ABOUT THIS EPISODE
In this episode, I talk about de-escalation techniques and one of the main reasons they fail: the need to win. Whether it's a heated disagreement with a loved one, a neighbor upset about a property line, or a stranger at your gate after a disaster when police aren't coming, the goal is the same: get yourself and your family home safely. I cover how to read what kind of anger you're dealing with, where to stand and how to hold your hands, what to say and what to avoid saying, how to give the other person a way out and take yours, the warning signs that talking has stopped working, and how escalating can hurt you legally. I also talk about why you should be prepared to take physical action at any moment, and what to do after it's over. De-escalation is a preparedness skill that matters on an ordinary day and in a survival situation, whether you're new to prepping or you've been a prepper for years.
