ABOUT THIS EPISODE
In this episode of the Redeem Podcast, host Lauren Burns welcomes special guest John Fela, a father to a 17-year-old son with autism and non-verbal disabilities. John shares insightful reflections on the challenges and rewards of raising a child with severe disabilities, including his personal experiences with divorce, finding faith, and the critical role of community support. He highlights the importance of surrendering to God, seeking and building community, and the profound transformation that fatherhood has brought to his life. The episode also delves into practical advice for fathers and parents in similar situations, stressing the value of connecting with others for support and growth. Additionally, the podcast mentions resources like the Special Fathers Network and other supportive communities, along with a special promotion of the Mermaid Café in San Antonio and the blog 'In Our Arms' by Julie Henderson.
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
01:16 Meet John Fela: A Father's Journey
03:11 Challenges and Self-Discovery
06:26 The Importance of Community
09:40 Finding Support and Building Relationships
11:27 The Role of Churches and Community
15:22 Consistency and Dedication in Support Groups
19:13 Personal Growth and Fatherhood
20:10 A Day at the Zoo: Overcoming Challenges
21:28 Connecting Through Simple Activities
22:11 Facing Public Judgment and Shame
23:23 The Gifts of Disability
24:32 Embracing Community and Support
29:48 Navigating Divorce and Finding Community
32:44 Encouragement for Fathers
33:58 Resources and Final Thoughts
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Contact John:
Website https://johnfela.com/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/john.felageller
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/john_fela_1/
Links John talked about
https://www.specialneedsministryresources.com/blog/2025-disability-ministry-conferences
Juli Henderson’s Blog https://www.inourarms.blog/
The Mermaid Cafe https://themermaid.cafe/ Disclaimer:
The purpose of the Redeemed Podcast is to share the love of Jesus. The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed on behalf of guest do not necessarily represent the thoughts of the host. This podcast does not constitute services or medical advise. Pease pray and thoroughly research options for medical needs. Listeners and viewers consume this content on a voluntary basis and assume all responsibility for resulting consequence and impact.
