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00:00:29.501Yeah. Well, thank you for having me. I, you know, my initial just first steps,
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00:00:38.161I think much like you, you know, when you do gross anatomy and you kind of,
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00:00:47.281I, I certainly enjoyed anatomy of the head and neck. And that was my favorite
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00:01:13.121Then you move on to your clinical clerkships, you know, where you do pediatrics
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00:01:34.161And then you go on and you refine and you start to see what different subspecialties
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00:01:40.221Otolaryngology was the one that I chose because, again, it gets back to that head and neck element.
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00:01:55.861Yeah, so sorry to interrupt you.
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00:02:03.101In the year that I applied, and probably there were less people when you applied,
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00:02:06.581there were 270 spots in the country. Right.
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00:02:12.821In the year I applied for fellowship, there was 35 fellowship spots.
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00:02:14.041I mean, it's probably close to how.
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00:02:20.7811,000 applicants. The acceptance rate's low. Yeah.
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00:02:27.978You got to, you got to understand though. And what learning intricate surgery,
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00:02:35.298You're learning how to be a technician. Yeah.
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00:02:42.798Right. The techniques that we use that naturally fell, fell into a more natural
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00:02:47.038surgery for us when we were doing say blepharoplasty or things with much finer
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00:02:59.638Correct. And that's one distinguishing thing between us as otolaryngologists
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00:03:03.578or head and neck surgeons is being able to work in that small environment using
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00:03:05.118the small muscles of your hand.
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00:03:08.818And everything is very focused. You're working in a small area.
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00:03:11.458And so you develop those fine motor skills, like you said.
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00:03:20.958And then back to my story, during residency, you begin to develop interests in fellowships.
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00:03:25.918And, you know, where I did my residency in the Bronx, we did a lot of facial
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00:03:35.058So that evolves into cosmetic nasal surgery, rhinoplasty.
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00:03:38.978And so you want to learn more about rhinoplasty and the way you learn more about
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00:03:43.218that is by doing a fellowship. And like you said earlier, the fellowships are competitive.
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00:03:49.438You and I both did one of the more sought after fellowships in the country. Yeah.
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00:03:54.818And we, we learned, we learned how to do rhinoplasty very well.
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00:03:59.978And, and, and then of course you, you learn aging phase surgery and that kind of thing.
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00:04:02.598But the point that I'm trying to make
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00:04:07.338in all of this is the fact that you gradually hone in on the specialty.
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00:04:19.616You are only working in this small little circle of procedures.
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00:04:33.196Yeah, but you know, there's something to be said about, I almost feel that surgeons who.
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00:04:45.436I almost feel like it's a disservice and a disrespect to the specialty of the face.
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00:04:49.736Well, you know, it's not really taken that serious.
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00:04:59.796Yeah. Yeah. I feel like obviously other surgeons, if they are surgeons and they
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00:05:04.816are board certified to do the procedures that they do, that's perfectly fine.
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00:05:10.976Board certification just means that you have the minimum knowledge base and
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00:05:14.156you've met a minimum standard to do those procedures.
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00:05:21.056What differentiates one specialty from the other is the scope of your practice.
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00:05:28.836And when you talk about the scope of, and I can only speak to my practice, rhinoplasty.
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00:05:34.816I do rhinoplasty every week. It's a repetitive thing and over and over and over.
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00:05:52.820Translate all that I believe into excellent results
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00:05:56.140yeah and that's where where it all happens it's not that
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00:05:59.320we're necessarily more intelligent or
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00:06:04.160brighter than anybody else it's the repetitive nature of what we do and this
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00:06:08.720this is all we do it's just one after another of the same thing or roughly the
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00:06:16.740same thing well so so you get into you get into practice in north florida what year,
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00:06:25.240Yeah. October 1st, 2008. You know the start of it.
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00:06:34.413So, you know, what did you, obviously, there weren't a lot of facial plastics guys doing work.
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00:06:41.593No, what there were at that time were the general plastic surgeons who did everything.
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00:06:57.793Yeah, every great once in a while, they would do an aging face operation,
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00:07:03.693but mostly they paid their bills by doing overlander gals, sinus surgery,
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00:07:05.893tonsillectomies, those kinds of things.
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00:07:11.693So that's where I think when I came into the community, I made a commitment
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00:07:19.393to myself that I was only going to do facial plastic and reconstructive surgery.
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00:07:31.093trying to develop a cosmetic surgery practice in the town where I was from,
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00:07:33.573but nobody really knew who I was as Dr.
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00:07:37.873Garcia, the facial. Well, nobody knew that a specialty called facial plastic
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00:07:46.473I mean, I remember reading an article that back in 1992, 95% of all facial cosmetic
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00:08:00.593Now, I'm going to speak on that for a second.
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00:08:07.133You think about it. That's 180% turnaround and the volume of how things,
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00:08:08.973it's a complete paradigm shift.
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00:08:15.333But interestingly, the reason it happened was, you know, back when the board was created, right?
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00:08:17.9731986, right? After that skim milker.
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00:08:33.157yeah and now every ent program not
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00:08:44.597have been fellowships up until that point but there wasn't
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00:08:58.477the general guys and now the general guys are graduating and they don't have
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00:09:03.537the volume and now they get into practice and they don't feel comfortable with
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00:09:06.677their practice they can't do it well yeah or they feel less comfortable yeah
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00:09:13.017i think that a lot of that speaks to what you said about the, the,
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00:09:19.537the, the turnaround in the, the percentage of cases that our specialty does
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00:09:26.457And you know, you're, when you, when you try to explain something like that,
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00:09:33.257it's really not that there's the majority of people in this country are under
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00:09:36.937some sort of mass delusion and we've been able to delude them and to think.
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00:09:38.977No, that's the only thing that existed. That's correct.
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00:09:43.617So, the only other alternative is results, right?
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00:09:50.117The results are really what refers patients to you if you have your best results.
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00:09:52.557And that's how I've been able to build my practice.
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00:09:56.097That's how, you know, everybody else in facial plastic surgery has been able
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00:10:00.017to build their practice. better results with rhinoplasty, happier patients.
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00:10:02.317They tell other patients and so on and so forth.
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00:10:07.937So it's just the progression of the growth in our specialty.
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00:10:14.297Yeah, and I can tell you that, you know, there has been over the course of years different...
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00:10:19.979And I don't like to use the word, you talk to some of these gung-ho guys in
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00:10:23.139our academy, and they call it encroachment into our specialty.
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00:10:27.199Anybody's free to do, I don't have that, I'm not that militant guy.
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00:10:30.779You know, if you do good work, I don't care what specialty you are, you do good work.
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00:10:35.339Because even within our specialty, there's guys, and you can probably attest
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00:10:38.919to this, you go to a meeting, and you're looking at the presentation,
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00:10:45.519Many times. You know, and you know, they got the little Ivy league logo at the
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00:10:54.719And so I have met very, very, I mean, Dick Webster was a general plastic surgeon,
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00:10:58.499one of the best in the game. Well, he was the first president of the American
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00:11:02.319Academy of Facial Plastic Surgery, but Dick Webster was an interesting guy because,
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00:11:04.779first of all, he was a very gracious guy.
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00:11:10.199Dick Webster was a plastic surgeon from Boston, and he was a very gracious individual.
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00:11:14.159He brought in people from all different kinds of specialties.
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00:11:19.339He brought in otolaryngologists and, you know, some of the people from our lineage.
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00:11:25.299He brought in people from our lineage into his practice to teach them how to
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00:11:27.319do facial plastic surgery.
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00:11:32.639But that was an exception in the world of plastic surgery.
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00:11:40.139There were really no other Dick Websters out there. He was truly a gracious person.
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00:11:43.859Well, with regards to sharing knowledge. With regards to sharing knowledge, right.
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00:11:47.099The academy, like you said earlier,
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00:11:55.919the board was born out of a $1.5 million lawsuit that Jack Anderson,
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00:11:59.239one of the pioneers in our academy from New Orleans,
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00:12:05.989One in a libel case against two general plastic surgeons in Atlanta who posted
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00:12:12.209a series of articles in, I think, some kind of Georgia archives magazine.
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00:12:18.529Yeah. And it might've been the, the, the journal for the Georgia medical society
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00:12:22.149I, in my office, in one of those rooms, I have it.
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00:12:29.629Yeah. And so they, they basically, they took a position that anybody who wasn't them was not real milk.
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00:12:32.249It wasn't whole milk. It was skim milk that we were diluted.
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00:12:38.509When in fact, you look at the history of facial plastic surgeon all the way back to Jacques Joseph.
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00:12:46.225Who was one of the, if not the father of modern plastic surgery,
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00:12:50.205he was an otolaryngologist from Germany who pioneered rhinoplasty.
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00:12:57.325Even Harold Gillies, who was an English plastic surgeon, he was an otolaryngologist
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00:13:05.385who took his practice to plastic surgery, but his original training was otolaryngology.
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00:13:10.805And so when you go back to that whole history, it's really all otolaryngology
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00:13:16.105based where the division happened is a group of people decided that they weren't
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00:13:20.225going to be inclusive. And this was in the, in the interwar period.
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00:13:25.185And they said, this is our territory and we're not going to share where we're
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00:13:30.165going to create our own board, which was their right to, to create whatever
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00:13:31.705group they, they wanted to,
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00:13:35.865but we had to do our own thing.
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00:13:41.645Our predecessors had to do our own thing because we were just as,
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00:13:45.125if not more qualified to do these procedures that we do.
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00:13:51.505Yeah. In that case, in the court case, they actually brought up examples of,
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00:13:53.045you know, with a brow lift,
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00:13:59.385an ENT is more qualified to do a brow lift because he has done osteoplastic
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00:14:01.845flaps. He's done frontal sinus surgery.
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00:14:07.185With a facelift they've done parotidectomies for years you know with eyelid
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00:14:11.665surgery they've done trauma periocular trauma and with nasal surgery of course
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00:14:16.785we've done sinus and internal uh internal nasal work so in fact.
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00:14:26.037Our base, the otolaryngologic base, the ENT base, was better suited for this. Cosmetic surgery.
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00:14:29.597Cosmetic surgery. It was a natural progression. Right.
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00:14:33.597It's not a natural progression when you've been doing bowel surgery for a year,
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00:14:36.777and then all of a sudden you're thrown into doing a rhinoplasty.
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00:14:40.477Right? Because if you remember, and I do want to get to this point,
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00:14:46.677if you remember, we didn't just jump into rhinoplasty as second-year residents.
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00:14:51.437Right? We started off doing septoplasties, and we'd watch a lot of rhinoplasties,
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00:14:57.377but it wasn't until my chief year that I was actually doing osteotomies and moving bones.
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00:15:02.857And definitely in my fellowship, you learn more. And so that's one of my biggest
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00:15:06.977fears that I have now with this younger crop of physicians that's coming up.
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00:15:13.137They're going to have a longer period of fear. I think every young surgeon when
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00:15:17.537they graduate from residency or fellowship has a period of fear,
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00:15:19.957you know, like that, holy cow, I'm on my own now.
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00:15:22.637Yeah. I'm slightly looking over my shoulder. I remember those days.
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00:15:24.377Yeah. Losing sleep before you're ready.
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00:15:27.297You know, you're sitting there like, what if I, what if this happens?
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00:15:28.257What if that happens? Whatever.
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00:15:34.757And so, but you got to realize we were doing that on the heels of 4,500,
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00:15:39.477maybe 5,000 cases that we had done just in the face during residency.
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00:15:44.797Well, now with all the resident restriction work hours, these kids are graduating
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00:15:47.797with two-thirds of the cases low data.
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00:15:54.077Yeah, I think that that's inherent in what is coming out of residency right now.
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00:15:59.237I don't think that the way residencies were designed when you and I were in
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00:16:03.357it, I don't know that that was the best way to educate.
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00:16:09.357And all of that, I'm digressing here, but all of that was born from the father
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00:16:12.097of modern surgery in the United States.
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00:16:18.485There's a big statue of him at Hopkins. I can't remember his name now. I don't agree with that.
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00:16:22.525Well, he was a cocaine addict. No, no, no. I'm not saying him.
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00:16:25.805And he was up at ungodly hours of the day. He wouldn't sleep.
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00:16:29.485And so his residents wouldn't sleep either.
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00:16:38.045And that whole educational system in surgical education was born out of a cocaine addict.
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00:16:41.925So it became very punitive. So it became punitive and it became this,
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00:16:45.445it doesn't matter how much you don't sleep or how much you do sleep.
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00:16:48.865Yeah, but there's the argument though, and I'm not totally disagreeing with
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00:16:55.965you, but there's the argument that a Navy SEAL is the warrior that he is because
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00:16:59.265he doubted his entire existence in his training, right?
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00:17:02.485That he got taken to the brain. But he got pushed to the left.
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00:17:06.965And if you don't take these kids and you don't push them and have the fear in
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00:17:10.045there, because right now these residents don't have the fear of being fired.
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00:17:14.045That's correct. That's something that we have that fear. And every day you went
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00:17:17.005into a case and if you weren't ready for it, you knew you were going to get blasted.
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00:17:20.865I mean, I don't know, my fourth year of residency, one of my attendings,
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00:17:24.845Rick Kelly, if you're listening to this, it was you and who I ended up loving.
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00:17:25.805And he and I are good friends.
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00:17:29.965He looked over at me and he goes, you might be Dr. Garcia, the dumbest person
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00:17:33.665I've ever met in my life. And it was only because I didn't know one particular
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00:17:36.785part of this laryngology procedure we were doing.
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00:17:39.705And so you have a choice at that point. Yeah, yeah. And you can say,
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00:17:43.825all right, does he really think I'm the stupidest? Like, really, the stupidest?
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00:17:47.425There's guys with IQs of 50. That guy, BB?
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00:17:55.022Or is he just saying it to challenge me, to make me really rethink something
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00:17:57.542and never make this mistake again? And it's obviously the law.
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00:18:00.882Yeah, yeah. We all know that you have to push the motor to the limit to know
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00:18:04.582what the motor is capable of. I don't disagree with that part of it.
00:18:04.902 -->
00:18:11.482The part that to me was the most distasteful part of residency was the hazing
00:18:11.482 -->
00:18:17.942and the mental torture side of it. the, I went through this process and I'm
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00:18:19.342going to make you go through this process.
00:18:19.642 -->
00:18:23.582I thought that was totally unnecessary, but maybe it was, it was a little bit more malignant.
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00:18:29.122My, my residency was malignant. It was in New York city and it was all in all.
00:18:29.262 -->
00:18:33.342I do take away good memories from residency, but that, that was the way that
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00:18:36.522the educational system was and that's, you just went through it.
00:18:36.582 -->
00:18:39.962And it's a very important point that you brought up that, especially when I
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00:18:45.102was an intern, I will, I, I'm every day that I was, I walked into the hospital,
00:18:45.362 -->
00:18:51.082you are under fear or threat of being fired and you don't know.
00:18:51.282 -->
00:18:55.602And if you're fired from internship, remember you're already accepted to residency,
00:18:55.602 -->
00:18:58.002which is what you're going to do for the rest of your life.
00:18:58.142 -->
00:19:02.522And if you're fired from that internship, there goes your entire career plan
00:19:02.522 -->
00:19:04.322because you're no longer a resident.
00:19:04.422 -->
00:19:10.902So you've now got, you, you've, you have to figure out. And I'll give you a quick anecdote.
00:19:11.142 -->
00:19:20.442I got called in to the chairman of surgery's office one time because I was late to a conference.
00:19:20.862 -->
00:19:24.142I was late because I was taking care of the patients on the floor.
00:19:24.262 -->
00:19:26.822I mean, I had a valid reason. Somebody was crashing here.
00:19:27.342 -->
00:19:30.202And I was late. He saw me walk in late.
00:19:30.442 -->
00:19:34.942After the thing, he called me into his office. And I can tell you that I honestly
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00:19:39.842thought I was going to get fired. and I was convinced this is it I'm done and.
00:19:41.442 -->
00:19:46.722How much good that did to my fortitude and the creation of character.
00:19:47.102 -->
00:19:52.542That's tough to say. I don't know, but you're absolutely correct in your assessment
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00:19:55.222about pushing that engine. Yeah.
00:19:55.722 -->
00:19:59.422Well, and look, I mean, if we were to kind of wrap this up, I,
00:19:59.502 -->
00:20:02.042and I wanted to, I do something really cool at the end.
00:20:02.182 -->
00:20:04.022I don't know if I've told you this, but we'll talk about it in a minute,
00:20:04.122 -->
00:20:08.642but 20 years, 25 years later. Okay.
00:20:10.482 -->
00:20:16.322Now patients come seeking facial plastic surgeons. Right. They come seeking the specialty. Yeah.
00:20:17.122 -->
00:20:19.982And, you know, it's something to be proud of.
00:20:20.182 -->
00:20:25.262Yeah. It's something to be proud of that, you know, you and I have been steadfast
00:20:25.262 -->
00:20:29.242in our commitment to the specialty in this community and in this part of the country.
00:20:29.562 -->
00:20:36.282Yeah. And, you know, our reputation precedes us really as individuals that were,
00:20:37.031 -->
00:20:40.331is characteristically driven towards a particular model.
00:20:40.751 -->
00:20:44.551And, and I think that a lot of that, and this is going to lead me into our last
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00:20:46.031segment, which is perfect.
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00:20:51.531Okay. You guys all laugh at it every time I do it, this all leads us to lessons
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00:20:53.651that we learned from dad, you know?
00:20:53.951 -->
00:20:58.671And so, you know, dad died. My dad, I say this every week, but our dad died
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00:21:01.971last year in June, June 16th, almost a year.
00:21:02.331 -->
00:21:09.411And dad, uh, as well, you know, dad loved to teach dad loved to talk to us and
00:21:09.411 -->
00:21:13.051he loved to talk to everybody and along the lines.
00:21:13.151 -->
00:21:18.931And I think this is so appropriate for this conversation was the lesson or the,
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00:21:24.571the, the kind of that, that ongoing message of in order for you to succeed,
00:21:24.911 -->
00:21:26.791you have to fail countless times.
00:21:27.711 -->
00:21:32.331And the, you know, the idea, the Thomas Edison concept of the light bulb,
00:21:32.471 -->
00:21:34.171right? Failed, I don't know how many times.
00:21:34.651 -->
00:21:39.111And I tell patients all the time, I said, you know, the surgeon that I was at
00:21:39.111 -->
00:21:42.051the beginning of my career, it's a completely different surgeon than I am now.
00:21:42.411 -->
00:21:48.431And really not only in the medical field, but in a personal, right?
00:21:48.811 -->
00:21:52.011Interactions with my employees, interaction with friends, interaction with family.
00:21:52.971 -->
00:21:56.251You, you learn, okay, that's not the right way to talk to that person.
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00:22:00.271That's not the right thing to say. Let me correct that. And let me get a little bit better.
00:22:00.371 -->
00:22:07.491But the difference in dad spoke about this, you can't be hubris.
00:22:07.931 -->
00:22:11.111And when you make a mistake, you have to own it.
00:22:11.251 -->
00:22:15.991You have to make a correction and you have to adjust and become a better person
00:22:15.991 -->
00:22:19.991because the goal of this isn't a scoreboard at the end of life where,
00:22:19.991 -->
00:22:21.451you know, where God says, or St.
00:22:21.611 -->
00:22:23.831Peter at the gate says, all right, Roberto, good job.
00:22:24.031 -->
00:22:29.191You won 5,650 times, but the people around you, the world around you hate you.
00:22:29.311 -->
00:22:32.211You know, that's not how it is. There's no scoreboard.
00:22:32.511 -->
00:22:36.331What matters is that as you're going along and you make a mistake,
00:22:36.331 -->
00:22:38.671and to our point about our specialty.
00:22:39.516 -->
00:22:42.396The details get tighter, right?
00:22:42.516 -->
00:22:46.676And so now, you know, whenever there's something that you're seeing at three,
00:22:46.896 -->
00:22:51.596six months after surgery, you can, in your mind say, I know exactly why that
00:22:51.596 -->
00:22:55.836happened because your, your window of error is this tight.
00:22:56.016 -->
00:22:59.876Yeah. You pay attention to more details. The big stuff has worked itself out
00:22:59.876 -->
00:23:04.076throughout your career and you pay attention to those little details a lot more.
00:23:04.076 -->
00:23:08.856And it makes you better at being, being more effective and
00:23:09.056 -->
00:23:11.856having better results but if if i may
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00:23:14.936say something about dad the the
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00:23:17.796thing that in in your segment the thing
00:23:17.796 -->
00:23:26.796that i i still remember dad telling me is nobody owes you anything and i still
00:23:26.796 -->
00:23:35.176remember multiple conversations about you know when i finished residency i finished fellowship.
00:23:35.756 -->
00:23:40.296And, and I said, okay, dad, I'm ready to start my practice.
00:23:40.696 -->
00:23:46.296And I remember dad saying, and now's when the work starts.
00:23:46.636 -->
00:23:53.476And that's because he always taught me and I knew as well that you're only as
00:23:53.476 -->
00:23:55.076good as what you did yesterday.
00:23:55.963 -->
00:23:59.823Everything can come crashing to an end today.
00:24:00.183 -->
00:24:07.883You have to have the humility to realize that and to understand that you're
00:24:07.883 -->
00:24:10.023not owed anything in life,
00:24:10.243 -->
00:24:15.183certainly in our field, in our specialty, in our practices.
00:24:15.583 -->
00:24:19.543Nobody owes you anything. You have to work every day and you have to challenge
00:24:19.543 -->
00:24:23.123yourself every day and, and always be attentive.
00:24:23.363 -->
00:24:27.383Never take your eye off the ball because there's nothing here for granted.
00:24:27.663 -->
00:24:30.783So that's my lesson from that. That's beautiful.
00:24:31.183 -->
00:24:36.983That's exactly right. Yeah. Well, listen, man, it has been absolute honor having you here.
00:24:37.163 -->
00:24:40.663I really appreciate you coming out here. I know you're busy and we,
00:24:40.783 -->
00:24:43.103this is honestly, this may be the best one.
00:24:43.563 -->
00:24:48.103Okay. I know we said that last week. It's because it's me. But it's my bro. Sorry, Patrick.
00:24:48.423 -->
00:24:51.703But it's my brother. And I do think this one took the cake.
00:24:52.083 -->
00:24:57.323So any of you thinking about watching the Confident Choice, you want to go to this one first.
00:24:57.743 -->
00:25:02.743So next week, we're going to be talking about, let me get my card, revision surgery.
00:25:03.303 -->
00:25:08.083And how is it that we accept not the best results?
00:25:08.323 -->
00:25:13.103And where do we go as surgeons to that next step? Do we wait a little bit?
00:25:13.263 -->
00:25:15.863Do we go ahead and get, do we intervene a little bit sooner?
00:25:16.263 -->
00:25:19.623And how do we plan the proper revision surgery for whatever it is.
00:25:19.963 -->
00:25:22.043And, folks, I'm going to tell you something. I'll get into this next week.
00:25:22.263 -->
00:25:24.983Any surgeon who tells you he doesn't have revision surgeries,
00:25:25.363 -->
00:25:28.203he's either lying to you or hasn't done enough of them. That's a fact.
00:25:29.063 -->
00:25:33.923And it has nothing to do with the surgeon. It has to do with the way the cookie
00:25:33.923 -->
00:25:36.323crumbles sometimes. Results happen.
00:25:37.283 -->
00:25:40.223Biology is different between person A, B, C, and D.
00:25:40.543 -->
00:25:44.523So we'll dive in a little bit deeper into that next week. And remember,
00:25:44.763 -->
00:25:45.943Alyssa's going to get me here.
00:25:46.663 -->
00:25:50.383Better decisions make better information. What is it? Good decisions always
00:25:50.383 -->
00:25:53.263come from good and free. And good.
00:25:54.307 -->
00:25:58.407Good decisions always come from good information. We're signing out.
00:25:58.507 -->
00:25:59.447Have a great week, everybody.