ABOUT THIS EPISODE
In this episode, we’re diving into the psychology of resentment — especially for overfunctioners who feel like they’re carrying everything on their shoulders.
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking:
- “Why am I the only one doing everything?”
- “Must be nice…”
- “I wish people would help me more…”
…this episode is for you.
We explore:
- Why resentment is often rooted in envy/jealousy rather than anger
- The hidden desires underneath “must be nice”
- Why overfunctioners struggle to receive help
- The subconscious belief that love must be earned through doing
- The dynamic between overfunctioners and underfunctioners in relationships
- Why boundaries and support can actually feel uncomfortable in your body
- How Human Design helps untangle conditioning from your authentic self
This episode is an invitation to start seeing resentment not as proof that something is wrong with you — but as information about the parts of yourself you haven’t felt safe to embody yet.
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