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All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown.
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Jake is on the line, got ghosted after a first
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date and needs answers.
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Good morning, Jake.
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Good morning.
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Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date.
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You went on.
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Yeah, thanks. I'm very confused. The date went great.
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Okay.
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There was, I would say, like an immediate attraction that
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we had. Aw. And, again, I took her to this winery,
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this weird wine, and chatted for hours. Mm-hmm. And then
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we went back to her place. We watched a movie.
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You know, it was just, like, a great time. I
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don't really... I keep looking back and thinking, like, how
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could it have gone any better? How.
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So, Jake, the date.
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It was perfect.
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So you're telling me the date was so good that
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you ended the date back at her place?
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Exactly.
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Did you guys hook up afterwards?
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Stop.
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It's actually a good question.
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Do a little dance? Do the hokey pokey?
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Jeff. Look, look, look. A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. Yay!
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I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows.
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Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if
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you'd like, but I don't want to get into details.
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I think it's best to just leave it at that.
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Okay, you have a great date. You end the night
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at her place. Did you send her a text or
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call her after the date?
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Right, I texted her the next morning, and... This was
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a few days ago. She didn't respond.
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Question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had
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a friend that that happened to. Which drawers? Oh, like
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dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff.
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What?
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Yeah.
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No. Okay.
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Just asking.
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Go through her drawers.
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Just asking.
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Sorry, Jake. Okay.
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So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted.
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Exactly. She didn't respond and... Yeah, it was just such
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a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I
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really can't even speculate. Okay.
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What we're going to do is put you on hold.
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You're going to be listening in. We're going to call
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up Hannah, and we're going to ask her how the
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date was. At any point, if you want to jump in,
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you can, okay?
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Okay.
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Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff.
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I mean, you don't have to, like, oh.
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Go into pound town, all that stuff you say. I mean,
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you just said it.
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He didn't need to.
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I know.
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What was up with that?
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Because I know it's coming out of your mouth.
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Hello.
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Hi, is Hannah there?
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This is Hannah.
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Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney.
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Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff.
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Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you?
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Hi.
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That was really cute. Thanks, I try.
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Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 95.7.
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You're on the radio this morning.
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Okay.
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Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure
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you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date,
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they get ghosted after a great first date. We try
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to get the answers, and we just want you to
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be honest with us. As honest as you can be.
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Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys
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went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It
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was such a good date that he ended up back
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at your place watching movies.
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Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.
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We didn't get a straight answer.
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Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what
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you actually did at your house, but he says he
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reached out to you the next day and stuff, and
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you're totally ghosting him.
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So how was the date for you?
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The date was great. I... The attraction was there.
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We had a great time. We had some wine. We
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chatted a lot. We were really vibing. I just feel
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like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't
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seem like my type of guy. I'm looking for someone
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that's a little more confident.
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Confident.
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All right.
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So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident.
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Like when he got back to your house, he wasn't confident.
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Yeah.
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Can we clarify a little bit here?
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He just isn't like a take charge kind of guy,
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like a confident he's smooth.
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He's got swagger.
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He just, he, he wasn't.
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A guy that I would normally go for.
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Okay.
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Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to
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ask the question, but it needs to be asked.
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Was he not good in bed?
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Did he cry at the movie?
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Oh, my God.
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Girl, worse.
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He cried after we hooked up.
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Wait, wait. Wait a minute.
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Wait.
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So he didn't cry at the movie. Savannah, so he
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did cry. Oh, my God. So you guys were intimate,
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and then he cried?
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Yes.
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Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I
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kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this.
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I mean, who cries after? You know how that made
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me feel?
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Like, was it bad?
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Were they tears of joy? Yes. Why? Why did he
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cry after sex?
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I don't know.
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He was just really emotional, and it just made me uncomfortable.
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You know, like, he wasn't manly.
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I don't know.
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It was so weird.
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Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up
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with that?
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Oh, boy.
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Don't cry, Jake.
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Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her
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going into details like this. Look, it was a magical
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evening for me. It meant a lot to me.
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Oh, okay.
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So, yeah, they were tears of joy, I would say.
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The fact that we're even talking about this is just.
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It's embarrassing.
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Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell either. This
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is like kind of... What? This isn't someone I'm looking
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to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came
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out now because she's just not the type of person
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I'm looking for.
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You're more of a lady than I am. What are
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you talking about?
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Exactly.
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Who cries after doing it?
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Right.
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I just was he sitting like at the edge of
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the bed on the corner of the bed?
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Or like, I don't know, maybe I triggered some trauma
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or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook.
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You know what I mean?
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Like he was just crying.
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All right.
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So we got to the bottom of it, Jake. I
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feel like you guys just you made a connection at
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some point and then it went south just because he
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shed a couple of tears.
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Well, hold on.
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Was it a couple of tears or was he bawling?
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It was waterworks. And keep in mind, it was after
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we did it. That was the worst time to cry.
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You should have asked him if he wanted some cheese
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with that wine.
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Stop. Can we stop shaming him?
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All right, well, listen, we usually offer to pay for
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another date if you guys can work through things, but
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I feel like it's just not a match.
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You know what I mean?
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No. Jake, maybe you.
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Want somebody a little more sensitive, and Hannah, you want
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somebody a little.
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Less crying during sex. Less crying.
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Yeah.
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Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest.
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And I wish you guys both well in the dating world.
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Thanks.
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All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown.
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Jake is on the line, got ghosted after a first
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date and needs answers.
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Good morning, Jake.
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Good morning.
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Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date.
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You went on.
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Yeah, thanks. I'm very confused. The date went great.
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Okay.
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There was, I would say, like an immediate attraction that
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we had. Aw. And, again, I took her to this winery,
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this weird wine, and chatted for hours. Mm-hmm. And then
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we went back to her place. We watched a movie.
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You know, it was just, like, a great time. I
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don't really... I keep looking back and thinking, like, how
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could it have gone any better? How.
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So, Jake, the date.
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It was perfect.
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So you're telling me the date was so good that
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you ended the date back at her place?
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Exactly.
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Did you guys hook up afterwards?
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Stop.
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It's actually a good question.
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Do a little dance? Do the hokey pokey?
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Jeff. Look, look, look. A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. Yay!
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I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows.
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Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if
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you'd like, but I don't want to get into details.
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I think it's best to just leave it at that.
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Okay, you have a great date. You end the night
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at her place. Did you send her a text or
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call her after the date?
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Right, I texted her the next morning, and... This was
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a few days ago. She didn't respond.
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Question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had
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a friend that that happened to. Which drawers? Oh, like
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dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff.
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Yeah.
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No. Okay.
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Just asking.
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Go through her drawers.
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Just asking.
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Sorry, Jake. Okay.
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So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted.
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Exactly. She didn't respond and... Yeah, it was just such
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a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I
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really can't even speculate. Okay.
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What we're going to do is put you on hold.
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You're going to be listening in. We're going to call
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up Hannah, and we're going to ask her how the
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date was. At any point, if you want to jump in,
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you can, okay?
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Okay.
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Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff.
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I mean, you don't have to, like, oh.
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Go into pound town, all that stuff you say. I mean,
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you just said it.
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He didn't need to.
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I know.
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What was up with that?
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Because I know it's coming out of your mouth.
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Hello.
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Hi, is Hannah there?
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This is Hannah.
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Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney.
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Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff.
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Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you?
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Hi.
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That was really cute. Thanks, I try.
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Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 95.7.
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You're on the radio this morning.
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Okay.
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Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure
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you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date,
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they get ghosted after a great first date. We try
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to get the answers, and we just want you to
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be honest with us. As honest as you can be.
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Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys
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went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It
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was such a good date that he ended up back
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at your place watching movies.
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Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.
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We didn't get a straight answer.
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Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what
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you actually did at your house, but he says he
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reached out to you the next day and stuff, and
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you're totally ghosting him.
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So how was the date for you?
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The date was great. I... The attraction was there.
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We had a great time. We had some wine. We
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chatted a lot. We were really vibing. I just feel
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like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't
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seem like my type of guy. I'm looking for someone
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that's a little more confident.
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Confident.
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Okay.
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All right.
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So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident.
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Like when he got back to your house, he wasn't confident.
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Yeah.
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Can we clarify a little bit here?
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He just isn't like a take charge kind of guy,
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like a confident he's smooth.
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He's got swagger.
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He just, he, he wasn't.
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A guy that I would normally go for.
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Okay.
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Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to
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ask the question, but it needs to be asked.
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Was he not good in bed?
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Did he cry at the movie?
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Oh, my God.
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Girl, worse.
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He cried after we hooked up.
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Wait, wait. Wait a minute.
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Wait.
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So he didn't cry at the movie. Savannah, so he
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did cry. Oh, my God. So you guys were intimate,
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and then he cried?
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Yes.
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Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I
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kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this.
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I mean, who cries after? You know how that made
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me feel?
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Like, was it bad?
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Were they tears of joy? Yes. Why? Why did he
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cry after sex?
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I don't know.
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He was just really emotional, and it just made me uncomfortable.
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You know, like, he wasn't manly.
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I don't know.
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It was so weird.
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Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up
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with that?
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Oh, boy.
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Don't cry, Jake.
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Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her
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going into details like this. Look, it was a magical
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evening for me. It meant a lot to me.
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Oh, okay.
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So, yeah, they were tears of joy, I would say.
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The fact that we're even talking about this is just.
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It's embarrassing.
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Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell either. This
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is like kind of... What? This isn't someone I'm looking
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to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came
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out now because she's just not the type of person
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I'm looking for.
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You're more of a lady than I am. What are
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you talking about?
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Exactly.
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Who cries after doing it?
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Right.
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I just was he sitting like at the edge of
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the bed on the corner of the bed?
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Or like, I don't know, maybe I triggered some trauma
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or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook.
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You know what I mean?
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Like he was just crying.
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All right.
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So we got to the bottom of it, Jake. I
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feel like you guys just you made a connection at
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some point and then it went south just because he
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shed a couple of tears.
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Well, hold on.
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Was it a couple of tears or was he bawling?
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It was waterworks. And keep in mind, it was after
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we did it. That was the worst time to cry.
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You should have asked him if he wanted some cheese
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with that wine.
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Stop. Can we stop shaming him?
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All right, well, listen, we usually offer to pay for
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another date if you guys can work through things, but
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I feel like it's just not a match.
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You know what I mean?
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No. Jake, maybe you.
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Want somebody a little more sensitive, and Hannah, you want
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somebody a little.
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Less crying during sex. Less crying.
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Yeah.
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Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest.
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And I wish you guys both well in the dating world.
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Thanks.
