Mastering executive offsites

Too many offsites miss the powerful opportunity to align a leadership team. Here’s how to make yours the exception.

In this episode, Kelly Dwyer, executive coach and facilitator, breaks down what separates transformational offsites from frustrating ones. She’s helped leadership teams at venture and PE-backed companies turn tense conversations into breakthroughs and knows exactly how to keep the “elephant in the room” from derailing trust.

Kelly and host Keith Cowing unpack a tactical playbook: how to prep the right way, design the space for honesty, navigate conflict, and make sure the alignment lasts.

Leaders will walk away knowing how to run an offsite that doesn’t just check a box, but changes how their team thinks, decides, and leads.

00:00 — Why offsites fail (and how to fix them)
02:10 — How prep work sets the tone
05:00 — The value of “having a sleep” between days
07:40 — The CEO’s role: set vision, not the agenda
10:50 — Creating meeting agreements that drive honesty
16:20 — The facilitator’s job: manage time and truth
18:50 — Handling conflict when the “fight” breaks out
22:30 — Tools for structure: parking lots, sticky notes, and timers
25:40 — Decision-making without consensus traps
28:20 — The “Fist to Five” tool for real alignment
30:20 — Ensuring follow-through and lasting impact
33:30 — Why offsites are the most powerful (and risky) meetings you’ll ever run

Follow Kelly Dwyer on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellydwyer/
Visit Kelly’s Website: https://kellydwyer.co
Listen to Kelly’s Podcast: https://www.lifefromwithin.com/

Follow Keith Cowing on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/keithcowing
Subscribe to Keith’s free coaching via email: https://kc.coach/

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