Intentional Creation (Part 2)

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in reality transurfing there's quite a lot of interesting
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details connected to intention setting that go
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it goes beyond the idea of visualizing that result
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that you want to reach or magnetizing the frame
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from the alternatives space so I wanted to say
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a bit more about intention and those specifics
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because I think it's doing more justice to that
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framework and maybe also, yeah, it's more helpful
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to have those details with you if you try to,
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if you go forward with considering how to use
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this framework. And one fascinating detail in
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Reality Transurfing was the concept of outer
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and inner intention. And here it is creating
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quite a contrast to the way intention is generally
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used or seen as something that you have it with
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you. You see the result you want. You connect
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to your desires and what you want to manifest.
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And that's seen as just one aspect of this pair.
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In Reality Transurfing that's called inner intention
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like your inner your intention that you're focused
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on and the outer intention has like it can be
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quite a tricky concept to connect to because
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it's so I haven't heard it anywhere else in the
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same way and it's basically about the way I understood
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it it's about getting out of the way so that
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the universe can meet you halfway so that things
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can show up in your life that there's space for
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things to show up in a way that there's the resonance
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with your inner and the outer intention so what
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does that mean getting out of the way isn't it
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enough to just visualize and have my intention
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and go after it and then things will manifest
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and yeah That would be lovely that our conscious
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mind could just do all of that and we could just
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decide consciously but then there is something
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that Is quite generally described in many areas
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of psychology many frameworks this division of
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conscious subconscious unconscious or just like
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different facets or different functions different
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areas of the mind, or if you go into connecting
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them to different areas in the brain, like the
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amygdala compared to the cortical areas. But
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I won't go into those. For that, there are many,
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many, many better resources. But here, if we
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stay with the Reality Transurfing concept of
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inner and outer intention, then there's also
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the whole thing of Yeah, how do things get manifested?
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How do my intentions get rendered or created
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into the reality I see? And there the subconscious
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or even unconscious plays a crucial role because
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in Reality Transurfing it's described as there
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needs to be coherence between mind and heart.
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but mind being that rational, strategic, the
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planning side of your mind. I would say the kind
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of conscious mind and the heart being just that
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intuitive or the kind of flowing, playful, hopeful
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sense of what the heart deeply wishes for and
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wants and it doesn't see any limitations it's
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connected to the emotions it's feeling in the
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present moment it doesn't plan it doesn't conceptualize
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what's past what's future it's just in this moment
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kind of vibing with whatever comes up and that's
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why I view it as kind of like that unconscious
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mind the inner mind or the That maybe more primal
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part of the mind in some ways But also maybe
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deaf concepts shouldn't be confused because the
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way it's described in Reality Transurfing with
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the mind and the heart the heart feels like that's
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a much more broad broad concept for maybe that
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true self your kind of soul's deeper I don't
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know being is kind of how I've connected to it.
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So it's not exactly the same as the conscious
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mind and the subconscious mind. I just kind of
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compare them together because what I then learned
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from rapid resolution therapy, the subconscious
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or even unconscious levels, the inner mind has
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that way of being where it is connecting to whatever
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events what happens. in that very in the present
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moment thinking everything that comes up in the
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thoughts is something that's happening now it's
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like a threat now and it's gonna activate some
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emotions or some some behaviors to protect you
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and and and so on so I I felt there is some connection
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between these two and the whole idea of coherence
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between the mind and the heart also feels to
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me a bit similar as when we with our conscious
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mind seek to also have some awareness about what's
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going on in the subconscious and how that subconscious
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and this is more from a Zhangian perspective
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that Zhang has stated that when the subconscious
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is unconscious, then it will basically rule your
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life and that's what we call fate. But when you
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bring the understanding, when you bring the information
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from the subconscious more into the conscious
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realm, you have awareness, you have an overview
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and you can work with that. And that's a bit,
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it's a different perspective than in rapid resolution
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therapy where necessarily the participant doesn't
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need to be aware or do a whole lot of introspection
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or go there. That's the job of the RRT specialist
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to help them, to guide them, to go into those
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events from before or to get up. get those subconscious
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functioning more into the light and kind of then
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work with that and shift it in the moment through
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multilevel communication through speaking directly
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to that unconscious part and necessarily the
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conscious mind the conscious mind will be aware
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of it when we are working with it and going into
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those stories and like but it's a bit of a different
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approach still I feel where other approaches
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focused more on introspection and developing
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awareness that's like that's the end goal is
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just having that awareness while in RRT the end
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goal is actually just like shifting how that
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data is processed by the mind so that it functions
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in a more useful way and reality trans surfing
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in a similar manner is a very pragmatic framework
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they're very different but I can't help but see
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the connections they both kind of have that approach
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of like kind of a cool -headed pragmatic approach
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like okay we have to like what do we need to
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know so that we can shift things so that they
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would function more smoothly and in a way that
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the person can actually kind of take more control
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of their own fate and shift those dysfunctional
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mental loops So in reality trans surfing that
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concept then with mind and heart working together
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and when mind and heart are working together
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those things will just be manifested or that
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intention will be realized Because there's nothing
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there's no friction. There's nothing in the way
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your whole being is on board and that's when
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the heart wishes for something but the conscious
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the mind is unsure or is fearful or thinks that
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oh that would not be possible that can't that
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couldn't happen then there is that kind of friction
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and things can't float smoothly or flow on in
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the way that you would wish and in that case
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I do believe there is a value in some type of
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some process of developing that awareness or
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even shifting those dysfunctional loops that
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are in the way or really working with the mind
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in that way and that was my own experience with
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Reality Transurfing with just I started to recognize
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certain stories that would come up and just like
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some things could not kind of flow smoothly there
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was like a wall that came up in the way and other
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areas of my life is like yeah obvious it just
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works and develops of its own own accord in a
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way and Then the question is How? How do we do
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this? Now I'm rambling all over the place with
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these different perspectives and I don't maybe
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even myself completely know how to connect all
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those unconscious, subconscious, mind, heart.
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What is it? What is it all? Like how do we get
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the clarity about all these terms and how to
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actually... use them. What are the action steps?
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And this is a big challenge for me. I really
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enjoy rambling and seeing these different ideas,
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these frameworks and kind of comparing and in
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the end I still want to, my intention is that
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I could provide something that is also of a useful
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nature, a practical value immediately. So now
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I have to I want to really try and gather those
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strands into something. Get my own mind and heart
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into that place of coherence where I can share
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some steps. And of course there are a lot of
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different pathways that could lead to a similar
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place. whatever calls to you whatever you kind
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of feel light up or excited about what pulls
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your energy towards it that's what's probably
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gonna be helpful for you and right for you and
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in my case there was something with Reality Transurfing
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that was just so out there and just created that
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space of oh I have a It's, I have a right to
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just appreciate my life for that beautiful, the
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uniqueness just and trying to connect back to
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what is, what way could my energy flow out into
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the world in a way that brings me pleasure while
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also having a positive impact on the world or
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others. And that's also something in Reality
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Transurfing that is in there, it's at first glance
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it can appear like a framework for a kind of
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very individual self -centred, like what do I
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want, I'm gonna impose my will, but that's the
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thing with outer inner intention. With inner
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intention you can see it as imposing your will
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or what do I want? But when you add a piece of
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outer intention to it the outer intention is
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That kind of perspective that's just that's beyond
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you it's it's more about How that energy your
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energy can flow out into a world in a way where
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It's bringing something that's beyond you something
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of value to others and actually Things will go
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more smoothly if it's a win -win situation That
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creates less friction if you don't have to fight
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others for getting your way that's gonna actually
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be a easier path and It's the funny thing with
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in reality transferring that all of this is presented
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in a kind of matter -of -fact tone that it's
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it's kind of neutral it's not so much about if
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you're a good person or bad person it's just
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described as a mechanic of the of reality and
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then To even have a possibility of that outer
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intention of like the universe meeting you halfway
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then it is helpful to understand what's going
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on in your own like in the background of your
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mind in the subconscious or in those things that
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just somehow show up in your reality like you
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always meet a certain type of a co -worker or
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boss that seems to really annoy you and get on
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your nerves and you don't know why does this
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always happen to me if there's something that
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can be helpful is if you notice something happening
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where you're getting that thought why does this
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always happen to me that could be pointing at
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the pattern that just wants to express outward
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in your life because you are holding some kind
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of a belief that That's how life is That's how
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the world is. That's why it gets it's showing
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itself in that way Like hey, this is who I am.
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This is who I am if you remember what I Had that
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character of the reality earlier like the clown
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jumping around Then it's gonna take that form
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so that you get to face that belief in the external.
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So in that case, first step is to observe like,
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ah, this showed up again, I'm gonna have a, can
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write it up and take note, like tweeting your
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own life or reality as a fascinating kind of
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research subject. It is, that's the main... experience
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you have to pull from and it can be quite fascinating
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to see it that way. Like a game of ah, aha, where
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did that come from? Oh, I had that thought. Hmm,
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I have that belief and that gets shown in my
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reality. And sometimes it can be tricky to do
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it on your own. That's why we have these different
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processes or methods or... kind of guidance available
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from other people like RRT or shadow work or
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yeah even like in Jungian analysis like you would
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go and uncover what's going on there of course
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my focus is more on RRT because it's so clearly
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focused on the shifting and it can happen faster
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than in just in a longer processing But maybe
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sometimes people need a longer processing time.
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For me, I have gone through processes in more
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like talk therapy and while I've been a bit critical
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about it too, if I look back, I'm happy. I feel
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content over having experienced all of those
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different approaches. And for me, I think it
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was also... part of my process. It was helpful.
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I wanted to go deeper into have a bit of that
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introspection or see what would this therapist
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kind of bring up and how does it function. And
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it did enable me to acknowledge certain emotions
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and patterns or things in childhood. But then
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in the end I felt there was like a wall that
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there wasn't anywhere else to go with that type
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of a method for me and then RRT entered the scene.
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Well before that I had shadow work session that
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was a step towards in addition to just talking
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about my childhood or the past or these emotions
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that can come up that you notice something that's
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triggering. That showed me a way of like oh I
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can express it and it does release something
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and there is some kind of shift that's possible
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more than just talking about those things in
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the expressing so it was like that was for me
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the next step in that process and then I also
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felt a bit like while I am focused on maybe going
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and screaming out my anger or all of these these
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things that also meant a little bit of a wall
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for me where I thought maybe there's some other
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way that I could try some way we could go like
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deeper underneath that whole pattern of needing
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to express it and shift that that lies there
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at the root and Then RRT appeared in my life
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and I've now attended three sessions where we
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have done exactly that and traveled back into
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certain memories and used storytelling and getting
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the body, taking the body with us on the ride
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of... Being in a certain state and then being
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able to get those get the message that things
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have been shifted you're not in your 14 year
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old self anymore and now after having experienced
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that I'm I notice okay, that was for me the next
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step where I So I got a chance to talk about
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and process things Then I learned to express
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it. I cut it out. I started to release some of
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that energy and the next step was okay Enough
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of that just just screaming or expressing Could
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I get even deeper in underneath and not need
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to go and scream all the time? Not all the time,
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but you know, maybe sometimes still is good to
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get just a quick release of energy in a healthier
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way than against other people so screaming into
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a pillow great but then it was possible to kind
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of take that edge off still it's good to experience
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our emotions i think that's a part of normal
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that's a part of human life in in my at least
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my life but not having the mind go into that
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kind of threatened state where it's kind of an
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irrational type of anger, where a little child
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is not actually a threat and that's not the person
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I want to attack or scream at. And in that case,
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it was a relief. yeah it's possible to create
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that space between because my mind is now on
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board and realizing like yeah oh yeah this is
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not a threat actually I don't need to be angry
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here and that kind of a process then for me so
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far has been landing into a place where I can
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feel that sense of just a centered, a sense of
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being centered in a different way than before
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where those emotions would have taken me with
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them on a ride and they still do to some extent
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but not to the depths that they did before And
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that's something that I think is getting the
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mind and the heart on the same page. First you
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have to know what your heart holds. And it's
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good to, it's helpful to also be aware of what
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typical loops or patterns the mind works in.
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And then when both of those are bit more available
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to you then there are things that can be done
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like to get them on the same page and maybe sometimes
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it's helpful to have a guide someone with you
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on the journey and in these methods, these processes
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that I have experienced, I would add to that
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also the process that's presented in the gene
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keys. It's like a bit of an opposite approach
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to RRT in a way that the gene keys is very much
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about learning to observe these shadow behaviors,
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showing up in your everyday life and embracing
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embracing them or at the first even just acknowledging
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them and then allowing them to exist because
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it can be hard to embrace a pattern you don't
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like in yourself and the first step is just allowing
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allowing it to present itself and as it does
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present itself you learn you learn something
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from that And it's also connected to the awareness
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of how things have developed in the childhood.
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But there isn't any process of immediately going
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and shifting things. It's more of a slower unfolding
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or maybe it can happen quicker. But that is...
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That has also been a valuable process for me
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with kind of... That's been going on while I've
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been also experimenting with this other... approaches
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that has been kind of in there in the background
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of it and that did help to give me the approaches
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of That took the edge off that reduced the importance
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of those shadows of the anger or whatever way
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it reacted it came like in reactions Reducing
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importance another useful concept from reality
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trans surfing where if you're attached to something,
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we're like, oh, have to have this, or it has
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to be this way. I have to be able to show up
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as my best self. There's a lot of importance
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there. that you just try to force things to be
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a certain way. And again, if we compare it to
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the inner and outer intention, there's no space
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for anything to come and meet you halfway when
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you're trying to force things to be from just
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your inner, just from your own intention. And
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there, for reducing importance, I think Gene Keys
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was a process that really helped. Because it's
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so much about the gentleness. being gentle with
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yourself to let things show themselves and things
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will shift over time as you have if you have
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this process of a contemplative mind that is
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aware is have some pauses in the day where you
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just have that space to breathe which which can
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be tricky if you're in a kind of Activated state
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for me I noticed I had a few days where I was
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like in a panic and doesn't help to make a pause
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doesn't help to To try to pause and contemplate
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because my mind is not it's not able to contemplate
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in that state So all of these approaches all
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of these tools all these frameworks Everything
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has its own place its own right, the correct
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time and place is what I landed in. And now my
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intention with having that experience, having
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these tools in my tool belt is that I have seen
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examples of where they're helpful and in what
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ways. And I want to, I intend to be someone who
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can help to bring up the right tool for the right
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moment and who has. those tools to draw from
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or those lenses or perspectives. And for someone
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who is in this kind of confused place or activated
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or dysregulated then maybe it's helpful to have
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guidance of someone who's outside of that cloud.
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that cloud of confusion and who can offer one
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pathway or even few different ways that that
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confusion could be kind of cleared and In that
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way I'm seeing Looking back on this season two
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of mystery studies It was my own process of trying
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to express but also trying to understand what?
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What have actually learned from these frameworks?
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How can I? Talk about them. How can I use them
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in a way that could be useful for others? Not
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just me because I'm such a curious experimenter
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that No matter how it would end up or the result
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I always would find some value in it But I wanted
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to also arrive at a place where I can see directly
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What do they do in what way so I could see where
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it could have value in what kind of a situation
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for what kind of a person And I feel like I have
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arrived in that place or started to land more
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in that place and a central central thing that
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stands out in all of this is in reality creation
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if it's a new idea for you to even see imagine
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that my mind my mind influences how my reality
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beyond me appears or shows itself. If that's
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a new idea it's good to start with gathering
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evidence of things showing up and playing with
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it in a kind of light -hearted manner. You could,
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for example, you could say a word or something
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that you're like, hey I would be curious to see
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how a red balloon would show up. Just imagining
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a red balloon, or if you think of it from reality
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trends, conserving, kind of magnetizing the frame
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of experiencing that, and then there will be
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some way that that's gonna show up. Maybe it's
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not even in a picture, maybe it would be in a
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movie, maybe it would be someone saying, speaking
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those words. But those kinds of approaches are
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also in Reality Transurfing, they are encouraged
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because that's a way that you get your mind and
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your heart on board. Reality Transurfing, it
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presents the heart as... the heart knows. The
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heart already knows that... The world is magical
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and that you are magically and it's that that's
00:32:20.200 --> 00:32:23.279
that's not magic. That's out there It's it's
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actually a part of the mechanism the mechanic
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of the the universe Because it's energy and if
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it's all energy, it makes sense. You can It moves
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you can dance with it. You can influence it but
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the mind The mind has learned so many different
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statements about what works and what doesn't
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what's real and what isn't and that's where that
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mind those things have maybe they are deep in
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the mind and there's contradicting beliefs and
00:33:02.640 --> 00:33:04.599
all these things so that can be quite hard then
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to get that heart and that mind on board and
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on the same page but the mind the mind responds
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well to evidence When you see something happening,
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when you're able to see the results of influencing
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things or having imagined something and then
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it shows up, then the mind can't help but take
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note and be like, ah, okay, maybe there is something
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to it. And there it's helpful to have these approaches
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that speak to the rational. strategic conscious
00:33:46.930 --> 00:33:53.269
mind. And that's where I also want to bring in
00:33:53.269 --> 00:33:56.549
human design into this conversation. Because
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that's a system or framework or perspective that
00:34:01.490 --> 00:34:07.829
speaks to the rational mind and trying to describe
00:34:07.829 --> 00:34:12.449
how your energy functions in a way that has kind
00:34:12.449 --> 00:34:16.699
of this... in a way... In a way it can be seen
00:34:16.699 --> 00:34:21.039
as pretty out there, but also it's connecting
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back to neutrinos, to physics, to those realms
00:34:26.079 --> 00:34:33.000
that are seen as more grounded, but they're also
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kind of strange. Yeah, the whole paradox of if
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reality is just... intrinsically inherently strange.
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What is strange? That means that strange is actually
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normal. So strange things to happen is just a
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normal part of the functioning of that strange
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universe. I don't know. if I managed to wrap
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anything up or give any practical steps in this
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additional episode but I'm sure I gave something
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and if you want to have a direct conversation
00:35:36.010 --> 00:35:41.510
with me I'm now actually offering like a free
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call to just want to chat with people directly
00:35:47.550 --> 00:35:51.469
who resonate or or maybe who are confused or
00:35:51.469 --> 00:35:55.289
or if you want to work with me in some capacity
00:35:55.289 --> 00:36:01.789
just have my perspective on your life have a
00:36:01.789 --> 00:36:07.969
interaction then i'd love to meet and uh and
00:36:07.969 --> 00:36:12.539
see what could come from that and It's a new
00:36:12.539 --> 00:36:16.039
thing for me to offer this kind of thing and
00:36:16.039 --> 00:36:23.159
to really take that step to be available to the
00:36:23.159 --> 00:36:28.760
extent that I feel comfortable but I want to
00:36:28.760 --> 00:36:33.239
take an additional step in that direction and
00:36:33.239 --> 00:36:38.380
interact in addition to just yeah rambling and
00:36:38.380 --> 00:36:44.769
which I also enjoy. So a bit of both is good.
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Some ramblings and then some interactions to
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see what influence did my own intentions and
00:36:55.269 --> 00:37:04.929
actions have on the world around me. So I'm looking
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forward to connecting with whoever feels called
00:37:08.710 --> 00:37:18.489
and Wishing you enjoyable Reality creation experimenting
00:37:18.489 --> 00:37:32.590
and playing So let that phone call be our signal
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to end this episode