Dr David Gruder Interviews - LYNN ROSE - The WOW Effect

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Get ready to reimagine the future of humanity and unlock
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your true potential. Welcome to Reimagining Humanity's Future and Laws,
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hosted by doctor David Gruder, an internationally renowned integrative psychologist,
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human potential expert, author, and social change catalyst. As he
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delves into the most urgent issues of our time. With
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the world facing unprecedented challenges and social and political divides
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Humanity's Future and Laws will guide you on a transformative
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make a meaningful impact, So prepare yourself for an eye
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Welcome to Reimagining Humanity's Future and yours. Why together we
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create it brighter tomorrow? Now Here is the host of
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Reimagining Humanity's Future and yours. Dr David Gruder.
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Welcome back to the Reimagining Humanity's Future and your show
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on the ex Zone Broadcast Network. I'm your host, Doctor
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David Gruder, the polymath of human potential who equips leading
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edge leaders and influencers and you with transcendent ideals, values, principles,
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mindsets and skills for co creating Humanity's most spiritually elevated
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future for generations to come. And the title of This episode,
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which is with a marvelous guest that I'll be introducing
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in a moment, is called the Wow Effect. Your impact
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can be bigger than you know and accounts more than ever.
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We all shape the world by how we show up,
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and this is your call to step up as a
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wow maker, someone passionate about simultaneously bettering themselves and their community.
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Now's the time to swap victimhood for standing in your
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truth in more powerful ways by getting more intentional about
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how strongly your inner well being ripples positive impact outwardly.
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In this episode, I'm joined by Lynn Rose to explore
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how to up your well being and your impact at
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the same time. Lynn is a true powerhouse who's spent
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decades igniting impact across media, stages and lives worldwide. Known
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as the Wow Maker, Lynn's an award winning media entrepreneur,
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international keynote speaker, and creator of The Wow Effect, an
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inside out approach that's freed countless executive, celebrities and everyday
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people to own their voice and make waves every time
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they speak. She's shared stages with such icons as Stevie Wonder,
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Tony Robbins, Dpat Tropra, and the list goes on. And on.
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Frankly has starred on Broadway and screens from CBS to Sony,
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and has even consulted with CEOs to bigen dollar IPOs,
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which is initial public Offerings where a company goes public,
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all while touching millions with her nationally syndicated radio show
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on personal achievement, interviewing legends like Zigziglar and stan Lee.
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How's that for a mouthful? Well as the mission driven
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founder of Wow You Now, the social impact network, She's
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now uniting brands, in, influencers and communities to spark real change,
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proving that impact isn't just possible, it's personal, driven by
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a passion to raise consciousness and dissolve the walls holding
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us back. Lynn is here on the show to show
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us how to unlock our own Wow effect. Because when
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she's lived with Baby Tigers, Yes, worked with refugees in
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the Sudan, and helped transform lives from Hollywood to the Heartland,
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you know her insights are as bold as they are
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life changing. Let's dive in Welcome to reimagining Humanity's future
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and yours.
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Lynn, Oh Davin, thank you, ah Gosh. I just can
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always have you intros.
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That's how I feel when someone introduces me, it's like,
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who are they talking about?
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Rightly? You know what? I love to you that we're
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going to have such a juicy conversation because we're on
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the same intent and purpose about what I call wow effect,
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your center, the sess of what you have, which is brilliant.
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So I'm honored and thrilled to be here with you.
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Thank you, And the SESS is the center for enlightened
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self sovereignty for our audience who don't know that you know.
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In this first segment, we're going to look at the
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symptoms that we experience when we hold back our impact.
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But first, Linn, you had a download more than twenty
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years ago that turns out to be your driving purpose
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fully embodying and instilling in other's love in full expression.
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The acronym for this just happens to be life. So
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tell us how that download came about and how it
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impacted you.
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Well, isn't that interesting? Thank you? Can I answer in
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a little bit of a roundabout way, yeah, because it
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is tied into an earlier time in my life. A
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Broadway show ended suddenly and it triggered old trauma that
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I'd had where I kind of shut down from the inside,
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but I was just controlling the outside how I came across,
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and I had talents, so it carried me. But once
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when I got that shut down with this old trauma
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got triggered, I then shut down from the outside and
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I lost all ability to sing. Had to leave the
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in came an industry, and it took me two years
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to heal. And as I then started finding my way
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back to where I had courage to allow who I
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was to now properly connect with my vision, what I
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want to do other people let it, let myself come
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out and express, and it's always being an unlayering process.
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Then my career took off and everything else, and I've
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just so committed. I know what that feels like to
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have those walls hold you back, or to have those
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barriers even though you know there's so much more inside.
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And it just drives me when I see the power,
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especially doing the work with the refugees, and you see
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what's possible, or you see transformation, and then what happens
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once they click into their full expression, or they click
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into letting the walls dissolve so that who they are
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can come forward or what impact they can make, and
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so I'm saying all that in that that was like
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the core, if you will, that core experience that set
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me on my trajectory in then. But some a couple
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twenty years ago or so, it was one of those
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moments where I was just pondering about all that. I
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was driving late at night in Los Angeles and in
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the sky all of a sudden it must have been
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a missile or something, but it was one which you
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don't normally see around here in LA. But it was
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one of those little you know, like the missile makes
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those things in the sky with the way it lights
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up the sky, And I was like, WHOA, what is that?
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And and then that it just dropped in and it
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dropped in life, life, l I f E. It's the
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meaning of life, what we're here for, it's love in
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full expression. So who we are is love. What we're
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here to do and be is love when I know
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it and compasses everything. But at its core is love
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and the full expression of who we are, the full
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expression of what we're here to do and be. And
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so that's my driving force. And you can define love
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in many ways, but I think, do you understand what
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I mean by the core.
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Of that yes, beautiful, thank you for that story and
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the context that led to that epiphany moment for you.
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And you've already actually started to answer the first part
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of what I wanted us to discuss in the segment,
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having to do with the symptoms that people commonly experience
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when they're holding back their impact. You mentioned already one
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of those symptoms is shutting down on the inside, which
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then leads to shutting down on the outside. And the
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second thing that was embedded in your story in the
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way of symptoms is losing connection with love and with
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the full expression of who we are. And let's go
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even fuller and broader with that. So, what other symptoms
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are people having that they may not connect with the
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fact that those symptoms are causing them to hold back
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on their impact. What other symptoms are people dealing with
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about this?
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So well, it kind of combines with symptoms and even
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cause And.
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Now we're going to get it too, cause root cause
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in the next segment.
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Okay, there you go. So, but symptoms can be where
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you're you are. Instead of being fully present and enjoying
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and going for what it is that you want or
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how you show up, you're comparing and then that has
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you feel less then, and then the voices go off
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in your head, the judgment voices, which then in fact
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impact your experience of life or even what's possible. Has
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you potentially retract? Has you not be willing to step
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out and take those steps? Has you not feel as
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safe to try something new? Because to grow or to
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create something, you have to be willing to step out
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into the unknown. And now you just want to have certainty,
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so you maybe isolate or you stay at home or
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ur Then you even start pointing outwards, shaming and blaming
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and bullying. You know, if it goes to that extreme,
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not that everyone does it. Some people just get internal.
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Other people start acting outwards. And I feel if we
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are able to heal those those barriers and people can
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realize those are just ways that they're trying to compensate
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or cope with, not allowing or trusting that full self
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to just to come through and to follow through on
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that and trust that in others, because then you have
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agency no matter what's happening around you. And you know,
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it's a constant practice. I'm jumping ahead here, but there's
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plenty of other symptoms. But I feel like it also
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makes those little inner judgmental negative voices go off to yourself,
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no less life and just keeps you from doing what
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you're here to do and being.
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Yeah, absolutely, it does lead to a lack of agency.
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As you said, and I want to underscore what you're
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just saying, and I'm going to put it into slightly
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different words, but my words are just going to dofftail
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with yours. You were talking about a very common symptom
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having to do with comparing ourselves with others and how
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that leads to us feeling less than And what this
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boils down to, in my words, is our inner critic
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functioning as an inner authoritarian tyrant that changes us and
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blames others.
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Wow, that nailed it. That's what you do, David. That
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was beautiful and that's exactly right. And I feel another
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piece of that too is sometimes we have to allow
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ourselves the feelings and to move through them. And because
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we had trauma, we developed coping mechanisms to not allow
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ourselves to feel it all the way or process it
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all the way. And so then in everyday little life
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circumstances or even in the big ones, we might be
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not allowing ourselves to feel what's going on. Or to
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move through that feeling because you can navigate, you move
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through it, and then you choose the meaning. But you
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know that constriction that starts adding up subconsciously and also
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acts as walls that start those voices going off, start
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that discontent, start looking elsewhere to have coping mechanisms, and
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so it's it's yeah, I'm I'll turn it over to
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you say in your beautiful interpretations.
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Well marvelous, and this is probably where we'll begin to
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wrap up this segment. But what you're talking about the
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way it registers and me is about us having the
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symptom of trying to keep our unfinished business, our trauma,
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our undigested life experiences at bay, rather than facing these
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squarely and healing them so that we elevate our inner freedom.
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Absolutely, and that also means facing what's in our life now,
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because it's the symptom of not facing certain things in
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the past. So we've developed this muscle of maybe hiding
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or justifying or or covering over and when we can
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just look at our face, I'm actually I'll be honest,
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you know, I'm really commit. I am honest spirit, but
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I just mean I'll share, I'll be transparent if I
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may real quickly that.
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Well, I can't. I've got to wrap up this segment.
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That thought for the next segment. Yes, So the rest
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of this episode dives into the root causes of the symptoms.
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We've just discussed what to look for in a solution
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and a specific example of that kind of solution that
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Lynn has. After a short break, my great guest Linn
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Rose and I will explore underrecognized root causes of what
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holds us back from having the impact we're capable of having.
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I'm doctor David Gruder. This is the reimagining Humanity's future
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in your show on the exon Broadcast Network, and we'll
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be back momentarily. Welcome back. Before the break, the always
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marvelous Lin Rose and I discussed symptoms people commonly experience
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as a result of holding back their impact and how
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this affects others. We touched on that as well, and
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in this segment, as you already know, we'll delve into
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underrecognized root causes of what holds us back from having
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the impact we're capable of having. So, Lynn, what are
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some foundational issues causing us to hold back our impact
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that people particularly that people tend not to recognize who.
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Say that one more time? Because there's like layers in there,
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and I want to, ah, did that question one more time?
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That last one?
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So I'm what I'm looking for is root causes foundational
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issues that cause us to hold back our impact, and
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I'd love for us to focus particularly on foundational issues.
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Root causes that people tend to not recognize.
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HM, well, I think a core thing and then that
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will tie into the root causes, a core facet that
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maybe not everyone really lets them self go as deep
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to understand, or they don't even understand. All the way
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is that our beliefs are what's running the show, and
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we create those beliefs out of oftentimes and to us
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early in life, and as things go along the way,
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and then they start stacking up, and then we have
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a lot of hidden beliefs that are running the show
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and we just take them as real and this is
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how life is, or this is how I am, this
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is how X y Z are And then it's actually
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hindering you because of how what that belief is or
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what got created. And I can speak to some of that,
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and so when it looks at the root cause, so,
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for instance, in a very obvious way of anyone who's
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done personal growth knows these parts of things. But you know,
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in my earlier trauma, as certain things happened, then I
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start thinking, Okay, well I'm not enough. No one loves me.
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you know, I'm unlovable. All the things that we tend
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to unconsciously stack in our meaning of ourselves and life.
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I just am a good enough girl, if I work
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hard enough, if I achieve enough, then maybe I'll be enough.
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Then maybe I'll be lovable. And that's a common human
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thing in the ways that we compensate. So the core
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cause comes to whatever little whether that's subtle something that happened,
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and then we started forming a belief around it or
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the deep trauma as a root cause. It's those beliefs
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that we shape around it. And that's why it's so
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important that we go and allow ourselves to look at
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it with a new lens. Like the song I wrote,
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it says, we can't change the past it, but it
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changes how we relate to it, and then that actually
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is what can empower us to not be now having
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those walls or those compensating factors that come into play
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hold us back. I have more to say about that,
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but I would love to hear you share a bit
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more around that.
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Well, thank you. I think you're spot on. Our belief
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do run the show. And we create these beliefs out
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of what I refer to as undigested life experiences, life
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experiences we have that we don't know how to turn
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into blessings. We don't know how to utilize those life
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experiences in a way that expands our authenticity and our
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capacity to love and our capacity for impact. And so
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when we have this accumulation of these kinds of traumas
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undigested life experiences, we go into survival mode. And part
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of survival mode requires that we keep reinforcing these beliefs
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so often, so much of the time, so frequently over
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and over and over again, that we forget their beliefs
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about ourselves, other people, and the world and start to
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view those as reality instead. And you were also pointing
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out that what generates this process in the first place,
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which is, you know, just our childhood intuitive genius focusing
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on figuring out ways to survive, is the pursuit of lovability, right,
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because there are only three things that feel like love
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to a child, heart, connection, validation, and safety. And when
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we don't have one or more of those three things,
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we set out on the first heroes or heroine's journey
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of our lives as children, which is to figure out
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the rules we need to follow in order to get
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that love. And that's what forms our beliefs that end
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up saving us as children and backfiring as adults until
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we change how we relate to our past. How am
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I doing in powerful?
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Oh see, I just love you? Articulate and just so
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make it even richer coming life. And that safety piece
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is huge because that can be what holds us back
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from daring to step out, daring to try something new,
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daring to ask someone you find attractive at the bar,
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because you're going to be rejected in your head, or
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that's going to mean something if you get rejected, you know,
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it's it's that safety piece. And that's like on a
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small level. Then there's the bigger level of the safety piece.
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Is it safe to open my heart? Is it safe
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to uh, you know, allow myself to feel this? You know?
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And then we have the compensatory or compensating ways that
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we do around it if we don't just allow ourselves
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to face it. I mean, it really is. You know,
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we developed and coping other mechanisms. For instance, this is
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part of a transparency since it was kind of a
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cliffhanger there in that I am, you know, I'm quote
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unquote visionary. So like I set my mind something, I
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do what it takes. I do that to a fault
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often where I'm I'm like whatever it takes, and I
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sometimes overwork myself and then I leave myself on the bus,
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all that type of thing. But there's another facet to
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it I've been seeing is that I'm just also focusing
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on that vision. I am also now as paying attention
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to certain factors, that foundational factors that also really need
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to be grounded within what you're doing with going for
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the vision and so to be willing to look right
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in the face of it and you can hold both
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life is a yes, and we can look at what
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are things that we might want to put in place
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that aren't there yet or we want to tweak or adapt,
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or just be willing to look at and take away
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the shame, the blame, the doubt, regret, the fear that
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we put on ourselves as we look at it, so
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you can look at it clearly, understand it, and now
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what we choose to do differently, and that is then
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what can allow you to also as you're doing that,
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and this is where I'm headed and where I'm going.
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So that is power when you can be with whatever
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is so and what you are potentially wanting to shift
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or change and take away those other judgments and beliefs
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that are clouding it while holding that vision of where
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you want to go. That makes that a solid, robust
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and authentic and grounded vision. And then way forward too.
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That's a beautiful mouthful. Let's unpack this all, please.
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I love when you unpack.
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So two parts. One is that lack of safety prevents
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us from daring to be who we are, and I'll
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add or it causes us to over compensate for that
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lack of safety through self destructive forms of risk taking.
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And other ways that people compensate, you know, But that
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was just my own personal thing I was realizing.
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Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely, And you're right in saying that
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there are any number of self defeating forms that this
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can take. And the other thing that you identified that
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I really want to underline for our audience is that
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when we become obsessed with our vision, even when it's
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a beautiful vision or a lovely vision or a higher vision,
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when we become obsessed with our vision at all costs,
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this leads to self neglect and neglect of our cherished relationships.
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And when that happens, what we're doing is we're using,
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we're misusing our vision as a crusader. And this is
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a hiding strategy, hiding from ourselves, from our own unfinished business.
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And that is not impact as service to elevating humanity
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and ourselves. It's a hiding strategy. You just had a wow,
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Go ahead and say what that is.
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Wow. Ah. So, because I'm in this place of where
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I'm also I'm recalibrating a lot, really making sure that
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I'm not doing the gloss over or you know, really
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grind grind, grounding, and I'm really present to this factor.
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And one of the factors that I saw, but not
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in the way you just said it. And so, but
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one of the things I saw is I am so
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out there and how what I put out there. I
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had to develop the muscles to allow myself to even
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come out and do what I do. People didn't know
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what was going on behind the scenes just to be
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able to show up even but I know I'm so
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out there well, so I could even say I'm a
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master of being out there, while I'm also been a
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master at hiding. And I don't mean hiding like people
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who can hide where they lie or all that part.
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I just mean I wasn't necessarily looking at certain factors
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I needed to, because I just wanted to stay focused
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on whatever that might be. And and you know, frankly
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in the past and much now, much more you know,
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grounded and allow myself just to be who I am.
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But I used to like want to make sure I
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controlled how I came across, which is another form of hiding.
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But what you just said, wow, because I'm I was
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thinking this, like my mission was divinely given. I have
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a mission. I have a duty to pursue the mission.
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I've got to so it and at all costs, And
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I was leaving myself in the dust and lack of
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self care and like you say, the others around us,
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and then you're actually not in service of the mission.
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But the way that you articulated that and that that
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actually can be another form of hiding. Right, because then
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we wouldn't be as just grounded and looking at what's
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so well doing with this very deliberate stewardship way versus
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just go go go energy.
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Well said, this is a very common thing among those
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of us who are purpose driven, who do have a
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higher vision. We hide behind gold and we become masters
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of being out there to avoid becoming a master of
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a master of our own inner well being. And what
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this really is is our childhood survival plan morphing into
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what I refer to in adulthood as our egos redemption plan.
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Because our childhood survival plan in the end didn't succeed
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at getting us the heart connection, validation and safety we needed.
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So now as adults, we not only have to keep
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trying to get that, but we have to redeem ourselves
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for having failed to make that happen when we were
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growing up. And that's a velvet trap for those of
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us who are and I'm going to use a term
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here that I mean in a positive light, even though
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it's often used in a negative life light for those
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of us who are do gooders in the world.
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Yes, well, David just nailed it, absolutely.
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Super So after another short break, we will get to
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the heart of the matter. What to look for in
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a solution that can activate our inner permission to maximize
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our input our impact. Rather step into doing this and
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elevate our capacity to help others do this too, without
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sacrificing our own well being or our cherished relationships. I'm
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doctor David Gruder. This is the Reimagining Humanity's Future in
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your show on the exone Broadcast Network and will continue
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momentari and we're back. Before the break, my illustrious guest
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Lynn Rose and I delved into lesser discussed major causes
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of impact holdback or impact as sabotage as self sabotage.
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Really and as I mentioned in this segment, we'll unpack
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ingredients to look for when you want to up both
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your outer impact and your inner well being. So, Lynn,
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what ingredients would people be wise to look for in
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a solution, in a resource that can help them simultaneously
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elevate their well being and their impact.
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I love this question. I mean, that's that's part of
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what I dedicate myself for myself, no less the work
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that I do, all right, and I can apply this
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as well to speaking and one of the things just
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to address that that was, you know, from part of
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people saying how can they do it?
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With you?
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Do what?
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They would see me on stage, and they had no
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idea that it took herculean f to where I could
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ever be able to allow who I was to show
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up and allow me to do what I do because
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I was so if you will, hammered by all those
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voices in those walls, and it was. And I'll just
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share some of that facet and then I'll apply it
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to just life in general, because it does apply in
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life in general. That's why this work too, that when
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I would do with folks ended up being not just
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transformative on their speaking, it became transformative in life. But
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what I number one is being willing to show up,
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no matter how you feel. It's just being willing to
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show up. That's what it took for me to when
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I was moving through, when I was shut down on
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the outside inside, and I would show up in these
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auditions and I'd try to get so well. It was
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painful as heck, but I at least kept showing up.
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And there's something you start finding. You might even you
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know it's a little zig zag, it's painful, whatever, But
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as you just and that's an example of that. I mean,
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you can interpret whoever's listening, interpret that in your own
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circumstance or in your own way, but then have faith
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in finding the way through that. And at one point
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I was sick at some audition and it kind of
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allowed those walls to not be so strong, and then
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something came through, and then from there I got stronger
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and stronger, and I got that audition and all this stuff,
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so things took off from there. Now, what I've learned
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in this process, and when I would hit the stage
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sometimes like in the beginning, when I'm now on stage
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doing my thing, I might have incredible fear, but I
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built up this belief this way that I looked at
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it to where I'm going to let all those voices
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live on the side. They're still there. Can't make them
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necessarily go away, but I'm going to allow that to
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be on the side. And what's going to lead in
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that moment is connection. So connection leading and then the
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rest follows what you want to say or how it's
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going to come out. And that way, you're in a
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way you get to allow yourself to be a channel
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for if you will the divine, or be a channel
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to what is authentically you that's just going to come
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through in that moment and not be trying to control
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it or trying to stand in the way and over
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It's like, really, when you overanalyze, it's creating other walls.
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So when you can just be and then trust that
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allow connection to lead. Our energy is what people are
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experiencing with us first and everything else. Our energy is
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the delivery system of our message or what we're saying.
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The words matter and the actions matter, all of that,
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but that energy is what's leading the show. And so
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if you have that as a concept, but not just
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a concept, but as a way of being that you feel,
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an experience and to practice, you can do that having
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the courage to allow the connection to hope. This is
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making sense, you know, but this goes to whether you're
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on a day, This goes to how you might relate
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in a tough conversation in taking certain actions it's scary,
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but you trust, you kind of allow that to dance
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on the side and you take that step forward and
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you in the connection. You could call your purpose, your drive,
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your intention to lead as the energy. And so that's
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one facet. The other facet to allow that because sometimes
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it's so strong is the sense of play. And again
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it's using those beliefs but shifting them so that we
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can come from the way we're going to choose to
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look at it, then the other. And so for instance,
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I'll have come up often sometimes you know, fear or
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doubt or worry or low self worth or I'm going
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to go to something the more important and how am
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I going to show up with them? Am I going
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to be accepted? Or how is this going to go?
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Is this going to work out? Or whatever? And then
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I just shift it now to say I'm going to
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approach this with play and wonder. And play is an
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incredible powerful force because it's not about trying to get
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something exactly right that creates constriction. It's about there's a
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myriad of ways it can come out, and when you
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are in that connection place, it will find its way
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in the moment and it's all the more authentic because
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it's in that moment and play allows it to just
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play with how that may feel, how you feel. It
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also lightens up your energy when you think about play,
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and even though that's just about doing tasks. And then
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wonder is ah, I wonder this is I'm just curious.
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I'm open to see what this is about. It's not
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about trying to overly control it or constrict it, even
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though we might have intentions about whatever we're doing or
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we're taking on. So play in wonder is kind of
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one of my little phrases about when I find that
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there's fear and doubt, and it's also definitely a major
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tool that I use when it go to hit the
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stage or camera. I'm doing it right now, although I'm
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not like how to force it. I'm just you know,
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it's a way of being how like I allow play
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and it doesn't mean I have to be playable. It
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just means how that feeling is which allows more of
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me to come through. And so I would, you know, say,
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you can find find your own ways as well, but
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it's a way to have those voices not take you
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over or these other types of walls stand in your way.
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So that play and wonder and knowing and trusting the
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energy leads and the connection and or if you want
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to call it, intention leads.
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Hmm. That's a delicious list, and I'm again going to
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unpack your list. Awesome, So what people would be wise
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to look for in a resource that can help them
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simultaneously elevate their well being and their impact. Are that
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it provides ways to succeed at giving yourself permission to
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show up. It provides ways to help us boost our
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faith that healing and transcendence can occur for us, not
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just in theory, but for us. It has to provide
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ways to equip us to set aside our inner critic,
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to shift things so that our inner critic is no
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longer the boss of us. It needs to provide us
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ways to adopt the priority of connection before everything, Connection
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before tasks, Connection before everything. It has to help us
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develop our capacity to be a more consistent channel of
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divine authenticity. It has to help us learn ways to
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master our energy so our energy becomes the delivery system
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for our vision. It needs to provide ways to uplevel
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our playfulness, our lightness of being as I refer to it,
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because when we remember that it's all much too serious
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to be serious about, we can be serious playfully.
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Oh wonderfully said keep going.
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And the last thing you mentioned was that it needs
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to provide ways to help us remain more consistently in
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a state of wondering, to love being in the mystery,
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rather than be afraid of it or to keep it
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at bay.
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Beautifully said. My mom had an expression which I have
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to return too often, but is be and my actually
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granny had said, but I'll say it in my own way,
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but be willing to dance in the unknown. You know,
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so often we want to know what that stuff is
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before we take it, or we want to know how
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it's going to turn out before we then move forward
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and or whatever that action may be, or how we
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show up maybe and if we are we can remind ourselves.
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And this is again looking at beliefs. What's coming up? Oh,
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I see, I'm wanting to We have to like develop
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the awareness to understand when we realize there's this uncomfortability.
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What am I? What am I feeling? Oh I'm afraid
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I'm going to be judged, or I'm afraid it's not
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go well, or I'm afraid whatever the to recognize it
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and then to proactively shift it. Okay, I'm going to
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be willing to dance and the unknown I don't know,
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and I'm going to be in play and wonder and
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see and trust, which also allows to develop more trust
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in yourself. And sometimes it's you know, building that muscle,
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or just choosing to trust, even if the trust might
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not be innately there, but making that decision to to
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act in that way. There was another thing I was
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going to say about that, but you know, just being
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willing to step out in that and understand that part.
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Mm hmmm. Yes, So it is crucial that we become
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not just willing to dance with the unknown, but as
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you say, to delight in dancing.
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Oh I love that distinction. Yes, and thank you?
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And what else was I going to say? Oh? Right,
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I think there's another big piece that I know you
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agree with because we touched on it in prior segments
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in this episode. So I want to bring it to
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the foreground now, which is that a solution needs to
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equip us to turn our imprisonment in our undigested life
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experiences into gifts that actually expand our authenticity, our capacity
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for connection, and our effectiveness at having impact.
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Yes, there that is is looking at the meaning right,
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And those who've done work know this well. It's a
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core factor and core piece. But to look at I mean,
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I did spend years in my younger life with you know, wow,
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what if I hadn't gone through what i'd gone through,
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how much more would I have been out there? I
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wouldn't have been shut down or wouldn't whatever. And now
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now I realized, Wow, what a blessing in a way
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because of how the strength that it brought, the empathy,
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the awareness, the depth and what it's taken to unpack
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as I would go through my life. But the grounding,
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the compassion, the wisdom. So and then sometimes people turn
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the unthinkable into fuel and fire for purpose. And you
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know where this may not be a conversation you want
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to go into until the next segment. I don't know,
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but you know we're in a time that there's a
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lot of chaos and swirl and you know, rapid change
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that people are.
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Sure is, we sure are and will We may not
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even have time to go into it in the next segment,
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as alain in a moment, But the this is important.
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It's not about premature forgiveness or spiritual bypass that you know. Yes,
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it's about harvesting gifts, but that's an outgrowth of healing,
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not a way of avoiding doing the healing.
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Awesome, I just had a note that said meeting will
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end in forty minutes. Our meeting has been forty minutes
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and will end. So no, no, we're fine, okay, I
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know what's going on. Sorry Zo, not yours? Okay.
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After our upcoming break, will return for our episode's final segment,
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during which I'll be asking Lynn to reveal her version
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of what we just suggested that you look for once
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you've decided to more fully step into the impact you're
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able to have and more. I'm doctor David Gruder. This
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is the Reimagining Humanity's Future in your show on the
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X Zone broadcast network, and will return shortly well. Back
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before the break, Lynn Rose and I discussed ingredients to
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look for once you're committed to fully owning, embodying, and
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amplifying your impact. As I already mentioned. During this final segment,
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which is of this episode actually, which is called the
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Wow Effect, your impact can be bigger than you know,
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and it counts more than ever and it does. Linn
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will tell us about her special ways of using those
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ingredients to equip people, including perhaps you, to expand your
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impact while deepening your own well being and your relationships.
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I'll then let you know how to get your hands
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on a free gift that Linn has made available to
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you for having tuned into this episode, and after that,
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we'll each share our big takeaways that we hope you've
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gained from this episode, followed by my closing comments, Lin,
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how do you help people up their impact?
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My goodness? Yes, well, can I finish that thought from
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the previous segment?
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Oh yeah, go ahead?
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Okay, good, because I just wanted to close the loop
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on that in that that yes, all good? So when
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I was talking about how we know, we then can
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redirect the meaning because we're the ones. What if every
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single belief and thing that is going on actually is
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all made up? So we get to choose the meaning,
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not spiritual bypass, like David Well clarified in the previous one,
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but and so we can choose to use the to
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use what's going on in the uncertainty or wherever you
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stand on those sides, but to use that as fuel
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for your fuel, for fire, for your purpose, for you
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holding your own, for you stepping up the strength, strengthening
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you you even more, or for you all the more
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doing the work you're here to do, whatever that may be.
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You can actually choose to use that as fuel and
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feel that belief rather than feeling like your you know,
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ad mercy of whatever is happening around you in these circumstances,
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and whatever that circumstance may be, how do we use
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that as fuel and purpose? And that's what some folks
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have done incredibly in some of the most unthinkable circumstances,
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you know, evault throughout time. So back to me, how
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we are you know how I just help and choose
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to help folks with making their impact. So that's what
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I stand for as I want to be an engine
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behind we call wildmakers, not want to That's my goal,
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my fuel, my purpose, my mission, and to have you,
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whoever's watching this, you living from your your full purpose,
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your full fire and energy. What's here and there's so
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much more that you may not even know that's available
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to you because they've been living in the walls perhaps,
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or they've been cluttering the space, but there is I
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see this in folks when it comes to speaking, and
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that's part of the way that I've done this. I've
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done this for over twenty years. That's speaking from the
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inside out approach. Wow and WOW is an acronym for
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without walls. So talk about being able to dissolve those
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barriers to your connections so that you can come out
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and play, and so I had developed this process and
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series of principles and ways that then allow folks to
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just completely you come through in the ways that we
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were talking about earlier. And so that's one way because
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then I see I see folks transform people who were
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hopeless cases and you know, they tried for twenty years
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and they couldn't get past those voices that were making
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it too uncomfortable, fearful, or they were shut down and
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stuff and they didn't know or whatever. Ways, and now
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they come to life and there is something that happens
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because that acts as a subconscious release of the foot
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on the brake as well, and now they're taken off
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and they're motivated. Talk about how energy drives the show.
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When we then click into that energy rather than the
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energy of all that's going on and trying to hold
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us back, that's power. So one of the ways is
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through that work. And I do that work for folks
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both in person. We have like a one day that
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we do with just seven folks in a four camera
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studio and then an ongoing monthly coaching and support and
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masterminding just to support continue to have wings with what
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you've unleashed. And I do that online now as well
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for just a small group of ten at a time,
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same thing. And then I have created and this has
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been one of those divine missions and one of those
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things that we were talking about where you get so
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into the mission that sometimes you leave yourself in the
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test and service of what you need to do, and
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that what's happening actually with me because I'm so driven.
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This was divinely brought into the space of the platform
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that I've been developing over through years and bringing all
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the different connections that I'm blessed to have in the
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world of entertainment, media, corporate, personal development, marketing, all that
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as an engine of support as the platform will go
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to the next level. Right now, it's been created, it's here,
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but because so much technology is shifting and changing and
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just the time we're in the we're and a bit
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of a we're like a holding pattern right now, but
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where when we go to this next level. I'm very
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excited about that and this platform. As I was reading
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and I recommend if you're watching this, and if you
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haven't already, you go to David's site and you read
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the cess cess or if this feels like a fit,
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this type of conversation. And I don't mean to be
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a commercial for you, David, but this is not about
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even being a commercial. This is about the power of
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what you express in the cess.
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And when I assesses the Center for Enlightened Self.
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Sovereignty, exactly yes. And so when I was reading it,
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I was like, that is exactly what this platform has
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been built for. And it is built to be an
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engine for wildmakers. So you go out and be your
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best and then you can better the communities in the
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world and you are empowered to do so, and we're
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an engine behind you to do it. And so it
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is a civil social space, leaving politics at the door
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and about cheering each other on. It's all you know. Also,
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this whole gamified, so you know it can all the
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more incentivize engagement. And then it's integrated with a full
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engine of the trusted, vetted solutions, brands, resources, experts in mind, body, spirit, life,
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business worlds, so that you have at the ready resources
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and it's interactive within the social space to support whatever
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changes you're wanting to do. Plus, we share profits with
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the entire platform based on engagement, so you believe in something,
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you share it out. It's automatically coded. Whatever comes in
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gets tagg to you for ongoing profit share off the
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tire platform for whatever occurs to that. So that we're
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creating and building this together, and there's a lot more
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to it go through it, but this I'm kind of
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giving details about it, but it is created to be
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a community that is committed to be a wilemaker. Whether
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you're an everyday person and you just want to show
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up at your best and we know the impact that
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ripple outwards to those around you, or you are an
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expert brand resource and you want to be able to
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have your work all the more permeate. And we also
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have an event for the ultra elite to ignite them
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for using their relationships, their influence, and their wealth for
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driving legacy and impact. So those are way is that
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I do that, But then the core piece is when
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I'm hitting the stage, when I'm hitting the camera, I
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know that what even just in that moment and whatever
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whoever that's touching, I want to ignite them. They feel
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that light and that fire for themselves and what's possible
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lift out of maybe whatever internal stuff may be going
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on and they can feel a little bit more up
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leveling and unleashing and you know, even just in that way,
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but also in the in the work and the things
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that I mentioned.
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Mah wow, Okay, that's a wow. And and you know,
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you're you're so right that that because we know, and
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we've been others who have overcome horrendous experiences. You can too,
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Others can too. And so it's not theoretical, it's it's real.
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And what it requires, of course, is willingness and the
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passion to do that. But it's doable. So Lynn is
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offering you an amazing gift to thank you for tuning
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into this episode. It's a wowerful one hour webinar to
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it's interactive. Lynn's going to do a couple of hot
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seats and you can ask your questions. Here's how to
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slash wow. Sess dot com slash Wow will take you there.
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And as we wind down on our remaining time, if
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I would love to ask you Lynn in a single
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sentence that's not a run on sentence, to say what
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the biggest takeaway is that you hope our audience has
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gained from this episode.
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M It's one of my favorite sayings and it's by
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Georgia O'Keefe, who actually is George excuse me, no, Georgia, No,
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it's George Elliott.
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Sorry, Oh, George Elliott.
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Okay, and George is actually a woman, but she had
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to use the name of a man to publish back
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in the time. But George Elliott said, it's never too
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late to become who you might have been, and you
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can even say it's never too late to become who
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you really are. To allow who you really are to
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come forward. And let's put it also in that acronym
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life L I F E love in full expression, to trust,
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to take that step, to be willing to allow all
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of who you are to step out and know that
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it matters more than ever right now, because there's impact
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to be made that can only come through you, just
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either in how you show up or the work that
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you're here to do. And so to have that courage
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and to follow that.
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Path awesome awesome. So my takeaway is that we gain
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massive power by freeing ourselves from being victims to the
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forces around us, so we can stand powerfully and even
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fiercely in our own truth without sacrificing love and our
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own well being. To do this, we need this power
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to generate positive ripples of impact more than ever. Our
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core essence remains unharmed and is waiting to be given
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permission for full expression. So stop shrinking back in these
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times when we need people to be stepping forward. Lean
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into unfurling and actualizing your highest potential. My closing comments
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the world needs you, Your nation needs you, Your loved
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ones need you. You need you boost your impact in
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helping the future you most want to emerge. I want
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to thank you Lynn for joining me for this episode.
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It's been remarkable, and I want to thank all of
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you for joining us for this episode of reimagining Humanity's
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future and yours on the Exone Broadcast Network. This has
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been doctor David Gruder, the polymath of human potential who
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equips leading edge leaders, influencers, and you with transcendent ideals, values, principles, mindsets,
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and skills for co creating humanity's most spiritually elevated future.
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I invite you to explore my main website, doctor Gruter
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dot com. That's d R g r U d er
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dot com, where you'll find a link to watch or
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listen to all of this show's episodes, as well as
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a link to the Center for Enlightened Self Sovereignty, which
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is helping to dissolve divisiveness and reunite humanity so that
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we can usher in the a of spiritual self sovereignty
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that serves us all around the world and much more.
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I enthusiastically invite you to tune in next time for
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another spellbusting, uplifting, and actionable episode on how together we
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can and will build a better future for ourselves and
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for humanity.