ABOUT THIS EPISODE
In this episode, Kristen Kavanaugh sits down with pastor and technology commentator Kaloma Smith to explore the intersection of AI, faith, and human connection. Together, they discuss the impact of artificial intelligence on community, parenting, relationships, and leadership, while examining what technology can and cannot, replace. Kaloma shares why belonging, purpose, and genuine human connection remain essential in an increasingly digital world, and offers a hopeful perspective on the future of leadership, faith, and society.
Key Takeaways
AI is a powerful tool, but it should never replace human judgment
Real relationships are built through presence, tension, and shared experiences
Social media and technology can create the illusion of connection without genuine community
Children learn important life skills through family, community, and in-person interactions
Emotional intelligence and problem-solving will remain valuable regardless of technological change
Healthy skepticism is essential when evaluating new technologies
Access to AI may create new socioeconomic divides
Purpose and belonging make people vulnerable to manipulation if they lack strong foundations
Faith communities can provide meaningful spaces for connection in an increasingly isolated world
Gen Z's willingness to question systems may be one of its greatest strengths
Work should serve life, not become the center of it
Human connection remains one of the most important needs we have
In This Episode
[00:00] Introduction
[01:49] Leadership, vision, and supporting people through uncertainty
[03:20] Faith communities responding to AI
[05:24] The difference between real and synthetic relationships
[08:12] Family, community, and showing up in person
[10:54] COVID's impact on social development
[14:17] Using AI as a tool rather than a substitute for thinking
[17:05] The skills children will need in the future
[18:54] AI, inequality, and socioeconomic divides
[21:37] The economics behind artificial intelligence
[24:02] Separating AI hype from reality
[27:18] Frictionless relationships and the dangers of overreliance on AI
[30:49] Purpose, belonging, and healthy boundaries
[35:00] Faith, spirituality, and the search for meaning
[40:48] Why people are still looking for something greater than themselves
[42:15] Advice and encouragement for Gen Z
[45:11] Rethinking work and loyalty
[47:35] Leadership, politics, and creating something new
[50:23] Hope for the future
[52:41] Music minute: what's on the playlist?
Our Guest
Pastor Kaloma A. Smith has served as Senior Pastor of UAMEZ Church in Palo Alto since 2013, leading a diverse congregation while driving significant growth in community impact, funding, and outreach initiatives. A former corporate professional turned minister, he also pioneers AI and digital ministry programs focused on worship, outreach, and pastoral care.
Beyond the church, Pastor Smith has played a key role in local civic leadership, serving as Chair of the Palo Alto Human Relations Commission and helping guide conversations on race, public policy, and community development. His contributions have earned him recognition, including the 2025 Tall Tree Award and designation as a Senior Fellow of American Leadership Forum Silicon Valley.
Resources and Links
Pastor Kaloma A. Smith
UAMEZ Church: https://www.uamez.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kalomasmith
Kristen Kavanaugh
