Things We Probably Shouldn’t Admit

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So I saw a reel yesterday and I didn't send it to you first time.
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You didn't.
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First time in like years, right?
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So it's not amongst a hundred you didn't send me?
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Well you never like okay.
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I I open my okay, we're going back to this whole communication style.
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I am hardly on Instagram anymore, even though I do it for a job.
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But I open my private Instagram, but anyway.
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And it's like you, all these notifications from you.
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It's like, don't you know I don't like interact with that?
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Like for four days I don't check it, and then you just go, zoop, and it's all these reels you send me.
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You know what else pisses me off about you is that I send you like us in like 50 years in like Italy drinking wine, and it's like you're with your best friend and you're drinking wine, and then you just send me like if you believe in self, this is what happens.
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Like this whole like really you know, it's just because you you need um that kind of inspirational uh things to be sent to you because you're constantly ringing me for that where you're like down or something's going on.
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So I send you shit to relate to you current things that you're going through and to be confident.
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You show your love.
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It's not love.
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I'm sending you shit to help you out, and then you send me shit that means absolutely nothing to me.
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It's just some old bags fucking do you know what?
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Singing and done and saying, I don't mind it.
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Send me what you like.
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I to be honest with you, what usually happens is I will have a moment where I'm going through Instagram and then I'll catch up on all the like 20 like ones you sent me.
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And it's so lovely.
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It's like you're making it.
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They are nice.
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I quite like funny sh.
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Um, I yeah, no, they're nice.
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I'm just not like that.
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I told you that I'm not a it's so funny because we had this massive discussion about lovey dovey, and I was trying to explain to you that when I gave you that hug that night.
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Are you still?
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No, no, no, but like I was like, that's really rare for me to do that.
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And you were kind of like you were like almost like, oh.
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And so I'm like, I don't think you realise how rare that is.
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And so you like that I have so many layers to me.
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Oh, yeah.
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I'm like a f onion.
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And so I'm like, when when those things happen, and then so now you're like craving that love.
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Send me love, send me love, send me love.
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And I'm like, it doesn't come very often.
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That's why when you have it, you shouldn't look at a gift horse in the mouth.
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Like a what horse in the mouth?
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A gift horse in the mouth.
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Hey, it's Claude and Max.
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Welcome to the Method to Our Madness.
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Two different minds navigating life.
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We talk motherhood, relationships, growth, and everything in between.
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And between us, we have a lot to say.
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Welcome to episode three of Method to Our Madness.
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Welcome back again! I reckon, you know, when you were younger, you used to uh well, I used to get drunk at home uh before pre pre-drinks.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And the best time was when you were with your friends in the bathroom sitting down, just talking.
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Best night out is when you're in the bathroom.
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Yeah, and uh, pre-drinks are always the best, right?
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Pre-drinks are always the best, and then you're like, oh, we're gonna we're gonna go, we're gonna go, and then like you go out and you kinda like sometimes you're chasing.
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Sometimes you get to a good bar.
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I don't it's like I I feel like it's not very often now though, necessarily, that when you do go, like if you had pregame and then you went out, it's not very often that you like hit the flight, the first bar you hit.
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It's just like, yeah, this is the bar we wanted to be.
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I reckon.
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Yeah, well, like I don't I don't think a lot of the mute like well when you get older, it's about comfort, right?
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You're kind of like, is there some seating in here?
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Is there a quiet space?
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Is there like a bit more space on the dance floor?
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Do you know what I mean?
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And I'm I don't like to be like all that mm-mm.
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Yeah, and then I'm like I dance, like I'm not just like a I'm a dancer and I look pretty, I'm not a good expressor, like yeah, very expressive.
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I'm letting my energy out.
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And that's too much for security guards these days.
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Oh yes, well, yeah.
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Yeah, so I and so you're always just like, am I gonna get kicked out?
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Am I gonna get kicked out?
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So it's it's just annoying, but anyway.
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Is that oh and then there's the uneven floor?
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You know, I I hate uneven, like I hate uneven dance floors, um, especially when you're in heels, right?
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I don't think I've ever experienced that.
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I don't think I've ever felt an uneven floor.
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Like, maybe are you too drunk?
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Is that what makes it?
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No, so okay, perfect example, Danny Dylan's.
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Yeah, they've got like a um like stone kind of floor.
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Yeah.
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So you go in there and you've got like I I don't wear kitten heels like some people, but when you go in there and you've got like three inch heels on and the floor is like, imagine like stone, so it's not flat, for a female, you're like, this is a bullshit floor.
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That is why I wear kitten heels.
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No, I don't wear kitten heels out.
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I don't wear kitten heels out.
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Okay, I hope you don't.
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Tell me about your why why don't you wear kitten heels out?
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Why?
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Because it's I think I believe kitten heels for me, for a short person especially, is a workdo.
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I wear kitten heels mostly at work because I'm either on the camera because I'm doing content creation for work, I'm on the camera, I'm kind of running around trying to get people and film people.
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I don't want to wear, I don't want to be a content creator that wears sketches and jeans.
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I that's not my persona.
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I am wearing beautiful dresses, beautiful heels.
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So just wear flats or heels?
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No, because I'm short and I have stumpy legs.
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Okay, so we're gonna discuss, we're gonna go deep into this.
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Okay, I'm going straight into it.
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If you are over the age of 12 or under the age of 60, and under 5 foot 10 and a female, you should not wear kitten heels.
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5 foot 10.
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That's taller than gram, right?
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No.
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Oh.
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Six foot most men are.
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But I'm saying, like, if you're over that, I can understand why you would wear kitten heels.
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Because obviously, when you're already quite tall, you don't you can if you want to, but you don't necessarily want to wear a three-inch heel to make uh you start towering over guys, right?
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It's fine if you want to.
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I'm just saying I can accept that people wear it if they're that tall.
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I can accept a child wearing it, and I can accept an older person wearing it because of their knees and stuff like that.
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They can't wear high shoes anymore.
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I can't accept a normal a normal aged woman, uh, well, whatever, a middle-aged woman wearing kitten handles.
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I just can't.
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I just honestly, they actually repulse me.
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They look like um, it just remains it's like your whole body goes down and then you go, it's like, what is the point of the nipple on your shoe?
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What the f is the point?
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Okay, I'll just you know what?
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Wear a flat shoe.
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They're a pretty flat shoe.
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Oh, wear a wedge.
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Don't wear Don't do that face when you wear kitten eels.
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It's like don't it's like as if they forgot to make the rest of the shoe.
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Like it's like they I don't care if it's like a uh heel like where it's a block, but when it goes like that, and it has a little thing that you'd have on the bottom of a heel, whatever those are called, the little black thing, and it just goes, eh, I'm like, get out.
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Heels are meant to elongate your legs.
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A kitten and heel doesn't do it.
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Okay, I'm going to explain as a kitten heel wearer.
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I'm going to explain this.
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Okay, so I wear kitten heels because I do content creation.
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I just said that before.
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And my whole persona is my brand, and I love being pretty and elegant and but practical, right?
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That's that's my whole thing about my brand, my marketing brand.
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I don't feel like as if they're so much easier to walk in.
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You're still walking in the hill.
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But you're not letting me.
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But you actually dragging it.
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I'm not dragging nothing.
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I feel more elongated.
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My legs don't look so stumpy like a tree trunk.
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You think that that's making a difference?
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Yeah, it's the way I carry myself and the way I posture.
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When I wear flats, I I walk with my feet dragging on the ground, I feel.
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I don't feel so elegant and and and confident and put together.
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I don't know what to tell you.
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I can't stand kit and heels.
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That would be in my top five most hated things.
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I hate kitten heels.
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I just honestly, I just hate kit and heels.
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So do you want me to wear stilettos or who wears wedges these days?
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No, when I'm saying a wedge, I'm not talking about big, huge cork wedges.
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I'm talking about like a shoe that's the kind of heel in the it goes up a little bit, so it gives you a bit of height.
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Oh.
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But it's not like it's not just a little It's fashion, it's what they used to wear in like the 1920s.
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We're not in the great.
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I reckon I was born then, yeah.
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Oof.
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20s.
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I love it.
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You reckon your 20s?
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Yeah.
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I'd go like 70s.
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You like hippies?
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Huh?
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Hippie.
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I can see that.
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Kind of like, yeah, like I feel like 70s.
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To be honest with you, I feel like as if like our time and our parents' time, like our parents' time was actually probably one of the best eras.
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No.
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Because they just they had like just enough like stuff.
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Like they had like obviously they were coming into television, they had just enough money to like do weird things and all that stuff, and it was all nice.
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Now I'm like, it's so like there's so much technology, it's so like no one likes it.
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Well, you're born in the 90s, facial recognition, all that.
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I was born in the 80s.
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So they say the kids in the 90s, so like where my like life is like the last generation to have like the four.
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We knew what dial up, dial-up um internet is.
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We knew kind of that's we never faith in our lives.
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We we didn't, we didn't have phones.
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Our parents like only just started to get we had life before technology, which was so special.
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I also think that younger kids are looking after themselves more than we were when we were their age.
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I guess you could say mentorship that social media does.
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The thing is, is that I kind of think there needs to be a balance because I'm like, yes, it's so good to be like uh, you know, career oriented and focused and actually like look after your health and all that stuff, but you got your whole life to kind of live like still have some fun, still go and do some like um 100%.
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You know, don't don't get too fo like as much as I looked back and I remember, you know, obviously when you get older, you're like, oh, I wish I had started this younger, I wish I had done this, I wish I'd done this.
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There's also people that wish that they hadn't gone so straight laced and that they hadn't stuck between the lines and that they hadn't just settled down and they just hadn't done stuff.
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So I honestly think that people who ever everybody in their life needs to have a let hair let down moments, like for a year, right?
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That go out and just go let's just live our life, right?
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I did that when I was 16 to probably 18, and then I went to Europe and then came back and started studying.
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Yeah, I went out, but it wasn't like crazy because I wanted to study.
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But I had those times.
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Now, someone I know didn't have those times between like when they were teenagers later on at university time when it probably mattered a little bit more, she went crazy.
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Yeah.
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Wasting that because she didn't have that time, and you can see it's balance though.
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Like even at uni, see, like I know people that have gone to uni, and uni's been one of the biggest party places that they've gone to because everyone's at uni, everyone's like on campus or whatever that is.
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So it's it's just balance.
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I just think that it's like if my kids were being a little bit too straight laced, like I'd obviously be like, I want to teach you about money, I want to teach you the importance to not just every single week live week to week, spending the whole like thing on entertainment.
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So I want them to know that, but I also want them to know a good time, and not that everything's around alcohol, but I'll tell you what, some of the best memories you have are actually going out and having a drink and having a good time.
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You don't have to go excessive.
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I always was a person, and I think this is why like I grew I I kind of grew up in Germany as well, because I went there quite often and stayed there for a few months.
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And my grandparents raised me.
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And pretty much if I I went out, I'd go out, stay out, come home, sneak in, and I would be on Sundays, I would be in bed, lying down for hours because I was so sick.
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Because in Germany, they just free pool, it's out of control, and you're allowed to you are allowed to drink when you're 16, only wine and beer.
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But did you not know that?
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No, so when you take it would be like the youngest country in the world then.
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No, in Europe it's quite it's quite normal.
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So when they're 16, you're allowed beer and wine.
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When you're with your parents in the world.
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No, you're allowed to go out.
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So when you're 16, you're allowed to go out till I think 12.
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Can I just say this?
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Wine, not beer.
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Wine, you can get so drunk on one, it's not funny.
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Why would they put beer and wine in that category?
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Germany, because Germany is a drinking culture, but it is not like let's have a beer and get drunk.
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They have beers at lunchtime.
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It might not be full strength, but they have that is it's kind of like a just a water to them.
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It's just normal.
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Yeah.
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So you are raised style of drinking, right?
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They are raised, like my parents raised me like this.
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Is it still like that now?
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Well, this is when I was 16.
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I don't really remember.
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I didn't go out too much when I was.
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Because I wonder if they've now made clubs like strictly 18 or well, there might be over 18 clubs, but you're allowed to still go there.
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And then they get kicked out, so then over the speaker at 12 o'clock or something, they say, like, all right.
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Why don't you just take your wristband off?
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Well, you get two different wrist pants or like a thing on it.
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I don't know.
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They're Germans are very we would have found a way around that.
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But also, Germans are very to the rules as well.
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That's a culture that they're quite to the rules.
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No, we're absolutely not.
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We used to use fake ID.
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Yeah, I used to use fake ID.
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We used it for so long at this club.
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And then when I got you, I finally turned 18 and I was like, yes, turned up with like my actual one.
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And the bouncers were like, that is so funny.
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Uh yeah, you've only been 18 for like what three hours?
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That is so funny.
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But what are they gonna do?
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They can't do it.
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What are you gonna do?
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You know what I mean?
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That is No, my name's not Megan.
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It's actually Claudine.
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Thanks, Megan, for your thanks, Megan, for your ID.
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Thank you so much.
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She was the only brown other brown person in the name.
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Nadine.
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My fake ID was Nadine.
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Isn't it?
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Nadine?
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Yeah.
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Whose was it?
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Uh my sister's friends.
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Oh, okay.
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So I was able to go out with my sister.
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My parents let me have a fake ID if I was with my sister.
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You know what's happening?
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Like, my parents were old school.
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They didn't like, they were like, once we got to 16, so I I left school at 16.
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And they were like, you can if you want to leave school, that's fine, but you have to have a job.
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But like, you're not gonna be just moving around at home.
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I was like, yeah, fine.
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And so I left school at 16, and it kind of once I kind of got to 16, because I obviously my I had an older assistant, older brother, and we our house was always the house that everyone came over and drunk at, and did it that when I was at 16, they were like 17, 18.
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So it wasn't that off-cuff for us to all people to be over and us be drinking and da-da-da-da-da, having a good time.
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So, yeah, they wouldn't ever then thought twice if we were like, oh, we're heading the town because I was working.
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Yeah.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Like, what are they gonna do?
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Like, you're kind of an adult.
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Like, if I was at school, it would have been very different.
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So I didn't actually really we did party at school, but it was like it was on the weekend.
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Like you get to the weekend and you'd be like, oh, so-and-so's having a party or something like that.
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For those like 14-year-olds when you started drinking parties, and everybody like there's West Auckland.
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I'm just gonna say this.
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I mean, West is not the same now as it was.
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West Auckland house parties were the best house parties you could ever go to in Auckland, ever.
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Tell me.
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Ever.
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There was one so big that helicopters out, it like made the papers.
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It was just so humongous.
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We like you'd go to these house parties and you'd just rock on, like, you didn't necessarily even know the people that were having the parties.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Um, one of them was mine.
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Um, and I told my parents that I was having, was it what what year?
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I must have been 17.
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Must have been my 17th birthday.
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And I told my parents that I was having a gathering.
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I'm like Oh my god, a gathering.
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I love those gatherings.
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Because I there's different names.
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Like if you're having drinks, it's kind of like up to 10 people, right?
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We're having some pre-drinks or whatever, it's like 10 people.
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And then there's a gathering.
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And it ended up about 150 people at my house.
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And it but it obviously the party like got out, like, but that's how West kind of worked.
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Like everyone kind of knew they didn't everyone didn't know everyone, but they kind of knew people from that school would know somebody from that school, and that and so if what somebody was having a party, they would know some group over there, and then that group would find out.
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And so I actually didn't know a lot of the people that were necessarily there.
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And did they come home?
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What happened?
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Oh, do you really honestly want to hear the story?
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Okay.
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Of course I want to hear.
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It actually didn't end as well as I it could have.
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What uh surprise, surprise.
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Yeah, it was actually quite shit because it was a bloody good party, like it was so awesome, and everyone's party, everyone's going nuts, and we had like a big, huge driveway that kind of opened up, and then we had the big garage that kind of opened up.
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So you could where everyone was kind of partying there, and then they could go through the house to use the bathroom.
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So we had like quite a big house, like that you'd kind of go down right to the other end to use the bathroom.
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And what had happened is one person had gone through and they went down to my brother's room, and they took his like amp and all his CDs and all his like electrical, like at the time it was probably like an alarm clock, whatever, all that stuff.
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And they've taken it out the window, and then they've obviously gone around our property and taken it, which is really s because otherwise my parents didn't really care.
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It was like no one was doing really anything too out of control, like everyone's just partying, right?
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Music's pumping, everyone's having a good time.
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My parents were kind of like chill about that sort of thing, as like, but but once something got stolen and my dad like came out, it must have been like by this stage anyway, maybe one, whatever it's something in the morning.
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Wait, were they at the part the property?
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Yeah, they were inside, but they didn't care, like they were like, Oh, she's having a party.
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Like they knew that what I was gonna do.
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With 150 people, yeah.
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Well, my dad was kind of waltzing around a little bit to be fair, because there was one stage as well, somebody got like one of my dad's um uh wheelbarrows and he like threw because like our property was like kind of was backed onto this big kind of like forest, and this guy obviously was out the back and he like pushed it down the hill and he turned around.
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My dad's like, You're going down to get that.
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Otherwise, I'm sending you down to match it.
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So the guy's like scurrying down, because my dad's like can be scary, so he's like scurrying down and getting that.
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Um, but they were they were sweet, like they were cool about it.
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They were like, it's her birthday, whatever.
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It's because it was still like I said, it was like no one was doing anything really bad, bad until that happened.
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And then my dad came out and was like, party's over, see a lady sleep down.
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I once had a I had a Suzuki Swift.
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Oh yeah, and I had a few friends, like, I think, I don't know, we were driving around.
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It was, I don't know, Saturday night.
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I wasn't drink driving, but I was just driving my Swift around.
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And because I was one of the first people to really get their my license and had my own car, someone stole my headrest.
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My head is a headrest.
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But yeah, someone freaking stole it.
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What do you mean?
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They stole my headrest.
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How?
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Well, you're in the car.
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We were kind of hanging out in the car, and I think few of them were drinking, and so I took the headrest off so you could sit and like hang out, and then they I must have driven them home or something, and I think they were pissed off because I didn't drive them all the way home, and they stole the headrest, and they didn't return my headrest, and they were like headrests, and it was a brand new Suzuki Swift by that at that time, and it was$550 to get a new headrest.
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And legally, I don't think well, they say, I just we pretended, but legally, you're supposed to have a headrest because if you like go back, it kind of You still it's just your nice case.
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I'm like, but it's so bad.
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Anyway, we I knew who it was, so then my brother-in-law called, and he has a quite a low voice and pretended it was a police, and they're like, We have uh Mrs.
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Maxine, Miss or Miss Maxine Ottawa, and uh yeah, she told me that you stole your her headrest, and I need you to return it.
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So they brought they bought a brand new headrest because they freaked out.
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Why didn't they just give you their one or they must have like chucked in a bush or something?
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What an ass headless.
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I know, like it's so inconvenient a headrest.
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Like it doesn't, you know?
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I've that's such a thing to do.
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A headrest.
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Yeah, so how did you not notice someone taking your headrest though?
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Because they were on the ground.
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So in the morning when I like put them.
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Headrests back on.
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Why would you take headrests off?
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I told you the headrest we we were drink like the people were drinking in my car, right?
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And two like they were behind.
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So I'd take the headrests off, the two two seats in the front and turn around so I could like see people in the behind the oh okay, okay.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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I would never think to take my headrests out.
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Well, it'd be annoying.
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Like when you I know I just would never even think to be like, oh, take the headrest out.
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I just wouldn't even think of that.
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Yeah, well stick with me, little grass.
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Yeah, wow, shit.
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There you go.
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Yeah, well, well.
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So what else has been happening with you, Claudine?
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Oh, shit.
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Well, I I had a bit of back surgery.
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That was fine.
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So dramatic.
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Well, actually, I was not the dramatic one.
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You were.
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Like, maxing some like going into some like life, life, like threatening surgery.
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She's like messaging me, calling me.
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She actually sent me a beautiful bunch of flowers, which is really lovely.
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I'm so careful.
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No, that's uh not say anything for the rest of my friends.
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Um, no, and you were like really worried, and I was like, Babyl's fine.
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Like, she couldn't, for some weird reason, they didn't let you go in like sleeping.
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They didn't let you sleep.
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So I was awake for the surgery.
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They were awake for the surgery.
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Yeah, they so obviously I was awake for the surgery.
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They just put me under local.
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So uh so she was getting like things removed from her body awake.
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That triggers me.
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But they were it was they put you under local, so like they numb it.
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To be honest with you, the most painful part was getting the local.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Because all those injections.
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So anyway, I had that surgery, so that's amazing.
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I've changed my hair another five times.
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I wish.
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Um, I did think that Daniel was like, oh, your twin's getting removed.
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Your twin's getting removed.
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And I was like, Yeah, I'm hoping the scales are gonna go down.
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I got a new dog.
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I actually yes, Max, you did.
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I got a puppy.
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It was either having another baby or a puppy, so I picked a puppy.
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I you didn't pick it.
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Grant picked a puppy.
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You you uh you said, damn, I'm having another baby, or we're getting a puppy, and he went puppy.
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Oh, he's delicious.
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I've never seen Grant move so fast in his life.
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He told me I had to get it to a certain point at my business and it was going slower than it was, so I was like, maybe I'll have a baby.
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And he's like, puppy?
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And I'm like, puppy.
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Yeah, puppy.
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I said to my kids they could have a pet when they went double digits.
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Oh yeah.
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Yeah, what all of them?
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Well, here's the thing, I didn't put it, I made it broad so that I could like go back on it.
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Um, no, I said to Raxon, because Raxon was like, Oh, I want a pet, and I was like, I don't, I'm not ready for that.
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It's funny though, because I actually said, What would you have?
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Because I said you can have whatever you want when you turn 10, you can choose the animal.
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What did he pick?
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He picked a bunny.
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Oh, cute.
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Yeah, cute.
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Yeah.
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So I was like, at least it's not my house.
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It's like it could be in a little hut, like outside, and a little hatch, and then I think that's nice.
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I wanted bunnies when I lived in Queensland, but Queensland doesn't allow bunnies.
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What?
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There's pets.
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But they allow guinea pigs.
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Yeah, they're like, you know, the rabbit brute fence, right?
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Yeah, they're pests and physics.
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Yeah, but what about the big, like the nice bunnies, not the like wild bunnies?
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What about like like normal bunnies?
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No, they don't even have normal bunnies.
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Magicians, magicians are allowed them, so you're allowed a magician license to have a bunny.
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Oh my god, I'll just go get that.
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That's so funny.
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Scientists, you know, are allowed.
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Oh my god, okay.
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Well, but anywhere else in Australia you can.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Apparently, it's something to do with the rabbit coo friends.
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I think actually what happens is we went to Rotor.
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I don't know if anyone's done this before.
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It's so cool.
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It's a mini golf, but it's got like oh rabbits over there.
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It's got rabbits um bouncing around.
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And they've got little huts like little huts.
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Hatches?
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Hatches.
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Hatches, hatches.
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Well, Australians might say hatches.
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Yeah, anyway, they've got little little places that they pop into and stuff like that.
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It was actually so cute and it wasn't expensive.
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And did you guys go?
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Yeah, we went.
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Yeah, we took that.
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That's why I think when he was talking about the pets, it was around that time, and then he was like, Oh, I want a bunny, I want a bunny.
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And I was like, they're actually so, so, so cute.
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I actually bought my sister's kids a bunny for Christmas one time.
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What did she feel about that?
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How did she feel about it?
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She was I well, she didn't say she wasn't happy, but I'm actually assuming now when I think about it now.
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Where's the bunny now?
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Pass away.
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Rest in peace.
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I um we called it Frodo because they had like big ears and big feet.
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Oh, delicious.
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How cute is that?
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Um, and I to be honest with you, when I think about it now, like as an older person, I'm thinking, what was I thinking giving somebody's kids a freaking?
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Yeah, that's so.
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It's like giving a kid like a drum set, you know.
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And it's like giving someone selfish.
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I would just say that it's selfish.
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It's like it's like I don't think it's self.
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I don't think that's right.
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I think it's selfless.
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No, I don't think it's that.
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I think it's more like it's a little bit like I don't maybe this isn't even the right word.
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It's like immature to have thought of that.
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Like I'm like I no, because I'm like thinking now as an adult with with like how many kids did she have then?
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She had it was four, I gave it to her daughters.
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So I imagine that she was probably they were probably she might have had three kids.
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Which I don't even think matters.
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I think even if she had one kit, I don't think you should give somebody a pen.
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No.
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Um, but I kind of thought for it.
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A bunny.
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Like I was like, oh, how cute, and I went and got this.
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I would but I got the whole kit.
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Like I didn't, like I got the You didn't just say here's a bunny.
00:27:36.720 --> 00:27:37.200
Yeah, I didn't.
00:27:37.279 --> 00:27:44.480
I got the house, I put it into the house, it had all its weak bits, and I wrapped it all up, and I was so excited to get it for them.
00:27:44.640 --> 00:27:47.200
I must have only been early 20s.
00:27:47.359 --> 00:27:47.839
Yeah, okay.
00:27:48.000 --> 00:27:50.640
And so I was like so excited, and I was like, this is amazing.
00:27:50.960 --> 00:27:52.240
I'm the best auntie.
00:27:52.400 --> 00:27:53.440
Uh they love me.
00:27:53.680 --> 00:27:57.200
And being a parent now, if somebody gifted me like in slight pictures.
00:27:57.279 --> 00:27:58.559
Oh, thanks for making my money.
00:27:58.880 --> 00:28:00.480
Yeah, like I'd be like, F you.
00:28:01.039 --> 00:28:05.119
It's so funny since like everybody's like, oh, a puppy's so hard.
00:28:05.279 --> 00:28:10.400
I'm like, okay, a puppy was hard when we didn't have kids because we didn't know what hard was, right?
00:28:10.480 --> 00:28:17.039
So when we got Wilson, we were like, oh my god, he's pooing everywhere, he weeze everywhere, he's not waking, he's not sleeping, blah, blah.
00:28:17.359 --> 00:28:19.759
Like it was the hardest part of our life, right?
00:28:19.920 --> 00:28:20.240
Yeah.
00:28:20.400 --> 00:28:21.839
Then Captain comes along.
00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:25.920
You've I've had two kids, you know, like doing what I've done.
00:28:26.480 --> 00:28:29.759
And I'm like, oh, a poo on the ground, I'll just pick it up.
00:28:29.920 --> 00:28:32.559
Like, that's probably what it's like when you get to more kids.
00:28:32.720 --> 00:28:33.119
Yeah, yeah.
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:38.319
You know, like I I truly feel, and I don't feel like this is emphasized enough, and I don't know if I've even bought this up.
00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:41.039
I might have before because I truly firmly believe this.
00:28:41.279 --> 00:28:47.519
When you have your first kid, you're kind of like, oh wow, like everything's a little bit like more natural than you thought it was gonna be.
00:28:47.759 --> 00:28:51.680
But it's also kind of like so new, so new and all that sort of stuff.
00:28:51.759 --> 00:28:54.079
So you kind of think it's a little bit hard.
00:28:54.240 --> 00:28:54.559
Yeah.
00:28:54.799 --> 00:29:02.079
And then you jump from one to two, which is big and it is fing hard.
00:29:02.319 --> 00:29:04.960
I don't I uh you're gonna have to leave the F-word in there.
00:29:05.039 --> 00:29:09.279
It is so hard from one to two.
00:29:09.519 --> 00:29:12.640
Because with one, it's like you just take them anywhere you go.
00:29:12.799 --> 00:29:16.799
Yeah, they just go wherever you go, you have one emotion to deal with.
00:29:17.119 --> 00:29:18.640
Well, you can pass them off to your partner.
00:29:18.960 --> 00:29:21.279
You if they're having to sleep, you can do something.
00:29:21.440 --> 00:29:24.000
There's everything kind of like can is fine.
00:29:24.240 --> 00:29:31.440
When you go from one to two, every spare minute is either on one or the other, and it's not so easy.
00:29:31.519 --> 00:29:35.119
Like if your partner takes one, you still have the other.
00:29:35.519 --> 00:29:40.319
It's kind of like it the jump is so massive, and I don't think anyone warns you of that.
00:29:40.400 --> 00:29:43.279
Yeah, and it hit me like a ton of bricks.
00:29:43.519 --> 00:29:43.759
Really?
00:29:43.920 --> 00:29:46.400
Yeah, it was like I was like, holy, this is hard.
00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:51.200
This is really, really hard, especially if you have anything extra, like if you have colic or if you have anything like that.
00:29:51.359 --> 00:29:51.839
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:55.359
It was like holy, like trying to juggle two kids.
00:29:55.519 --> 00:29:59.039
Obviously, we were trying to obviously do a business on the side as well.
00:29:59.279 --> 00:30:02.720
Yeah, once I went to third kid, nothing was like nothing.
00:30:02.880 --> 00:30:04.480
It was like just everything was the same.
00:30:04.559 --> 00:30:06.400
Yeah, because it's like you have no spare time anyway.
00:30:06.480 --> 00:30:06.960
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:30:07.039 --> 00:30:09.039
It's kind of they just squeeze in, if anything.
00:30:09.359 --> 00:30:14.559
But honestly, like I don't think people warn people, and I don't think you should warn them, it's not a warning.
00:30:14.799 --> 00:30:15.839
Because it doesn't explain.
00:30:16.079 --> 00:30:25.039
I would never ever regret it, but they just don't explain to you to say to or they don't go, you you're on your the first baby friend turns up.
00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:28.880
Here's some meals, oh my god, then you're like, oh, the second baby shot.
00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:29.599
Sick one.
00:30:29.920 --> 00:30:30.559
Yeah, no one gives it.
00:30:31.200 --> 00:30:31.839
Yeah, everyone knows.
00:30:32.000 --> 00:30:32.720
But you did this to yourself.
00:30:32.880 --> 00:30:39.119
The community's not that they're the same as when you have your first kid because everyone's like, first kid, oh my god, you don't know how to do anything, let me help you.
00:30:39.279 --> 00:30:40.480
But a lot of it just is natural.
00:30:40.559 --> 00:30:44.400
Like you're like, okay, well, I kind of know how nappy goes, and okay, I'll rock them to sleep.
00:30:44.480 --> 00:30:46.720
So there's definitely tips that you that help.
00:30:46.799 --> 00:30:46.960
Yeah.
00:30:47.200 --> 00:30:52.160
But when you come with two, it's like you've got to get two in the car, you've got to hold a toddler while holding a baby.
00:30:52.240 --> 00:30:55.200
You're you're trying to feed the baby, and then something's happening with the topic.
00:30:57.039 --> 00:30:57.440
It's hard.
00:30:58.240 --> 00:31:09.200
The worst one for me was when I I remember Louie, like Frankie would be crying when she's a baby, so you try and rock that, and then Louis wants you, so he jumps on you.
00:31:09.359 --> 00:31:09.519
Yeah.
00:31:09.680 --> 00:31:11.920
And then you're just like, I just want to get out of the house.
00:31:12.160 --> 00:31:18.400
And I still have to pack my bag, I still have to, and that's when my anxiety just like skills as well.
00:31:18.559 --> 00:31:19.599
You don't like sleep.
00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:27.039
Oh, it was honestly, and that's when I was running two businesses, three three like five employees, like rough, rough time.
00:31:27.119 --> 00:31:36.480
And that's what I say to people whenever you have kids, especially your first or second, third, fourth, you know, that kind of comes as you said, it kind of squeezes in.
00:31:36.640 --> 00:31:40.319
But the first and second, try and have a year off work.
00:31:40.480 --> 00:31:45.119
I say that is the only tip I give people because I never had that, and I regret that.
00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:50.880
Because I did feel like I just didn't, I wasn't with my kids.
00:31:51.119 --> 00:31:55.599
And then that way, that that means I then took a year and a half off.
00:31:55.920 --> 00:32:01.279
I think that that's yeah, where we women need to be like, you're doing so much.
00:32:01.599 --> 00:32:02.079
So much.
00:32:02.319 --> 00:32:06.960
Like the like growing a baby, like that is amazing.
00:32:07.119 --> 00:32:08.640
Like you, that is so amazing.
00:32:08.960 --> 00:32:10.559
You're carrying on the human race.
00:32:10.720 --> 00:32:20.160
Like, and as much as us women make it look easy, and as much as we can do it, yeah, it's still I feel like as if it needs to be like you need to be on a freaking pedestal for the floor.
00:32:21.279 --> 00:32:23.119
I'm so thankful having ADHD.
00:32:23.359 --> 00:32:35.200
And I'm like thinking to myself, you know, having what I have, I'm thankful because I can keep going and do the washing and do the cleaning and like, but you don't stop.
00:32:35.839 --> 00:32:36.880
I don't stop.
00:32:37.519 --> 00:32:49.119
And I don't need praise because it's my choice to do the washing before I go to sleep, or to fluff the cushions, or to to like sweep the floor.
00:32:49.279 --> 00:32:56.480
And Grant's like, I don't need that because that is nothing to do with my mental health and my thing.
00:32:56.720 --> 00:33:00.240
So if you want to do it, you're welcome to do it.
00:33:00.480 --> 00:33:06.319
And I'm like, but I need you to help me to be mental health, and I want to see your perspective on this, right?
00:33:06.480 --> 00:33:07.119
Okay, yeah, yeah.
00:33:07.279 --> 00:33:10.079
I know we're segueing into something, but no, but yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:14.640
So I obviously have ADHD and dyslexia.
00:33:14.720 --> 00:33:16.079
I don't know if I have autism.
00:33:16.160 --> 00:33:28.240
I'm feeling like I am, but I'm so like well rehearsed in my mind that everything's quite like this, this, and if if if everything is going the way it's planned every day, my life's pretty easy.
00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:28.720
Yeah.
00:33:28.960 --> 00:33:36.000
When I have a shower too early in the bloody morning, like this morning, my brain gets all gross and like weird.
00:33:36.160 --> 00:33:37.119
It's so weird.
00:33:37.440 --> 00:33:42.079
Anyway, so me and Grant always have a bit of a disagreement.
00:33:42.319 --> 00:33:47.200
He's tired, he wants to sit down, and I'm like, we're gonna do this.
00:33:47.599 --> 00:33:49.119
I've gotta clean the house, we've got to make it.
00:33:50.079 --> 00:33:51.599
And he's like, Max, I'm tired.
00:33:51.759 --> 00:33:54.640
I would like to sit down and then I'll put the stuff away.
00:33:54.720 --> 00:33:59.200
I'm like, but I need to do everything and then I'll put this, I'll sit down, right?
00:33:59.359 --> 00:34:02.160
And he's like, look, we don't have to sweep the floor every night.
00:34:02.319 --> 00:34:06.240
We don't have to make sure it looks like a show home before we go to sleep.
00:34:06.319 --> 00:34:07.519
You don't have to do that.
00:34:07.680 --> 00:34:10.159
If we're tired, let us be tired and go to sleep.
00:34:10.320 --> 00:34:14.000
I'm like, totally, like I look at him, I'm like, okay, yeah, I get it.
00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:18.000
But then if I do that, the next day is fucked up for me.
00:34:18.159 --> 00:34:20.159
It is so bad the next day.
00:34:20.480 --> 00:34:24.000
My whole systems are so out of place.
00:34:24.239 --> 00:34:25.599
Yeah, I forget things.
00:34:25.679 --> 00:34:30.639
So if I don't put out my drinks that I have in the morning, my like supplements, I'll forget it.
00:34:30.880 --> 00:34:38.079
And the reason why I can do so much in the mornings is because everything is ordered and everything has a system.
00:34:38.239 --> 00:34:48.320
And the other day, Grant saw this firsthand when he folded the washing too late on a Sunday night and I didn't put the washing away because he folds, I put it away, right?
00:34:48.559 --> 00:34:54.480
He didn't, and we didn't, and the next morning, it was Monday morning, the washing was still on there.
00:34:54.719 --> 00:35:00.400
I had to rush out to get go to a meeting, and I just lost it.
00:35:00.639 --> 00:35:09.119
I literally lost it because I felt and then I was like, I'm ugly, I can't do this, blah blah blah, and I was like 15 minutes late.
00:35:09.280 --> 00:35:20.639
I've never done that in years, but because the washing wasn't put away and I couldn't find particular uh clothes that I wanted, and I just shut down and I said that to Grand.
00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:23.920
I said, This is why I'm so particular with my things every day.
00:35:24.320 --> 00:35:27.519
So here's the thing if you want me opening I do think you're extreme.
00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:36.000
But if if your kid had a wheelchair, well, if your kid couldn't walk, you'd get them a wheelchair, right?
00:35:36.320 --> 00:35:47.519
If you've got a mental disorder, which is like having a physical disease, but it's mental, I do think that you have to help work around that.
00:35:47.760 --> 00:35:58.800
Like if that's if that's the outcome where you like completely spiral, I'm like, there has to be some systems put in place of how like you guys leave the house.
00:35:58.960 --> 00:36:08.079
I do think like he he's made a good few arguments a few times, like last night when he was saying, you know, like you will vacuum the house at night and then get up in the morning and you vacuum the house.
00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:12.719
That was over-exaggerated, but I know, but what I'm saying Yeah, that's that kind of pattern, yeah.
00:36:12.880 --> 00:36:17.199
That kind of a pattern, like I can understand for him being like, for fuck's sake, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:36:17.360 --> 00:36:20.719
I can understand him going, babe, I it's too much.
00:36:20.880 --> 00:36:21.920
Like, I do want to relax.
00:36:22.000 --> 00:36:23.119
He does have a stressful job.
00:36:23.199 --> 00:36:27.679
Like, obviously, he's he has to be on doing sales and stuff like that.
00:36:27.840 --> 00:36:31.519
And and even if you don't have a stressful job, sometimes you just want to come home and remember.
00:36:33.360 --> 00:36:36.800
So he's like up and down, his sugars are up and down, he gets headaches.
00:36:36.960 --> 00:36:37.679
I get it.
00:36:37.760 --> 00:36:39.039
Like, I so get it.
00:36:39.360 --> 00:36:48.800
I think if I was you, if I was in your scenario and I was real extreme, is I would try and take the load on myself because it was my me having the thing.
00:36:49.519 --> 00:37:08.800
But what I would do is there'd be certain things that I'd be like, okay, I don't expect you to do like what I'm gonna do, because I need to I understand that that's probably a lot, and it's probably something that I'm trying to like do for my like systems, but I would be like, but there is something like for me to get all my systems done is really hard.
00:37:08.880 --> 00:37:18.320
So if you do take off, you know, let's say 30%, yeah, where it's like, okay, and I guess like it's like the folding of the washer, like that's a great little thing to be like, okay, you do that part.
00:37:18.400 --> 00:37:22.239
So I would probably be like, these certain things I need you to do.
00:37:22.719 --> 00:37:23.679
He's pretty good like that.
00:37:24.000 --> 00:37:30.719
And then at least he can be like, okay, well, I don't have to like do a massive like house full spring clean.
00:37:31.599 --> 00:37:35.280
But I can do a few things that I know are gonna like just take certain things of it.
00:37:35.519 --> 00:37:39.599
And he's been so great with like the washing, like, we haven't had any washing piled up.
00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:41.599
It's so that's so help helpful.
00:37:41.760 --> 00:37:43.119
Yeah, so just little things like that.
00:37:43.199 --> 00:37:48.159
And then if it's if it's like you, if it's the put putting away, then I'd be like, you need to put it away as well.
00:37:48.320 --> 00:37:48.880
Do you know what I mean?
00:37:48.960 --> 00:37:50.639
Like I'd be like, what fold it and put it away.
00:37:50.719 --> 00:37:57.280
I mean, you it's the you've got to remember that in your household, and like from what I know, and again, a lot of it's probably is because you're pedantic as well.
00:37:57.519 --> 00:37:58.320
So pedantic.
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:05.039
But you probably do like the bulk plus when it comes to the house cleaning.
00:38:05.119 --> 00:38:05.199
Yeah.
00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:09.760
And then a lot of it is because you're obviously over the top as well, but but you do the bulk anyway.
00:38:09.920 --> 00:38:19.920
So I do think if you were to turn around and go, there's a couple of things that I know are gonna throw me, and they're just something extra for me to worry about, you could be like, Oh, it's not that hard for you to go and put it away now.
00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:21.679
Yeah, I totally agree.
00:38:21.840 --> 00:38:29.599
But you know, sometimes when sometimes I get like really sore tummies, and I'm like, okay, I'm gonna just smack, like go to bed, and that's what I'm gonna do.
00:38:29.760 --> 00:38:36.559
But I push myself so much to get up and do my routine so the next day I'm prepared.
00:38:36.639 --> 00:38:41.840
Yeah, but I think this is where my success of my life has come from, like being like this.
00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:52.800
Like, if I wasn't so pedantic and if I wasn't so like gotta do this and you know, make sure my vitamins are taken every day and this, this, and this, I wouldn't be where I am now today.
00:38:53.039 --> 00:39:01.920
It's quite funny though, because I do sometimes think to myself, like, um, sometimes you get people that are super, super house proud, super, super clean freaks or whatever.
00:39:02.000 --> 00:39:05.920
Yeah, and then they end up with somebody that's not at the same level.
00:39:06.239 --> 00:39:07.039
Yeah, yeah, isn't it funny?
00:39:07.280 --> 00:39:11.840
So I even think, like, say, like, your food habits, your food habits are quite different to Grant's.
00:39:11.920 --> 00:39:12.000
Yeah.
00:39:12.159 --> 00:39:16.800
And like, I'll watch you and like Grant's like getting a cookie, and you're like, put that cookie down.
00:39:17.199 --> 00:39:17.519
You know what I'm saying?
00:39:17.760 --> 00:39:19.199
Put that cookie down.
00:39:19.679 --> 00:39:21.840
And I'm like, oh my god, the poor bugger.
00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:23.840
I know it's because of his diabetes, so I know you're like.
00:39:29.599 --> 00:39:32.400
And then after the he goes, I'm gonna get ripped.
00:39:32.719 --> 00:39:35.519
All right, starting tomorrow, I'm gonna get ripped.
00:39:35.679 --> 00:39:54.320
And I'm like, mate, mate, all I hear all night, all night, it's like, I'm like, we're sitting there having a conversation, and next minute she's obviously like flipped around, and it's like, don't have another cookie, you've had enough cookies, put the chocolates down, you've had enough chocolates.
00:39:54.480 --> 00:40:00.159
Don't tell me you're having another packet of chips, and then she's like, those are snacks are for the kids, put them away.
00:40:00.559 --> 00:40:05.360
And it's like, oh John, you're like on this guy.
00:40:05.440 --> 00:40:09.840
And I'm like, oh my god, I'm like thinking, because imagine, like, do you know what's funny as well?
00:40:09.920 --> 00:40:19.199
Like, if you reverse that, like if that was a guy doing that to a chick, we would be like, like, if Jared was like to me, is that your second cookie?
00:40:19.360 --> 00:40:22.079
Or like, you know, like he'd be like, you've had enough cookies.
00:40:22.239 --> 00:40:27.199
Like, can you imagine him telling me that I've had like enough cookies or something like that?
00:40:27.360 --> 00:40:33.679
Like, it would be like so like you you just because he gets all it's the same with me.
00:40:33.760 --> 00:40:39.679
Like, if I'm like, I want to lose weight, and then like I'm eating these cookies, like but we all know we do that.
00:40:39.760 --> 00:40:42.400
Yeah, and we all know we do that, and we all know that that's it.
00:40:44.960 --> 00:40:45.360
Chocolate.
00:40:45.599 --> 00:40:46.719
Yeah, no, no, I would love to.
00:40:47.039 --> 00:40:49.599
You would kill him, you would kill him, you would absolutely kill him.
00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:56.239
Okay, what if you're having a glass of wine and he was like, You're drinking your calories, what would you say?
00:40:56.559 --> 00:40:57.519
I'll just stare at him.
00:40:59.440 --> 00:41:05.199
You'd be like, Because I'd be like, I know, I know you're so right, but right now I don't even sit here.
00:41:07.280 --> 00:41:14.480
And just remember laugh, like my mum grew up with a mum that was very much like like her weight.
00:41:14.639 --> 00:41:20.719
My grandma's was so a big about her weight, and then my mum obviously got through like you know, from that.
00:41:20.880 --> 00:41:30.000
Yeah, and my mum was very supportive with giving us fitness and like health in our family, and I'm very thankful for that.
00:41:30.239 --> 00:41:40.480
But I remember, and it's a family joke now, that one time I was eating some ice cream, oh yeah, and I must have been like 19 or something.
00:41:40.559 --> 00:41:42.719
I might have put a little bit of weight, I don't know.
00:41:42.960 --> 00:41:53.760
Anyway, mum's I was eating ice cream, and mum goes, hey Max, and like tapped her chin, and I was like, What does that mean?
00:41:54.000 --> 00:41:58.800
And I get my brother-in-law, I'm like, Jack, what just like what the hell?
00:41:58.960 --> 00:42:06.079
And then Jack just started laughing, and now it's just like a personal joke in the family of like mum like tapping her chin when we eat bad food.
00:42:06.320 --> 00:42:08.800
Oh god, don't now start focusing on our blue chin.
00:42:09.119 --> 00:42:10.000
Oh, it's so fun.
00:42:10.079 --> 00:42:14.880
It's but it's it is funny, like how you know the the generations come from that.
00:42:15.199 --> 00:42:15.920
Do you know what though?
00:42:16.000 --> 00:42:17.920
Like, I don't think there's anything worse.
00:42:18.079 --> 00:42:28.480
Well, there probably is, but uh when you're like hoeing into something that you want to eat, like you're hungry and you're just like, yeah, I'm like smashing whatever it is, and somebody like comments on it.
00:42:28.719 --> 00:42:29.760
I'm such a commenter.
00:42:30.079 --> 00:42:33.280
Oh my god, it makes you so mad because you're like so bad at that.
00:42:33.360 --> 00:42:38.559
You're like so angry because you're like, you know you shouldn't be in it, but you want to eat it, and it's already you're already halfway through the thing.
00:42:39.840 --> 00:42:44.079
Okay, when Grant eats bad food, he's got type 1 diabetes.
00:42:44.159 --> 00:42:59.519
So if he's like bad food, yeah, that then I so then he gets a hyper or whatever hyper of a hyper everything falls on me when he is having his high or low, he has to sit there and he's got a headache, you know.
00:42:59.599 --> 00:43:01.920
I start feeling sorry for him because I'm like, this sucks.
00:43:02.159 --> 00:43:06.559
But I'm like, because you ate too many cookies, so then I have to do the kids.
00:43:06.639 --> 00:43:12.320
So I'm like, don't eat the cookies, don't enjoy the cookie, so I don't have to don't buy the cookies.
00:43:12.800 --> 00:43:14.800
Why did I buy cookies for you?
00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:15.920
Were they for me?
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Yeah.
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I would have eaten more of them.
00:43:18.079 --> 00:43:18.559
What do you mean?
00:43:18.639 --> 00:43:19.280
You ate like tea.
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No, I didn't.
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Motherfucker, I had two.
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Thank you.
00:43:25.840 --> 00:43:29.599
I would have only had one, but then you told me they taste nice and warm, so then I had to have a second cookie.
00:43:29.760 --> 00:43:30.639
Well, have you not ever had it?
00:43:30.719 --> 00:43:32.320
It's like a subway cookie heated up.
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No.
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Oh what?
00:43:34.719 --> 00:43:35.920
No, I think I've had a subway cookie.
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I'd no, I don't heat it up.
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No, I don't think so.
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I think it's just if I was gonna have a cookie, I'd just tap the cookie, I wouldn't think about it.
00:43:42.159 --> 00:43:45.679
I wanted to talk to you about Well, we need to celebrate, actually.
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I we do.
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Yeah, so I've been working very hard in my business and I absolutely love my business.
00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:54.559
And this poor girl, one of the mums got cornered by me yes uh this morning.
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That's why I was late back home.
00:43:56.159 --> 00:43:56.480
Okay.
00:43:56.639 --> 00:43:58.079
Because I was talking about my business.
00:43:58.239 --> 00:44:00.159
And she was like, Wow, you're very passionate.
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And I'm like, is this a good thing?
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Because I talk, I'm like, yeah, and this happened and the funnel happened, and the thing is.
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Definitely a good thing.
00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:07.519
And I love it.
00:44:08.079 --> 00:44:09.280
Uh look, do you know what?
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I think if you're passionate about something, I think that that sells it.
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Like if you love the thing that you're doing, yeah, and you're talking about it, I think that that's enough.
00:44:20.480 --> 00:44:23.840
And if you really think about it, I know you're so hard on yourself.
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Like, you just secured a massive client.
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Yeah.
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There's so much potential.
00:44:27.760 --> 00:44:36.079
It's not a negative thing, but obviously, I was it was early in the morning, school drop-off, and I'm like talking about the marketing funnel and how my funnel's working so well.
00:44:36.239 --> 00:44:38.400
That's obviously what you enjoy.
00:44:38.480 --> 00:44:41.599
That doesn't matter if you're only making a little bit of money.
00:44:41.840 --> 00:44:49.840
So our thing is now consistency, consistency, consistency, and that is the secret to business now is staying consistent.
00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:51.360
I am not joking.
00:44:51.599 --> 00:44:56.639
I've seen so many businesses fail because they do not stay consistent.
00:44:56.960 --> 00:44:59.840
And I've literally seen that now firsthand.
00:45:00.079 --> 00:45:05.039
Two things have happened because I've stayed consistent, yeah, and I've keep pushing, keep pushing, yeah.
00:45:09.280 --> 00:45:16.000
I was able to prove a system that I was being working on because I didn't turn around a week later going it's not working.
00:45:16.159 --> 00:45:19.280
Yeah, it's really difficult to kind of keep on pushing at something.
00:45:20.239 --> 00:45:34.400
And this is why, like it's so big in my mind is having passion about what you're doing because it's like that's where I find it's it's something you just naturally end up talking about because you're passionate about it.
00:45:34.559 --> 00:45:36.639
I'm really loving business at the moment.
00:45:36.800 --> 00:45:38.800
Like I can see a lot of things are happening.
00:45:39.039 --> 00:45:40.559
And I love that for you then.
00:45:41.440 --> 00:45:42.880
Yeah, marketing is my life.
00:45:42.960 --> 00:45:51.039
Like, and I think what's really important for me is to make sure that bringing the trust back into small a like small marketers as well.
00:45:51.119 --> 00:45:58.960
Like, there's too many big agencies out there in the world that take so much money off people and they don't even know what they're doing.
00:45:59.440 --> 00:46:00.800
I'm passionate across the board.
00:46:00.880 --> 00:46:04.719
I've like, I'm kind of a little bit of like um jack of all trades.
00:46:04.880 --> 00:46:10.079
So there's like so many things where people can come talk to me about and I can give them advice on it.
00:46:10.159 --> 00:46:10.639
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:46:10.880 --> 00:46:13.119
It's very difficult when you're doing it for yourself, 100%.
00:46:13.519 --> 00:46:13.840
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:14.639 --> 00:46:21.679
I can tell other people a hundred percent what they need to do and where they, you know, where they could improve or yeah, give them some advice on that.
00:46:21.840 --> 00:46:25.760
But um, yeah, it's really hard for me to do it for myself.
00:46:25.840 --> 00:46:27.119
It's very difficult.
00:46:27.440 --> 00:46:31.199
But that's well, we can get into that next next episode.
00:46:31.360 --> 00:46:32.000
Yes, we can.
00:46:32.159 --> 00:46:41.679
Because I obviously I had such a big mindset shift, but I think we'll wrap it up here and um yeah, I I will talk about more mindset maximum.
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I know it is so good.
00:46:44.079 --> 00:46:44.880
It's been a little while.
00:46:45.599 --> 00:46:46.719
I know, but it's good.
00:46:46.880 --> 00:46:49.280
Well, thanks for listening, and thanks, guys.
00:46:49.440 --> 00:46:50.639
Yeah, we'll see you next time.
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Bye.