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Hi. I'm Kay Daigle.
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Welcome to the Beyond Ordinary Women
Podcast and video.
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We are so happy
that you've joined us today.
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We have two special guests.
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We have Dr. Sandra Glahn with us.
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Welcome Sandi.
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Glad to be here as always.
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Yeah, it's always a treat to have you.
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We always look forward to having you.
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Dr. Glahn is a professor
at Dallas Seminary.
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She is
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a professor of Media Arts and Worship
there.
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She's written over 20 books.
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She has so much to say about her
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that you just need to go to our website
and read her bio
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because she has done a lot
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and she has produced a lot of work.
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And you can find her
in many of our videos.
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So hopefully
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this won't be the last when you watch
go on
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to BeyondOrdinaryWomen.org
and search for her name.
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And you can connect with some of her
other conversations that we've had.
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And Sandra invited
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another friend
to be with us, the third male
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that we have had on our podcast.
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And it is Dr.
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Lucas Rogers.
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Welcome, Lucas.
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Thank you so much.
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Great to be here.
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We are so happy to have you.
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Lucas is the lead pastor at Easton
Bible Church
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in Hainesport, New Jersey.
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And he has both a master's
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and doctorate degrees
from Dallas Seminary as well.
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And we're really happy to have you.
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And despite the fact
that you're only the third man,
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we really appreciate it.
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That's true.
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Well, it's my honor.
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Well, since our ministry is Beyond
Ordinary Women,
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we have tended to focus on women
in these conversations.
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But we're so happy to have you.
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And I'm going to turn around over to Sandi
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and Lucas to talk about our topic today,
which I'm very excited about.
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I feel like many,
many churches need to hear
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about the research that Lucas has done.
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So Lucas has done a hard
look at the best practices
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for churches
that are reconsidering where they stand
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on their position on women
in ministry leadership.
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So let me start out by lobbing a question
like why don't you share with listeners
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how you and I met and how you ended
up diving into this topic?
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Yeah, well, I first
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started my doctorate back in 2017,
and it was during that time
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that looking into different topics and,
and I think we'll probably get into
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a little bit about why I chose this one,
but really I was interested in
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women in church leadership.
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And so, Dr.
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Glahn,
that's when I reached out to you and asked
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if you'd be one of my readers
on my dissertation and
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which is obviously aware of your work and
all of your research that you had done.
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And it was, that was the beginning
of that relationship.
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And it's been a great journey.
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And the topic of your dissertation was?
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Was essentially,
women and church leadership.
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But really the question that it was
seeking to answer is looking at
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churches, and
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specifically churches
that are theologically conservative.
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I come from a Bible church tradition,
all of my life.
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I went to Dallas Seminary
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and looking at churches,
they kind of shared that DNA,
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if you will, of conservative
theologically, biblically.
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And then recognizing that over the last
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two decades or so, more and more of
those churches are reconsidering
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and revisiting their position on women
in church leadership specifically.
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And the question
that I wanted to wrestle with was,
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why is it that you've got churches
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that on paper
all look more or less the same.
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That on paper they would all affirm
the same things biblically, theologically,
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and yet when it came to this issue,
they were landing in different places.
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And so it became clear to me that
just to say, well, we're reading the Bible
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and this is what the Bible says
just wasn't sufficient.
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And so I wanted to kind of delve into that
more and try to unearth
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what are some of the factors
that are going into
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the way these decisions are being made.
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What are some of those factors
that are influencing
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how churches and elder boards specifically
are wrestling with the question
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and how they're interpreting and then
applying the Scripture in their churches?
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Because it just isn't uniform.
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It doesn't
look the same at every church anymore.
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And that was just something
that really fascinated me.
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Well, I mean, there are a zillion topics
you could choose.
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You're a guy.
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What made you choose this topic?
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Yeah, I think, you know,
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one of the advice I was given
is find something that's personal to you.
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You're going to spend a lot of time
delving on a topic
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when you're writing a dissertation
as we can all attest to.
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And so for me, interestingly,
enough, in 2017,
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when I was beginning this process,
I had the opportunity.
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I was invited to observe at a church,
their elder board,
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walking through
this kind of deliberative process.
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They wanted to revisit how women were
serving and leading within their church.
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They wanted to unpack you know,
what did the scriptures say?
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Were they getting it right in a sense,
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this kind of the way
they wanted to approach it.
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And so I got to observe that firsthand.
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And just to be candid,
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I walked away kind
of disappointed.
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I walked away
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just feeling like they didn't
have the tools and the resources necessary
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to even begin the conversation
and to begin the discussion.
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And it wasn't necessarily, you know, it
certainly wasn't a moral failing.
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These were not bad people,
but there was just a lack
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of understanding of even how to
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go about research, about
just being aware of
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some of the biases that they were bringing
into the conversation.
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And so, I walked away from that thinking,
how can I help?
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You know, how can you know,
even if I was in a position
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where--regardless of whether or not
I agreed with their final decision--just
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the process of the decision
making mattered to me.
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I felt like that was something
that the churches, if we're going to be
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having these conversations,
we need to know that
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as we're making these decisions,
the process is a good one, right?
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It needs to be effective.
It needs to be constructive.
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So that was where I began.
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I think for me, there's
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always a variety of factors that come into
when you're deciding on a topic.
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For me, that was a very personal one.
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I think also my experience in churches,
it had become clear to me
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that there was a hedge
that had been set up around the law.
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And so for churches that, you know,
they would read some of these passages,
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I'm sure we'll discuss
at least a little bit 1 Timothy 2
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and other places where Scripture,
at least historically and traditionally in
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some of these Bible churches, have read
that to be very restrictive of women
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in leadership.
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I was part of churches that went way
beyond some of those applications.
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So you might have a church, for example,
that will limit women
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to saying, well, women
shouldn't be pastors or should be elders.
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But I was part of churches
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where women weren't allowed
to, you know, even get on stage.
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They weren't allowed
to make announcements.
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They weren't allowed to hand out
bulletins in the sanctuary.
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And to me, this was a hedge
that I could find no biblical basis for.
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And so that was something
that bothered me.
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And the more I observed that, I just
felt like--how are we treating them?
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You know, what are we communicating
to women and their value and their
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worth within the church?
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And then lastly,
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as a pastor, I just have a deep passion
for church unity.
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And this was an area
that even as my journey over
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these last several years in terms of
like my own personal conviction beliefs,
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it just seemed to me
that how we have these conversations
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matters
both within the church and outside.
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And it became something really
I was very passionate about
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is how to help churches
have the conversation in a way that still
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reflects the grace and the goodness of God
and love for one another.
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Even if we agree, we can agree to disagree
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or even if we disagree, we can do
so in a way that's gracious
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and loving to one another.
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And so that was all part of the motivation
of tackling this topic.
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So it sounds like you were way
more concerned with
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how we get there
than where we land? Right?
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That's true.
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That's true.
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I have my convictions.
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I have my own beliefs and I,
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but for the project itself,
the way I wanted to approach
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it was thinking about
if I was going to help a church
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that wanted to reconsider this,
that wanted to revisit this,
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how can I help equip them to do
so in a way that at the end of the day,
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wherever they land,
their church is healthier for it
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and that they can still even engage
and appreciate
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other churches with other perspectives
instead of having these rifts.
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And, you know, we're in a society
right now where there's so much
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vilifying if anyone who disagrees with us
in the slightest way.
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And so that was something I really wanted
to try to push back against,
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if there was any way of doing so.
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Especially if they're in our own camp.
Right.
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It almost seems like
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Absolutely.
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punish our own for talking with the other.
Right?
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That's right.
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So what were your hunches?
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I mean, what did you suspect?
You had to frame the question?
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What were your hunches going in that
you thought
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might be influencing where people landed?
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Yeah, I started with three
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as I was sort of thought about my time
observing the elder board.
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I was sort of going, okay,
what did I see there?
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And it seemed to me that the one
and none of these
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I think if you stop
and think about cognitive bias,
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you think about how we approach questions
and how we come up with our answers.
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Anyone who's done
any kind of research in psychology
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are going to be aware
of some of these factors at one level.
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One is that our past influences the way
that we see the present and the future.
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And so. Everybody. Right? Everybody.
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Not just the "others." No, it's true
for all of us.
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So I was interested
in, okay, what are the experiences
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within those churches
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that may have shaped
the way that they approached the question?
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The second one was thinking about
how do they view
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everybody outside of the church?
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So how do they view culture.
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Is culture an enemy? Is culture something
that they're trying to influence?
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Is culture something to run away from?
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What is kind of their posture
towards cultural engagement?
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It seemed
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to me that
churches would be really influenced by it
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if they thought a position or a view
reflected too similarly to the culture.
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And if culture was an evil, that might be
something that they would run away from.
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Conversely, if they thought,
how do we engage the culture,
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they might be more inclined
to take a position that in some ways
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someone might say, reflects the culture.
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So what is the dynamic there?
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And then thirdly was
what's their chosen biblical hermeneutic?
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One of the realities of you know,
for years,
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you know, when I first started going back
to DTS back in 2006, I was introduced to
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this idea that there are different ways
of reading Scripture,
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that there are actually different lenses
that we all bring to the interpretive
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exercise.
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And so I was interested in
what are the underlying either conscious
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or even subconscious hermeneutics
that these churches have adopted?
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And are they even aware of them
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as they're seeking to interpret
and then apply the Scriptures?
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And so those were the three.
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Only at churches like within Orthodox
Christianity, correct?
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Right. Yeah, correct.
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Yeah.
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So when I started it was yeah, exactly.
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It was
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elder-led conservative
kind of from that Bible Church DNA.
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Okay, and talk to us.
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I just want to say I love so much
that you've done this
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and you just describing those churches.
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I think I've been in all of those
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Right.
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All of those churches.
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I mean, I can think of one church
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that I was in that
I think they feared dealing with this.
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Really, sort of a hidden agenda
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that the elders would deal with
if something came up.
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But they didn't really want to come up
with a paper
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on it, a position on it.
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They just sort of avoided it.
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Another church,
the elder group, tried to do this,
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and it all kind of fell apart,
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and nothing really happened.
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And, you know, I've been in the churches
that you know, you can't call a woman
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a minister much less a pastor, you know?
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So I feel like I've sort of been
in the gamut that you're talking about.
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But all of these are definitely orthodox
conservative churches.
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Believe the Bible, but woo! Oh, yeah.
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Okay. Yeah.
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So you said hermeneutics, plural.
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Correct.
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Can you
can you kind of give us some approaches
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like a people
who have a high view of Scripture,
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what are some approaches
you've seen them take to Scripture?
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Yeah, I think
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I mean, I think there's two ways
of thinking about hermeneutics.
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One is kind of in a formal academic sense.
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And then one is just the reality,
as we were saying
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earlier, is that we all have a hermeneutic
that we're bringing to Scripture
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based on who we are
and our own experience
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and even personality. Right?
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All of those things, how we're wired
comes in to how we interpret Scripture.
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But I think it's important
that what hermeneutics does is it's
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acknowledging that there's a gap
between Scripture as God has breathed it.
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And that is as all of these churches
that I looked at would confessed
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to, is that it is inherent, infallible,
the Word of God.
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But there's a gap
between that the Word of God as it is,
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and then my interpretation, my
understanding that that is not infallible.
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And with
so there's the informal reality of that.
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Then there's the, the more formal
and there's a lot of different
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research now, and it's been going on
for quite some time.
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There's been something that scholars
have been aware of for a long time.
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That how we interpret Scripture,
even within that high view
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of Scripture, can differ.
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So you have different models.
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For example, you have some that are like
the redemptive historical model.
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You have a philosophical
and theological model, you have historical
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literal model or cultural,
you know, looking at the context.
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So these are different ways of approaching
the Scripture in order to understand it,
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and then to interpret it
and then to apply it.
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And what I found from my own experience
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was a lot of times
that's just not really realized.
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It's not known even by elders,
other leaders within the church.
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What they've been given is often assumed
to be the only model that there is.
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And so I was interested
in looking at these different churches
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and going, okay,
which one are you actually leaning on
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for your interpretation,
and do you realize it?
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So talk
to us then about how do you frame it?
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Like so you got a question.
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What's the best approach?
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Where are the best practices?
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How am I going to come up with the data?
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How did you go about it?
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Yeah,
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I chose three churches
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that I was familiar with that
I had connection with in some way.
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And that all had,
as I said, a very similar DNA.
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On paper all three of the churches
would look very similar.
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They all had very similar histories
in terms
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of like coming out of that Bible Church
tradition.
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And all three of them in the last
ten years
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had gone through a deliberate
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conversation.
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These were all elder-led churches
among the elders.
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Revisiting this question,
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how should women be serving
within the church?
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What is the Scripture say?
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And yet all three landed in different
places, and that's what fascinated me.
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So you had one church that after this
process said, no, we want to
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say women should
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or can be pastors, they could be elders
like Scripture supports that.
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We've read it wrong essentially
for all these years because they're coming
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out of a very traditional male
dominated leadership.
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And so they, you know,
using the language of egalitarian,
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they said
we're going to be an egalitarian church.
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Then the second church that I looked at,
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they went through another,
you know, their own process.
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And they said, well, we want women to
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be pastors.
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We want them to teach and to preach,
but we're still going to reserve elder
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for only men.
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So it's sort of like this, this next step.
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And then the third church
that I looked at,
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they went through a process
and said, we're going to stay
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with our traditional conservative
reading of Scripture.
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And so to this day,
they do not permit women
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to be elders or pastors,
and they would never use that language,
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Kay, to your point, you know, even women
Ministers, much less Pastors.
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You had three churches
that all had their own process.
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That were all very similar,
and yet landed in three different places.
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And so what I did
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for my research
was really just try to embed myself
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in the culture of these churches
as much as I could.
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Now came a lot of interviews.
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I talked to everybody
that I could convince to talk to me
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within those churches,
within their leadership, their pastoral
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staff, their ministry staff, the elders
who are part of these decisions.
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I tried to avail myself of anything
that they had published
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about their decisions, any of that process
that was available online.
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And just try to understand as best I could
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their history,
what their process looked like.
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And through those conversations, unearth
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some of those influences, factors
that I suspected were there.
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And so what did you learn?
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Yeah, I mean, what I learned is that
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yes, there are influencing factors.
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This isn't a surprise in one sense,
but what I found with those churches is,
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and I kind of take up each one
individually if I can.
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So, you know, one of them,
I call them the leadership church.
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This was a church that, you know, as
they set about to have this conversation,
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they started with this question of
why do we want to have this conversation?
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And they are a church
that really wanted to empower
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women to
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live out the full potential
of their leadership.
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They believe that that they wanted to
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unlock the leadership
potential of the women within their church
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that they felt and believed had been
stifled and limited for a long time.
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If you look at these three factors,
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experience, cultural engagement
and biblical hermeneutic.
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For them,
it really began with the experience
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and so what happened was they had
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started--they had women on staff
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who are uniquely gifted and leadership
and teaching.
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And over time,
this began to press on their convictions
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because they saw God using these women
in really powerful and dramatic ways.
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And so that led them to revisit their
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biblical hermeneutic.
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They said, we see these women
they have these gifts.
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They're leading, and they're teaching.
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Okay, is it possible
that we need to rethink the way
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that we're reading Scripture?
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And so there was an openness as they then
approached the question with Scripture.
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And so they didn't go into it
trying to, you know,
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say, this is what we want
to find within Scripture.
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But there was this, again,
this revisiting process
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because of what their experience
led them to.
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And so they began with experience
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that then began to shift
the way that they looked at scripture
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and they began to investigate
different hermeneutical models.
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And as they were looking
at their biblical hermeneutic,
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they were open to other models.
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And one that they wanted to look
at was a static.
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It was very much frozen in time.
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If Paul says that this is happening, then
that's what should be happening today.
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And the other model was a
what you might call a trajectory model.
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And this is looking at our Scripture
from the beginning and through the end
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how there's a progression
of greater freedom, more grace,
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or a different expressions of grace
throughout Scripture.
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And so that openness
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to other hermeneutical models
then began to change their conversation.
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And in
the midst of that, it also made them
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because they weren't
afraid of the culture.
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While there were some
who were pushing back and saying,
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look, you're just buying into what
the culture is telling you.
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This is during the MeToo movement.
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They were saying, Actually,
we're just not afraid of the culture.
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We want to be able to engage the culture.
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And again, that allowed them to have
these open conversations in good faith.
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I would say like one of the descriptions
they gave me repeatedly
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was that they wanted
to be open, open minded, and they wanted
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to be open
hearted around these conversations
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and allow the Spirit
to lead them and guide them.
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And so it was very open
and they took a lot of time.
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There's a lot of prayer involved.
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And so it
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began with looking at their experience
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with women who were just demonstrating
great leadership and teaching.
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And that then influenced the way that they
that they read the scriptures
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and the hermeneutic models
that they were open to.
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The second church,
I'll call it like the missional church,
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and this is one
that they were interested in.
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How do we make sure
that we are engaging with the culture?
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So they began with the culture
where they were not afraid of the culture.
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They wanted to engage the culture.
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And as part of that conversation,
they wondered, are
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we are we a safe place for women?
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And that they begin to have conversations
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with women on staff and even women
from other ministries and discovered
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that women didn't feel safe often
within their church.
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The women felt
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stifled, that they felt limited,
they felt disrespected and undervalued.
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And they gave a lot of stories around how
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that was communicated to them
from the leadership even.
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And so there was a real. How'd that go?
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Yeah.
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It was really heartbreaking for them.
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And so, you know,
you have this moment where the elders are
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sitting down with these women
and are hearing these stories from them.
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And there's really just this conviction
and a heart of repentance
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that comes over the whole elder board
going, we have not treated these women
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the way that they should
as sisters in Christ.
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And so for them, the conversation
sort of began with the cultural
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and then moved to experiential
because now they're aware
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of how women were treated
and how they felt within the church.
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And that then again led to this openness
when it came to
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how are we going to read the scriptures
to make sure that we're
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honoring women and valuing them
the way that they should be?
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And then the third church
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really began with experience as well.
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And for the third church, you know,
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their past is very much part
of their identity.
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It's who they are.
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And so because of that,
they look at the past
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as a buffer
against the dangers of the culture.
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And so there's really no
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gap between how Scripture
has been interpreted
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in the past and the truth of Scripture.
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So that whole idea of a hermeneutic
and that gap between what God's Word said
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and then understanding and interpretation
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is all but lost.
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And so
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the past then becomes very much
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the hermeneutic
for how they approach Scripture.
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And it becomes a buffer and a defense
from the culture
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that they want to make sure
doesn't begin to permeate the church.
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And so you have these influencing factors
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with all three churches,
but in all three different ways,
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and it leads to different interpretations
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of the scriptures in different
applications, again, in all three ways.
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And let me just say, I have great respect
for all these churches.
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My research was never intended to,
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you know, in any way denigrate or
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hurt anyone in these churches.
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I have great respect for each one of them.
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I simply wanted to observe and say,
okay, what are the processes
481
00:26:26,042 --> 00:26:26,793
that you are going through?
482
00:26:26,793 --> 00:26:30,338
What are those factors
that you may not even be aware of
483
00:26:30,338 --> 00:26:32,924
that are playing a part
in how you're making these decisions?
484
00:26:33,717 --> 00:26:37,429
So you've been doing
a bunch of consulting with churches since.
485
00:26:37,762 --> 00:26:40,724
What's your advice
now based on your findings?
486
00:26:42,058 --> 00:26:43,560
You know, the questions that I would start
487
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,979
with, one is
why do you want to have this conversation?
488
00:26:47,022 --> 00:26:49,107
I think that the
489
00:26:49,107 --> 00:26:52,235
you know,
the motivation behind it really does,
490
00:26:52,777 --> 00:26:56,406
again, influence
a lot of how you're going to
491
00:26:57,324 --> 00:26:59,826
approach the conversation.
492
00:26:59,826 --> 00:27:02,454
So if your elder board
493
00:27:02,454 --> 00:27:05,457
or your leadership team,
whoever it is within your church,
494
00:27:06,124 --> 00:27:09,836
I will say you need to know
that you're on the same page in terms
495
00:27:09,836 --> 00:27:12,547
or at least understanding
what the motivation is.
496
00:27:12,964 --> 00:27:16,134
What is it
that you want to get out of this process?
497
00:27:17,260 --> 00:27:19,971
With each one of those churches
what I appreciated
498
00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:23,850
was that they did
each have this shared sense of why.
499
00:27:24,267 --> 00:27:27,479
The first church wanted to,
each one of them wanted to be true
500
00:27:27,479 --> 00:27:29,481
to Scripture. Be clear about that.
501
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,902
But the first church was saying,
hey, we see a missed opportunity
502
00:27:33,902 --> 00:27:36,780
with really unlocking women's
potential leadership.
503
00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,783
So there was that motivating factor.
504
00:27:40,075 --> 00:27:43,662
The second one was, we want to be a church
that's safe
505
00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:45,747
for women and missional in that sense.
506
00:27:45,872 --> 00:27:48,750
We want to be true to Scripture.
So what is that going to look like for us?
507
00:27:48,750 --> 00:27:51,503
And the third church said
We want to be true to Scripture,
508
00:27:51,503 --> 00:27:54,089
and for them
they wanted to be true to their past.
509
00:27:54,089 --> 00:27:56,758
That was their driving value.
510
00:27:56,758 --> 00:27:59,469
So why is it that you want to engage
this conversation?
511
00:27:59,803 --> 00:28:03,807
I mean, you have to be very honest
with yourself about that.
512
00:28:04,557 --> 00:28:07,727
I think if you're not honest
with that piece of it,
513
00:28:07,727 --> 00:28:10,146
then you can't answer the second question,
which is,
514
00:28:10,146 --> 00:28:11,981
are you willing to change your mind?
515
00:28:11,981 --> 00:28:14,109
Are you willing to be pushed?
516
00:28:14,109 --> 00:28:17,779
Are you willing to
consider other perspectives
517
00:28:18,863 --> 00:28:19,739
genuinely?
518
00:28:19,739 --> 00:28:20,532
Right.
519
00:28:21,157 --> 00:28:24,911
One of the churches that I consulted with,
they realized that they were at a place
520
00:28:24,911 --> 00:28:28,540
where some of those on their leadership
board were simply
521
00:28:28,748 --> 00:28:31,334
when they asked that question, when they
pushed, they said, no, we're not.
522
00:28:31,334 --> 00:28:35,463
We're not willing to
we know what the outcome of this
523
00:28:36,256 --> 00:28:38,758
deliberation is going to be,
what this investigation will be.
524
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,885
So they realized
they had to table the discussion.
525
00:28:41,386 --> 00:28:43,888
It just wasn't going to be done
in good faith.
526
00:28:44,389 --> 00:28:48,435
And so I think starting with why
and then are you willing
527
00:28:48,935 --> 00:28:51,646
to really engage
in this investigation in good faith,
528
00:28:52,439 --> 00:28:55,400
being willing to change your mind,
being willing to be challenged
529
00:28:55,608 --> 00:28:59,195
and not to vilify
everybody who disagreed with you.
530
00:28:59,195 --> 00:29:00,947
All right, that's all part of that.
531
00:29:00,947 --> 00:29:04,659
And then third part of that advice
I give is you have to take your time.
532
00:29:06,077 --> 00:29:09,038
If you're going to have a good process for
533
00:29:09,914 --> 00:29:13,042
making this kind of a decision,
having this kind of deliberation,
534
00:29:13,460 --> 00:29:16,296
then you have to take the time necessary.
535
00:29:17,088 --> 00:29:21,509
One of the churches that I consulted with,
they felt a time crunch
536
00:29:21,509 --> 00:29:25,472
and they tried to really push
the discussion as quickly as possible.
537
00:29:26,014 --> 00:29:29,476
And it's
when you're coming from a tradition
538
00:29:29,476 --> 00:29:32,103
that oftentimes
these churches have long histories,
539
00:29:32,103 --> 00:29:35,231
even if it's a newer church,
you have people who have long histories
540
00:29:35,231 --> 00:29:39,652
in Bible churches or conservative churches
that only have seen it in one way.
541
00:29:39,903 --> 00:29:42,363
If you try to change something quickly,
542
00:29:43,406 --> 00:29:45,325
or even if the process is done too
543
00:29:45,325 --> 00:29:50,163
quickly, you simply don't allow space
for more consideration,
544
00:29:50,163 --> 00:29:54,042
more deliberation,
more exposure, to different ideas.
545
00:29:54,667 --> 00:29:56,377
And frankly, you end up losing
546
00:29:56,377 --> 00:30:00,590
credibility with those people
who know you make the decision.
547
00:30:01,174 --> 00:30:02,133
Interesting.
548
00:30:02,133 --> 00:30:05,303
I think
that credibility is a big part of it.
549
00:30:06,346 --> 00:30:08,389
I always encourage churches.
550
00:30:08,389 --> 00:30:12,352
At some point you have to think about
how you're going to be transparent
551
00:30:12,352 --> 00:30:15,855
with your church around the conversation.
552
00:30:16,523 --> 00:30:18,817
If you try to have this conversation
553
00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:22,070
all in back rooms,
and then come out with a decision--whether
554
00:30:22,070 --> 00:30:27,367
they love the decision or not--you again,
you're going to hurt your credibility.
555
00:30:27,367 --> 00:30:28,952
You're going to hurt
556
00:30:29,702 --> 00:30:32,247
really
just the overall health of your church
557
00:30:32,247 --> 00:30:35,124
because there are going to be people
who are going to
558
00:30:35,834 --> 00:30:36,459
question.
559
00:30:36,459 --> 00:30:39,087
And they're going to be hurt
that they weren't
560
00:30:39,420 --> 00:30:42,257
at least involved
or at least have a voice.
561
00:30:42,674 --> 00:30:44,050
You didn't even ask me.
562
00:30:44,050 --> 00:30:45,301
You didn't even ask me.
563
00:30:45,301 --> 00:30:47,929
It will feel very authoritative,
very heavy
564
00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:50,974
handed, even if you have
all the greatest rationale in the world.
565
00:30:50,974 --> 00:30:55,144
Even if you spent two years, if you didn't
let people in on the process,
566
00:30:55,395 --> 00:30:58,356
you're going to end up
hurting your church.
567
00:30:58,481 --> 00:31:00,608
One of the churches that I talked with,
568
00:31:01,192 --> 00:31:03,695
one of their regrets
569
00:31:03,695 --> 00:31:06,906
was--and I think they went through
a really good process overall--but
570
00:31:06,906 --> 00:31:07,949
they said we didn't
571
00:31:07,949 --> 00:31:11,703
involve the congregation, we didn't
involve the membership early enough.
572
00:31:12,328 --> 00:31:16,416
And it wasn't that they needed to have
an all congregational meeting,
573
00:31:16,416 --> 00:31:18,751
where everybody was able
to grab a microphone.
574
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,922
But along the way, being intentional
about letting people know, hey,
575
00:31:22,922 --> 00:31:24,465
we're having this conversation.
576
00:31:24,465 --> 00:31:27,844
Here's why, here's
why we think it matters,
577
00:31:28,094 --> 00:31:32,390
and then informing them
and updating them along the way.
578
00:31:32,390 --> 00:31:37,854
Giving people space to think
and to respond at times is really vital
579
00:31:37,854 --> 00:31:40,565
if you're going to try to maintain
that unity of the church.
580
00:31:41,816 --> 00:31:43,735
So I can echo that.
581
00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:46,946
I talked to a pastor who said
we went through this whole process.
582
00:31:46,946 --> 00:31:48,531
We're happy with how it ended.
583
00:31:48,531 --> 00:31:52,035
But if we had it all to do over,
we would do a lot better job
584
00:31:52,243 --> 00:31:53,202
of communicating.
585
00:31:53,202 --> 00:31:55,455
Even, here are the books
the elders are reading.
586
00:31:55,663 --> 00:31:59,626
Here's we're discussing this
in this six month period--just
587
00:31:59,959 --> 00:32:03,254
more of a transparency
about how they were doing it
588
00:32:03,254 --> 00:32:06,466
rather than we,
the officials are going to come down
589
00:32:06,466 --> 00:32:09,677
from on high with a decision
you have to live.
590
00:32:09,802 --> 00:32:12,805
He's like,
you know, we were wrestling, honestly,
591
00:32:12,805 --> 00:32:15,224
but we should all let our people know,
592
00:32:15,224 --> 00:32:19,187
yeah, and maybe they could have wrestled
to even if they if we weren't asking them
593
00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:23,566
their opinions, they would have had
at least the same resources.
594
00:32:23,900 --> 00:32:27,946
Speaking of which, what are some resources
that you used in the process?
595
00:32:29,113 --> 00:32:31,908
A lot.
596
00:32:31,908 --> 00:32:33,993
You know, where I began was
597
00:32:34,285 --> 00:32:38,873
one, there's just there's so much research
out there that's available.
598
00:32:38,873 --> 00:32:41,834
If you do a little bit of research,
starting with
599
00:32:42,168 --> 00:32:45,004
just the
600
00:32:45,505 --> 00:32:47,924
experience--how experience
601
00:32:48,675 --> 00:32:51,928
shapes the way that we interpret
the present and the way that we
602
00:32:52,178 --> 00:32:54,681
then respond or move into the future.
603
00:32:55,556 --> 00:32:58,518
You know,
one of the things that I suspected
604
00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:02,021
as I was looking into
this was for a church
605
00:33:02,271 --> 00:33:03,898
like the church that I would say
606
00:33:03,898 --> 00:33:06,985
is more traditional and conservative
and have held their position.
607
00:33:07,986 --> 00:33:09,862
One of the things that I was interested in
608
00:33:09,862 --> 00:33:13,825
is how when you look at your history
as a church,
609
00:33:14,325 --> 00:33:18,246
it's really easy to go well,
this is almost like a sunk cost.
610
00:33:19,122 --> 00:33:22,000
You know, this is how we honor the past.
611
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,751
This is who we've always been.
612
00:33:23,751 --> 00:33:27,046
Talk about the sunk cost, because that's
not a familiar term to everybody.
613
00:33:27,046 --> 00:33:29,298
But I think it's a really important one
in this conversation.
614
00:33:29,716 --> 00:33:29,924
Yeah.
615
00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:34,595
So the sunk cost fallacy is really just
this idea of a bias where the more we have
616
00:33:34,595 --> 00:33:40,143
invested in something, the less likely
we are to change our direction.
617
00:33:40,143 --> 00:33:40,393
Right?
618
00:33:40,393 --> 00:33:45,273
So I have this investment that I've made,
and I've put a bunch of money into it,
619
00:33:45,273 --> 00:33:48,443
and I see it going downhill,
but I can't live with the idea
620
00:33:48,443 --> 00:33:52,530
that I've put all this investment into it
so I actually double down.
621
00:33:52,905 --> 00:33:57,160
And so this is a,
you know, it's a fallacy that we buy into.
622
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,203
And I think it actually plays out.
623
00:33:59,203 --> 00:34:02,915
It's a very common one when it comes to
like what we've experienced.
624
00:34:03,458 --> 00:34:06,544
So we've experienced something
where we've said
625
00:34:06,544 --> 00:34:11,257
this is what's right, this is what's
true, this is how we have to think.
626
00:34:11,257 --> 00:34:13,384
This is how we have to interpret
scripture.
627
00:34:13,926 --> 00:34:17,221
And over time,
even if we start to think, oh,
628
00:34:17,221 --> 00:34:21,851
maybe we didn't have that right,
we can't afford the loss.
629
00:34:22,018 --> 00:34:27,273
We feel the loss of the people
that has taught that who came before us,
630
00:34:27,273 --> 00:34:31,819
we feel the loss of those
who have invested
631
00:34:31,819 --> 00:34:35,448
and all of who our church
has been for so long.
632
00:34:35,448 --> 00:34:40,369
And in this way
we feel like it's dishonoring and
633
00:34:41,079 --> 00:34:43,081
it's a hard
634
00:34:43,081 --> 00:34:45,792
decision to realize, you know,
I want to change my mind
635
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,878
because I have all this investment
in who we've always been.
636
00:34:49,545 --> 00:34:53,716
And so that was something that I think,
you know, you have to be aware of
637
00:34:53,716 --> 00:34:57,929
if you do have that long tradition
and you're really tied to.
638
00:34:58,805 --> 00:34:59,889
And for a lot of good
639
00:34:59,889 --> 00:35:03,309
reasons, like who your church has been,
there's a lot of good there.
640
00:35:03,309 --> 00:35:03,726
Yeah.
641
00:35:03,726 --> 00:35:05,019
And are you losing that?
642
00:35:05,019 --> 00:35:06,646
Are you willing to do that?
643
00:35:07,396 --> 00:35:11,400
So there's a lot of research on that
and just that reality, that one.
644
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,611
And that's one of the biases that I think
creeps in.
645
00:35:15,238 --> 00:35:18,574
Also just within cultural engagement,
obviously,
646
00:35:18,574 --> 00:35:20,910
there's a lot of different things
you can read.
647
00:35:20,910 --> 00:35:25,164
And Dr. Bock has Cultural Intelligence,
that's one of the more recent ones.
648
00:35:25,164 --> 00:35:27,708
But, you know, some of the books
that I found really helpful,
649
00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:30,670
the first one that comes to mind
is The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt.
650
00:35:31,587 --> 00:35:34,674
That's a book that just talks
about how we come
651
00:35:34,674 --> 00:35:36,467
to thinking about
652
00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:41,305
different topics in the world
and the different biases that we bring to
653
00:35:41,305 --> 00:35:43,349
them, almost like different flavors
that we have.
654
00:35:43,349 --> 00:35:47,019
And just being aware of those
is really helpful for having these types
655
00:35:47,019 --> 00:35:52,150
of conversations
within obviously within the topic itself.
656
00:35:52,150 --> 00:35:56,070
One of them there really made an influence
on me from the very beginning was R.T.
657
00:35:56,070 --> 00:35:58,531
France's Women in the Church's Ministry. France's Women in the Church's Ministry.
658
00:35:58,781 --> 00:36:02,702
This is based on a series of lectures
that he did, and the subtitle is "A
659
00:36:02,702 --> 00:36:06,372
Test Case from Biblical Interpretation."
And what I love about
660
00:36:06,372 --> 00:36:10,251
R.T. France is just his candor
throughout these lectures.
661
00:36:10,751 --> 00:36:14,797
And he really approaches this question of
how are you interpreting Scripture.
662
00:36:14,797 --> 00:36:18,801
And he kind of calls us to task to say,
you know,
663
00:36:18,801 --> 00:36:22,346
you are not as infallible
in your interpretation as you think.
664
00:36:23,014 --> 00:36:26,058
I think it's a great place
to open a conversation
665
00:36:26,058 --> 00:36:28,936
for anybody who wants to revisit this,
just to say,
666
00:36:29,353 --> 00:36:32,064
Hey, let's just take a step back
and really consider
667
00:36:32,356 --> 00:36:35,943
how much do you really know,
how much certainty should you really have?
668
00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:39,363
And that didn't make you walk away
deconstructing it all?
669
00:36:39,572 --> 00:36:40,114
It didn't.
670
00:36:40,114 --> 00:36:40,531
It didn't.
671
00:36:40,531 --> 00:36:45,036
It actually was really, maybe it's
because I'm a philosophy major at heart.
672
00:36:45,036 --> 00:36:48,247
But actually, I found it really refreshing
673
00:36:48,873 --> 00:36:51,584
that he was willing to say
674
00:36:52,376 --> 00:36:55,338
we can uphold inerrancy of Scripture
675
00:36:55,338 --> 00:36:59,675
and not give our interpretations
that same level of credit.
676
00:37:00,384 --> 00:37:03,304
And I think that's really important.
677
00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:07,141
God's truth is true and Scripture is true,
678
00:37:07,141 --> 00:37:11,938
but my interpretation is not 100%
accurate.
679
00:37:11,938 --> 00:37:12,647
Right?
680
00:37:12,813 --> 00:37:15,816
And so there's always room to grow
and to learn.
681
00:37:16,817 --> 00:37:21,030
The other two that are just kind of really
well rounded and again,
682
00:37:21,322 --> 00:37:25,743
you know, I came at this
not trying to argue for a position.
683
00:37:25,743 --> 00:37:29,830
But I would say wanting
to just get a well-rounded
684
00:37:30,414 --> 00:37:34,919
exposure to the conversation,
the two just as a starting place,
685
00:37:34,919 --> 00:37:37,755
one is Recovering
Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.
686
00:37:38,047 --> 00:37:39,799
This is John Piper and Wayne Grudem.
687
00:37:40,549 --> 00:37:43,844
And then you have to turn around and read
Discovering
688
00:37:43,844 --> 00:37:47,890
Biblical Equality: Biblical, Theological,
Cultural and Practical Perspectives.
689
00:37:48,099 --> 00:37:51,519
This is Ronald Pierce
and Cynthia Westfall, editors of that.
690
00:37:51,894 --> 00:37:55,815
So those are two works
that are really in dialog with each other,
691
00:37:56,107 --> 00:37:59,902
not always in the most friendly of terms,
but they are.
692
00:38:00,611 --> 00:38:04,865
But it's a great way to just go, okay,
what are the different voices?
693
00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:09,996
What are the different topics
and pieces of these arguments?
694
00:38:09,996 --> 00:38:11,580
Just as a starting place.
695
00:38:11,580 --> 00:38:13,833
And they're both within the inerrancy
camp.
696
00:38:13,833 --> 00:38:15,293
Both within the inerrancy camp.
697
00:38:15,293 --> 00:38:18,796
But I think that's really important
to see that
698
00:38:19,005 --> 00:38:22,758
you have both sides
that, you know, they're both conservative.
699
00:38:22,758 --> 00:38:24,051
They're both orthodox.
700
00:38:24,051 --> 00:38:28,180
They're both going to be within that
you know, like you said, Orthodox.
701
00:38:28,180 --> 00:38:30,850
But they're going to see things very,
very differently.
702
00:38:30,850 --> 00:38:34,895
And that's a healthy thing to see
and to be exposed to.
703
00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:35,896
Yeah.
704
00:38:36,022 --> 00:38:39,233
So you said that one piece of advice is,
705
00:38:39,233 --> 00:38:41,986
you know, even
why are you asking some questions?
706
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,696
Is there anything else like
707
00:38:44,697 --> 00:38:45,614
inviting women in?
708
00:38:45,614 --> 00:38:46,866
Does that make a difference?
709
00:38:47,158 --> 00:38:47,867
Absolutely.
710
00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:49,869
Yeah. No, I appreciate you
711
00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:51,370
asking the question.
712
00:38:51,370 --> 00:38:51,662
Yeah.
713
00:38:51,662 --> 00:38:54,915
So part of
714
00:38:54,915 --> 00:38:56,959
taking more time
715
00:38:56,959 --> 00:39:00,254
is to give yourself
what I missed that earlier.
716
00:39:00,254 --> 00:39:02,923
Part of what I was thinking about
in terms of
717
00:39:02,923 --> 00:39:05,718
who are the voices that you're inviting
in, you know.
718
00:39:05,718 --> 00:39:07,845
So it gives you more time to
719
00:39:08,387 --> 00:39:10,639
read more broadly,
720
00:39:10,639 --> 00:39:15,102
ask broader perspectives
and being open to different perspectives
721
00:39:15,102 --> 00:39:18,731
and open to different voices,
I think that's really important again.
722
00:39:18,731 --> 00:39:22,818
So going along those lines of those two
different books that I really recommended
723
00:39:22,818 --> 00:39:25,321
there is you've got to have
724
00:39:26,155 --> 00:39:28,783
voices from different perspectives
in different camps
725
00:39:28,783 --> 00:39:33,162
in order to really understand
and appreciate all the different
726
00:39:33,162 --> 00:39:36,290
angles of the conversation.
727
00:39:36,707 --> 00:39:39,377
And so,
you know, one of the things that the
728
00:39:40,127 --> 00:39:41,087
churches that I would
729
00:39:41,087 --> 00:39:43,589
say their process was longer.
730
00:39:44,215 --> 00:39:47,009
They along the way discovered
731
00:39:47,551 --> 00:39:51,055
what different avenues
they needed to pursue.
732
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,351
They gave themselves that space to go,
733
00:39:55,393 --> 00:39:58,354
okay, you know what--because
we're not on a time crunch.
734
00:39:59,313 --> 00:40:04,819
I want to run over here and I want to see
if we can go down this rabbit hole.
735
00:40:04,819 --> 00:40:07,905
Perhaps some sense and invite this person
736
00:40:07,905 --> 00:40:11,909
to talk or to I want to encourage
everybody to read this article.
737
00:40:11,909 --> 00:40:17,331
And so they definitely had a much broader
scope of exposure than, for example,
738
00:40:17,331 --> 00:40:21,460
one of the churches that I talked to that
tried to do literally in three months.
739
00:40:22,086 --> 00:40:23,879
And it was
740
00:40:23,879 --> 00:40:26,340
literally a three-month process.
741
00:40:26,340 --> 00:40:30,177
And because of that,
there were so few voices.
742
00:40:30,177 --> 00:40:33,180
There's a basically ended up being
a debate within the elder board itself.
743
00:40:33,180 --> 00:40:37,143
And it was it was a couple of guys
arguing with a couple of guys.
744
00:40:37,143 --> 00:40:41,981
And in the end, they didn't really get
anywhere in any sort of healthy way.
745
00:40:42,481 --> 00:40:45,443
Yeah. So, yeah, no, absolutely. I think
746
00:40:45,985 --> 00:40:48,195
you have to have
747
00:40:48,362 --> 00:40:50,239
as broad exposure as possible, I think.
748
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,492
And you can do that
within an orthodox conservative,
749
00:40:53,868 --> 00:40:56,662
you know, framework
without question. Yeah.
750
00:40:57,163 --> 00:40:59,415
Anything else you want to add
we should know?
751
00:40:59,790 --> 00:41:01,500
I mean, I would just encourage anybody
752
00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:05,921
who's looking into this--take the time
and this is
753
00:41:06,088 --> 00:41:08,757
this is the conversation
I think every church should have.
754
00:41:09,300 --> 00:41:12,261
If your church hasn't
gotten to this point yet,
755
00:41:12,761 --> 00:41:15,014
they need to at some point.
756
00:41:15,306 --> 00:41:20,769
And the reason I think that is
because we're at a time right now
757
00:41:20,769 --> 00:41:24,648
where so much is changing
with our world rapidly.
758
00:41:25,441 --> 00:41:27,610
And there are so many different
ethical questions
759
00:41:27,610 --> 00:41:30,696
that are coming into churches
from every different angle.
760
00:41:31,489 --> 00:41:36,285
This is one, though, that is so
as you know, before we got in this call,
761
00:41:36,285 --> 00:41:39,580
you were talking about a church
that you're consulting with right now.
762
00:41:39,580 --> 00:41:42,666
They're seeing their church
started to get split over this.
763
00:41:43,292 --> 00:41:45,503
That's happening all over the country.
764
00:41:45,503 --> 00:41:48,881
And this is one
that if churches are going to be able
765
00:41:48,881 --> 00:41:53,135
to be a positive voice,
to be sort of light
766
00:41:53,135 --> 00:41:56,597
within the culture,
then we have to be healthy.
767
00:41:56,889 --> 00:41:59,225
And part of that is understanding,
768
00:41:59,892 --> 00:42:03,187
not shoving these kinds of conversations
under the rug,
769
00:42:03,187 --> 00:42:06,315
but bringing them to light and doing
so in a way
770
00:42:06,315 --> 00:42:08,609
that is going to
771
00:42:08,984 --> 00:42:11,028
bring unity and not division
772
00:42:11,028 --> 00:42:12,446
even within the church.
773
00:42:13,197 --> 00:42:16,200
And that's what's interesting
is, you know,
774
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,869
I think a lot of times
there's this fear of disunity.
775
00:42:18,869 --> 00:42:21,121
And so it's like,
let's try to shove this under the rug.
776
00:42:21,121 --> 00:42:22,831
Let's not have this conversation.
777
00:42:22,831 --> 00:42:24,750
We're afraid of what
this would do to our church.
778
00:42:24,750 --> 00:42:27,002
And I think it's actually the opposite.
779
00:42:27,002 --> 00:42:29,630
I think the healthiest churches
are the ones that are going to say,
780
00:42:29,922 --> 00:42:32,049
we're going to lean
into the hard conversation
781
00:42:32,883 --> 00:42:35,844
but we're going to do so with humility
and we're going to do so
782
00:42:35,844 --> 00:42:38,264
with self-awareness.
We're going to do this
783
00:42:38,973 --> 00:42:43,435
with transparency and try to see this
784
00:42:43,435 --> 00:42:47,398
as an opportunity for spiritual formation
even within your church.
785
00:42:47,898 --> 00:42:52,945
But I think when that becomes
the heart of your leadership, then
786
00:42:53,529 --> 00:42:56,240
I think that there's real potential there
787
00:42:56,490 --> 00:42:59,660
for at the end of the day, your church
being healthier and stronger for it.
788
00:43:00,828 --> 00:43:04,498
And I think there's an opportunity there
that we need to have.
789
00:43:05,165 --> 00:43:08,168
That has ramifications
for a lot of other issues.
790
00:43:08,168 --> 00:43:09,128
Right? Absolutely.
791
00:43:09,128 --> 00:43:10,129
Yeah. Absolutely.
792
00:43:10,129 --> 00:43:11,797
Thank you so much.
793
00:43:11,797 --> 00:43:12,881
I appreciate your work.
794
00:43:12,881 --> 00:43:14,341
I appreciate you joining us.
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00:43:14,341 --> 00:43:17,177
Dr. Daigle, anything you want to add?
796
00:43:17,177 --> 00:43:21,682
I just want to say I totally agree
very much appreciate
797
00:43:22,141 --> 00:43:25,728
the research that you've done,
the time that you spent on this.
798
00:43:25,728 --> 00:43:29,231
And it's a benefit
to the church in general.
799
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,360
And just saying that for the churches,
800
00:43:33,694 --> 00:43:36,447
I can't speak for them, but when
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00:43:36,447 --> 00:43:40,743
they watch this or when they
802
00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,329
finally come to the decision
803
00:43:43,329 --> 00:43:47,833
to make a decision about this,
I think that they will benefit from that,
804
00:43:47,833 --> 00:43:52,254
just as you pointed out, that
this is an important conversation to have.
805
00:43:52,671 --> 00:43:54,757
Shouldn't just be swept under the rug.
806
00:43:54,757 --> 00:43:56,675
It shouldn't be hurried.
807
00:43:56,675 --> 00:44:01,263
And those are some of the experiences
that I had a hurried
808
00:44:01,847 --> 00:44:03,349
kind of
809
00:44:03,724 --> 00:44:06,310
where the church
that it kind of fell apart in.
810
00:44:06,310 --> 00:44:09,813
They were trying to hurry
because I think some of the elders
811
00:44:09,813 --> 00:44:11,607
were going to leave
and they were going to need
812
00:44:11,607 --> 00:44:14,735
to get new elders
who had not done any of the research
813
00:44:15,277 --> 00:44:18,155
because it'd only been the circle
814
00:44:18,364 --> 00:44:20,783
of the elders involved.
815
00:44:21,450 --> 00:44:24,036
And so it was being rushed
816
00:44:24,036 --> 00:44:28,499
and they did finally bring a group of us
as women in to talk to them.
817
00:44:29,041 --> 00:44:29,583
Uh-huh.
818
00:44:30,584 --> 00:44:31,835
There was division among the
819
00:44:31,835 --> 00:44:34,713
women, but many of them had never studied
the topic.
820
00:44:34,922 --> 00:44:37,091
So they were Right. blind.
821
00:44:37,091 --> 00:44:41,679
They were just talking from,
this is the way I feel about it.
822
00:44:42,221 --> 00:44:44,556
It was nothing
823
00:44:44,807 --> 00:44:47,851
about their real biblical research.
824
00:44:48,185 --> 00:44:48,769
Uh-huh.
825
00:44:49,395 --> 00:44:53,607
I really see the value in everything
that you brought up.
826
00:44:53,607 --> 00:44:58,487
And these practices I think
would really be helpful for any church.
827
00:44:59,029 --> 00:45:00,572
So thank you so much
828
00:45:00,572 --> 00:45:03,742
for bringing this to light
and doing all the work that you did.
829
00:45:04,284 --> 00:45:06,161
That's my pleasure.
830
00:45:06,995 --> 00:45:11,500
We have other videos on church issues
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00:45:11,500 --> 00:45:14,920
that you might be interested
in, other podcast on these.
832
00:45:15,295 --> 00:45:18,382
So if you go to BeyondOrdinaryWomen.org
833
00:45:18,382 --> 00:45:22,970
and look under resources,
you will see that we have
834
00:45:22,970 --> 00:45:24,596
church issues listed,
835
00:45:24,596 --> 00:45:28,809
and that's where this type of conversation
falls in.
836
00:45:29,393 --> 00:45:33,147
So I would just encourage
any of you out there who are on church
837
00:45:33,147 --> 00:45:38,193
staffs or you're elders in churches
or you have influence
838
00:45:38,610 --> 00:45:40,279
in a church that
839
00:45:40,279 --> 00:45:44,074
you bring this up,
how important this is and
840
00:45:45,075 --> 00:45:49,204
just bring it to the light
instead of just trying to hide.
841
00:45:49,747 --> 00:45:51,749
Let's just not deal with it.
842
00:45:51,749 --> 00:45:53,333
Ignore and it'll go away.
843
00:45:53,333 --> 00:45:54,960
If only.
844
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,171
Yeah, it's not the way to go.
845
00:45:57,755 --> 00:46:01,008
So thank you and we will look forward
to seeing you again
846
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on our Beyond Ordinary Women Podcast.
847
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Hi. I'm Kay Daigle.
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Welcome to the Beyond Ordinary Women
Podcast and video.
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We are so happy
that you've joined us today.
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We have two special guests.
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We have Dr. Sandra Glahn with us.
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Welcome Sandi.
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Glad to be here as always.
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Yeah, it's always a treat to have you.
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We always look forward to having you.
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Dr. Glahn is a professor
at Dallas Seminary.
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She is
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a professor of Media Arts and Worship
there.
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She's written over 20 books.
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She has so much to say about her
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that you just need to go to our website
and read her bio
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because she has done a lot
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and she has produced a lot of work.
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And you can find her
in many of our videos.
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So hopefully
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this won't be the last when you watch
go on
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to BeyondOrdinaryWomen.org
and search for her name.
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And you can connect with some of her
other conversations that we've had.
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And Sandra invited
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another friend
to be with us, the third male
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that we have had on our podcast.
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And it is Dr.
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Lucas Rogers.
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Welcome, Lucas.
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Thank you so much.
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Great to be here.
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We are so happy to have you.
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Lucas is the lead pastor at Easton
Bible Church
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in Hainesport, New Jersey.
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And he has both a master's
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and doctorate degrees
from Dallas Seminary as well.
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And we're really happy to have you.
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And despite the fact
that you're only the third man,
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we really appreciate it.
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That's true.
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Well, it's my honor.
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Well, since our ministry is Beyond
Ordinary Women,
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we have tended to focus on women
in these conversations.
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But we're so happy to have you.
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And I'm going to turn around over to Sandi
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and Lucas to talk about our topic today,
which I'm very excited about.
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I feel like many,
many churches need to hear
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about the research that Lucas has done.
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So Lucas has done a hard
look at the best practices
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for churches
that are reconsidering where they stand
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on their position on women
in ministry leadership.
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So let me start out by lobbing a question
like why don't you share with listeners
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how you and I met and how you ended
up diving into this topic?
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Yeah, well, I first
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started my doctorate back in 2017,
and it was during that time
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that looking into different topics and,
and I think we'll probably get into
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a little bit about why I chose this one,
but really I was interested in
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women in church leadership.
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And so, Dr.
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Glahn,
that's when I reached out to you and asked
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if you'd be one of my readers
on my dissertation and
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which is obviously aware of your work and
all of your research that you had done.
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And it was, that was the beginning
of that relationship.
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And it's been a great journey.
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And the topic of your dissertation was?
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Was essentially,
women and church leadership.
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But really the question that it was
seeking to answer is looking at
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churches, and
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specifically churches
that are theologically conservative.
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I come from a Bible church tradition,
all of my life.
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I went to Dallas Seminary
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and looking at churches,
they kind of shared that DNA,
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if you will, of conservative
theologically, biblically.
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And then recognizing that over the last
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two decades or so, more and more of
those churches are reconsidering
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and revisiting their position on women
in church leadership specifically.
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And the question
that I wanted to wrestle with was,
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why is it that you've got churches
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that on paper
all look more or less the same.
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That on paper they would all affirm
the same things biblically, theologically,
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and yet when it came to this issue,
they were landing in different places.
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And so it became clear to me that
just to say, well, we're reading the Bible
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and this is what the Bible says
just wasn't sufficient.
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And so I wanted to kind of delve into that
more and try to unearth
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what are some of the factors
that are going into
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the way these decisions are being made.
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What are some of those factors
that are influencing
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how churches and elder boards specifically
are wrestling with the question
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and how they're interpreting and then
applying the Scripture in their churches?
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Because it just isn't uniform.
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It doesn't
look the same at every church anymore.
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And that was just something
that really fascinated me.
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Well, I mean, there are a zillion topics
you could choose.
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You're a guy.
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What made you choose this topic?
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Yeah, I think, you know,
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one of the advice I was given
is find something that's personal to you.
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You're going to spend a lot of time
delving on a topic
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when you're writing a dissertation
as we can all attest to.
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And so for me, interestingly,
enough, in 2017,
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when I was beginning this process,
I had the opportunity.
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I was invited to observe at a church,
their elder board,
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walking through
this kind of deliberative process.
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They wanted to revisit how women were
serving and leading within their church.
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They wanted to unpack you know,
what did the scriptures say?
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Were they getting it right in a sense,
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this kind of the way
they wanted to approach it.
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And so I got to observe that firsthand.
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I walked away kind
of disappointed.
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I walked away
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just feeling like they didn't
have the tools and the resources necessary
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to even begin the conversation
and to begin the discussion.
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And it wasn't necessarily, you know, it
certainly wasn't a moral failing.
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These were not bad people,
but there was just a lack
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of understanding of even how to
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go about research, about
just being aware of
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some of the biases that they were bringing
into the conversation.
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And so, I walked away from that thinking,
how can I help?
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You know, how can you know,
even if I was in a position
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where--regardless of whether or not
I agreed with their final decision--just
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the process of the decision
making mattered to me.
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I felt like that was something
that the churches, if we're going to be
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having these conversations,
we need to know that
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as we're making these decisions,
the process is a good one, right?
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It needs to be effective.
It needs to be constructive.
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So that was where I began.
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I think for me, there's
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always a variety of factors that come into
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For me, that was a very personal one.
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I think also my experience in churches,
it had become clear to me
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that there was a hedge
that had been set up around the law.
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And so for churches that, you know,
they would read some of these passages,
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I'm sure we'll discuss
at least a little bit 1 Timothy 2
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and other places where Scripture,
at least historically and traditionally in
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some of these Bible churches, have read
that to be very restrictive of women
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in leadership.
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I was part of churches that went way
beyond some of those applications.
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So you might have a church, for example,
that will limit women
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to saying, well, women
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where women weren't allowed
to, you know, even get on stage.
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They weren't allowed
to make announcements.
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They weren't allowed to hand out
bulletins in the sanctuary.
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And to me, this was a hedge
that I could find no biblical basis for.
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And so that was something
that bothered me.
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And the more I observed that, I just
felt like--how are we treating them?
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You know, what are we communicating
to women and their value and their
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worth within the church?
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And then lastly,
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as a pastor, I just have a deep passion
for church unity.
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And this was an area
that even as my journey over
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these last several years in terms of
like my own personal conviction beliefs,
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it just seemed to me
that how we have these conversations
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matters
both within the church and outside.
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I was very passionate about
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is how to help churches
have the conversation in a way that still
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reflects the grace and the goodness of God
and love for one another.
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Even if we agree, we can agree to disagree
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or even if we disagree, we can do
so in a way that's gracious
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and loving to one another.
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And so that was all part of the motivation
of tackling this topic.
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So it sounds like you were way
more concerned with
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how we get there
than where we land? Right?
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That's true.
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That's true.
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I have my convictions.
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I have my own beliefs and I,
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but for the project itself,
the way I wanted to approach
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it was thinking about
if I was going to help a church
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that wanted to reconsider this,
that wanted to revisit this,
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how can I help equip them to do
so in a way that at the end of the day,
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wherever they land,
their church is healthier for it
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and that they can still even engage
and appreciate
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other churches with other perspectives
instead of having these rifts.
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And, you know, we're in a society
right now where there's so much
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vilifying if anyone who disagrees with us
in the slightest way.
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And so that was something I really wanted
to try to push back against,
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if there was any way of doing so.
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Especially if they're in our own camp.
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It almost seems like
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punish our own for talking with the other.
Right?
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That's right.
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So what were your hunches?
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I mean, what did you suspect?
You had to frame the question?
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What were your hunches going in that
you thought
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might be influencing where people landed?
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Yeah, I started with three
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as I was sort of thought about my time
observing the elder board.
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I was sort of going, okay,
what did I see there?
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and none of these
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I think if you stop
and think about cognitive bias,
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you think about how we approach questions
and how we come up with our answers.
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Anyone who's done
any kind of research in psychology
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are going to be aware
of some of these factors at one level.
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One is that our past influences the way
that we see the present and the future.
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And so. Everybody. Right? Everybody.
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Not just the "others." No, it's true
for all of us.
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So I was interested
in, okay, what are the experiences
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within those churches
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that may have shaped
the way that they approached the question?
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The second one was thinking about
how do they view
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everybody outside of the church?
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So how do they view culture.
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Is culture an enemy? Is culture something
that they're trying to influence?
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Is culture something to run away from?
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What is kind of their posture
towards cultural engagement?
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to me that
churches would be really influenced by it
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if they thought a position or a view
reflected too similarly to the culture.
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And if culture was an evil, that might be
something that they would run away from.
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how do we engage the culture,
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they might be more inclined
to take a position that in some ways
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someone might say, reflects the culture.
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So what is the dynamic there?
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And then thirdly was
what's their chosen biblical hermeneutic?
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One of the realities of you know,
for years,
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you know, when I first started going back
to DTS back in 2006, I was introduced to
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this idea that there are different ways
of reading Scripture,
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that there are actually different lenses
that we all bring to the interpretive
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exercise.
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what are the underlying either conscious
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or even subconscious hermeneutics
that these churches have adopted?
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as they're seeking to interpret
and then apply the Scriptures?
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And so those were the three.
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Only at churches like within Orthodox
Christianity, correct?
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Right. Yeah, correct.
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So when I started it was yeah, exactly.
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elder-led conservative
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Okay, and talk to us.
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I just want to say I love so much
that you've done this
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and you just describing those churches.
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I think I've been in all of those
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All of those churches.
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I mean, I can think of one church
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that I was in that
I think they feared dealing with this.
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Really, sort of a hidden agenda
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that the elders would deal with
if something came up.
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But they didn't really want to come up
with a paper
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on it, a position on it.
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They just sort of avoided it.
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Another church,
the elder group, tried to do this,
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and it all kind of fell apart,
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and nothing really happened.
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And, you know, I've been in the churches
that you know, you can't call a woman
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a minister much less a pastor, you know?
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So I feel like I've sort of been
in the gamut that you're talking about.
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But all of these are definitely orthodox
conservative churches.
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Believe the Bible, but woo! Oh, yeah.
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Okay. Yeah.
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So you said hermeneutics, plural.
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Correct.
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Can you
can you kind of give us some approaches
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like a people
who have a high view of Scripture,
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what are some approaches
you've seen them take to Scripture?
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I mean, I think there's two ways
of thinking about hermeneutics.
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One is kind of in a formal academic sense.
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And then one is just the reality,
as we were saying
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earlier, is that we all have a hermeneutic
that we're bringing to Scripture
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based on who we are
and our own experience
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and even personality. Right?
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All of those things, how we're wired
comes in to how we interpret Scripture.
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But I think it's important
that what hermeneutics does is it's
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acknowledging that there's a gap
between Scripture as God has breathed it.
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And that is as all of these churches
that I looked at would confessed
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to, is that it is inherent, infallible,
the Word of God.
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But there's a gap
between that the Word of God as it is,
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and then my interpretation, my
understanding that that is not infallible.
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so there's the informal reality of that.
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Then there's the, the more formal
and there's a lot of different
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research now, and it's been going on
for quite some time.
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There's been something that scholars
have been aware of for a long time.
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That how we interpret Scripture,
even within that high view
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of Scripture, can differ.
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So you have different models.
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For example, you have some that are like
the redemptive historical model.
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You have a philosophical
and theological model, you have historical
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literal model or cultural,
you know, looking at the context.
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So these are different ways of approaching
the Scripture in order to understand it,
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and then to interpret it
and then to apply it.
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was a lot of times
that's just not really realized.
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It's not known even by elders,
other leaders within the church.
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What they've been given is often assumed
to be the only model that there is.
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in looking at these different churches
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and going, okay,
which one are you actually leaning on
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for your interpretation,
and do you realize it?
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So talk
to us then about how do you frame it?
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Like so you got a question.
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What's the best approach?
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Where are the best practices?
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How am I going to come up with the data?
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How did you go about it?
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I chose three churches
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that I was familiar with that
I had connection with in some way.
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And that all had,
as I said, a very similar DNA.
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On paper all three of the churches
would look very similar.
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They all had very similar histories
in terms
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of like coming out of that Bible Church
tradition.
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And all three of them in the last
ten years
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had gone through a deliberate
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conversation.
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These were all elder-led churches
among the elders.
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Revisiting this question,
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how should women be serving
within the church?
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What is the Scripture say?
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And yet all three landed in different
places, and that's what fascinated me.
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So you had one church that after this
process said, no, we want to
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say women should
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or can be pastors, they could be elders
like Scripture supports that.
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We've read it wrong essentially
for all these years because they're coming
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out of a very traditional male
dominated leadership.
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And so they, you know,
using the language of egalitarian,
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they said
we're going to be an egalitarian church.
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Then the second church that I looked at,
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they went through another,
you know, their own process.
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be pastors.
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We want them to teach and to preach,
but we're still going to reserve elder
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for only men.
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that I looked at,
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they went through a process
and said, we're going to stay
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with our traditional conservative
reading of Scripture.
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And so to this day,
they do not permit women
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to be elders or pastors,
and they would never use that language,
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Kay, to your point, you know, even women
Ministers, much less Pastors.
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You had three churches
that all had their own process.
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That were all very similar,
and yet landed in three different places.
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And so what I did
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for my research
was really just try to embed myself
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in the culture of these churches
as much as I could.
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Now came a lot of interviews.
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I talked to everybody
that I could convince to talk to me
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within those churches,
within their leadership, their pastoral
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staff, their ministry staff, the elders
who are part of these decisions.
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I tried to avail myself of anything
that they had published
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about their decisions, any of that process
that was available online.
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And just try to understand as best I could
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their history,
what their process looked like.
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And through those conversations, unearth
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some of those influences, factors
that I suspected were there.
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And so what did you learn?
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Yeah, I mean, what I learned is that
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yes, there are influencing factors.
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This isn't a surprise in one sense,
but what I found with those churches is,
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and I kind of take up each one
individually if I can.
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So, you know, one of them,
I call them the leadership church.
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This was a church that, you know, as
they set about to have this conversation,
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they started with this question of
why do we want to have this conversation?
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And they are a church
that really wanted to empower
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women to
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live out the full potential
of their leadership.
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They believe that that they wanted to
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unlock the leadership
potential of the women within their church
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that they felt and believed had been
stifled and limited for a long time.
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If you look at these three factors,
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experience, cultural engagement
and biblical hermeneutic.
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For them,
it really began with the experience
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and so what happened was they had
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started--they had women on staff
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who are uniquely gifted and leadership
and teaching.
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And over time,
this began to press on their convictions
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because they saw God using these women
in really powerful and dramatic ways.
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And so that led them to revisit their
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biblical hermeneutic.
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They said, we see these women
they have these gifts.
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They're leading, and they're teaching.
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00:20:52,417 --> 00:20:55,587
Okay, is it possible
that we need to rethink the way
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that we're reading Scripture?
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And so there was an openness as they then
approached the question with Scripture.
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And so they didn't go into it
trying to, you know,
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say, this is what we want
to find within Scripture.
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But there was this, again,
this revisiting process
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because of what their experience
led them to.
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And so they began with experience
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that then began to shift
the way that they looked at scripture
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and they began to investigate
different hermeneutical models.
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00:21:26,660 --> 00:21:29,538
And as they were looking
at their biblical hermeneutic,
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they were open to other models.
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And one that they wanted to look
at was a static.
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It was very much frozen in time.
399
00:21:43,051 --> 00:21:48,223
If Paul says that this is happening, then
that's what should be happening today.
400
00:21:48,974 --> 00:21:53,562
And the other model was a
what you might call a trajectory model.
401
00:21:53,562 --> 00:21:58,066
And this is looking at our Scripture
from the beginning and through the end
402
00:21:58,066 --> 00:22:03,155
how there's a progression
of greater freedom, more grace,
403
00:22:03,155 --> 00:22:06,783
or a different expressions of grace
throughout Scripture.
404
00:22:07,284 --> 00:22:09,870
And so that openness
405
00:22:09,870 --> 00:22:14,541
to other hermeneutical models
then began to change their conversation.
406
00:22:15,500 --> 00:22:18,420
And in
the midst of that, it also made them
407
00:22:18,754 --> 00:22:21,381
because they weren't
afraid of the culture.
408
00:22:22,424 --> 00:22:25,344
While there were some
who were pushing back and saying,
409
00:22:26,053 --> 00:22:31,141
look, you're just buying into what
the culture is telling you.
410
00:22:31,141 --> 00:22:33,060
This is during the MeToo movement.
411
00:22:33,060 --> 00:22:36,438
They were saying, Actually,
we're just not afraid of the culture.
412
00:22:36,813 --> 00:22:38,940
We want to be able to engage the culture.
413
00:22:39,441 --> 00:22:44,821
And again, that allowed them to have
these open conversations in good faith.
414
00:22:44,905 --> 00:22:48,450
I would say like one of the descriptions
they gave me repeatedly
415
00:22:48,450 --> 00:22:52,079
was that they wanted
to be open, open minded, and they wanted
416
00:22:52,079 --> 00:22:55,165
to be open
hearted around these conversations
417
00:22:55,165 --> 00:22:58,293
and allow the Spirit
to lead them and guide them.
418
00:22:58,877 --> 00:23:01,421
And so it was very open
and they took a lot of time.
419
00:23:01,421 --> 00:23:02,756
There's a lot of prayer involved.
420
00:23:04,174 --> 00:23:04,591
And so it
421
00:23:04,591 --> 00:23:07,094
began with looking at their experience
422
00:23:07,677 --> 00:23:12,140
with women who were just demonstrating
great leadership and teaching.
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00:23:12,140 --> 00:23:16,061
And that then influenced the way that they
that they read the scriptures
424
00:23:16,061 --> 00:23:18,563
and the hermeneutic models
that they were open to.
425
00:23:19,356 --> 00:23:22,109
The second church,
I'll call it like the missional church,
426
00:23:22,442 --> 00:23:26,071
and this is one
that they were interested in.
427
00:23:26,863 --> 00:23:30,617
How do we make sure
that we are engaging with the culture?
428
00:23:30,617 --> 00:23:34,121
So they began with the culture
where they were not afraid of the culture.
429
00:23:34,121 --> 00:23:36,206
They wanted to engage the culture.
430
00:23:36,206 --> 00:23:38,834
And as part of that conversation,
they wondered, are
431
00:23:38,834 --> 00:23:42,212
we are we a safe place for women?
432
00:23:42,212 --> 00:23:45,006
And that they begin to have conversations
433
00:23:45,006 --> 00:23:48,844
with women on staff and even women
from other ministries and discovered
434
00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:52,305
that women didn't feel safe often
within their church.
435
00:23:52,722 --> 00:23:54,224
The women felt
436
00:23:54,224 --> 00:23:57,978
stifled, that they felt limited,
they felt disrespected and undervalued.
437
00:23:57,978 --> 00:24:00,981
And they gave a lot of stories around how
438
00:24:00,981 --> 00:24:03,650
that was communicated to them
from the leadership even.
439
00:24:04,401 --> 00:24:06,528
And so there was a real. How'd that go?
440
00:24:07,571 --> 00:24:08,029
Yeah.
441
00:24:08,029 --> 00:24:10,699
It was really heartbreaking for them.
442
00:24:10,699 --> 00:24:14,035
And so, you know,
you have this moment where the elders are
443
00:24:14,035 --> 00:24:17,414
sitting down with these women
and are hearing these stories from them.
444
00:24:17,414 --> 00:24:22,544
And there's really just this conviction
and a heart of repentance
445
00:24:22,544 --> 00:24:27,007
that comes over the whole elder board
going, we have not treated these women
446
00:24:27,007 --> 00:24:29,843
the way that they should
as sisters in Christ.
447
00:24:29,843 --> 00:24:33,805
And so for them, the conversation
sort of began with the cultural
448
00:24:33,805 --> 00:24:36,933
and then moved to experiential
because now they're aware
449
00:24:36,933 --> 00:24:40,270
of how women were treated
and how they felt within the church.
450
00:24:40,645 --> 00:24:43,773
And that then again led to this openness
when it came to
451
00:24:43,815 --> 00:24:47,068
how are we going to read the scriptures
to make sure that we're
452
00:24:47,068 --> 00:24:50,155
honoring women and valuing them
the way that they should be?
453
00:24:51,114 --> 00:24:52,491
And then the third church
454
00:24:52,491 --> 00:24:56,036
really began with experience as well.
455
00:24:56,453 --> 00:24:58,705
And for the third church, you know,
456
00:24:58,705 --> 00:25:02,125
their past is very much part
of their identity.
457
00:25:02,792 --> 00:25:04,419
It's who they are.
458
00:25:04,419 --> 00:25:07,797
And so because of that,
they look at the past
459
00:25:07,797 --> 00:25:11,343
as a buffer
against the dangers of the culture.
460
00:25:12,594 --> 00:25:14,888
And so there's really no
461
00:25:15,013 --> 00:25:18,850
gap between how Scripture
has been interpreted
462
00:25:18,850 --> 00:25:22,437
in the past and the truth of Scripture.
463
00:25:22,979 --> 00:25:27,025
So that whole idea of a hermeneutic
and that gap between what God's Word said
464
00:25:27,192 --> 00:25:29,611
and then understanding and interpretation
465
00:25:30,779 --> 00:25:32,781
is all but lost.
466
00:25:33,448 --> 00:25:34,950
And so
467
00:25:35,992 --> 00:25:38,495
the past then becomes very much
468
00:25:39,204 --> 00:25:43,375
the hermeneutic
for how they approach Scripture.
469
00:25:43,833 --> 00:25:46,920
And it becomes a buffer and a defense
from the culture
470
00:25:47,170 --> 00:25:50,340
that they want to make sure
doesn't begin to permeate the church.
471
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,344
And so you have these influencing factors
472
00:25:54,344 --> 00:25:57,722
with all three churches,
but in all three different ways,
473
00:25:58,848 --> 00:26:02,811
and it leads to different interpretations
474
00:26:02,852 --> 00:26:06,773
of the scriptures in different
applications, again, in all three ways.
475
00:26:07,065 --> 00:26:10,527
And let me just say, I have great respect
for all these churches.
476
00:26:11,486 --> 00:26:13,738
My research was never intended to,
477
00:26:14,030 --> 00:26:16,199
you know, in any way denigrate or
478
00:26:16,908 --> 00:26:19,411
hurt anyone in these churches.
479
00:26:19,411 --> 00:26:22,205
I have great respect for each one of them.
480
00:26:22,205 --> 00:26:26,042
I simply wanted to observe and say,
okay, what are the processes
481
00:26:26,042 --> 00:26:26,793
that you are going through?
482
00:26:26,793 --> 00:26:30,338
What are those factors
that you may not even be aware of
483
00:26:30,338 --> 00:26:32,924
that are playing a part
in how you're making these decisions?
484
00:26:33,717 --> 00:26:37,429
So you've been doing
a bunch of consulting with churches since.
485
00:26:37,762 --> 00:26:40,724
What's your advice
now based on your findings?
486
00:26:42,058 --> 00:26:43,560
You know, the questions that I would start
487
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,979
with, one is
why do you want to have this conversation?
488
00:26:47,022 --> 00:26:49,107
I think that the
489
00:26:49,107 --> 00:26:52,235
you know,
the motivation behind it really does,
490
00:26:52,777 --> 00:26:56,406
again, influence
a lot of how you're going to
491
00:26:57,324 --> 00:26:59,826
approach the conversation.
492
00:26:59,826 --> 00:27:02,454
So if your elder board
493
00:27:02,454 --> 00:27:05,457
or your leadership team,
whoever it is within your church,
494
00:27:06,124 --> 00:27:09,836
I will say you need to know
that you're on the same page in terms
495
00:27:09,836 --> 00:27:12,547
or at least understanding
what the motivation is.
496
00:27:12,964 --> 00:27:16,134
What is it
that you want to get out of this process?
497
00:27:17,260 --> 00:27:19,971
With each one of those churches
what I appreciated
498
00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:23,850
was that they did
each have this shared sense of why.
499
00:27:24,267 --> 00:27:27,479
The first church wanted to,
each one of them wanted to be true
500
00:27:27,479 --> 00:27:29,481
to Scripture. Be clear about that.
501
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,902
But the first church was saying,
hey, we see a missed opportunity
502
00:27:33,902 --> 00:27:36,780
with really unlocking women's
potential leadership.
503
00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,783
So there was that motivating factor.
504
00:27:40,075 --> 00:27:43,662
The second one was, we want to be a church
that's safe
505
00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:45,747
for women and missional in that sense.
506
00:27:45,872 --> 00:27:48,750
We want to be true to Scripture.
So what is that going to look like for us?
507
00:27:48,750 --> 00:27:51,503
And the third church said
We want to be true to Scripture,
508
00:27:51,503 --> 00:27:54,089
and for them
they wanted to be true to their past.
509
00:27:54,089 --> 00:27:56,758
That was their driving value.
510
00:27:56,758 --> 00:27:59,469
So why is it that you want to engage
this conversation?
511
00:27:59,803 --> 00:28:03,807
I mean, you have to be very honest
with yourself about that.
512
00:28:04,557 --> 00:28:07,727
I think if you're not honest
with that piece of it,
513
00:28:07,727 --> 00:28:10,146
then you can't answer the second question,
which is,
514
00:28:10,146 --> 00:28:11,981
are you willing to change your mind?
515
00:28:11,981 --> 00:28:14,109
Are you willing to be pushed?
516
00:28:14,109 --> 00:28:17,779
Are you willing to
consider other perspectives
517
00:28:18,863 --> 00:28:19,739
genuinely?
518
00:28:19,739 --> 00:28:20,532
Right.
519
00:28:21,157 --> 00:28:24,911
One of the churches that I consulted with,
they realized that they were at a place
520
00:28:24,911 --> 00:28:28,540
where some of those on their leadership
board were simply
521
00:28:28,748 --> 00:28:31,334
when they asked that question, when they
pushed, they said, no, we're not.
522
00:28:31,334 --> 00:28:35,463
We're not willing to
we know what the outcome of this
523
00:28:36,256 --> 00:28:38,758
deliberation is going to be,
what this investigation will be.
524
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,885
So they realized
they had to table the discussion.
525
00:28:41,386 --> 00:28:43,888
It just wasn't going to be done
in good faith.
526
00:28:44,389 --> 00:28:48,435
And so I think starting with why
and then are you willing
527
00:28:48,935 --> 00:28:51,646
to really engage
in this investigation in good faith,
528
00:28:52,439 --> 00:28:55,400
being willing to change your mind,
being willing to be challenged
529
00:28:55,608 --> 00:28:59,195
and not to vilify
everybody who disagreed with you.
530
00:28:59,195 --> 00:29:00,947
All right, that's all part of that.
531
00:29:00,947 --> 00:29:04,659
And then third part of that advice
I give is you have to take your time.
532
00:29:06,077 --> 00:29:09,038
If you're going to have a good process for
533
00:29:09,914 --> 00:29:13,042
making this kind of a decision,
having this kind of deliberation,
534
00:29:13,460 --> 00:29:16,296
then you have to take the time necessary.
535
00:29:17,088 --> 00:29:21,509
One of the churches that I consulted with,
they felt a time crunch
536
00:29:21,509 --> 00:29:25,472
and they tried to really push
the discussion as quickly as possible.
537
00:29:26,014 --> 00:29:29,476
And it's
when you're coming from a tradition
538
00:29:29,476 --> 00:29:32,103
that oftentimes
these churches have long histories,
539
00:29:32,103 --> 00:29:35,231
even if it's a newer church,
you have people who have long histories
540
00:29:35,231 --> 00:29:39,652
in Bible churches or conservative churches
that only have seen it in one way.
541
00:29:39,903 --> 00:29:42,363
If you try to change something quickly,
542
00:29:43,406 --> 00:29:45,325
or even if the process is done too
543
00:29:45,325 --> 00:29:50,163
quickly, you simply don't allow space
for more consideration,
544
00:29:50,163 --> 00:29:54,042
more deliberation,
more exposure, to different ideas.
545
00:29:54,667 --> 00:29:56,377
And frankly, you end up losing
546
00:29:56,377 --> 00:30:00,590
credibility with those people
who know you make the decision.
547
00:30:01,174 --> 00:30:02,133
Interesting.
548
00:30:02,133 --> 00:30:05,303
I think
that credibility is a big part of it.
549
00:30:06,346 --> 00:30:08,389
I always encourage churches.
550
00:30:08,389 --> 00:30:12,352
At some point you have to think about
how you're going to be transparent
551
00:30:12,352 --> 00:30:15,855
with your church around the conversation.
552
00:30:16,523 --> 00:30:18,817
If you try to have this conversation
553
00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:22,070
all in back rooms,
and then come out with a decision--whether
554
00:30:22,070 --> 00:30:27,367
they love the decision or not--you again,
you're going to hurt your credibility.
555
00:30:27,367 --> 00:30:28,952
You're going to hurt
556
00:30:29,702 --> 00:30:32,247
really
just the overall health of your church
557
00:30:32,247 --> 00:30:35,124
because there are going to be people
who are going to
558
00:30:35,834 --> 00:30:36,459
question.
559
00:30:36,459 --> 00:30:39,087
And they're going to be hurt
that they weren't
560
00:30:39,420 --> 00:30:42,257
at least involved
or at least have a voice.
561
00:30:42,674 --> 00:30:44,050
You didn't even ask me.
562
00:30:44,050 --> 00:30:45,301
You didn't even ask me.
563
00:30:45,301 --> 00:30:47,929
It will feel very authoritative,
very heavy
564
00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:50,974
handed, even if you have
all the greatest rationale in the world.
565
00:30:50,974 --> 00:30:55,144
Even if you spent two years, if you didn't
let people in on the process,
566
00:30:55,395 --> 00:30:58,356
you're going to end up
hurting your church.
567
00:30:58,481 --> 00:31:00,608
One of the churches that I talked with,
568
00:31:01,192 --> 00:31:03,695
one of their regrets
569
00:31:03,695 --> 00:31:06,906
was--and I think they went through
a really good process overall--but
570
00:31:06,906 --> 00:31:07,949
they said we didn't
571
00:31:07,949 --> 00:31:11,703
involve the congregation, we didn't
involve the membership early enough.
572
00:31:12,328 --> 00:31:16,416
And it wasn't that they needed to have
an all congregational meeting,
573
00:31:16,416 --> 00:31:18,751
where everybody was able
to grab a microphone.
574
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,922
But along the way, being intentional
about letting people know, hey,
575
00:31:22,922 --> 00:31:24,465
we're having this conversation.
576
00:31:24,465 --> 00:31:27,844
Here's why, here's
why we think it matters,
577
00:31:28,094 --> 00:31:32,390
and then informing them
and updating them along the way.
578
00:31:32,390 --> 00:31:37,854
Giving people space to think
and to respond at times is really vital
579
00:31:37,854 --> 00:31:40,565
if you're going to try to maintain
that unity of the church.
580
00:31:41,816 --> 00:31:43,735
So I can echo that.
581
00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:46,946
I talked to a pastor who said
we went through this whole process.
582
00:31:46,946 --> 00:31:48,531
We're happy with how it ended.
583
00:31:48,531 --> 00:31:52,035
But if we had it all to do over,
we would do a lot better job
584
00:31:52,243 --> 00:31:53,202
of communicating.
585
00:31:53,202 --> 00:31:55,455
Even, here are the books
the elders are reading.
586
00:31:55,663 --> 00:31:59,626
Here's we're discussing this
in this six month period--just
587
00:31:59,959 --> 00:32:03,254
more of a transparency
about how they were doing it
588
00:32:03,254 --> 00:32:06,466
rather than we,
the officials are going to come down
589
00:32:06,466 --> 00:32:09,677
from on high with a decision
you have to live.
590
00:32:09,802 --> 00:32:12,805
He's like,
you know, we were wrestling, honestly,
591
00:32:12,805 --> 00:32:15,224
but we should all let our people know,
592
00:32:15,224 --> 00:32:19,187
yeah, and maybe they could have wrestled
to even if they if we weren't asking them
593
00:32:19,187 --> 00:32:23,566
their opinions, they would have had
at least the same resources.
594
00:32:23,900 --> 00:32:27,946
Speaking of which, what are some resources
that you used in the process?
595
00:32:29,113 --> 00:32:31,908
A lot.
596
00:32:31,908 --> 00:32:33,993
You know, where I began was
597
00:32:34,285 --> 00:32:38,873
one, there's just there's so much research
out there that's available.
598
00:32:38,873 --> 00:32:41,834
If you do a little bit of research,
starting with
599
00:32:42,168 --> 00:32:45,004
just the
600
00:32:45,505 --> 00:32:47,924
experience--how experience
601
00:32:48,675 --> 00:32:51,928
shapes the way that we interpret
the present and the way that we
602
00:32:52,178 --> 00:32:54,681
then respond or move into the future.
603
00:32:55,556 --> 00:32:58,518
You know,
one of the things that I suspected
604
00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:02,021
as I was looking into
this was for a church
605
00:33:02,271 --> 00:33:03,898
like the church that I would say
606
00:33:03,898 --> 00:33:06,985
is more traditional and conservative
and have held their position.
607
00:33:07,986 --> 00:33:09,862
One of the things that I was interested in
608
00:33:09,862 --> 00:33:13,825
is how when you look at your history
as a church,
609
00:33:14,325 --> 00:33:18,246
it's really easy to go well,
this is almost like a sunk cost.
610
00:33:19,122 --> 00:33:22,000
You know, this is how we honor the past.
611
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,751
This is who we've always been.
612
00:33:23,751 --> 00:33:27,046
Talk about the sunk cost, because that's
not a familiar term to everybody.
613
00:33:27,046 --> 00:33:29,298
But I think it's a really important one
in this conversation.
614
00:33:29,716 --> 00:33:29,924
Yeah.
615
00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:34,595
So the sunk cost fallacy is really just
this idea of a bias where the more we have
616
00:33:34,595 --> 00:33:40,143
invested in something, the less likely
we are to change our direction.
617
00:33:40,143 --> 00:33:40,393
Right?
618
00:33:40,393 --> 00:33:45,273
So I have this investment that I've made,
and I've put a bunch of money into it,
619
00:33:45,273 --> 00:33:48,443
and I see it going downhill,
but I can't live with the idea
620
00:33:48,443 --> 00:33:52,530
that I've put all this investment into it
so I actually double down.
621
00:33:52,905 --> 00:33:57,160
And so this is a,
you know, it's a fallacy that we buy into.
622
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,203
And I think it actually plays out.
623
00:33:59,203 --> 00:34:02,915
It's a very common one when it comes to
like what we've experienced.
624
00:34:03,458 --> 00:34:06,544
So we've experienced something
where we've said
625
00:34:06,544 --> 00:34:11,257
this is what's right, this is what's
true, this is how we have to think.
626
00:34:11,257 --> 00:34:13,384
This is how we have to interpret
scripture.
627
00:34:13,926 --> 00:34:17,221
And over time,
even if we start to think, oh,
628
00:34:17,221 --> 00:34:21,851
maybe we didn't have that right,
we can't afford the loss.
629
00:34:22,018 --> 00:34:27,273
We feel the loss of the people
that has taught that who came before us,
630
00:34:27,273 --> 00:34:31,819
we feel the loss of those
who have invested
631
00:34:31,819 --> 00:34:35,448
and all of who our church
has been for so long.
632
00:34:35,448 --> 00:34:40,369
And in this way
we feel like it's dishonoring and
633
00:34:41,079 --> 00:34:43,081
it's a hard
634
00:34:43,081 --> 00:34:45,792
decision to realize, you know,
I want to change my mind
635
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,878
because I have all this investment
in who we've always been.
636
00:34:49,545 --> 00:34:53,716
And so that was something that I think,
you know, you have to be aware of
637
00:34:53,716 --> 00:34:57,929
if you do have that long tradition
and you're really tied to.
638
00:34:58,805 --> 00:34:59,889
And for a lot of good
639
00:34:59,889 --> 00:35:03,309
reasons, like who your church has been,
there's a lot of good there.
640
00:35:03,309 --> 00:35:03,726
Yeah.
641
00:35:03,726 --> 00:35:05,019
And are you losing that?
642
00:35:05,019 --> 00:35:06,646
Are you willing to do that?
643
00:35:07,396 --> 00:35:11,400
So there's a lot of research on that
and just that reality, that one.
644
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,611
And that's one of the biases that I think
creeps in.
645
00:35:15,238 --> 00:35:18,574
Also just within cultural engagement,
obviously,
646
00:35:18,574 --> 00:35:20,910
there's a lot of different things
you can read.
647
00:35:20,910 --> 00:35:25,164
And Dr. Bock has Cultural Intelligence,
that's one of the more recent ones.
648
00:35:25,164 --> 00:35:27,708
But, you know, some of the books
that I found really helpful,
649
00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:30,670
the first one that comes to mind
is The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt.
650
00:35:31,587 --> 00:35:34,674
That's a book that just talks
about how we come
651
00:35:34,674 --> 00:35:36,467
to thinking about
652
00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:41,305
different topics in the world
and the different biases that we bring to
653
00:35:41,305 --> 00:35:43,349
them, almost like different flavors
that we have.
654
00:35:43,349 --> 00:35:47,019
And just being aware of those
is really helpful for having these types
655
00:35:47,019 --> 00:35:52,150
of conversations
within obviously within the topic itself.
656
00:35:52,150 --> 00:35:56,070
One of them there really made an influence
on me from the very beginning was R.T.
657
00:35:56,070 --> 00:35:58,531
France's Women in the Church's Ministry. France's Women in the Church's Ministry.
658
00:35:58,781 --> 00:36:02,702
This is based on a series of lectures
that he did, and the subtitle is "A
659
00:36:02,702 --> 00:36:06,372
Test Case from Biblical Interpretation."
And what I love about
660
00:36:06,372 --> 00:36:10,251
R.T. France is just his candor
throughout these lectures.
661
00:36:10,751 --> 00:36:14,797
And he really approaches this question of
how are you interpreting Scripture.
662
00:36:14,797 --> 00:36:18,801
And he kind of calls us to task to say,
you know,
663
00:36:18,801 --> 00:36:22,346
you are not as infallible
in your interpretation as you think.
664
00:36:23,014 --> 00:36:26,058
I think it's a great place
to open a conversation
665
00:36:26,058 --> 00:36:28,936
for anybody who wants to revisit this,
just to say,
666
00:36:29,353 --> 00:36:32,064
Hey, let's just take a step back
and really consider
667
00:36:32,356 --> 00:36:35,943
how much do you really know,
how much certainty should you really have?
668
00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:39,363
And that didn't make you walk away
deconstructing it all?
669
00:36:39,572 --> 00:36:40,114
It didn't.
670
00:36:40,114 --> 00:36:40,531
It didn't.
671
00:36:40,531 --> 00:36:45,036
It actually was really, maybe it's
because I'm a philosophy major at heart.
672
00:36:45,036 --> 00:36:48,247
But actually, I found it really refreshing
673
00:36:48,873 --> 00:36:51,584
that he was willing to say
674
00:36:52,376 --> 00:36:55,338
we can uphold inerrancy of Scripture
675
00:36:55,338 --> 00:36:59,675
and not give our interpretations
that same level of credit.
676
00:37:00,384 --> 00:37:03,304
And I think that's really important.
677
00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:07,141
God's truth is true and Scripture is true,
678
00:37:07,141 --> 00:37:11,938
but my interpretation is not 100%
accurate.
679
00:37:11,938 --> 00:37:12,647
Right?
680
00:37:12,813 --> 00:37:15,816
And so there's always room to grow
and to learn.
681
00:37:16,817 --> 00:37:21,030
The other two that are just kind of really
well rounded and again,
682
00:37:21,322 --> 00:37:25,743
you know, I came at this
not trying to argue for a position.
683
00:37:25,743 --> 00:37:29,830
But I would say wanting
to just get a well-rounded
684
00:37:30,414 --> 00:37:34,919
exposure to the conversation,
the two just as a starting place,
685
00:37:34,919 --> 00:37:37,755
one is Recovering
Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.
686
00:37:38,047 --> 00:37:39,799
This is John Piper and Wayne Grudem.
687
00:37:40,549 --> 00:37:43,844
And then you have to turn around and read
Discovering
688
00:37:43,844 --> 00:37:47,890
Biblical Equality: Biblical, Theological,
Cultural and Practical Perspectives.
689
00:37:48,099 --> 00:37:51,519
This is Ronald Pierce
and Cynthia Westfall, editors of that.
690
00:37:51,894 --> 00:37:55,815
So those are two works
that are really in dialog with each other,
691
00:37:56,107 --> 00:37:59,902
not always in the most friendly of terms,
but they are.
692
00:38:00,611 --> 00:38:04,865
But it's a great way to just go, okay,
what are the different voices?
693
00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:09,996
What are the different topics
and pieces of these arguments?
694
00:38:09,996 --> 00:38:11,580
Just as a starting place.
695
00:38:11,580 --> 00:38:13,833
And they're both within the inerrancy
camp.
696
00:38:13,833 --> 00:38:15,293
Both within the inerrancy camp.
697
00:38:15,293 --> 00:38:18,796
But I think that's really important
to see that
698
00:38:19,005 --> 00:38:22,758
you have both sides
that, you know, they're both conservative.
699
00:38:22,758 --> 00:38:24,051
They're both orthodox.
700
00:38:24,051 --> 00:38:28,180
They're both going to be within that
you know, like you said, Orthodox.
701
00:38:28,180 --> 00:38:30,850
But they're going to see things very,
very differently.
702
00:38:30,850 --> 00:38:34,895
And that's a healthy thing to see
and to be exposed to.
703
00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:35,896
Yeah.
704
00:38:36,022 --> 00:38:39,233
So you said that one piece of advice is,
705
00:38:39,233 --> 00:38:41,986
you know, even
why are you asking some questions?
706
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,696
Is there anything else like
707
00:38:44,697 --> 00:38:45,614
inviting women in?
708
00:38:45,614 --> 00:38:46,866
Does that make a difference?
709
00:38:47,158 --> 00:38:47,867
Absolutely.
710
00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:49,869
Yeah. No, I appreciate you
711
00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:51,370
asking the question.
712
00:38:51,370 --> 00:38:51,662
Yeah.
713
00:38:51,662 --> 00:38:54,915
So part of
714
00:38:54,915 --> 00:38:56,959
taking more time
715
00:38:56,959 --> 00:39:00,254
is to give yourself
what I missed that earlier.
716
00:39:00,254 --> 00:39:02,923
Part of what I was thinking about
in terms of
717
00:39:02,923 --> 00:39:05,718
who are the voices that you're inviting
in, you know.
718
00:39:05,718 --> 00:39:07,845
So it gives you more time to
719
00:39:08,387 --> 00:39:10,639
read more broadly,
720
00:39:10,639 --> 00:39:15,102
ask broader perspectives
and being open to different perspectives
721
00:39:15,102 --> 00:39:18,731
and open to different voices,
I think that's really important again.
722
00:39:18,731 --> 00:39:22,818
So going along those lines of those two
different books that I really recommended
723
00:39:22,818 --> 00:39:25,321
there is you've got to have
724
00:39:26,155 --> 00:39:28,783
voices from different perspectives
in different camps
725
00:39:28,783 --> 00:39:33,162
in order to really understand
and appreciate all the different
726
00:39:33,162 --> 00:39:36,290
angles of the conversation.
727
00:39:36,707 --> 00:39:39,377
And so,
you know, one of the things that the
728
00:39:40,127 --> 00:39:41,087
churches that I would
729
00:39:41,087 --> 00:39:43,589
say their process was longer.
730
00:39:44,215 --> 00:39:47,009
They along the way discovered
731
00:39:47,551 --> 00:39:51,055
what different avenues
they needed to pursue.
732
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,351
They gave themselves that space to go,
733
00:39:55,393 --> 00:39:58,354
okay, you know what--because
we're not on a time crunch.
734
00:39:59,313 --> 00:40:04,819
I want to run over here and I want to see
if we can go down this rabbit hole.
735
00:40:04,819 --> 00:40:07,905
Perhaps some sense and invite this person
736
00:40:07,905 --> 00:40:11,909
to talk or to I want to encourage
everybody to read this article.
737
00:40:11,909 --> 00:40:17,331
And so they definitely had a much broader
scope of exposure than, for example,
738
00:40:17,331 --> 00:40:21,460
one of the churches that I talked to that
tried to do literally in three months.
739
00:40:22,086 --> 00:40:23,879
And it was
740
00:40:23,879 --> 00:40:26,340
literally a three-month process.
741
00:40:26,340 --> 00:40:30,177
And because of that,
there were so few voices.
742
00:40:30,177 --> 00:40:33,180
There's a basically ended up being
a debate within the elder board itself.
743
00:40:33,180 --> 00:40:37,143
And it was it was a couple of guys
arguing with a couple of guys.
744
00:40:37,143 --> 00:40:41,981
And in the end, they didn't really get
anywhere in any sort of healthy way.
745
00:40:42,481 --> 00:40:45,443
Yeah. So, yeah, no, absolutely. I think
746
00:40:45,985 --> 00:40:48,195
you have to have
747
00:40:48,362 --> 00:40:50,239
as broad exposure as possible, I think.
748
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,492
And you can do that
within an orthodox conservative,
749
00:40:53,868 --> 00:40:56,662
you know, framework
without question. Yeah.
750
00:40:57,163 --> 00:40:59,415
Anything else you want to add
we should know?
751
00:40:59,790 --> 00:41:01,500
I mean, I would just encourage anybody
752
00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:05,921
who's looking into this--take the time
and this is
753
00:41:06,088 --> 00:41:08,757
this is the conversation
I think every church should have.
754
00:41:09,300 --> 00:41:12,261
If your church hasn't
gotten to this point yet,
755
00:41:12,761 --> 00:41:15,014
they need to at some point.
756
00:41:15,306 --> 00:41:20,769
And the reason I think that is
because we're at a time right now
757
00:41:20,769 --> 00:41:24,648
where so much is changing
with our world rapidly.
758
00:41:25,441 --> 00:41:27,610
And there are so many different
ethical questions
759
00:41:27,610 --> 00:41:30,696
that are coming into churches
from every different angle.
760
00:41:31,489 --> 00:41:36,285
This is one, though, that is so
as you know, before we got in this call,
761
00:41:36,285 --> 00:41:39,580
you were talking about a church
that you're consulting with right now.
762
00:41:39,580 --> 00:41:42,666
They're seeing their church
started to get split over this.
763
00:41:43,292 --> 00:41:45,503
That's happening all over the country.
764
00:41:45,503 --> 00:41:48,881
And this is one
that if churches are going to be able
765
00:41:48,881 --> 00:41:53,135
to be a positive voice,
to be sort of light
766
00:41:53,135 --> 00:41:56,597
within the culture,
then we have to be healthy.
767
00:41:56,889 --> 00:41:59,225
And part of that is understanding,
768
00:41:59,892 --> 00:42:03,187
not shoving these kinds of conversations
under the rug,
769
00:42:03,187 --> 00:42:06,315
but bringing them to light and doing
so in a way
770
00:42:06,315 --> 00:42:08,609
that is going to
771
00:42:08,984 --> 00:42:11,028
bring unity and not division
772
00:42:11,028 --> 00:42:12,446
even within the church.
773
00:42:13,197 --> 00:42:16,200
And that's what's interesting
is, you know,
774
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,869
I think a lot of times
there's this fear of disunity.
775
00:42:18,869 --> 00:42:21,121
And so it's like,
let's try to shove this under the rug.
776
00:42:21,121 --> 00:42:22,831
Let's not have this conversation.
777
00:42:22,831 --> 00:42:24,750
We're afraid of what
this would do to our church.
778
00:42:24,750 --> 00:42:27,002
And I think it's actually the opposite.
779
00:42:27,002 --> 00:42:29,630
I think the healthiest churches
are the ones that are going to say,
780
00:42:29,922 --> 00:42:32,049
we're going to lean
into the hard conversation
781
00:42:32,883 --> 00:42:35,844
but we're going to do so with humility
and we're going to do so
782
00:42:35,844 --> 00:42:38,264
with self-awareness.
We're going to do this
783
00:42:38,973 --> 00:42:43,435
with transparency and try to see this
784
00:42:43,435 --> 00:42:47,398
as an opportunity for spiritual formation
even within your church.
785
00:42:47,898 --> 00:42:52,945
But I think when that becomes
the heart of your leadership, then
786
00:42:53,529 --> 00:42:56,240
I think that there's real potential there
787
00:42:56,490 --> 00:42:59,660
for at the end of the day, your church
being healthier and stronger for it.
788
00:43:00,828 --> 00:43:04,498
And I think there's an opportunity there
that we need to have.
789
00:43:05,165 --> 00:43:08,168
That has ramifications
for a lot of other issues.
790
00:43:08,168 --> 00:43:09,128
Right? Absolutely.
791
00:43:09,128 --> 00:43:10,129
Yeah. Absolutely.
792
00:43:10,129 --> 00:43:11,797
Thank you so much.
793
00:43:11,797 --> 00:43:12,881
I appreciate your work.
794
00:43:12,881 --> 00:43:14,341
I appreciate you joining us.
795
00:43:14,341 --> 00:43:17,177
Dr. Daigle, anything you want to add?
796
00:43:17,177 --> 00:43:21,682
I just want to say I totally agree
very much appreciate
797
00:43:22,141 --> 00:43:25,728
the research that you've done,
the time that you spent on this.
798
00:43:25,728 --> 00:43:29,231
And it's a benefit
to the church in general.
799
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,360
And just saying that for the churches,
800
00:43:33,694 --> 00:43:36,447
I can't speak for them, but when
801
00:43:36,447 --> 00:43:40,743
they watch this or when they
802
00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,329
finally come to the decision
803
00:43:43,329 --> 00:43:47,833
to make a decision about this,
I think that they will benefit from that,
804
00:43:47,833 --> 00:43:52,254
just as you pointed out, that
this is an important conversation to have.
805
00:43:52,671 --> 00:43:54,757
Shouldn't just be swept under the rug.
806
00:43:54,757 --> 00:43:56,675
It shouldn't be hurried.
807
00:43:56,675 --> 00:44:01,263
And those are some of the experiences
that I had a hurried
808
00:44:01,847 --> 00:44:03,349
kind of
809
00:44:03,724 --> 00:44:06,310
where the church
that it kind of fell apart in.
810
00:44:06,310 --> 00:44:09,813
They were trying to hurry
because I think some of the elders
811
00:44:09,813 --> 00:44:11,607
were going to leave
and they were going to need
812
00:44:11,607 --> 00:44:14,735
to get new elders
who had not done any of the research
813
00:44:15,277 --> 00:44:18,155
because it'd only been the circle
814
00:44:18,364 --> 00:44:20,783
of the elders involved.
815
00:44:21,450 --> 00:44:24,036
And so it was being rushed
816
00:44:24,036 --> 00:44:28,499
and they did finally bring a group of us
as women in to talk to them.
817
00:44:29,041 --> 00:44:29,583
Uh-huh.
818
00:44:30,584 --> 00:44:31,835
There was division among the
819
00:44:31,835 --> 00:44:34,713
women, but many of them had never studied
the topic.
820
00:44:34,922 --> 00:44:37,091
So they were Right. blind.
821
00:44:37,091 --> 00:44:41,679
They were just talking from,
this is the way I feel about it.
822
00:44:42,221 --> 00:44:44,556
It was nothing
823
00:44:44,807 --> 00:44:47,851
about their real biblical research.
824
00:44:48,185 --> 00:44:48,769
Uh-huh.
825
00:44:49,395 --> 00:44:53,607
I really see the value in everything
that you brought up.
826
00:44:53,607 --> 00:44:58,487
And these practices I think
would really be helpful for any church.
827
00:44:59,029 --> 00:45:00,572
So thank you so much
828
00:45:00,572 --> 00:45:03,742
for bringing this to light
and doing all the work that you did.
829
00:45:04,284 --> 00:45:06,161
That's my pleasure.
830
00:45:06,995 --> 00:45:11,500
We have other videos on church issues
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00:45:11,500 --> 00:45:14,920
that you might be interested
in, other podcast on these.
832
00:45:15,295 --> 00:45:18,382
So if you go to BeyondOrdinaryWomen.org
833
00:45:18,382 --> 00:45:22,970
and look under resources,
you will see that we have
834
00:45:22,970 --> 00:45:24,596
church issues listed,
835
00:45:24,596 --> 00:45:28,809
and that's where this type of conversation
falls in.
836
00:45:29,393 --> 00:45:33,147
So I would just encourage
any of you out there who are on church
837
00:45:33,147 --> 00:45:38,193
staffs or you're elders in churches
or you have influence
838
00:45:38,610 --> 00:45:40,279
in a church that
839
00:45:40,279 --> 00:45:44,074
you bring this up,
how important this is and
840
00:45:45,075 --> 00:45:49,204
just bring it to the light
instead of just trying to hide.
841
00:45:49,747 --> 00:45:51,749
Let's just not deal with it.
842
00:45:51,749 --> 00:45:53,333
Ignore and it'll go away.
843
00:45:53,333 --> 00:45:54,960
If only.
844
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,171
Yeah, it's not the way to go.
845
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So thank you and we will look forward
to seeing you again
846
00:46:01,008 --> 00:46:04,052
on our Beyond Ordinary Women Podcast.
847
00:46:04,386 --> 00:46:08,432
Thanks for listening to the Beyond
Ordinary Women Podcast.
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00:46:09,016 --> 00:46:12,978
You can find more podcast episodes
and other resources for leaders
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by going to BeyondOrdinaryWomen.org.
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This podcast is produced
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by Beyond Ordinary Women Ministries.
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00:46:23,447 --> 00:46:27,201
Our production team includes
Diana Anunda,
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00:46:27,826 --> 00:46:30,370
Evelyn Babcock, Kay Daigle,
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00:46:30,871 --> 00:46:33,791
Sharifa Stevens and Deborah Herring.
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00:46:34,792 --> 00:46:37,127
The theme music, "Back in Stride",
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was written by Don E. Miller,
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