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That's when you make your biggest mistake. Welcome back to
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Purpose Before Performance. I'm your host, Zivia. And today, we're
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talking about the breakthrough. Because sometimes, the hardest part of
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becoming who you're meant to be is in knowing what
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needs to change. is actually walking through the change. In
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our last episode, we talked about the shift, that moment
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when your perspective changes, when you begin to see things differently,
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when you recognize may no longer align with where you're going.
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And that's where the breakthrough begins. Let me tell you something.
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Sometimes what feels like you're falling apart is actually the
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moment you're being challenged to put things together differently. The
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old habits are no longer working. The old excuses no
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longer sound convincing. And the old version of you is
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becoming harder to recognize because you're finally holding yourself accountable.
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That process isn't always comfortable. You may have to walk
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away from what feels familiar. You may have to make
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decisions that other people don't understand. And you may have
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to keep moving even when you haven't seen the results
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you expected. But don't confuse discomfort with failure. Growth can
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challenge your identity before your results reflect your progress. And
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sometimes the breakthrough isn't a door opening overnight. Sometimes It's
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you finally becoming disciplined enough to stop standing in front
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of the wrong door. We love to celebrate breakthroughs. We
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celebrate the opportunity, the recognition, the success, In the moment,
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everything finally comes together. But we don't always celebrate the
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responsibility that comes with getting there. Because a breakthrough requires
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more than wanting something different. It requires doing something different.
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You cannot keep feeding the same habits and expect a
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different outcome. You cannot keep postponing the work and expect
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the vision to move forward on its own. And you
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cannot keep giving your power away to circumstances. You have
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the responsibility to address. At some point, you have to
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decide that your future deserves more than your good intentions.
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It deserves your commitment, your discipline, your consistency, And your
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willingness to do the work when nobody is watching. That's
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the part of the breakthrough that belongs to you. You
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might not control every opportunity that comes your way. You
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might not control how quickly things happen. But you can
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take responsibility for how you prepare, how you respond, and
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what you do when the opportunity's in front of you.
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That's how intention becomes action. And action... practice with discipline
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begins to create a different reality. So let me ask
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you something. What if the thing standing between you and
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your breakthrough isn't the absence of an opportunity? What if
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it's a decision you've been avoiding? A conversation you need
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to have. A habit you need to break. Or a
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responsibility you've been waiting for someone else to take. Be
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honest with yourself. Because sometimes we're waiting for life to
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change while refusing to change the way we participate in it.
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We want the breakthrough, but we resist the process. We
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want the outcome, but we negotiate with the discipline. We
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want the next level, but we keep making room for
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the things that belong to the last one. And eventually,
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we have to make a choice. Are we going to
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keep repeating what we know? Or are we going to
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practice what we've learned? Your breakthrough doesn't require you to
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have every answer. But it does require you to take
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the next responsible step. Not 10 steps ahead. Not somebody
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else's steps. Your next step. Because momentum begins when you
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stop waiting for everything to be perfect and start moving
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with purpose. Here's what I want you to remember. The
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release taught you that you don't have to carry everything forward.
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The shift challenged you. to see differently. And the breakthrough
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is where your new perspective meets your responsibility to act.
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This is where the work becomes visible. Where your decisions
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begin to reflect your intentions. Where you stop simply talking
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about the person you're becoming and start showing up as
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that person. You don't have to prove your growth to everybody.
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You have to practice it in your everyday life. One
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decision at a time. One commitment at a time. One
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purposeful action at a time. Because your breakthrough isn't just
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about reaching a destination. It's about becoming equipped To sustain
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what you've worked so hard to build. So keep moving.
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Keep growing. And when the opportunity comes, be ready to
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meet it as the person you've been working to become.
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This is Purpose Before Performance. And remember, your purpose is
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your power. I woke up this morning, a beautiful day.
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I had money on my mind. I had everything straight.
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No worries, no pain. That's when you're made. Your biggest
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mistake is when you lie to me.
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That's when you make your biggest mistake. Welcome back to
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00:00:43.090 --> 00:00:52.719
Purpose Before Performance. I'm your host, Zivia. And today, we're
3
00:00:52.759 --> 00:01:02.280
talking about the breakthrough. Because sometimes, the hardest part of
4
00:01:02.340 --> 00:01:08.129
becoming who you're meant to be is in knowing what
5
00:01:08.150 --> 00:01:14.709
needs to change. is actually walking through the change. In
6
00:01:14.769 --> 00:01:21.730
our last episode, we talked about the shift, that moment
7
00:01:22.560 --> 00:01:27.780
when your perspective changes, when you begin to see things differently,
8
00:01:28.700 --> 00:01:35.840
when you recognize may no longer align with where you're going.
9
00:01:37.540 --> 00:01:43.189
And that's where the breakthrough begins. Let me tell you something.
10
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Sometimes what feels like you're falling apart is actually the
11
00:01:55.799 --> 00:02:04.180
moment you're being challenged to put things together differently. The
12
00:02:04.280 --> 00:02:14.800
old habits are no longer working. The old excuses no
13
00:02:14.860 --> 00:02:24.090
longer sound convincing. And the old version of you is
14
00:02:24.150 --> 00:02:32.810
becoming harder to recognize because you're finally holding yourself accountable.
15
00:02:35.960 --> 00:02:43.509
That process isn't always comfortable. You may have to walk
16
00:02:43.590 --> 00:02:51.460
away from what feels familiar. You may have to make
17
00:02:51.500 --> 00:03:00.020
decisions that other people don't understand. And you may have
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to keep moving even when you haven't seen the results
19
00:03:07.120 --> 00:03:21.139
you expected. But don't confuse discomfort with failure. Growth can
20
00:03:21.219 --> 00:03:30.870
challenge your identity before your results reflect your progress. And
21
00:03:30.930 --> 00:03:42.800
sometimes the breakthrough isn't a door opening overnight. Sometimes It's
22
00:03:42.900 --> 00:03:50.990
you finally becoming disciplined enough to stop standing in front
23
00:03:51.030 --> 00:04:00.430
of the wrong door. We love to celebrate breakthroughs. We
24
00:04:00.490 --> 00:04:11.590
celebrate the opportunity, the recognition, the success, In the moment,
25
00:04:11.969 --> 00:04:19.860
everything finally comes together. But we don't always celebrate the
26
00:04:19.899 --> 00:04:29.819
responsibility that comes with getting there. Because a breakthrough requires
27
00:04:29.939 --> 00:04:40.420
more than wanting something different. It requires doing something different.
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You cannot keep feeding the same habits and expect a
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00:04:47.889 --> 00:04:56.350
different outcome. You cannot keep postponing the work and expect
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00:04:56.389 --> 00:05:02.910
the vision to move forward on its own. And you
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00:05:02.949 --> 00:05:09.230
cannot keep giving your power away to circumstances. You have
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00:05:09.250 --> 00:05:18.689
the responsibility to address. At some point, you have to
33
00:05:18.750 --> 00:05:28.040
decide that your future deserves more than your good intentions.
34
00:05:30.120 --> 00:05:43.439
It deserves your commitment, your discipline, your consistency, And your
35
00:05:43.480 --> 00:05:50.899
willingness to do the work when nobody is watching. That's
36
00:05:50.920 --> 00:05:58.850
the part of the breakthrough that belongs to you. You
37
00:05:58.889 --> 00:06:05.870
might not control every opportunity that comes your way. You
38
00:06:05.910 --> 00:06:14.209
might not control how quickly things happen. But you can
39
00:06:15.170 --> 00:06:24.850
take responsibility for how you prepare, how you respond, and
40
00:06:24.889 --> 00:06:29.500
what you do when the opportunity's in front of you.
41
00:06:32.500 --> 00:06:42.420
That's how intention becomes action. And action... practice with discipline
42
00:06:44.730 --> 00:06:54.089
begins to create a different reality. So let me ask
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you something. What if the thing standing between you and
44
00:07:03.420 --> 00:07:14.230
your breakthrough isn't the absence of an opportunity? What if
45
00:07:15.310 --> 00:07:25.810
it's a decision you've been avoiding? A conversation you need
46
00:07:25.850 --> 00:07:33.610
to have. A habit you need to break. Or a
47
00:07:35.410 --> 00:07:44.779
responsibility you've been waiting for someone else to take. Be
48
00:07:44.819 --> 00:07:53.560
honest with yourself. Because sometimes we're waiting for life to
49
00:07:53.639 --> 00:08:01.500
change while refusing to change the way we participate in it.
50
00:08:03.980 --> 00:08:14.699
We want the breakthrough, but we resist the process. We
51
00:08:14.740 --> 00:08:25.810
want the outcome, but we negotiate with the discipline. We
52
00:08:25.899 --> 00:08:33.570
want the next level, but we keep making room for
53
00:08:33.590 --> 00:08:40.580
the things that belong to the last one. And eventually,
54
00:08:40.600 --> 00:08:47.220
we have to make a choice. Are we going to
55
00:08:47.279 --> 00:08:54.210
keep repeating what we know? Or are we going to
56
00:08:54.269 --> 00:09:03.110
practice what we've learned? Your breakthrough doesn't require you to
57
00:09:03.190 --> 00:09:10.460
have every answer. But it does require you to take
58
00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:21.710
the next responsible step. Not 10 steps ahead. Not somebody
59
00:09:21.850 --> 00:09:32.919
else's steps. Your next step. Because momentum begins when you
60
00:09:32.960 --> 00:09:38.330
stop waiting for everything to be perfect and start moving
61
00:09:39.269 --> 00:09:47.559
with purpose. Here's what I want you to remember. The
62
00:09:47.620 --> 00:09:54.330
release taught you that you don't have to carry everything forward.
63
00:09:56.509 --> 00:10:04.559
The shift challenged you. to see differently. And the breakthrough
64
00:10:07.019 --> 00:10:14.570
is where your new perspective meets your responsibility to act.
65
00:10:16.730 --> 00:10:22.919
This is where the work becomes visible. Where your decisions
66
00:10:23.580 --> 00:10:31.440
begin to reflect your intentions. Where you stop simply talking
67
00:10:32.139 --> 00:10:39.250
about the person you're becoming and start showing up as
68
00:10:39.309 --> 00:10:45.580
that person. You don't have to prove your growth to everybody.
69
00:10:48.019 --> 00:10:53.740
You have to practice it in your everyday life. One
70
00:10:53.750 --> 00:11:03.899
decision at a time. One commitment at a time. One
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00:11:03.980 --> 00:11:13.019
purposeful action at a time. Because your breakthrough isn't just
72
00:11:13.120 --> 00:11:23.850
about reaching a destination. It's about becoming equipped To sustain
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00:11:23.870 --> 00:11:33.730
what you've worked so hard to build. So keep moving.
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00:11:35.789 --> 00:11:44.659
Keep growing. And when the opportunity comes, be ready to
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00:11:46.399 --> 00:11:52.299
meet it as the person you've been working to become.
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00:11:54.169 --> 00:12:05.480
This is Purpose Before Performance. And remember, your purpose is
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00:12:05.500 --> 00:12:23.289
your power. I woke up this morning, a beautiful day.
78
00:12:23.370 --> 00:12:27.139
I had money on my mind. I had everything straight.
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00:12:27.179 --> 00:12:31.200
No worries, no pain. That's when you're made. Your biggest
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00:12:31.259 --> 00:12:32.850
mistake is when you lie to me.
