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dot com. All right, I'm very please this time to
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be joined by coach Tyler Arndt at North o'cony. Coach,
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thanks for joining.
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Me, absolutely, thanks so much for having me Chris Man.
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You guys are been killing it at North o'cony. Okay,
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ten wins are more six the last seven years, the
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last four years, twelve or more wins and I am
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going to ask you a little bit about that. But
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just for the people listening, the majority of our talks
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can actually be about how you get there with guys
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that aren't playing on Friday night. So and I think
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you guys are really good at that. I think something
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you'll take a lot of pride in and I really
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want to highlight it. So, but before we get there,
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anybody's not real familiar with you or your journey here,
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you know, talk a little bit about how you guys
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go from you know, North O Cony's always a nice place,
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is in a really good area, but in the last
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four or five years you really become a state championship contender,
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and then last year we're able to win the state championship.
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What do you think beyond the youth program? Because we
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talked about youth program a lot, what are some other
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factors that helped get you guys to where you are?
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We're most people wish they were.
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Yeah, I think two things that stick out.
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We got a great administration that has been extremely supportive.
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In terms of hiring, in terms of getting.
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The things needed and getting things in place from a structure,
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just from a structure and a program, you know, standpoint
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of getting things aligned, you know, from from our principal
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all the way.
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Down, and I think that's been a big key. And
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then the second part is we have had.
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I think we've lost like two or three coaches in
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a total of nine years. So continuity on our staff
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has been a big part of our success. We haven't
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had a lot of turnover. I think we're in a
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place that people might to live. It's a great school
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system to have your kids in. So we've been fortunate
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to you know that the guys that we started with
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ten years ago, we've been able to keep around.
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For the most part.
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So those two things, I think they probably stand out
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the most in terms of, you know, what has helped
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create success and you know, continued that consistency through the years.
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Well, you know, everybody when you do something like this
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because I haven't now have been coached for several years,
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and you talk a lot coaching a lot, but you
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don't really don't have a lot of real life examples anymore.
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You know, people always want to talk to you about
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what formula you know gets there. And obviously everybody knows
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you got good players, but there's always programs who you know,
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they just either they just kind of birthed out of
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something like Jackson County. Last year, you know was really
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good and there was a place that hadn't been and
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it'll probably stay being really good, just in a good area.
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You know, they got good players. You guys do too.
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But there's five or six components that I do here
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over and over again, That's what I mean. And one
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of them is the weight room. One of them is
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you know, coaches, you know, steady coach, because I do
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think if you lose coaches too quickly in that process
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when your program's just starting on the way up, it
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does make it harder. So having a continent in coaches.
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But the thing that I wanted to talk to you about,
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and I know you're willing to talk to me about,
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is the feeder programs. We can start with JV at
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ninth grade, but all the way down to the littlest
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of little you guys do a great job of that.
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I always took a lot of pride in that when
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I was the head coach, and one of the reasons
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I like working at Pickens as they coach there is
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I could control pretty much kindergarten twelfth grade, and I
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thought that was really helpful for us, and I thought
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it was a really important component to us maximizing our potential.
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Now there seven wins might have been us maximizing our potential,
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but I felt like that's how we got there was,
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you know, having those kids run the same stuff all
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the week through take a lot of pride each other. Anyway,
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So talk to me a little bit about what you
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guys do from the littlest of littles all the way
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through JV, you know, anything you want to share, and
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then we can get in this more specific stuff.
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in the last five years started when these kids were
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in grade school and they're run around in elementary school,
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and that's where you know, we've done a really good
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job of building relationships and bridging that gap between what's
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happening in our youngest group, which is seven year olds,
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all the way through our oldest group.
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Which would be our tenth, eleventh, and twelfth graders.
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And we've developed and created a lot of different things
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over the years, but I think one of the biggest
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things is just being accessible to whether it be for
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the kids or the coaches at those age groups. So,
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you know, one thing that we try to do every
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summers have a coaches clinic for those guys.
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And it's more just like Q and A.
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what we believe in, whether it be you know, the
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culture of our program and the kids that we're trying
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to build, or the way we practice, and we feel
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like if we can get them started early in those
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two areas, when they get to us, it's it's we're
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not going to have to focus our attention on that
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part of the program as much when they become ninth
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and tenth graders and now we can come we can
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get more involved in like football fundamentals and the development
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you know, from a skill standpoint, because they already have
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a good foundation of what our program is, who we
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expect them to be, you know, when they're out on
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the field, or what we're expecting that to look like. Uh.
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of practice, and so.
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That's been beneficial.
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But I'll say one of the biggest things that we've
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that we've started is is our Titans Love Titans program.
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We call it TLT for short. It is a mentoring
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program where you know, our youth kids have the opportunity
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to you know, register and be a part of it.
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So they pay fifty dollars, and that fifty dollars like
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we're not making money off of them. We're going to
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give them a T shirt with their mentors name on
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the back that they can wear to the games. On Friday,
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we're going to have socials with our guys or their
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mentors and then after practice where there's ice cream involved,
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or we bring in a food truck or we get pizza.
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It's just an opportunity.
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We are trying to create opportunities for our kids, our
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varsity players to connect with the younger kids. And because
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the younger kids want to be like them. So the
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more that I can get them around our kids who
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we're pouring into every day, the more likely we're going
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to be able to get them to believe in what
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their coaches are preaching every day in practice because they're
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going to see it firsthand in our kids.
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Before you go, let me interrupt real quick. So what
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I love this, By the way, people need to rewind
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listen again Titans Love Titans or whatever team you got,
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because you can do a variation of that. I think
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everybody could do a variation of that meaning whether they
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can do the shirts or pay or not or pay more,
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I don't know, but you know what I found in
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those And I want to ask you this real quick.
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From we go to the next thing, did you find
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that your kids benefited? I mean, your high school kids
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may be benefited almost as because they don't realize that
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people look up to them and this kind of forces
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them to see that. Did you see that?
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Oh, one hundred percent? They love it.
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And I tell the parents of the youth kids, I
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bet our kids, our varsity players are having more fun
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than the seven and eight year old that are running
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around because the social is after practice, so our kids
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are hungry, so they get to eat immediately after practice.
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They're getting some kind of snack or dinner, and then
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it turns into a free for all on the field
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for about thirty to forty five minutes playing pick up
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football or two hand touch or you know, there's playing catch.
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But it is one of the coolest things to see
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when you've got a twelfth grader, a senior that is
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running around on the field with a seven year old
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and that relationship is so pure and that's what makes
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it fun. And then our kids learn that there are
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a lot of little eyes on them and it, you know,
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it holds them more accountable because they understand that this
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kid is watching and he wants to be just like me.
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But it has been a lot of fun to watch.
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And then you get very intentional with the age groups
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as well. So we don't let none of our freshmen
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are in that program. It's all tenth to eleventh and
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twelfth graders. But our tenth graders are going to be
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paired with a seventh grader.
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tenth grader is a senior, and they already have a
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relationship with somebody that is older in that program, in
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our program, so there's already a bond in a relationship
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that is formed just because we paired them up two
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years prior than entering high school.
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That's really good. That's really good. Yeah, I can't take it.
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I never did anything that was real. That's really good,
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you know, keeping them because that is you know, you
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lose the most kids from eight to ninth grade, and
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then sometimes ninth to tenth that's when you lose the
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most kids. I did track that, and I did make
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always a big deal about retaining the fourth graders, the
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fifth grade and so on and so forth. But we
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always lost the most kids from eight to night grader
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or ninth to tenth. Some of it's natural, but I
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think things like that can be what you can control
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to at least help that a little. Make sure they
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come up there knowing some of the older kids. Man,
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that's really good. What how did you pick the eleventh
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and twelfth graders? Were they more random? It was always
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seventh to tenth.
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So the eleventh and twelfth graders we always put with
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younger guys. And because usually you're eleventh and twelfth graders
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are on the field the most, and so those younger kids,
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they're really trying to emulate those older kids that are
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out there on Friday night and when you do, you know,
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your TLT night at the game and they're standing in
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the hallway when our guys are coming out of the
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locker room and they're kind of meeting up like that
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that you know, the video that we have that we
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put together after that game is so incredible to watch
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because those kids think that they are a part of
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that game for that one night, because they're walking out
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with our best player and they're all intermingled when they
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come out of that tunnel together, and it's just the
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idea of if I can get juice and create energy
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in that young group, I'm hoping that will carry over
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a year after year after year to once we get
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to the seventh grade, sixth and seventh grade. You know,
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we've got them so entrenched in our program because of
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they have to watch the older kids for three or
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just before we get off of that. I just my
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experience with mentoring, especially young kids. You can talk in
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the field house about how these you know, these eleventh
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and you've had the guys going to UGA. You've had
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like really big players that everybody looked up to, and
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you tell them, look, guys, these little people look up
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to you. Don't act like fools. Whatever you got to
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tell them. And I never felt like it was impactful
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until they saw the little kids. How they like that
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they got treated like Tom Brady. So we take them
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elementary school and let them read the elementar school kids
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or open the car doors or whatever. That was better
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for us than it was for those little guys. Like
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obviously we're doing it for the kids, but I'm pretty
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sure it helped my team block and tackle better because
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I got to focus them a little better. And I
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just think that's a missing opportunity if you're not doing
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something like that. Just some variation of putting these older
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kids with these younger kids.
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Right, Yes, And so a couple other things that go
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along with that.
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We do pep rallies at the elementary school three games
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every year, so three different fridays there because our elementary
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starts thirty minutes before our high school starts, so we're
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there opening car doors and then do a pep rally
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with the whole elementary schools in the gym, and it
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is incredible, but it's another contact. So those our kids
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are going to the school where their mentees are at,
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and it's just another opportunity to create another contact and
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another opportunity to get them face to face or around
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each other, just to build that relationship even more.
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So that's another way that we do it.
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And then when they go read in the elementary schools
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on our bye weeks, they're going to the elementary school
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where their mentees are at, and we're trying to get
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them in the classroom with them. It doesn't always work
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that easy, but we have been close to it to
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where that they're at least going to be able to
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see their mentee in that hour long, you know period
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that they're over there to read on those days. But
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it's it's all about how many contacts can you make
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to help build a relationship between you know, one on
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one mentor to mentee or some of these mentors may
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have three kids.
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But you have to be very, very.
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Organized when you set it all up so that the
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kids have the opportunity to see one another as much
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as possible.
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Yeah, I can see organization being a problem here, like
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it always is, and so that's the elephant in the
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room if anybody's writing this stuff down and loving the idea.
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But it's not going to be easy. But nothing worth
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doing really is, so you are going to have to
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get organized with it. But I love the elementary pep rally.
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Now I didn't do it. We did some reading and stuff,
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but I bet an elementary pep rally is better than
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the high school. High school pep palace kind of suck,
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to be honest. So I never loved the high school
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pep rally, So maybe elementary years, Yeah, they may actually
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be into it, you know, the high school man maybe
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North Olk, maybe even fourteen to Oh, you get a
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good pep rally. But when you're just okay, you don't
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get a great pep rally. I'm just telling you.
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Kids are a lot interested in other things then, Yeah,
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going into a gym and yelling and screaming at the
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top of their long those elementary school kids they eat
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it up.
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Yeah, they're into it, so that's cool. What else?
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So I think part of this is kind of understanding
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our journey.
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Like when I got here, we had seventy seventy eight
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kids in our youth program. We're over two hundred and
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twenty now and every age group, almost every age group
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has two teams, which when we started we were missing
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age groups, like they didn't have a team. So what
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they were doing is they were having to combine with
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ocone County's youth team to make one team. And we
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click quickly were able to grow that number and get
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that to where, you know, we had enough kids to
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create North o'kkoney Feeder League teams at every level.
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But that just took us getting.
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In elementary schools and being visible and getting them excited
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about playing and giving them the attention that they deserve.
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I really feel like it's my job. If we got
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a kid that's going to put a T on that helmet,
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then they deserve as much attention as anybody in our
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program because at some point they're going to be playing
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in our program, and you want to have that relationship
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and you want them to understand that they're important to
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what you do, even if they are seven or eight
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years old.
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We've put more.
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This year was the most teams we had make it
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to a Super Bowl. We had three teams making now
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they all didn't win. We had one team that won it,
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but every team made the playoffs.
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But it all goes back.
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To visibility and getting those coaches to buy into this
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is how we want you to practice, and not necessarily
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so much the scheme because it all is dictated on
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around what type of players they have, But this is
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this is the type of kid that we're trying to create,
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and this is what we wanted to look like when
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they're out on the field.
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Yeah, and you know, coaches, your tenth here for people
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that maybe aren't is familiar with you, it's your tenth
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year at North o'kkony. So you're talking about kids that
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were in the first grade going to second when you
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took that job. You know that are seniors now and
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kids in the high school you know, weren't even in
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school they were, you know. So that doesn't mean that
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things don't change. Kids quit, kids move in, kids move out.
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I'm not saying it's the exact same thing, but the emphasis.
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It's always been interested to me how many coaches don't
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see the value in the younger kids, especially fourth, fifth,
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sixth grade, maybe that range. Really quickly, those sixth graders
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are tenth graders really quickly. Yeah, really quickly. That sixth
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grader that you paid no attention to is a tenth
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grader that you at least need to be a backup
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or something. And they're always thinking maybe a seniors, and
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they're thinking about second graders and they're thinking, man, I'm
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not gonna be here ten years. I don't know about that,
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but it does get to ten years pretty quick and
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real quick. Those middle school kids and those older elementary
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kids will be on your team. It'll happen really fast.
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What do you do with like middle grade specific or
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maybe even ninth graders, Like what do you do to
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motivate that middle group where they're not they're not kids anymore.
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They're not just motivated by you know, pep rallys and jerseys.
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How do you get those guys to maintain through those
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awkward kind of years.
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Yeah, that's probably the toughest part was seventh through tenth grade.
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It's what you said earlier, that's that's where you really
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have to have your eye on them because there's so
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many other things that they can be involved.
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In and football is not easy.
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I mean, it's probably one of the toughest things that
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they're going to be asked to do.
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And so, you know, how do you engage that group.
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Well, it's almost it's not year round, but we are
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trying to be around them year round in some capacity. So,
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you know, we got groups that are coming to high
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school two days a week after school to do some
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type of training with our strength coach. I'm in there,
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and then we'll have a couple of our city coaches
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that come one day a week, you know, And so
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how much can we get around them to make them
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understand how important and valued they are for what they're doing.
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And it's the relationship piece.
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We have found that that has probably helped retention more
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than anything is when the kids know and understand that
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you're there for them, they're more likely to come back
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year after year after year.
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I think when we first.
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Got here, we did not have the numbers to have
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a ninth grade only program. We had a jv and
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a varsity, So you're asking ninth graders to come in
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and of course they're playing behind tenth graders, so they're
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not getting a lot of reps. So those early years
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were tough with retention. They just didn't see the value.
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I'm not coming out here every day that you know,
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sit on the sidelines and play behind this kid, because
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then when they start thinking is well, if I'm playing
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behind them as a ninth grader, then I'm probably not
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going to play next year because I mean playing behind
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them as a tenth grader, and then i mean playing
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behind them as a junior. So why am I going
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to put forth all this time and energy into it,
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you know, just to be a backup for three years
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and then finally have a chance, Like there is no
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more like slow developing process where you take it and
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they don't play for three years and then they play
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their senior year.
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You don't see that very often because they don't make
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it that long. So adding our.
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Ninth grade program and I think that was like after
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year four where now they play their own schedule, and
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that has been huge in retention for us, where we're
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bringing in forty to forty five kids in that group
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every year. Now, we're not going to maintain and keep
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that many, but if we can hold it between thirty
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and thirty five, I feel like we've done a pretty
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good job. So our last three senior classes, well I
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should say the last two have been thirty one and
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this one will be thirty three, and then we're going
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to take a dip because we lost a lot of
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kids to other sports, but then we're going to be
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we should be thirty plus for several years to come.
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I'm hoping.
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Yeah. You know, having that ninth grade team's critical if
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you can do it, and I know the lower the level,
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the harder it is to do. But they had a
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ninth grade team at Pickings for seven years and it
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was the exact seven years I was the coach, Like
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I felt like it was really critical. I don't mean
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that critical, Dean Bail, So I'm just saying I thought
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it was really important that we just made it happen.
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I think the first year we made like twenty three
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kids or something. You know, he's made it work. And
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then the next year kids came out and kids came out.
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It's very important to give kids opportunity to play. But
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everything about in my opinion, coach, for what it's worth,
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everything about that seventh eight nineteenth grade range is like
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everything about relationships, communication, and being organized. It's just maybe
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a little more about relationships, like you said, than some
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of the other things. And being organized and seeing the future.
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This is what I advice i'd give anybody. And it's
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very important in those years that you're seeing the future.
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And what I mean by that is you see when
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a kid's getting frustrated. You notice when a kid's not
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getting to play as much, but you see something in them,
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go tell them, like, go tell them, hey man, right now.
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And I can think of so many good kids, and
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I know y'all have some that were like basketball type receiver,
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like guys that there is not that fun in seventh
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grade when you can't throw the ball and you can't
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pass pro So you have to go tell them, hey man,
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it's not that in seventh grade when you can't throther
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we know that, like I already know that, But man,
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you're gonna be out here, like in a couple of years,
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winning us the Reading Championship, catching the ball in the
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end zone, like I can see it, like I see
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the future, like I know you're gonna do it. An
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hang on to that, not every single time, but it
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Kett'll hang on to that if you can identify it
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before they get too disgruntled, if that makes sense, and
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you can kind of see that, show them how much
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value you see in them. So I couldn't agree more
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with everything you said, but especially like getting in the
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weight room, getting to know those kids so you can
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walk by them at practice one day and say, hey, man,
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I know you're not believing this, but hang in there.
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This is gonna You're gonna be good. And that's just
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a skill some people are better at than others. But
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I do think you can work on that by just
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opening your eyes and not being so singularly focused on
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the varsity team or on the game we have tomorrow
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or whatever it is right right now.
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And then I think another thing is just knowing a
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kid's name, you know, regardless of the age group, you know,
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is if you can go out there and you can
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memorize names and then you walk by them, whether it
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be in publics or you know, just out and about
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and you can say hey and say their name. Like
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that carries so much weight. But it's so simple, and
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I think that gets overlooked. It's just because it just
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creates more value. And man, this guy really cares because
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he knows who I am. And I'm not going to
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be up there for another two or three years, but
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he already knows who I am. That carry I think
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that carries a lot of weight.
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But they need to see the vision.
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They one hundred percent need to see a vision from
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an individual standpoint and from a group standpoint. And we
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we try to hammer that all the time. It is,
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you know, you're you're going to have success in numbers.
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So if you can find a way to keep the
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groups together, then you're going to have a better opportunity
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to be successful when you get older. And I try
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to pour that into the parents, like to just to
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go to their banquets or their awards ceremonies and and
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and just talk for three or four minutes about how
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important this that group is to the overall vision of
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our program and you know, just reiterating like they're going
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to be good because there's a lot of them, and
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whether there's more players, you're going to have a better
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opportunity to be successful.
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And so just.
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Continue to hammer that home like there's gonna be hard days,
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Like your kid's gonna come home and he's gonna hate it.
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And whether that's a seven year old or a senior,
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but it's just that constant messaging like hey.
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You're going to get through this.
506
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And I think that's another thing that's overlooked a lot
507
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is give into you know, like I don't want to
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do something hard, and just trying to get their parents
509
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to understand like, hey, you can push a little bit,
510
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you you can you can demand hey like look this
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is tough, but you're going to get through it and
512
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demand that positive response to adversity.
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It's never going to be easier, it's only going to
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get harder. I'm telling you coach to do that. That
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the way that nature of college football, which we ain't
516
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here talk about today, but you know, all that trickles
517
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down eventually to us. Right, So the attitude of if
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you're not getting to play immediately or if you're not
519
00:26:26.039 --> 00:26:28.720
seeing immediate success, there has to be another place or
520
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another way, or you quit or whatever. That's gotten a
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little bit worse every year, probably for the last forty years,
522
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but it's definitely at the height and it's not going
523
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to get any better. So my argument to people is
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instead of whining about that, like, go be the one people,
525
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Go be the one place that's good at that. Go
526
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be the one place that's identifying the issues and seeing
527
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the future and keeping their kids. And because if you can,
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and I'm not saying that's easy, but I'm saying, if
529
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you can, you have a better advantage than the guy
530
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that was good that twenty years ago because there were
531
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just more teams that there's more people that didn't have
532
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to work that hard at it to be good. So
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if you can be good at keeping your players, you
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can be an elite program quicker I guess than maybe
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some of the other ones. And I you know, I
536
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don't even know how you do that. I'm just saying,
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if you can just identify, you know, things and traits.
538
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And I'm talking I'm not talking about a five star
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guy you had went to Georgia coach. I'm talking about
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a linebacker that's not going to play till he's a junior,
541
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and even then he's having to earn it and he
542
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just quits in ninth grade. Right, You know, the person
543
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that can keep those kids out is going to be
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a more successful coach than they could have been even
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ten years ago, because way more people could have kept
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that kid out ten years ago. Now you've got to
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be elite at talking that kid into staying. Right, Is
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that what you're seeing?
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Oh?
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Yeah, you see that every day. And I think every
551
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place is different. Everybody's going to have different issues.
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And it's identifying the issues that you have in your
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community or at your school or in your programs and
554
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trying to figure out ways to fight against those And
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you know, because usually that issue is going to start somewhere,
556
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and it usually starts pretty early, and they see it
557
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from an early age and and it just continues.
558
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To grow and grow and grow.
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So that's part of the youth development, is trying to
560
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get out in front of those issues and get them
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to think differently than what everybody wants them to think.
562
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Because there's so much influence.
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And we got one hundred and twenty kids in our
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program and then two hundred and twenty kids in our
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feeder system, and so you're talking about a whole other
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group of people that you know it's too hard for
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them the place, so they're trying to put this negative
568
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thought process into their heads of hey, man, come over
569
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and do this, it's way easier. And so you're trying
570
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to fight these things so early, and that's where you've
571
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got to get really created with how you practice so
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the kids stay engaged and they think it's fun.
573
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It's almost like.
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Tricking them where you're getting work done, but you're you're
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figuring out a way to do it where it's competitive
576
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because that's what they like to do. They all like
577
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to compete and letting them have fun with it, and
578
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you know, you just you try and grow that part
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of the program as much as possible when they're younger,
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so that they they understand, hey, this is fun. And
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I am rewarded and I am a better person because
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I went through what everybody else didn't want to go through.
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I don't talk about both sides of the mouth here,
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but I get you out on this one that all
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that is really important. And I really enjoyed everything you brought.
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I hope people took some notes and got something out
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of Still the number one thing to be good at
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his winning. You got to win at the varsity level.
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But but it's like this, man, if you're trying to
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make money for yourself, you should be trying to make
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money to pay your mortgage and car payment whatever. But
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you gotta have some investments, right, You got to put
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some money away for retirement, or you gotta, Like I
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think coaches are notoriously not great at like really putting
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their energy on today and tomorrow, if that makes sense,
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like that, a lot of them are really good at
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putting their energy today or maybe some of them are
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better at putting their ergy in tomorrow or the you know,
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the youth, but not but it's taken away from trying
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to win the game on Friday night. It can't take away,
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but it has to be there. You have to keep
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one eye on those young guys, noticing those kids that
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are not getting to play on the ninth grade team
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or whatever it is, and that can't take away from
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Friday night. Well, coach, you hadn't lost a regular season
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game in like five years, So that's pretty good man,
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You know that, right, that's not normal, you know that right.
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Unfortunate, that is not normal players, but it's got it
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starts somewhere, like I mean, And that's I think that's
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a credit to what I said at the beginning. We've
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had a great administration that's been extremely patient, and I
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don't think there's a lot of administrations that want to
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be super patient and they don't see the vision and
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they just live in the moment too often. And then
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and then you see changes being made before you know,
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the positives really start to come or the success really starts,
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you know, to develop. And I'm just appreciative of you
618
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know who I started with and you know who I'm
619
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with now, and just the patients of hey, we're going
620
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to give you some time to get this thing going.
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And we've reaped the benefits of their patients and their
622
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support over the last nine or ten years.
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Yeah. And so you know, Coach Finley, who's not rock
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Mark with the bounds, one of my favorite guys talked
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to any of you, because you get this job your
626
00:31:51.960 --> 00:31:55.200
first year, you're one to nine and you've barely lost
627
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very many games since. But people are giving up on
628
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folks at that time. So that one in nine, Tyler,
629
00:32:03.880 --> 00:32:07.799
that's going into the second season, like, what is he telling?
630
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What are you telling that guy now? I meaning there's
631
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some guys out there that struggled last year, right, they
632
00:32:13.000 --> 00:32:16.559
struggled and they're hoping this year is the year that
633
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they turn it around and they're going to have this
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nine or ten year run like you've had. What are
635
00:32:21.799 --> 00:32:24.000
you telling that guy now.
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That you've been The first thing, you got to be patient,
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But you've got to believe in what you're doing because
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a lot of times it doesn't take a bunch of
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huge changes to get to where you want to be.
640
00:32:38.920 --> 00:32:40.960
You just have to trust in what you're doing and
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what you believe in and that those things are going
642
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to start to fall into place.
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Say, it requires a lot of hard work, and you're
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going to do.
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A lot of things behind the scenes that people aren't
646
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going to see and they're not going to recognize, right
647
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because all they're seeing is the product on the field.
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But if you have a strong belief system that what
649
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you are doing or the process that you have in
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place is going to be the right one, and you
651
00:33:09.240 --> 00:33:12.000
work really hard with it, you're going to see success
652
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at some point.
653
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But I'm not gonna lie.
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You're going to have to have some dudes come through
655
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and you know that are going to give you a
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chance to win. And that second year we had a
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very strong senior class, which gave us an opportunity to
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flip that thing around.
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I don't know how many of.
660
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Those kids, I can't remember how many of those kids
661
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went on to play college football, but they were very
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close knit and it mattered to them and they.
663
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Wanted to be different.
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And I think that's a credit to our coaches of
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instilling the right values in them and not giving up.
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You just keep pouring into them with the things that
667
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you believe in, and you start to see rewards.
668
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And then you've got to learn momentum and if you can.
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Build off that those small wins, you're going to create
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a lot bigger wins down the road.
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Man. That was really good coach and so true. And yeah,
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you got to have players. Now we ain't gonna have
673
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on that, but let me tell you something, people got players.
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The key is on capitalizing on the player. Like you said,
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building momentum when you do have a good run of
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kids and in ben able to capitalize on that moving forward.
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And I don't know that anybody's done a better job
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than you guys have the whole staff, I mean all
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of you. You guys done an awesome job and always
680
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fun to talk to you. Well.
681
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I appreciate it, and it's always great to talk to
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you again.
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Always appreciate what you do.
684
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Listen to these podcasts, I mean almost weekly, trying to
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pick up some type of nugget that can help change
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something in our program.
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So I appreciate your time and your energy that you
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put in and these.
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Yeah, thanks coach, and I guarantee you some people picked
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up something today. You're gona see some elementary pep rallies
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and some mentor programs starting through out in the state here.
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I appreciate it. I'm doing whatever I can. If anybody
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ever needs the talk out, I'll be having a talk
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with them.
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Thanks coach. I appreciate you. Ma'am.
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Thanks so much for rich.
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thanks for joining.
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Me, absolutely, thanks so much for having me Chris Man.
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You guys are been killing it at North o'cony. Okay,
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ten wins are more six the last seven years, the
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last four years, twelve or more wins and I am
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going to ask you a little bit about that. But
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just for the people listening, the majority of our talks
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can actually be about how you get there with guys
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that aren't playing on Friday night. So and I think
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you guys are really good at that. I think something
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you'll take a lot of pride in and I really
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want to highlight it. So, but before we get there,
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anybody's not real familiar with you or your journey here,
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you know, talk a little bit about how you guys
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go from you know, North O Cony's always a nice place,
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is in a really good area, but in the last
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four or five years you really become a state championship contender,
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and then last year we're able to win the state championship.
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talked about youth program a lot, what are some other
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factors that helped get you guys to where you are?
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We're most people wish they were.
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just from a structure and a program, you know, standpoint
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of getting things aligned, you know, from from our principal
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all the way.
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Down, and I think that's been a big key. And
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then the second part is we have had.
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a total of nine years. So continuity on our staff
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has been a big part of our success. We haven't
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had a lot of turnover. I think we're in a
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place that people might to live. It's a great school
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system to have your kids in. So we've been fortunate
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to you know that the guys that we started with
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ten years ago, we've been able to keep around.
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the most in terms of, you know, what has helped
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create success and you know, continued that consistency through the years.
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Well, you know, everybody when you do something like this
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because I haven't now have been coached for several years,
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and you talk a lot coaching a lot, but you
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don't really don't have a lot of real life examples anymore.
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what formula you know gets there. And obviously everybody knows
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you got good players, but there's always programs who you know,
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they just either they just kind of birthed out of
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something like Jackson County. Last year, you know was really
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good and there was a place that hadn't been and
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it'll probably stay being really good, just in a good area.
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over and over again, That's what I mean. And one
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of them is the weight room. One of them is
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you know, coaches, you know, steady coach, because I do
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think if you lose coaches too quickly in that process
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when your program's just starting on the way up, it
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does make it harder. So having a continent in coaches.
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and I know you're willing to talk to me about,
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is the feeder programs. We can start with JV at
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ninth grade, but all the way down to the littlest
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of little you guys do a great job of that.
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I always took a lot of pride in that when
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I was the head coach, and one of the reasons
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I like working at Pickens as they coach there is
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thought that was really helpful for us, and I thought
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it was a really important component to us maximizing our potential.
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but I felt like that's how we got there was,
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you know, having those kids run the same stuff all
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the week through take a lot of pride each other. Anyway,
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guys do from the littlest of littles all the way
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through JV, you know, anything you want to share, and
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then we can get in this more specific stuff.
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in the last five years started when these kids were
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in grade school and they're run around in elementary school,
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and that's where you know, we've done a really good
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job of building relationships and bridging that gap between what's
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happening in our youngest group, which is seven year olds,
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all the way through our oldest group.
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Which would be our tenth, eleventh, and twelfth graders.
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over the years, but I think one of the biggest
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things is just being accessible to whether it be for
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the kids or the coaches at those age groups. So,
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you know, one thing that we try to do every
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summers have a coaches clinic for those guys.
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what we believe in, whether it be you know, the
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culture of our program and the kids that we're trying
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to build, or the way we practice, and we feel
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like if we can get them started early in those
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two areas, when they get to us, it's it's we're
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not going to have to focus our attention on that
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part of the program as much when they become ninth
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and tenth graders and now we can come we can
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get more involved in like football fundamentals and the development
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you know, from a skill standpoint, because they already have
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a good foundation of what our program is, who we
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expect them to be, you know, when they're out on
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the field, or what we're expecting that to look like. Uh.
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of practice, and so.
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that we've started is is our Titans Love Titans program.
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program where you know, our youth kids have the opportunity
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to you know, register and be a part of it.
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we're not making money off of them. We're going to
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give them a T shirt with their mentors name on
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the back that they can wear to the games. On Friday,
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we're going to have socials with our guys or their
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mentors and then after practice where there's ice cream involved,
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or we bring in a food truck or we get pizza.
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It's just an opportunity.
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varsity players to connect with the younger kids. And because
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the younger kids want to be like them. So the
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more that I can get them around our kids who
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we're pouring into every day, the more likely we're going
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to be able to get them to believe in what
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their coaches are preaching every day in practice because they're
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going to see it firsthand in our kids.
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Before you go, let me interrupt real quick. So what
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listen again Titans Love Titans or whatever team you got,
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because you can do a variation of that. I think
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everybody could do a variation of that meaning whether they
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can do the shirts or pay or not or pay more,
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I don't know, but you know what I found in
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those And I want to ask you this real quick.
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From we go to the next thing, did you find
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that your kids benefited? I mean, your high school kids
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may be benefited almost as because they don't realize that
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people look up to them and this kind of forces
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them to see that. Did you see that?
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Oh, one hundred percent? They love it.
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bet our kids, our varsity players are having more fun
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than the seven and eight year old that are running
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around because the social is after practice, so our kids
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are hungry, so they get to eat immediately after practice.
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it turns into a free for all on the field
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for about thirty to forty five minutes playing pick up
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football or two hand touch or you know, there's playing catch.
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when you've got a twelfth grader, a senior that is
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running around on the field with a seven year old
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and that relationship is so pure and that's what makes
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it fun. And then our kids learn that there are
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a lot of little eyes on them and it, you know,
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it holds them more accountable because they understand that this
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kid is watching and he wants to be just like me.
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as well. So we don't let none of our freshmen
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are in that program. It's all tenth to eleventh and
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twelfth graders. But our tenth graders are going to be
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paired with a seventh grader.
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tenth grader is a senior, and they already have a
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relationship with somebody that is older in that program, in
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our program, so there's already a bond in a relationship
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that is formed just because we paired them up two
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That's really good. That's really good. Yeah, I can't take it.
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I never did anything that was real. That's really good,
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you know, keeping them because that is you know, you
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lose the most kids from eight to ninth grade, and
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then sometimes ninth to tenth that's when you lose the
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most kids. I did track that, and I did make
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always a big deal about retaining the fourth graders, the
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fifth grade and so on and so forth. But we
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always lost the most kids from eight to night grader
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or ninth to tenth. Some of it's natural, but I
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think things like that can be what you can control
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to at least help that a little. Make sure they
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come up there knowing some of the older kids. Man,
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that's really good. What how did you pick the eleventh
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seventh to tenth.
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younger guys. And because usually you're eleventh and twelfth graders
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are on the field the most, and so those younger kids,
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they're really trying to emulate those older kids that are
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out there on Friday night and when you do, you know,
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your TLT night at the game and they're standing in
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the hallway when our guys are coming out of the
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locker room and they're kind of meeting up like that
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that you know, the video that we have that we
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put together after that game is so incredible to watch
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because those kids think that they are a part of
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that game for that one night, because they're walking out
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with our best player and they're all intermingled when they
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come out of that tunnel together, and it's just the
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idea of if I can get juice and create energy
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in that young group, I'm hoping that will carry over
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a year after year after year to once we get
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to the seventh grade, sixth and seventh grade. You know,
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we've got them so entrenched in our program because of
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just before we get off of that. I just my
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experience with mentoring, especially young kids. You can talk in
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the field house about how these you know, these eleventh
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and you've had the guys going to UGA. You've had
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like really big players that everybody looked up to, and
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you tell them, look, guys, these little people look up
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to you. Don't act like fools. Whatever you got to
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tell them. And I never felt like it was impactful
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until they saw the little kids. How they like that
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they got treated like Tom Brady. So we take them
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elementary school and let them read the elementar school kids
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or open the car doors or whatever. That was better
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for us than it was for those little guys. Like
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obviously we're doing it for the kids, but I'm pretty
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sure it helped my team block and tackle better because
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I got to focus them a little better. And I
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just think that's a missing opportunity if you're not doing
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something like that. Just some variation of putting these older
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kids with these younger kids.
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Right, Yes, And so a couple other things that go
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every year, so three different fridays there because our elementary
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starts thirty minutes before our high school starts, so we're
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there opening car doors and then do a pep rally
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with the whole elementary schools in the gym, and it
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is incredible, but it's another contact. So those our kids
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are going to the school where their mentees are at,
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and it's just another opportunity to create another contact and
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another opportunity to get them face to face or around
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each other, just to build that relationship even more.
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on our bye weeks, they're going to the elementary school
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where their mentees are at, and we're trying to get
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them in the classroom with them. It doesn't always work
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that easy, but we have been close to it to
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where that they're at least going to be able to
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see their mentee in that hour long, you know period
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that they're over there to read on those days. But
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it's it's all about how many contacts can you make
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to help build a relationship between you know, one on
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one mentor to mentee or some of these mentors may
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have three kids.
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But you have to be very, very.
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Organized when you set it all up so that the
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kids have the opportunity to see one another as much
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as possible.
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Yeah, I can see organization being a problem here, like
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it always is, and so that's the elephant in the
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room if anybody's writing this stuff down and loving the idea.
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But it's not going to be easy. But nothing worth
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doing really is, so you are going to have to
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get organized with it. But I love the elementary pep rally.
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Now I didn't do it. We did some reading and stuff,
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but I bet an elementary pep rally is better than
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the high school. High school pep palace kind of suck,
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to be honest. So I never loved the high school
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pep rally, So maybe elementary years, Yeah, they may actually
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be into it, you know, the high school man maybe
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North Olk, maybe even fourteen to Oh, you get a
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good pep rally. But when you're just okay, you don't
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get a great pep rally. I'm just telling you.
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Kids are a lot interested in other things then, Yeah,
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going into a gym and yelling and screaming at the
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top of their long those elementary school kids they eat
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it up.
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Yeah, they're into it, so that's cool. What else?
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So I think part of this is kind of understanding
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our journey.
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Like when I got here, we had seventy seventy eight
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kids in our youth program. We're over two hundred and
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twenty now and every age group, almost every age group
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has two teams, which when we started we were missing
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age groups, like they didn't have a team. So what
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they were doing is they were having to combine with
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ocone County's youth team to make one team. And we
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click quickly were able to grow that number and get
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that to where, you know, we had enough kids to
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create North o'kkoney Feeder League teams at every level.
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But that just took us getting.
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In elementary schools and being visible and getting them excited
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about playing and giving them the attention that they deserve.
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I really feel like it's my job. If we got
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a kid that's going to put a T on that helmet,
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then they deserve as much attention as anybody in our
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program because at some point they're going to be playing
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in our program, and you want to have that relationship
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and you want them to understand that they're important to
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what you do, even if they are seven or eight
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years old.
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We've put more.
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This year was the most teams we had make it
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to a Super Bowl. We had three teams making now
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they all didn't win. We had one team that won it,
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but every team made the playoffs.
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But it all goes back.
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To visibility and getting those coaches to buy into this
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is how we want you to practice, and not necessarily
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so much the scheme because it all is dictated on
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around what type of players they have, But this is
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this is the type of kid that we're trying to create,
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and this is what we wanted to look like when
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they're out on the field.
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Yeah, and you know, coaches, your tenth here for people
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that maybe aren't is familiar with you, it's your tenth
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year at North o'kkony. So you're talking about kids that
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were in the first grade going to second when you
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took that job. You know that are seniors now and
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kids in the high school you know, weren't even in
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school they were, you know. So that doesn't mean that
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things don't change. Kids quit, kids move in, kids move out.
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I'm not saying it's the exact same thing, but the emphasis.
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It's always been interested to me how many coaches don't
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see the value in the younger kids, especially fourth, fifth,
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sixth grade, maybe that range. Really quickly, those sixth graders
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are tenth graders really quickly. Yeah, really quickly. That sixth
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grader that you paid no attention to is a tenth
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grader that you at least need to be a backup
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or something. And they're always thinking maybe a seniors, and
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they're thinking about second graders and they're thinking, man, I'm
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not gonna be here ten years. I don't know about that,
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but it does get to ten years pretty quick and
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real quick. Those middle school kids and those older elementary
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kids will be on your team. It'll happen really fast.
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What do you do with like middle grade specific or
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maybe even ninth graders, Like what do you do to
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motivate that middle group where they're not they're not kids anymore.
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They're not just motivated by you know, pep rallys and jerseys.
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How do you get those guys to maintain through those
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awkward kind of years.
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Yeah, that's probably the toughest part was seventh through tenth grade.
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It's what you said earlier, that's that's where you really
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have to have your eye on them because there's so
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many other things that they can be involved.
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In and football is not easy.
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I mean, it's probably one of the toughest things that
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they're going to be asked to do.
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And so, you know, how do you engage that group.
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Well, it's almost it's not year round, but we are
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trying to be around them year round in some capacity. So,
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you know, we got groups that are coming to high
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school two days a week after school to do some
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type of training with our strength coach. I'm in there,
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and then we'll have a couple of our city coaches
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that come one day a week, you know, And so
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how much can we get around them to make them
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understand how important and valued they are for what they're doing.
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And it's the relationship piece.
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We have found that that has probably helped retention more
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than anything is when the kids know and understand that
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you're there for them, they're more likely to come back
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year after year after year.
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I think when we first.
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Got here, we did not have the numbers to have
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a ninth grade only program. We had a jv and
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a varsity, So you're asking ninth graders to come in
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and of course they're playing behind tenth graders, so they're
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not getting a lot of reps. So those early years
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were tough with retention. They just didn't see the value.
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I'm not coming out here every day that you know,
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sit on the sidelines and play behind this kid, because
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then when they start thinking is well, if I'm playing
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behind them as a ninth grader, then I'm probably not
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going to play next year because I mean playing behind
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them as a tenth grader, and then i mean playing
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behind them as a junior. So why am I going
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to put forth all this time and energy into it,
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you know, just to be a backup for three years
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and then finally have a chance, Like there is no
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more like slow developing process where you take it and
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they don't play for three years and then they play
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their senior year.
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You don't see that very often because they don't make
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it that long. So adding our.
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Ninth grade program and I think that was like after
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year four where now they play their own schedule, and
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that has been huge in retention for us, where we're
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bringing in forty to forty five kids in that group
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every year. Now, we're not going to maintain and keep
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that many, but if we can hold it between thirty
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and thirty five, I feel like we've done a pretty
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good job. So our last three senior classes, well I
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should say the last two have been thirty one and
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this one will be thirty three, and then we're going
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to take a dip because we lost a lot of
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kids to other sports, but then we're going to be
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we should be thirty plus for several years to come.
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I'm hoping.
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Yeah. You know, having that ninth grade team's critical if
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you can do it, and I know the lower the level,
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the harder it is to do. But they had a
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ninth grade team at Pickings for seven years and it
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was the exact seven years I was the coach, Like
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I felt like it was really critical. I don't mean
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that critical, Dean Bail, So I'm just saying I thought
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it was really important that we just made it happen.
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I think the first year we made like twenty three
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kids or something. You know, he's made it work. And
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then the next year kids came out and kids came out.
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It's very important to give kids opportunity to play. But
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everything about in my opinion, coach, for what it's worth,
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everything about that seventh eight nineteenth grade range is like
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everything about relationships, communication, and being organized. It's just maybe
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a little more about relationships, like you said, than some
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of the other things. And being organized and seeing the future.
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This is what I advice i'd give anybody. And it's
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very important in those years that you're seeing the future.
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And what I mean by that is you see when
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a kid's getting frustrated. You notice when a kid's not
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getting to play as much, but you see something in them,
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go tell them, like, go tell them, hey man, right now.
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And I can think of so many good kids, and
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I know y'all have some that were like basketball type receiver,
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like guys that there is not that fun in seventh
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grade when you can't throw the ball and you can't
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pass pro So you have to go tell them, hey man,
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it's not that in seventh grade when you can't throther
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we know that, like I already know that, But man,
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you're gonna be out here, like in a couple of years,
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winning us the Reading Championship, catching the ball in the
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end zone, like I can see it, like I see
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the future, like I know you're gonna do it. An
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hang on to that, not every single time, but it
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Kett'll hang on to that if you can identify it
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before they get too disgruntled, if that makes sense, and
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you can kind of see that, show them how much
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value you see in them. So I couldn't agree more
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with everything you said, but especially like getting in the
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weight room, getting to know those kids so you can
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walk by them at practice one day and say, hey, man,
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I know you're not believing this, but hang in there.
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This is gonna You're gonna be good. And that's just
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a skill some people are better at than others. But
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I do think you can work on that by just
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opening your eyes and not being so singularly focused on
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the varsity team or on the game we have tomorrow
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or whatever it is right right now.
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And then I think another thing is just knowing a
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kid's name, you know, regardless of the age group, you know,
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is if you can go out there and you can
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memorize names and then you walk by them, whether it
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be in publics or you know, just out and about
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and you can say hey and say their name. Like
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that carries so much weight. But it's so simple, and
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I think that gets overlooked. It's just because it just
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creates more value. And man, this guy really cares because
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he knows who I am. And I'm not going to
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be up there for another two or three years, but
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he already knows who I am. That carry I think
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that carries a lot of weight.
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But they need to see the vision.
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They one hundred percent need to see a vision from
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an individual standpoint and from a group standpoint. And we
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we try to hammer that all the time. It is,
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you know, you're you're going to have success in numbers.
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So if you can find a way to keep the
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groups together, then you're going to have a better opportunity
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to be successful when you get older. And I try
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to pour that into the parents, like to just to
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go to their banquets or their awards ceremonies and and
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and just talk for three or four minutes about how
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important this that group is to the overall vision of
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our program and you know, just reiterating like they're going
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to be good because there's a lot of them, and
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whether there's more players, you're going to have a better
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opportunity to be successful.
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And so just.
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Continue to hammer that home like there's gonna be hard days,
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Like your kid's gonna come home and he's gonna hate it.
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And whether that's a seven year old or a senior,
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but it's just that constant messaging like hey.
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You're going to get through this.
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And I think that's another thing that's overlooked a lot
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is give into you know, like I don't want to
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do something hard, and just trying to get their parents
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to understand like, hey, you can push a little bit,
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you you can you can demand hey like look this
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is tough, but you're going to get through it and
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demand that positive response to adversity.
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It's never going to be easier, it's only going to
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get harder. I'm telling you coach to do that. That
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the way that nature of college football, which we ain't
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here talk about today, but you know, all that trickles
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down eventually to us. Right, So the attitude of if
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you're not getting to play immediately or if you're not
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seeing immediate success, there has to be another place or
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another way, or you quit or whatever. That's gotten a
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little bit worse every year, probably for the last forty years,
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but it's definitely at the height and it's not going
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to get any better. So my argument to people is
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instead of whining about that, like, go be the one people,
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Go be the one place that's good at that. Go
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be the one place that's identifying the issues and seeing
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the future and keeping their kids. And because if you can,
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and I'm not saying that's easy, but I'm saying, if
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you can, you have a better advantage than the guy
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that was good that twenty years ago because there were
531
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just more teams that there's more people that didn't have
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to work that hard at it to be good. So
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if you can be good at keeping your players, you
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can be an elite program quicker I guess than maybe
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some of the other ones. And I you know, I
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don't even know how you do that. I'm just saying,
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if you can just identify, you know, things and traits.
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And I'm talking I'm not talking about a five star
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guy you had went to Georgia coach. I'm talking about
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a linebacker that's not going to play till he's a junior,
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and even then he's having to earn it and he
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just quits in ninth grade. Right, You know, the person
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that can keep those kids out is going to be
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a more successful coach than they could have been even
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ten years ago, because way more people could have kept
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that kid out ten years ago. Now you've got to
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be elite at talking that kid into staying. Right, Is
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that what you're seeing?
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Oh?
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Yeah, you see that every day. And I think every
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place is different. Everybody's going to have different issues.
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And it's identifying the issues that you have in your
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community or at your school or in your programs and
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trying to figure out ways to fight against those And
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you know, because usually that issue is going to start somewhere,
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and it usually starts pretty early, and they see it
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from an early age and and it just continues.
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To grow and grow and grow.
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So that's part of the youth development, is trying to
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get out in front of those issues and get them
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to think differently than what everybody wants them to think.
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Because there's so much influence.
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And we got one hundred and twenty kids in our
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program and then two hundred and twenty kids in our
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feeder system, and so you're talking about a whole other
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group of people that you know it's too hard for
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them the place, so they're trying to put this negative
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thought process into their heads of hey, man, come over
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and do this, it's way easier. And so you're trying
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to fight these things so early, and that's where you've
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got to get really created with how you practice so
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the kids stay engaged and they think it's fun.
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It's almost like.
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Tricking them where you're getting work done, but you're you're
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figuring out a way to do it where it's competitive
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because that's what they like to do. They all like
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to compete and letting them have fun with it, and
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you know, you just you try and grow that part
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of the program as much as possible when they're younger,
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so that they they understand, hey, this is fun. And
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I am rewarded and I am a better person because
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I went through what everybody else didn't want to go through.
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I don't talk about both sides of the mouth here,
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but I get you out on this one that all
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that is really important. And I really enjoyed everything you brought.
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I hope people took some notes and got something out
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of Still the number one thing to be good at
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his winning. You got to win at the varsity level.
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But but it's like this, man, if you're trying to
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make money for yourself, you should be trying to make
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money to pay your mortgage and car payment whatever. But
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you gotta have some investments, right, You got to put
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some money away for retirement, or you gotta, Like I
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think coaches are notoriously not great at like really putting
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their energy on today and tomorrow, if that makes sense,
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like that, a lot of them are really good at
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putting their energy today or maybe some of them are
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better at putting their ergy in tomorrow or the you know,
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the youth, but not but it's taken away from trying
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to win the game on Friday night. It can't take away,
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but it has to be there. You have to keep
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one eye on those young guys, noticing those kids that
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are not getting to play on the ninth grade team
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or whatever it is, and that can't take away from
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Friday night. Well, coach, you hadn't lost a regular season
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game in like five years, So that's pretty good man,
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You know that, right, that's not normal, you know that right.
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Unfortunate, that is not normal players, but it's got it
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starts somewhere, like I mean, And that's I think that's
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a credit to what I said at the beginning. We've
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had a great administration that's been extremely patient, and I
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don't think there's a lot of administrations that want to
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be super patient and they don't see the vision and
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they just live in the moment too often. And then
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and then you see changes being made before you know,
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the positives really start to come or the success really starts,
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you know, to develop. And I'm just appreciative of you
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know who I started with and you know who I'm
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with now, and just the patients of hey, we're going
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to give you some time to get this thing going.
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And we've reaped the benefits of their patients and their
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support over the last nine or ten years.
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Yeah. And so you know, Coach Finley, who's not rock
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Mark with the bounds, one of my favorite guys talked
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to any of you, because you get this job your
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first year, you're one to nine and you've barely lost
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very many games since. But people are giving up on
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folks at that time. So that one in nine, Tyler,
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that's going into the second season, like, what is he telling?
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What are you telling that guy now? I meaning there's
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some guys out there that struggled last year, right, they
632
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struggled and they're hoping this year is the year that
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they turn it around and they're going to have this
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nine or ten year run like you've had. What are
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you telling that guy now.
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That you've been The first thing, you got to be patient,
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But you've got to believe in what you're doing because
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a lot of times it doesn't take a bunch of
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huge changes to get to where you want to be.
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You just have to trust in what you're doing and
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what you believe in and that those things are going
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to start to fall into place.
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Say, it requires a lot of hard work, and you're
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going to do.
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A lot of things behind the scenes that people aren't
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going to see and they're not going to recognize, right
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because all they're seeing is the product on the field.
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But if you have a strong belief system that what
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you are doing or the process that you have in
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place is going to be the right one, and you
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work really hard with it, you're going to see success
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at some point.
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But I'm not gonna lie.
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You're going to have to have some dudes come through
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and you know that are going to give you a
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chance to win. And that second year we had a
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very strong senior class, which gave us an opportunity to
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flip that thing around.
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I don't know how many of.
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Those kids, I can't remember how many of those kids
661
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went on to play college football, but they were very
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close knit and it mattered to them and they.
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Wanted to be different.
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And I think that's a credit to our coaches of
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instilling the right values in them and not giving up.
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You just keep pouring into them with the things that
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you believe in, and you start to see rewards.
668
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And then you've got to learn momentum and if you can.
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Build off that those small wins, you're going to create
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a lot bigger wins down the road.
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Man. That was really good coach and so true. And yeah,
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you got to have players. Now we ain't gonna have
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on that, but let me tell you something, people got players.
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The key is on capitalizing on the player. Like you said,
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building momentum when you do have a good run of
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kids and in ben able to capitalize on that moving forward.
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And I don't know that anybody's done a better job
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than you guys have the whole staff, I mean all
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of you. You guys done an awesome job and always
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fun to talk to you. Well.
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I appreciate it, and it's always great to talk to
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you again.
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Always appreciate what you do.
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Listen to these podcasts, I mean almost weekly, trying to
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pick up some type of nugget that can help change
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something in our program.
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So I appreciate your time and your energy that you
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put in and these.
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Yeah, thanks coach, and I guarantee you some people picked
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up something today. You're gona see some elementary pep rallies
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and some mentor programs starting through out in the state here.
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I appreciate it. I'm doing whatever I can. If anybody
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ever needs the talk out, I'll be having a talk
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with them.
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Thanks coach. I appreciate you. Ma'am.
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Thanks so much for rich.
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Thank he