Courage Is a Competitive Advantage: Shelley Zalis on Bold Leadership & Breaking Barriers

Have you ever been told to stay inside the lines, and felt everything in you say no?

Shelley Zalis did. Early in her career she was handed a six-page review that criticized her for listening to clients too much and pushing her team out of their comfort zone. She refused to sign it and was demoted for it. She went on to pioneer online research when everyone told her it wasn't the right time and she wasn't the right one. She's now a four-time movement maker, and she earned the title she still carries: Chief Troublemaker. 

In this episode of The Conditioning Room:
Shelley and I talk about the courage it takes to stay consistently who you are when the room wants you to be someone else, and how she used data to prove an idea that everyone else had already written off. 

This episode is for you if you:
- Have been told it's not the right time, or that you're not the right one
- Feel doubt get loudest right before you take a big risk
- Are thinking about leaving the corporate world and want to be sure you're running toward something, not away
- Carry a lot at work and want to protect the moments that matter at home
- Want to build partnerships where everyone rolls up their sleeves and moves forward together

What you'll walk away with:
- Why "I don't care" is never an answer, and the family trip that taught Shelley to have an opinion
- How to stop asking "what if I fail?" and start asking "how much risk am I willing to take?"
- The first, the copycat and the sweeper, and why the first one takes the biggest risk
- How to break a big problem into steps when the elevator is broken
- Shelley's no-regret policy for deciding what goes on the calendar
- Why culture isn't top down or bottom up, but all around


Doubt will still show up. The question is how much risk you're willing to take.

Chapters:
00:00 Who Was Shelley Before "Chief Troublemaker"?
01:05 The Glass Bottom Boat
02:27 The Review She Refused to Sign
04:17 When Doubt Creeps In
05:58 Turning Doubt Into Risk
07:17 When the Data Says Something Different
07:43 Power of the Pack
09:22 Calibrating Something That Hasn't Been Done Before
10:03 Knowing When to Change Direction
10:59 Saying No to Mark Cuban
11:35 The First, the Copycat and the Sweeper
12:20 Stop Fixing the Women, Fix the System
13:39 What's Still Missing?
14:43 The Broken Elevator: Taking Problems Step by Step
15:01 The Care Wallet
15:44 Thinking About Opting Out?
17:08 Run Toward Something, Not Away
17:37 What Keeps Shelley Grounded
18:45 Inside Shelley's Tuesday Morning
20:24 Time Blocking and Being Present
22:12 Purpose Partners
23:43 Leaving a Legacy
25:11 The Wall of Women at the Treasury
26:38 Hire for Passion, Train for Skill
27:01 One Word for the Next Generation
27:45 Closing

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Melissa Dawn Simkins is the founder of Athleadership®, CEO of Velvet Suite®, and author of Athleadership: The Elite Athletic Mindset. For more than 20 years, she's been a trusted advisor behind the performance of executives, athletes and global brands across 26+ countries, helping people unlock their potential and perform when it matters most.
Her work brings together the elite athletic mindset, neuroscience and business strategy to explore what separates knowing what to do from being conditioned to do it when it counts.
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