Podcasters Roundtable: Melissa Berry on Fashion Meets Cancer Advocacy

In this episode of our Podcasters Roundtable series, we sit down with Melissa Berry, the voice behind "Dear Cancer, I'm Beautiful" and founder of Cancer Fashionista.

Before her Stage 1 triple negative breast cancer diagnosis at 42, Melissa was a fashion and beauty publicist working with Vogue editors and celebrities like Sarah Jessica Parker. When she couldn't find beauty and fashion resources for cancer patients all in one place, she created them herself—starting with a simple list that has grown into a thriving blog, social media presence, and podcast.

In this conversation, we explore:

• Why Melissa chose the name Cancer Fashionista and how her podcast got a different name
• The transition from blogging to podcasting and why evergreen content matters
• Her most memorable episodes, including the emotional interview with her father
• How she selects topics and manages a publishing schedule of 2-4 episodes per month
• The importance of inclusive language when addressing both early-stage and metastatic breast cancer communities
• Financial toxicity and the challenges of maintaining identity during ongoing treatment
• What keeps her connected to advocacy years after her own diagnosis
• Working with sponsors and promoting podcasts through social media

We also discuss step therapy (fail first policies), the emotional toll of losing your sense of self during treatment, and why resources around intimacy and sexual health are so critically needed in the cancer community.

Special segment: Learn about Ana Ono Intimates, the chest-inclusive lingerie brand founded by breast cancer survivor Dana Donofree, now available at Victoria's Secret after a decade in business. Fun fact: they have a bra named after Melissa!

Whether you're a podcaster, advocate, patient, or supporter, this conversation offers valuable insights into building community, creating lasting resources, and helping people feel like themselves again.

Connect with Melissa Berry:

• Podcast: "Dear Cancer, I'm Beautiful" (available on all platforms)
• Follow Cancer Fashionista on Instagram and social media

Hosted and produced by Victoria Goldberg and Abigail Johnston

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