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Is sleeping in separate beds a red flag for your relationship — or could it save it? Dr. Michael Breus talks with clinical psychologist and sleep scientist Dr. Wendy Troxel, author of Sharing the Covers: Every Couple's Guide to Better Sleep, about why the modern assumption that intimacy requires sharing a bed doesn't hold up. They cover the stigma around snoring and sleep apnea testing, how mismatched CPAP struggles can quietly breed resentment, and share practical fixes like the Scandinavian sleep method. Plus, a listener needs help navigating a toddler who's taken over the marital bed.
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Chapters:
0:00 Resentment in the bedroom
2:35 How Wendy went from relationship researcher to sleep scientist
3:55 A brief history of couples' sleeping arrangements
5:51 Why sleeping apart feels taboo (but isn't)
7:34 When Wendy recommends a trial separation
11:04 Snoring, invalidation, and resentment
12:14 Sponsor break: Coop Sleep Goods
13:38 Why people resist sleep testing
16:17 Case study: CPAP struggles and switching to an oral appliance
17:21 Couples based sleep apnea treatment (WEPAP)
19:20 Dr. Breus opens up about his own sleep apnea
21:01 Listener question from Zack
22:52 Wendy unpacks a common parent issue
26:43 Dr. Breus's on call parenting schedule idea
28:57 Sponsor break: Sleep Doctor
29:46 Temperature differences and the Scandinavian sleep method
31:10 Real red flags: when a sleep divorce signals deeper issues
33:39 Wendy's #1 tip for better sleep
34:41 Where to find Wendy Troxel and her book
35:37 Recap and closing thoughts
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