speaker-1: Thank you.
speaker-0: So the way you describe your career is that you have lived a lot of lives, which I think is super cool. Can you share maybe some of those career highlights like what do you think were the most formative points that got you to where you are today?
speaker-1: Yeah, it's it's it's a weird career to look back on. I always call it a a squiggly career. Mm-hmm. But I feel like it's not one of those careers that w w went from one role to the next. A lot of these things that I've been that I've done have kind of happened alongside each other. Mm-hmm. So one of the highlights was moving to London. Okay. back in two thousand and seven. I was studying in the Netherlands and got asked by my professor at the time if I wanted to move to London to finish my degree there. I took that opportunity and I got massively distracted by everything that was going on in London. I got involved in the London tech community, started organizing events, started blogging, and I feel like that was really the start of what set me on the path for the rest of my career, I guess. So My life would have been very different, I think, if I did not make that jump to to London. So that's definitely one of the major highlights.
speaker-0: Yes.
speaker-1: So a second career highlight for me was my time at FutureLearn. they're a social learning platform providing courses for students all across the world. And I joined as one of the first engineers back in twenty thirteen.
speaker-0: So building the platform.
speaker-1: The platform, so really helping decide which direction things took, but also really helping set up the culture that we had there. And during my time there, I really saw the team grow from six engineers to 60 engineers, I think, by the time I left. I got an opportunity to manage people, but also lead on the team's outreach and learning initiatives. And it was really a supportive and amazing group of people really that I got to work with every day. And I feel like it's in that team that I really found the skills that I was good at and the skills that maybe in other places necessarily wouldn't have been recognized. Like my event organizing and blogging and speaking, it's really in that place that that all got encouraged. I wouldn't be where I was if it wasn't for for that team.
speaker-0: Yeah. So you kind of move to London, you're like, I l I like everything. I like doing everything. And then to find the place for that within an organization. Yeah. And actually it sounds like learning at the same time. 'Cause I think small growing companies are fantastic like that's the kind of similar experience that I had. And I think they're fantastic places to learn. Yeah. and to see challenges as you're like, this is the challenge with ten people, this is the challenge with fifty people, this is the challenge with a hundred people and you really kinda get to build your skills incrementally.
speaker-1: yeah, definitely. a lot of it also was a little bit trial by fire where it was like we are such a small team at the start. So you kind of need to wear different hats, try different things, see what works, and learn as the role and the the job changes. I learned a lot in that place.
speaker-0: All right, so one of the things that you learnt about was proactive leadership. So what do you mean when you kind of describe leadership as proactive?
speaker-1: So I think for me it's first looking at the flip side of proactive leadership, which is reactive leadership. Reactive leadership is very much when you kind of just let everything happen to you kind of. So you're constantly firefighting, you're just doing the one-on-ones, but aren't really sure what you should be doing in them. You're just kind of letting letting the meetings and the things that happen in your team kind of guide you.
speaker-0: Just being quite passive, I guess. Yeah.
speaker-1: So proactive leadership to me is the opposite, where you're much more deliberate and intentional about how you lead and and manage your team. So the way I break it down for the teams that I work with is looking at it through free lenses where proactiveness is made up out of awareness, intent, and action. So often when People tell other people that they need to be more proactive, it kind of ends up b s being a bit woolly, I think. So what I like to do is break it down into those three different aspects because then it becomes much more easier to understand, well, what do you actually mean?
speaker-0: Where is the gap? What specifically are you talking about?
speaker-1: Yeah. 'Cause for some people when they say, you're not proactive, it's because they don't they don't have that w awareness of what is going on or what could be changed, what needs to be fixed. So for some people it's really about building up that awareness of of the team and the challenges around them. Mm. For others it tends to be more about the intent. So really making sure that they understand, once they've recognized what needs to be fixed or changed, yeah, what they can do about it. So looking at the different options that are available to them, how do they make decisions around that? What are the pros, the cons, the risks, the benefits? So intent to me is really that decision-making piece as to are you making sure that you're collecting the information that you need to be proactive? Mm-hmm. And then the final bit is action. So actually taking action and being proactive. And I think that one is a mix of people not doing it because they're either maybe a bit jaded and things are stopping them from being proactive within the organization that they're working at. Or it's something to do with fear and confidence. So they've gone through all the other phases, but they're just stopped at the final hurdle because they're not quite sure whether or not they should be doing this or whether or not it's the right idea.
speaker-0: Or what the repercussions will be, right, if they do take the actions that they they kind of know they need to
speaker-1: Exactly. So yeah, for me proactive leadership is looking f at leadership through those free lenses and making sure that people are taking the time to really reflect on what they're doing and breaking it down into those different steps.
speaker-0: Yeah, it's really it's really interesting as well because I think the meaning of some of those concepts changes as you rise through the kind of ranks of leadership as well. And action at at kind of senior leadership level, it very often is about communication rather than just about going out and doing something or fixing something yourself. Yeah. It's actually commu and even communicating your intent right is so important as well. What kind of challenges do you see leaders having around communication?
speaker-1: Think there are lot of challenges around communication to be honest.
speaker-0: I know I've had that.
speaker-1: Yes. I think in part because it is such a broad term, it spans a lot of what we do as leaders. But also when we're thinking about engineering leadership specifically, I think engineers are often told very early on in their careers, even maybe when they're you when they're kids, that communication isn't necessarily something that they need to care about. It's I think something that gets reinforced by like TV and movies currently where you're either analytical and logical and have like a scientific mind, and you're not good at communication and thinking well and feeling and emotion. Yeah.
speaker-0: Yeah, yeah.
speaker-1: So it's very much reinforced that these are two separate things that you need to choose between one or the other. I definitely feel like I early on in my career neglected my communication skills. Where I just had this feeling of, wait a minute, that's not really for me or it's not something that I'm naturally good at. So I I shouldn't shouldn't expect to get better at it. And I think that's that's a starting point first where people need to realize no communication skills are something that everyone needs to work. on, regardless of whether or not you're a leader, the earlier on in your career you start working on it, the more useful you'll become. And the easier some of these leadership bits will get once you actually reach that.
speaker-0: Absolutely. And I think we're kind of in danger of like losing this knowledge all over again with people kind of saying, well, AI does so much for us. It's like as unless you are well, there is no one, right, who is working on their own, who doesn't need other people. We're all interconnected. Yeah. So there's always people who are part of your team, or they're your customers, or they're people who are providing services to you. You know, it's
speaker-1: I think with AI specifically though, it's actually showing that that the communication skills are actually becoming more important. The need for communication has actually increased nowadays. There's the people that you need to be talking to on your team. that's even now more important than ever. But then there's also the fact that you need to be communicating to agents and other AI. Right. Yeah. And that will get better if you are a better communicator. If you're able to get your message across in a succinct and effective manner. Right. It will make the AI more effective, I believe.
speaker-0: Yeah, it's almost like people who had good communication skills already are now being rewarded more. Yeah. It's like the people skills encroached on the engineering skills rather than the other way around.
speaker-1: Yeah, definitely. And I think with AI doing more of the technical skills, it's also forcing engineers to realise like if I don't wanna get behind the times, I do need to start improving my communication and collaboration skills here.
speaker-0: Hmm. So, so times are changing. What are the most important skills that people who are looking now to kind of progress to the next leadership level, whether that's kind of taking a leadership role for the first time or moving to lead a bigger team or moving, you know, stepping up to lead a whole organization, what are the most important skills to prioritize? And I suppose are they different at Different levels.
speaker-1: Think I think at the core it's always the same, just with different slightly different context or different scenarios, different difficulty levels, I would say. Yeah. So for instance, I think giving feedback is one of the first skills that I would say any manager would need to learn if they haven't already. I feel like actually it's something most engineers should learn to just give be able to give feedback to their peers. But I think as you grow through through the different leadership levels, giving feedback becomes just not it at this core it's a s it's the same set of skills that you need for it. But it could be that it becomes trickier because you're maybe having to give feedback to people where you've not done those roles before. Right. Or you might need to be giving feedback to fellow exec where where you might need to be speak a different language basically to get your your point across. So I think at its core it's the same skills, but that the impact and the way that you need to be considering those skills changes. Mm-hmm. but going back to your question of like which skills I would say so yeah, giving feedback is one, having difficult conversations. I think that applies yeah. No matter what level you're at. It's just gonna vary how tricky the conversation is and with who. Building buy in for ideas.
speaker-0: Perhaps how often? Yes.
speaker-1: I I definitely feel like the further I went in my career, the more difficult conversations I ended up having. Yeah. I think early on the difficult conversations end up being more about you know, technical disagreements and stuff like that. Later on it becomes much more about people and their identity sometimes as to especially if you're having a difficult conversation about performance management or giving feedback or anything like that, it becomes a much more, yeah, tricky situation, I would say. Getting buy-in is another skill that I think is really important for leaders to have. Again, that changes as you progress through those different levels. Sometimes it's gonna be much more about getting buy-in from your team where it's inward facing. Other times it's gonna be from your peers or from above. And again, it changes who you are talking to as to how you need to adapt your your messaging. Or let's say if you're trying to get buy-in from external people, so clients or potential clients or potential new hires, it's a different type of like buy-in and messaging that you're trying to get across. But at its core, you're asking yourself the same type of questions, I believe. You're always asking yourself, who am I talking to? What do I know about them? What is my goal? And how do I get that? goal across. And I think those things apply for a lot of these types of communication skills that we put into different buckets. But in reality it's it's always about asking those same type of questions.
speaker-0: So actually what you're saying is that it sound it sounds like it's a lot of skills. And I know I felt like it's like, my god, I've got to learn all these things. But actually you're saying there's a lot of commonality if you break it down at the core.
speaker-1: think there's a lot of commonality if you if you break it down, but it's also not completely new skills for engineers. Mm-hmm. A lot of people often forget that we already ask really good questions. We already know how to break down problems into different steps. We take the time to reflect on those problems and really consider what are the different options available to us. And I think most leaders when they first get promoted into these roles, they often assume it's a completely new set of skills. While in reality I think they should be relying on the skills that they have already and lean more into those where it's like, okay, you previously were asking good questions, breaking down problems, now how do you apply that? See this really tricky situation that you're coming across. Right. Or or kind of assuming that, okay, I'm I I need to start from scratch here, I need to learn a completely new s new set of skills.
speaker-0: Yeah, amazing. And you were talking there about kind of getting buy in and how who you need to get buy in from changes as you become more senior. Have you got any tips on like how to recognise all of the stakeholders? Because actually, again, as the environment gets more complex, the number of and types of stakeholders, I think that's increasing as well. And we're we've all got limited time. Yeah.
speaker-1: think this is again mapping it to to what we were doing as engineers. Cool. For me, like the first step of this is is systems thinking in a way. It's about understanding how does this system, which is my organization, actually work. What are the different pieces here? Who knows who? What information is flowing currently through that system? And can I build up a picture of how this all relates to to each other? So I think that's the first step is that element of how do I know what the moving parts are? Yeah. And then actually starting with having conversations with all those people, actually getting to know them and understand how do they relate to to the role that you have and the things that you're trying to do. And then be a bit systematic about, well, what does that mean for me and the goals and outcomes that I'm looking for? And which of these people do I need to speak to more regularly? What information do I need from them and they need from me for this for the system to work, basically? Yeah. Which I think is easier said than done. But again, I think if you break it down into that type of problem, it becomes easier to make a plan and break down as to how you can accomplish it. Like we do the same thing when we come across a new code base. We start l reading up on all the different parts, figuring out like where the pain points are, mapping it out. Yeah. And the same is just true for for organizations as well. Yeah.
speaker-0: Brilliant. I love it. I love it. Building on that further, or perhaps trying to think still about this this constant pressure of time efficiency, right? Because we're all being asked to do more and more with fewer and fewer resources, the biggest of which I think often is time. What advice do you have for kind of approaching that environment? And, you know, how can we not just kind of survive, I guess, but but what what behaviors can we choose to adopt to help us like thrive and say, Okay, we're we're gonna deliver as we've always delivered and we're we're gonna do it better.
speaker-1: thing to me the most important thing is take the time to go slow.
speaker-0: First. Go slate to gay first. Yeah.
speaker-1: I always forget whose tagline that actually is. But I feel like a lot of people don't don't do that and then run into trouble later on down the line because they've not taken that time to think things through or you know, train up someone else or delegate something and when things get really busy and hectic, that's not the time really to do that type of stuff. So I think the first thing is really put those foundations in place. Take the time to reflect on how how you want to be solving some of these these challenges. Look at things like training up people, delegating, figuring out what you need someone external for, all of that type of stuff, but all with that aim of moving faster in the end. 'Cause otherwise we are just gonna try and do it all and eventually burn out and not not do anything. So yeah, my my main advice would be to take it slow first.
speaker-0: Amazing. I love it. And I really feel like we've just circled ro round back to proactive leadership, right? Yeah. You know, starting at the beginning and where are you going and why and Yeah. and spending time on that before you end up just putting out fires all the time.
speaker-1: Yeah, exactly.
speaker-0: well it's been such an interesting chat. Thank you so much, Melinda, for for joining me and helping us to shine a light for others.
speaker-1: Thank you for inviting me.
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