When A Subtle Sign Is Something Bigger

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Hi, my name is Cammie Smith.
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Welcome to Anne So Much More.
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This is Central Health's podcast for patient stories and new procedures, new services, new physicians and providers.
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We want to tell the stories of our health system.
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And that's what we get to do today.
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I'm here with a patient here at Centra.
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Her name is Ann Riley.
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And you are a breast cancer survivor.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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2023 I was diagnosed.
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Oh wow.
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So this is, I mean, that feels so recent.
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It it is so recent.
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Well, let's start.
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Tell us a little bit about you, and then we'll jump into your story.
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Well, I'm a Lynchburg native.
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I was born at Virginia Baptist Hospital in 1966.
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My mother uh actually retired from neonatal unit uh at Centra.
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Okay.
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In fact, she went to nursing school at Virginia Baptist.
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Well, you're a very central family.
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Yeah.
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And my father uh was Lynchburg firefighter, and he retired uh as a battalion chief.
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Okay.
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And I retired from Lynchburg Police Department in 2016.
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I was a lieutenant.
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Um my husband also retired from Lynchburg Police Department.
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So we're public safety family.
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I love that.
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Um and so um I guess how I am on this podcast, I found something wrong with my breast in 25 minutes.
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Yes.
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Okay I was um I had just completed a 22 mile section hike on the AT with some of my family.
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And um I was taking mulch off the back of the pickup truck, and I picked up a bag of mulch and hit myself square in the chest, and it hurt me.
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The only way I can describe that was like have you ever stepped on a stone with your heel, uh stone, the stone bruise, and that's what it felt like that it was in my breast.
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And I said, that wasn't it, that wasn't right.
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So I that night I really looked at it.
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Like a self-examination, yeah.
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And I couldn't feel anything, no lumps, no bumps, no, nothing, not under my armpit, anywhere.
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Okay.
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But the breast to me just did not look right.
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I I can't explain it, and I was not large.
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Uh uh, something was off, and I discovered a small uh red the faintest red streak to the left side of my breast.
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And I said it's something inside of me said something's wrong.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Uh and I called uh women's health and I said, Something's wrong with my breast.
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I need to see a doctor.
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And um, so several weeks went by, I saw my doctor, and he said, Ann, I don't feel anything, uh, but I see the the redness there.
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And ultimately he called in a mammogram uh at the Baptist, and uh and it was about a month later I got in.
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I kept calling, I just knew something was wrong, and I kept calling Did anybody I love hearing that you advocated for yourself.
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Yeah.
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Is there an opening?
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Is there a cancellation?
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Can you see me now?
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And evidently they're very busy because they are so busy.
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They were and uh finally got in.
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Uh that was in towards the end of June, I think it was 26th of June.
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And I went through the mammogram, and you know, I retired as a police officer.
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I'm watching this woman's face.
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And I said, I'm gonna be sitting back out in that waiting room.
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And sure enough, they asked me to wait for an ultrasound, and and again, watching her, and she's on this left side for a long time.
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And so she said to me, Um, I'll have Dr.
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Lip come in and speak with you.
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And Dr.
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Lip came in and said, Mrs.
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Riley, you have a two-centimeter mass behind your nipple, and that's why no one could feel it.
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It's the warmest place in your breast.
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And uh she said, I would like to, if you'll let me, uh take a biopsy today.
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And I said, Let's get this over with.
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And then I guess four or five days later they called and said it was cancer, breast cancer, uh, ductal carcinoma, and it had spilled out into the breast.
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So uh of course, when you when you're told that they're amazing, they line up everybody that you need to see.
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Uh, and of course, I had to see Dr.
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McCallan.
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That was gonna be the first one.
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And uh when I met with her, she said to me, um, she's lovely.
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She said to me, You don't have the worst kind, but you don't have the best kind.
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And I and I said, Well, okay, what do I have?
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She said, You're HER2 positive, which means for every cell, cancer cell made, it makes two more.
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It keeps doubling.
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Okay.
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Goodness.
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Um so And what's that called HER2?
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HER2 positive.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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The good thing about HER2 though is that it's killable by chemo, really killable.
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So uh the plan was I had to get a port put in my chest.
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Um, and I was gonna I had to get an MRI.
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Uh the good thing was it had not spread to my lymph nodes.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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And uh, but I was gonna have to do six months of chemo and I would have to have a mass ectomy.
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I could not get a lumpectomy.
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Okay.
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Which was fine with me.
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I wanted it gone.
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Yeah, oh gosh.
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Well, I I feel like the moment you hear that there's something foreign, like something that's not right in your body, like just get it, just take it, please.
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Yes, please take it.
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I completely understand that.
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Well, I said we'll take it off now if you want to.
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And they said, no, with the type I had they want to kill it.
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They want to kill it.
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Um, and so um I had my first chemo uh treatment in July.
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Okay.
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And uh it was about four hours long.
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Uh uh th I believe it was three different types of chemo, and then they have to give you out of an uh they give you all kinds of things, anti-nause, three days worth of anti-nause.
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Wow because it hits you hard.
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Well, and mine did not hit me until two days the night of two days later.
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I would my voice would get squeaky.
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It would start with my voice, and uh it was it was rough.
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Uh the first go-around, um, I think I was down about four or five days and they came out of it.
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Uh, you know, down.
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Uh by the way, once you get your chemo, you have to come back the next day to get your white blood shell shot to shoot your white blood cells.
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Uh and you cannot be around people.
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You're told you cannot be around people.
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You will end up in the hospital with things that most people just shake off at home.
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Body can't fight it.
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Can't you don't have anything good at so you're isolated.
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You are isolated, and that was tough for me.
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That's awesome.
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Extra hurt.
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It was awesome.
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And really, to be honest with you, I wasn't thinking about dying uh with cancer.
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I was thinking about, man, this is really gonna occur.
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This is not gonna be good for my lifestyle because I like to get out and do things.
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Um six months of that, yeah.
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Well, it was July through um, well, I had my last chemo that in November, and then I had my mastectomy in December of 23.
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Okay.
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That was Dr.
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Plock that did that.
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Um, and I have a funny story about that.
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Well, he didn't think it was funny, but I did.
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Okay, I want to hear it.
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So I will tell you that the chemo is rough, and anybody that hears this, it is not a cakewalk.
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But here for me, this worked for me.
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Drank a lot of fluids.
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I mixed Gatorade with water.
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Uh, I did not drink sugar free.
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I wasn't a diabetic, but for me, I I thought the extra calories would be good uh because I just uh it does take your appetite away.
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The other thing I did was every after every chemo treatment, I would make my husband take me to a certain restaurant to eat chicken livers.
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I love chicken livers.
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I don't think I could eat chicken livers.
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Well, I thought it would help me.
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I love liver, but it would help me with building my blood back.
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So I thought it was so you are being proactive.
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You have to be.
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This chemo really kills everything.
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Digestive system.
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I lost my fingernails, toenails, I lost hair.
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Uh, I did not lose all my eyelashes and or eyebrows, and Dr.
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McAllen could not believe that.
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And I was bald.
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I was a cue ball, but I did not lose my eyelashes.
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I didn't have a whole lot of them, but I didn't lose them all.
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Um, but anyway, she would ask me, you know, uh, when I'd have to see her every three weeks, you know, what what have you been eating?
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And I'd tell her, and she's I don't know how you do that.
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Yeah.
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And I love buttermilk, it's cultured, and so that helped me keep the good things in my stomach and keep things moving because the anti care of yourself.
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I tried and I made myself get up and walk.
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Uh, even when I was down mostly in the bed for days, um, I would I would make myself get up and walk outside in the sunshine or just sit in the sunshine.
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I thought that's so good.
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It did.
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Um, and I had a wig, I had a great blonde wig.
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Love so fun.
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Uh so it it's tough.
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Uh, you have for me, what I had to do was hear the plan from my doctors, and then every step, every time I had a chemo, that was one goal.
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I'd met, and I only had four more to go, you know, or you know, and I was really down twice when I went in.
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I told the doctor or the nurse at the cancer center, I said, Have you ever had someone come in and you couldn't give them their chemo for the day?
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He said, Yes, but that why do you ask that, Mrs.
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Riley?
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I said, I don't think you're gonna give it to me today.
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I just have this feeling that I just can't, I I'm just my platelets and they were too low.
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And so I had to wait five days and come back and they shot right back up.
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So what caused that?
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Um the chemo, it it kills it can do that, everything.
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Yeah.
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Uh but you wait a couple days and it comes on back, and they're able to give you your cocktail for the for the evening.
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It was just an intuition, you just knew.
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Yeah.
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Oh wow.
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So um, anyhow, uh, I made it through.
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Made it through with a lot of prayers from friends, family.
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Um, my parents helped uh helped up in tremendously keeping me uh so my husband could still work.
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Uh and uh just it was support makes all the difference in the world.
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You have to have that.
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And I saw a lot of people at the at Pearson that didn't have that.
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I felt so sorry for them.
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You know, when I'd feel down, I'd look around and say, You've got it pretty good.
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I really yeah, yeah.
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Um, so and that's a wonderful place, I'll tell you.
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I I would if it if I had another problem, I'd go right back there again.
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I mean, the care teams are phenomenal.
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The volunteers are unbelievable.
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Yes, I had a volunteer poor.
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She was such a nice lady.
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She's the lady taking the snacks.
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Yeah, the the snack.
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They have good snacks.
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They do.
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Yes, anytime I'm over there, I'm like, okay.
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But for my first treatment, uh in her behalf, I had long hair and it was my first treatment, and she couldn't see my port accessed, and she couldn't see the tube.
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And I was headed to the restroom.
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She says, Ma'am, you can't go in that one.
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That's for chemo.
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And I turned around and I said, You know, I'm past now.
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And she felt so bad.
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I said, Don't feel bad.
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I said, I'm gonna look like this in a couple weeks, you know.
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Uh she was sweet, but um, and it didn't take long, the hair starts coming out quickly.
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Uh so, but that group comes back, and uh anyhow, we December um 12th, I was supposed to have my mastectomy, and yeah, they called me and said Dr.
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Plock had uh COVID.
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So I had to wait another week, which I was so glad.
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Really?
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Because I could repair myself no, not really.
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I wasn't, and it gave me a week to mentally prepare for this.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And then I was ready.
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You know, I was ready.
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Um, and uh, you know, I wasn't in pain.
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When I woke up, I wasn't in pain.
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Uh they had managed it uh in the first thing I did when I could look was look at myself and say, that doesn't look too bad.
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It's really a nice right.
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It really didn't.
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I mean, it was just like a uh a a doll or something, you know.
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And uh the the surgical uh the surgical scar was perfect, I mean straight across.
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I mean, really and truthfully wonderful surgeon.
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Yeah.
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Um so uh one thing that did not work in my favor, uh usually they would just take three lymph nodes.
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I think it's a sentinel and two others.
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Uh a week before, or two or one week before your mastectomy, you have to get a magtrace injected, which lights up the lymph nodes for, my understanding was lights up the lymph nodes for the surgeon so he can see them.
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It they change a different color.
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I don't know what color.
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Yeah um my breast was so scarred where the chemo had killed the cancer that it didn't let we think it just didn't let the mag trace go.
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And so it never went to my lymph nodes.
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So I had 14 nodes taken out.
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He had to.
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There's you can't leave them in there if there's some some little cell.
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So I had 14 nodes, everything from the collarbone and down my arm he could find.
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Well, I'm very fortunate.
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I do not have I was active before this, and um now I gave my time, my body time to heal.
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I didn't, I wasn't like um some people just can't wait to get back in the gym.
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And I I don't think that's the best for me that wouldn't have worked.
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Um, my body was tired and had run the gauntlet, as one of my really good friends who's a survivor of breast cancer said, you run the gauntlet and you need to rest and you need to eat.
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Um, and you've got time to get back.
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You just need to learn go to your rehab, and they had a wonderful rehab.
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Now I think they've moved, they were at the Baptist when I went.
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Yes, they have moved over to the Lane Horn Medical Center.
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Yes, phenomenal.
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But they were terrific.
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And uh I started my exercises.
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In fact, I showed up over there with a drain still in me.
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Really?
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You were like, let's go.
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Yeah, I'm ready to do this because I need to use this arm.
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And um, but it they took measurements and ordered sleeve, a sleeve for me.
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What what is the sleeve for?
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A compression because your lymph nodes are gone.
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They move the your lymph fluid.
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Oh wow.
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Um now the only time I have to wear it now is if I'm on a trip in a car that's more than two hours because your arm's just hanging there.
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Yeah, you need to be moving.
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So when you sleep.
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You know, uh this is awful, and I never told my doctors this or Dr.
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Plock this, but after you're not supposed to raise your arm, but I woke up after the surgery.
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I woke up in the bed with my arm propped back in the bed.
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Oh wow.
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And I was like, oh my god, what I'm supposed to be doing.
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So I don't know what was going on there, but uh everybody needed it.
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Yeah, it it it the body knows, the body knows.
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Uh maybe the gravity.
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I don't know.
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Yeah.
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Um okay, so what's the story with Dr.
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Plough?
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Well, uh, so you know, I had two drains in my side, obviously, and uh I was feeling really good because remember I'd been on chemo so long that now my chemo I was feeling like life changing.
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Yeah, so you know, I told you I like to hike, and I said, Well, I feel pretty good.
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So I tucked those drains in and I went on a two-mile hike.
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Well, the day before I went to see him too.
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Oh no.
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Yeah.
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So he asked me how I was doing, and I said, Doing great.
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I took a two-mile hike.
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Now I didn't hike hike like you know, yeah, I took it slow, but it was just to be outside, yeah, just was the the best medicine for me I could ever have.
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And uh he said, Mrs.
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Riley, you can't do that.
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I said, Well, I did it.
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I did it.
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I'm really kidding.
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I feel really good now.
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So um I feel like our care teams, they really lean in, they want what's best for us.
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They do.
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But it's hard.
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It's hard to put your whole life on hold like that.
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Yes, and I wasn't a sedentary person, so it was uh it was not good.
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Um I wasn't a candidate to have reconstruction during that surgery because they wanted to test all tissue because of the HERT or the pathologies.
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And it came back with a complete response to chemo.
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They couldn't find a live cell.
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I mean, I was so blessed.
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Good Lord really blessed me.
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That's amazing.
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Um, and I went and got a prosthetic rest, and uh, you have to wear special bras with those, and I went and got fitted for that.
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And okay.
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That did I I did not enjoy the bra for me.
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I it wasn't a sports bra, it just wasn't comfortable to me.
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And so I decided to put it in my my regular sports bra while I'm outside working and you can't feel anything.
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And I looked down and it slid over and I started laughing.
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It was the funniest thing ever.
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Uh and I said, okay, it's time to to look at reconstruction for me.
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For me, yeah, it's every woman's choice, but I still had my right breast.
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Oh, I did not, I had just a single, I did not have a double.
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Okay.
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Um, I did uh did not have the type they said that typically jump ship to the other breast.
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And I just didn't, for me, didn't think it was I needed to cut off on perfectly good body part.
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Yeah.
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Um and I and I conferred with both of my doctors about that.
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Um so many deeply personal decisions.
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A ton.
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And everybody's different.
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Yeah.
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But I am right-handed and I didn't want any nerves cut, you know.
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Yeah, okay, yeah.
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No, that makes sense.
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Yeah.
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So um I just I so I went to see uh the Center of Plastic Surgery, and it was Dr.
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Pitzer, he's no longer here, but he did my first reconstruction phase where they put an expander in, and then you after you heal, you go every so many weeks and get they you watch it as the coolest thing.
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They have a little metal detect metal detector and they find the port and they just put a little butterfly in there and shoot the saline, and you watch it go away.
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Yeah.
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So yeah, it was, it was cool.
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And um, and I still had my port in.
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I still had that, and so I waited a year before I had the final surgery.
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So that was April of 24, and I had the final surgery last year, May of 25.
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And that's when I met Dr.
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Payton, and he is so awesome.
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He is so awesome.
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Yes.
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Oh, I love it.
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Uh, and so he um he did my final everybody at that office is great, by the way.
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I agree.
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Oh, yeah.
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I'm good stars.
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I don't know for me, I don't know why you would go anywhere else.
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These they're they're young and they're very good.
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Um, and I was pleased.
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Uh, in fact, I I actually uh let them take photos of so other breast cancer um survivors could see what it looks like to have one real breast and then you know yeah totally made us um now I did have uh some augmentation on the right side to even the symmetry.
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Okay.
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Yes, and uh but I'm happy with with the results.
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Um uh I I have to see Dr.
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Payton, he's coming up to see him soon.
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I love that yeah, uh once a year with him, and then Dr.
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Plock once a year, and of course I see Dr.
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McCallum once every six months now.
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Just to check Yeah, she checks my blood levels because that tells everything, you know, and so I see her at the end of the month.
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Um, but I I I tell you, I don't know why anybody else would go anywhere else.
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We have everything right here, and uh the care I got from every nurse, every LPN, RN, uh even the lady that did three echocardiograms, she was awesome because I they had to check my heart because the medicines were were tough on me.
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Um the cocktail.
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Yes, the cocktail.
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Goodness and the target drugs so much.
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Yeah.
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So you touch so many different areas.
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Yeah, I know I talk a lot.
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No, no, no, no, no.
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Think about it.
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Think about it.
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You tell you are very good at telling your story.
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Well, um, and you can yeah, I can hear like the emotion, and I mean that it's a huge journey.
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Yes, it is, and um, you know, I like I said, I looked at it as goals.
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I'm gonna meet this goal and we're gonna get this over with, and then it's the next hill to climb, right?
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Mm-hmm.
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You know, take a little bit of it.
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But after it's all done and you sit back, and it then some of the emotion for me it would come out.
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Just thinking about it, then you release, you know, you you cry and you just can't believe that you you've you've done all this.
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Of course, I I believe that I didn't do it by myself.
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The good Lord was there with me, I can tell you.
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Uh you is it's tough.
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Um, and when you see uh two of my neighbors uh in Appomattox County were getting treated and they passed away.
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At the same time I was being treated, my sister-in-law had colon cancer and was being treated, and she was a central health nurse.
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Oh wow, um, and she passed away two years ago.
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So there was a lot of things going on in my mind.
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It wasn't just about me, you know, there was other concerns.
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And um, but I can say that it's a joy, and I have to mention one person who's very, very important to me, and that's Kathy at the desk at the Cancer Center.
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At the Cancer Center, yes, that lady makes you smile when so she sets the tone right there for you.
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Wow, and so when you first walk in, yes, okay, and they need to know that central needs to be.
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Shout out for Kathy, yes.
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Oh gosh, I love it.
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Um thank you so much for coming in and checking us too.
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I appreciate it.
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Um, I'm um blown away.
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Uh you are just like a ball of light, and so I hope that people who are watching this can see, like, like like you said, it's gonna be okay.
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You're gonna be okay.
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That's fine.
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And every story is different, every treatment is gonna be different.
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Um, and so I don't want to minimize that it's hard and minimize that we do lose so many people.
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Um, but the support over at the cancer center, and it's a it's a good place to be if that's where you need to be.
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You don't you don't ever want to be like this is where I want to go, but but if you have a lot of people.
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I just got an incredible care team for you.
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Yes, the whole team.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Well, thank you.
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Thank you for sharing your story.
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And thank you all for watching on and so much more.