92- Miley Cyrus

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Do you call him daddy?
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Do I call her daddy?
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Call her daddy.
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Daddy gang, can you hear me? Hello, it is the
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Alexandra Cooper. And I am sitting with what I would consider.
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The ultimate daddy.
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Yes.
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Yes, bitch.
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Under the disco tree.
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You're not supposed to talk yet. Oh, sorry. No, it's fine.
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My first podcast. You can talk, but no, no, no,
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it's fine. Guys, introducing Miley fucking Cyrus.
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Thank you for having me. Thank you for coming to
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my house. Thank you for sitting under the disco tree.
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I'm just feeling kind of like vibes right now.
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Oh, it's vibey.
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Well, to our right, Miley and I have penises.
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Two penises.
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Two penises.
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So before you got here, I ran into my living room. One,
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I think everyone in my house got a little scared.
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When I was like, oh, I have dildos. I should
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put them on the table. They're, like, inappropriate. Don't do that.
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But they're not quite dildos. They've never been used.
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No, no, no. Listen.
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Not by me, anyway.
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This is the Call Her Daddy podcast. It would be
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okay if people were, like, having sex behind us. Like,
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we live for anything sexual.
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So this is good.
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This is, like, the safer platform for me. That's why
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I'm not doing much press besides this.
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Okay, perfect.
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This is the only place that is probably appropriate.
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Right, right, right.
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Because I'll take it too far, and then you can, like,
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bring it down, which is, like, maybe a little different
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for you than normal.
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That's different, yeah. Okay, we love this.
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So.
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The fucking song. Let me tell you a little story. Okay. Okay.
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So I'm sitting in my hotel room, and Kelly, the
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woman that's here with me in LA, is like, I'm
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going to play you Miley's song. We're going to get
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you to play Miley's song. And I'm like, I have
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never in my life, if you have told me that
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I was going to be listening to your song early release,
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I'm like, what is my life? I'm a fucking loser
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from Pennsylvania.
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Like, what's happening?
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I listen to the song. I have an orgasm.
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No, I'm just kidding.
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Oh.
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I am, like, wet listening to your song. Yes.
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Miley.
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Yes.
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Miley, Midnight Sky.
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Yes.
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Tell us about it. It's iconic. I'm sorry, but like
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I'm getting excited for you. Midnight Sky.
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I'm like very, very into I mean, kind of throughout
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my career, I've felt like I've been able to introduce
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my fans to music they may not know, like whether
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it's sitting in this backyard and covering Jolene for backyard
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sessions or playing like I have this really funny video
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that I love of. Plank smells like teen spirit when
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I was on the Hannah Montana tour and like all
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the kids were really upset about it and weren't digging
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it at all.
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They're like, Miley, what are you saying?
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Yeah, four random moms were kind of singing along. Also,
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I was yelling my libido while all these children, it
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was like a whole thing. Um, and so I felt
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like I always do these covers, but I wanted one
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of my own. I wanted a song that felt classic.
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I wanted a song that felt like it was from
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the era of which I usually pull my inspiration from,
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but like really not being afraid, really being unapologetic about
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the tone, the.
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Sonics, the lyrics.
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And as you and I were watching the video and
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we started talking about, I think it's really special how
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having this kind of like anthemic, you know, pansexual, bisexual
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anthem of this song that like plays with gender roles.
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And it's like unapologetically saying in the chorus, like my
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lips on her mouth.
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And then he's got his hands on my waist. And like,
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there's just not.
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Song for people that can identify with like, these lyrics. Um,
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and so I just thought that it was a really
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empowering thing for me. And then for my listeners, because
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I just felt like it was a song that felt
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really honest. And then when you and I were watching
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the video and talking about like how the video kind
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of just like captured my spirit and I felt like
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that hasn't really happened before.
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I felt the same way about the video.
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I felt like that was like me and my most authentic,
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form and so it just feels very um like celebratory
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right now i just feel that's what we're talking about
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like how i feel like i'm really just thriving.
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Yes that's that's she's thriving she's thriving i when i
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heard you like the lyric about like you kissing her
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on her mouth i was like fuck yes fuck yes
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queen because so many people that listen to my podcast.
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Are fucking terrified about embracing who they are because you're
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fortunate that like I want to talk to you a
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little bit about you like realizing your sexuality and I
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know that you're very open about like you love everything
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and you're not putting yourself in a box but some
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people don't live in LA or have parents that would
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be supportive and they're fucking terrified And I feel like
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this song is just changing the game because it's like
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you're talking about a woman, you're talking about a man
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and it's normal. And it's coming from Miley Cyrus. So
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you can fucking listen to it and you can kiss
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a woman and you can kiss a man and it's
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fucking fun.
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And I like the idea that you kind of say
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it's normal because I really think that normalization is like
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the first step to just feeling like fully that acceptance.
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And I think like not just for it to feel normal.
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from the outside but feeling like comfortable to you and
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normal to you and um so yeah it was just
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like definitely writing it in the studio even with you
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know some of my like peers trying to kind of
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explain that to them why it was important because they
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were like isn't it kind of confusing you know like
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the pop structure is that the chorus says the same
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thing every time so it like gets burned into your
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brain so when you're at a concert and people get
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wasted and They're never like, wait, what does she say there?
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You really want it. There's like a formula.
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You know, I think everyone, whether you make pop music
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or not, know that there's like a pop formula there.
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And this really goes against that by having this like
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gender swap in lyrics because, you know, in a way
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it's challenging the system and challenging structure, which is what
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I always do.
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When I heard I was born to run, I don't
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belong to anyone. I was like, good night, goodbye, hello,
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welcome to Call Her Daddy. That's literally like the everything
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I try to tell anyone that listens to this podcast.
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I'm like.
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you belong to yourself and you can do whatever the
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fuck you want and you don't have to apologize for anything.
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And that lyric, I'm like, oh my God, Miley, like
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you fucking hit it.
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And I was kind of thinking about that today, like
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even getting ready because like before you got here, I
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had on my hoodie and like I had on my sweatshirt.
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I had on my fucking leggings.
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And now she has her tits out. Exactly.
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That was my next step.
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What made you change?
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Okay, so you were coming here and I was sitting
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like in my kitchen doing all my... I was kind
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of thinking about, like, what I would want to say because, like,
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I usually don't have this freedom just to, like, really talk.
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That's one thing that I'm learning that I do dig
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about podcasts.
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Yeah.
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You can really actually get into it.
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Yeah.
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And sometimes, like, I do feel like on shows you
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got such a quick amount of time and, like, you're
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so censored that I don't always get out my full thought.
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So to my full thought is I was sitting in
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my leggings, my sweatshirt, and, like, really working. And then
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knowing you were coming here, I.
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Went and like got ready and I did my makeup
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in like 15 minutes, got everything done in 15 minutes.
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And I realized like something that I thought would be
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important to say was that I wasn't getting dressed for you.
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And I wasn't getting dressed for like someone to think
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that I look sexy. I was getting dressed for me.
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And I think that's something that's different. Um, now that
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I'm a little bit older, that changed. Like, I think
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maybe that happened like through my last breakup. I feel
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like maybe since I was like 26, only in the
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last year have I felt like I always am doing
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what I want for me because I don't think that
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there's been a period, which like I know isn't the
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most relatable thing to say, but there hasn't really been
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a period for me where I felt like super insecure
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with my sexuality.
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Like I've just been that way.
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Like I used to strip naked, completely naked in a
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Cracker Barrel when I was age of three and like
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roll around on the ground. So that's just like, that's
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just like who I am.
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We love that. And America loved it when you did
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it more on like TV. Oh yeah. They loved that.
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They love that.
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Um, so I was thinking about like, I guess in
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the last year has been really transformative. And we were
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talking about on the couch before we started just about
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like how I felt like this self-realization period that's going
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on kind of universally and culturally. I kind of started
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having that like over the past two years through a
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little bit of trauma, like physical, like my house burning
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down was like basically, you know, one of the most
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transformative periods of my life and I'm going through a
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massive breakup. And I just feel like one thing that
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I gained through all the loss is an idea that
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what I do is for me. And that doesn't mean
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that you're selfish. And that comes from like a lot
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of the guilt that you and I were talking about
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before we started this podcast also about like how much
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guilt that I feel like I've always had about feeling like,
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like I know how fortunate I am and I don't
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really feel comfortable with that. I don't feel comfortable with
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my privilege. And I think the only way through it
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has been through a little bit of trauma.
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And I just want to say, first of all, that's
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like the most beautiful thing because like, Honestly, coming to
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your house, I had no fucking clue what to expect.
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I'm about to meet Miley Cyrus. Of course I watched
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Hannah Montana. Are you fucking kidding me? I made embarrassing
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music videos pretending to be you when I was younger.
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And then now, as the Call Her Daddy host, I'm
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so excited to meet the woman that is so sexually
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liberated and is an icon for our generation.
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And I had no idea.
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And I was fully prepared to walk in and be like, Hi, Kayla,
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sit down. Let's have a conversation. You are so normal.
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And yet you're so not normal, but you're normal. And
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I think that you saying like you've been through trauma
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and you're finally for the first time in your life,
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like really like I'm going to do everything for myself.
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That is so fucking beautiful because that kind of shows
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me no matter how famous you are or whoever. is
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listening in like Nebraska, everyone has to have that one
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period in their life where they're like, fuck, am I
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doing this for a guy, a girl? Am I doing
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this for someone else other than me? And then you
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got to find a fucking way, whether it's through trauma
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yet fucking sucks then. But don't you kind of feel like,
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Oh my God, it was meant to be because look
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where I am.
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I'm so thankful that all that happened because, Yeah, now
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I think, I don't know why that popped into my
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brain when I was, like, getting ready, but, like, I
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was putting on my little kitten heel.
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Yeah, you look amazing.
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I was putting on my shit, and I'm like, it's
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honestly for me.
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Yeah.
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And, like, I have a lot of guilt just in my,
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I just have, since I was little, like, I don't know,
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things have been very easy for me.
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Like, I've always been, if I've tried something once, I
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could do it.
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Right.
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And I know that's not the same for everybody, and
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I don't know why it's that way for me, and
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so I had a lot of, I had a really
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hard time accepting that. And I don't like for things
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to be easy. I like to work hard.
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Right.
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So I'm one of those people that if I couldn't
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do it first time, I'd do it 100 times until
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I could.
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But I've never really had to.
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Had to do that.
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The only time that I.
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Have really had that experience of just trying to do
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something that wasn't meant for me or not going to
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work is in relationships.
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That's so crazy.
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And I think I had a big fear of being
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alone because.
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I'm always surrounded by people.
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So like my idea of what's it like to be
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surrounded by people, it's not surrounded by friends, like 15 people,
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it's like 15,000 people. And so the idea of how
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drastic it goes from being full to being empty is
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just like really dramatic. And so there was just like
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a lot of fear, a lot of guilt.
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I love therapy.
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Yeah, but that, and we love, we were literally talking
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before the podcast.
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We're like, so I was like, are you in therapy?
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I'm like, who asks you that? But I'm like, I
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love therapy. Do you like therapy?
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It's the fucking best.
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I fucking love it.
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It's the best.
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You, I think that's really beautiful though, that you have
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enough like self-reflection to be like, what am I not?
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having success in and it is relationships and i can't
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help but be like miley like you literally have been
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so famous since you were how young and then like
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to fight it's almost like you're now getting to be
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like okay what do i want to do with my
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life because you went for so fucking long performing in
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front of so many people pleasing so many people and
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now it's like wait what What makes you happy?
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That's actually a really interesting perspective because I never really
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thought about it that way. And I guess that is
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kind of maybe I'm at the age where that would
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be like getting out of college, starting your first. I mean,
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most people will be starting their lives now. And I
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feel like I'm kind of in that like mid life
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success place and like or even like beyond the finish line.
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And there's actually something kind of about I've read about
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a lot of athletes that have It's called Winner's Blues.
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Oh, fuck it. And it's when you felt too.
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Much of like the dopamine and success and the rush
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that that crash is just so harsh.
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Trust me, me and athletes on this podcast, we talk
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about all the time. It's kind of a joke, but
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like I like.
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To hook up with athletes.
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And I always say their life is so hard because
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it kind of ends at like 30, 40, their career.
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Mm-hmm.
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And then it's like, what do you do?
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And it can happen the same thing, especially for like
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females and pop music. There's so much like ageism and
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sexism that I think it's just, you know, you get
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feeling like, I just think it's a really good perspective
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to say, oh, my life is kind of starting now.
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And I'm at a point where I get to decide
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what do I want to do with it? And that's
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what you would be doing if you had been spending
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years in college or spending years as an intern or whatever.
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lower on the kind of like ranking of your job
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that now you're at a place where you're like 27, 28, 29, 30,
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where you get to go, okay, like, what am I
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going to do with all the skills that I've collected?
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Well, can I ask you, because like, listen, everyone, I
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think it was the most iconic moment when like you
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were Hannah Montana. And I know probably for a while
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you were like, I don't even want to hear that
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fucking name for a minute. Cause like, kindly shut the
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fuck up. My name is Miley Cyrus. I mean, the
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bangers era, when all of a sudden it was like
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you took everything to the fucking max. And you were like,
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this is my nipple and we're ready to roll. Everybody
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watched me twerk everywhere. And it was iconic, but it
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was almost like you were trying to break away from
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the Disney thing. And when you look back on the era,
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what does it make you feel?
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Well, what's so weird about that is also that was
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for me. And just like getting... I guess that's the
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full circle of my story that I was trying to
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get to was basically... I mean, I was wondering why
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I wanted to tell you that, but I guess that
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is why because it's so relevant in my career. Like
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I never thought, I really, really don't care what anyone
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else is really doing with their life as long as
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they're being like a good person. And to me, I
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just still can't believe that people care so much about
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what I'm doing. But in the times where I want
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them to, like when I'm rallying people to fight injustices
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or trying to normalize like my LGBTQ community that I'm
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proud to be a part of, When it comes to that,
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I'm happy that I have the attention that I do.
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And it's not something that you get to turn on
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and off. It doesn't come with a switch. And so
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I am really happy that people are so interested and
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intrigued by me and my choices in my life.
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Because that means that I really do have a loud platform.
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Yeah, you have a voice.
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But I definitely think that that VMAs 2013 era was
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kind of an awakening moment.
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And I guess I'm just going through round two right now.
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Yeah.
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But it was, like, the first one was, like, I mean, obviously,
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when did you realize, like, oh, I'm not just attracted
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to men?
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Like, how young were you?
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I was attracted to girls way before I ever was
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attracted to guys.
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Okay.
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When I was, like.
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11 years old.
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I used to think that Minnie Mouse was super fucking hot.
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Wait, that isn't just specific. Which is so good.
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I ended up on Disney, so my chances with Minnie
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went up.
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By like 100. Oh my God, you're like, Minnie, you, me,
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let's fuck. Yeah, she was super hot to me.
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I always thought that the female characters in movies were
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way hotter than any of the guys. I actually never
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really understood what these girls were doing with these idiots a.
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Lot of the time. That penis is disgusting.
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Yeah, so that was kind of it.
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And then when I was 11 or 12... My friends
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were starting to kind of like tell me what they
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were doing with guys and I didn't really understand it.
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So I've got most of my girlfriends hook up with me.
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That is such an amazing person.
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I've ever hooked up with anyone was with the girl
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was a girl, two of them.
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And did you go past first base?
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Yeah.
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Oh, yeah. Of course. Oh, my God. Absolutely.
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OK.
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And then when did you hook up with a guy?
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I hooked up with. Well, I didn't go all the
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way with the dude. I was 16.
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It wasn't Nick Jonas. It wasn't Nick Jonas. But I
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ended up marrying the guy.
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Oh, my God.
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That's pretty crazy.
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So that's the first guy you hooked up with.
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Yeah.
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Which I lied and said that he wasn't the first.
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So I didn't seem like a loser. But now you're
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more of a full circle story. It's so fucking weird
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because I couldn't think. I couldn't think of anyone. He
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was like, oh, whoever you had sex with. And I
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couldn't think of anyone. So I just like made somebody
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up that I knew, but we had never actually had
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sex before. And then like his friend ended up marrying him.
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And so then it was like, oh, now my friend
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is marrying someone you've hooked up with. So then when
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I was like 24, I had to say that I
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lied when I was 16.
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You're like, so that was a full blown lie.
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It was a lie that I held on to for
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like 10 years.
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Wow. Wow. And then once you're kind of stuck in
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a lie, like you're kind of fucked.
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Oh, yeah.
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Then I was like, no reason to like dig old
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bones up.
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But then you're like, hey, this is directly affecting our lives.
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So I'll tell you.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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That was so weird.
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It directly affected my life.
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You're like, how the fuck did this happen? It's so weird.
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That's why I think that everything's pre-programmed in this world.
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It's supposed to happen. Like what's meant to be will be.
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Do you have like a type?
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I know like you, you're attracted to people's souls, like
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you're attracted to, but do you have like, who are
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you in a relationship?
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I'm so interested. No. Are you hyper crazy? Do you
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like a calm person?
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Oh my God.
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I actually do kind of need, I usually end up
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complaining that they're boring, but that's what I need.
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I need boring. Me too.
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I'm realizing I need like more calm, very calm. They
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have to be, I mean, you're fucking Miley Cyrus. You
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need like a confident guy.
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Yes.
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But he can't be the same level as you, like
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of like screaming.
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No, I definitely, definitely need like a calming. I need
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an anchor. I need a weight.
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But when I was thinking about this yesterday and knowing
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we're going to have this conversation, I was thinking about
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someone has to bring more to the table than their plate.
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They can't just be like, fill me up all the
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fucking time. And I think that's kind of, That's a
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big part of my life is filling people back up.
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And that can make me go below zero, below E.
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And so it's really important that I feel fulfilled. And yeah,
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they have to bring something to the table.
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Do you think it's like hard because of how mega
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successful you are? Like, how the fuck are you like,
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how would you ever date a normal person?
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You can't.
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So I think that's what ended up making like female
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relationships make more sense to me because the role that
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I was in made more sense.
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Oh, that's interesting.
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Because it was like, well, there's not going to be
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this weird thing that like I pay for everything and I, whatever.
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And then I was like, but that's just like a
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stereotype too. Like if I'm going to be with a girl, like,
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I'm totally down to be with, like, a boss bitch that's, like,
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as successful or more successful than me.
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That's cool, too.
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But I felt like the women that I ended up
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being around, like, the role fit easier for me because, like,
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even in my relationship with men, a lot of the times, like,
499
00:19:37.299 --> 00:19:39.279
I kind of hold a more dominant.
500
00:19:39.400 --> 00:19:39.599
Right.
501
00:19:39.619 --> 00:19:41.289
You have the power. You wear the pants a little bit.
502
00:19:41.299 --> 00:19:42.569
A more dominant space.
503
00:19:42.640 --> 00:19:43.190
Well, how could you not?
504
00:19:43.650 --> 00:19:47.670
It felt like that made it less uncomfortable. And then
505
00:19:47.769 --> 00:19:52.220
it felt like I was choosing partners out of anxiety,
506
00:19:52.319 --> 00:19:54.019
which is like so much to do with like my
507
00:19:54.039 --> 00:19:56.660
therapy journey too, because I don't want to choose who
508
00:19:56.680 --> 00:19:58.720
I'm going to be with out of like anxiety or
509
00:19:58.740 --> 00:20:00.099
fear or stereotype.
510
00:20:00.160 --> 00:20:01.000
Cause that's like.
511
00:20:01.599 --> 00:20:07.019
Not anything that I represent or believe in the stereotype.
512
00:20:07.039 --> 00:20:09.150
So it's like, I need to find a guy. that's
513
00:20:09.170 --> 00:20:13.220
confident enough in himself, that he's okay, that I am
514
00:20:13.240 --> 00:20:16.660
kind of, like, masculine and strong and just, like, there's
515
00:20:16.680 --> 00:20:20.269
a lot of qualities to me that tend to, like,
516
00:20:21.289 --> 00:20:23.009
associate more with the male role and.
517
00:20:22.950 --> 00:20:25.220
That's what this is. I, yeah, I agree.
518
00:20:25.259 --> 00:20:26.680
I think it's kind of beautiful that you've been like,
519
00:20:26.720 --> 00:20:28.940
and so I'm, I'm okay right now being like, yeah,
520
00:20:29.000 --> 00:20:30.680
it works better with a woman. And if I can
521
00:20:30.720 --> 00:20:33.460
find a man that can be accepting of that, great.
522
00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:36.349
But for right now, for you, the female relationship is
523
00:20:36.390 --> 00:20:36.910
working better.
524
00:20:36.970 --> 00:20:37.210
Yeah.
525
00:20:37.250 --> 00:20:39.470
This is made a lot more sense, like at a time.
526
00:20:39.549 --> 00:20:42.730
And then like, what's, what's funny about that too, is like,
527
00:20:43.390 --> 00:20:45.809
I guess, I don't know. I guess I've just have
528
00:20:45.849 --> 00:20:47.849
been very experimental. Like I've been with a lot of
529
00:20:47.869 --> 00:20:51.029
different kinds of like dudes and chicks, like, I've been
530
00:20:51.069 --> 00:20:53.920
with super femme girls, girls that kind of make me
531
00:20:53.940 --> 00:20:55.019
feel more femme.
532
00:20:55.160 --> 00:20:56.579
I just really don't have a type.
533
00:20:56.660 --> 00:21:00.630
The main thing for me is that someone has to
534
00:21:00.650 --> 00:21:05.220
bring something that is elevating my life. And like, that's
535
00:21:05.259 --> 00:21:08.000
in all my relationships, not just my sexual relationships.
536
00:21:08.019 --> 00:21:08.839
Totally. Yeah.
537
00:21:08.859 --> 00:21:10.579
You need people that are going to be just like
538
00:21:10.740 --> 00:21:12.640
as powerful in a room. It doesn't have, doesn't, they
539
00:21:12.660 --> 00:21:14.559
don't have to be as successful. They don't have to
540
00:21:14.579 --> 00:21:17.180
have more money, but you don't want to feel like
541
00:21:17.220 --> 00:21:19.759
you're like dragging this person and giving this person and
542
00:21:19.779 --> 00:21:20.920
you're not getting filled up.
543
00:21:21.200 --> 00:21:25.250
That's awful. Do you know? what your love languages are.
544
00:21:25.269 --> 00:21:25.829
I do.
545
00:21:26.170 --> 00:21:28.960
Don't you love, like, finding out people's love languages? Okay, wait,
546
00:21:28.980 --> 00:21:29.250
tell me.
547
00:21:29.259 --> 00:21:30.819
So my love language kind of makes me sound like
548
00:21:30.839 --> 00:21:32.839
an asshole, but it's not. It is acts of service.
549
00:21:32.880 --> 00:21:35.259
Oh, wait, I thought, no, gifts is more asshole. Yeah,
550
00:21:35.680 --> 00:21:37.859
gifts are crazy. You're like, bitch, give me a Chanel now.
551
00:21:37.880 --> 00:21:38.640
I hate gifts.
552
00:21:38.799 --> 00:21:41.099
Okay, me too. I really don't like gifts. Cringe, right?
553
00:21:41.259 --> 00:21:42.960
Yeah, it's so embarrassing. I don't know what to do
554
00:21:42.980 --> 00:21:44.099
with my face. I don't know what to do with
555
00:21:44.119 --> 00:21:44.299
my hands.
556
00:21:44.319 --> 00:21:44.559
I hate gifts.
557
00:21:44.880 --> 00:21:48.250
But I like acts of service because I would say
558
00:21:48.450 --> 00:21:51.710
that on the giving and the receiving end. Like, if
559
00:21:51.789 --> 00:21:55.650
someone that I'm with Tells me, like, my closet's driving
560
00:21:55.670 --> 00:21:57.529
me crazy. It's totally unorganized. By the time they're home
561
00:21:57.549 --> 00:21:59.009
the next day, I've already dealt with it.
562
00:21:59.150 --> 00:21:59.849
I'm like that.
563
00:22:00.049 --> 00:22:02.230
I really love to do things for people. Or if
564
00:22:02.269 --> 00:22:09.099
someone says that, anything. Like, I remember one boyfriend I had. Like,
565
00:22:09.119 --> 00:22:10.599
I think you thought it was really weird that I
566
00:22:10.720 --> 00:22:13.200
made him, I made him a bong for his birthday.
567
00:22:13.279 --> 00:22:13.819
Oh my God.
568
00:22:13.920 --> 00:22:15.799
And I like handmade this like bong.
569
00:22:15.859 --> 00:22:17.180
And then I thought he thought it was kind of weird,
570
00:22:17.200 --> 00:22:19.420
but it's like, I would rather someone make something for me.
571
00:22:19.599 --> 00:22:21.240
And like that to me is like an act of service.
572
00:22:21.259 --> 00:22:22.180
Like I took time.
573
00:22:22.240 --> 00:22:23.380
This is so fascinating.
574
00:22:23.480 --> 00:22:26.049
Also talking to you about this, because just based off
575
00:22:26.069 --> 00:22:28.849
of everything we're talking about, you're talking about the way
576
00:22:28.930 --> 00:22:29.869
you give love.
577
00:22:29.890 --> 00:22:30.170
Uh huh.
578
00:22:31.259 --> 00:22:33.980
And then there's two ways. How the fuck... Miley, here
579
00:22:34.019 --> 00:22:35.460
we go. How do you receive love?
580
00:22:35.480 --> 00:22:38.160
So receiving, I also really, really like... You like when
581
00:22:38.299 --> 00:22:39.779
people do stuff for you. I like acts of service.
582
00:22:39.799 --> 00:22:39.900
Okay.
583
00:22:39.920 --> 00:22:40.940
Even though I feel like.
584
00:22:40.900 --> 00:22:43.079
An asshole, but I do like when people do.
585
00:22:43.019 --> 00:22:46.369
Things for me. And then my other one is.
586
00:22:46.650 --> 00:22:49.710
There's physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time.
587
00:22:49.730 --> 00:22:50.269
I like quality time.
588
00:22:50.309 --> 00:22:50.910
Quality time.
589
00:22:50.930 --> 00:22:51.809
Quality time is my other one.
590
00:22:51.869 --> 00:22:55.339
But quality, emphasis on quality. Like, not just time.
591
00:22:55.559 --> 00:22:55.779
Right.
592
00:22:55.880 --> 00:22:57.619
I don't want you just, like, to fill the space.
593
00:22:57.819 --> 00:22:58.319
Right, right, right.
594
00:22:58.339 --> 00:23:00.750
I want you to bring something to the fucking table.
595
00:23:00.869 --> 00:23:04.150
And that is what I, like... really demand now I
596
00:23:04.529 --> 00:23:07.519
was like I'm getting older yeah I allowed so many
597
00:23:08.319 --> 00:23:11.980
people to just come and like bullshit your time fucking
598
00:23:12.019 --> 00:23:15.710
breath to my air and like suck out the life
599
00:23:16.029 --> 00:23:19.460
of my spaces and like I'm just over that Yeah.
600
00:23:19.539 --> 00:23:21.259
I was going to ask you like how, I think
601
00:23:21.299 --> 00:23:23.819
a lot of people look, I always talk about it
602
00:23:23.859 --> 00:23:25.519
cause it's like, I love to talk about sex, but
603
00:23:25.539 --> 00:23:27.920
I also like to talk about like everyone has been
604
00:23:28.039 --> 00:23:31.099
through shitty relationships. Everyone's been through heartbreak. And like, is
605
00:23:31.140 --> 00:23:33.940
there a little like tip you can give anyone listening
606
00:23:33.980 --> 00:23:36.319
to like getting through any heartbreak? We've all been through
607
00:23:36.339 --> 00:23:39.400
relationships that we break up. Like, have you found.
608
00:23:39.019 --> 00:23:43.259
Your, so I had a very, very public, very like
609
00:23:43.400 --> 00:23:46.380
big breakup that was over a 10 year span of
610
00:23:46.400 --> 00:23:49.880
a relationship and sitting with me now, I would hope
611
00:23:49.900 --> 00:23:52.130
you find me to be somewhat this way, which is
612
00:23:52.569 --> 00:23:54.910
not the public perception, is I'm very logical.
613
00:23:55.700 --> 00:23:57.019
I'm very organized.
614
00:23:57.039 --> 00:23:57.339
You are.
615
00:23:57.400 --> 00:23:58.259
And, like, very.
616
00:23:58.769 --> 00:24:01.490
Kind of center. And so I love lists. Lists keep
617
00:24:01.529 --> 00:24:03.549
my whole fucking world on track. My world would be
618
00:24:03.670 --> 00:24:04.750
wrecked if I didn't make lists.
619
00:24:04.789 --> 00:24:05.369
That's brilliant.
620
00:24:05.470 --> 00:24:07.599
Every day I have a list of what do I want?
621
00:24:07.799 --> 00:24:09.279
How am I going to achieve it? What's the next step?
622
00:24:09.660 --> 00:24:12.140
And so with heartbreak, I tried to not get lost
623
00:24:12.279 --> 00:24:13.079
in the emotion.
624
00:24:13.579 --> 00:24:14.059
Smart.
625
00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:16.140
And I also don't like that with women too. It's like, well,
626
00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:18.019
you're a cold bitch. It's like, no.
627
00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:18.940
No.
628
00:24:19.200 --> 00:24:21.069
The world is going to keep turning. It's like a
629
00:24:21.119 --> 00:24:21.609
death when.
630
00:24:21.509 --> 00:24:22.730
You lose a love that deep.
631
00:24:22.750 --> 00:24:24.509
Straight up. It feels like a death. It's honestly.
632
00:24:25.369 --> 00:24:28.069
sometimes that even feels easier because it's more, you can.
633
00:24:28.049 --> 00:24:29.250
Like put it to bed and move on. You know,
634
00:24:29.289 --> 00:24:30.450
that person's still walking around.
635
00:24:30.609 --> 00:24:33.890
Like the person's still walking on the earth and choosing
636
00:24:34.099 --> 00:24:37.279
every day. Cause it's a choice, right? Death isn't a choice.
637
00:24:37.440 --> 00:24:39.960
And this is a choice. So to not get lost
638
00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:43.700
in emotion, to focus on the logics is to make
639
00:24:43.779 --> 00:24:47.339
a list of what you were gaining and what you
640
00:24:47.359 --> 00:24:50.599
were losing, what they were contributing to your life and
641
00:24:50.660 --> 00:24:55.589
what they were subtracting and to value that. each of
642
00:24:56.349 --> 00:24:58.549
these things by one through 10.
643
00:24:58.549 --> 00:25:01.039
So like... Fuck, Miley hasn't figured the fuck out. And
644
00:25:01.059 --> 00:25:02.299
then you add them all up.
645
00:25:02.380 --> 00:25:05.140
And if the person was adding more to your life,
646
00:25:05.200 --> 00:25:07.640
then you know what is expected for your next relationship.
647
00:25:07.680 --> 00:25:08.079
Wow.
648
00:25:08.279 --> 00:25:10.180
And what they were subtracting, you know what you will
649
00:25:10.259 --> 00:25:13.440
not accept ever again. And so you look at these
650
00:25:13.480 --> 00:25:15.480
two things and you go, this is what I... Okay,
651
00:25:15.509 --> 00:25:17.309
so one of the things that are really important to
652
00:25:17.349 --> 00:25:18.410
me in a relationship... Yes.
653
00:25:18.890 --> 00:25:20.329
Other than active service.
654
00:25:20.410 --> 00:25:23.190
Besides active service, I like people taking care of themselves.
655
00:25:23.210 --> 00:25:23.430
Okay.
656
00:25:23.619 --> 00:25:26.279
I think the way someone treats themselves is a reflection
657
00:25:26.299 --> 00:25:27.319
of the way that they'll treat you.
658
00:25:27.339 --> 00:25:27.480
So true.
659
00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:30.500
So I'm like super into like clean eating. I'm into
660
00:25:30.519 --> 00:25:33.220
people taking care of themselves. I knew that the place
661
00:25:33.339 --> 00:25:35.839
to meet my next partner was not going to be
662
00:25:35.880 --> 00:25:37.059
at like a fucking Burger King.
663
00:25:37.220 --> 00:25:37.420
No.
664
00:25:37.609 --> 00:25:40.569
If clean eating and self-maintenance is going to be important,
665
00:25:40.730 --> 00:25:44.150
I know to look in communities where those people are
666
00:25:44.170 --> 00:25:46.730
going to gather. I now no longer look at like
667
00:25:46.829 --> 00:25:50.690
any sort of AA meetings because I myself have, I
668
00:25:50.730 --> 00:25:53.369
don't really want to, help someone on their journey of
669
00:25:53.410 --> 00:25:55.049
addiction so much because I need to take care of.
670
00:25:55.029 --> 00:25:55.250
My own self.
671
00:25:55.269 --> 00:25:55.829
Right, right, right.
672
00:25:56.049 --> 00:25:58.509
But I do, you know, you don't, like as someone
673
00:25:58.529 --> 00:26:01.190
that's living a sober lifestyle, don't go to the club
674
00:26:01.210 --> 00:26:02.210
looking for your next partner.
675
00:26:02.230 --> 00:26:02.349
Right.
676
00:26:02.390 --> 00:26:04.990
You know, so put yourself in places where you'll be
677
00:26:05.049 --> 00:26:09.380
successful so you don't get stuck on, I'm just always
678
00:26:09.420 --> 00:26:10.660
wasting my time.
679
00:26:10.319 --> 00:26:11.099
With all these people.
680
00:26:11.119 --> 00:26:13.279
It's like you can really control the kind of people
681
00:26:13.319 --> 00:26:14.640
that are going to like flow in and out of
682
00:26:14.660 --> 00:26:14.960
your life.
683
00:26:14.980 --> 00:26:15.279
Straight up.
684
00:26:15.279 --> 00:26:17.099
And you can create a filtration system. So I have
685
00:26:17.240 --> 00:26:19.769
filtered my life. of what I will accept and what
686
00:26:19.809 --> 00:26:20.710
I will not.
687
00:26:20.730 --> 00:26:25.809
I am sorry, but like you just sounded so like
688
00:26:25.849 --> 00:26:27.849
you have it fucking figured out. And I know you don't,
689
00:26:27.890 --> 00:26:30.529
but like, no, but that shit right there, I'm like,
690
00:26:30.609 --> 00:26:31.970
did everyone, is everyone listening?
691
00:26:31.990 --> 00:26:34.250
Write that fucking down. I'm about to go back and listen.
692
00:26:34.309 --> 00:26:36.750
That helps with every single thing. And like even people
693
00:26:36.769 --> 00:26:38.849
in your life. So you look at the people that like,
694
00:26:39.480 --> 00:26:41.299
matter the most to you. Like my mom matters the
695
00:26:41.339 --> 00:26:43.259
most to me of anyone. So I write down her
696
00:26:43.359 --> 00:26:45.950
qualities of what I love about her. And I try
697
00:26:45.990 --> 00:26:48.509
to find people like that because one day I may
698
00:26:48.549 --> 00:26:50.250
not have my mom on this earth and I want
699
00:26:50.269 --> 00:26:52.809
to have people that like keep her spirit alive through them.
700
00:26:53.130 --> 00:26:56.670
And I do think that there's little, there's little sparks
701
00:26:56.769 --> 00:26:59.380
of like, we're all kind of one and we've all
702
00:26:59.400 --> 00:27:02.599
just divided into these, our own little sources of energy
703
00:27:02.660 --> 00:27:04.980
and like our own little souls. But we're all kind
704
00:27:05.000 --> 00:27:07.930
of like one way, I think. And so I think
705
00:27:07.950 --> 00:27:10.069
that I could find little pieces of her in other people.
706
00:27:10.089 --> 00:27:13.450
Dude, that is like so fucking beautiful. Wait, you're like
707
00:27:13.509 --> 00:27:15.410
fucking mature as shit.
708
00:27:15.650 --> 00:27:18.849
Miley, coming with the facts. I'm not in real life.
709
00:27:18.990 --> 00:27:20.589
I still love dicks and all the things, but I
710
00:27:20.630 --> 00:27:24.569
think that the idea that like, I don't know, I
711
00:27:24.609 --> 00:27:27.690
just think that there's a level of there's a level
712
00:27:27.750 --> 00:27:28.569
of logic.
713
00:27:28.269 --> 00:27:29.549
To everything and not getting lost.
714
00:27:29.589 --> 00:27:32.430
No, that is, that's pretty brilliant. And wait, so are
715
00:27:32.470 --> 00:27:33.920
you not smoking weed anymore?
716
00:27:33.940 --> 00:27:35.039
I'm not smoking weed anymore.
717
00:27:35.059 --> 00:27:36.539
Okay. Wait, I'm going to, okay.
718
00:27:36.660 --> 00:27:38.549
In the spirit of like being call her daddy, I
719
00:27:38.609 --> 00:27:42.119
always say like, okay, I think it's, High sex is
720
00:27:42.140 --> 00:27:44.420
the best sex. Drunk sex is a fucking, like it
721
00:27:44.460 --> 00:27:46.000
gets fun sometimes, but it's just.
722
00:27:45.880 --> 00:27:48.670
Like, okay. And it's like, I can't with sweat.
723
00:27:48.950 --> 00:27:51.490
So high sex can be the best sex, obviously. And
724
00:27:51.710 --> 00:27:53.910
obviously if you were like smoking all the time, you
725
00:27:53.930 --> 00:27:55.230
were having high sex.
726
00:27:55.349 --> 00:27:57.329
And now that you're not like, how are you doing?
727
00:27:57.769 --> 00:27:58.049
Okay.
728
00:27:58.170 --> 00:27:59.269
I'm doing great.
729
00:27:59.430 --> 00:28:00.880
Okay, great. Here's the thing.
730
00:28:00.910 --> 00:28:04.440
Here's the thing about this, which is really funny because like, My.
731
00:28:04.619 --> 00:28:05.980
I'm going to wait for this to go away because
732
00:28:06.000 --> 00:28:06.680
this is going to get juicy.
733
00:28:06.940 --> 00:28:09.059
Airplanes and the night... I'm telling you, I live at
734
00:28:09.099 --> 00:28:09.880
fucking Burbank.
735
00:28:10.039 --> 00:28:10.420
Fuck!
736
00:28:10.740 --> 00:28:11.420
It's really not.
737
00:28:11.519 --> 00:28:14.589
It's not right. Yeah, we got to move.
738
00:28:14.980 --> 00:28:15.589
We got to move.
739
00:28:15.619 --> 00:28:18.150
We got to get out of here. Yeah, Miley kind
740
00:28:18.309 --> 00:28:20.549
of lives right... At the airport. At the airport.
741
00:28:20.710 --> 00:28:21.369
It gives me anxiety.
742
00:28:21.630 --> 00:28:21.910
Okay.
743
00:28:22.130 --> 00:28:22.430
Okay.
744
00:28:22.690 --> 00:28:24.269
But what are we going to talk about? We're going
745
00:28:24.289 --> 00:28:24.529
to say.
746
00:28:24.569 --> 00:28:26.690
High sex. Oh, high sex. Of course.
747
00:28:27.390 --> 00:28:35.650
So my identity is much... My identity is related to
748
00:28:35.809 --> 00:28:40.509
sex in a much deeper way than my sexuality is,
749
00:28:40.559 --> 00:28:41.339
if that makes any sense.
750
00:28:41.660 --> 00:28:42.019
Oh.
751
00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:45.900
So my identity and who I am as a person
752
00:28:46.579 --> 00:28:47.579
is very sexual.
753
00:28:47.619 --> 00:28:47.720
Right.
754
00:28:48.420 --> 00:28:52.670
And who I am as a sexual person... is, again,
755
00:28:52.730 --> 00:28:55.390
maybe I'm, like, a selfish psycho. Or, like, sex is really, like,
756
00:28:55.430 --> 00:28:56.269
about me in my mind.
757
00:28:56.390 --> 00:28:56.750
Of course.
758
00:28:57.009 --> 00:28:58.509
Everything's about me in my mind, apparently.
759
00:28:58.529 --> 00:29:01.029
Well, no, but everything is about Miley. But, like, we
760
00:29:01.049 --> 00:29:02.349
can give ourselves an orgasm.
761
00:29:02.730 --> 00:29:06.190
But I just feel like I... Let me think about this.
762
00:29:06.230 --> 00:29:11.970
Let's think about my sex life. I get turned on by, again, like,
763
00:29:12.390 --> 00:29:14.519
what people are, like, contributing to my life.
764
00:29:14.559 --> 00:29:15.079
Right.
765
00:29:15.279 --> 00:29:19.299
And as of right now... Having someone that's also sober,
766
00:29:19.359 --> 00:29:21.619
like a partner, is very sexual to me because it's
767
00:29:21.660 --> 00:29:23.839
very present and very there.
768
00:29:24.109 --> 00:29:24.400
Right.
769
00:29:24.420 --> 00:29:27.269
But I think it's really funny how my identity is
770
00:29:27.390 --> 00:29:31.569
so wrapped up in sexuality when my sexuality actually just
771
00:29:31.609 --> 00:29:33.230
has a lot to do with my identity and who
772
00:29:33.269 --> 00:29:33.990
I am as a person.
773
00:29:34.009 --> 00:29:35.549
Does that make any fucking sense?
774
00:29:36.109 --> 00:29:38.349
Are you guys with us? You lost me a little.
775
00:29:38.410 --> 00:29:39.109
It's just really weird.
776
00:29:39.170 --> 00:29:41.849
I'm like, hold on. think of me as a hypersexual being.
777
00:29:41.890 --> 00:29:43.410
Right, like you're having sex all the time, 24-7. Like
778
00:29:43.430 --> 00:29:45.490
you're going to sit on this dildo in.
779
00:29:45.450 --> 00:29:46.569
Front of my eyes. Which I would.
780
00:29:47.210 --> 00:29:50.470
But, like, I enjoy sexuality more than I enjoy sex.
781
00:29:50.539 --> 00:29:51.299
That's a better way to say it.
782
00:29:51.299 --> 00:29:52.119
Okay, there we go.
783
00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:55.920
And I'm much more into sexuality than sex. But I
784
00:29:55.980 --> 00:29:58.099
also don't really fuck with foreplay because I just.
785
00:29:57.980 --> 00:29:59.799
Am too busy. Wait, really?
786
00:29:59.900 --> 00:30:02.200
I don't fuck with foreplay, as everyone will tell you,
787
00:30:02.299 --> 00:30:04.819
even in my business. I do not like to tease things.
788
00:30:04.960 --> 00:30:06.940
I like to not say shit and then fucking go
789
00:30:07.009 --> 00:30:08.210
for it and scare the shit out of you.
790
00:30:08.230 --> 00:30:08.289
Oh!
791
00:30:08.869 --> 00:30:09.970
So that's my thing.
792
00:30:09.990 --> 00:30:12.609
I like I have a lot fucking going on. I
793
00:30:13.069 --> 00:30:15.089
don't really have time to like sit around and flick
794
00:30:15.130 --> 00:30:17.109
my pussy. I really want to get the shit done
795
00:30:17.170 --> 00:30:18.170
and fucking get back to editing.
796
00:30:18.190 --> 00:30:20.210
Wait, so what are we doing? Like throwing lube on there?
797
00:30:20.230 --> 00:30:21.430
We're throwing lube and hurry.
798
00:30:21.470 --> 00:30:22.170
Oh, like hurry, hurry.
799
00:30:22.190 --> 00:30:23.170
If I'm in the mood, we're good.
800
00:30:23.210 --> 00:30:23.630
Right, right, right.
801
00:30:23.670 --> 00:30:24.829
I don't really need lube to be honest.
802
00:30:24.910 --> 00:30:26.849
Okay, so like if you're in the mood, stick it
803
00:30:26.890 --> 00:30:27.289
right in.
804
00:30:27.450 --> 00:30:28.029
Just hurry.
805
00:30:28.309 --> 00:30:28.670
Hurry.
806
00:30:28.789 --> 00:30:30.529
I'm kind of like hurry and make it good.
807
00:30:31.190 --> 00:30:31.329
Oh.
808
00:30:31.470 --> 00:30:34.230
But I'm not like an old, like, oh, I don't
809
00:30:34.269 --> 00:30:35.309
really want to have sex.
810
00:30:35.490 --> 00:30:35.650
Right.
811
00:30:35.670 --> 00:30:37.789
I go through seasons where, like, I think I can
812
00:30:37.829 --> 00:30:40.049
have sex with women longer than I can with men.
813
00:30:40.269 --> 00:30:40.650
Really?
814
00:30:40.670 --> 00:30:42.279
But maybe it's because you just get in there and it's, like,
815
00:30:42.319 --> 00:30:42.920
kind of done.
816
00:30:42.940 --> 00:30:43.259
Right.
817
00:30:43.319 --> 00:30:45.640
And I think women are much more attractive. I don't
818
00:30:45.660 --> 00:30:47.160
really want to stare at a dick for a long
819
00:30:47.180 --> 00:30:47.539
period of time.
820
00:30:47.559 --> 00:30:48.579
Get that thing out of my fucking face. You know
821
00:30:48.599 --> 00:30:48.839
what I mean?
822
00:30:48.859 --> 00:30:49.400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
823
00:30:49.440 --> 00:30:51.920
So, like, I could definitely have foreplay longer with a
824
00:30:51.960 --> 00:30:52.920
girl than I could with a guy.
825
00:30:52.940 --> 00:30:53.720
Wow.
826
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:55.220
I don't really want to look at a penis for
827
00:30:55.240 --> 00:30:56.569
any longer than I have to. I think that's why
828
00:30:56.589 --> 00:30:58.049
I want it to go inside so it gets out
829
00:30:58.089 --> 00:30:58.549
of my face.
830
00:30:58.569 --> 00:30:58.750
Yeah.
831
00:30:59.359 --> 00:31:00.299
I don't want it in my face.
832
00:31:00.319 --> 00:31:01.609
Dude, no, I always say to girls, like.
833
00:31:01.630 --> 00:31:02.650
I like dicks as an aesthetic.
834
00:31:02.710 --> 00:31:03.130
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
835
00:31:03.150 --> 00:31:04.480
Like, put them in sparkles. I don't like dicks as an.
836
00:31:04.509 --> 00:31:05.089
Exactly.
837
00:31:05.109 --> 00:31:07.089
Yeah, yeah. I always tell girls that are like, fuck,
838
00:31:07.109 --> 00:31:08.670
is it weird as shit? Like, I'm not a lesbian,
839
00:31:08.690 --> 00:31:09.950
but I watch Girl on Girl porn.
840
00:31:09.990 --> 00:31:10.559
Girls are way hotter.
841
00:31:10.579 --> 00:31:12.180
No, because you don't want to see a fucking dick
842
00:31:12.220 --> 00:31:13.799
in your face. We know this. We know this. I
843
00:31:13.799 --> 00:31:14.819
don't want that.
844
00:31:14.859 --> 00:31:19.140
But everyone, I think, can agree that from... Ancient times
845
00:31:19.500 --> 00:31:21.549
that dicks make wonderful sculpture.
846
00:31:22.210 --> 00:31:22.829
Beautiful.
847
00:31:22.849 --> 00:31:25.410
But more than that, I am not as interested.
848
00:31:25.730 --> 00:31:27.009
They're a little scary sometimes.
849
00:31:27.029 --> 00:31:28.849
I like dicks as art pieces.
850
00:31:28.970 --> 00:31:29.829
Yeah.
851
00:31:29.849 --> 00:31:30.690
And sculptural.
852
00:31:30.829 --> 00:31:33.470
I love the shape. I think it really looks good
853
00:31:33.539 --> 00:31:36.140
on a table. It's good if it can just get
854
00:31:36.259 --> 00:31:38.920
in and go away because I don't want it eyeing
855
00:31:38.960 --> 00:31:39.339
me off.
856
00:31:39.839 --> 00:31:42.559
That's how I truly feel. That honestly is so brilliant.
857
00:31:42.579 --> 00:31:43.380
I feel good about saying that.
858
00:31:43.759 --> 00:31:45.299
You're like, and listen to that and I'll say it again.
859
00:31:45.480 --> 00:31:48.660
Everyone knows that tits are prettier than balls. Everybody knows this.
860
00:31:49.200 --> 00:31:49.519
Sorry.
861
00:31:49.799 --> 00:31:50.190
Queen, yes.
862
00:31:50.559 --> 00:31:51.259
It's fucking true.
863
00:31:51.400 --> 00:31:51.950
Wait, can I ask you?
864
00:31:51.960 --> 00:31:53.849
That's why it's all about me because I'm secretly just
865
00:31:53.869 --> 00:31:54.680
looking at my own body.
866
00:31:54.769 --> 00:31:54.990
Right.
867
00:31:55.009 --> 00:31:56.369
You're like, I'm so fucking hot.
868
00:31:56.410 --> 00:31:58.690
Your dick is ugly, but look at this pussy.
869
00:31:58.710 --> 00:31:59.829
Exactly.
870
00:31:59.910 --> 00:32:01.430
And that's why it's almost hotter hooking up with girls.
871
00:32:01.450 --> 00:32:02.190
Margarita is for me.
872
00:32:02.329 --> 00:32:03.269
That's what I'm saying.
873
00:32:03.309 --> 00:32:04.440
Because you get turned on.
874
00:32:04.690 --> 00:32:06.589
I don't give a fuck. On your show, you're allowed
875
00:32:06.609 --> 00:32:08.829
to say it's all about me. It's all about me. Like,
876
00:32:09.109 --> 00:32:11.329
I want to look down and see me in my
877
00:32:11.410 --> 00:32:12.630
thing that makes me feel hot.
878
00:32:12.650 --> 00:32:14.470
Absolutely. You should just masturbate in front of a mirror
879
00:32:14.519 --> 00:32:14.779
all the time.
880
00:32:14.799 --> 00:32:16.720
I have some Chanel underwear that are actually not even
881
00:32:16.779 --> 00:32:17.880
hot for like a guy.
882
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:18.900
They're kind of like granny.
883
00:32:18.960 --> 00:32:19.180
Right.
884
00:32:19.220 --> 00:32:21.700
But they're so fashion and I'm so obsessed with them.
885
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:22.859
And so you wear them for you. So I wear
886
00:32:22.880 --> 00:32:23.230
them for me.
887
00:32:23.559 --> 00:32:25.440
And it's like that's amazing can I ask you because
888
00:32:25.519 --> 00:32:28.720
I think so many fucking women like are so terrified
889
00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:31.109
of their like is my vagina ugly like I feel
890
00:32:31.119 --> 00:32:33.130
like my labia lips aren't as cute or like my
891
00:32:33.170 --> 00:32:35.730
clits big or like whatever and I'm like no you
892
00:32:35.829 --> 00:32:37.450
have to own your fucking pussy.
893
00:32:37.269 --> 00:32:40.369
You just gotta become friends with yourself and like dig
894
00:32:40.470 --> 00:32:42.839
yourself love it and I also just think that there's
895
00:32:42.880 --> 00:32:45.980
like If you're starting to feel bad about your vagina,
896
00:32:46.000 --> 00:32:48.420
just Google dicks, and you'll start feeling okay.
897
00:32:48.660 --> 00:32:50.619
Wait, this is actually, like, kind of fact.
898
00:32:50.859 --> 00:32:50.980
Yeah.
899
00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:52.720
Like, look at that shrively little thing.
900
00:32:52.940 --> 00:32:55.039
Especially when it's done, it's like, oh, look at him.
901
00:32:55.259 --> 00:32:56.839
Little baby carrot. No, I know.
902
00:32:56.880 --> 00:32:59.240
We're not, like, I'm just, like, not, that's just not
903
00:32:59.259 --> 00:32:59.579
my thing.
904
00:32:59.599 --> 00:32:59.839
Yeah.
905
00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:02.200
And how did, like, if you've hooked up with men,
906
00:33:02.299 --> 00:33:04.009
can they tell that you're not into them? That I'm
907
00:33:04.029 --> 00:33:04.849
not into them? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
908
00:33:06.410 --> 00:33:10.480
I think that I wouldn't be doing it if I
909
00:33:10.519 --> 00:33:11.359
wasn't into it.
910
00:33:11.440 --> 00:33:11.680
True.
911
00:33:11.700 --> 00:33:13.569
So in the moment, I'm feeling it.
912
00:33:13.710 --> 00:33:16.539
But later... Are you not giving blowjobs? Like, if the guy....
913
00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:19.140
I've given a blowjob recently.
914
00:33:19.299 --> 00:33:19.740
Okay.
915
00:33:19.779 --> 00:33:21.400
But it wasn't as much fun as I thought it
916
00:33:21.420 --> 00:33:24.420
was going to be. It honestly just took too long.
917
00:33:24.730 --> 00:33:27.650
You're like, that was awful. I actually say every day, like,
918
00:33:27.710 --> 00:33:29.230
I don't really want to do morning sex, even though
919
00:33:29.250 --> 00:33:30.230
I used to really like to.
920
00:33:30.289 --> 00:33:30.630
Yeah.
921
00:33:30.650 --> 00:33:32.490
I don't really do it because I've got, like, when
922
00:33:32.509 --> 00:33:34.529
I'm thinking about the editors in New York and, like,
923
00:33:34.549 --> 00:33:37.569
I'm a little bit worried about them, like, you know,
924
00:33:38.410 --> 00:33:40.339
you saw the video that, like, making sure all the
925
00:33:40.380 --> 00:33:41.680
bubble gum looks glossy.
926
00:33:41.980 --> 00:33:42.819
That's more important.
927
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:43.700
It is more important.
928
00:33:43.720 --> 00:33:43.859
It is.
929
00:33:43.859 --> 00:33:45.880
And I just don't have time to sit around and, like,
930
00:33:45.920 --> 00:33:46.519
play with my vagina.
931
00:33:46.539 --> 00:33:46.619
Yeah.
932
00:33:47.170 --> 00:33:48.769
I need it to all be on my schedule.
933
00:33:48.829 --> 00:33:50.589
And you don't have time then. If you don't have that,
934
00:33:50.609 --> 00:33:51.509
then you don't have time to get suck a dick.
935
00:33:51.529 --> 00:33:53.609
And I'm not an asshole because men, if they say
936
00:33:53.650 --> 00:33:57.230
the same thing, they're a boss, they're running their business.
937
00:33:57.319 --> 00:33:58.890
Like that would be, what about the men that like,
938
00:33:59.519 --> 00:34:01.400
these are not all men, I'm not generalizing, but what
939
00:34:01.420 --> 00:34:04.380
about men that like, work on their kids' birthdays. My
940
00:34:04.420 --> 00:34:06.420
dad had to work on my birthday. If you're a
941
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:07.960
woman and you're like, listen, I don't have time to
942
00:34:07.980 --> 00:34:09.719
give you a blowjob because I want to work, you're
943
00:34:09.739 --> 00:34:11.530
an asshole. But if you don't show up to your
944
00:34:11.570 --> 00:34:14.590
child's birthday party because you got to get your business done,
945
00:34:14.829 --> 00:34:15.610
you're a boss.
946
00:34:15.789 --> 00:34:18.300
Yeah. That's fucked up. That is fucked up. That's fucked up.
947
00:34:18.489 --> 00:34:20.510
I'm glad you're like so open about this shit. Cause
948
00:34:20.550 --> 00:34:22.250
I feel like there are so many fucking girls that
949
00:34:22.269 --> 00:34:24.630
are like, yeah, like I just like twirl.
950
00:34:24.300 --> 00:34:26.139
On that dick and like, I'm just like wild.
951
00:34:26.199 --> 00:34:28.380
And I don't twirl on, I don't twirl period. And
952
00:34:28.420 --> 00:34:29.739
I definitely don't twirl on that dick.
953
00:34:29.760 --> 00:34:30.920
You're like, I don't do handstands.
954
00:34:30.980 --> 00:34:31.719
I'm not a twirler.
955
00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:34.219
Wait, okay. Can I ask you what your favorite position
956
00:34:34.280 --> 00:34:34.539
is then?
957
00:34:36.139 --> 00:34:39.239
My favorite thing is Lauren Conrad's video of CEO.
958
00:34:39.699 --> 00:34:40.300
Wait, what?
959
00:34:40.380 --> 00:34:43.360
So someone says, what's your favorite position? And she goes, CEO.
960
00:34:43.400 --> 00:34:44.340
What the fuck is that?
961
00:34:44.420 --> 00:34:46.719
So she's the head boss.
962
00:34:46.739 --> 00:34:49.280
She's the CEO. Oh, okay. That's my favorite.
963
00:34:49.380 --> 00:34:51.719
Oh, you want to know what it is?
964
00:34:51.960 --> 00:34:53.099
Not if you're bent over a desk.
965
00:34:53.159 --> 00:34:55.460
If you're sitting at the desk with your hands on
966
00:34:55.480 --> 00:34:57.960
the keyboard, writing an email to someone that didn't do
967
00:34:57.980 --> 00:34:59.619
what the fuck they were supposed to and you're making.
968
00:34:59.449 --> 00:35:00.719
Sure that they know that that's what happened.
969
00:35:00.929 --> 00:35:01.599
Wait, that's kind of hot.
970
00:35:01.610 --> 00:35:02.449
That's my favorite position.
971
00:35:02.469 --> 00:35:04.329
Okay, that's fair. Okay, I kind of like love that
972
00:35:04.349 --> 00:35:05.849
you answered with that. And I hate that I like
973
00:35:05.869 --> 00:35:09.510
was like, huh? This is an interesting question.
974
00:35:09.530 --> 00:35:10.090
Yeah.
975
00:35:10.829 --> 00:35:13.480
Now after you like thinking about like you, okay, so
976
00:35:13.500 --> 00:35:15.219
you like hooking up with girls. So if you had
977
00:35:15.260 --> 00:35:16.980
to pick for the rest of your life.
978
00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:17.460
I'm scared.
979
00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:20.320
You have to pick either getting eaten out or fingered
980
00:35:20.340 --> 00:35:21.260
and you can't get the other one.
981
00:35:21.280 --> 00:35:22.099
Which one are you getting?
982
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:26.239
I'd rather finger myself. I feel like I'm obsessed with me.
983
00:35:27.179 --> 00:35:27.800
I really am.
984
00:35:27.900 --> 00:35:29.909
Everyone else means that if you're going to get eaten out,
985
00:35:29.929 --> 00:35:31.670
someone else is going to be in the room and
986
00:35:31.730 --> 00:35:32.659
you're going to feel uncomfortable.
987
00:35:32.719 --> 00:35:33.139
I like when.
988
00:35:34.079 --> 00:35:37.480
When Megan Thee Stallion says, stop licking my pussy hard,
989
00:35:37.500 --> 00:35:38.500
that shit's aggravating.
990
00:35:38.820 --> 00:35:40.050
Like, that's really aggravating.
991
00:35:40.119 --> 00:35:40.409
Yeah.
992
00:35:40.820 --> 00:35:42.530
No, because I think it's hard because it's like, I
993
00:35:42.550 --> 00:35:44.730
feel like there's not as many people that know how
994
00:35:44.769 --> 00:35:47.690
to eat pussy, but fingering is so underrated and it
995
00:35:47.730 --> 00:35:48.909
can be so amazing.
996
00:35:49.320 --> 00:35:51.260
I'm just like into me. I'm going with fingering, but
997
00:35:51.280 --> 00:35:51.760
with myself.
998
00:35:51.800 --> 00:35:52.519
Yourself?
999
00:35:52.559 --> 00:35:52.780
Yes.
1000
00:35:52.860 --> 00:35:54.559
Honestly, that is the most daddy fucking statement.
1001
00:35:54.619 --> 00:35:55.639
My tongue is long, but not that long.
1002
00:35:56.489 --> 00:35:58.389
But honestly, maybe you could kind of get down there.
1003
00:35:58.429 --> 00:35:59.230
If I could remove a rib, maybe.
1004
00:35:59.389 --> 00:36:02.300
Do you have any favorite sex toys that you can
1005
00:36:02.500 --> 00:36:04.400
give advice for the Daddy Gang to get?
1006
00:36:04.440 --> 00:36:06.639
Okay, so here's my advice for you, which recently got
1007
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given to me, and I thought it was highly valuable.
1008
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So I thought I would pass it down generation to generation.
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Love.
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So one of my main gays was over at my
1011
00:36:14.179 --> 00:36:16.449
house helping me pick lighting for above my bed. We
1012
00:36:16.489 --> 00:36:17.949
were like, are we going to go with a chandelier?
1013
00:36:17.989 --> 00:36:19.349
Are we going to go with something modern? What are
1014
00:36:19.369 --> 00:36:20.969
we going to go with? And he's like, well, you
1015
00:36:21.010 --> 00:36:22.360
got to go with the flush mount. And I'm like,
1016
00:36:22.400 --> 00:36:23.559
what the fuck's a flush mount? And he's like, you
1017
00:36:23.599 --> 00:36:25.139
got to make sure it's like really tight to the
1018
00:36:25.179 --> 00:36:27.420
ceiling because you don't want when you stand up to
1019
00:36:27.460 --> 00:36:30.769
hit your head on the light fixture or like try
1020
00:36:30.809 --> 00:36:32.829
to grab onto it for fun and then pull it
1021
00:36:32.909 --> 00:36:34.869
out of the wall and then it come crashing down
1022
00:36:34.949 --> 00:36:36.989
and part of the chandelier go through your partner's sternum.
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Now you're a murderer.
1024
00:36:38.719 --> 00:36:40.139
I'm sorry, what?
1025
00:36:40.199 --> 00:36:42.139
It got so deep, but I was like, apparently he's
1026
00:36:42.179 --> 00:36:46.199
like speaking from like, I'm guessing from trauma or experience.
1027
00:36:46.219 --> 00:36:47.909
He's like, this has happened to me. Don't try it.
1028
00:36:47.909 --> 00:36:48.789
So he stands up on my bed.
1029
00:36:48.849 --> 00:36:50.510
Luckily, he's six foot two. So I did go with
1030
00:36:50.530 --> 00:36:52.090
the chandelier, but I don't think that's going to be
1031
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a problem.
1032
00:36:52.630 --> 00:36:53.269
Okay, great.
1033
00:36:53.289 --> 00:36:56.369
So he was telling me that for future reference to
1034
00:36:56.469 --> 00:36:57.809
always be really, see.
1035
00:36:57.829 --> 00:37:00.150
This is about logic. I'm all about logic.
1036
00:37:00.610 --> 00:37:03.179
So for particular, you got to be very particular about
1037
00:37:03.260 --> 00:37:06.059
lighting above your bed because it's one step away from
1038
00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:06.559
being a murderer.
1039
00:37:07.489 --> 00:37:08.690
That's the advice that I was given.
1040
00:37:08.730 --> 00:37:10.150
Wait, that is really interesting.
1041
00:37:10.170 --> 00:37:11.869
So he said that the chandelier was like, if you
1042
00:37:11.889 --> 00:37:13.610
grab onto it, if it comes out of the wall
1043
00:37:13.650 --> 00:37:15.710
and you pick one of the ones that are like classic,
1044
00:37:15.750 --> 00:37:17.670
like chandelier style, that it can come down and go
1045
00:37:17.730 --> 00:37:20.949
crashing through the person's sternum. And that seems like a
1046
00:37:20.989 --> 00:37:21.980
nightmare trying to explain.
1047
00:37:22.730 --> 00:37:23.050
Miley?
1048
00:37:23.090 --> 00:37:24.429
If I'm going to kill someone, it's definitely not going
1049
00:37:24.449 --> 00:37:25.289
to be with a chandelier.
1050
00:37:25.309 --> 00:37:25.469
So, wait.
1051
00:37:25.550 --> 00:37:26.590
Even though that's kind of chic.
1052
00:37:26.610 --> 00:37:29.079
Is anyone following where, when I said, what's a good
1053
00:37:29.119 --> 00:37:31.780
sex toy? You want. You said advice. Oh, wait. So,
1054
00:37:31.800 --> 00:37:33.590
that was advice. My advice for you.
1055
00:37:33.599 --> 00:37:35.400
Okay, so I feel like everyone listening is like, okay,
1056
00:37:35.420 --> 00:37:36.809
don't put the chandelier above the.
1057
00:37:36.840 --> 00:37:38.539
You don't put the chandelier just because you don't want
1058
00:37:38.559 --> 00:37:39.059
to kill someone.
1059
00:37:39.079 --> 00:37:40.639
Honestly, I. And you don't want to hit your head.
1060
00:37:40.679 --> 00:37:43.130
That's embarrassing. And also, I feel like the whole murder thing,
1061
00:37:43.170 --> 00:37:44.090
I'm just like not down.
1062
00:37:44.170 --> 00:37:44.610
I'm not in the mood.
1063
00:37:44.650 --> 00:37:45.329
I'm already weird.
1064
00:37:45.469 --> 00:37:46.989
I'm already weird about getting embarrassed.
1065
00:37:47.010 --> 00:37:48.789
Like, I get embarrassed really, really easy.
1066
00:37:48.869 --> 00:37:49.150
Really?
1067
00:37:49.170 --> 00:37:49.380
Wait, why?
1068
00:37:49.389 --> 00:37:51.409
And if I get like red, it will stick.
1069
00:37:51.610 --> 00:37:54.010
What would you get embarrassed about, like in the bedroom?
1070
00:37:54.030 --> 00:37:58.880
I just don't really ever want like crazy sounds. Oh, yeah.
1071
00:37:58.889 --> 00:37:59.409
Crazy sounds.
1072
00:37:59.429 --> 00:38:00.579
Dude, that's so fucking worse.
1073
00:38:00.699 --> 00:38:03.719
Or falling. I'm always scared that I'm going.
1074
00:38:03.260 --> 00:38:04.340
To like roll.
1075
00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:06.619
When you fall off a bed mid-sex and you try
1076
00:38:06.659 --> 00:38:08.320
to like, let's keep it going.
1077
00:38:08.380 --> 00:38:11.059
I don't do falls. Falls freak me out.
1078
00:38:11.139 --> 00:38:13.320
I've really only fallen, knock on wood, this is probably
1079
00:38:13.340 --> 00:38:15.079
going to happen to me soon, a handful of times
1080
00:38:15.119 --> 00:38:16.860
in my life. And this is, I'm not trying to
1081
00:38:16.900 --> 00:38:17.139
do it.
1082
00:38:17.320 --> 00:38:19.320
And do you just stop? You can't continue sex?
1083
00:38:19.659 --> 00:38:22.030
I'll continue and try to make it a shtick.
1084
00:38:22.269 --> 00:38:24.050
Right. But in your head, you're like, I hate myself.
1085
00:38:24.090 --> 00:38:26.269
That's the kind of physical comedy in me to be like,
1086
00:38:26.309 --> 00:38:28.510
that was on purpose. It's like a Charlie Chaplin kind
1087
00:38:28.530 --> 00:38:28.849
of move.
1088
00:38:28.909 --> 00:38:31.389
But no. You're like, but no, I'm actually not enjoying
1089
00:38:31.409 --> 00:38:31.820
this now.
1090
00:38:32.139 --> 00:38:35.119
I would not want anything really embarrassing to happen.
1091
00:38:35.300 --> 00:38:36.099
I actually agree.
1092
00:38:36.119 --> 00:38:37.800
Killing someone with a chandelier seems really embarrassing.
1093
00:38:37.820 --> 00:38:38.780
I feel like that's the ultimate.
1094
00:38:38.820 --> 00:38:39.280
That's the ultimate.
1095
00:38:39.300 --> 00:38:40.480
It's not even embarrassing. It's also life-changing.
1096
00:38:40.500 --> 00:38:41.420
But I did think it was good advice, and I
1097
00:38:41.440 --> 00:38:42.960
was wondering why I didn't think about it before.
1098
00:38:43.239 --> 00:38:45.710
No, I actually, I think because a lot of people don't...
1099
00:38:47.159 --> 00:38:49.340
How lighting over there? Yeah, yeah, yeah. There was a
1100
00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:51.159
light already when I moved in. That's a rich bitch problem.
1101
00:38:51.179 --> 00:38:53.530
But it was down towards the end, which I thought
1102
00:38:53.550 --> 00:38:54.250
was okay.
1103
00:38:54.269 --> 00:38:54.730
Okay, yeah.
1104
00:38:54.989 --> 00:38:57.090
And then he was saying no because what if you
1105
00:38:57.130 --> 00:38:59.340
go the other way? Like, it's just.
1106
00:39:00.139 --> 00:39:01.480
That's a rich person problem.
1107
00:39:01.579 --> 00:39:04.099
Listen, this was apparently like a six foot four gay
1108
00:39:04.119 --> 00:39:05.599
guy problem. I don't think I'm ever going to get
1109
00:39:05.639 --> 00:39:07.300
close enough to a light, but I did think.
1110
00:39:07.179 --> 00:39:10.420
It was good advice. Okay. So everybody listening, guys, chandeliers,
1111
00:39:10.440 --> 00:39:11.960
no fucking go. No fucking go.
1112
00:39:12.000 --> 00:39:14.219
Or just anything that could like, you don't want to be,
1113
00:39:14.389 --> 00:39:16.590
you don't, you don't want to mix interior and sex.
1114
00:39:16.690 --> 00:39:18.389
No, that's really great advice.
1115
00:39:18.409 --> 00:39:20.909
I honestly have never thought about that specific situation and
1116
00:39:20.989 --> 00:39:22.070
I'll always keep that in mind.
1117
00:39:22.090 --> 00:39:23.670
See, now when you walk into a hotel room and
1118
00:39:23.690 --> 00:39:24.570
there's a fucking.
1119
00:39:24.269 --> 00:39:25.840
Light above the bed, you're gonna think about me you're
1120
00:39:25.920 --> 00:39:29.739
gonna be like no cap the light we're like we're done.
1121
00:39:29.880 --> 00:39:31.880
Okay what about do you use sex toys or just
1122
00:39:31.900 --> 00:39:32.760
your fingers.
1123
00:39:33.059 --> 00:39:35.389
Um i like sex toys most of my sex toys
1124
00:39:35.449 --> 00:39:38.969
i use as see i i'm i'm very um contradictory
1125
00:39:38.989 --> 00:39:41.550
i was just saying don't involve sex and interior design
1126
00:39:41.570 --> 00:39:43.989
but i do like sex toys as interior design okay
1127
00:39:44.170 --> 00:39:45.650
So a lot of the time I'll buy a dildo
1128
00:39:45.769 --> 00:39:47.699
and like more than about its operation.
1129
00:39:47.719 --> 00:39:50.639
You want it to look cute? This is from Pleasure Chest.
1130
00:39:50.960 --> 00:39:53.599
So this is actually like real, but I don't really
1131
00:39:53.619 --> 00:39:55.059
want to get in there with it because I love
1132
00:39:55.079 --> 00:39:55.760
the way that it looks.
1133
00:39:55.659 --> 00:39:57.099
On the table. Yeah, guys, it's literally like a blue
1134
00:39:57.159 --> 00:39:58.639
sparkly dick and it's honestly.
1135
00:39:58.880 --> 00:39:59.639
It's so cute.
1136
00:39:59.719 --> 00:40:02.119
It's really cute. It's really, really cute. It's really cute.
1137
00:40:02.139 --> 00:40:04.639
So I'm really into dildos for interior design and I
1138
00:40:04.719 --> 00:40:06.500
buy them for myself, but I end up using them
1139
00:40:06.519 --> 00:40:07.260
for interior design.
1140
00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:08.820
So like you're like, I'll probably use that one day
1141
00:40:08.880 --> 00:40:10.219
and then you end up just putting it out in
1142
00:40:10.260 --> 00:40:11.090
like your family room.
1143
00:40:11.139 --> 00:40:11.699
Yeah, exactly.
1144
00:40:11.719 --> 00:40:11.840
Yeah.
1145
00:40:11.889 --> 00:40:12.909
Do you like vibrators?
1146
00:40:13.260 --> 00:40:16.889
I like vibrators, but I really just like mostly aesthetic
1147
00:40:16.929 --> 00:40:18.570
and I feel like I'm like pretty good with like
1148
00:40:18.590 --> 00:40:19.429
dealing with myself.
1149
00:40:19.530 --> 00:40:20.789
Wait, that's pretty great.
1150
00:40:20.829 --> 00:40:21.010
Yeah.
1151
00:40:21.170 --> 00:40:22.550
And how do you like when do you think you
1152
00:40:22.570 --> 00:40:24.849
got super like you said you've always been confident, but
1153
00:40:24.869 --> 00:40:28.110
do you think you've always been like super confident sexually
1154
00:40:28.130 --> 00:40:28.889
within yourself?
1155
00:40:29.650 --> 00:40:31.730
I've gone through a lot of seasons like I feel
1156
00:40:31.750 --> 00:40:33.889
like it's very reflective of where I am and if
1157
00:40:33.929 --> 00:40:35.889
you talk to me in a year which we should
1158
00:40:35.909 --> 00:40:38.409
we should talk about this again when I'm not busy
1159
00:40:38.429 --> 00:40:40.750
because when I'm not busy my sex drive is totally
1160
00:40:40.789 --> 00:40:43.550
different really and I think that's something like it goes
1161
00:40:43.650 --> 00:40:46.750
up also with women I when I'm working it goes
1162
00:40:46.829 --> 00:40:49.690
down because I'm like oh so in my zone of
1163
00:40:49.750 --> 00:40:52.150
working that you're kind of like I don't have time
1164
00:40:52.369 --> 00:40:54.929
one I did read an amazing book about kind of
1165
00:40:54.969 --> 00:40:58.679
like adrenals and your hormones and I have low cholesterol
1166
00:40:58.699 --> 00:41:01.239
and when you have low cholesterol it affects your sex
1167
00:41:01.260 --> 00:41:04.510
drive and when I'm like working I don't eat as
1168
00:41:04.570 --> 00:41:08.989
regularly then my cholesterol gets low your cholesterol controls all
1169
00:41:09.010 --> 00:41:11.110
the hormones in your body so when you get low
1170
00:41:11.139 --> 00:41:14.530
blood sugar low cholesterol not eating like snacks and things
1171
00:41:14.550 --> 00:41:15.030
like that.
1172
00:41:15.050 --> 00:41:15.289
Yeah.
1173
00:41:15.590 --> 00:41:16.969
By the end of the night, if I'm hungry, I'm
1174
00:41:16.989 --> 00:41:17.690
definitely not horny.
1175
00:41:17.909 --> 00:41:19.869
Wait, that's why I never even knew that. That's really
1176
00:41:19.889 --> 00:41:20.550
good information.
1177
00:41:20.570 --> 00:41:21.489
You've got to check your cholesterol.
1178
00:41:21.510 --> 00:41:24.010
So people, guys, cholesterol. It's really logical.
1179
00:41:24.030 --> 00:41:25.820
Dude, that's really smart because like, I feel like there
1180
00:41:25.840 --> 00:41:28.039
are so many girls like, why am I like never horny?
1181
00:41:28.079 --> 00:41:31.460
And like, check your cholesterol. Apparently, Miley says, check your cholesterol.
1182
00:41:31.500 --> 00:41:33.820
It creates all your hormones and it'll change your life.
1183
00:41:34.519 --> 00:41:37.190
Sometimes I will, like, okay, what is fucked up is
1184
00:41:37.250 --> 00:41:39.750
if I will eat, like, something, like, crazy.
1185
00:41:39.789 --> 00:41:41.329
Like, I'm like, fuck this. I've been working all day.
1186
00:41:41.369 --> 00:41:42.969
I'm ordering, like, a shit ton of Mexican food.
1187
00:41:42.989 --> 00:41:43.199
Yeah.
1188
00:41:43.500 --> 00:41:44.920
Then all of a sudden I get horny. I'm like,
1189
00:41:44.940 --> 00:41:47.119
horrible timing. Like, I was looking so hot all day long.
1190
00:41:47.139 --> 00:41:48.880
And then you're feeling bloated as fuck. But then I get,
1191
00:41:48.980 --> 00:41:50.269
it's my cholesterol goes.
1192
00:41:50.239 --> 00:41:51.349
Up and my blood sugar.
1193
00:41:51.369 --> 00:41:51.429
Oh.
1194
00:41:52.619 --> 00:41:54.219
And then you're like, I'm going to go poop. I
1195
00:41:54.260 --> 00:41:55.360
can't have sex right now.
1196
00:41:55.389 --> 00:41:55.760
I don't feel hot.
1197
00:41:55.780 --> 00:41:57.050
Sometimes you just got to knock it all out.
1198
00:41:57.110 --> 00:41:59.449
Yeah, sometimes you got to do it all.
1199
00:41:59.469 --> 00:41:59.539
Wow.
1200
00:41:59.929 --> 00:42:00.289
Okay, wait.
1201
00:42:00.329 --> 00:42:02.710
This is kind of like a really interesting question that
1202
00:42:02.750 --> 00:42:04.809
like is kind of turning. But like how many times
1203
00:42:04.849 --> 00:42:05.769
have you been in love?
1204
00:42:06.150 --> 00:42:09.650
How many times have I been in love? I've been
1205
00:42:09.670 --> 00:42:12.389
in love three times.
1206
00:42:12.610 --> 00:42:13.230
Three.
1207
00:42:13.250 --> 00:42:14.710
I've been in love three times.
1208
00:42:14.730 --> 00:42:14.800
Wow.
1209
00:42:15.070 --> 00:42:15.929
But I've been in love.
1210
00:42:16.690 --> 00:42:19.269
More than in love with anyone else one time and
1211
00:42:19.289 --> 00:42:22.090
then I think that kind of sticks around yeah um
1212
00:42:22.449 --> 00:42:24.369
but I've been in love I've been in love with
1213
00:42:24.949 --> 00:42:28.590
I would say one person who is a girl that
1214
00:42:28.630 --> 00:42:30.170
I still think about and like dream about all the
1215
00:42:30.190 --> 00:42:32.369
time but you just know that something just doesn't fit
1216
00:42:32.929 --> 00:42:34.349
and I think that's something that I learned a lot
1217
00:42:34.369 --> 00:42:36.349
in therapy too like you just can't try to fit
1218
00:42:36.389 --> 00:42:38.949
this fucking swear into a circle because you start driving
1219
00:42:38.989 --> 00:42:43.199
yourself to a place where Like, trying to make something
1220
00:42:43.300 --> 00:42:46.550
that is physically impossible work will drive you insane.
1221
00:42:46.710 --> 00:42:49.070
That is, like, so fucking mature of you to say that.
1222
00:42:49.090 --> 00:42:51.610
Because I think that sometimes when there's love, it's really
1223
00:42:51.690 --> 00:42:54.130
hard to walk away from something, even if it's not working.
1224
00:42:54.190 --> 00:42:55.780
But the fact that you can sit here and be like,
1225
00:42:55.900 --> 00:42:56.460
I'm in love.
1226
00:42:56.480 --> 00:42:56.960
Like, I love that person.
1227
00:42:56.980 --> 00:42:58.679
I also don't believe in want your love.
1228
00:42:58.840 --> 00:42:59.159
Me either.
1229
00:42:59.179 --> 00:42:59.360
Fuck that.
1230
00:42:59.380 --> 00:43:00.340
I don't believe in want your love.
1231
00:43:00.360 --> 00:43:00.579
Fuck that.
1232
00:43:00.639 --> 00:43:00.860
Fuck no.
1233
00:43:00.880 --> 00:43:03.139
Because there are qualities that people bring to your life
1234
00:43:03.179 --> 00:43:04.519
that one person never will again.
1235
00:43:04.539 --> 00:43:06.110
Totally. Like, they're just.
1236
00:43:06.510 --> 00:43:07.369
I don't believe in one true love.
1237
00:43:07.429 --> 00:43:09.090
The fact that your answer to if you want to
1238
00:43:09.110 --> 00:43:10.670
get eaten out or fingered and you said, I want
1239
00:43:10.690 --> 00:43:12.070
to get fingered, but I also want to do it
1240
00:43:12.090 --> 00:43:13.050
by fucking self.
1241
00:43:13.070 --> 00:43:14.949
Yeah. Miley fucking Cyrus.
1242
00:43:15.010 --> 00:43:16.369
Dude, that's your daddy game.
1243
00:43:16.389 --> 00:43:16.690
Yeah.
1244
00:43:16.730 --> 00:43:18.590
This is the way it rolls. If you want something
1245
00:43:18.610 --> 00:43:20.510
done right, you do it the fuck yourself.
1246
00:43:20.800 --> 00:43:22.050
Did you guys hear that?
1247
00:43:22.199 --> 00:43:22.820
That's what I'm saying.
1248
00:43:22.900 --> 00:43:26.539
Otherwise, you're going to have to like give notes and
1249
00:43:26.619 --> 00:43:29.360
give feedback. I also don't want to like give someone
1250
00:43:29.400 --> 00:43:31.340
a pat on the back after it's honestly.
1251
00:43:31.019 --> 00:43:31.780
Not that hard.
1252
00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:33.280
And it's not that hard. And also, I could probably
1253
00:43:33.300 --> 00:43:33.679
do it better.
1254
00:43:33.800 --> 00:43:34.780
That's what I'm saying.
1255
00:43:34.820 --> 00:43:35.119
Yeah.
1256
00:43:35.280 --> 00:43:36.030
I just can't reach.
1257
00:43:36.360 --> 00:43:38.250
Wait, okay, so your new song.
1258
00:43:38.289 --> 00:43:40.590
Sex and interior design go actually really hand in hand.
1259
00:43:40.610 --> 00:43:42.110
I love how you keep saying interior design. Here's the
1260
00:43:42.150 --> 00:43:44.010
thing about it. I love interior design. Here's the thing
1261
00:43:44.050 --> 00:43:46.309
about it. My only problem with not being able to
1262
00:43:46.369 --> 00:43:47.969
do interior design by myself is a lot of the
1263
00:43:48.010 --> 00:43:50.619
times I can't reach. Otherwise, I could do it all myself.
1264
00:43:51.079 --> 00:43:52.920
You're kind of like the woman that does it all.
1265
00:43:52.940 --> 00:43:54.199
So you're like, just get a fucking ladder.
1266
00:43:54.280 --> 00:43:55.719
Just get a ladder. Like if you could get a ladder,
1267
00:43:55.739 --> 00:43:57.219
then you would do it. I'm freaked about ladders.
1268
00:43:57.239 --> 00:43:58.199
I'm scared of heights.
1269
00:43:58.280 --> 00:43:58.960
I'm scared of heights.
1270
00:43:59.460 --> 00:44:00.079
I hate flying.
1271
00:44:00.260 --> 00:44:00.809
Wait, can I ask you?
1272
00:44:00.820 --> 00:44:02.989
I have people ask to move. Like people won't sit
1273
00:44:03.010 --> 00:44:03.610
by me on the plane.
1274
00:44:04.239 --> 00:44:05.800
Wait, really? Swear to God. Wait, why?
1275
00:44:05.820 --> 00:44:06.650
This one woman was.
1276
00:44:06.570 --> 00:44:10.639
Sober and started drinking beers ferociously because I was screaming
1277
00:44:10.659 --> 00:44:13.050
that we're not getting enough speed. And so she ordered
1278
00:44:13.110 --> 00:44:13.309
a beer.
1279
00:44:13.369 --> 00:44:15.820
We're not getting enough speed, sir. Do you ever feel
1280
00:44:15.840 --> 00:44:16.320
like you are?
1281
00:44:16.380 --> 00:44:17.619
Don't you hate when you get up in the air
1282
00:44:17.639 --> 00:44:19.860
and then all of a sudden it feels like they go,
1283
00:44:19.980 --> 00:44:20.820
and I can feel.
1284
00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:22.840
Like I'm like, I don't. Wait, do you fly commercial?
1285
00:44:22.860 --> 00:44:23.739
Yeah, and I hate flying.
1286
00:44:23.760 --> 00:44:24.599
Wait, how does that go?
1287
00:44:25.420 --> 00:44:28.650
Apparently not so well because I'm like boycotted by, well,
1288
00:44:28.809 --> 00:44:31.389
I've actually, yeah, I was on a no fly list
1289
00:44:31.429 --> 00:44:33.449
for a second and I'll show you because everyone assumed
1290
00:44:33.469 --> 00:44:34.610
I was just going to bring in drugs.
1291
00:44:34.690 --> 00:44:34.929
Wait.
1292
00:44:35.849 --> 00:44:38.110
But then I fixed it. I could only go into
1293
00:44:38.150 --> 00:44:41.059
work basically. So yeah, the flying gets a little sketched
1294
00:44:41.179 --> 00:44:44.559
because I get, searched, like, extra crazy.
1295
00:44:44.639 --> 00:44:48.219
I think that's literally the complete opposite of what I thought.
1296
00:44:48.280 --> 00:44:48.449
Oh, no.
1297
00:44:48.449 --> 00:44:49.929
You're like, yeah, it's hard because people come up to me.
1298
00:44:49.929 --> 00:44:51.869
You're like, I can't because they think I'm bringing drugs.
1299
00:44:51.889 --> 00:44:53.030
They just assume that I'm bringing drugs.
1300
00:44:53.849 --> 00:44:54.650
Wait, what?
1301
00:44:54.670 --> 00:44:56.489
But you can fly kind of late. Like, people won't
1302
00:44:56.510 --> 00:44:58.210
come up to you, like, too crazy, like, attack you.
1303
00:44:58.230 --> 00:44:59.250
Some people bug me.
1304
00:44:59.809 --> 00:45:03.489
I actually like people not treating... Yeah.
1305
00:45:03.510 --> 00:45:06.469
So I had a guy on, a queen on Delta
1306
00:45:06.510 --> 00:45:07.929
the other day that treated me like shit and I
1307
00:45:08.230 --> 00:45:08.610
loved him.
1308
00:45:08.630 --> 00:45:09.710
Wait, you're like, I'm horny.
1309
00:45:09.769 --> 00:45:10.010
Yeah.
1310
00:45:10.130 --> 00:45:11.090
I'll actually fuck you.
1311
00:45:11.110 --> 00:45:13.110
He was like mad at me because I was watching
1312
00:45:13.130 --> 00:45:15.610
my HGTV too loud and I could never hear him
1313
00:45:15.630 --> 00:45:18.079
when he was asking me things and he was annoyed
1314
00:45:18.280 --> 00:45:19.300
and I loved him.
1315
00:45:19.340 --> 00:45:20.360
He was mean to Bradley too.
1316
00:45:20.400 --> 00:45:22.619
He was mean to you. Wait, that's kind of amazing.
1317
00:45:22.639 --> 00:45:25.139
We won him over. You're like, I fucking love this.
1318
00:45:25.260 --> 00:45:27.159
But this queen on Delta was so fucking mean to
1319
00:45:27.179 --> 00:45:28.980
me and I like wanted to give him the biggest
1320
00:45:29.000 --> 00:45:30.059
hug for it, but he did not want to hug
1321
00:45:30.079 --> 00:45:30.320
for me.
1322
00:45:30.340 --> 00:45:32.519
Yeah. But you're like, I love you. He's like, bitch,
1323
00:45:32.579 --> 00:45:33.920
what are you talking about? I hate you. Yeah, he
1324
00:45:33.960 --> 00:45:35.199
did not like me. Wow.
1325
00:45:35.400 --> 00:45:36.219
But I loved him.
1326
00:45:36.420 --> 00:45:37.300
Okay, so you're afraid of heights.
1327
00:45:37.360 --> 00:45:39.159
I hate when people treat people special.
1328
00:45:39.239 --> 00:45:40.800
Me too. I'd rather... Yeah.
1329
00:45:41.199 --> 00:45:44.909
I definitely treat the people that are the lowest on
1330
00:45:44.949 --> 00:45:47.230
the call sheet better than I would at the top.
1331
00:45:47.389 --> 00:45:48.789
I have so much respect for you saying that.
1332
00:45:48.809 --> 00:45:50.469
Because so many people already fucking do that for the
1333
00:45:50.489 --> 00:45:51.869
people at the top. You don't need me to jerk
1334
00:45:51.889 --> 00:45:52.110
you off.
1335
00:45:52.150 --> 00:45:52.619
Everyone else is.
1336
00:45:52.670 --> 00:45:53.070
Exactly.
1337
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:55.559
Boom. And I think it's also a refreshing cause like
1338
00:45:55.579 --> 00:45:57.210
you are so like, I mean, sitting here with you,
1339
00:45:57.260 --> 00:45:58.260
I'm like, I, you're so.
1340
00:45:58.300 --> 00:46:01.539
Normal that it's getting gorged by the, I know guys, wait,
1341
00:46:01.559 --> 00:46:04.199
do we look so hot in these cameras right now?
1342
00:46:04.239 --> 00:46:09.369
Miley's tits are popping. We're ready. Um, can you just,
1343
00:46:09.909 --> 00:46:11.710
just cause it's like my childhood and I'm thinking about it.
1344
00:46:11.710 --> 00:46:11.869
Sorry.
1345
00:46:11.909 --> 00:46:12.409
I just pulled this.
1346
00:46:12.630 --> 00:46:15.570
Um, do you now feel like you're in a place
1347
00:46:15.670 --> 00:46:19.090
where like, you can accept Hannah Montana and you look
1348
00:46:19.130 --> 00:46:21.329
back and you enjoy it. Because honestly, your throwbacks are
1349
00:46:21.349 --> 00:46:22.130
fucking everything.
1350
00:46:22.170 --> 00:46:22.940
I'm obsessed with it.
1351
00:46:23.090 --> 00:46:26.610
They taught me how to glue my fucking wig down.
1352
00:46:26.630 --> 00:46:27.909
Yeah, the extensions.
1353
00:46:28.030 --> 00:46:30.210
I was already so ready for this world.
1354
00:46:30.230 --> 00:46:31.250
Yeah, literally.
1355
00:46:31.289 --> 00:46:33.610
They prepared me in a way that you cannot pay
1356
00:46:33.670 --> 00:46:37.130
money for. My wig was snatched at age 11.
1357
00:46:37.130 --> 00:46:37.690
What were you doing?
1358
00:46:37.750 --> 00:46:40.489
Bitch, you were literally in it. Everyone wanted your hair.
1359
00:46:40.610 --> 00:46:42.429
I love that there's this video of me and I'm
1360
00:46:42.449 --> 00:46:44.610
probably like 12 and I'm going through my fucking tour
1361
00:46:44.659 --> 00:46:46.440
bus and I have a shirt that says just got
1362
00:46:46.480 --> 00:46:48.619
off the catwalk and I'm talking about how it's my favorite.
1363
00:46:49.019 --> 00:46:51.239
And then I turn around and I'm like, and that's
1364
00:46:51.300 --> 00:46:53.360
my wig. And I'm like, what 11 year old do
1365
00:46:53.420 --> 00:46:57.670
you know that has real hair lace front sitting on?
1366
00:46:58.139 --> 00:47:00.440
A mannequin head with just like, it.
1367
00:47:00.070 --> 00:47:02.610
Was, it was a dream. That is kind of wild.
1368
00:47:02.630 --> 00:47:05.010
It seemed like a nightmare when I wanted to escape it,
1369
00:47:05.030 --> 00:47:07.369
but that's just being 18. Like you want to escape
1370
00:47:07.409 --> 00:47:09.389
who you are, even if it was just someone from,
1371
00:47:09.409 --> 00:47:10.070
you know.
1372
00:47:10.090 --> 00:47:11.210
Well, and sometimes you just need a.
1373
00:47:11.239 --> 00:47:13.380
Little bit of distance to then like appreciate it. And
1374
00:47:13.539 --> 00:47:15.820
obviously during bangers and stuff, you're like, stop calling me
1375
00:47:15.840 --> 00:47:16.579
fucking Hannah Montana.
1376
00:47:16.599 --> 00:47:19.039
That's been the same way in relationships too. Like at
1377
00:47:19.099 --> 00:47:21.179
first when I got out of my long time relationship
1378
00:47:21.199 --> 00:47:24.400
and it, didn't work and that was really like traumatizing
1379
00:47:24.539 --> 00:47:26.500
also now I'm in a place where I just look
1380
00:47:26.579 --> 00:47:28.480
at it and love it and like respect it and
1381
00:47:28.960 --> 00:47:31.300
it just is such an amazing time in my life
1382
00:47:31.619 --> 00:47:33.760
the relationship that I had for 10 years was an
1383
00:47:33.820 --> 00:47:36.340
amazing time in my life and the relationship that I
1384
00:47:36.389 --> 00:47:40.030
had like with myself as Hannah and like all that
1385
00:47:40.050 --> 00:47:41.829
that was a great time in my life and like
1386
00:47:41.909 --> 00:47:43.650
I loved working with my dad every day at the
1387
00:47:43.690 --> 00:47:46.309
time I didn't know how lucky I was like so
1388
00:47:46.530 --> 00:47:48.210
all the times in my life even the ones that
1389
00:47:48.230 --> 00:47:52.090
have been really fucking in my mind not the best.
1390
00:47:52.110 --> 00:47:54.619
Somehow they just added up to like, I love who
1391
00:47:54.639 --> 00:47:57.380
I am so much right now that if any of
1392
00:47:57.440 --> 00:47:58.940
those things wouldn't have happened, I'm not sure that I
1393
00:47:58.960 --> 00:48:00.000
would be the same person.
1394
00:48:00.019 --> 00:48:01.139
So I'm just super stoked.
1395
00:48:01.280 --> 00:48:04.000
Dude, that is so fucking beautiful, Miley. And I'm so
1396
00:48:04.239 --> 00:48:06.400
happy for you. Honestly, like when you were showing me
1397
00:48:06.420 --> 00:48:10.639
your music video, I was like, you look really happy
1398
00:48:10.699 --> 00:48:12.199
and you're so proud of what you're doing. And like,
1399
00:48:12.219 --> 00:48:13.969
you can tell, I mean the fucking song guys go
1400
00:48:14.010 --> 00:48:16.570
listen to the fucking song because my God, it's like,
1401
00:48:16.670 --> 00:48:18.570
it is so fucking good.
1402
00:48:18.590 --> 00:48:22.340
The song is, the song is, I felt like a
1403
00:48:22.400 --> 00:48:25.590
bridge that was like really missing through my narrative for
1404
00:48:25.630 --> 00:48:28.429
my fans and for the public. And I'm just so
1405
00:48:28.510 --> 00:48:30.909
happy that I was able to build it my fucking self.
1406
00:48:31.780 --> 00:48:33.920
So don't fucking water under the motherfucking bridge.
1407
00:48:34.019 --> 00:48:34.519
Let me move on.
1408
00:48:34.559 --> 00:48:36.510
Cause also, I mean, another thing that I guess is
1409
00:48:37.269 --> 00:48:40.070
really relevant for your show is that I feel like
1410
00:48:40.190 --> 00:48:42.550
as a woman, I was villainized for moving on.
1411
00:48:42.570 --> 00:48:42.650
Yeah.
1412
00:48:43.829 --> 00:48:47.389
And I really think that that's not acceptable.
1413
00:48:47.409 --> 00:48:48.099
Yeah.
1414
00:48:48.159 --> 00:48:50.940
At the time I had posted, you know, George Clooney
1415
00:48:50.980 --> 00:48:53.940
and Brad Pitt and all these guys like Johnny Depp
1416
00:48:53.960 --> 00:48:57.079
who have gone through women and they're known as the Like.
1417
00:48:56.860 --> 00:48:59.940
Players and they're like glamorized and it's like, oh, they're
1418
00:48:59.980 --> 00:49:01.050
so hot and they're amazing.
1419
00:49:01.110 --> 00:49:01.989
And everyone wants to be with them.
1420
00:49:02.010 --> 00:49:03.090
And the one thing is like, I would have much
1421
00:49:03.119 --> 00:49:06.289
rather the public, you know, like, I guess.
1422
00:49:07.250 --> 00:49:08.150
Like, why are you not a boss?
1423
00:49:08.170 --> 00:49:10.769
Villainize me because of my sexuality, but they tried to
1424
00:49:10.809 --> 00:49:13.849
make me seem like I was disloyal, which is like
1425
00:49:13.949 --> 00:49:15.530
so against my fucking character.
1426
00:49:15.590 --> 00:49:17.150
You attacked my fucking character.
1427
00:49:17.230 --> 00:49:17.489
Yeah.
1428
00:49:17.590 --> 00:49:20.909
And my character is everything that is my fantasy. That's
1429
00:49:20.949 --> 00:49:22.289
like what I thrive on.
1430
00:49:22.369 --> 00:49:24.429
Even being on your show, like I'm not someone that'll
1431
00:49:24.449 --> 00:49:26.659
sit here and be like, I just sit around watching
1432
00:49:26.739 --> 00:49:28.719
porn and I'm so sexual and I'm like, I know
1433
00:49:28.739 --> 00:49:30.039
who I'm talking to, I know what the show is,
1434
00:49:30.039 --> 00:49:33.789
but that's not me. My art and me taking care
1435
00:49:33.809 --> 00:49:35.369
of my dogs and me taking care of my business,
1436
00:49:35.449 --> 00:49:38.269
that's my fucking priority. And I'm not going to act
1437
00:49:38.309 --> 00:49:40.570
like I'm something that I'm not or I'm more sexual
1438
00:49:40.590 --> 00:49:43.849
than I am because that's for your entertainment and not
1439
00:49:43.889 --> 00:49:48.409
for me. And for me, I'm much more into... building
1440
00:49:48.449 --> 00:49:50.610
my business right now. I'm not that into building up
1441
00:49:50.650 --> 00:49:51.570
my relationship.
1442
00:49:51.650 --> 00:49:53.679
That's so empowering. Just also like.
1443
00:49:53.579 --> 00:49:56.719
Be considered a boss for putting their business first. And
1444
00:49:56.860 --> 00:50:00.900
then like, it's so fucked up. And like, I love that.
1445
00:50:00.940 --> 00:50:04.119
Like when I go through my neighborhood to that, like
1446
00:50:04.719 --> 00:50:07.320
I bought my fucking house, I bought my fucking car
1447
00:50:07.449 --> 00:50:10.210
and like, I am not shaming any woman that does
1448
00:50:10.349 --> 00:50:13.369
not live your fucking life, do your thing. I just
1449
00:50:13.469 --> 00:50:16.190
know that that wasn't my mom's story. That wasn't my
1450
00:50:16.230 --> 00:50:20.539
grandma's story. So I'm like a first generation... You're doing it.
1451
00:50:20.579 --> 00:50:21.300
Yeah, you're a boss.
1452
00:50:21.579 --> 00:50:24.500
And my mom actually at 55 year old just bought
1453
00:50:24.519 --> 00:50:27.019
her own car and she started crying. She's like, your
1454
00:50:27.039 --> 00:50:30.199
dad has always bought my car for me. Her dad
1455
00:50:30.440 --> 00:50:32.389
bought her car for her. My mom at 55 just
1456
00:50:32.409 --> 00:50:32.929
bought her.
1457
00:50:32.969 --> 00:50:35.110
Own fucking car. How amazing is it?
1458
00:50:35.130 --> 00:50:36.150
She fucking loves it.
1459
00:50:36.230 --> 00:50:39.190
When I just got my first nice apartment in New
1460
00:50:39.230 --> 00:50:41.530
York and I'm like, it is the most satisfying thing.
1461
00:50:41.550 --> 00:50:43.070
Cause I've been in a relationship with a guy that
1462
00:50:43.090 --> 00:50:45.860
bought everything for me and like working my ass off
1463
00:50:45.880 --> 00:50:47.500
for a show and like being able to buy my
1464
00:50:47.539 --> 00:50:47.860
own shit.
1465
00:50:47.880 --> 00:50:49.400
I'm like, that feels better.
1466
00:50:49.440 --> 00:50:51.780
I would rather rent a fucking closet for somebody and
1467
00:50:51.800 --> 00:50:54.099
pay for it than live in like your fucking mansion.
1468
00:50:54.239 --> 00:50:55.039
I'm just so stoked.
1469
00:50:55.059 --> 00:50:57.280
Like when I come home, it's like, I get to
1470
00:50:57.320 --> 00:50:59.409
choose what fucking color the couch is and I can't choose.
1471
00:50:59.429 --> 00:51:01.409
So I picked all fucking three colors.
1472
00:51:01.250 --> 00:51:02.949
And that's what I want. That's what I want.
1473
00:51:03.050 --> 00:51:04.769
And so that just feels really good.
1474
00:51:04.849 --> 00:51:07.880
And like, so at this time, like for me, I'm
1475
00:51:07.900 --> 00:51:09.840
just like super secure in who I am. And I
1476
00:51:09.900 --> 00:51:12.760
just don't feel like I, I feel like I've like
1477
00:51:12.920 --> 00:51:14.000
acted enough in my life.
1478
00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:15.989
And yeah. And now you're like, this is me.
1479
00:51:16.110 --> 00:51:18.170
And that's too exhausting to be working all the time.
1480
00:51:18.269 --> 00:51:20.929
But luckily I've never really had to do that. And
1481
00:51:20.949 --> 00:51:22.949
I've never felt like an actress. The only time that
1482
00:51:22.989 --> 00:51:25.489
I felt like I was ever acting in my personal
1483
00:51:25.530 --> 00:51:28.170
life is in relationships that were no longer working for me.
1484
00:51:28.190 --> 00:51:32.429
So I just encourage people to be logical. Don't get
1485
00:51:32.449 --> 00:51:36.119
a totally don't drown in emotion. Make your fucking list.
1486
00:51:36.550 --> 00:51:39.539
Look at what someone is contributing and what someone's subtracting
1487
00:51:39.559 --> 00:51:41.320
to your life and then make an executive decision.
1488
00:51:41.340 --> 00:51:42.929
And if you're not fucking happy, get out.
1489
00:51:43.269 --> 00:51:44.409
If you're not happy, get the fuck out.
1490
00:51:45.110 --> 00:51:46.179
Miley Cyrus, you.
1491
00:51:47.929 --> 00:51:51.010
I just want to also like last comment too about
1492
00:51:51.030 --> 00:51:52.429
what you just said. Cause I think that is the
1493
00:51:52.469 --> 00:51:55.099
most empowering female statement of you being like, how the
1494
00:51:55.260 --> 00:51:58.840
fuck was I villainized for moving on too fast?
1495
00:51:59.079 --> 00:52:00.239
Everybody go fuck yourself.
1496
00:52:00.260 --> 00:52:03.480
That's like a really big part of this song. And
1497
00:52:03.679 --> 00:52:08.360
I just feel like the video and controlling my fucking narrative.
1498
00:52:08.679 --> 00:52:14.389
It's unfair that someone taking a photo from a helicopter
1499
00:52:14.469 --> 00:52:17.309
is allowed to control my narrative, but it feels below me.
1500
00:52:18.219 --> 00:52:21.719
to at that time engage in public opinion.
1501
00:52:23.380 --> 00:52:25.960
How do you deal with that? It's infuriating. I've gotten a.
1502
00:52:26.000 --> 00:52:29.920
Lot of control. That's why in the song it says
1503
00:52:29.980 --> 00:52:31.400
I can't bite the devil on my tongue.
1504
00:52:31.420 --> 00:52:32.590
Oh, that's what that means. So it's like I'm going
1505
00:52:32.610 --> 00:52:33.659
to say this now.
1506
00:52:33.840 --> 00:52:34.130
Got it.
1507
00:52:34.130 --> 00:52:36.210
It's about like, you know, some people have like the
1508
00:52:36.250 --> 00:52:38.130
devil and angel on their shoulder. The devil lives on
1509
00:52:38.170 --> 00:52:40.949
my tongue. So usually I just lash out and say
1510
00:52:41.010 --> 00:52:43.329
the first thing that fucking comes to mind. But it's
1511
00:52:43.610 --> 00:52:45.090
never benefited me.
1512
00:52:45.389 --> 00:52:45.750
Right.
1513
00:52:45.889 --> 00:52:48.840
Because when you think about it and I've like, now
1514
00:52:49.000 --> 00:52:53.739
allowed life to do its magic and I've understood its purpose.
1515
00:52:54.340 --> 00:52:56.219
And that was just a bridge for me to get
1516
00:52:56.320 --> 00:52:59.110
out of my situation. And like that woman made me
1517
00:52:59.139 --> 00:53:01.090
really happy at the time. And that was like the
1518
00:53:01.130 --> 00:53:02.469
way that I dealt with it. And there's not a
1519
00:53:02.510 --> 00:53:04.710
handbook as much as I can give you advice. There's
1520
00:53:04.750 --> 00:53:06.989
no handbook of how to deal with heartbreak. It's all
1521
00:53:07.030 --> 00:53:09.469
very like everyone's an individual and will handle it in
1522
00:53:09.489 --> 00:53:12.940
their own way. And so I felt like this song
1523
00:53:13.000 --> 00:53:15.809
is like for the kind of, looking at my life
1524
00:53:16.030 --> 00:53:18.659
as my personal life or people looking at my career,
1525
00:53:18.739 --> 00:53:21.820
I felt like there was a gap between the public
1526
00:53:21.840 --> 00:53:23.699
perception and the truth. And I just think it's really
1527
00:53:23.840 --> 00:53:26.289
fucked up that women are villainized for moving on.
1528
00:53:26.469 --> 00:53:27.210
Dude, it is.
1529
00:53:27.909 --> 00:53:30.010
Miley, I'm so happy you're saying that because I think like,
1530
00:53:30.150 --> 00:53:33.769
I remember seeing that, but you articulating it in that way,
1531
00:53:34.190 --> 00:53:35.289
it just shed so much.
1532
00:53:35.210 --> 00:53:36.909
Light on like how fucked up.
1533
00:53:36.969 --> 00:53:37.550
It's really fucked up.
1534
00:53:37.670 --> 00:53:39.510
And then you have to sit here and try not
1535
00:53:39.550 --> 00:53:41.619
to say anything because you're trying to be above, like,
1536
00:53:41.800 --> 00:53:43.840
like you said, the helicopter's above, but it's like, at
1537
00:53:43.900 --> 00:53:45.860
what point do you speak up? And I guess what
1538
00:53:45.880 --> 00:53:47.340
you're saying right now is through my fucking music.
1539
00:53:47.360 --> 00:53:53.199
And it also does by like, by engaging in that pettiness. One, it,
1540
00:53:54.309 --> 00:53:55.329
It isn't good enough for me.
1541
00:53:55.349 --> 00:53:57.389
Yeah. Like, that's kind of the thing about having standards.
1542
00:53:57.530 --> 00:53:57.829
Yeah.
1543
00:53:58.170 --> 00:54:00.630
And I like sitting here as a fucking female saying,
1544
00:54:00.730 --> 00:54:01.630
that's not good enough for me.
1545
00:54:01.789 --> 00:54:01.949
Yeah.
1546
00:54:01.969 --> 00:54:03.510
I won't engage in that. That's below me.
1547
00:54:03.690 --> 00:54:03.869
Yeah.
1548
00:54:03.889 --> 00:54:05.670
That is not a problem to say that. I think
1549
00:54:05.710 --> 00:54:08.369
it's really fucked up that women have been made to
1550
00:54:08.409 --> 00:54:10.489
feel like you're not allowed to say, this is for me.
1551
00:54:10.510 --> 00:54:11.510
Right. That's below me.
1552
00:54:11.590 --> 00:54:12.659
This is what's acceptable.
1553
00:54:12.739 --> 00:54:14.280
It's like, oh, you're being a bitch. No, I'm being
1554
00:54:14.300 --> 00:54:15.460
a fucking boss. Go fuck yourself.
1555
00:54:15.480 --> 00:54:18.440
That's unacceptable to fucking come and, like, put yourself in
1556
00:54:18.480 --> 00:54:19.719
my life and then put me on the.
1557
00:54:19.659 --> 00:54:21.190
Cross for it. Like, that's fucked up.
1558
00:54:21.219 --> 00:54:22.659
You totally villainize me for that.
1559
00:54:23.219 --> 00:54:23.480
But.
1560
00:54:24.260 --> 00:54:27.800
let me clap back at you when I can articulate
1561
00:54:27.820 --> 00:54:30.199
it properly and poetically and put it in my song.
1562
00:54:30.280 --> 00:54:32.519
And then you can stream my clap back.
1563
00:54:33.079 --> 00:54:37.659
Bitches go listen to the song. It's so fucking good.
1564
00:54:37.760 --> 00:54:41.239
I'm so happy for you that you are putting something
1565
00:54:41.280 --> 00:54:42.619
out right now that you're like, Oh, that's me.
1566
00:54:42.960 --> 00:54:45.300
This is, this is it. And like, people are going
1567
00:54:45.320 --> 00:54:47.420
to fucking love it. Oh my God.
1568
00:54:47.539 --> 00:54:50.699
So right now, when this episode is out, guys, Miley's
1569
00:54:50.760 --> 00:54:51.679
song is out.
1570
00:54:51.760 --> 00:54:52.460
That's freaking me.
1571
00:54:52.679 --> 00:54:54.059
That is so wild.
1572
00:54:54.099 --> 00:54:54.320
Yeah.
1573
00:54:54.550 --> 00:54:56.889
It's freaking me. I can't believe you're fucking here. I'm
1574
00:54:56.949 --> 00:54:59.550
here and you're putting out this song. The music video
1575
00:54:59.610 --> 00:55:01.690
is amazing. She looks so fucking hot.
1576
00:55:01.710 --> 00:55:02.030
Thank you.
1577
00:55:02.050 --> 00:55:03.929
I was like trying not to like freak out on
1578
00:55:03.949 --> 00:55:04.170
her couch.
1579
00:55:04.190 --> 00:55:05.429
Baby for Halloween, please.
1580
00:55:05.449 --> 00:55:08.710
Guys, literally she has like seven different looks. How many looks?
1581
00:55:09.050 --> 00:55:12.599
I have five. Five looks. Every single one, Halloween looks.
1582
00:55:12.659 --> 00:55:12.880
Yes.
1583
00:55:12.980 --> 00:55:14.099
And I'm going to do every single one.
1584
00:55:14.320 --> 00:55:16.300
The bodysuit is like, makes you feel a type of way.
1585
00:55:16.320 --> 00:55:16.480
Oh.
1586
00:55:16.900 --> 00:55:17.789
It made me feel a type of way.
1587
00:55:17.820 --> 00:55:19.019
Little sex, you guys.
1588
00:55:19.039 --> 00:55:19.179
Yeah.
1589
00:55:19.519 --> 00:55:20.179
So go listen.
1590
00:55:20.199 --> 00:55:21.920
And you can trash the tights. That's a good thing.
1591
00:55:21.960 --> 00:55:23.739
By the end of the video, they're all like ripped,
1592
00:55:23.760 --> 00:55:25.099
which I thought was super hot too.
1593
00:55:25.159 --> 00:55:26.599
And then it looks good after a party.
1594
00:55:26.679 --> 00:55:27.300
Exactly.
1595
00:55:27.320 --> 00:55:31.909
It fucking works. So Midnight Sky. Yep. Out now.
1596
00:55:32.170 --> 00:55:32.449
Yes.
1597
00:55:32.989 --> 00:55:33.929
Go watch the video.
1598
00:55:34.130 --> 00:55:34.369
Yes.
1599
00:55:34.769 --> 00:55:36.690
Listen to it 19 million times.
1600
00:55:36.809 --> 00:55:37.050
Yeah.
1601
00:55:37.110 --> 00:55:40.050
Tweet us. Tell us you liked the episode. Yeah. We
1602
00:55:40.070 --> 00:55:42.050
love you guys. Miley Cyrus.
1603
00:55:42.090 --> 00:55:42.929
Thanks for coming over.
1604
00:55:42.949 --> 00:55:44.710
This was really fun. This was really fun.
1605
00:55:44.750 --> 00:55:46.159
I really like talking about this kind of shit.
1606
00:55:46.300 --> 00:55:48.000
I loved having you on the show. I had so
1607
00:55:48.039 --> 00:55:50.559
much fucking fun. You are officially a part of the
1608
00:55:50.599 --> 00:55:51.360
Daddy Fucking Gang.
1609
00:55:51.420 --> 00:55:51.880
Thank you.
1610
00:55:53.530 --> 00:55:57.909
Daddy Gang, it is your father. I don't even know
1611
00:55:57.929 --> 00:55:59.769
what to say right now. Let's all just take a minute.
1612
00:56:01.840 --> 00:56:04.460
That was such a fucking cool experience. I hope you
1613
00:56:04.480 --> 00:56:08.429
guys enjoyed Miley. I think after the episode, we talked
1614
00:56:08.449 --> 00:56:10.869
a little bit more and she was just saying how
1615
00:56:10.909 --> 00:56:13.750
she wants to come back on in a, Oh fuck.
1616
00:56:14.409 --> 00:56:16.590
She wants to come back on in a downtime because
1617
00:56:16.690 --> 00:56:18.809
like you kind of heard her talking about, she has seasons,
1618
00:56:18.969 --> 00:56:21.929
seasons of when she's super horny and seasons when she's working.
1619
00:56:21.969 --> 00:56:24.110
And right now she's working. And then we can get
1620
00:56:24.159 --> 00:56:26.099
her when she's in her horny mode and we can
1621
00:56:26.139 --> 00:56:30.230
really hear what she's up to. Just like, giving you
1622
00:56:30.280 --> 00:56:31.739
guys my perspective.
1623
00:56:31.800 --> 00:56:32.739
Hi to the daddy gang.
1624
00:56:32.780 --> 00:56:37.460
Like that woman is so fucking real and so cool.
1625
00:56:37.519 --> 00:56:39.380
And I was so honored to just be able to
1626
00:56:39.420 --> 00:56:41.780
like chill with her and go to her house and
1627
00:56:41.920 --> 00:56:43.179
sit with her and talk with her.
1628
00:56:43.260 --> 00:56:43.900
Like I just did.
1629
00:56:43.920 --> 00:56:46.489
And the only reason that was possible was because of
1630
00:56:46.670 --> 00:56:49.449
everyone fucking listening to this podcast. I wouldn't have been
1631
00:56:49.570 --> 00:56:51.670
able to meet her and to interview her and to
1632
00:56:51.710 --> 00:56:54.429
get that episode out. If it wasn't for the daddy gang,
1633
00:56:55.280 --> 00:56:56.889
I just wanted to have like a little moment of
1634
00:56:56.929 --> 00:56:59.670
appreciation for you guys. I'm very aware that I am
1635
00:56:59.710 --> 00:57:01.489
where I am today because of you guys. So thank
1636
00:57:01.530 --> 00:57:04.800
you so fucking much for supporting this show. Not trying
1637
00:57:04.820 --> 00:57:07.719
to get sappy with it, but I have to for
1638
00:57:07.739 --> 00:57:11.099
a minute. Also, this is not the end. Now that
1639
00:57:11.139 --> 00:57:15.400
you guys are finished this episode, I have more. Guys,
1640
00:57:15.719 --> 00:57:19.219
I vlogged while I was at Miley's house. I vlogged
1641
00:57:19.260 --> 00:57:22.219
my entire experience when I found out we were getting
1642
00:57:22.260 --> 00:57:24.440
Miley on the show. You guys will see me in
1643
00:57:24.460 --> 00:57:27.579
the hotel room finding out. We vlogged the entire experience.
1644
00:57:27.619 --> 00:57:31.380
So if you guys want, go to my YouTube channel
1645
00:57:31.800 --> 00:57:32.699
and you guys can watch that.
1646
00:57:32.780 --> 00:57:33.400
It's really dope.
1647
00:57:33.719 --> 00:57:35.280
It's a lot of behind the scenes shit that I
1648
00:57:35.320 --> 00:57:37.400
know sometimes on podcasts. You're like, wait, I want to
1649
00:57:37.440 --> 00:57:38.619
watch it. Well, you can.
1650
00:57:38.940 --> 00:57:40.119
So go to my YouTube channel.
1651
00:57:40.219 --> 00:57:43.519
It's Alexandra Cooper Podcast. Um, and then also it will
1652
00:57:43.539 --> 00:57:46.389
just be linked on all of my social medias and
1653
00:57:46.449 --> 00:57:49.829
first wipe ups. So that's just Alexandra Cooper for my Instagram.
1654
00:57:49.889 --> 00:57:51.630
And then also call her daddy. We'll have the link
1655
00:57:51.670 --> 00:57:55.590
as well. So I hope you guys enjoyed this next week. Um,
1656
00:57:55.960 --> 00:57:58.260
I'm going to do a solo episode. Um, and I
1657
00:57:58.280 --> 00:57:59.860
think I want to just catch up with you guys.
1658
00:57:59.940 --> 00:58:02.719
I feel like I had an amazing trip in LA.
1659
00:58:02.880 --> 00:58:04.929
I met so many amazing people, but I kind of
1660
00:58:04.949 --> 00:58:06.989
want to just have like a week with the daddy
1661
00:58:07.030 --> 00:58:08.710
gang where we can just chill. And I want to
1662
00:58:08.789 --> 00:58:11.190
update you guys on my life. I want to talk
1663
00:58:11.210 --> 00:58:13.110
to you guys. I've been reading a lot of DMs.
1664
00:58:13.360 --> 00:58:15.199
I definitely miss a little questions.
1665
00:58:16.739 --> 00:58:19.139
Like I miss it a little. I miss you guys.
1666
00:58:19.179 --> 00:58:21.260
So that's what I'm just, I just want to vibe
1667
00:58:21.280 --> 00:58:24.179
a little next week. Go back to like OG, call
1668
00:58:24.199 --> 00:58:27.579
her daddy. But I hope you guys fucking loved this.
1669
00:58:27.719 --> 00:58:30.829
I love you fucking guys. I had so much fucking fun.
1670
00:58:30.869 --> 00:58:33.550
I'm so excited. And finally, oh my God, as much
1671
00:58:33.590 --> 00:58:36.170
as I loved putting out this episode, I'm not going
1672
00:58:36.190 --> 00:58:39.610
to lie. I'm a little fucking excited to get back
1673
00:58:39.710 --> 00:58:43.429
on track and to say, I will see you fuckers
1674
00:58:44.090 --> 00:58:44.800
next Wednesday.
1675
00:58:45.909 --> 00:58:46.329
Thank you.