ABOUT THIS EPISODE
If you can’t accept a compliment without downplaying it, deflecting it, or chalking the whole thing up to luck, this episode is for you. I sometimes do the same thing, and for a long time I had no idea why owning my own accomplishments felt safer to dodge than to just sit in. I trace it all the way back to a report card and what my dad said when he finally looked at it.
This episode shows why accepting compliments can feel like a trap, where that programming actually comes from, and how I’ve slowly learned to take the recognition in instead of shoving it away. I’ll walk you through the project I couldn’t pin on luck, and the simple thing I started doing that’s changing how I see myself.
Topics covered in this episode:
- The Mean Girls scene that explains why saying “yes, thank you” can feel like a setup
- The report card moment that taught me I wasn’t allowed to be proud of myself
- Why being good at something can feel physically dangerous long after you’ve left home
- How this showed up in my corporate career and in how I priced my own business
- The one client project I couldn’t write off as beginner’s luck
- One simple habit I started that’s helping me actually believe I’m good at what I do
- How to figure out your “special sauce,” which is usually the thing you keep brushing off
If you’ve got that one friend who rejects compliments like they’re allergic, this one’s for them too.
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