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Every yes costs something.
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It costs time, it costs energy, it costs attention, and sometimes it costs peace.
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And yes can be beautiful when God has assigned it, but a yes can become heavy when it came from guilt, fear, pressure, or the need to please people.
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Friends, not every need is your assignment.
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Not every open door is your door.
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Not every request requires a quick answer.
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And not every person who is upset by your no is meant to control your yes.
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Today we're talking about guarding your yes through discernment and peace.
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Today's episode is called Guarding Your Yes, Discernment, and Peace.
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If you have ever said yes when your spirit was saying, Slow down, this episode is for you.
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If you have ever been tired from carrying things God never asked you to carry, this is for you.
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And if you're learning to protect a God-given yes, stay with me.
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We're going to let the word of God teach us how to say yes with wisdom, how to say no with grace, and how to let the peace of Christ guard our hearts.
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Let us pray.
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Father God, thank you for your presence.
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You are not the author of confusion.
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Your word says in 1 Corinthians 14 and 33 that you are the God of peace, where our minds have been crowded by pressure, people pleasing, fear, and confusion.
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Bring your peace.
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James 1 and 5 says that if we lack wisdom, we can ask you, and you give generously.
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We ask for wisdom today.
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Teach us what to accept, what to release, and what to pray about.
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And also what to decline, so that our lives reflect obedience to you in Jesus' precious and mighty name we pray.
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Amen.
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Let us begin with this truth.
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Your yes belongs to God first, before it belongs to a friend, before it belongs to family, before it belongs to work, before it belongs to any ministry, before it belongs to any opportunity that looks good on the outside.
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Your first yes is to the Lord.
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Jesus said in Matthew 6 and 33, seek first the kingdom of heaven and his righteousness.
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That word first matters.
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It gives order to our decisions.
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When we seek God first, we do not have to chase every person's approval.
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We don't have to say yes just because someone asks loudly.
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We do not have to make decisions just because there's an urgency around us.
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We can stop, we can pray, we can ask, Lord, is this mine to carry?
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Jesus modeled this in Mark 1 and 35.
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Jesus rose early and went to a solitary place to pray.
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The disciples came looking for him.
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They said, Everyone is looking for you.
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Now that sounds urgent.
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There were people with needs, there were crowds waiting.
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But Jesus did not let other people's urgency replace the Father's direction.
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He answered that they need to go to other towns because that was why he came.
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Jesus loved people completely, yet he was led by the Father, not controlled by the crowd.
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That is a lesson for all of us.
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A need does not automatically mean you are the one called to meet it.
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A request does not automatically mean you must say yes.
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You can care deeply and still ask God for direction.
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Galatians 1 and 10 ask us whether we are seeking to please people or to please God.
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That question can search our hearts because people pleasing sounds kind until it leads us away from obedience.
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People pleasing says, if they are unhappy with me, I must have done something wrong.
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But that's not always true.
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Sometimes people are unhappy because of the boundary you set, and it will not let them keep taking what was never theirs to demand.
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Jesus did not sin, yet people misunderstood him.
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Jesus spoke truth, yet people rejected him.
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Jesus walked in love, yet not everyone was pleased.
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So do not measure obedience by whether everybody claps.
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Measure obedience by whether it agrees with God's word.
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Proverbs 3, 5 through 6 tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not into our own understanding and acknowledge Him in all of our ways.
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When we do, He will direct our paths.
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That means before a yes, we acknowledge God.
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We invite Him into the decision.
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We do not just ask, can I do this?
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We ask, should we do this?
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Is this the right season?
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Is this the right way?
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Is this you, Lord?
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Discernment is not being suspicious of everybody.
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Discernment is not cold.
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Discernment is not assuming that every person had bad motives.
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Discernment is the ability to recognize what is true, what is wise, and what agrees with God.
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1 John 4 and 1 says, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.
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John was teaching believers not to accept every spiritual claim without testing it by the truth of Christ.
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That same principle teaches us to slow down.
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Not every confident voice is a godly voice.
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Not every opportunity is a God opportunity.
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And not every good-looking path leads to where God wants you to go.
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You gotta test it.
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Does it agree with Scripture?
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Does it honor the character of Christ?
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Does it require you to compromise?
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Does it produce good fruit?
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James 3 and 17 says that wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy, and full of good fruit.
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That is our measuring stick.
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God's wisdom is pure.
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It does not ask you to lie, hide, manipulate, or betray your convictions.
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God's wisdom is peaceable.
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It does not thrive on chaos and confusion.
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God's wisdom is gentle.
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It does not have to push, bully, or threaten.
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And it is full of good fruit.
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Jesus said in Matthew 7 and 16 that we recognize people by their fruit.
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So look at fruit.
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If a relationship continually produces fear, confusion, compromise, and spiritual dryness, pay attention.
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If an opportunity requires you to neglect what God has already assigned, pay attention.
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If a decision keeps pushing you to silence conviction, pay attention.
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Fruit speaks.
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You do not have to be rude to be discerning.
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You do not have to give someone a long explanation just because they request access to your time or your life.
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You can say, Let me pray about that.
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You can say, I'm not able to take that on.
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You can tell them that it will not work for you.
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You can say it kindly.
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You can say it calmly, and you can say it without explaining yourself until you talk yourself out of the boundary.
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Because we'll do that.
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Proverbs 4 and 7 says that wisdom is the principal thing.
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Get wisdom, and with all your getting, get understanding.
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Friends, wisdom may require a pause.
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Do not confuse a pause with disobedience.
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God is not afraid of you taking time to pray.
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He is not rushing you into a decision that requires discernment.
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He's just not gonna do it.
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Jesus said in John 14 and 27, peace I leave with you.
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My peace I give you.
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Then he said, I do not give to you as the world gives.
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The peace Jesus gives is not the same as an easy life.
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The world says peace comes when nothing goes wrong, when everybody agrees, when the money is right, when the family is quiet.
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But that peace is so fragile.
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One phone call can shake it up, one report can shake it up, one hard conversation can shake it up.
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Jesus gives a different peace.
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He spoke these words while preparing his disciples for his death and departure.
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He was not promising a trouble-free life.
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In John 16 and 33, Jesus said, In the world you will have tribulations.
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But he also said, Take heart.
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I have overcome the world.
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Peace is not pretending that trouble does not exist.
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Peace is knowing that trouble does not have the final word.
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Jesus does.
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Philippians 4, 6 and 7 tells us not to be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, to present our request to God.
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Then the peace of God will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus.
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Notice the word guard.
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God's peace stands watch.
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It helps us recognize where anxiety is trying to rule where God should rule.
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It helps us ask, am I moving in faith or am I moving because I'm afraid of what someone will think?
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Colossians 3 and 15 says, Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.
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Peace is not performance.
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You do not have to smile and pretend you're a fine when your heart is heavy.
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Peace is a place of surrender.
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You bring the real concern to God.
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You tell him what hurts.
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You tell him what scares you.
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You tell him what you do not understand.
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Then let his words settle your heart.
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Isaiah 26 and 3 says that God keeps in perfect peace.
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That one whose mind is stayed on him.
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Because that person trusts in him.
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A mind stayed on God does not mean you never notice a problem.
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It means you don't let the problem become the center of your mind.
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You return to his promises.
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You return your thoughts to God.
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You return to what is true.
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Philippians 4 and 8 tells us to think about what is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, and worthy of praise.
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That does not mean denial.
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It means we refuse to feed every fearful thought.
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You may need to face a problem, but you don't need to rehearse it all night long.
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You may need to have a hard conversation, but you do not need to borrow every disaster that has not happened yet.
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2 Corinthians 10 and 5 says, to take every thought captive to obey Christ.
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A thought may knock at the door.
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It doesn't have to move in and start paying rent.
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Now, that may feel hard for those of us who have been taught that being needed means being valuable.
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But your value does not come from how many people you can rescue.
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Your value comes from God.
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Genesis 1 and 27 tells us that we are made in the image of God.
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You were valuable before you performed.
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You were loved before you proved yourself.
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And you do not need to exhaust yourself to earn a place God has already given you by grace.
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Ephesians 2 and 10 says, We are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepared beforehand for us to walk in.
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God prepared good works for you.
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That means you have an assignment.
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And if you say yes to everything, you may not have room for what God specifically prepared just for you.
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A godly no can preserve your time for prayer.
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A godly no can preserve your strength for your family.
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A godly no can preserve your focus for your calling.
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A godly no can protect you from bitterness.
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Ephesians 4 and 15 says, to speak the truth in love.
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A boundary can be truthful and loving at the same time.
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You can say I care about you, but I cannot do that.
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You can say, I'll pray for you, but I cannot take on that responsibility.
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I'll pray for you, but I'm not going to take responsibility for that decision.
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You can say I need to step back so I can keep a healthy heart.
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Truth without love can wound, but love without truth can keep people stuck.
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Even Jesus had boundaries.
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In Luke 5, 15 through 16, crowds gathered to hear him and to be healed.
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But the Bible says he often withdrew to desolate places and prayed.
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Jesus did not treat prayer as an optional extra.
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He made room for communion with the Father.
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If Jesus made room to withdraw and pray, we surely need to make room to be with him.
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Do not call yourself selfish for protecting your time with the Lord.
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That is necessary.
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And do not, do not call yourself mean because you need rest.
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Psalms 23 says that the Lord makes us lie down in green pastures and leads us beside the still waters.
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He restores our soul.
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A restored soul can serve with joy.
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A depleted soul often serves with resentment.
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So guard your yes.
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Do not give it away casually.
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Let God lead you.
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Now, let us make this practical.
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When a request, an opportunity, or a relationship decision comes before you, do not answer from pressure.
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Start with prayer.
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James 1 and 5 says, Ask God for wisdom.
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Bring the decision to him before you bring it to everybody else.
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Tell him the facts.
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Tell him your concerns.
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Tell him what you want, and then ask him to purify your motives.
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Psalm 139, 23 through 24 says, Search me, O God, and know my heart.
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Ask.
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Am I saying yes because I'm called or because I'm afraid to disappoint?
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Am I saying no because I need wisdom or because I'm avoiding something God wants me to do?
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Let God search your heart, then measure the decision by the word.
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God will never lead you against his own character or against his word.
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Psalm 119, 105 says, His word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
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A lamp may not show you every mile ahead, but it gives light for the next faithful step.
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Then seek godly counsel.
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Proverbs 11 and 14 says that there is safety in an abundance of counselors, not an abundance of opinions.
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Godly counselors, people whose lives show humility, integrity, and the fruit of the Spirit.
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You do not need people to tell you what your flesh already wants.
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You need believers who will point you back to Jesus and back to Scripture.
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Then be willing to wait.
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Psalm 27 and 14 says, wait for the Lord, be strong, and let your heart take courage.
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Waiting is not wasted.
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A delayed answer is not automatically denial.
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Sometimes God is protecting you.
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Sometimes he's preparing you.
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Sometimes he's working where you cannot see.
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Do not force a door because you're tired of waiting.
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And finally, respond with grace.
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James 119 tells us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.
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You do not need to respond immediately to every text, every request, or every accusation.
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A delayed response can save you from a regretted response.
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Proverbs 15 and 1 says, a gentle answer turns away wrath.
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Gentle does not mean weak, it means submitted to God.
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It means you can hold a boundary without losing your witness.
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Now for the takeaway.
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Guarding your yes means seeking God first, using discernment before you decide, and letting Christ's peace protect what He has assigned you.
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You are allowed to pray first.
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You are allowed to take your time.
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You are allowed to say, I cannot do that right now.
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You are allowed to say no.
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When yes would lead you away from peace, truth, rest, or obedience.
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And when God gives you a yes, say it with faith.
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Say it with a clear heart.
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Say it knowing that the one who assigned it will supply the grace to carry it.
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Let us pray.
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Father, thank you for the wisdom that comes from you.
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Your word tells us in James 3.17 that your wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle, and full of good fruit.
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Give us that wisdom.
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Help us guard our hearts, as Proverbs 4 and 23 teaches.
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Help us to seek your kingdom first, as Matthew 6.33 teaches.
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Help us to release anxiety to you, as Philippians 4, 6 and 7 teaches.
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Give us courage to say yes to what you have called us to do.
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Give us grace to say no to what does not belong to us.
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Let the peace of Christ rule our hearts.
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In Jesus' precious and mighty name we pray.
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Amen.
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Now let's do the quick recap.
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Your first yes belongs to God, so seek Him before you make commitments.
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Discernment has every opportunity by scripture, wisdom, and truth.
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Jesus gives peace that remains steady even when life is not easy.
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A godly note can protect the time, strength, and obedience that God has assigned to you.
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Pray, use the word, seek wise counsel, wait when needed, and respond with grace.
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Thank you all for spending this time with me today on Vision and Inc.
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I pray you leave today with a clearer heart, stronger discernment, and peace to guard the yes God placed in your life.
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Until next time, keep seeking God, keep standing on his word, keep guarding your yes, because it is written.
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Every yes costs something.
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It costs time, it costs energy, it costs attention, and sometimes it costs peace.
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And yes can be beautiful when God has assigned it, but a yes can become heavy when it came from guilt, fear, pressure, or the need to please people.
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Friends, not every need is your assignment.
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Not every open door is your door.
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Not every request requires a quick answer.
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And not every person who is upset by your no is meant to control your yes.
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Today we're talking about guarding your yes through discernment and peace.
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Today's episode is called Guarding Your Yes, Discernment, and Peace.
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If you have ever said yes when your spirit was saying, Slow down, this episode is for you.
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If you have ever been tired from carrying things God never asked you to carry, this is for you.
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And if you're learning to protect a God-given yes, stay with me.
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We're going to let the word of God teach us how to say yes with wisdom, how to say no with grace, and how to let the peace of Christ guard our hearts.
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Let us pray.
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Father God, thank you for your presence.
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You are not the author of confusion.
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Your word says in 1 Corinthians 14 and 33 that you are the God of peace, where our minds have been crowded by pressure, people pleasing, fear, and confusion.
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Bring your peace.
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James 1 and 5 says that if we lack wisdom, we can ask you, and you give generously.
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We ask for wisdom today.
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Teach us what to accept, what to release, and what to pray about.
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And also what to decline, so that our lives reflect obedience to you in Jesus' precious and mighty name we pray.
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Amen.
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Let us begin with this truth.
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Your yes belongs to God first, before it belongs to a friend, before it belongs to family, before it belongs to work, before it belongs to any ministry, before it belongs to any opportunity that looks good on the outside.
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Your first yes is to the Lord.
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Jesus said in Matthew 6 and 33, seek first the kingdom of heaven and his righteousness.
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That word first matters.
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It gives order to our decisions.
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When we seek God first, we do not have to chase every person's approval.
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We don't have to say yes just because someone asks loudly.
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We do not have to make decisions just because there's an urgency around us.
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We can stop, we can pray, we can ask, Lord, is this mine to carry?
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Jesus modeled this in Mark 1 and 35.
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Jesus rose early and went to a solitary place to pray.
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The disciples came looking for him.
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They said, Everyone is looking for you.
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Now that sounds urgent.
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There were people with needs, there were crowds waiting.
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But Jesus did not let other people's urgency replace the Father's direction.
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He answered that they need to go to other towns because that was why he came.
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Jesus loved people completely, yet he was led by the Father, not controlled by the crowd.
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That is a lesson for all of us.
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A need does not automatically mean you are the one called to meet it.
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A request does not automatically mean you must say yes.
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You can care deeply and still ask God for direction.
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Galatians 1 and 10 ask us whether we are seeking to please people or to please God.
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That question can search our hearts because people pleasing sounds kind until it leads us away from obedience.
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People pleasing says, if they are unhappy with me, I must have done something wrong.
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But that's not always true.
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Sometimes people are unhappy because of the boundary you set, and it will not let them keep taking what was never theirs to demand.
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Jesus did not sin, yet people misunderstood him.
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Jesus spoke truth, yet people rejected him.
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Jesus walked in love, yet not everyone was pleased.
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So do not measure obedience by whether everybody claps.
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Measure obedience by whether it agrees with God's word.
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Proverbs 3, 5 through 6 tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not into our own understanding and acknowledge Him in all of our ways.
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When we do, He will direct our paths.
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That means before a yes, we acknowledge God.
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We invite Him into the decision.
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We do not just ask, can I do this?
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We ask, should we do this?
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Is this the right season?
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Is this the right way?
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Is this you, Lord?
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Discernment is not being suspicious of everybody.
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Discernment is not cold.
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Discernment is not assuming that every person had bad motives.
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Discernment is the ability to recognize what is true, what is wise, and what agrees with God.
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1 John 4 and 1 says, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.
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John was teaching believers not to accept every spiritual claim without testing it by the truth of Christ.
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That same principle teaches us to slow down.
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Not every confident voice is a godly voice.
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Not every opportunity is a God opportunity.
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And not every good-looking path leads to where God wants you to go.
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You gotta test it.
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Does it agree with Scripture?
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Does it honor the character of Christ?
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Does it require you to compromise?
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Does it produce good fruit?
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James 3 and 17 says that wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy, and full of good fruit.
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That is our measuring stick.
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God's wisdom is pure.
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It does not ask you to lie, hide, manipulate, or betray your convictions.
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God's wisdom is peaceable.
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It does not thrive on chaos and confusion.
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God's wisdom is gentle.
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It does not have to push, bully, or threaten.
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And it is full of good fruit.
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Jesus said in Matthew 7 and 16 that we recognize people by their fruit.
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So look at fruit.
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If a relationship continually produces fear, confusion, compromise, and spiritual dryness, pay attention.
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If an opportunity requires you to neglect what God has already assigned, pay attention.
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If a decision keeps pushing you to silence conviction, pay attention.
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Fruit speaks.
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You do not have to be rude to be discerning.
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You do not have to give someone a long explanation just because they request access to your time or your life.
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You can say, Let me pray about that.
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You can say, I'm not able to take that on.
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You can tell them that it will not work for you.
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You can say it kindly.
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You can say it calmly, and you can say it without explaining yourself until you talk yourself out of the boundary.
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Because we'll do that.
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Proverbs 4 and 7 says that wisdom is the principal thing.
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Get wisdom, and with all your getting, get understanding.
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Friends, wisdom may require a pause.
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Do not confuse a pause with disobedience.
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God is not afraid of you taking time to pray.
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He is not rushing you into a decision that requires discernment.
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He's just not gonna do it.
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Jesus said in John 14 and 27, peace I leave with you.
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My peace I give you.
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Then he said, I do not give to you as the world gives.
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The peace Jesus gives is not the same as an easy life.
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The world says peace comes when nothing goes wrong, when everybody agrees, when the money is right, when the family is quiet.
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But that peace is so fragile.
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One phone call can shake it up, one report can shake it up, one hard conversation can shake it up.
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Jesus gives a different peace.
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He spoke these words while preparing his disciples for his death and departure.
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He was not promising a trouble-free life.
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In John 16 and 33, Jesus said, In the world you will have tribulations.
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But he also said, Take heart.
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I have overcome the world.
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Peace is not pretending that trouble does not exist.
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Peace is knowing that trouble does not have the final word.
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Jesus does.
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Philippians 4, 6 and 7 tells us not to be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, to present our request to God.
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Then the peace of God will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus.
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Notice the word guard.
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God's peace stands watch.
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It helps us recognize where anxiety is trying to rule where God should rule.
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It helps us ask, am I moving in faith or am I moving because I'm afraid of what someone will think?
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Colossians 3 and 15 says, Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.
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Peace is not performance.
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You do not have to smile and pretend you're a fine when your heart is heavy.
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Peace is a place of surrender.
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You bring the real concern to God.
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You tell him what hurts.
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You tell him what scares you.
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You tell him what you do not understand.
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Then let his words settle your heart.
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Isaiah 26 and 3 says that God keeps in perfect peace.
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That one whose mind is stayed on him.
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Because that person trusts in him.
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A mind stayed on God does not mean you never notice a problem.
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It means you don't let the problem become the center of your mind.
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You return to his promises.
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You return your thoughts to God.
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You return to what is true.
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Philippians 4 and 8 tells us to think about what is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, and worthy of praise.
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That does not mean denial.
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It means we refuse to feed every fearful thought.
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You may need to face a problem, but you don't need to rehearse it all night long.
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You may need to have a hard conversation, but you do not need to borrow every disaster that has not happened yet.
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2 Corinthians 10 and 5 says, to take every thought captive to obey Christ.
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A thought may knock at the door.
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It doesn't have to move in and start paying rent.
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Now, that may feel hard for those of us who have been taught that being needed means being valuable.
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But your value does not come from how many people you can rescue.
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Your value comes from God.
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Genesis 1 and 27 tells us that we are made in the image of God.
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You were valuable before you performed.
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You were loved before you proved yourself.
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And you do not need to exhaust yourself to earn a place God has already given you by grace.
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Ephesians 2 and 10 says, We are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepared beforehand for us to walk in.
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God prepared good works for you.
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That means you have an assignment.
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And if you say yes to everything, you may not have room for what God specifically prepared just for you.
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A godly no can preserve your time for prayer.
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A godly no can preserve your strength for your family.
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A godly no can preserve your focus for your calling.
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A godly no can protect you from bitterness.
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Ephesians 4 and 15 says, to speak the truth in love.
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A boundary can be truthful and loving at the same time.
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You can say I care about you, but I cannot do that.
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You can say, I'll pray for you, but I cannot take on that responsibility.
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I'll pray for you, but I'm not going to take responsibility for that decision.
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You can say I need to step back so I can keep a healthy heart.
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Truth without love can wound, but love without truth can keep people stuck.
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Even Jesus had boundaries.
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In Luke 5, 15 through 16, crowds gathered to hear him and to be healed.
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But the Bible says he often withdrew to desolate places and prayed.
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Jesus did not treat prayer as an optional extra.
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He made room for communion with the Father.
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If Jesus made room to withdraw and pray, we surely need to make room to be with him.
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Do not call yourself selfish for protecting your time with the Lord.
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That is necessary.
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And do not, do not call yourself mean because you need rest.
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Psalms 23 says that the Lord makes us lie down in green pastures and leads us beside the still waters.
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He restores our soul.
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A restored soul can serve with joy.
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A depleted soul often serves with resentment.
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So guard your yes.
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Do not give it away casually.
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Let God lead you.
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Now, let us make this practical.
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When a request, an opportunity, or a relationship decision comes before you, do not answer from pressure.
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Start with prayer.
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James 1 and 5 says, Ask God for wisdom.
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Bring the decision to him before you bring it to everybody else.
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Tell him the facts.
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Tell him your concerns.
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Tell him what you want, and then ask him to purify your motives.
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Psalm 139, 23 through 24 says, Search me, O God, and know my heart.
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Ask.
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Am I saying yes because I'm called or because I'm afraid to disappoint?
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Am I saying no because I need wisdom or because I'm avoiding something God wants me to do?
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Let God search your heart, then measure the decision by the word.
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God will never lead you against his own character or against his word.
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Psalm 119, 105 says, His word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
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A lamp may not show you every mile ahead, but it gives light for the next faithful step.
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Then seek godly counsel.
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Proverbs 11 and 14 says that there is safety in an abundance of counselors, not an abundance of opinions.
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Godly counselors, people whose lives show humility, integrity, and the fruit of the Spirit.
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You do not need people to tell you what your flesh already wants.
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You need believers who will point you back to Jesus and back to Scripture.
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Then be willing to wait.
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Psalm 27 and 14 says, wait for the Lord, be strong, and let your heart take courage.
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Waiting is not wasted.
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A delayed answer is not automatically denial.
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Sometimes God is protecting you.
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Sometimes he's preparing you.
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Sometimes he's working where you cannot see.
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Do not force a door because you're tired of waiting.
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And finally, respond with grace.
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James 119 tells us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.
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You do not need to respond immediately to every text, every request, or every accusation.
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A delayed response can save you from a regretted response.
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Proverbs 15 and 1 says, a gentle answer turns away wrath.
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Gentle does not mean weak, it means submitted to God.
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It means you can hold a boundary without losing your witness.
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Now for the takeaway.
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Guarding your yes means seeking God first, using discernment before you decide, and letting Christ's peace protect what He has assigned you.
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You are allowed to pray first.
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You are allowed to take your time.
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You are allowed to say, I cannot do that right now.
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You are allowed to say no.
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When yes would lead you away from peace, truth, rest, or obedience.
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And when God gives you a yes, say it with faith.
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Say it with a clear heart.
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Say it knowing that the one who assigned it will supply the grace to carry it.
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Winners will be announced in season two's introduction.
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Let us pray.
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Father, thank you for the wisdom that comes from you.
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Your word tells us in James 3.17 that your wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle, and full of good fruit.
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Give us that wisdom.
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Help us guard our hearts, as Proverbs 4 and 23 teaches.
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Help us to seek your kingdom first, as Matthew 6.33 teaches.
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Help us to release anxiety to you, as Philippians 4, 6 and 7 teaches.
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Give us courage to say yes to what you have called us to do.
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Give us grace to say no to what does not belong to us.
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Let the peace of Christ rule our hearts.
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In Jesus' precious and mighty name we pray.
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Amen.
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Now let's do the quick recap.
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Your first yes belongs to God, so seek Him before you make commitments.
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Discernment has every opportunity by scripture, wisdom, and truth.
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Jesus gives peace that remains steady even when life is not easy.
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A godly note can protect the time, strength, and obedience that God has assigned to you.
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Pray, use the word, seek wise counsel, wait when needed, and respond with grace.
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Thank you all for spending this time with me today on Vision and Inc.
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It is written.
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I pray you leave today with a clearer heart, stronger discernment, and peace to guard the yes God placed in your life.
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If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and share it with someone who needs permission to seek God before they say yes.
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Until next time, keep seeking God, keep standing on his word, keep guarding your yes, because it is written.
