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You’re stuck in an argument. Maybe it’s the same fight you have every few weeks. Maybe it’s a standoff where nobody budges. Maybe someone goes quiet and passive-aggressive instead of saying what’s wrong. All three have the same root cause. You’re arguing the facts, and no one’s talking about what’s happening underneath the words. Whatever’s happening emotionally is what’s keeping the conversation stuck. You’re arguing the facts, hoping that’ll help, but it doesn’t because you’re focusing on the wrong thing. We connect through feelings, not thoughts, and until someone names the feelings, the facts just keep circling. Today I’m giving you my two-step process to shift this dynamic, so you can start connecting instead of going around in circles.
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[SPEAKER_00]: your stuck in an argument.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's the same fight you have every few weeks.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's a standoff where nobody budges.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe somebody gets really quiet or passive aggressive instead of just saying what's wrong.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All three have the same root cause.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're arguing …
