about other people being divorced at the rate that it is, so you felt like that's ground.
00:49:48.480 --> 00:49:51.360
Well, from my mama, she never seen nobody married.
00:49:52.239 --> 00:49:56.400
Her mama wasn't married, her none of her sisters got like nobody was married.
00:49:56.480 --> 00:49:57.440
That's even harder, though.
00:49:57.519 --> 00:50:00.239
But now you like the the front runner of this thing.
00:50:00.320 --> 00:50:03.599
Yeah, so like if I get divorced, how many people are gonna follow suit on what?
00:50:04.000 --> 00:50:04.960
No, nobody ever.
00:50:05.199 --> 00:50:06.400
I don't know if she felt like that.
00:50:06.480 --> 00:50:09.920
I think just think she felt like her religion, it was just strictly her religion, yeah.
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:10.559
And that's a big one.
00:50:10.880 --> 00:50:11.599
It was just her religion.
00:50:11.679 --> 00:50:12.159
That's a big one.
00:50:12.400 --> 00:50:15.519
Because nobody got married before her, after, like, none of them got married.
00:50:15.679 --> 00:50:18.639
So it's like you ain't, you know what I'm saying?
00:50:18.719 --> 00:50:22.400
You ain't the poster child for nobody because nobody even dealing with this, right?
00:50:22.559 --> 00:50:36.480
I mean, aside from one of her sisters did, but aside from of course the obvious parts of our relationship, another part that actually made me get myself together was knowing that we had other people looking at us.
00:50:36.960 --> 00:50:37.920
But that will, right?
00:50:38.000 --> 00:50:38.400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:50:38.559 --> 00:50:40.719
So that made me be like, okay, that will make a difference.
00:50:40.880 --> 00:50:44.079
I gotta at least be able to say if this does not work out, yeah.
00:50:44.239 --> 00:50:49.280
I gotta at least be able to say to whoever we need to hear, we did all we could.
00:50:49.360 --> 00:50:50.239
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:50:50.400 --> 00:51:01.360
And then you build a family, so it's like your family is my family, then all the family still doing stuff and they still contacting you, and you like, damn, I can't I can't even tell them, I don't even like this nigga no more.
00:51:02.239 --> 00:51:04.159
Like, so we gotta stay together.
00:51:05.119 --> 00:51:11.519
But that's how it because you, I mean that's true after so many years, 10-15 years, it's like everybody family.
00:51:11.599 --> 00:51:12.639
So it's like, what you mean?
00:51:12.719 --> 00:51:14.639
You're not what you mean you're breaking up?
00:51:14.800 --> 00:51:15.280
Like, hmm?
00:51:15.440 --> 00:51:16.880
No, you're the only cousin we know.
00:51:16.960 --> 00:51:17.840
What the fuck you talking about?
00:51:18.000 --> 00:51:19.840
We find my talk about like, yeah.
00:51:20.000 --> 00:51:23.599
So it's like you stay together because you like, damn, everybody, okay.
00:51:23.760 --> 00:51:24.800
I gotta stay here then.
00:51:25.679 --> 00:51:27.920
Yeah, so damn fuck.
00:51:28.239 --> 00:51:31.360
The one part that I want to tap on before we uh end it.
00:51:31.760 --> 00:51:36.239
Do y'all bel do y'all agree with the part where he said a partial truth can be a whole lie?
00:51:36.400 --> 00:51:39.119
Yes, absolutely, yeah, yeah, absolutely.
00:51:39.599 --> 00:51:42.159
They be saying they be saying the little white lies is not a lie.
00:51:42.719 --> 00:51:43.840
Because our mission is still a lie.
00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:48.400
Okay, like you you still not tell him the truth.
00:51:49.360 --> 00:51:51.119
So it makes the whole thing a lie.
00:51:51.199 --> 00:51:53.360
What she posted was a lie, yeah.
00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:54.159
That's how you acted.
00:51:54.719 --> 00:51:57.519
I don't know, because I don't feel like the whole thing was a lie.
00:51:57.679 --> 00:52:00.159
I just feel like you didn't show all of it.
00:52:00.239 --> 00:52:03.920
So I don't feel like the whole thing, because it's on video, so it can't be like that's what I'm saying.
00:52:04.000 --> 00:52:06.239
Like, I'm not saying he didn't act how he acted.
00:52:06.480 --> 00:52:11.760
What I'm saying, the lie comes from you, you're portraying as though he just acted like that for no reason.
00:52:11.920 --> 00:52:12.079
Right.
00:52:12.159 --> 00:52:14.719
So the question was, is the whole thing a lie though?
00:52:14.880 --> 00:52:17.440
No, he said what you say is a partial truth make a whole lie.
00:52:19.599 --> 00:52:20.079
I don't agree.
00:52:20.960 --> 00:52:22.639
I don't feel like that's a whole lie though.
00:52:22.800 --> 00:52:26.639
I don't agree because it's a reason why you omitted the part you omitted, right?
00:52:26.719 --> 00:52:27.199
Yeah, yeah.
00:52:27.599 --> 00:52:30.960
So yeah, I can say we record it right now because we are.
00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:33.679
But if you say what you do today, I just recorded today.
00:52:33.840 --> 00:52:35.360
No, you did other stuff.
00:52:35.599 --> 00:52:39.119
But I don't feel like that, but I still don't feel like that's the whole lie, though.
00:52:39.199 --> 00:52:46.800
I just feel like you omit it, which I think is a lie, but I don't feel like just because you didn't show all of it, it's everything is a lie.
00:52:46.960 --> 00:52:49.280
This is like I don't feel like it's a whole lie.
00:52:51.519 --> 00:52:52.639
It's tricky.
00:52:53.599 --> 00:52:54.880
It's a both end, right?
00:52:55.039 --> 00:52:56.159
I do feel like you're a liar.
00:52:56.400 --> 00:52:56.880
Yeah, yeah.
00:52:57.199 --> 00:52:58.159
You are a liar.
00:53:00.000 --> 00:53:04.719
It makes me a liar.
00:53:05.119 --> 00:53:07.280
Okay, it just makes me question your character.
00:53:07.440 --> 00:53:07.760
It does.
00:53:09.199 --> 00:53:16.960
Show the whole thing so everybody can, you know, but do you feel like is the whole lie, or do you feel like it's just partial?
00:53:17.280 --> 00:53:18.880
My whole part is a lie, you know what I'm saying?
00:53:18.960 --> 00:53:20.159
Because she ain't show her part, you know.
00:53:20.559 --> 00:53:21.360
So it's a lie.
00:53:21.519 --> 00:53:22.880
So when people like, why he act like that?
00:53:22.960 --> 00:53:24.559
You like girl, he just started popping off.
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:26.800
No nigga, that ain't what happened.
00:53:26.880 --> 00:53:28.719
Like, you call him hoe ass niggas.
00:53:28.960 --> 00:53:31.199
You said his mama's sucking dick on the corner, right?
00:53:31.360 --> 00:53:32.960
All types of shit before he popped off.
00:53:33.119 --> 00:53:33.440
That's true.
00:53:33.599 --> 00:53:36.559
But you making it seem like dog just popped off.
00:53:36.639 --> 00:53:38.559
So you pushed him, pushed him, pushed him.
00:53:38.800 --> 00:53:41.199
Soon as he popped off, you like meta, record.
00:53:41.840 --> 00:53:46.400
Yeah, because real tall, like I had a I had a homie and she she she passed away, RP.
00:53:46.960 --> 00:53:47.119
Right?
00:53:47.199 --> 00:53:52.880
We was in class in my master's school, and she was dating this guy.
00:53:53.199 --> 00:53:57.119
He was recording her after she got an abortion.
00:53:57.679 --> 00:54:00.800
So she's on the medicine, she's a white girl, he was black.
00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:05.920
So he provoked the provoked the provoked her and made her start saying, nigga, fuck you all this shit.
00:54:06.000 --> 00:54:11.199
Oh so she started using the racial slurs, he recorded it, he took it to our dean.
00:54:11.280 --> 00:54:15.199
The dean was like, Oh, we don't tolerate that, and then fucked around and killed her.
00:54:15.360 --> 00:54:16.880
Damn! Yeah, yeah.
00:54:17.119 --> 00:54:18.320
See what I'm saying?
00:54:18.559 --> 00:54:19.440
You a whole lie.
00:54:19.679 --> 00:54:26.400
You mean you ain't show your part how you provoked her, but you show you you you you made us question her character so she did kick out of school.
00:54:26.880 --> 00:54:29.599
Then you fucking end up killing her, right?
00:54:29.679 --> 00:54:30.639
That's crazy.
00:54:31.440 --> 00:54:35.840
What I think happened here, crazy as it's I say it's manipulative, definitely.
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:44.159
But so what happened is this lady just did social media in real life, right?
00:54:45.280 --> 00:54:47.119
I agree on social media, yeah.
00:54:47.679 --> 00:54:53.599
You're going on a post apart that's gonna make you look in the parts, yeah, that's gonna be entertaining to the people.
00:54:53.760 --> 00:54:56.719
That's true, and she just did social media in real life.
00:54:56.880 --> 00:54:57.760
That's true, you know what I'm saying?
00:54:57.840 --> 00:55:02.559
And then put it on social media, put it on social media, so she she inverted how life really is.
00:55:02.639 --> 00:55:06.480
She took social media, made it real life, and yeah, that's true.
00:55:06.639 --> 00:55:10.719
Nobody, nobody cares about just the regular argument part.
00:55:11.280 --> 00:55:12.000
No, shut up.
00:55:12.079 --> 00:55:12.800
No, you shut up.
00:55:12.880 --> 00:55:13.760
No, go to you go.
00:55:13.840 --> 00:55:14.480
I'm going to my room.
00:55:14.559 --> 00:55:15.119
I'm finna leave.
00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:16.480
Nobody cares about that part.
00:55:16.639 --> 00:55:19.199
It's when you get to that next level, that higher stage.
00:55:19.519 --> 00:55:23.840
And this is why I say as a cuss word, we don't do the arguing part, yeah.
00:55:24.079 --> 00:55:26.159
Because there's no resolution to argument.
00:55:26.480 --> 00:55:26.880
There's never.
00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:27.199
Yeah.
00:55:27.360 --> 00:55:30.159
Like you're not even trying to find a common ground in the argument.
00:55:30.320 --> 00:55:30.960
You're trying to win.
00:55:31.039 --> 00:55:31.440
Yep.
00:55:31.599 --> 00:55:34.480
So, in order to win, that means somebody finna be a loser.
00:55:34.559 --> 00:55:36.880
And now you might want to be a loser.
00:55:37.199 --> 00:55:38.480
Who wants to be in a relationship with a loser?
00:55:40.639 --> 00:55:41.119
That's true.
00:55:41.360 --> 00:55:44.239
Now, there is like how do you fix the argument?
00:55:44.320 --> 00:55:45.039
You know what I'm saying?
00:55:45.280 --> 00:55:46.079
It's no way to fix it.
00:55:46.159 --> 00:55:48.159
Somebody gotta win, somebody gotta lose, and then it's over with.
00:55:48.320 --> 00:55:48.639
Right.
00:55:48.960 --> 00:55:54.639
Until the whoever lost figure out a way to get that get back, and that's just gonna it's uh ever going.
00:55:55.039 --> 00:55:59.039
So she just did what she did on social media, but she did it in real life, right?
00:55:59.199 --> 00:56:00.159
She was like, What did it say?
00:56:00.239 --> 00:56:00.719
IRL.
00:56:00.800 --> 00:56:01.360
That's what she did.
00:56:01.519 --> 00:56:02.079
You know what I'm saying?
00:56:02.239 --> 00:56:04.000
Oh, yeah, in real life, be funny.
00:56:04.880 --> 00:56:05.840
So be funny.
00:56:06.000 --> 00:56:12.400
She she posted what she wanted to post to get what it is that she felt like she needed, which is the deeper part of it.
00:56:12.559 --> 00:56:16.480
Because why do you need validation from other people about your relationship?
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:18.159
Girl, you could do better than that.
00:56:18.320 --> 00:56:19.760
You can do better whole time.
00:56:19.840 --> 00:56:20.800
He could do better than you.
00:56:21.599 --> 00:56:28.320
That's the fact of the matter is you purposely portray somebody who you're supposed to be in love with, you're supposed to be married to in a relationship with.
00:56:28.480 --> 00:56:31.360
You intentionally portray them as a bad person.
00:56:31.679 --> 00:56:32.960
What the fuck is wrong with you?
00:56:33.760 --> 00:56:42.079
If anything, when we in our when we in our relationships, we try to always make sure people view our person as good.
00:56:42.719 --> 00:56:43.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:56:43.679 --> 00:56:44.800
As good as we can.
00:56:44.880 --> 00:56:50.400
Now, if you act the ass in public, I can't very well cover that up, but at home, you know what I'm saying?
00:56:50.480 --> 00:56:58.400
And then I just feel like to intentionally antagonize and drag anger out of somebody and only record their part is not fair.
00:56:58.559 --> 00:57:03.440
I remember, I remember my son showed me a video of argument, and I said, Well, what happened before that?
00:57:03.920 --> 00:57:05.519
Yeah, and he like, what you mean?
00:57:05.679 --> 00:57:06.800
What you mean, what I mean?
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.280
She didn't just she didn't just act like that, right?
00:57:09.519 --> 00:57:14.000
Listen, we we say this each and every week when we answering the fans and questions, right?
00:57:14.159 --> 00:57:14.719
What happened?
00:57:14.800 --> 00:57:15.360
What are we talking about?
00:57:15.760 --> 00:57:16.800
Yeah, what's the backstory?
00:57:17.039 --> 00:57:19.760
So we what's the backstory something before this?
00:57:19.840 --> 00:57:30.079
Yeah, because of course, given the whole content of everything, sometimes it will take a day or two to get it all out because it was brewing for uh days and days, you know what I'm saying?
00:57:30.239 --> 00:57:36.800
So I just gotta try to give you the the cliff notes of it, and this is the cliff note, this is what I'm gonna give y'all help me out.
00:57:37.119 --> 00:57:41.360
I didn't feel like it's crazy to just fuck with somebody and then be like, oh, game time, yeah, record.
00:57:41.679 --> 00:57:48.639
Ah, that's and then to refuse to take it down because I'm sure we're over whatever it is by now, and you still got it out there for the world to see.
00:57:49.199 --> 00:57:53.280
Now I can't get over it, yeah, because now my 18s and them is took calling me.
00:57:53.440 --> 00:57:54.000
What's this?
00:57:54.079 --> 00:57:55.519
I seen on that Facebook.
00:57:55.679 --> 00:57:56.000
You know what I mean?
00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:01.840
Yeah, not gonna be able to get out of there.
00:58:01.920 --> 00:58:04.719
And like BFF said, even if you take it down, it's already somebody.
00:58:04.960 --> 00:58:05.760
Somebody already got it.
00:58:06.159 --> 00:58:07.840
It's already girl, somebody got it.
00:58:08.159 --> 00:58:08.719
Girl, look at this.
00:58:08.960 --> 00:58:09.360
What do you say?
00:58:09.519 --> 00:58:11.599
Girl, girl, I'm gonna send you this video.
00:58:11.920 --> 00:58:13.119
Now I will say this.
00:58:13.360 --> 00:58:14.239
This will make it worse.
00:58:14.400 --> 00:58:15.199
I'm definitely saving it.
00:58:15.360 --> 00:58:17.199
This will make it even worse, right?
00:58:17.280 --> 00:58:19.199
It's already a bad situation.
00:58:19.599 --> 00:58:27.760
Now, if you recorded it separately, like you said, hey, meta recorder, you took your phone out, whatever the case, and you recorded it, and then you posted it.
00:58:27.920 --> 00:58:33.599
That's a different entity than going live and then just hidden post at the end.
00:58:34.079 --> 00:58:40.000
Because going live, yeah, there is no thought process in between where you can say this might not be a smart thing to do.
00:58:40.239 --> 00:58:41.760
Yeah, it's already out there for you.
00:58:41.920 --> 00:58:42.400
You know what I'm saying?
00:58:42.800 --> 00:58:43.840
Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right.
00:58:44.400 --> 00:58:47.280
I I wish that it didn't happen, period.
00:58:47.440 --> 00:58:58.320
But I hope that since it did happen, it was more of a I'm going live type situation to not so much like that's the difference between premeditated murder, you know what I'm saying?
00:58:58.639 --> 00:59:00.159
But even that you can take down.
00:59:00.239 --> 00:59:01.599
Like you can't take that shit down.
00:59:02.400 --> 00:59:06.800
The refusal of the takedown is the takedown, this is the thing too.
00:59:06.880 --> 00:59:10.000
Like when it comes to somebody who needs validation, right?
00:59:10.480 --> 00:59:15.199
When you see when you post something and that adrenaline goes, right?
00:59:15.360 --> 00:59:24.079
And you see, I just I just got five thousand likes or five thousand comments on a post where my last comment was 10.
00:59:24.480 --> 00:59:25.840
My last life was five.
00:59:26.000 --> 00:59:26.960
This one we did five.
00:59:27.039 --> 00:59:29.039
You you are because you like that adrenaline.
00:59:29.280 --> 00:59:32.000
That means you don't like to be in this relationship, is what it like to do.
00:59:32.400 --> 00:59:35.360
You choosing your attention over our relationship for me.
00:59:35.679 --> 00:59:36.639
Because what are we doing?
00:59:37.199 --> 00:59:37.840
Like, what are we doing?
00:59:38.960 --> 00:59:40.400
Yeah, you like the lights like that.
00:59:40.639 --> 00:59:43.280
You just going to be viral, you just doing this to be viral.
00:59:43.360 --> 00:59:44.960
So, like you said, it's premeditated.
00:59:45.199 --> 00:59:49.679
Like you already knew what you was about to do, and you like don't put no edits on there.
00:59:49.840 --> 00:59:52.800
Don't don't don't don't have the video looking like you edited and all type.
00:59:53.119 --> 00:59:53.519
But you can't.
00:59:53.599 --> 00:59:57.039
If you don't go live, you can't you're doing slow motion on parts of it and all that.
00:59:57.119 --> 00:59:57.679
Like, wait a minute.
00:59:57.760 --> 00:59:58.960
Now it's gonna take some time.
00:59:59.039 --> 01:00:01.360
Oh man, you put time like you want to be single to me.
01:00:01.440 --> 01:00:02.159
That's what it's looking like.
01:00:02.480 --> 01:00:03.519
Go be a movie director.
01:00:05.760 --> 01:00:08.239
And don't have it about my life, do it about something else.
01:00:08.559 --> 01:00:10.239
Pick somebody else to do, because that ain't me.
01:00:10.320 --> 01:00:11.760
It ain't me doing that.
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:13.920
Now you're about to have me calling some people.
01:00:14.000 --> 01:00:17.199
I don't even need to be calling, but now it's too late because I done already made the call.
01:00:17.280 --> 01:00:22.559
So yeah, that that when you add up all them, all that many people into your relationship.
01:00:22.880 --> 01:00:23.519
It's bad.
01:00:23.760 --> 01:00:24.800
It is it's bad.
01:00:24.880 --> 01:00:27.920
And I feel like at that point you just don't want the relationship.
01:00:28.079 --> 01:00:30.000
Like you just don't want it at that point.
01:00:30.320 --> 01:00:37.280
If you put if you posting stuff, and I not to say people don't post stuff, but you don't even want to delete it.
01:00:37.360 --> 01:00:40.719
Yeah, you and this bitch, like, yeah, we uh you see how many likes I got?
01:00:41.119 --> 01:00:49.440
Do do you do it make you slower to open up to somebody if you see them treating your significant other different after you opened up to them?
01:00:50.800 --> 01:00:53.039
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
01:00:53.519 --> 01:00:55.679
And you're like, Oh, you can't, I can't, I can't even talk to you.
01:00:55.920 --> 01:00:57.440
I can't I don't trust you.
01:00:57.920 --> 01:01:02.480
Like they never said nothing to them, but you can just see like the vibe is off.
01:01:02.880 --> 01:01:03.840
Yeah, you can see it.
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Yeah, yeah.
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All right, that's that.
01:01:08.719 --> 01:01:10.800
I know we got things to do today.
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That was deep though.
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Um so this is what we're gonna do.
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We got things to do.
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G talk to me, talk about it.
01:01:19.039 --> 01:01:22.559
Let them know how they can find you, what they can look forward to.
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Shout out the shout out the podcast, man.
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Because you know what I'm saying?
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We need I want y'all to get like 16,000 followers in the last year.
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Y'all heard that.
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Let's go.
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Hey, already.
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So yeah, you can uh find us on the Maldys podcast on YouTube, uh I G, I love the Maldys.
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Our personal page, Grayson underscore G.
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That's G-R-A-I-S-O-N underscore G.
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Also, I am Mr.
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Moutie on I G as well.
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And we got a lot of things coming up, you know what I'm saying?
01:01:52.960 --> 01:01:55.840
We also got uh Moutie meals, you know what I mean.
01:01:55.920 --> 01:01:58.480
So y'all, y'all make sure y'all look out for that in August.
01:01:59.280 --> 01:02:02.719
Make sure y'all go follow our YouTube for sure.
01:02:02.800 --> 01:02:04.800
We just dropped a new episode, you know what I'm saying?
01:02:04.880 --> 01:02:08.239
We had uh Kate Coach and uh KD on there, you know what I'm saying?
01:02:08.480 --> 01:02:09.440
Talk about it, talk about it.
01:02:09.679 --> 01:02:10.880
Let's talk about sex part two.
01:02:11.199 --> 01:02:12.880
Definitely information, you know what I mean?
01:02:14.480 --> 01:02:15.280
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I got to hear that.
01:02:20.159 --> 01:02:20.719
I'm back.
01:02:21.199 --> 01:02:22.880
Yeah, I think that's it.
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Okay, all right.
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King you love me.
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And you're right.
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You know, that's all I know.
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That's anybody I know.
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Okay, you can find us.
01:02:36.719 --> 01:02:37.840
I came in on a damn.
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You can find us on my favorite platform, YouTube.
01:02:44.559 --> 01:02:45.039
I don't know.
01:02:45.119 --> 01:02:46.400
I just love YouTube so much.
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I love the interaction with you can see.
01:02:48.480 --> 01:02:48.960
I don't know.
01:02:49.039 --> 01:02:52.159
I'm a are y'all visual or are y'all like like to listen at work?
01:02:52.400 --> 01:02:52.800
It depends.
01:02:53.039 --> 01:02:53.519
I'm visual.
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I'm so visual.
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Like I like to see like the face expressions and like everything.
01:03:00.880 --> 01:03:04.800
So y'all listen on, watch and listen on YouTube because I love that one.
01:03:05.039 --> 01:03:06.400
And then I guess we have a new one.
01:03:06.480 --> 01:03:08.559
Let me see what it's called because I wrote it down this time.
01:03:08.800 --> 01:03:10.400
But sprout talk about it.
01:03:14.719 --> 01:03:18.239
And iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcast.
01:03:18.320 --> 01:03:19.119
We everywhere, y'all.
01:03:19.199 --> 01:03:24.400
So just whatever your favorite platform is, download it and listen to us on it.
01:03:24.639 --> 01:03:26.480
Each and every week.
01:03:27.039 --> 01:03:27.760
KD.
01:03:28.159 --> 01:03:30.400
You can follow me at your girl.kd.
01:03:30.559 --> 01:03:32.960
You can follow kiki at rrp.kiki.
01:03:33.280 --> 01:03:35.679
You can follow coach dtm at coach dtm.
01:03:35.760 --> 01:03:39.679
You can follow our podcast page at RRP network.
01:03:39.920 --> 01:03:43.280
Make sure you go to the podcast page so that you can follow all of our podcasts.
01:03:43.360 --> 01:03:44.639
We have quite a few.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And growing, man.
01:03:48.159 --> 01:03:52.239
And growing the sports podcasts on the oh, yeah, we do.
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We got a new one coming.
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Reality sports, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And we got one.
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What's it gonna be called?
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Which one?
01:04:00.480 --> 01:04:02.000
The one that we let Shred do.
01:04:02.559 --> 01:04:03.440
What did he name it?
01:04:03.599 --> 01:04:05.119
Red wristband, blue wristband?
01:04:05.360 --> 01:04:05.760
Oh lord.
01:04:07.119 --> 01:04:07.840
Something like that.
01:04:07.920 --> 01:04:08.960
But how does it he gonna?
01:04:09.039 --> 01:04:12.400
I'm sure he's gonna I'm sure he's gonna walk work out the kinks, but yeah, it's gotta be.
01:04:12.559 --> 01:04:13.280
We got that coming too.
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Lord, yeah.
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I'm like, bro, you know YouTube will take you down.
01:04:19.440 --> 01:04:19.760
For real.
01:04:20.000 --> 01:04:21.920
You can't say 97 cuss words.
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Yeah, yeah.
01:04:22.719 --> 01:04:23.840
But yeah, you can't do a lot of stuff.
01:04:27.760 --> 01:04:30.159
And I'm trying to get our other son to do like a music podcast.
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So you know what I what I really want to do is like feature the artists that we know.
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Because we got a lot of oh yeah.
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I want to feature them at the end of our episode.
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I'll let them do like 16.
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Let it be dope.
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What's 16 mean?
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Everybody don't know what that means.
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Oh, a verse.
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Right, ours.
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My bad.
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Y'all in the music world, so y'all know what that means.
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Sorry.
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Everybody don't.
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So that that's that's soon to come as well.
01:05:01.599 --> 01:05:04.559
But make sure y'all tune in, like y'all have been doing.
01:05:04.719 --> 01:05:06.000
And I'm saying each and every week.
01:05:06.079 --> 01:05:09.119
Next week, I'll give you a little bit of a teaser.
01:05:09.360 --> 01:05:10.239
Just a little bit.
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All right.
01:05:11.599 --> 01:05:20.159
Because we have a situation where the wife called the police on the sun.
01:05:20.639 --> 01:05:20.880
Oh.
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So tune in next week.
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Make sure y'all get that juice, that tea.
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You know what I'm saying?
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What what y'all say?
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How y'all say girl?
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Girl.
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Let me tell you, girl.
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Let me tell you.
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What's tea?
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I'll be doing DTM like that, Cyborg.
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I'll be telling.
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I'll be like, girl.
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I mean, babe.
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I know.
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I do Lamar like that too.
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I'll be like, girl.
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Oh, you're not the girl.
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Sorry.
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Sorry.
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So again, man, we appreciate y'all tuning in each and every week.
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This has been yet another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast.
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I'm the one and only coach DTM.
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Your girl Katie.
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Your hostess with the most is Kiki.
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And Mr.
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Malgie, baby.
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If you don't want, if you don't hear me, you definitely see me back.
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We see y'all next week, man.
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So long.
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Bye bye.
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So long.
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Bye bye.
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Goodbye.
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50 mm 50 seconds in the fittest freaking off a restaurant 50 status decalator send it in.
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I got two investigators, dropping gym bitches trying to really sit on it.
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Oh it's finished if we own it.
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Smell like money, I can own it.
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I'm just a D girl from around the way with a whole lot of shit to say.
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It's your girl, KD.
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It's your hostess with the most is Kiki.
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What up, though?
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You know who this your boy coach DTMAK A pure motivation.
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I am Mr.
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Energy.
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Everybody love me.
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I don't have one enemy.
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I podcaster here now, so you gotta respect it.
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You never get off on us because we're never the exit.
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If you know me, then you know that I'm more than a savage who loves living life and is allergic to average.
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So in conclusion, so it's no confusions.
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If you see somebody really than us, it's an illusion.
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Let's go talk about it.
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What up, dude?
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What's good?
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What's good?
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Welcome to another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast, where you get your daily dose of relationships and reality.
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Let's go talk about it.
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What up, dude?
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What up?
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What up, dude?
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Okay, yeah, this is the world's most dangerous podcast.
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You know why?
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Because you guaranteed to grow or you guaranteed to go.
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That's just how it goes, man.
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Grow and go.
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That's just how it goes, man.
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You just say blow and go?
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Huh?
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You said grow and go?
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No, no, no.
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Yeah, grow and go.
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Grow and go.
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Okay, not blow and go.
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Okay.
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I thought she said blow and go.
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Get it.
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We got stuff to do.
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Get it poppin'.
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That's him.
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I'm doing good.
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We got stuff to do today.
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Today.
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Today is a special day.
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Today is a special day.
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Not just any day.
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You can have anything you won't show away.
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Okay, they're going.
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She can give you the credit for you.
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And I'm willing to pay for the rest of your day.
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It's not our.
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No, no, yeah.
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It's it's it's recording day.
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It's recording day.
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Oh, that's recording day.
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That's the song my husband used to sing when I used to be forgetting about our anniversary day.
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And he'd be like, damn, this bitch ain't said nothing on our day.
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I still remember your wedding anniversary.
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It's crazy.
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July 6th.
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Right.
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And July.
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We actually got married on the 16th, though.
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The 16th, yeah.
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Right.
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So I used to be just chilling.
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He was like, mm-mm.
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I'd be like, damn, that's our motherfucking anniversary.
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Damn it.
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Bitch, always forgetting shit.
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Beauty.
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The beauty of today is that we are not alone today.
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You are not alone.
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Because who's here with us?
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We got somebody.
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So we got a special guest with us, man.
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Introduce yourself.
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What up, what up, though?
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It's your boy Grayson, aka Mr.
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Moudie.
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You already know.
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Even though you what don't hear me, you definitely see me, baby.
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Yeah.
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Let's go.
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Let's go.
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All right.
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So we're gonna do a quick around the room.
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Just make sure everybody's good for this episode.
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Cause we're gonna go in yet a little bit, get a little bit, you know.
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Let's start.
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Let's start with G for a minute, man.
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G, how was your week and weekend, man?
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How's that thing going?
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And my week was smooth.
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It was smooth.
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Uh we just had a wedding that we went to.
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Okay, okay.
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Fire it all gets I love summer weddings.
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Looking like crowd.
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You know, pop your shit.
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Yeah, say it.
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Show them love.
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You know what I'm saying?
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The family loves me.
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You know what I mean?
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So that was always a blessing to be around good people.
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They came out looking like glad back.
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I know that's right.
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You know what I'm saying?
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I know that's right.
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Congratulations.
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I love a good witness.
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I love anything when I get to dress up.
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I know, right?
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I like that dressed up game.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Okay, they be like, we don't have to look that's too much.
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Scale it down.
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But sometimes you be like, I don't want to look better than the people that's getting married, though, right?
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First of all, his wife missed that memo.
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I saw them pictures out there.
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Brian, we're like, hey, like what?
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That girl was stubborn.
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Yeah, she came through with the came though.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Oh yeah, that's what's up, man.
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I'm I'm excited.
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I like hearing that.
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I love hearing about love.
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Now I will say this though.
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Who married them?
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I knew he was gonna say this.
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Uh oh, you said what I mean.
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I wasn't there, so I don't remember, you know what I'm saying?
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But it's cool.
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It's all right.
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I'm still here for you.
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Let me get remarried.
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I know that's right.
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That's what I'm talking about.
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Yeah, I'm here.
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Let's go.
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Uh I put the I put a post up not too long ago, man.
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I got so many DMs.
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Like, you already know.
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I'm coming.
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Look, I'm ready.
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Maybe ready to the time.
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Yeah, well, uh the the first five actually like book right then and then like I'm ready.
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Good, good.
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What I gotta do, send me the information.
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I'm about to lock it in.
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I was like, bad.
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So I think the one that we finna do next, he came to me before he even had a wife.
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He was like, Yo, oh okay, he did crack.
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He did come now.
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I didn't crack before he proposed to I ain't mad at that though.
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Yeah, he already knew.
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You speaking that to existence, you know it's about to you're ready.
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So I think I do believe that he probably gonna cry more than than the bride.
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Because he's been ready, yeah.
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And he's he anticipated.
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I think he's super super emotional.
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Emotional.
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Clearly, if you come in before you got a bride, yeah.
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No, that's a good sign.
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That's good.
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That's a good sign.
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I I love being around men who don't mind sharing their emotion.
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Oh, yeah.
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And I and I love how he loves her out loud.
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Yeah, all that all that trying to suppress the emotion because you want to look hard and all that.
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I don't need to look at it.
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That's why I don't need to look hard, man.
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I need my man to love me out loud, okay?
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For sure.
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Kiki.
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Yes, talk to me.
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Okay, my weekend, weekend.
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You know, I'm still getting over this dumbass cold, but I was able to go out a little bit.
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So I was like, okay, she back.
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I was feeling it, you know.
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First of all, let me tell y'all, after work we went to Cutters.
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You know, that'd be our spot after work.
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I got a love-hate relationship with this man that be in there.
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He's a regular.
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So we go into the door.
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He on the phone, but by the door.
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So he holds the door open, like, y'all going in here.
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I said, What make you think we going in there?
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The fact, no, we not going in there.
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What make you think as we coming right here that we going in there?
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So he like, oh my bad.
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I'm like, Yeah, we're going in there, open the door, no.
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We are going there.
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What's wrong with so when he gets inside, he come like, I'm buying y'all drinks all night, because she done gave me problems already.
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I said, Girl, that's how you get the drinks.
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Fuck it.
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It's flirting, but not flirting, you're right.
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Like, but don't talk, don't talk to me for real, because I don't want to talk.
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I don't, you're not gonna get my number.
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No, we're not no, we're not gonna talk for real.
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No, I'm gonna talk shit, but no, we don't.
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And he was a nice looking man, but he never left us alone the whole night.
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He kept, y'all straight, y'all straight, you want something, you want straight, you straight, you straight.
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I'm like, Yeah, he's gonna do that when he's spending money.
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Right.
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Ain't nothing wrong with it.
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He buying drinks.
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So I got he never got my number.
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But every time we go in there, he makes sure we straight.
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Like he like an older, like protector of like the bar or whatever.
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It's cool, but yeah, he's so funny.
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I'm like, he said, your girl been giving me a hard time.
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You cool, but she yeah, I don't she is something.
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I said, You like that something though, so you better calm down.
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Calm down.
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It was so funny though.
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So it's a thing every time we go now, he'd be there, he be like, We cool today, or we are we cool today, or we beefing.
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I'd be like, What you buying?
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Because that's the one the fuck that determines my level.
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My level of beef.
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But it's it's just fun though.
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But yeah, that we did that, and that was it was I don't know.
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I guess what made me think of that is like, do y'all go back to your jobs and be like, oh, I like this job so much that I'll just come back on here just to chill with the people that work here.
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Hell no, I don't like my job that much.
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Um you shaking your head now because of the type of job you have.
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But when we were working at the bar, well, that's different.
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That's the thing.
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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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So it was like a bunch of the bartenders can't, like, they was just partying, like all the birth, everybody was like, And it was looking cute.
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I was like, girl, like any you was in your work uniform, you ain't look like this, and that's why they didn't know.
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I gotta show you how can step.
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And then it'd be like where most of your friends are anyway.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So you might as well go there, and you get to show up.
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And this was like a Wednesday.
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I'm like, what why is it so it was so crowded for a Wednesday?
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We seen Warren Evans there, like it was so it'd be so many like politicians there.
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Yeah, it's that's just like the spot for for for real after work.
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I don't middle of the week, end of the week.
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They don't give a fuck, they be in there, bitch, eating.
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Cut them got good ass food though.
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They do got good and it's just good, right?
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And it's just a good vibe.
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The vibe is the vibe is just good there.
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Like, I don't eat too much food, but I mean, I got a snack, of course, but then you ain't going there for no steak and the time.
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Oh no, no, no.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like, you go, you you you go for what you you know, you go for the drinks and then you nibble.
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But people be like, oh my god, it's not girl.
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You was at the cutters, we was in the hood at cutters.
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That's a bar and grill, though.
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It ain't like uh I do believe like the vibe make the food and the drinks taste better too, though.
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That's true.
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Because you hear you having a good vibe, yeah.
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Whatever you order is gonna usually be straight, right?
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But if the vibe is already off, the food and the drink don't really have a shot.
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It's a wrap.
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Then they got the jukebox, and you know, the older people be playing.
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Well, you don't be knowing none of the worst, none of these songs.
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It'd be a whole vibe, like it'd be like seven o'clock.
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Like, oh bitch, we got to go to work in the morning.
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Why the fuck is we still here?
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Like, but that's how I gotta get up too early.
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We gotta be checking her location and be like, she be there for seven hours like this.
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My best friend done did a shift at cut it.
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It'd be so fun.
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It'd be so fun.
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It's just a vibe.
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So yeah, I did that a couple days, and then it's like they are regular.
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So I'm like, damn, am I a regular?
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That's how you know they're regular.
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I'm like, damn, am I a regular too?
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Yes.
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On Friday, they know you're coming.
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When the girl be like, Yeah, Tito's tonic water and lime.
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I said, Bitch, you're not a regular.
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They know you're gonna be there, they know they gonna be just like the pig bugger.
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Right.
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When we walk in the pig bug, they be like, Oh, you want the inner seat?
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You want the tiny, you know what I'm saying?
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As soon as we walk in the door, she gets a that's crazy.
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I never thought I'd be.
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I'm like, damn, I wasn't even drinking that, but I guess that's what I guess that's what she had already made.
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She already got it made and ready to roll.
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Hey y'all, I'm like, what's the hell is going on?
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Like, well, goddamn, let us sit over.
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I might have to change my drink.
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We gotta do that shit together.
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I know, yeah, not today.
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All right, okay, they talk about it.
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Oh, on well, don't do her the weekend weekend, whatever.
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We took our son to the winery.
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First of all, we had so much fun.
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Dog is a whole time, okay.
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Which winery y'all go to without me?
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The same one you went to without us.
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Because as soon as we walked in the door, as soon as we walked in the door, like, oh yeah, she came here without y'all.
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She said, Oh, this y'all pay back.
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And I was like, What you mean?
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That was like, she was like, Your girl was here without y'all.
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She was right there.
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I said, Oh, I said, I know you have a line.
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I said, I know she'd come here and pay for a taste, and then she knows we get these bitches for free.
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I didn't even drink that day though.
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I said, I said no, she just came here to use the bathroom.
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Yeah, I just used the bathroom.
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What'd she say?
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You sure when Trina wasn't there, I left.
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She was like, You sure?
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Because she was here for a minute.
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I saw her.
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I said, I said no, she told me she was here.
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I was like, actually, she went down the street to the Cooper club.
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And they were they was indecisive about the actual day because I think it was Friday.
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KD said it was Friday.
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She was like, she was like, No, it was a Saturday.
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I said no, it wasn't we knew Trina wasn't there on Saturdays.
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So we thought she was gonna be there on Friday, but she wasn't.
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I did see Neek.
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That's it, that's a she was the only one I know.
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But I said at the bar, and then when she wasn't, she wasn't even over there either.
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She was on the other side.
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She's leaving.
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So that's why I was like, She was like, I wasn't waiting on her, but I was about to go.
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I was like, Yeah, I'm leaving.
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So I used the band from again, and then you know, I'm gonna bother there.
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I got on the bottom.
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I ain't even getting nothing to drink or nothing.
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He's talking about, oh my god, we gotta go back.
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We didn't have fun though.
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We had fun.
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I just we just spent some time with him, kicking with him, you know what I'm saying?
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But that's nice.
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We had his.
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I took a picture of his wine because it looked like yours.
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It was like so colorful.
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Y'all know mine is never but they got then they got a bunch of new ones, so we do gotta go back because they do got a bunch of news.
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Make sure y'all invite us.
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Yeah, for sure.
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So fun, and then we all we oh my god, they was having 90s trivia.
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Did they girl?
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First of all, no, because people was cheating.
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Oh, yeah, they were definitely like no phones, people over there like we was actually trying to answer them.
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We did good for not cheating.
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She really need no help though.
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Like, I threw my little input in there now.
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I'm like, she she was like, You sure?
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I was like, Yeah, she was like, Okay, I'm gonna just put it just and I don't know.
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You did get one right, yeah.
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I got the one that she was she it was a basketball question.
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Like, why would you not want me to?
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Wait, I don't think there's it.
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I was the I thought I was the globe trotters, but I was that's still basketball.
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I was like, Oh, oh, my son was like, Mommy, you're not giving us a chance to help.
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I'm like, Do you know the answer?
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He like, no.
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But it was like, shut the fuck up.
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We were sitting here looking like, why does she even know this information?
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Like, what is what's what that's a lot of space in there that you can just delete?
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It's like like a phone.
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Chill out, delete that.
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It was uh one of the questions was like, What sitcom has the uh tagline?
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Do you got some cheese?
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I'm like, Oh, family matters, yeah.
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Can't they like you sure?
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I'm like, Yeah, that's cool.
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I know the I knew the blacks that take codes and stuff like that, the uh sitcom, but the one like the ratio cut and all that.
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I didn't know about that.
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You didn't know that?
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No, you know that what sitcom started the Rachel cut?
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The Rachel haircut, no?
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Friends, oh and I do watch friends.
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And she asked, Who uh what's Rachel's real name?
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Oh yeah, we don't store that information.
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I don't store it though.
00:15:52.879 --> 00:15:54.879
Yeah, I didn't I do watch friends, I did watch it.
00:15:55.120 --> 00:15:58.080
I mean, but yeah, you don't store that information.
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I know all of the things the music, I knew all of the things.
00:16:01.759 --> 00:16:06.159
Spice girls, oh yeah, but yeah, we had a good time.
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That sounds nice.
00:16:08.559 --> 00:16:10.639
So for me, that bitch told on me though.
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She ain't gonna get let's just go back to that for me.
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I'm gonna give y'all a quick, quick story time of coach, real quick, man.
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Okay.
00:16:18.960 --> 00:16:21.840
And then we're gonna get into I'm gonna do this culture check.
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I ain't get to do it, so I'm gonna do it.
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I ain't gonna do it at the live joint.
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You said cultures check?
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Yeah.
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Oh, okay.
00:16:29.039 --> 00:16:31.279
You just gotta be enthused.
00:16:31.440 --> 00:16:32.320
You can't really answer questions.
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You already know.
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I'm gonna help you.
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I'm definitely not gonna know it.
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You're gonna know something about story time with Coach Man.
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Uh again, in the jets, chilling, right?
00:16:43.919 --> 00:16:46.320
Getting my work on, helping helping people.
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And I got a system on how we do things, right?
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So we're working side by side with the maintenance crew who uh sh you know has been amazing through this process to get these 150 buildings done, units done, sorry.
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But it was just one lady who she rolled up on me the day before.
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I'm talking about she was walking at a pace that I thought it was about to go down.
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And I'm sitting up here, I'm still working, but I'm watching her come toward me.
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And in my head, I'm like, is it finna go down?
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And what do I do in this case?
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Because I don't want to put my hands on this lady, but she's walking real aggressive.
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No, it was too far by the time.
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Listen, it was at least a half hour from from the crib.
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Oh so I'm like, listen, she walking real aggressive.
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So she walked up to me, she said, When you doing my unit.
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Oh.
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I said, Uh, what unit's yours?
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Hey, like I know you.
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She was like, that one over there.
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I was like, Oh yeah, you're coming tomorrow.
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She was like, All right, cool.
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Turn around, walk away.
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The same aggressive walk back to the crib, right?
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So then that day comes, we pull up, she's going in, the maintenance guy, because I'm I'm I need to leave at a certain time, and you're not allowed to go in my house if I'm not there.
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But they like they got a rule where they said, because these are like a low-income joint where they, you know, based based off of what you make, it's what you pay.
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So it's a bunch of different rules.
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You can't have like overnight guests for so many days straight without them being approved by the office, no smoking in the building, like in the house, in the house, you gotta go outside.
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A bunch of different rules that they do to try to keep it, you know.
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It's a lot of apartments that's doing that now, though.
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Yeah, which is the same thing.
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So even when they were even when what's the name number living in Southfield, all that money they were spending, they couldn't smoke in the house.
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Yeah, or on the balcony.
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Is that what it's called?
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Yeah, yeah.
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So she said, Y'all can't come in the house when I he was like, No, unfortunately, that's not true.
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We gave you 48 hours notice, so we can definitely come in.
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We will only be doing what we are there to do, et cetera.
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But she was not here, none of that.
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She was still going in, right?
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I'm just listening from the sideline, doing my thing, trying to get, you know, still prepping and stuff.
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And um she rolls up on me after they walk away.
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I don't even know what the heck she was talking about, but I was like, look, I heard you going in on maintenance.
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Black lady, too.
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I'm like, come on, you send us back some years.
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Stop that.
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Some years.
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Stop that.
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So I'm like, listen, you are like in the middle.
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So no way you should go first.
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But I heard you say, I gotta go somewhere at a certain time.
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So I'm gonna stop everything I'm doing.
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I'm gonna knock your spot out first, then I go back to my regularly scheduled program.
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She's like, Okay, I appreciate that.
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Go back in the house.
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So as I'm still prepping, DoorDash lady walks up to go to a different spot, right?
00:19:33.839 --> 00:19:35.599
She passing the food out, the the food.
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Is it still DoorDash?
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But I don't know.
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Uber Eats, maybe?
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Maybe.
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But it was like grocery store food.
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Oh, it's the Kirk.
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Maybe.
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Or shoot.
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Oh so she um she passing the food out to the to the whoever ordered it.
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And on her way out, this lady was in the window looking like Pearl, and she was like, She was like, excuse me, excuse me.
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Talking to the lady.
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The lady stopped.
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She was trying to finish her stuff on her phone.
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She stopped, she looked up, she said, the lady said, You uh you ever heard of the dark web?
00:20:06.960 --> 00:20:08.079
The lady said, Huh?
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I know you.
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She said, You ever heard of the dark web?
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So the lady was like, Yeah, it's dark in there, don't go there.
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And just she kept walking.
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So I was like, Okay, okay, she's a nut.
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Lady that wanted you to do her stuff?
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Yeah.
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Oh, yeah, she crazy.
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That's what I was like.
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I was like, okay, she's a nut, right?
00:20:23.920 --> 00:20:26.640
So I still knock her out first and get it done.
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Now I'm going back through.
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Now, mind you, it's about maybe almost one o'clock, quarter to one.
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She's still here.
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Now, you know I like to play with people, but I I've not already seen you with the nuts, so I ain't even play with people.
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Right, right.
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So in my head, I was thinking, I'm talking to maintenance.
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I was like, yo, she didn't go nowhere.
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He's like, he's like, bro, I was gonna tell you.
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Oh my god, the police come out here like once a week for her.
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Oh, yeah.
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She's a nut, nut.
00:20:51.200 --> 00:20:56.400
Yeah, she told the police officer they came to do an eviction for somebody, right?
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The sheriff was out there, they were doing an eviction for somebody.
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She seen the sheriff, she walked up to the sheriff, she said, Yeah, they stole my kid.
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So the sheriff, like, who stole your kid?
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And she said, CPS from a different city, right?
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So he said, Well, that's not stealing if it's CPS.
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Something was wrong.
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Right.
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So she looked at him and said, You're not even a real cop.
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Well, I was like, Yeah, this poor lady.
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She's a nuts.
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She needs some mental help.
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Yeah, definitely.
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Yeah.
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She was like, My uh, my my stuff not working.
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I called my man and said, Look, come in here with me because I don't know.
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This might be a setup.
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I don't know what she got going behind the door.
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I'm walking in now, I'm a slave.
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I don't know what the heck going happening.
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I don't know.
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I got to a location, I'm pull up.
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Right.
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Right.
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Y'all heard the last episode.
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Y'all been listening.
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If it's too long, why are you still there at 7 30?
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I'm on my coming.
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Knocking on all the doors.
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All right.
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So we're going to do this thing.
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It's called culture check.
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I had to set up for the live event, but we didn't get a chance to get to it.
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But I think it's going to be really funny, really dope.
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What I'm going to do is I'm going to say it.
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And y'all could just it's just two of y'all.
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Y'all could just yell it out.
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It's only two of y'all.
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It's only two of y'all right now.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Katie is my my judge.
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The judge and jury.
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All right.
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You don't ever let me have no fun.
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Shout out to you.
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Well, you help with some of them.
00:22:29.359 --> 00:22:30.400
So you can't help her.
00:22:30.480 --> 00:22:31.599
You helped with some of them.
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Oh.
00:22:32.160 --> 00:22:37.599
But and we'll say that this is segment right here is sponsored by truly.
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Alright.
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So sometimes, you know what I'm saying?
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You just got to get your culture right.
00:22:43.599 --> 00:22:45.200
You got to get your mind right.
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You might deal with some nuts, you know what I'm saying?
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At work, you never know.
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And in the light of doing that, you have to get yours truly.
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It's yours truly right here.
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So that whatever lips store near you, man, go get you a sip.
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It definitely counts you down and get you right, man.
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And that's good.
00:23:06.000 --> 00:23:07.920
And it's about your sip at the same time.
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It also helps you when you're nasally, too.
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You know what I'm saying?
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They get you right.
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You better leave my best friend alone.
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Listen, from the beginning of this episode to right now, she sounds right.
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She does sound better.
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She sounds better already.
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Right, truly.
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I'm just saying.
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Shout out.
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Oh my god.
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Yours truly.
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I still feel the same.
00:23:28.880 --> 00:23:31.200
You've been taking all that mic quil all you need was some truth.
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All you needed was the truth.
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Bro.
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All right.
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That's a way.
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So in this, what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna I'm gonna give you a statement, a question, or whatever.
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You answer it.
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How you think the culture has answered it since you've been living in Biom.
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Oh Lord.
00:23:49.200 --> 00:23:49.599
All right.
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All right.
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All right.
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First one.
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If it ain't one thing, it's another.
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You gotta yell it out.
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All right.
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All right, for sure.
00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:01.279
I'ma help G.
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How do we know it was time to go in the house?
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Straight lights.
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There we go.
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There we go.
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I brought you in this world.
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I can take your motherfucking ass out.
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Hey, that ain't my fucking ass.
00:24:15.279 --> 00:24:16.960
Sorry, that's what my mama used to say.
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Hey, sorry, sorry.
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My mama went too far.
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Sorry, sorry.
00:24:21.920 --> 00:24:22.160
All right.
00:24:22.480 --> 00:24:24.400
My mother might have went too far with our shit.
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All right.
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Chill up, mama Cheryl.
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She did.
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Who was the one family member that was off limit to talk about?
00:24:30.079 --> 00:24:30.799
Grandma.
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We talked about everybody, so I don't think everybody.
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Come on now.
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I think that's that's grandma's is acceptable.
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It's mom.
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So it's my oh that's true.
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What you say about my mama?
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That's true.
00:24:47.759 --> 00:24:48.160
That's true.
00:24:48.960 --> 00:24:51.279
But for some people, it is their grandma because that's who raised them.
00:24:51.839 --> 00:24:52.559
You know what I'm saying?
00:24:53.119 --> 00:24:53.599
That's true.
00:24:53.839 --> 00:24:55.279
The devil is a lie.
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Let's go.
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What does you put your foot in this mean?
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Oh, that's your good as fuck.
00:25:04.079 --> 00:25:05.440
Good as fuck, baby.
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All right.
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Who is this person?
00:25:07.359 --> 00:25:09.039
Homie the clown?
00:25:09.200 --> 00:25:09.759
Oh yeah.
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I knew it.
00:25:10.640 --> 00:25:13.279
My kids are like, um, um, like my homeboy?
00:25:13.519 --> 00:25:17.519
Like, oh my god, you took it back, so they're not gonna know that.
00:25:17.599 --> 00:25:18.240
That's hard time.
00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:19.200
At all.
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All right.
00:25:21.119 --> 00:25:22.079
Finish this.
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Should I say it the way it's sound?
00:25:24.000 --> 00:25:26.319
If I say it the way it's done, it's gonna be gonna be too easy.
00:25:26.480 --> 00:25:28.640
I'm gonna just read it and see if I read it.
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And then if if I go if I go deeper, I go deeper.
00:25:30.799 --> 00:25:31.759
All right, here we go.
00:25:32.160 --> 00:25:36.160
Keeping your head above water, making a way when you can.
00:25:36.400 --> 00:25:37.599
Oh, I know that.
00:25:37.839 --> 00:25:39.119
That's the thing you saw on the thing.
00:25:39.279 --> 00:25:40.799
It is, it is good.
00:25:43.279 --> 00:25:43.680
I know it.
00:25:44.000 --> 00:25:45.440
What's the part that comes after that?
00:25:45.680 --> 00:25:46.559
How does it go though?
00:25:46.640 --> 00:25:51.759
Okay, keeping your head above water, making a way when you can.
00:25:52.319 --> 00:25:53.839
Temporary lay off.
00:25:57.759 --> 00:26:01.759
All right, so if I would have sang it, it would have been two weeks.
00:26:04.559 --> 00:26:05.519
I said the same thing.
00:26:05.759 --> 00:26:08.160
I was if I'd have sang it, I'd have had to sing it like a Caucasian.
00:26:08.400 --> 00:26:09.279
Yeah, very awesome.
00:26:11.039 --> 00:26:12.079
I mean, y'all still got it.
00:26:12.160 --> 00:26:12.640
You know what I'm saying?
00:26:13.440 --> 00:26:14.319
Y'all can't think about it.
00:26:14.480 --> 00:26:15.680
All right, so we'll go one at a time.
00:26:15.759 --> 00:26:18.000
We'll start with Kiki on just just this one.
00:26:18.240 --> 00:26:21.680
Give me a good struggle meal.
00:26:22.079 --> 00:26:25.359
Noodles, my fucking kids love them struggle with noodles.
00:26:25.599 --> 00:26:34.079
Or or we weren't struggling, but I used to love motherfucking bread, toast some bread, butter, and put some cinnamon on it.
00:26:34.160 --> 00:26:37.279
My mom was like, Why the fuck would you be eating that like it's a meal?
00:26:37.359 --> 00:26:38.880
I'm like, because I like it.
00:26:40.319 --> 00:26:44.880
She caught it a struggle, meal, but I like what'd you say?
00:26:45.519 --> 00:26:47.599
I'm gonna go with uh beans and wings, you know what I'm saying?
00:26:47.759 --> 00:26:48.960
Hot dogs and pork and beans.
00:26:51.759 --> 00:26:53.920
Yep, all right, cut them bitches up, yeah.
00:26:54.319 --> 00:26:55.599
But I still I like them.
00:26:55.680 --> 00:26:59.200
I mean, my kids don't eat it now, but my son said syrup sandwich.
00:26:59.279 --> 00:27:01.119
I said, What the fuck you know about a syrup sandwich?
00:27:01.440 --> 00:27:04.480
Okay, he's talking about he said he loves it though.
00:27:04.559 --> 00:27:06.799
Like he like, you don't know, mom, but I love me.
00:27:07.599 --> 00:27:08.720
People like what they like.
00:27:09.119 --> 00:27:13.039
I'm like, a syrup, yeah, bread, put syrup on it, and eat it.
00:27:13.200 --> 00:27:17.519
Think about how many people went to jail and came out and still eatups, yeah.
00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:22.400
Yeah, or how many people just heard about the cookups and make it as if they've been to jail.
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:24.960
I said I ain't gonna lie, them cookups be good as fuck.
00:27:27.599 --> 00:27:28.640
Intuitive, yeah.
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:29.599
Think of the next one.
00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:30.960
I think y'all gonna get this one too.
00:27:31.200 --> 00:27:32.799
God is good all the time.
00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:34.240
God is good.
00:27:34.480 --> 00:27:35.759
Let's go, let's go.
00:27:35.920 --> 00:27:37.119
All right, so I know you.
00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:39.599
I know y'all gonna get this one, but I'm gonna go for it.
00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:42.160
If I do this, shut up, shaka.
00:27:42.960 --> 00:27:43.920
Oh, what just happened?
00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:46.240
Speaking that song, amen, amen.
00:27:46.559 --> 00:27:47.519
Call that holy spirit.
00:27:47.599 --> 00:27:48.880
Only one of my kids knew that answer.
00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:50.559
All right, I said, Man, I ain't gonna be able to do that.
00:27:53.279 --> 00:27:54.559
My kids probably won't know that either.
00:27:54.720 --> 00:27:55.440
Wait, what Tracy?
00:27:56.880 --> 00:28:01.200
No, the uh his girl said she said, You speaking gibberish?
00:28:02.559 --> 00:28:03.039
Yeah, no.
00:28:03.200 --> 00:28:04.400
I was like, Whoa, whoa.
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:06.640
I said oh my god.
00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:08.079
All right, here we go.
00:28:08.240 --> 00:28:10.480
The black of the berry, the sweet of the juice.
00:28:10.880 --> 00:28:14.000
Go say it referring to your hair.
00:28:14.240 --> 00:28:15.519
Where is the kitchen?
00:28:16.240 --> 00:28:18.640
Oh in the back and them naps, you know what I'm saying?
00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:25.279
All right, what does the letters HBCU stand for?
00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:27.759
Uh historically black college university.
00:28:28.240 --> 00:28:28.799
Let's go.
00:28:29.839 --> 00:28:31.920
Who would finish this person's name?
00:28:32.079 --> 00:28:33.680
Dennis the Dennis.
00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:35.920
Dennis the motherfucking menace.
00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:37.119
That used to be the show.
00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:39.200
All right, and the movie.
00:28:39.519 --> 00:28:40.319
Oh, it was a movie.
00:28:41.200 --> 00:28:42.480
Yeah, it was bad as hell.
00:28:42.799 --> 00:28:44.079
Finish this scene.
00:28:44.400 --> 00:28:46.319
Wait, wait, wait, this ain't enough.
00:28:48.480 --> 00:28:49.599
Wait, say that one more time.
00:28:51.200 --> 00:28:52.880
Wait, wait, wait, this ain't enough.
00:28:56.640 --> 00:28:57.759
Make it enough.
00:28:58.000 --> 00:28:59.359
You know, I ain't gonna know no scene.
00:28:59.680 --> 00:29:00.079
From Friday.
00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:01.680
I thought I say it sounded like Friday.
00:29:02.079 --> 00:29:05.039
From Friday, well, when she was like, Smokey, y'all give me some cigarettes.
00:29:08.079 --> 00:29:08.960
Y'all don't know.
00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:10.079
I was never gonna get there.
00:29:13.519 --> 00:29:15.359
Um here's the next one.
00:29:15.440 --> 00:29:17.200
Uh God don't like ugly.
00:29:17.599 --> 00:29:18.960
It ain't too fine and pretty.
00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:25.039
Give me it with a couple things.
00:29:25.119 --> 00:29:26.880
So I'll let y'all go one at a time.
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:28.640
Oh no, no, just yell it out.
00:29:28.799 --> 00:29:33.519
Give me one thing Felicia wanted to borrow.
00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:35.279
Trigger.
00:29:35.759 --> 00:29:36.400
I don't know.
00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:37.359
That's right.
00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:41.519
Oh damn, Felicia.
00:29:42.000 --> 00:29:43.599
Felicia, what'd she want to borrow?
00:29:44.720 --> 00:29:45.759
Everybody always wanna borrow sugar.
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:48.960
She was a crackhead.
00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:50.079
She was a crackhead.
00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:51.519
She never got over that road.
00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:53.680
Where were where was she famous?
00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:57.200
Where was uh by Felicia famous from?
00:29:58.960 --> 00:30:00.079
What movie?
00:30:01.039 --> 00:30:01.839
By Felicia.
00:30:02.000 --> 00:30:02.799
It won't Friday?
00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:04.720
Oh, I'm like, I thought it was Friday.
00:30:05.039 --> 00:30:07.359
A lot of the uh a lot of these questions I put together at the same time.
00:30:07.519 --> 00:30:08.160
I had to move it on the code.
00:30:08.319 --> 00:30:09.759
Oh, I'm like, I thought it was Friday.
00:30:10.079 --> 00:30:11.039
KD, fill them in.
00:30:11.119 --> 00:30:12.480
What else did what did Felicia want to borrow?
00:30:13.279 --> 00:30:13.920
The TV.
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:16.160
Oh, yeah, she did want to borrow the TV.
00:30:17.359 --> 00:30:19.359
TV, the R sugar, VCR.
00:30:19.599 --> 00:30:20.559
Every guy down there.
00:30:20.720 --> 00:30:21.599
She was a crackhead, sir.
00:30:21.759 --> 00:30:22.400
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:30:23.200 --> 00:30:23.839
And two dollars.
00:30:24.480 --> 00:30:26.400
All right, so here's the next one.
00:30:26.960 --> 00:30:27.759
What the cloud?
00:30:28.720 --> 00:30:30.720
My name is Bennett, and I ain't in it.
00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:31.359
I ain't in it.
00:30:33.279 --> 00:30:34.000
That's for real.
00:30:34.400 --> 00:30:34.880
All right.
00:30:35.039 --> 00:30:40.880
If you're about to get KD some good gossip, how you gonna start that story?
00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:46.000
Girl, girl, you ain't gonna believe.
00:30:46.079 --> 00:30:49.119
You ain't first of all, you gotta be like, girl, who you around?
00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:50.799
Girl, who you in?
00:30:51.119 --> 00:30:51.839
Take me off speaker.
00:30:51.920 --> 00:30:52.559
Girl, who you with?
00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:53.440
You got your earpod?
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:54.000
Girl.
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:57.279
Yeah, yeah.
00:30:57.519 --> 00:30:58.799
Got some tea for you.
00:30:59.440 --> 00:31:00.079
Girl.
00:31:01.200 --> 00:31:01.759
All right.
00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:07.519
What's the instruction that we got before entering the store?
00:31:07.759 --> 00:31:09.200
You better not ask for shit.
00:31:09.920 --> 00:31:10.720
Not for us.
00:31:11.200 --> 00:31:12.319
Don't touch shit.
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:13.839
Don't look at shit.
00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:15.440
You ain't getting shit.
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:22.319
What did it mean if your parents called you by your full government?
00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:23.119
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:23.759 --> 00:31:24.480
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:24.640 --> 00:31:26.000
Oh, you in trouble?
00:31:26.799 --> 00:31:28.640
Because nobody even knew my government name.
00:31:28.720 --> 00:31:30.880
So if you heard it, you'd be like, bitch, what the fuck you do?
00:31:31.200 --> 00:31:31.599
What you did?
00:31:31.839 --> 00:31:32.319
What you do?
00:31:32.559 --> 00:31:33.519
The whole name?
00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:34.640
Your real name?
00:31:35.279 --> 00:31:37.119
Bitch, we ain't even know that was your name.
00:31:38.079 --> 00:31:38.720
Who she calling?
00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:39.680
Who she's talking to?
00:31:39.920 --> 00:31:43.039
My mama, my mama's gonna throw fucking in between the first name and the middle name.
00:31:43.200 --> 00:31:43.599
That's true.
00:31:44.400 --> 00:31:45.359
What the fuck?
00:31:45.599 --> 00:31:47.119
Okay, that's the last one.
00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:51.759
What was the most scariest thing to hear from your mama after you got in trouble?
00:31:52.960 --> 00:31:54.559
And tell your daddy.
00:31:56.400 --> 00:31:56.960
That's it.
00:31:57.200 --> 00:31:58.079
And I'm telling your daddy.
00:32:02.640 --> 00:32:03.359
And I'm telling your daddy.
00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:05.359
Like, damn.
00:32:05.759 --> 00:32:06.240
Why we can't?
00:32:06.319 --> 00:32:07.599
Why we can't keep this between us.
00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:10.240
What you mean you're telling him what?
00:32:10.480 --> 00:32:11.759
Why you gotta tell him that?
00:32:11.920 --> 00:32:12.720
Why we gotta we can tell you.
00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:13.759
Can we talk about it?
00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:14.960
Can we talk about it?
00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:17.200
I used to without you telling me, I'm gonna tell on you.
00:32:17.759 --> 00:32:19.359
And now I'm not getting told on no more.
00:32:19.839 --> 00:32:21.519
All right, so we're gonna get that was it.
00:32:21.599 --> 00:32:22.000
That was it.
00:32:22.319 --> 00:32:23.279
That was good right there.
00:32:23.599 --> 00:32:24.160
That was fun.
00:32:24.319 --> 00:32:28.000
All right, let's answer this one question real quick and then we're gonna let the people ride out.
00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:35.839
All right, it says man, it's a cuss word in here, but I mean read it.
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:37.519
No, the cuss word is just argument.
00:32:37.759 --> 00:32:41.279
But it says, my wife and I got into an argument.
00:32:42.319 --> 00:32:45.920
She started recording halfway through it without telling.
00:32:46.960 --> 00:32:47.920
She started recording.
00:32:48.079 --> 00:32:49.359
Hey Meta, record.
00:32:49.519 --> 00:32:51.920
She started recording halfway through it, right?
00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:58.720
Anybody who listened in the car, they face glass if I just started up right now.
00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:00.799
Who was I said that?
00:33:00.880 --> 00:33:02.160
Hey, Meta, record.
00:33:03.200 --> 00:33:05.599
She so started, she started recording without telling me.
00:33:05.680 --> 00:33:16.319
She posted the part where I was yelling, but conveniently left out the 20 minutes before that, where she was very, very disrespectful to me.
00:33:17.039 --> 00:33:23.279
Now her friends, family, and people online think I'm that horrible person, that horrible husband.
00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:25.200
She says I didn't lie.
00:33:25.279 --> 00:33:26.640
That's exactly what you said.
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:30.559
I told her a partial truth can be a whole lie.
00:33:31.519 --> 00:33:34.880
Now she refused to she refused to delete it.
00:33:35.039 --> 00:33:36.880
What divorce?
00:33:37.200 --> 00:33:39.039
Damn, shit.
00:33:39.200 --> 00:33:40.079
Damn, Jesus.
00:33:40.559 --> 00:33:42.799
Because everybody is supporting her.
00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:44.559
That's what she wanted, though.
00:33:44.880 --> 00:33:45.519
That's why she did it.
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:46.799
Attention is supporting it.
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:47.599
Yeah, that's why she did it.
00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:48.960
For BS.
00:33:49.039 --> 00:33:49.440
All right.
00:33:52.400 --> 00:34:03.440
This one, this, this one ties directly into the current conversation around recording people and putting interaction online, which I do not agree with.
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:04.559
I don't either.
00:34:07.359 --> 00:34:10.559
Do you think your spouse got the right to put your relationship problems online?
00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:14.639
Where do you think they were wrong?
00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:15.440
How can we fix this?
00:34:15.519 --> 00:34:16.159
What's going on?
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:16.800
Let's talk about it.
00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:17.360
Let's start.
00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:18.400
Uh geez.
00:34:18.559 --> 00:34:19.519
Shout out to her.
00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:21.599
Yeah, she's wrong as hell.
00:34:21.760 --> 00:34:22.559
You know what I mean?
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:33.840
First of all, if you're recording for safety reasons or you know what I mean, just to have it like as a pattern, like, okay, I want to show you what you've been doing and the longevity of the relationship.
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:35.519
Okay, cool, it's too between y'all.
00:34:36.159 --> 00:34:38.960
Once you bring other people to your relationship, yeah, that's bad news.
00:34:39.039 --> 00:34:39.199
Yep.
00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:39.920
That's bad news.
00:34:40.079 --> 00:34:44.079
And then to make him out to be such a bad person, but you married to him.
00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:44.800
You know what I mean?
00:34:44.880 --> 00:34:46.639
So it says a lot about her character.
00:34:46.719 --> 00:34:47.039
Yeah.
00:34:47.119 --> 00:34:51.920
That she will allow herself and her family members to look at him and view him in that way.
00:34:52.320 --> 00:34:52.719
You know what I mean?
00:34:52.800 --> 00:35:00.880
Because at the end of the day you still gonna lay with this person, you still love this person, and so now your family got an opinion, and it's your fault because you brought him in there.
00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:01.440
Yep, yeah.
00:35:01.840 --> 00:35:02.320
I agree.
00:35:02.480 --> 00:35:02.800
Kiki.
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:07.519
I always been one to like keep my family out of like our relationship.
00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:14.239
So I don't, of course, I would never post it on Facebook, but I don't even tell my family, like y'all know the shit that I've been through, right?
00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:16.159
But I don't tell my family because guess what?
00:35:16.239 --> 00:35:18.159
Where I'm going, I am not about to go nowhere.
00:35:18.239 --> 00:35:21.679
Yeah, so I'm not about to have my family hating you, right?
00:35:21.760 --> 00:35:23.920
And then I'm we still about to be right here.
00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:25.119
Like, what's the point of that?
00:35:25.280 --> 00:35:30.000
Now they disrespectful to him on some shit that I done did, and now we still about to be together.
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:31.119
Then what's the point of that?
00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:32.800
Right, there's no point of that.
00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:40.239
So I don't I would never post nothing on Facebook, let alone tell my family, so they messy asses can be talking amongst themselves.
00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:43.760
Yeah, you seen what this nigga did to how you seen this shit.
00:35:43.840 --> 00:35:46.800
You seen no, no, I'm not about to do that.
00:35:47.199 --> 00:35:48.719
So I don't agree with that at all.
00:35:48.880 --> 00:35:50.159
Like, never post nothing.
00:35:50.239 --> 00:35:52.480
And then it's like you don't even want to delete it.
00:35:52.559 --> 00:35:55.199
Like, I what we doing here?
00:35:55.599 --> 00:36:01.199
Then when I be like, I'm about to file for divorce, you like, what I know we ain't doing nothing that bit.
00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:02.079
What's what happened?
00:36:02.239 --> 00:36:02.719
What happened?
00:36:03.760 --> 00:36:05.039
So we can't communicate, bitch.
00:36:05.119 --> 00:36:07.119
You ain't communicate when you put it that shit on Facebook.
00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:09.760
When you put that shit on Facebook, it won't take it down.
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:10.400
It won't take it down.
00:36:12.480 --> 00:36:12.880
Right.
00:36:14.320 --> 00:36:20.239
So I not like you said, I don't care if you record it because, like, like you said, it could be for safety, it could be whatever.
00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:22.880
I feel like you're about to put your hands on me, whatever.
00:36:22.960 --> 00:36:29.519
Like, I need this documented, but to put it on Facebook is a whole, put it on social media, you can't even delete that.
00:36:29.599 --> 00:36:31.519
Yeah, because how many people already saved that video?
00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:33.599
Screen we I was about to say, they recorded it, yeah.
00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:35.599
So it's like how many group chats is it already?
00:36:36.079 --> 00:36:37.920
Already out there because it's definitely nice.
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:46.480
Because even because even if you delete it now, people already have it, but still delete it so nobody else can like people not gonna keep doing it, yeah.
00:36:46.639 --> 00:36:51.440
So yeah, you gotta delete that because I would I'm gonna lie, I probably would leave over something like that.
00:36:51.599 --> 00:36:55.519
Yeah, I don't care how long we've been together, you just not you disrespectful, yeah.
00:36:55.679 --> 00:37:00.079
Like, and you only showed your part, so it's like what we doing here.
00:37:00.239 --> 00:37:03.280
You only want to show how I act, but that's what I was gonna say.
00:37:03.360 --> 00:37:07.519
You didn't do the whole video of how you were acting, which made me react this way.
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:08.320
Come on now.
00:37:08.480 --> 00:37:09.199
That's what I was gonna say.
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:12.000
I don't like the fact that she only recorded the reaction, right?
00:37:12.400 --> 00:37:14.960
Because how long did you antagonize him before he popped off?
00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:16.079
You know what I'm saying?
00:37:16.159 --> 00:37:21.760
Like, it'll be like if I'm if I keep messing with you, like you you probably one of the calmest, coolest people in the world.
00:37:21.840 --> 00:37:24.400
Yeah, but if I'm fucking with you, I'm with you, I'm fucking with you.
00:37:25.119 --> 00:37:26.079
Everybody got a button, right?
00:37:26.320 --> 00:37:26.960
You pushing that button.
00:37:27.039 --> 00:37:28.719
So then you pop off and I'm recording it.
00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:33.920
Yeah, now I'm posting it, but I didn't post the whole hour that it took to get you to pop off.
00:37:34.159 --> 00:37:34.480
Right, right.
00:37:34.639 --> 00:37:35.280
You know what I'm saying?
00:37:35.440 --> 00:37:37.119
So it's like, what was the end game here?
00:37:37.199 --> 00:37:40.960
Yeah, so you want people to view me in this negative way.
00:37:41.119 --> 00:37:49.599
You want people to think I'm this angry person that's just calling you out your name or whatever the case is, when the fact of the matter is, look what you did to get me here.
00:37:49.760 --> 00:37:51.360
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:37:51.599 --> 00:37:58.880
I noticed that to be a good thing for a person who wants to live two separate lives.
00:37:59.519 --> 00:37:59.840
Right?
00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:06.239
Like I want my friends to be my friends on this side, and I want my man or my girl to be my person on that side.
00:38:06.559 --> 00:38:13.679
And when you start to merge the two together, it's hard, it starts to throw off the equilibrium of messiness that you can do.
00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:14.400
Yeah, it's hard to do that.
00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:15.840
Because we all together already, right?
00:38:16.239 --> 00:38:20.079
So I can come to you and complain about KD, but you like that ain't even happening.
00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:20.559
I was there.
00:38:20.719 --> 00:38:20.960
Yep.
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:31.199
But if we if you if I make it to a way y'all don't even like each other no more, now I can come complain to you about her, I can come to you and just kick it regular, and now I got my two separate lives.
00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:33.920
So I feel like that's kind of the angle that she was going at.
00:38:34.079 --> 00:38:36.800
Oh, she's gonna have a separate life when that man leaves her, yeah.
00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:39.440
But here's the thing what we know though, right?
00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:46.400
For a lot of people, that's a long road before you actually dabble and say, I'm done.
00:38:46.480 --> 00:38:46.719
You know what I'm saying?
00:38:47.679 --> 00:38:47.920
Yeah.
00:38:48.239 --> 00:38:58.480
My so let me ask y'all, have y'all ever had a person in y'all life where you found it to be harder to just be the ear or the shoulder?
00:38:58.639 --> 00:38:59.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:01.920
When when dirt comes along, yeah.
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:06.320
Where let's say, like Kiki just really need to vent, right?
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:09.280
But her dude is just literally no good.
00:39:09.360 --> 00:39:11.360
But she's sticking with it, right?
00:39:11.679 --> 00:39:14.159
Y'all been there, they this is a good thing.
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:15.679
So no, listen.
00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:17.280
Listen, this shit we done been through.
00:39:17.360 --> 00:39:25.280
So I'm saying it to like where we haven't been to the point where it was like always violent, right?
00:39:25.360 --> 00:39:26.239
Oh no, no, no, no.
00:39:26.320 --> 00:39:26.880
Yeah, not violent.
00:39:27.119 --> 00:39:30.320
So let's say, like, if y'all you're living in a violent relationship, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:30.400 --> 00:39:33.039
Okay, and to to us, we like you doing.
00:39:33.119 --> 00:39:33.599
You gotta get out.
00:39:35.119 --> 00:39:37.599
But you like, I ain't ready to go, we can fix this, whatever.
00:39:37.760 --> 00:39:38.400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:38.800 --> 00:39:46.079
So you don't want to be the one to talk negative on the person when the negative is coming in on the person, you just kind of being the ear of the shoulder.
00:39:46.239 --> 00:39:48.159
You really want to go put your hands on somebody, right?
00:39:48.719 --> 00:39:52.480
But you know you can't do that because this person is gonna stay around, yeah.
00:39:52.719 --> 00:39:53.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:39:53.679 --> 00:39:58.400
So I think that's another hard place to be in, what they say you're gonna be able to do.
00:39:58.559 --> 00:40:02.960
I mean, I feel like I feel like my family has taught me that, right?
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:08.079
Because there's been times where it's like, bro, I'm not, you know, you don't need to be there or whatever.
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:09.360
Yeah, but then it's like shit.
00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:10.800
If you rocking, I'm rolling.
00:40:10.960 --> 00:40:22.000
Because if you choose to go back to such a situation, if I say I take my hands off of it, then I have to take my hands off of you too.
00:40:22.159 --> 00:40:22.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:40:23.039 --> 00:40:24.800
Yeah, like and you don't want to do that.
00:40:24.880 --> 00:40:30.000
I'm about to say, and I know y'all remember even the situation with our our older son a couple years ago.
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:33.760
Yeah, when I was like, bro, if he do that, if he go back there, I'm done.
00:40:34.159 --> 00:40:34.719
Right, right.
00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:36.480
And BFF got me together.
00:40:36.639 --> 00:40:37.440
You got me together.
00:40:37.519 --> 00:40:46.880
I was I literally was, and then to see it all come to light, it's like, yep, yeah, but I couldn't, you can't live, you can't live in a world of I told you so.
00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:49.840
Yeah, right because because it's their life.
00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:57.599
Yep, you give them the tools to live that life rather it's your sister, your brother, your cousin, your kids, whatever, but it's their life, yeah.
00:40:57.760 --> 00:41:07.760
And whatever it is that they want to do with their life, whether you agree with it or not, either you gotta, if they rocking you rolling, or you gotta say, I don't want to be in your life at all, which is insane.
00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:22.719
But I feel like I had to learn in the hard way because when my sister, like she was in some domestic shit, and I was just ready to like she called me on sent some pictures on some shit, and I was like, Oh, bitch, when I get off, oh yeah, I know I'm calling, I'm calling.
00:41:23.840 --> 00:41:28.480
And my brother said, Listen, listen, listen, we can't do that.
00:41:28.559 --> 00:41:29.679
I said, Why the fuck?
00:41:29.760 --> 00:41:31.119
Did you see her fucking face?
00:41:31.360 --> 00:41:32.800
Fuck you mean we can't do that.
00:41:32.960 --> 00:41:35.360
He said, We're gonna go to jail and she's gonna go right back to him.
00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:36.719
I said, You know what?
00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:39.280
Ain't nothing worse than like beating a person up, yeah.
00:41:39.519 --> 00:41:41.840
And then now you gotta keep sitting around that person, you just beat up.
00:41:42.239 --> 00:41:44.079
I had a couple hours to think about it at work.
00:41:44.159 --> 00:41:47.119
I was like, Okay, bitch, you're right, because I got kids at home.
00:41:47.199 --> 00:41:49.119
I can't be going to jail on some shit to shit.
00:41:49.199 --> 00:41:50.320
No, so we was on our way.
00:41:50.480 --> 00:41:51.840
Because I just couldn't believe it.
00:41:51.920 --> 00:41:56.079
I'm like, how can somebody beat somebody up this bad and you talk about we ain't about to do nothing?
00:41:56.639 --> 00:42:00.719
But then, but then now two years later, I said, you know what?
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:01.519
Where's she at?
00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:02.079
You're right.
00:42:02.159 --> 00:42:03.360
That's he was right.
00:42:03.440 --> 00:42:05.039
So it made me think about it.
00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:10.559
But at the time, oh yeah, I said, bitch, when I get off work, it's uh first of all.
00:42:10.639 --> 00:42:11.360
She had already caught us.
00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:13.440
Hey, when I get off work, I'm coming to hey, whatever.
00:42:13.599 --> 00:42:18.880
It's um to like pour into that person though, because some of those things could be like mental health, you know, right?
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:28.480
I I feel like it was, I feel like it was that, and it was it was mental health for sure, but I feel like it was more drug related.
00:42:28.639 --> 00:42:29.599
Okay, you know what I'm saying?
00:42:29.679 --> 00:42:34.400
Like you're tied to a person that's you know what I'm saying, y'all doing the same thing, you're whatever.
00:42:34.639 --> 00:42:38.559
So it was just like she ain't want to go because she, I love him.
00:42:38.800 --> 00:42:40.559
I love him, and I love him.
00:42:40.639 --> 00:42:43.039
And I just I said, I know you fucking lie.
00:42:43.920 --> 00:42:49.599
I know you fucking like look at your fucking why you so I told her, don't send me no pictures, don't tell me shit.
00:42:50.079 --> 00:42:56.400
Don't send me no unless you're ready to go, because if I make this call, it ain't no taking it back.
00:42:56.480 --> 00:42:57.679
Like, you know what I'm saying?
00:42:58.000 --> 00:42:59.119
So don't do that.
00:42:59.280 --> 00:43:04.880
Like, don't send me no pictures and be like, look, this is what this nigga did, and expect me to like the nigga.
00:43:05.280 --> 00:43:07.039
Cause I'm never gonna like the nigga again.
00:43:08.239 --> 00:43:10.960
I gotta respect them because y'all are together, right?
00:43:11.039 --> 00:43:12.400
Y'all doing whatever, right?
00:43:12.559 --> 00:43:14.800
So I'm never gonna not have my sister.
00:43:14.960 --> 00:43:17.679
In order to have my sister, I gotta see the nigga.
00:43:17.920 --> 00:43:18.079
Right.
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:20.800
Don't ever expect me to talk to the nigga again, though.
00:43:20.960 --> 00:43:21.119
Right.
00:43:21.199 --> 00:43:23.840
No, you don't expect me to kick it, but you know how I do.
00:43:24.000 --> 00:43:25.920
Like, I'm never talking to the nigga.
00:43:26.079 --> 00:43:29.519
We could be in the same room, don't say nothing to me.
00:43:29.679 --> 00:43:31.280
Yeah, I don't respect you.
00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:36.239
Now she can respect you and she can be with you, but I'm never fucking with you again.
00:43:36.320 --> 00:43:39.280
Yeah, now if you can do that, I'm never fucking with you again.
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:51.679
What if it's a situation where the pictures that were sent was uh like protection from him, like he was protecting himself, like retaliation.
00:43:51.840 --> 00:43:54.079
Like like she was beating me with a bat.
00:43:54.400 --> 00:43:56.079
I just so happened to get my hand on.
00:43:56.320 --> 00:43:59.760
And I I can see, but my my thing is the picture wasn't.
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:04.480
No, I know it wasn't, but I'm just giving that as a butt so that's what my brother was saying.
00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:07.199
Like maybe they fight, whatever, da da da right.
00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:09.519
I know my sister not perfect, right?
00:44:09.679 --> 00:44:11.199
I know she be doing bullshit.
00:44:11.840 --> 00:44:14.079
But the picture was of her face missing.
00:44:14.320 --> 00:44:18.320
The nigga bit her face to where the skin was, ain't no way.
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:20.880
Black eyes, no, like all of that.
00:44:21.039 --> 00:44:22.480
You could have just restrained her.
00:44:23.360 --> 00:44:24.239
You a big nigga.
00:44:24.320 --> 00:44:25.360
She not that big.
00:44:26.079 --> 00:44:28.079
So I can see you restraining her.
00:44:28.159 --> 00:44:29.199
I can see all of that.
00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:34.159
But for her face to be that fucked up, you did way more than just restraining her.
00:44:34.719 --> 00:44:36.000
And I don't respect that.
00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:39.280
I don't respect no nigga that put his hands on no woman like that.
00:44:39.760 --> 00:44:43.199
Whether she started it or not, whether she was doing it or not, y'all do stuff.
00:44:43.280 --> 00:44:44.480
So I know y'all do stuff.
00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:46.079
I know y'all not perfect.
00:44:46.639 --> 00:44:48.239
And I told her, somebody gonna die.
00:44:48.400 --> 00:44:50.079
Somebody gonna die in this situation.
00:44:50.559 --> 00:44:52.400
He's gonna kill you or you gonna kill him.
00:44:52.559 --> 00:44:53.599
Y'all both gonna die.
00:44:53.679 --> 00:44:55.679
Some it's not it's not gonna end well.
00:44:56.559 --> 00:44:58.800
But for me to respect him, I cannot.
00:44:59.119 --> 00:44:59.679
I cannot.
00:44:59.760 --> 00:45:02.239
After seeing that picture, I'm never gonna respect you again.
00:45:03.039 --> 00:45:06.880
Because you could have restrained her and been gone, but you chose not to do that.
00:45:06.960 --> 00:45:07.119
Right.
00:45:07.519 --> 00:45:09.119
You chose to go overboard.
00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:11.840
So don't expect me to ever respect you again.
00:45:12.000 --> 00:45:13.599
I'm never talking to you again.
00:45:13.920 --> 00:45:15.760
And he's and he still be trying.
00:45:15.920 --> 00:45:19.760
Hey, I said, I said, hey, tell him not to talk to me.
00:45:19.840 --> 00:45:21.760
Because I talked to you, I caught you.
00:45:22.079 --> 00:45:23.519
Why is he talking to me?
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:25.599
Still trying to, he's trying to plead his case.
00:45:25.679 --> 00:45:26.400
He's trying to steal it.
00:45:26.559 --> 00:45:27.360
It's not gonna ever happen.
00:45:27.519 --> 00:45:28.559
This happened years ago.
00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:29.840
This ain't even fresh.
00:45:30.400 --> 00:45:31.519
And I'm still mad.
00:45:31.599 --> 00:45:32.639
Like, you have a right to do that.
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:36.719
But I can't be more mad than she is, so I'm like, I gotta cheer over it, bitch.
00:45:37.679 --> 00:45:38.559
But you know what it is?
00:45:38.719 --> 00:45:53.440
I think too, a lot of times when we are in our healthy space and we're dealing with our friend who may be friend, sister, cousin, whoever, who may not be in that healthy space in the area that we're talking about, we can see better than they can.
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:54.320
You know what I'm saying?
00:45:54.400 --> 00:45:56.559
We can see that this ain't yeah, you deserve better.
00:45:56.639 --> 00:45:59.199
You you shouldn't be in this situation, whatever the case may be.
00:45:59.280 --> 00:46:02.719
But the person who's in the picture is like, nah, we're gonna work it out.
00:46:02.800 --> 00:46:03.840
Yeah, we're gonna fix it.
00:46:03.920 --> 00:46:14.400
And yeah, as KD and I talk about this often, sometimes they'll see that we've been rocking for 27 years and they be they wanna they want that.
00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:22.079
So they like, I'm gonna put up with whatever, not knowing that you know it's still limits to the whatever that you gonna put up with.
00:46:22.320 --> 00:46:26.320
Yeah, nobody so much nobody knows what that limit is until you hit that.
00:46:26.639 --> 00:46:27.199
Until you hit it.
00:46:27.519 --> 00:46:29.760
I tell them that all the time, I can't tell you what your limits are.
00:46:29.840 --> 00:46:31.840
Your limits and my limits may or may not be the same.
00:46:31.920 --> 00:46:32.239
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:32.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:46:32.960 --> 00:46:36.079
Because you gotta think about like all the stuff your sister goes through.
00:46:36.320 --> 00:46:39.280
What make what might make her leave can be so minute.
00:46:39.360 --> 00:46:39.920
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:40.159 --> 00:46:43.519
So he be like, girl, you don't put up with this, this, this, that, you leaving for that.
00:46:43.679 --> 00:46:46.000
Yes, you leaving because he ate your slice of cake.
00:46:46.079 --> 00:46:47.119
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:46:47.199 --> 00:46:48.239
But it that's how it is.
00:46:48.320 --> 00:46:58.159
Like, yeah, people put up with some of the most astronomic shit that you will ever think of, and then the thing when they tell you what they broke up about, you be like, say what now?
00:46:58.320 --> 00:46:58.719
That's true.
00:46:58.880 --> 00:47:02.400
Yeah, I broke up because you ain't gonna the grocery store at seven o'clock, you went to eight o'clock.
00:47:02.960 --> 00:47:03.760
Oh, okay.
00:47:04.079 --> 00:47:06.320
Yeah, yeah, that'd be true.
00:47:06.400 --> 00:47:09.039
It'd be dealing with this because they be like, one more thing, and I'm done.
00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:12.159
Because you what they say, you know, you never know the straw that's gonna break the camera's back.
00:47:13.199 --> 00:47:16.079
I've been dealing with this 10 years, so I can't take one more of nothing.
00:47:16.159 --> 00:47:17.119
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
00:47:18.159 --> 00:47:18.880
You know what I'm saying?
00:47:18.960 --> 00:47:22.239
Like I'm that some people think that oh, you hear me, that you love me.
00:47:22.320 --> 00:47:23.760
They've learned over time, yeah.
00:47:24.159 --> 00:47:24.480
For sure.
00:47:24.800 --> 00:47:29.039
I'm just gonna say that because you got people, no matter what relationship they in, yeah, it's domestic, yeah.
00:47:29.199 --> 00:47:31.199
And they can bring it out like you can know the person, right?
00:47:31.280 --> 00:47:39.760
You can know the other person, and then you'll hear the domestic part of it, and you like that ain't even that's not yeah, that's not even them, it's not on that, yeah.
00:47:39.920 --> 00:47:44.639
So, what are you doing different that's bringing that out of somebody that it's not in?
00:47:44.800 --> 00:47:46.000
You know what the problem is.
00:47:46.239 --> 00:47:52.159
I feel like the problem is we know people from outside, and then it'd be like the inside shit that we don't know.
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:55.840
So then you be like, What he did what he never did nothing like that.
00:47:56.639 --> 00:47:58.960
Nigga, I've been living with this nigga for 12 years.
00:47:59.039 --> 00:48:00.800
I'ma tell you what this nigga been doing.
00:48:00.880 --> 00:48:09.039
Yeah, yeah, but I'm gonna say, like, we talked about this before, even in like one of the previous relationships that you were in during our break.
00:48:09.280 --> 00:48:13.039
Some of the stuff the girl was telling me, I'm like, Who girl, who are you talking about?
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:14.079
He did what?
00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:17.519
And I'm asking him, like, bro, you really did that?
00:48:17.599 --> 00:48:21.760
He like, yeah, he let her but because he because she pulled it out of him, yeah.
00:48:21.920 --> 00:48:29.519
And he was saying, like, it's not something that he's proud of that he did, yeah, but he did, and I'm like, because she was like, Girl, I don't know how you put up with that.
00:48:29.599 --> 00:48:33.920
He be pushing on me, and I'm who no way.
00:48:34.000 --> 00:48:36.480
I say this no way he's over there shaking you up.
00:48:37.039 --> 00:48:44.239
I say this in every in every ceremony that I do, that relationship is one of the highest things you can deal with, right?
00:48:45.119 --> 00:48:48.880
Because the right relationship is gonna pull the right stuff out of you.
00:48:48.960 --> 00:48:49.440
Yeah, that's real.
00:48:50.000 --> 00:48:51.920
The wrong one is gonna pull the wrong stuff out of you.
00:48:52.079 --> 00:48:52.400
I got it.
00:48:52.480 --> 00:49:01.440
And the problem is gonna be sometimes we stay in the wrong relationship way longer than we're supposed to because we don't want to admit that we've made a mistake.
00:49:01.679 --> 00:49:02.960
Oh that's true.
00:49:03.039 --> 00:49:03.280
That's real.
00:49:03.519 --> 00:49:04.159
No, that's true.
00:49:04.400 --> 00:49:07.039
They say that don't stay in a mistake just because you made it.
00:49:07.119 --> 00:49:08.960
Yeah, are you looking for love in all the wrong places?
00:49:09.199 --> 00:49:11.599
All the wrong places, you gotta love yourself first, you know.
00:49:13.280 --> 00:49:17.920
Or you know, you got people, I gotta stay because we got a baby and I want my kids to come from a broken home.
00:49:18.079 --> 00:49:22.079
Yeah, but sometimes that home that you ain't breaking is way worse.
00:49:22.320 --> 00:49:23.760
That's how my mama used to be, though.
00:49:23.840 --> 00:49:26.559
She said, No, I took these vows and I'm gonna take these vows in the end.
00:49:26.719 --> 00:49:28.480
But I'm like, sometimes you gotta choose you, yeah.
00:49:28.639 --> 00:49:33.280
Yeah, but she took she took our vows seriously, so she's like, I'm never getting into divorce.
00:49:34.719 --> 00:49:36.880
Sometimes you gotta back then.
00:49:37.280 --> 00:49:40.719
Again, you only knew your your environment, your surroundings, right?
00:49:40.880 --> 00:49:47.840
Yeah, so you didn't even really hear about other people being divorced at the rate that it is, so you felt like that's ground.
00:49:48.480 --> 00:49:51.360
Well, from my mama, she never seen nobody married.
00:49:52.239 --> 00:49:56.400
Her mama wasn't married, her none of her sisters got like nobody was married.
00:49:56.480 --> 00:49:57.440
That's even harder, though.
00:49:57.519 --> 00:50:00.239
But now you like the the front runner of this thing.
00:50:00.320 --> 00:50:03.599
Yeah, so like if I get divorced, how many people are gonna follow suit on what?
00:50:04.000 --> 00:50:04.960
No, nobody ever.
00:50:05.199 --> 00:50:06.400
I don't know if she felt like that.
00:50:06.480 --> 00:50:09.920
I think just think she felt like her religion, it was just strictly her religion, yeah.
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:10.559
And that's a big one.
00:50:10.880 --> 00:50:11.599
It was just her religion.
00:50:11.679 --> 00:50:12.159
That's a big one.
00:50:12.400 --> 00:50:15.519
Because nobody got married before her, after, like, none of them got married.
00:50:15.679 --> 00:50:18.639
So it's like you ain't, you know what I'm saying?
00:50:18.719 --> 00:50:22.400
You ain't the poster child for nobody because nobody even dealing with this, right?
00:50:22.559 --> 00:50:36.480
I mean, aside from one of her sisters did, but aside from of course the obvious parts of our relationship, another part that actually made me get myself together was knowing that we had other people looking at us.
00:50:36.960 --> 00:50:37.920
But that will, right?
00:50:38.000 --> 00:50:38.400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:50:38.559 --> 00:50:40.719
So that made me be like, okay, that will make a difference.
00:50:40.880 --> 00:50:44.079
I gotta at least be able to say if this does not work out, yeah.
00:50:44.239 --> 00:50:49.280
I gotta at least be able to say to whoever we need to hear, we did all we could.
00:50:49.360 --> 00:50:50.239
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:50:50.400 --> 00:51:01.360
And then you build a family, so it's like your family is my family, then all the family still doing stuff and they still contacting you, and you like, damn, I can't I can't even tell them, I don't even like this nigga no more.
00:51:02.239 --> 00:51:04.159
Like, so we gotta stay together.
00:51:05.119 --> 00:51:11.519
But that's how it because you, I mean that's true after so many years, 10-15 years, it's like everybody family.
00:51:11.599 --> 00:51:12.639
So it's like, what you mean?
00:51:12.719 --> 00:51:14.639
You're not what you mean you're breaking up?
00:51:14.800 --> 00:51:15.280
Like, hmm?
00:51:15.440 --> 00:51:16.880
No, you're the only cousin we know.
00:51:16.960 --> 00:51:17.840
What the fuck you talking about?
00:51:18.000 --> 00:51:19.840
We find my talk about like, yeah.
00:51:20.000 --> 00:51:23.599
So it's like you stay together because you like, damn, everybody, okay.
00:51:23.760 --> 00:51:24.800
I gotta stay here then.
00:51:25.679 --> 00:51:27.920
Yeah, so damn fuck.
00:51:28.239 --> 00:51:31.360
The one part that I want to tap on before we uh end it.
00:51:31.760 --> 00:51:36.239
Do y'all bel do y'all agree with the part where he said a partial truth can be a whole lie?
00:51:36.400 --> 00:51:39.119
Yes, absolutely, yeah, yeah, absolutely.
00:51:39.599 --> 00:51:42.159
They be saying they be saying the little white lies is not a lie.
00:51:42.719 --> 00:51:43.840
Because our mission is still a lie.
00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:48.400
Okay, like you you still not tell him the truth.
00:51:49.360 --> 00:51:51.119
So it makes the whole thing a lie.
00:51:51.199 --> 00:51:53.360
What she posted was a lie, yeah.
00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:54.159
That's how you acted.
00:51:54.719 --> 00:51:57.519
I don't know, because I don't feel like the whole thing was a lie.
00:51:57.679 --> 00:52:00.159
I just feel like you didn't show all of it.
00:52:00.239 --> 00:52:03.920
So I don't feel like the whole thing, because it's on video, so it can't be like that's what I'm saying.
00:52:04.000 --> 00:52:06.239
Like, I'm not saying he didn't act how he acted.
00:52:06.480 --> 00:52:11.760
What I'm saying, the lie comes from you, you're portraying as though he just acted like that for no reason.
00:52:11.920 --> 00:52:12.079
Right.
00:52:12.159 --> 00:52:14.719
So the question was, is the whole thing a lie though?
00:52:14.880 --> 00:52:17.440
No, he said what you say is a partial truth make a whole lie.
00:52:19.599 --> 00:52:20.079
I don't agree.
00:52:20.960 --> 00:52:22.639
I don't feel like that's a whole lie though.
00:52:22.800 --> 00:52:26.639
I don't agree because it's a reason why you omitted the part you omitted, right?
00:52:26.719 --> 00:52:27.199
Yeah, yeah.
00:52:27.599 --> 00:52:30.960
So yeah, I can say we record it right now because we are.
00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:33.679
But if you say what you do today, I just recorded today.
00:52:33.840 --> 00:52:35.360
No, you did other stuff.
00:52:35.599 --> 00:52:39.119
But I don't feel like that, but I still don't feel like that's the whole lie, though.
00:52:39.199 --> 00:52:46.800
I just feel like you omit it, which I think is a lie, but I don't feel like just because you didn't show all of it, it's everything is a lie.
00:52:46.960 --> 00:52:49.280
This is like I don't feel like it's a whole lie.
00:52:51.519 --> 00:52:52.639
It's tricky.
00:52:53.599 --> 00:52:54.880
It's a both end, right?
00:52:55.039 --> 00:52:56.159
I do feel like you're a liar.
00:52:56.400 --> 00:52:56.880
Yeah, yeah.
00:52:57.199 --> 00:52:58.159
You are a liar.
00:53:00.000 --> 00:53:04.719
It makes me a liar.
00:53:05.119 --> 00:53:07.280
Okay, it just makes me question your character.
00:53:07.440 --> 00:53:07.760
It does.
00:53:09.199 --> 00:53:16.960
Show the whole thing so everybody can, you know, but do you feel like is the whole lie, or do you feel like it's just partial?
00:53:17.280 --> 00:53:18.880
My whole part is a lie, you know what I'm saying?
00:53:18.960 --> 00:53:20.159
Because she ain't show her part, you know.
00:53:20.559 --> 00:53:21.360
So it's a lie.
00:53:21.519 --> 00:53:22.880
So when people like, why he act like that?
00:53:22.960 --> 00:53:24.559
You like girl, he just started popping off.
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:26.800
No nigga, that ain't what happened.
00:53:26.880 --> 00:53:28.719
Like, you call him hoe ass niggas.
00:53:28.960 --> 00:53:31.199
You said his mama's sucking dick on the corner, right?
00:53:31.360 --> 00:53:32.960
All types of shit before he popped off.
00:53:33.119 --> 00:53:33.440
That's true.
00:53:33.599 --> 00:53:36.559
But you making it seem like dog just popped off.
00:53:36.639 --> 00:53:38.559
So you pushed him, pushed him, pushed him.
00:53:38.800 --> 00:53:41.199
Soon as he popped off, you like meta, record.
00:53:41.840 --> 00:53:46.400
Yeah, because real tall, like I had a I had a homie and she she she passed away, RP.
00:53:46.960 --> 00:53:47.119
Right?
00:53:47.199 --> 00:53:52.880
We was in class in my master's school, and she was dating this guy.
00:53:53.199 --> 00:53:57.119
He was recording her after she got an abortion.
00:53:57.679 --> 00:54:00.800
So she's on the medicine, she's a white girl, he was black.
00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:05.920
So he provoked the provoked the provoked her and made her start saying, nigga, fuck you all this shit.
00:54:06.000 --> 00:54:11.199
Oh so she started using the racial slurs, he recorded it, he took it to our dean.
00:54:11.280 --> 00:54:15.199
The dean was like, Oh, we don't tolerate that, and then fucked around and killed her.
00:54:15.360 --> 00:54:16.880
Damn! Yeah, yeah.
00:54:17.119 --> 00:54:18.320
See what I'm saying?
00:54:18.559 --> 00:54:19.440
You a whole lie.
00:54:19.679 --> 00:54:26.400
You mean you ain't show your part how you provoked her, but you show you you you you made us question her character so she did kick out of school.
00:54:26.880 --> 00:54:29.599
Then you fucking end up killing her, right?
00:54:29.679 --> 00:54:30.639
That's crazy.
00:54:31.440 --> 00:54:35.840
What I think happened here, crazy as it's I say it's manipulative, definitely.
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:44.159
But so what happened is this lady just did social media in real life, right?
00:54:45.280 --> 00:54:47.119
I agree on social media, yeah.
00:54:47.679 --> 00:54:53.599
You're going on a post apart that's gonna make you look in the parts, yeah, that's gonna be entertaining to the people.
00:54:53.760 --> 00:54:56.719
That's true, and she just did social media in real life.
00:54:56.880 --> 00:54:57.760
That's true, you know what I'm saying?
00:54:57.840 --> 00:55:02.559
And then put it on social media, put it on social media, so she she inverted how life really is.
00:55:02.639 --> 00:55:06.480
She took social media, made it real life, and yeah, that's true.
00:55:06.639 --> 00:55:10.719
Nobody, nobody cares about just the regular argument part.
00:55:11.280 --> 00:55:12.000
No, shut up.
00:55:12.079 --> 00:55:12.800
No, you shut up.
00:55:12.880 --> 00:55:13.760
No, go to you go.
00:55:13.840 --> 00:55:14.480
I'm going to my room.
00:55:14.559 --> 00:55:15.119
I'm finna leave.
00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:16.480
Nobody cares about that part.
00:55:16.639 --> 00:55:19.199
It's when you get to that next level, that higher stage.
00:55:19.519 --> 00:55:23.840
And this is why I say as a cuss word, we don't do the arguing part, yeah.
00:55:24.079 --> 00:55:26.159
Because there's no resolution to argument.
00:55:26.480 --> 00:55:26.880
There's never.
00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:27.199
Yeah.
00:55:27.360 --> 00:55:30.159
Like you're not even trying to find a common ground in the argument.
00:55:30.320 --> 00:55:30.960
You're trying to win.
00:55:31.039 --> 00:55:31.440
Yep.
00:55:31.599 --> 00:55:34.480
So, in order to win, that means somebody finna be a loser.
00:55:34.559 --> 00:55:36.880
And now you might want to be a loser.
00:55:37.199 --> 00:55:38.480
Who wants to be in a relationship with a loser?
00:55:40.639 --> 00:55:41.119
That's true.
00:55:41.360 --> 00:55:44.239
Now, there is like how do you fix the argument?
00:55:44.320 --> 00:55:45.039
You know what I'm saying?
00:55:45.280 --> 00:55:46.079
It's no way to fix it.
00:55:46.159 --> 00:55:48.159
Somebody gotta win, somebody gotta lose, and then it's over with.
00:55:48.320 --> 00:55:48.639
Right.
00:55:48.960 --> 00:55:54.639
Until the whoever lost figure out a way to get that get back, and that's just gonna it's uh ever going.
00:55:55.039 --> 00:55:59.039
So she just did what she did on social media, but she did it in real life, right?
00:55:59.199 --> 00:56:00.159
She was like, What did it say?
00:56:00.239 --> 00:56:00.719
IRL.
00:56:00.800 --> 00:56:01.360
That's what she did.
00:56:01.519 --> 00:56:02.079
You know what I'm saying?
00:56:02.239 --> 00:56:04.000
Oh, yeah, in real life, be funny.
00:56:04.880 --> 00:56:05.840
So be funny.
00:56:06.000 --> 00:56:12.400
She she posted what she wanted to post to get what it is that she felt like she needed, which is the deeper part of it.
00:56:12.559 --> 00:56:16.480
Because why do you need validation from other people about your relationship?
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:18.159
Girl, you could do better than that.
00:56:18.320 --> 00:56:19.760
You can do better whole time.
00:56:19.840 --> 00:56:20.800
He could do better than you.
00:56:21.599 --> 00:56:28.320
That's the fact of the matter is you purposely portray somebody who you're supposed to be in love with, you're supposed to be married to in a relationship with.
00:56:28.480 --> 00:56:31.360
You intentionally portray them as a bad person.
00:56:31.679 --> 00:56:32.960
What the fuck is wrong with you?
00:56:33.760 --> 00:56:42.079
If anything, when we in our when we in our relationships, we try to always make sure people view our person as good.
00:56:42.719 --> 00:56:43.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:56:43.679 --> 00:56:44.800
As good as we can.
00:56:44.880 --> 00:56:50.400
Now, if you act the ass in public, I can't very well cover that up, but at home, you know what I'm saying?
00:56:50.480 --> 00:56:58.400
And then I just feel like to intentionally antagonize and drag anger out of somebody and only record their part is not fair.
00:56:58.559 --> 00:57:03.440
I remember, I remember my son showed me a video of argument, and I said, Well, what happened before that?
00:57:03.920 --> 00:57:05.519
Yeah, and he like, what you mean?
00:57:05.679 --> 00:57:06.800
What you mean, what I mean?
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.280
She didn't just she didn't just act like that, right?
00:57:09.519 --> 00:57:14.000
Listen, we we say this each and every week when we answering the fans and questions, right?
00:57:14.159 --> 00:57:14.719
What happened?
00:57:14.800 --> 00:57:15.360
What are we talking about?
00:57:15.760 --> 00:57:16.800
Yeah, what's the backstory?
00:57:17.039 --> 00:57:19.760
So we what's the backstory something before this?
00:57:19.840 --> 00:57:30.079
Yeah, because of course, given the whole content of everything, sometimes it will take a day or two to get it all out because it was brewing for uh days and days, you know what I'm saying?
00:57:30.239 --> 00:57:36.800
So I just gotta try to give you the the cliff notes of it, and this is the cliff note, this is what I'm gonna give y'all help me out.
00:57:37.119 --> 00:57:41.360
I didn't feel like it's crazy to just fuck with somebody and then be like, oh, game time, yeah, record.
00:57:41.679 --> 00:57:48.639
Ah, that's and then to refuse to take it down because I'm sure we're over whatever it is by now, and you still got it out there for the world to see.
00:57:49.199 --> 00:57:53.280
Now I can't get over it, yeah, because now my 18s and them is took calling me.
00:57:53.440 --> 00:57:54.000
What's this?
00:57:54.079 --> 00:57:55.519
I seen on that Facebook.
00:57:55.679 --> 00:57:56.000
You know what I mean?
00:58:00.239 --> 00:58:01.840
Yeah, not gonna be able to get out of there.
00:58:01.920 --> 00:58:04.719
And like BFF said, even if you take it down, it's already somebody.
00:58:04.960 --> 00:58:05.760
Somebody already got it.
00:58:06.159 --> 00:58:07.840
It's already girl, somebody got it.
00:58:08.159 --> 00:58:08.719
Girl, look at this.
00:58:08.960 --> 00:58:09.360
What do you say?
00:58:09.519 --> 00:58:11.599
Girl, girl, I'm gonna send you this video.
00:58:11.920 --> 00:58:13.119
Now I will say this.
00:58:13.360 --> 00:58:14.239
This will make it worse.
00:58:14.400 --> 00:58:15.199
I'm definitely saving it.
00:58:15.360 --> 00:58:17.199
This will make it even worse, right?
00:58:17.280 --> 00:58:19.199
It's already a bad situation.
00:58:19.599 --> 00:58:27.760
Now, if you recorded it separately, like you said, hey, meta recorder, you took your phone out, whatever the case, and you recorded it, and then you posted it.
00:58:27.920 --> 00:58:33.599
That's a different entity than going live and then just hidden post at the end.
00:58:34.079 --> 00:58:40.000
Because going live, yeah, there is no thought process in between where you can say this might not be a smart thing to do.
00:58:40.239 --> 00:58:41.760
Yeah, it's already out there for you.
00:58:41.920 --> 00:58:42.400
You know what I'm saying?
00:58:42.800 --> 00:58:43.840
Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right.
00:58:44.400 --> 00:58:47.280
I I wish that it didn't happen, period.
00:58:47.440 --> 00:58:58.320
But I hope that since it did happen, it was more of a I'm going live type situation to not so much like that's the difference between premeditated murder, you know what I'm saying?
00:58:58.639 --> 00:59:00.159
But even that you can take down.
00:59:00.239 --> 00:59:01.599
Like you can't take that shit down.
00:59:02.400 --> 00:59:06.800
The refusal of the takedown is the takedown, this is the thing too.
00:59:06.880 --> 00:59:10.000
Like when it comes to somebody who needs validation, right?
00:59:10.480 --> 00:59:15.199
When you see when you post something and that adrenaline goes, right?
00:59:15.360 --> 00:59:24.079
And you see, I just I just got five thousand likes or five thousand comments on a post where my last comment was 10.
00:59:24.480 --> 00:59:25.840
My last life was five.
00:59:26.000 --> 00:59:26.960
This one we did five.
00:59:27.039 --> 00:59:29.039
You you are because you like that adrenaline.
00:59:29.280 --> 00:59:32.000
That means you don't like to be in this relationship, is what it like to do.
00:59:32.400 --> 00:59:35.360
You choosing your attention over our relationship for me.
00:59:35.679 --> 00:59:36.639
Because what are we doing?
00:59:37.199 --> 00:59:37.840
Like, what are we doing?
00:59:38.960 --> 00:59:40.400
Yeah, you like the lights like that.
00:59:40.639 --> 00:59:43.280
You just going to be viral, you just doing this to be viral.
00:59:43.360 --> 00:59:44.960
So, like you said, it's premeditated.
00:59:45.199 --> 00:59:49.679
Like you already knew what you was about to do, and you like don't put no edits on there.
00:59:49.840 --> 00:59:52.800
Don't don't don't don't have the video looking like you edited and all type.
00:59:53.119 --> 00:59:53.519
But you can't.
00:59:53.599 --> 00:59:57.039
If you don't go live, you can't you're doing slow motion on parts of it and all that.
00:59:57.119 --> 00:59:57.679
Like, wait a minute.
00:59:57.760 --> 00:59:58.960
Now it's gonna take some time.
00:59:59.039 --> 01:00:01.360
Oh man, you put time like you want to be single to me.
01:00:01.440 --> 01:00:02.159
That's what it's looking like.
01:00:02.480 --> 01:00:03.519
Go be a movie director.
01:00:05.760 --> 01:00:08.239
And don't have it about my life, do it about something else.
01:00:08.559 --> 01:00:10.239
Pick somebody else to do, because that ain't me.
01:00:10.320 --> 01:00:11.760
It ain't me doing that.
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:13.920
Now you're about to have me calling some people.
01:00:14.000 --> 01:00:17.199
I don't even need to be calling, but now it's too late because I done already made the call.
01:00:17.280 --> 01:00:22.559
So yeah, that that when you add up all them, all that many people into your relationship.
01:00:22.880 --> 01:00:23.519
It's bad.
01:00:23.760 --> 01:00:24.800
It is it's bad.
01:00:24.880 --> 01:00:27.920
And I feel like at that point you just don't want the relationship.
01:00:28.079 --> 01:00:30.000
Like you just don't want it at that point.
01:00:30.320 --> 01:00:37.280
If you put if you posting stuff, and I not to say people don't post stuff, but you don't even want to delete it.
01:00:37.360 --> 01:00:40.719
Yeah, you and this bitch, like, yeah, we uh you see how many likes I got?
01:00:41.119 --> 01:00:49.440
Do do you do it make you slower to open up to somebody if you see them treating your significant other different after you opened up to them?
01:00:50.800 --> 01:00:53.039
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
01:00:53.519 --> 01:00:55.679
And you're like, Oh, you can't, I can't, I can't even talk to you.
01:00:55.920 --> 01:00:57.440
I can't I don't trust you.
01:00:57.920 --> 01:01:02.480
Like they never said nothing to them, but you can just see like the vibe is off.
01:01:02.880 --> 01:01:03.840
Yeah, you can see it.
01:01:04.480 --> 01:01:05.760
Yeah, yeah.
01:01:07.199 --> 01:01:08.400
All right, that's that.
01:01:08.719 --> 01:01:10.800
I know we got things to do today.
01:01:10.960 --> 01:01:12.159
That was deep though.
01:01:12.719 --> 01:01:15.119
Um so this is what we're gonna do.
01:01:15.199 --> 01:01:16.400
We got things to do.
01:01:16.639 --> 01:01:18.880
G talk to me, talk about it.
01:01:19.039 --> 01:01:22.559
Let them know how they can find you, what they can look forward to.
01:01:22.880 --> 01:01:24.880
Shout out the shout out the podcast, man.
01:01:25.119 --> 01:01:26.480
Because you know what I'm saying?
01:01:26.559 --> 01:01:31.280
We need I want y'all to get like 16,000 followers in the last year.
01:01:31.599 --> 01:01:32.079
Y'all heard that.
01:01:32.480 --> 01:01:32.719
Let's go.
01:01:32.960 --> 01:01:33.840
Hey, already.
01:01:34.000 --> 01:01:40.559
So yeah, you can uh find us on the Maldys podcast on YouTube, uh I G, I love the Maldys.
01:01:41.599 --> 01:01:44.639
Our personal page, Grayson underscore G.
01:01:44.800 --> 01:01:47.119
That's G-R-A-I-S-O-N underscore G.
01:01:47.360 --> 01:01:48.400
Also, I am Mr.
01:01:48.480 --> 01:01:50.559
Moutie on I G as well.
01:01:50.960 --> 01:01:52.880
And we got a lot of things coming up, you know what I'm saying?
01:01:52.960 --> 01:01:55.840
We also got uh Moutie meals, you know what I mean.
01:01:55.920 --> 01:01:58.480
So y'all, y'all make sure y'all look out for that in August.
01:01:59.280 --> 01:02:02.719
Make sure y'all go follow our YouTube for sure.
01:02:02.800 --> 01:02:04.800
We just dropped a new episode, you know what I'm saying?
01:02:04.880 --> 01:02:08.239
We had uh Kate Coach and uh KD on there, you know what I'm saying?
01:02:08.480 --> 01:02:09.440
Talk about it, talk about it.
01:02:09.679 --> 01:02:10.880
Let's talk about sex part two.
01:02:11.199 --> 01:02:12.880
Definitely information, you know what I mean?
01:02:14.480 --> 01:02:15.280
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:02:17.199 --> 01:02:18.559
I got to hear that.
01:02:20.159 --> 01:02:20.719
I'm back.
01:02:21.199 --> 01:02:22.880
Yeah, I think that's it.
01:02:23.039 --> 01:02:24.239
Okay, all right.
01:02:24.559 --> 01:02:26.719
King you love me.
01:02:27.039 --> 01:02:27.679
And you're right.
01:02:29.280 --> 01:02:30.800
You know, that's all I know.
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That's anybody I know.
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Okay, you can find us.
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I came in on a damn.
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You can find us on my favorite platform, YouTube.
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I don't know.
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I just love YouTube so much.
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I love the interaction with you can see.
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I don't know.
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I'm a are y'all visual or are y'all like like to listen at work?
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It depends.
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I'm visual.
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I'm so visual.
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Like I like to see like the face expressions and like everything.
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So y'all listen on, watch and listen on YouTube because I love that one.
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And then I guess we have a new one.
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Let me see what it's called because I wrote it down this time.
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But sprout talk about it.
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And iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcast.
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We everywhere, y'all.
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So just whatever your favorite platform is, download it and listen to us on it.
01:03:24.639 --> 01:03:26.480
Each and every week.
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KD.
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You can follow me at your girl.kd.
01:03:30.559 --> 01:03:32.960
You can follow kiki at rrp.kiki.
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You can follow coach dtm at coach dtm.
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You can follow our podcast page at RRP network.
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Make sure you go to the podcast page so that you can follow all of our podcasts.
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We have quite a few.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And growing, man.
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And growing the sports podcasts on the oh, yeah, we do.
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We got a new one coming.
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Reality sports, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And we got one.
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What's it gonna be called?
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Which one?
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The one that we let Shred do.
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What did he name it?
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Red wristband, blue wristband?
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Oh lord.
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Something like that.
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But how does it he gonna?
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I'm sure he's gonna I'm sure he's gonna walk work out the kinks, but yeah, it's gotta be.
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We got that coming too.
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Lord, yeah.
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I'm like, bro, you know YouTube will take you down.
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For real.
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You can't say 97 cuss words.
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Yeah, yeah.
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But yeah, you can't do a lot of stuff.
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And I'm trying to get our other son to do like a music podcast.
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So you know what I what I really want to do is like feature the artists that we know.
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Because we got a lot of oh yeah.
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I want to feature them at the end of our episode.
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I'll let them do like 16.
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Let it be dope.
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What's 16 mean?
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Everybody don't know what that means.
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Oh, a verse.
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Right, ours.
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My bad.
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Y'all in the music world, so y'all know what that means.
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Sorry.
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Everybody don't.
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So that that's that's soon to come as well.
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But make sure y'all tune in, like y'all have been doing.
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And I'm saying each and every week.
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Next week, I'll give you a little bit of a teaser.
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Just a little bit.
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All right.
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Because we have a situation where the wife called the police on the sun.
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Oh.
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So tune in next week.
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Make sure y'all get that juice, that tea.
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You know what I'm saying?
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What what y'all say?
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How y'all say girl?
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Girl.
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Let me tell you, girl.
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Let me tell you.
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What's tea?
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I'll be doing DTM like that, Cyborg.
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I'll be telling.
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I'll be like, girl.
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I mean, babe.
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I know.
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I do Lamar like that too.
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I'll be like, girl.
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Oh, you're not the girl.
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Sorry.
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Sorry.
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So again, man, we appreciate y'all tuning in each and every week.
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This has been yet another episode of Relationship Reality Podcast.
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I'm the one and only coach DTM.
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Your girl Katie.
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Your hostess with the most is Kiki.
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And Mr.
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Malgie, baby.
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If you don't want, if you don't hear me, you definitely see me back.
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We see y'all next week, man.
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So long.
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Bye bye.
01:06:13.840 --> 01:06:14.480
So long.
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Bye bye.
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Goodbye.