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What happens when addiction, mental illness, and unresolved trauma collide within a family?
In this episode of Sharing Without Shame, Donna Marston welcomes Burton Fischler, a trauma survivor, Certified Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor, life coach, and author of The Gift: From Trauma to Triumph.
Burton shares the unimaginable losses that reshaped his life—including the murder of his wife by her son who struggled with severe mental illness and addiction, and the suicide of his second stepson just one year later. Together, Donna and Burton explore the devastating impact addiction has on families, why shame keeps so many people suffering in silence, and how healing begins when we learn to set boundaries, practice self-compassion, and reconnect with our authentic selves.
Burton also explains the role trauma plays in addiction, the science of neuroplasticity, and why recovery is less about punishment and more about love, connection, and taking small actions toward change. If you've ever wondered whether healing is possible after profound loss, this conversation offers hope, wisdom, and practical tools for moving forward.
In This Episode You'll Learn:
💠Why addiction is a biopsychosocial-spiritual disease rather than a moral failing
💠How shame influences enabling behaviors in families
💠 The difference between supporting and enabling a loved one
💠 How neuroplasticity allows the brain to heal and rewire itself
💠 Why changing actions often leads to healthier thinking
💠 The connection between childhood wounds, trauma, and substance use
💠 How self-love and re-parenting practices can support recovery
💠 Why connection, purpose, and compassion are essential components of healing
💠 Burton's journey from surviving tragedy to helping others overcome trauma and addiction
About The Guest:
Burton Fischler holds a Master's degree in Psychology and is a Certified Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor (CASAC), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and life coach.
After enduring the tragic loss of his wife and stepsons, Burton transformed his pain into purpose. Today, he works at a medically supervised outpatient treatment center in New York City, helping individuals navigate substance use disorders, trauma, and mental health challenges. He also facilitates trauma recovery and self-love workshops and is the author of The Gift: From Trauma to Triumph.
Resources and Links:
(Book) The Gift: From Trauma to Triumph: https://www.amazon.com/GIFT-TRIUMPH-Survivors-Suicide-Addiction-ebook/dp/B0DZK87JFJ
Grab my free "5 Boundaries and Breakthrough" Guide here: https://swos.sharingwithoutshame.com/5-boundaries
Learn more: https://linktr.ee/Sharingwithoutshame
Thank you for tuning in! May your faith and strength heal your heart.
