Sibling fighting over a house, A Different World, and A Crazy Columbia Hairstyle Debacle

The Group Chat Unfiltered: What's up, Chad? What's up? ⁓ my god. My voice It's been a day. It honestly it has been a day. Go ahead, turn your car off. We're doing this episode in the car because why the fuck not? We feel like what is it? The acoustics. We feel like the acoustics just sound better in the car. Yeah. I'm so fucking sick. It is better. I'm okay. We feel like we're hiding from our kids too. I mean this is probably better so nobody's phone go off. This is our safe space. Yeah, because then we really get to talk shit. Yeah. ⁓ yeah, so today we had our grandfather's birthday dinner. That was a lot. It actually was fucking a lot. ⁓ yeah, but life was a lot of tears. Yeah, there was. Life was life has been beating our ass, but I mean we're adults. And honestly, kudos to us because today has really just been a rough day for us, but we still are trying to make an episode. So Yeah. We are giving us our flowers for showing up. Thank you. Even when we don't ⁓ Yes, yes, yes, yes. We're gonna make an episode every time, no matter how many viewers or listeners we have. We got this. No matter how fucked up our personal lives are. Yeah, because it's okay. Because just like our mom used to say when we were younger. Please don't. ⁓ That's a backstory for another day. But anyway, group chat over. Hold on. No, the question first. Open your door. I mean, we gotta do the question first. Sorry about that. Does that not fucking work with your card? No, it it'll go off eventually, I think. Okay. Anyway, no, the group chat alert is after we do the question. So you actually have a question you want to ask me? Because I honestly thought you're just gonna dive into it. Okay, dude. No, okay. Are you free free handed it? Or are you? No, no, no. So so my thing is I'll ⁓ my thing is I'll think about stuff. Okay. Matter of fact, I gotta go ahead. You keep talking, I got you. So how do you feel if okay, so you and your husband y'all have house. Yeah. So what if like you passed away? What the fight? And then we tried to sue Malik for your half of the house. How would you feel? 'Cause that I've seen that happen in like two different situations. Okay, so but I'm dead, so why did they look No because we're okay, so essentially this lady she was with this she was with this man, she bought a house, she added him to the deed like two weeks later. And she died two weeks? No no no. They were together for seventeen years, he died and his family sued her for his portion of the deal. And she just added him to the will like to the deed. Ooh Ooh girl. So then the court sided with with The family because you know his name was on deed. And just let the widow have the house. It's not that deep. The thing is, she bought the fucking house. Like he didn't put any finances into the house. I would actually be pissed. That is my yeah. Yeah. Dead me would be pissed. What about you? I would be fucking pissed because not only does she have to give them like she had to sell her house. So not only does she have to sell a house, she also has to look for she gotta give them half of the money she makes on the house. Then she has to get another home. But she has kids. I know she regrets marrying into that family. No, they weren't married. That was her boyfriend. I know you fucking lie. No, so she has a boyfriend. Yes. ⁓ yeah, I w I would commit murder. It's like what? Yeah, that that's pretty fucked up. But I'm like, I would I cannot see you passing away and me suing your husband. For your part of the house. Like what? So then him and my nieces and not my niece, he ain't got no girls. My nephews are like homeless. Like I just actually pretty and then it makes you wonder if they had a kids in the situation. No, they didn't have kids. So the kids that were in the situation were her kids. He helped her he helped her raise her kids. I mean, but they're grown now. But still. Yeah. To be like that greedy to take away something that was hurt. I feel like some sometimes you just have to have morals and clearly you have to have morals. Like to take away something like that is crazy. But anyway, what's your question? What's a dream you haven't told many people about? Like dream aspiration? I don't know. I'm very I'm I'm very vocal. ⁓ But what is something deep down in that little pussy pocket? Pussy pocket is crazy. ⁓ I'm trying to think. I don't know. I mean something small. At one point in time I did want another kid. But with the guy that I was with at the time, he didn't want any more kids and he was very clear and kept saying that he didn't want any more kids. So I let that version of me die. And yeah. So it's like now I'm older and my daughter's older. So now I just feel like I'm just now became content. But there was a time when I wanted I I wanted like a kid. Absolutely. No. Run you ragged. Me and one of my friends were talking about it and he was trying to convince me like maybe after I do another surrogacy journey, I'm like, no, I think that part of my It's done. But yeah. I really wanted a son. Then that's why I love your boys. Because I really wanted a son. They they took us through that today. Yeah, today was rough. They both Yeah, it was a lot. so do Yeah, what's yours? I secretly so it it's not a secret that I've always wanted to and yes I own property now, but I mean like business property, I wanna do something. But deep deep down inside, I wanna own a laundry bag. 'Cause that's just that's always income. You know like what you remember when we were kids? Hey, so I don't know what happened. But it's like when my car cut off completely, it cut out the audio. So I think are we starting over? No. You just gotta merge it together. Wait, so it saved the last one? Yeah, I'm pretty sure. So just cut all this out. Okay. Okay. See. So I'm not sure what happened 'cause my car officially cut off. So I think we left off when I was saying about us wanting to own like a cemetery at one point in time. ⁓ yeah. But that's still like on the list. Yeah, because I mean people dying every day. Well shit, when you say that like that. I mean they are that'd be consistent money. All you're gonna do is throw their ass in a plot. Jesus fucking Christ, what is wrong with you? No, so our grandfather, people was talking about like how they felt about him and he literally said, save it for the obituary. Yeah that yeah. Now you see where we get it from what the fuck? Why would you why would you say that? At his birthday celebration. Live. Insane. Why did you say that? Okay, now it's time for the group chat alert. Group chat alert. So listen, listen. What we're gonna talk about is the A Different World reboot. Now for those who don't know, the original A Different World first air, September twenty fourth, nineteen eighty seven. Shit. I know it's last episode here. July 9th, 1999. Now for those who don't know, A Different World is a spin off from the Bill Cosby show because Bill's daughter, go Denise, goes to college and that's where she meets Dwayne. And that's where she meets We Whitley and Kim and Freddie and Ron. But what the funny thing is, I wanna say that like the Denise part, like I think she only did the first two seasons. I'm not sure what happened. Yeah, she kind of phased out. Right. And then the show was just strictly about the remaining characters, right? So now in the Different World reboot that premiered September 24th, 2026. I just realized that connection. But now it's the daughter of Dwayne and Whitley. It's the son of Ron. ⁓ they do have Kimberly's daughter, but Kimberly's daughter is a professor. She's not at the college. And then it's like. Really the only kids that are in college is Dwayne and Whitley's daughter, Ron's son. And I think that's it from their friend group. I don't think Freddie has a child. Well, you know, wasn't Kimberly older than them? No, that was Jaleesa. ⁓ yeah. And yeah, so I'm not gonna sit here and try to fry my brain with the timelines and stuff. I'm just assuming that the timelines make sense. Yeah. Because Whitley, who is Jasmine Guy, She made a comment in the show and she was like, I don't know why talking to Dwayne. Sorry guys, I had to burp. She said, I don't know why I let you get me pregnant in my forties. So ⁓ so then they're trying to make it seem like everybody in their group let got pregnant later. I guess it kinda like got pregnant later in life. So the very last episode that aired July 9th, 1993, it was Dwayne and Whitley leaving their home because Duane ain't got a job opportunity. But remember, Whitley found out she was pregnant. Apparently, with this reboot, Dwayne and Whitley has three kids. But in the show, we have only been introduced to her name is spelled Deborah, but Diora or something like that. It's we're gonna call her D. Just for the sake. And they clarify. So they're making it clear that she Whitney Whitley just had her late. So D and Ronsign. ⁓ shit. We're gonna call him Five Star because I don't remember his name right now. Five star is crazy. No, but that's his football name. Like that's what they call him. So yeah, that's why we said we're gonna No, his name's Shaquille. His name's Shaquille. But we're gonna just stick to five stars. So D and Five Star are a thing. Hold on, wait, I got a question. Are we doing should we say spoiler alert? ⁓ spoiler alert, spoiler alert, spoiler alert. D and Shaquille are a thing. They have a toxic relationship that doesn't really work out. But bitch, plot motherfucking twist. Guess whose son and D are is actually like vibing? Who? Fucking Denise Huxtable's son goes to Hillman. That's in his name Elling Ellington. But do you I don't know if for those of different world fans and y'all know? That's my shit. That's my shit. But did y'all not realize that Dwayne and Denise Like he had the biggest cross on her when she was there. ⁓ like that was like his first Yeah, he did he didn't really like her. That's crazy. Do you think it's worth why 'cause how many episodes have you watched? It's ten episodes and I will say it is literally all on my feed. It is ⁓ it's everywhere and people are talking about it and I've seen the l the least I've given it, people say it's an eight out of ten, but everyone's going crazy about it. Like everyone is hoping they continue and do a second season, and I agree. I feel like A lot of these characters at first I really thought they was gonna fuck it up, but I feel like all these characters have so much depth to them death to them. And I feel like it's just it's just nice. Like it really yeah, if it makes sense, they're bringing back that vibe of how nineties black sitcom shows used to be. Well not even sitcom, but just T V shows used to be. Yeah. It's nice to see like positivity, like young black kids in college and wanting to do stuff with their life, like We're not on drugs, we're not ganging and something. Like they eat nice plain TV. Yeah, and they even touch the topic of ADHD and dyslexia and just going so long for being undiagnosed. Like it's honestly it's a beautiful show. It is it has similarities to the original, but it's not the original. It's definitely a show that has kept up with its time, but also is reaching back to its roots. Okay. Clack it, clack it. I did I think I did that. You did that. You did But you ate that one little thing. You ate that. But I will say, it may be my new obsession. Cause I it's it's only 10 episodes. Don't get me wrong. They're like 30-minute episodes. But I'm on like episode eight and I've been watching it for the past two days. But like, you know, spacing it out because I feel like I I might try. I think my cause me and Jay talked about this before it even came out. We were just concerned that it would become like cheesy or it wouldn't have the same vibe. Like we just had concerns because when we were kids, we would watch it. Yes. And we love some Whitley and Dwayne. And I saw on threads that like they were separated or something. I'm like, what the fuck? Sorry guys, I gotta fix my mic. Okay. So Whitley and Dwayne, and again, spoiler alert. Whitney and Dwayne are separated, but they are not divorced. Their storyline in the show is them just trying to figure out if they still want to work through their marriage. But girl, everyone knows the baby, please, that scene where he's banging for her and she left that guy at the altar. Yeah. Byron comes back. Because Byron actually was elected the senator and now Byron has all this money and stuff. Apparently Hillman is in debt and they are in a crisis of either shutting the school down or having to do budget cuts. So Wayne, Dwayne, is actually the president of the school. And ⁓ Whitley goes to ask Byron to help them financially to get the school back to where it needs to be. ⁓ God. No. Byron says to Dwayne when he Yeah, Whitley talked to me. He was like, No, she didn't. My wife wouldn't do that. He was like, No, she definitely did, but let me know when you get off of that high horse because we all know you're not a stranger to begging. Then he walks out the door and he's ⁓ my gosh He walks out the door and he says, Baby, please And now it's just like, ⁓ and then Dwayne even says, Yeah, he got me on that. He got me on that. ⁓ but you know what? I always want and this is just a love regard for me. I always wanted a man to like profess his love out loud to everybody. Like I'm But are you the one like you wanna be almost walking down the aisle and you'll see Honestly, okay, so this is the this is the thing. I honestly I will be embarrassed but I'll be enamored at the same time. Mm. Big words. Because like, of course, you want somebody be like, no, don't pick him, pick me. But then it's almost like why the fuck are you doing this at my wedding? Honestly, I can never even be the person who goes through that because I have bad anxiety. If you did that, like I wouldn't pick no one, I would just run away and cry. Like I just don't fucking do that to me. I mean, yeah. I like for people to confess their love and do grand gestures. Matter of fact, no, I don't. Scratch that shit. I like small, simple things to show that you love me. Like The simple thing. Put the kids to bed. One time. Wash your ass. Use deodorant. Use your E B T. Pick your kid up from daycare. Ooh, ooh. I ate that one. I eat that one. Anyway. I always liked the whole Whitley and Duane. So when I saw that I was like, ⁓ I don't really want to watch it. But you know what's crazy? So they they obviously they have to do a press tour of the show. So then the original pass, they said, How does it feel? They're all saying it's amazing. And Ron, and I don't know his real name, but the guy who plays Ron, he says, you know, it's just always so nice because You either have two like two different people. It's that one person and be like, You made me believe that I could go to college and I didn't even know an HBCU was a thing growing up until I watched a different girl. Yeah. And then there's some people that's like, You made me believe in love and I found my Dwayne. I found my Whitley at college. Girl, bitch, I found neither in college. I didn't even go I I but see, the crazy thing is to get my masters, I considered going to HBCU just for the experience, but I'm also kind of just like I don't think we'll finish. No, I can say I did go to a PWI. Yeah. We both were in PWI. I so our brother went to HBCU. Sometimes I feel like I envy that experience. Yeah. Because I didn't go to one. So I'm kinda like, I wish that I would have gotten, you know, to classes and consistently be around like black people. I did have some black friends while I was in college, but I mean it's nothing like going to HBCU. ⁓ I that is something that I wish that I would have done. I was telling our mom ⁓ that sometimes I wish 'cause I went to a school in state and I told her sometimes I wish I just didn't. Like sometimes I wish I left and went somewhere else and like had that experience. Yeah. 'Cause I wanted to go to Spellman but Me and my daughter's ⁓ father, we still were together and I don't want to leave him. So stayed. And then I also didn't want to pay out of situation. But yeah, sometimes I do wish that I would have just gone to a HBCU. Especially like just get into like the whole f sorority and frat culture. I wanted to join a sorority, but I got pregnant. ⁓ the second semester of my first year so then that just kind of got delayed then I was gonna do it in my masters but I just like the whole black camaraderie that you get when you go to HBCU. Yeah. Cause like of course you got black culture at a PYW I mean a PWI my bad. I'm sorry I'm tired. But it's not it's not the same. It's definitely not the same. Well and I will say this so for those who know or may not know I actually attended USC, University of South Carolina. And then for one semester now said, fuck this shit. I'm out. I did not feel the love. But anyway, while I was there, I had my friends from high school and then I had my cousins. So we were all hanging out and they was like, we have to find they call it black USC and that's basically like the black kids of USC and they all kind of hang there like a H B C U inside of a PWI, right? Mm-hmm. When I say Black and I this is just my opinion. Black college students at PWIs act a little bit more stuck up in like more ⁓ this is our club, you can't get in, versus going to H B C U where it's kinda just like it's your family type thing. Yeah. 'Cause I don't know, like trying to get into black US C and trying to mingle, it just It felt like a fucking scavenger hunt and it shouldn't have been that fucking hard. Yeah. So I went to USC, but I went there my whole four years and I don't know how things would have been different if I wouldn't have gotten pregnant because once I got pregnant, so my first year I stayed on campus because they required all freshmen too at the time. ⁓ so I stayed on campus and then I made two black friends. No, three. I made three three black friends. Actually mean black friends? I couldn't even find the black friends. Well, they were in my c well, two of them I had a class with, and then one of them I just met. I forgot how me and Amber met. But we used to like watch people. We used to sit and roast the house and just like watch people. But I remember me and Amber matter of fact, I think I met Amber when me and her were trying to join a sorority. And just trying to figure out because it w it was becoming so hard trying to figure out when they were gonna do the interest meeting. And I remember me and her went and I forgot what happened but lost her shirt, neither one of us ended up getting it, at least that year. I don't know whether she ended up getting into a sorority later, but trying to find other black people outside of class. Because even when I would go to Rose House, I would just see a bunch of white people or well I would see black people but they were with their their own clique. So to me it would just be weird just like going. But it's nice to see like there's a HBCU on TV and you see like how it's a real culture, you know? You know what's funny though? What? No one ever told me. But I didn't know Hillman wasn't a real college. So when we were like I didn't know either. So when we were like applying for schools in high school, I actually Googled it because I was going to apply. They said it wasn't a real college. But you know they said, and I could be wrong. They said that Hillman was a mixture of like Spellman and Morehouse, I think. Like they based the school up in. Yeah. Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, if I can go back in time I probably would go to HBCU. Yeah. I definitely would. And then I feel like they have a little bit more scholarships. Yeah. Or they at least try to like I feel like with those schools, like you're not saying any of school went in, but I feel they really try to make sure you graduate. But I do feel like in South Carolina Like, okay, so we have two HBCUs. We have Allen. ⁓ Allen and Benedict. But it's kinda like there was a lot of people that would talk negative about in Columbia. Yeah, in Columbia. There a lot of people would talk negative about it, but then I will always hear like a lot of people talking good about state. So it's kinda like Yeah, I I knew people that went to Allen and I knew people that went to Benedict and I knew people that went to State. But it's like I also went to PYW. I mean yeah, PWI. So just like hearing people talk shit about other colleges, that was also distasteful because it's just like just because you go here doesn't mean you gotta talk shit about another school. Which is even crazier because I I was about to go to Ben Deck College, like I was feeling like when we went to high school, they t let us tour the group, whatever. I was feeling the vibes I felt at home until I found That fucking condom literally two inches away from the trash can. I'm like, you're telling me you couldn't even like make sure the condom landed in the trash can? ⁓ I got a story. ⁓ God. About condoms? So yeah. So one time my roommate, she obviously had sex and I had left I think I went somewhere with ⁓ Bella's dad at the time. And anyway, so I came back and there was a condom on the outside. It wasn't it wasn't like I guess he threw it, but he he tried to throw it the guy that my roommate had sex with. I guess he tried to throw it in my trash can, but it landed on the outside of my trash can. And it was she don't have her own fucking trash can. I don't know why he just didn't put it in her trash can. But yeah, it was nasty shit like that. Definitely made me not want to ⁓ ever, ever, ever have a roommate 'cause foot well not rumors of money that I don't know. But let's move you ready to move on to the next portion? Yes, cause y'all for our South Carolina girlies, there is a hot take store well, let's not say hot take girl. It's it is getting messy out here in the South Carolina streets. Yes, so girl what we need to talk about. Yes, so let's move on to our next topic of We need to talk. We need to talk. So I don't know if TikTok is doing this for y'all, but me and Sin Both had the same experience this morning. We was like, we gotta talk about it. So on TikTok, as soon as we hopped on, you see this stylist and she's sung her story of how she apologizes because she basically messed up this girl's hair because she say that she agreed to doing a flip over method. Flip over method sewing, right? So for those who don't know, that's basically you leaving leaving the perimeter out like enough hair for like the edges and the cover the tracks. Right. Your hair is basically like the rest of it is sewed up. So, right. So the girl said she said the girl told her we need all ⁓ four bundles in my head. She said, with the method I'm doing, it needs to look natural. So I don't think you would need all those bundles. But the girl said she just wanted it to be thick and full. So she said, Okay. She does the girl's hair. She's ⁓ run out of space. So she takes the bundles and she sews more of the bundles up towards the front. That's what it looks like in the video, at least to me. I could be wrong, but y'all gotta see that shit. So she's sitting there, she's apologizing. And then she says in the video, what fucking gets me. She said, I've also been seeing that people have been saying that I've been late to the appointments. I am not perfect. I've only been doing hair for six months. So I will do better and I apologize and da da da. So the video seems sincere and everyone like everyone is taking her aside. It's like it's all a part of the growing process. Literally, four strokes up, you see the girl's video who hair she did. And baby, when I say she ain't left no crumbs, she ate that girl the fuck up. She showed us her hair. She showed us her hair, y'all. It was literally she the girl didn't even leave enough hair for her. To like cover the track, it was just enough for her to like do baby hairs. And then she said what threw her off is she was unprofessional. She said she went there at four and she didn't get done until ten at night. And then she said she kept stopping. And then she said one time the girl went to the bathroom. She thought to smoke a blunt, but she said she don't know if she took a shit or smoked a blunt. But she said one thing she do know, she didn't hear the water. She know the girl didn't wash her hands. So she's just like it's stuff like that. It's just it's just like common courtesy. Regardless of what you did, you was gone. Yes. And you even if you went to the bathroom, whenever you go into the bathroom, you wash your hands. And then she said well one of the times when the girl stopped like kept stopping doing, she went to the other salon suite or whatever to talk to her homegirl. ⁓ you start talking shit about the other clients. She's talking shit about her clients. And I'm just like See shit like that I don't like. Like if it I get it, you're gonna vent about people. But why vent about people? when you have an active client there. I'm thinking like, damn, you can talk shit about me. And then so the girl says in the video, she shows her screenshots as well and the girl showed her screenshots. But the girl was saying how she was telling her she could not get a refund but she wants to make it right. So she wants her to come back so she could fix it. She said respectfully, why the fuck would I come back for you to fix it? 'Cause one, in order for her to fix it the way I see it, she will have to do it all over. And it already took you six hours just to do this. Six hours for a flip a flip over is crazy. Yeah. When you're supposed to have more hair out than I don't know. Mm-hmm. I think the I think one thing I mean, 'cause we've all experienced like shitty situations. But I think the difference between me and you and like some of these other girls, like I hardly ever take any of my bad experiences to social media. Because I feel like if my if I'm not trying to it's like I get it, you're sharing your experiences and I don't I'm not throwing ⁓ shade on the stylist for posting her POV or the client. But for me, I'm all about like solutions. So if I'm gonna post about it, I'm not gonna post about it if I'm not having a conversation with you about it. I mean I guess she actually did what the fuck is that? I'm sorry, Jake was trolling on Facebook. You see this man get his ass beat by his dog? No. ⁓ no. He it's him and the girl. I think him and his girlfriend are fighting. No. He is fighting. Bitch, I don't know. Hold on. I'm just in this to you. Is that a damn baby? He's fighting a mannequin. It's a bunch of mannequins. Yeah, we'll we'll probably talk more about that later. Yeah. But That's what we've been talking about. Sorry. No, but the question for me is where do we draw the line of a complete refund cause you did fuck up or well who was wrong? Like obviously the beautician was wrong because she kept saying I shouldn't never did something that I didn't feel comfortable with doing. Yes. But in that moment, will you give her a second chance to redeem herself? I feel like that's why you have to be I'm not gonna book s this is I feel like both of them have their own parts. I'm not gonna book somebody if I don't see their I don't see what I want. Like I've seen work of what I want. So if you've never seen her do the flip over method, why would you book her for the flip flip over method? There's a lot of girls in in Columbia that do wigs and like do weaves. So I don't understand why you just picked her And I I I'm not I don't know nothing about these girl prices, but I do think that sometimes these girls they see your girl and they may do like a cute front or cute closure, but it's like some sometimes you have to go to somebody that's great in that particular area. And then that's the thing too. I realize in Colombia I ain't gonna speak for the areas, but I realize in Columbia, before I even book with you, I gotta do research. I gotta look at your comment section. Absolutely. Have you in the comment section? Yeah, I gotta like see through the hair groups, have people called you out, called you a scammer. Like it's one girl I've been to. Love her down bad. Every time I get in her chair, it's a good time. But every time I go to her, it's always she's starting 45 minutes behind. And then it's like, y'all ever been to someone to do your hair? And on their page, the girls be looking flawless and cute. But if you get in a chair, you don't feel like you got the same effect. And bitch, I know it's not Jay's hair closet, so we're not gonna go there. Jay's hair closet got some premium hair. I I just know it's not that. I do think I you know, I used to have a hairstylist that used to want to she would like want to reschedule my appointment. I mean, I have a kid, so I can only go at certain times. I need to make sure that I'm picking my kid up from school or making sure, you know, I have a life. And I did have another stylist. When I she was doing like my natural hair and when I first met her, she was very big on what ⁓ you gotta make sure that you're coming back like every two weeks. And I would she end up blocking you though? Yeah, because I didn't come and like I think I booked like a month instead of every two weeks. But my thing is I understand that I need to be consistent with my hair, but you're not gonna let me get my hair done for free. So why the fuck are you getting upset? And like back then it was like fifty dollars, but I was broker back then. And I that's such but that's such weird activity for her to have blocked you. Blocked literally. Because you didn't schedule every two weeks. Yeah. But there are there's a lot of weirdos here. I do feel like when I'm a very loyal customer. So when I fuck with you, I fuck with you. It literally breaks my heart when I stop going to somebody. But either I I schedulous conflicts or ⁓ something just changed in my life. Or I met somebody that may be closer or maybe a little bit more cheaper. I like their work a little bit better. Life just changes. So just like I'm not I'm not gonna stop your bag. So why would you I don't know, s some one thing I can say in Columbia, it seems like s a lot of these girls be yeah, they'd be weird. And I don't know, that's just one of those One of those situations where I just feel like you just gotta chop it up as a L. Like on both like the girl who got her hair done, obviously don't go back to her. I d I don't care. Like even if she feels like okay, I give her a sanctions, I just fucking went because I didn't hear you wash your hands. And then the other girl, baby, take this as a lesson and just do better. Yeah. And don't my thing is, if I know that I'm not good at it, I'm not gonna advertise it. on my site, like I'm not gonna let somebody book something. I would rather practice on like my friends or like my mom, you know, somebody that I could practice on until I get good enough. Well, but that's the thing though. She's saying that she's done it before, but she was trying to tell the girl you don't need all these bundles, like you need maybe only three 'cause it needs to look realistic. But when you start four and five bundles. And the girl just saw she wanted it to look full. And but then my thing is If it was already full, the only thing I don't understand why would you add more bundles in the front? And then she was saying the girl didn't leave out enough hair. Why what the fuck wouldn't you do that? It's just ⁓ I'm glad I don't do hair. ⁓ yeah, no. That's absolutely not. But that's another reason why I could never be a cosmetologist. Because it's like at the end of the day, you gotta have a certain method of how you do hair because in your mind it's quicker, it protects the hair and all this stuff, but there'll always be someone that complains like, ⁓ you're too slow. Ooh, ooh shit. Sorry. I ate chicken wings before we did this. But it'll always be someone complaining that ⁓ you're slow or ⁓ she changed my hair. All this other shit. So respectfully, no. Jay's hair closet, we are just a wig company. Exactly. So do you have any takeaways? I'm never do your deep dive before okay. Do your deep dive before you book an appointment with someone to do your hair. Amen. ⁓ And if you can go to HBCU, even if you're white, experience the ⁓ my god. I wanna do is there white people that go to HBCU? There there are. That is crazy. It's a few, but there are. And then my last one, find your Dwayne and find your Whitley and enjoy it. What are your takeaways? No, I agree with you on all of that. I think like, you know, I'm a little girl. So finding my person is like always like a goal for me. I I do want the happy of the after. But I don't know, with the whole house thing that I was talking about earlier, I would be a fucking afraid I die and then ⁓ yeah. Or like my my husb my boyfriend dies and his family tries to take the house from me. That actually got me really fucked up. I also have another point, but I want you to finish your takeaway. ⁓ no, you can go ahead. My other point is I didn't get to talk about this in the group chat alert, but another thing I learned from the show, the reboot of a different girl, the original series, it shows how Dwayne and Whitley start off as friends. They grow into boyfriend, girlfriend, then husband and wife. Well, in the reboot, it shows them being separated. They're not divorced, they're still married, they're just separated. But also shows like, yes, you can have that fairy tale beginning, but In a marriage, you have to fight and you have to want to stay together. Yeah. To be a team. So once you find your Dwayne and Whitley, keep them. Yeah. Stick it out. I think that's it. Yeah, guys. I'm going to take a bigger chair. ⁓ my god. All right, guys. Bye.