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Welcome to the Parenting Roundabout podcast. I'm Terry Morrow and
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I'm Catherine Jileco. Every Thursday, we're bringing you a library find,
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a pick from our archives, and a parenting or pop
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culture tidbit or two. Let's start with Catherine's library find
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of the week.
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So this is I'm presenting to you today for my
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library find a trio of parenting books. And I found
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all of these within like an hour they crossed my desk.
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One is the Yoga of parenting, So basically tying tying
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parenting to yoga.
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It's not just like tying yourself into knots mentally, well, it's.
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Ten yoga based practices to help you stay grounded, connect
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with your kids, and be kind to yourself. Yeah, so
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that's one. Then if that doesn't appeal, you can go
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with Project man management for parents by a real a
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person who has an actual, you know, certification as a
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project manager PMPH. This is engage the family, build teamwork
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and succeed together.
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Because oh boy, isn't that the dream? What is the
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dream that buys that drives me to buy five hundred
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planners and put posters up on the door and nothing
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ever happens.
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Yeah, I mean, is this the goal we have that
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we want to turn our family life into a one?
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Are those things called a gant chart? Like, no, thank you.
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I would try it. I'd try it.
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I've I've intersected with project management tools and practitioners in
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my in my various jobs, and oh, thank you, I don't.
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I don't want to do it at home on my
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free time. So maybe what I need to do instead
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is learn the Danish secret to happy kids. How the
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Viking way of raising children makes them happier, healthier, and
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more independent.
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Don't Vikings at some point set their elders on fire
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and stick them out into the ocean, or.
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Kill people by pouring molten metal down their throats? We
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found we've learned.
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Threat though, finish your homeworker, It's going to be molten
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metal down your throat, young man. Yes, not those Vikings,
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I'm guessing. Yeah, modern day happy, modern day Vikings. Yeah.
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The author lived in Denmark for a decade and raised
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her kids there. It says that she noticed this is
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from the publisher's page. She noticed that Nordic kids, or
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mini Vikings, are different from children raised in other parts
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of the world. They eat differently, they learn differently, they play,
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dress and even sleep differently. It's cold and wet and uncomfortable,
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but they cope.
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Did they walk ten miles uphill in the snow every day?
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Probably? Yeah? So yeah, this is just another I mean
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we've had, we've had the French way to raise kids. Yeah,
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lots of other you know countries are probably doing this,
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probably doing this better than we are. You know, everyone
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thinks we can just yeah, it's.
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I just don't way of raising kids. There's like twenty
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five different options, you know, right, and.
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Also these other things, like the Danish secret to raising
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kids is you have to live in Denmark. Like you can't.
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You can't move it to another place. See a flaw
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in that plan.
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You know, Like I just I think that that's the
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secret is you're living there. They're not necessarily things that
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you can bring here. You know.
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It does seem like Europe is such a happy, fun
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place these days. Maybe yeah, I don't know, no places.
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Well they all so whole world's a mess, is there?
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The Mars secret to happy kids? Elon Musk is gonna.
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Get us, what do I do? And he's all about
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having kids, so not raising them just just that's the secret.
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Maybe that's oh dear. Yeah, just any we I think
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we've stated on this podcast before. Just anything that says
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the secret, the way, the plan is all you need
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is ridiculous and needs to be stomped on and have
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well molten led through.
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Throat.
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Yes, because there is no one way. Every kid is different,
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every family is different, every place you live is different.
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You gotta find what works for you in the moment
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at the time, and it might change.
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Yeah, it just you will never get it right.
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It definitely struck me, you know, getting all of these
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at once basically yeah, wow goodness.
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I had parenting books i read when my kids were
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growing up that were very useful to me. But it
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was never a this is the one way you do it.
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It was like something from here, something from there. Oh
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I like this, but I'm gonna tweak it this way.
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You just you know, you got to make your own way.
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What's your secret way? And once you find out, read
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a book and tell you how everybody there you go
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this is it make amend really, But it's a much
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more creative endeavor than any of these books will. Let
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you know. It's not something you can put on a
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gag chart as much as you might like to.
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Right so, but we will have links to all of
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these in the show.
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Brian doesn't hear this episode because he's gonna run screaming exactly.
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We'll have links for you to check them all out
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in case you feel like that will be the secret
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that solves everything.
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Project management. I hadn't thought of that one. Make each
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of them a folder, will uh, you know, set them
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up with a Jira account and task management. We'll just
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give them a you know, yeah slack. Set up a
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Slack channel for the faman. Mm hmmm, it'll be great.
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Perfect. Let's dance instead? How about.
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Let's dance? So it was finals night on Dancing with
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the Stars, which, as always, means an hour and a
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half of show in a three hour package.
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was going to be three hours. You know, I knew
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from a week prior, but I had blocked that out.
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here we go.
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So very much does not have to be it really
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really doesn't.
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I mean, we did not need to have Anna Delby
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and Tori Spelling come back.
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Like No, that was Reginald an entire number in which
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he moved not at all A few inches. Yes, but
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we love the big guy, and we had three hours
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to fill.
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The That was interesting, it was cool.
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That was worth the two minutes or whatever length it was.
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But yeah, but I mean, like the whole first half hour,
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they weren't even trying to pretend that it was starting.
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It was like it was recap. Let's take a very
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long recap first. First they you know, recapped each of
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the finalists, and then they recapped the whole season, which
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I think they've done before, but I don't remember it
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being quite as fillery as this seemed to be.
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Yeah, boy and.
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Golly guys, maybe next year. Out of mercy for the
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people who are podcasting about this, after it's over, you
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could tighten it up. Even two and a half hours
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would have been fine. You've been able to do all
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the nonsense you wanted. There was really quite a lot
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of not there.
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There really was, but for the first time in dancing. Also,
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there was some dancing, and I did enjoy some of it.
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I enjoyed. I enjoy a lot of it. I don't
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recall like freestyles not getting all tens all the time.
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makes me feel like they're trying to compensate for votes
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and don't do that. It's just everybody should get a
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ten for their freestyle. Although Whitney, yeah, it's not about you.
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Barbe number what had absolutely nothing to do with him,
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and you cannot out gossling gosling, I don't even try,
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are you nuts?
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I know, I was like, where is Danny for the
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first you know seconds? See. Yeah, I like Whitney a
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lot and I think she's really good, but that one
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missed the vote.
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I mean, ideally you want the freestyle to tell a
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story about the person or have something to do with
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the person who is the finalist. I mean, I guess
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I know that that one was a stretch also.
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their entire US gymnastics team behind them doing their thing.
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I get it, But that was that was such a
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cool dance to look at. I don't know much dancing
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was in it, but it was just cool to look at.
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Which one you're trying to Stevens.
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Yes, yes, that was just it was so pretty.
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Yeah, it was super fun. I enjoyed it quite a lot. Yeah,
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I thought Riley did well for her first outing. He did.
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I mean, she possibly might have had some help, but
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that's okay.
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I would bet on it.
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Yes, but everyone is allowed to have help. That's fine. Yes, yes,
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there are no rules. In case you didn't hear that,
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is that true?
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I think I heard something about that. Maybe there should
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be some rules. But Alonis was also certainly about her
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maybe a little bit too much. I felt like they
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were trying to throw in too much. But still you go,
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you do whatever you want.
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I support you.
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fun and the freestyle should all get tense, whether they're
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any good or not. And I resent that they don't
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find a way to do that. But I don't know,
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it's just I think sometimes it's just too long a
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night for the entertainment that is there to bear the
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weight of it. Yeah, by the time you're getting to
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the final dances, it's like, oh, you're at the end
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of a slot.
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Another one.
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Isn't this over yet? More? Judge, But it's nice to
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see soci again. They were very cute and at the
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end spoiler when Joey and Jenna one, it was amusing
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that they said that the trophy is staying in the same.
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House, right, so exactly went from spell one last.
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So there you go. You know, it makes things easier, right,
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said before, had no problem with any of these people winning, right,
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And I mean, it's cool that Chandler and Brandon are
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the first black couple to make it to the finals.
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I guess it would have been. It's historic.
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Yes, Dancing with the staris making history.
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Kids in the future will look in their history books
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and see this. It's a dance joe You guys calmed
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down a little bit, but I felt like it made
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it like, well, geez, if it's down to them and
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somebody else, it's going to be really awkward. So as
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it worked out, they were third, right, and so then
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it was between Alona and Joey.
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Right, and we kind of thought for many weeks now
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that it was kind of Joey still lose.
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another illustration that voting block matters. Yeah, you can be
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the best dancer. It doesn't matter if you don't have
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a natural voting block, if you don't have Bachelor Nation,
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if you don't have a huge Instagram following, right, that's
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you know, that's a major part of this. As much
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as people want to make it just about dancing, right,
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as long as they have a viewer vote and it counts,
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it's never going to be just about dancing, right, Stop wining.
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So both Joey and Alona had easy to see voter blocks,
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and it is what made the difference. Yeah, seems to me, right,
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I ad like, I know what I'm talking about, but
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it seems to me that that's what it came down to.
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Yes, And I mean I think people definitely were. They
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loved the Elona you know story, which you know Stephen
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had a lot of that.
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Ye too, Yes, I felt when they announced that Stephen
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was going to be the co host for the entire tour,
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I'm like, well, that's his mirror ball, right boy, there
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you go. But also we got some money and something
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to do.
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Has he? I mean that I would have I could
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see Alona being the host because she's so like charismatic
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and you know, she just has so much like personality
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or she can talk, you know what I mean, Like
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she can kind of add live and stuff. And I
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don't see that with Stephen. Not not that I don't
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think he's adorable, but like.
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All he has to come out is come out and
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be adorable. Yeah, I don't know. I think he's I
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think he's a co host, right, so somebody else usually,
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he'll just be there for everybody to go. Ah, and
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he and Riley will do a little something right, it
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will be adorable. But uh, you know, good for him. Yeah,
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and uh, probably more valuable in the long run than
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the mirror of All trophy.
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So maybe he quit his engineering job to go on
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this show and so now he needs work.
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Oh maybe he's gonna make enough money doing this that
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he can fund the rest of his education or whatever.
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But whatever he wants to do, set up, set himself up.
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good luck to him. He's an enjoyable presence, yes, absolutely,
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And I wish him and his girlfriend and his cat
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watch happiness. Yes, even though they will not have a
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mirrorble in their environs. No, No, but I saw a
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picture of their cat with a little little mirrorble.
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Oh really the cat. My cousin helped it get adopted.
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I'm just going to mention the cat time that we can.
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The shelter cat always, you know, adopt your adopt your pets.
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Right, absolutely, yes, so so fun.
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Yeah, well that was fun that season.
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Yes, it was a fun season. And uh I did
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notice there was a post on Instagram today that seemed
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to be confirming the Sasha jen romance. Okay, Sasha said
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he felt like he won and all the pros were
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putting hearts and stuff on it, right, and so it
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seems kind of official. Even even Emma put a congratulations,
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congratulatory message and then people were ragging on her in
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the comments.
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What that's me? Yeah, just be nice?
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Hello, have you met the internet?
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I know?
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Nothing like a fandom to get down.
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And dirty, that is for sure, through your hair.
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But anyway, so if that is the case, good for them.
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Although he is really quite a bit older than her,
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but you know, love ladies and gent absolutely I wish
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them well. I like Sasha.
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Well. I also saw a post of Little Sage, Lindsay's daughter,
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you know, promising Riley a tea party and tickets to
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see Mowana too if she wants.
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Yeah, so I don't know, Sorry, no for you tea
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party right. Look, I thought it was cute that Lindsay
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and Sage were in Steven's package of people people love
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chewing him on there. Yeah.
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Yeah, it was very cute all around.
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The opportunity for Sage to be on the TV.
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Yeah, I was gonna take it for sure.
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Yeah. But good dancing this season, I think once they
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got rid of the people who could not move, yeah, exactly.
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It generally, I think a pretty fun season. And uh yeah,
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you know the last group was. I mean, the finalists
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were all very good and very fun and enjoyable to watch,
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and the two or three before them.
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So yeah, and I'm glad, like you know, Steven and
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Riley got a chance to do a freestyle because that
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was really fun with all of the pommel horse content.
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Was in it, yes, yes, and all the gymnastics going
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on all over the place. Yeah, it's just a very
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pretty dance to watch. I really liked it. I might
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watch that again.
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Yeah.
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But and all the all the dances were I mean
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I had a problem with Barbie one just because I
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think that that was I think that needed to go
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back to the drawing board. But and the light up
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tennis rackets was a little weird. But yeah, you know,
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answer with stars. It's not over the top. Push it there, Yep,
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that's for sure.
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And if you don't have a good story, will we'll
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make one up.
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That's right. Oh well, queue the cue the complaints the
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morning afters of why didn't this person win? Why didn't
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that person win? You know, historic first bachelor.
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I mean, no matter what, it was gonna be historic. Right.
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Yeah, well, now that's out of the way, so we
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could we could dispense with them from you.
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Yeah. Yeah, So we've had multiple bachelorettes, but no bachelor's.
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Is that? Is that what I'm learning here?
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Yeah?
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So, but two very different groups of people. I guess
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bachelorettes bachelors.
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It didn't seem to do Jen much much good being
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in the franchise, but I guess that's because there was
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a bachelor. I wonder if Joey hadn't been in her season,
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if she would have gone farther, right, But it's a
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very interesting mix of people. I just I just wish
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it didn't have to be three hours or if you're
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going to make it three hours. Do something with that
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three hours. It's more interesting than what they did, right,
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But even so three hours is a long time.
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It's really long. Yeah, yeah, it's just not necessary in
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my Oh.
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Well, so on to when over the next season is yeah,
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and we're out.
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Yep.
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So what do we have from the archives this week?
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Well, it is Thanksgiving as you're listening to this, maybe
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or perhaps Thanksgiving has passed.
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But what you're not sitting around listening to the podcast
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on Thanksgiving Day?
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Come on?
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The perfect way to hide from your family exactly.
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That's the service that we have used.
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Yourself for a moment, and then you go listen to
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podcasts and five hours later they come back and somebody
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brings you a piece.
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Of turkey it's great, or just pie that's fine, Yeah.
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Pie, that's true.
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Yeah.
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Really, all you need pie and stuffing, you know what,
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a little plate of pie and stuff and I would
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be good.
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I'll be good too, yeap. So we on a in
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twenty twenty Dinneral back in twenty twenty, we were talking
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about giving thanks for little things. This was a little
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bit pandemic related because it was twenty twenty, so we
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were talking about being thankful for things like mobile ordering,
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finding a good face mask, done with that online shopping,
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curbside pickup. Yeah. So yeah, these were all things that
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there were a lot of things that the that the
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pandemic had brought us that we were actually kind of
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thankful for. But I think we can still find small
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things to be thankful.
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For, because I have to say, maybe a little embarrassing,
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maybe not, but I have taken an inordinate amount of
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pleasure out of my little pour over coffee situation since
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I started using the ground coffee and a permanent filter
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and my little electric kettle, and I have set things
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up in my office and it is expanding. I am
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now spread over a table, a shelf of a bookshelf,
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and a cubby all my drink related accessories. The coupy
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is the tea, and then the bookshelf is the coffee,
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and then the table is things in process. Okay, I
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got two extra filters so that I can, you know,
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make three cups of coffee in a day before I
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have to wash anything. And it's just I keep like
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tweaking it, improving it, and it's quite delightful. It brings
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me a lot of joy, which is very sad because
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I need a cup of coffee. It's so great, look
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at me.
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But you know, then you feel like you can sit
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down and do your work and you have, yes, you know,
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this nice warm coffee to get you go.
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It sort of smells vaguely of coffee because there's wet
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coffee grounds all over the place.
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It's great. Yeah, it's like you're working in the Starbucks
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but you're at home. Kind of is you're not, but
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you get to stay home.
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Yeah. Yeah, just makes me happy. Little things. Yeah, I
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think it's a sequence of drinks during the day. You know,
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I have coffee and then I have a tea, and
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then I have another coffee, and then I have another tea,
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and then I have coffee again.
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Yes, I have. I have a tea system as well.
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There's two different teas, so I have the one kind
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of tea and then I have the other kind of tea. Yeah,
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tea bag and lusty.
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I have like the caffeine tea and then the decaffeinated tea.
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And you know, using me each tea bag a couple
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of times, like there's a whole there's the whole thing.
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Yeah, these are the things that just bring satisfaction, right, I.
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Also have my like breakfast routines depending on if I'm
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working in early shift. You know, usually it's two early
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shifts in a row. So I have one of them
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is my oats overnight breakfast day, and then one is Starbucks.
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So I get, you know, honestly, when I wake up
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that morning and I'm like, oh my god, it's so early,
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but oh but today's a Starbucks day, it does kind
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of help.
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Yeah, yeah, I have my different I have my breakfast routine. Also,
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I have a see Cereal on Monday and Wednesday, kind
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bar on Tuesday, oats overnight on Thursday, Friday. Let's see,
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there's something else because I only have Cereal twice. What
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do I have on Wednesdays? Anyway? And my husband's oatmeal
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on now that's lunch. My husband makes me oatmeal on Saturday,
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regular oatmeal, hot oatmeal, and then we have the ether
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bagels who donuts on Sunday. It's a perfect plan. It
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is a perfect plan, like delightful. I guess it's Monday,
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Wednesday and Friday for Cereal, which is good. Yeah, I
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like Cereal. Cereal's fine.
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Yeah, Cereal is a good thing. It is Yeah. I
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right now I'm working my way very slowly through a
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like pumpkin seed granola that I got at Costco. Mmm,
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quite good.
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So I'm still making my way through the pumpkin spice
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special k Oh, that's right, which my my husband heard
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I liked and so he got like five boxes.
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Did you figure this? This was going to be around
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for much longer?
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Makes a good snack too. You can yourself a handful of.
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That, right, Yeah, that's mostly how I'm eating my granola,
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so mm hmm. And I still am thankful for my popcorn,
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my brand that I, oh yet I want, and I
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had to I had to buy a different brand the
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other day, and it's just not the same. It's I
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don't know how I'm going to get through this bag
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actually is just not good. So I'm very disappointed. I
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don't know. I shouldn't. I just wanted something, you know,
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because I couldn't get my regular one, and that was
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a bad move. Should have just held out for the
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good stuff? Yeah, because yeah, this was not working. So
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but I did have the other day. This is probably
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not just not a little thing. But I was driving
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vaguely in the direction that I used to take my
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son to school, and I was like hit with a
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fresh wave of like, oh, I'm so glad I'm done
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with like that whole Basically all of high school was
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just so hard and just getting him there every day was,
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you know, such an ordeal and I'm so glad that
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I don't do that anymore. Wow. Yeah, yeah, that is
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ourly front there.
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So yeah, I can't think if I have a non
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food related small thing, there must be something. We look
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around my space here. Yeah, it's pretty much what am
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I going to eat or snack on? Yeah, I mean
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it's driving my life.
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I always say, like, you know, no food rewards, but
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it really, yeah.
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I have, I have gained weight and I really need
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to lose some And for while I was not snacking,
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I was been very good and I still was not
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losing weight. So now it's like, screw it. It's from yep,
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it doesn't make a difference.
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And I'm gonna eat this and I'm gonna eat it
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on one.
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Of these days. I have to have a reckoning.
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But not yet, wait until January at least.
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This Yeah, there's resolution time. That's what I'm going to
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do it. I think I may just be at the
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age where it's gonna be the weight you are and
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nothing you do is gonna change it because your metabolism
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is roughly you know, it's just stumbling along at the
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lowest possible.
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Level, right, And I keep seeing like people talking about
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weight gain and hormones and blah blah blah and how
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secret is like just to eat more protein. And you know,
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somebody that I follow on Instagram is like, I'm eating
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protein like it's my job and it's not working, and
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that is like how much more protein can I eat?
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Come on, yo? Like, am I supposed to turn go
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like Paleo on this? Like no, it's I'm not going
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to so never. So yeah, that's just not gonna happen
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because then you won't be any cereal. All you're eating
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is like chicken breasts.
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Yeah no, nope, nope, no thanks.
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Another good thing they have at Costco, though, is these
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little like snack sized packs of cooked chicken, like just
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little chicken breasts like bites. Okay, I mean they have
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a little they have some kind of seasoning on them.
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And my husband's like, you could make that. I'm like,
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yeah I could. I don't, so I boughted my cost.
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We wouldn't have these cool package. This cool package.
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Yeah, I mean, yeah, I take it on my break.
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You're supposed to like just like cook up a whole
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package of chicken breasts, cut them up, package each one individually,
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and stick in your refrigerator. Yes, that sounds like a
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lot of work, and it sounds like it would go
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bad before you had a chance to eat it all.
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Not if you're eating the amount of protein you're supposed
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to be eating, which is chicken breast regimen.
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Oh gosh, no, no, thank you. I just I mean,
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I believe that there is nutritional truth. I believe there
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is a truth that would make a difference. I just
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don't know what it is, and I don't have the
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time and the stamina to try everything out until I
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find what works for me. So I'm just gonna say,
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you know, I'm just gonna enjoy myself exactly for however
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long I have. Maybe this is maybe this is a
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small thing that is bringing me joy. It's just like
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knowing that, you know, I probably don't have to really
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plan for things that much. It's just gonna say, I
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don't there's no pressure. But I mean there's no pressure anymore,
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you know, when you're thirty five, It's like jeez. I
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want to have these things I want to do in
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my career. I want to do this, I want to
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have this job, I want to publish this thing. I
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have all these things I want to do, and now
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I'm like sixty five is like, yeah, did it winding? That?
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Fine?
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I'm gonna have some coffee, canna, do a little boring
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work that doesn't mean that much to me, and take
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a nap.
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Yeah, so there you go.
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It's it's I think I'm gonna start leaning into that.
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I like it would have been. I'm too fat. Oh
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my gosh, I gotta lose weight. It's so important. Now
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it's like, eh, who cares, It's fine, I'm fine, everything
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is fine. It's a relief, honestly, yes, because there are
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five hundred different people telling you five hundred different things
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and saying no, this is the one that's true and
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all the rest of them are horrible.
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Right, Just like the parenting books do it this exactly.
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Nutrition is just the same as parenting. And I know
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somebody's right, but well, there or not.
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I mean, it's the same work, it's the same thing.
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It's the same as with parenting. It's different things for
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different people.
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Different people yeah, so yeah.
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Anyway, well, any chance that eating eating pumpkin spice special
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can drinking a lot of coffee is the secret? Maybe
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anybody saying that, maybe maybe you should say that, boy,
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would that book sell.
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Secret to my happiness? And you can have it too.
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All it takes.
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Pounds overweighted, but still I'm happy. That's what's important, really
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important in life.
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Isn't it.
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There you go, well, I'm podcasting is the same exactly.
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That's what we're thankful, but.
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We're taking it away from you now, so sub run
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till next week.
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That's right, until next week.
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over the years.
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Welcome to the Parenting Roundabout podcast. I'm Terry Morrow and
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I'm Catherine Jileco. Every Thursday, we're bringing you a library find,
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a pick from our archives, and a parenting or pop
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culture tidbit or two. Let's start with Catherine's library find
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of the week.
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So this is I'm presenting to you today for my
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library find a trio of parenting books. And I found
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all of these within like an hour they crossed my desk.
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One is the Yoga of parenting, So basically tying tying
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parenting to yoga.
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It's not just like tying yourself into knots mentally, well, it's.
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Ten yoga based practices to help you stay grounded, connect
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with your kids, and be kind to yourself. Yeah, so
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that's one. Then if that doesn't appeal, you can go
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with Project man management for parents by a real a
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person who has an actual, you know, certification as a
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project manager PMPH. This is engage the family, build teamwork
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and succeed together.
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Because oh boy, isn't that the dream? What is the
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dream that buys that drives me to buy five hundred
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planners and put posters up on the door and nothing
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ever happens.
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we want to turn our family life into a one?
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Are those things called a gant chart? Like, no, thank you.
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I would try it. I'd try it.
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I've I've intersected with project management tools and practitioners in
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my in my various jobs, and oh, thank you, I don't.
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I don't want to do it at home on my
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free time. So maybe what I need to do instead
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is learn the Danish secret to happy kids. How the
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Viking way of raising children makes them happier, healthier, and
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more independent.
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Don't Vikings at some point set their elders on fire
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and stick them out into the ocean, or.
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Kill people by pouring molten metal down their throats? We
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found we've learned.
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Threat though, finish your homeworker, It's going to be molten
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metal down your throat, young man. Yes, not those Vikings,
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I'm guessing. Yeah, modern day happy, modern day Vikings. Yeah.
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her kids there. It says that she noticed this is
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from the publisher's page. She noticed that Nordic kids, or
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mini Vikings, are different from children raised in other parts
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of the world. They eat differently, they learn differently, they play,
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dress and even sleep differently. It's cold and wet and uncomfortable,
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but they cope.
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Probably? Yeah? So yeah, this is just another I mean
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we've had, we've had the French way to raise kids. Yeah,
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lots of other you know countries are probably doing this,
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probably doing this better than we are. You know, everyone
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thinks we can just yeah, it's.
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I just don't way of raising kids. There's like twenty
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five different options, you know, right, and.
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kids is you have to live in Denmark. Like you can't.
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secret is you're living there. They're not necessarily things that
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you can bring here. You know.
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The Mars secret to happy kids? Elon Musk is gonna.
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Get us, what do I do? And he's all about
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having kids, so not raising them just just that's the secret.
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Maybe that's oh dear. Yeah, just any we I think
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we've stated on this podcast before. Just anything that says
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the secret, the way, the plan is all you need
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is ridiculous and needs to be stomped on and have
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well molten led through.
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every family is different, every place you live is different.
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at the time, and it might change.
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growing up that were very useful to me. But it
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was never a this is the one way you do it.
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a book and tell you how everybody there you go
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this is it make amend really, But it's a much
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more creative endeavor than any of these books will. Let
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Brian doesn't hear this episode because he's gonna run screaming exactly.
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in case you feel like that will be the secret
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that solves everything.
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Project management. I hadn't thought of that one. Make each
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of them a folder, will uh, you know, set them
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up with a Jira account and task management. We'll just
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give them a you know, yeah slack. Set up a
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Perfect. Let's dance instead? How about.
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Let's dance? So it was finals night on Dancing with
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the Stars, which, as always, means an hour and a
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half of show in a three hour package.
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was going to be three hours. You know, I knew
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from a week prior, but I had blocked that out.
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here we go.
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really doesn't.
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I mean, we did not need to have Anna Delby
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and Tori Spelling come back.
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he moved not at all A few inches. Yes, but
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we love the big guy, and we had three hours
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The That was interesting, it was cool.
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That was worth the two minutes or whatever length it was.
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they weren't even trying to pretend that it was starting.
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long recap first. First they you know, recapped each of
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the finalists, and then they recapped the whole season, which
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I think they've done before, but I don't remember it
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being quite as fillery as this seemed to be.
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Golly guys, maybe next year. Out of mercy for the
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people who are podcasting about this, after it's over, you
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could tighten it up. Even two and a half hours
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would have been fine. You've been able to do all
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the nonsense you wanted. There was really quite a lot
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of not there.
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There really was, but for the first time in dancing. Also,
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there was some dancing, and I did enjoy some of it.
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I enjoyed. I enjoy a lot of it. I don't
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recall like freestyles not getting all tens all the time.
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makes me feel like they're trying to compensate for votes
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and don't do that. It's just everybody should get a
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ten for their freestyle. Although Whitney, yeah, it's not about you.
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Barbe number what had absolutely nothing to do with him,
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and you cannot out gossling gosling, I don't even try,
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are you nuts?
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I know, I was like, where is Danny for the
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first you know seconds? See. Yeah, I like Whitney a
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lot and I think she's really good, but that one
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missed the vote.
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story about the person or have something to do with
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the person who is the finalist. I mean, I guess
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Joey was a tennis cross.
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I know that that one was a stretch also.
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Right, I'll allow it. I mean, not everybody can have
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their entire US gymnastics team behind them doing their thing.
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I get it, But that was that was such a
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cool dance to look at. I don't know much dancing
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was in it, but it was just cool to look at.
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Which one you're trying to Stevens.
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that's okay.
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I would bet on it.
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there are no rules. In case you didn't hear that,
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maybe a little bit too much. I felt like they
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were trying to throw in too much. But still you go,
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you do whatever you want.
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I support you.
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fun and the freestyle should all get tense, whether they're
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any good or not. And I resent that they don't
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find a way to do that. But I don't know,
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it's just I think sometimes it's just too long a
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night for the entertainment that is there to bear the
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weight of it. Yeah, by the time you're getting to
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the final dances, it's like, oh, you're at the end
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of a slot.
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Isn't this over yet? More? Judge, But it's nice to
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see soci again. They were very cute and at the
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end spoiler when Joey and Jenna one, it was amusing
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that they said that the trophy is staying in the same.
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House, right, so exactly went from spell one last.
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So there you go. You know, it makes things easier, right,
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said before, had no problem with any of these people winning, right,
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the first black couple to make it to the finals.
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I guess it would have been. It's historic.
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Yes, Dancing with the staris making history.
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Kids in the future will look in their history books
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and see this. It's a dance joe You guys calmed
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down a little bit, but I felt like it made
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it like, well, geez, if it's down to them and
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somebody else, it's going to be really awkward. So as
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it worked out, they were third, right, and so then
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it was between Alona and Joey.
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Right, and we kind of thought for many weeks now
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that it was kind of Joey still lose.
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another illustration that voting block matters. Yeah, you can be
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the best dancer. It doesn't matter if you don't have
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a natural voting block, if you don't have Bachelor Nation,
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if you don't have a huge Instagram following, right, that's
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you know, that's a major part of this. As much
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as people want to make it just about dancing, right,
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as long as they have a viewer vote and it counts,
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it's never going to be just about dancing, right, Stop wining.
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So both Joey and Alona had easy to see voter blocks,
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and it is what made the difference. Yeah, seems to me, right,
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I ad like, I know what I'm talking about, but
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it seems to me that that's what it came down to.
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Yes, And I mean I think people definitely were. They
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loved the Elona you know story, which you know Stephen
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had a lot of that.
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Ye too, Yes, I felt when they announced that Stephen
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I'm like, well, that's his mirror ball, right boy, there
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you go. But also we got some money and something
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to do.
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Has he? I mean that I would have I could
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see Alona being the host because she's so like charismatic
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and you know, she just has so much like personality
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or she can talk, you know what I mean, Like
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she can kind of add live and stuff. And I
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don't see that with Stephen. Not not that I don't
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think he's adorable, but like.
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All he has to come out is come out and
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be adorable. Yeah, I don't know. I think he's I
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think he's a co host, right, so somebody else usually,
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So I think that she can work around that and
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he'll just be there for everybody to go. Ah, and
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he and Riley will do a little something right, it
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will be adorable. But uh, you know, good for him. Yeah,
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and uh, probably more valuable in the long run than
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the mirror of All trophy.
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So maybe he quit his engineering job to go on
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this show and so now he needs work.
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Oh maybe he's gonna make enough money doing this that
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he can fund the rest of his education or whatever.
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But whatever he wants to do, set up, set himself up.
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good luck to him. He's an enjoyable presence, yes, absolutely,
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And I wish him and his girlfriend and his cat
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watch happiness. Yes, even though they will not have a
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mirrorble in their environs. No, No, but I saw a
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picture of their cat with a little little mirrorble.
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Oh really the cat. My cousin helped it get adopted.
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I'm just going to mention the cat time that we can.
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The shelter cat always, you know, adopt your adopt your pets.
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Right, absolutely, yes, so so fun.
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Yeah, well that was fun that season.
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Yes, it was a fun season. And uh I did
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notice there was a post on Instagram today that seemed
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to be confirming the Sasha jen romance. Okay, Sasha said
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he felt like he won and all the pros were
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putting hearts and stuff on it, right, and so it
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seems kind of official. Even even Emma put a congratulations,
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congratulatory message and then people were ragging on her in
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the comments.
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What that's me? Yeah, just be nice?
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Hello, have you met the internet?
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I know?
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Nothing like a fandom to get down.
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And dirty, that is for sure, through your hair.
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But anyway, so if that is the case, good for them.
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Although he is really quite a bit older than her,
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but you know, love ladies and gent absolutely I wish
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them well. I like Sasha.
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Well. I also saw a post of Little Sage, Lindsay's daughter,
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you know, promising Riley a tea party and tickets to
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see Mowana too if she wants.
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Yeah, so I don't know, Sorry, no for you tea
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party right. Look, I thought it was cute that Lindsay
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and Sage were in Steven's package of people people love
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chewing him on there. Yeah.
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Yeah, it was very cute all around.
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The opportunity for Sage to be on the TV.
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Yeah, I was gonna take it for sure.
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Yeah. But good dancing this season, I think once they
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got rid of the people who could not move, yeah, exactly.
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It generally, I think a pretty fun season. And uh yeah,
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you know the last group was. I mean, the finalists
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were all very good and very fun and enjoyable to watch,
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and the two or three before them.
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So yeah, and I'm glad, like you know, Steven and
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Riley got a chance to do a freestyle because that
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was really fun with all of the pommel horse content.
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Was in it, yes, yes, and all the gymnastics going
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on all over the place. Yeah, it's just a very
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pretty dance to watch. I really liked it. I might
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watch that again.
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But and all the all the dances were I mean
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I had a problem with Barbie one just because I
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think that that was I think that needed to go
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back to the drawing board. But and the light up
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tennis rackets was a little weird. But yeah, you know,
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answer with stars. It's not over the top. Push it there, Yep,
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that's for sure.
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And if you don't have a good story, will we'll
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make one up.
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That's right. Oh well, queue the cue the complaints the
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morning afters of why didn't this person win? Why didn't
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that person win? You know, historic first bachelor.
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I mean, no matter what, it was gonna be historic. Right.
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Yeah, well, now that's out of the way, so we
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could we could dispense with them from you.
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Yeah. Yeah, So we've had multiple bachelorettes, but no bachelor's.
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Is that? Is that what I'm learning here?
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So, but two very different groups of people. I guess
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bachelorettes bachelors.
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It didn't seem to do Jen much much good being
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in the franchise, but I guess that's because there was
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a bachelor. I wonder if Joey hadn't been in her season,
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if she would have gone farther, right, But it's a
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very interesting mix of people. I just I just wish
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it didn't have to be three hours or if you're
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going to make it three hours. Do something with that
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three hours. It's more interesting than what they did, right,
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But even so three hours is a long time.
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It's really long. Yeah, yeah, it's just not necessary in
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my Oh.
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Well, so on to when over the next season is yeah,
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and we're out.
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So what do we have from the archives this week?
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Well, it is Thanksgiving as you're listening to this, maybe
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or perhaps Thanksgiving has passed.
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But what you're not sitting around listening to the podcast
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on Thanksgiving Day?
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Come on?
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The perfect way to hide from your family exactly.
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That's the service that we have used.
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Yourself for a moment, and then you go listen to
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podcasts and five hours later they come back and somebody
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brings you a piece.
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Of turkey it's great, or just pie that's fine, Yeah.
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Pie, that's true.
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Really, all you need pie and stuffing, you know what,
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a little plate of pie and stuff and I would
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be good.
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I'll be good too, yeap. So we on a in
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twenty twenty Dinneral back in twenty twenty, we were talking
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about giving thanks for little things. This was a little
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bit pandemic related because it was twenty twenty, so we
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were talking about being thankful for things like mobile ordering,
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finding a good face mask, done with that online shopping,
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curbside pickup. Yeah. So yeah, these were all things that
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there were a lot of things that the that the
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pandemic had brought us that we were actually kind of
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thankful for. But I think we can still find small
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things to be thankful.
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For, because I have to say, maybe a little embarrassing,
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maybe not, but I have taken an inordinate amount of
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pleasure out of my little pour over coffee situation since
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I started using the ground coffee and a permanent filter
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up in my office and it is expanding. I am
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now spread over a table, a shelf of a bookshelf,
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and a cubby all my drink related accessories. The coupy
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is the tea, and then the bookshelf is the coffee,
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and then the table is things in process. Okay, I
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got two extra filters so that I can, you know,
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make three cups of coffee in a day before I
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have to wash anything. And it's just I keep like
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tweaking it, improving it, and it's quite delightful. It brings
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me a lot of joy, which is very sad because
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I need a cup of coffee. It's so great, look
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at me.
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down and do your work and you have, yes, you know,
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this nice warm coffee to get you go.
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coffee grounds all over the place.
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It's great. Yeah, it's like you're working in the Starbucks
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but you're at home. Kind of is you're not, but
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you get to stay home.
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Yeah. Yeah, just makes me happy. Little things. Yeah, I
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think it's a sequence of drinks during the day. You know,
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I have coffee and then I have a tea, and
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then I have another coffee, and then I have another tea,
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and then I have coffee again.
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of tea and then I have the other kind of tea. Yeah,
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tea bag and lusty.
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I have like the caffeine tea and then the decaffeinated tea.
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of times, like there's a whole there's the whole thing.
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working in early shift. You know, usually it's two early
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shifts in a row. So I have one of them
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is my oats overnight breakfast day, and then one is Starbucks.
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So I get, you know, honestly, when I wake up
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that morning and I'm like, oh my god, it's so early,
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but oh but today's a Starbucks day, it does kind
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of help.
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Yeah, yeah, I have my different I have my breakfast routine. Also,
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I have a see Cereal on Monday and Wednesday, kind
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bar on Tuesday, oats overnight on Thursday, Friday. Let's see,
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there's something else because I only have Cereal twice. What
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do I have on Wednesdays? Anyway? And my husband's oatmeal
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on now that's lunch. My husband makes me oatmeal on Saturday,
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regular oatmeal, hot oatmeal, and then we have the ether
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bagels who donuts on Sunday. It's a perfect plan. It
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is a perfect plan, like delightful. I guess it's Monday,
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Wednesday and Friday for Cereal, which is good. Yeah, I
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like Cereal. Cereal's fine.
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Yeah, Cereal is a good thing. It is Yeah. I
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right now I'm working my way very slowly through a
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like pumpkin seed granola that I got at Costco. Mmm,
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quite good.
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So I'm still making my way through the pumpkin spice
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special k Oh, that's right, which my my husband heard
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I liked and so he got like five boxes.
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Did you figure this? This was going to be around
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for much longer?
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Makes a good snack too. You can yourself a handful of.
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That, right, Yeah, that's mostly how I'm eating my granola,
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so mm hmm. And I still am thankful for my popcorn,
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my brand that I, oh yet I want, and I
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had to I had to buy a different brand the
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other day, and it's just not the same. It's I
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don't know how I'm going to get through this bag
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actually is just not good. So I'm very disappointed. I
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don't know. I shouldn't. I just wanted something, you know,
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because I couldn't get my regular one, and that was
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a bad move. Should have just held out for the
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good stuff? Yeah, because yeah, this was not working. So
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but I did have the other day. This is probably
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not just not a little thing. But I was driving
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vaguely in the direction that I used to take my
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son to school, and I was like hit with a
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fresh wave of like, oh, I'm so glad I'm done
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with like that whole Basically all of high school was
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just so hard and just getting him there every day was,
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you know, such an ordeal and I'm so glad that
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I don't do that anymore. Wow. Yeah, yeah, that is
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ourly front there.
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So yeah, I can't think if I have a non
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food related small thing, there must be something. We look
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around my space here. Yeah, it's pretty much what am
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I going to eat or snack on? Yeah, I mean
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it's driving my life.
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I always say, like, you know, no food rewards, but
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it really, yeah.
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I have, I have gained weight and I really need
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to lose some And for while I was not snacking,
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I was been very good and I still was not
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losing weight. So now it's like, screw it. It's from yep,
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it doesn't make a difference.
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And I'm gonna eat this and I'm gonna eat it
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on one.
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Of these days. I have to have a reckoning.
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But not yet, wait until January at least.
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This Yeah, there's resolution time. That's what I'm going to
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do it. I think I may just be at the
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age where it's gonna be the weight you are and
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nothing you do is gonna change it because your metabolism
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is roughly you know, it's just stumbling along at the
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lowest possible.
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Level, right, And I keep seeing like people talking about
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weight gain and hormones and blah blah blah and how
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secret is like just to eat more protein. And you know,
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somebody that I follow on Instagram is like, I'm eating
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protein like it's my job and it's not working, and
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that is like how much more protein can I eat?
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Come on, yo? Like, am I supposed to turn go
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like Paleo on this? Like no, it's I'm not going
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to so never. So yeah, that's just not gonna happen
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because then you won't be any cereal. All you're eating
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is like chicken breasts.
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Yeah no, nope, nope, no thanks.
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Another good thing they have at Costco, though, is these
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little like snack sized packs of cooked chicken, like just
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little chicken breasts like bites. Okay, I mean they have
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a little they have some kind of seasoning on them.
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And my husband's like, you could make that. I'm like,
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yeah I could. I don't, so I boughted my cost.
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We wouldn't have these cool package. This cool package.
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Yeah, I mean, yeah, I take it on my break.
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You're supposed to like just like cook up a whole
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package of chicken breasts, cut them up, package each one individually,
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and stick in your refrigerator. Yes, that sounds like a
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lot of work, and it sounds like it would go
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bad before you had a chance to eat it all.
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Not if you're eating the amount of protein you're supposed
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to be eating, which is chicken breast regimen.
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Oh gosh, no, no, thank you. I just I mean,
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I believe that there is nutritional truth. I believe there
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is a truth that would make a difference. I just
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don't know what it is, and I don't have the
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time and the stamina to try everything out until I
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find what works for me. So I'm just gonna say,
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you know, I'm just gonna enjoy myself exactly for however
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long I have. Maybe this is maybe this is a
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small thing that is bringing me joy. It's just like
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knowing that, you know, I probably don't have to really
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plan for things that much. It's just gonna say, I
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don't there's no pressure. But I mean there's no pressure anymore,
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you know, when you're thirty five, It's like jeez. I
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want to have these things I want to do in
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my career. I want to do this, I want to
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have this job, I want to publish this thing. I
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have all these things I want to do, and now
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I'm like sixty five is like, yeah, did it winding? That?
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Fine?
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I'm gonna have some coffee, canna, do a little boring
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work that doesn't mean that much to me, and take
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a nap.
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Yeah, so there you go.
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It's it's I think I'm gonna start leaning into that.
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I like it would have been. I'm too fat. Oh
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my gosh, I gotta lose weight. It's so important. Now
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it's like, eh, who cares, It's fine, I'm fine, everything
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00:32:54.440 --> 00:33:01.240
is fine. It's a relief, honestly, yes, because there are
535
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five hundred different people telling you five hundred different things
536
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and saying no, this is the one that's true and
537
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all the rest of them are horrible.
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00:33:07.480 --> 00:33:10.519
Right, Just like the parenting books do it this exactly.
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Nutrition is just the same as parenting. And I know
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somebody's right, but well, there or not.
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00:33:17.160 --> 00:33:19.119
I mean, it's the same work, it's the same thing.
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It's the same as with parenting. It's different things for
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different people.
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Different people yeah, so yeah.
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Anyway, well, any chance that eating eating pumpkin spice special
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can drinking a lot of coffee is the secret? Maybe
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anybody saying that, maybe maybe you should say that, boy,
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would that book sell.
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Secret to my happiness? And you can have it too.
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All it takes.
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Pounds overweighted, but still I'm happy. That's what's important, really
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important in life.
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Isn't it.
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There you go, well, I'm podcasting is the same exactly.
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That's what we're thankful, but.
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We're taking it away from you now, so sub run
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till next week.
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