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00:00:06.240You're listening to How Work Really Works with Steve.
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00:00:12.080Practical advice to help you communicate better, lead with confidence, and advance your career.
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00:00:15.679Hi, I'm Steve, and this is how work really works.
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00:00:18.640Here is one of the most frustrating things you can hear at work.
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00:00:20.480You're doing a great job.
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00:00:23.440It sounds encouraging, and sometimes it is.
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00:00:30.719But when it is followed by we've decided to give the opportunity to someone else, it rather loses its sparkle.
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00:00:34.719You did the work, you met the deadlines, you helped other people.
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00:00:37.280You stayed late when something went wrong.
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00:00:44.159You probably attended several meetings that could have been emails, and at least one email chain that somehow became a meeting.
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00:00:46.240Then somebody else gets promoted.
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00:00:49.600Perhaps they were not as technically strong as you.
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00:00:56.799Perhaps they did not seem to work as hard, perhaps you are now being asked to help them settle into the role you thought you were ready for.
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00:00:59.679That one is particularly character building.
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00:01:01.200So what happened?
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00:01:06.959The uncomfortable answer is that doing good work is essential, but it is not enough on its own.
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00:01:12.799That is not because organizations are always unfair, although some certainly make a determined effort.
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00:01:20.079It is because work is judged by people, and people can only judge what they understand, remember, and trust.
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00:01:27.040Good work that nobody can see, connect to a result, or explain to someone else is easy to overlook.
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00:01:30.000Many of us learn the opposite lesson early in life.
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00:01:32.319At school, the rules are fairly clear.
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00:01:36.319Do the assignment, answer the questions, get the grade.
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00:01:40.159Your work sits there on the page, waiting to be marked.
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00:01:41.840Work is not like that.
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00:01:46.159There is no neutral examiner quietly reviewing everything you did during the year.
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00:01:54.400Your manager has their own job, their own deadlines, and usually a calendar that looks like somebody has been playing Tetris with it.
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00:01:57.680Senior leaders are even further away from the detail.
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00:02:03.840They may see the final result, but not the judgment, persistence, and problem solving that produced it.
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00:02:07.599This means your contribution has to travel beyond the work itself.
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00:02:10.400People need to know what changed because you were involved.
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00:02:12.240They need to trust how you think.
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00:02:18.879And when an opportunity appears, somebody needs to be able to describe your value when you are not in the room.
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00:02:20.960That last point matters.
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00:02:28.479Most important career decisions are not made while you are sitting there giving a flawless explanation of why you deserve the role.
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00:02:31.439They are made in conversations between other people.
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00:02:34.639A leader says, who could take this on?
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00:02:41.360Somebody mentions a name, then the room starts exchanging stories, impressions, and examples.
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00:02:44.400If your name comes up, what can people say?
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00:02:48.479Not what do you hope they say, what evidence have you given them to use?
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00:03:05.439That is the real subject of this episode, not office politics in the worst sense, not turning yourself into a walking advertisement, and definitely not speaking about yourself in the third person, which should remain the preserve of professional wrestlers and unusually confident football managers.
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00:03:12.639This is about making your value clear, building credibility, and helping the right people understand what you are capable of doing next.
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00:03:14.800You still have to do good work.
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00:03:20.560There is no clever communication technique that can permanently disguise poor performance.
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00:03:22.960But good performance is the foundation.
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00:03:25.039It is not the complete building.
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00:03:27.280Can this person deliver results?
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00:03:30.400Can they handle more ambiguity and responsibility?
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00:03:32.960Can they communicate with different audiences?
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00:03:34.879Will other people trust them?
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00:03:41.840And will putting them into the role make life easier or considerably more exciting for everyone involved?
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00:03:44.800Your current performance answers only part of that.
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00:03:50.639If you are excellent at your present job, people may conclude that you are excellent at your present job.
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00:03:55.039That is positive, but it is not the same as seeing you in the next one.
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00:03:59.759To advance, you need to show evidence of the capabilities the next role requires.
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00:04:05.199If the next role involves leading people, can others see you helping colleagues succeed?
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00:04:11.439If it involves senior communication, can you explain a complicated issue clearly and briefly?
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00:04:15.360If it involves judgment, do you bring sensible options?
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00:04:19.279Or do you simply deliver problems with the enthusiasm of a courier?
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00:04:24.720I have seen very capable people become frustrated because they assume their effort was obvious.
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00:04:31.920They believed the hours they worked, the problems they solved, and the quality they delivered would naturally lead to recognition.
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00:04:34.480Sometimes it did, often it did not.
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00:04:37.839The problem was rarely that nobody valued them.
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00:04:42.240The problem was that the organization had an incomplete picture of them.
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00:04:48.959A useful way to think about this is through three things performance, perception, and positioning.
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00:04:51.759Performance is the work you actually do.
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00:04:55.759It is the quality, reliability, and outcome of your contribution.
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00:04:59.759Perception is how other people understand that contribution.
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00:05:07.920Do they see you as dependable, strategic, calm under pressure, difficult, helpful, invisible?
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00:05:12.639The perception may not be perfectly fair, but it still influences decisions.
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00:05:17.279Positioning is whether people can imagine you handling the next level of responsibility.
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00:05:22.639It is the bridge between doing your current job well and being trusted with something larger.
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00:05:30.399People sometimes react badly to the word visibility because it sounds like self-promotion, and bad self-promotion is irritating.
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00:05:34.959We have all met the person who provides a live commentary on everything they do.
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00:05:45.439They send an update when they begin the work, another update when they consider the work, and a final update celebrating the courageous completion of a task that was due last Tuesday.
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00:05:47.120That is not what I mean.
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00:05:50.480Useful visibility is simply making the outcome clear.
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00:06:03.040Instead of saying, I attended six meetings and completed the analysis, say we identified the cause of the delay, agreed the decision with operations, and brought the schedule back by two weeks.
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00:06:06.160The first version describes activity.
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00:06:08.160The second explains value.
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00:06:13.439Senior leaders tend to remember outcomes, risks, decisions, and consequences.
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00:06:17.519If you want your work to be understood, translate it into that language.
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00:06:19.839You do not need to make it grander than it is.
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00:06:21.600In fact, please do not.
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00:06:25.759Every routine improvement does not need to be described as transformational.
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00:06:29.120Just explain what was different, because the work happened.
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00:06:35.600There is another part of visibility that is often missed, helping other people connect your name with good judgment.
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00:06:42.879That happens through the questions you ask, the way you handle pressure, and the way you communicate when things are not going well.
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00:06:49.839Anyone can look composed when the project is green and the presentation has reassuring arrows pointing upwards.
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00:06:53.040Credibility is built when the news is awkward.
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00:06:55.600If something slips, say so early.
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00:06:57.199Explain the impact.
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00:06:59.360Offer realistic options.
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00:07:01.920Recommend what should happen next.
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00:07:08.079Do not hide the problem until it has developed its own project code and steering committee.
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00:07:11.759Leaders remember people who make difficult situations clearer.
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00:07:14.879They also remember people who make them more confusing.
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00:07:17.439Relationships matter for the same reason.
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00:07:22.240This does not mean collecting contacts or treating every conversation as a transaction.
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00:07:30.079It means understanding the people affected by your work and earning their trust before you urgently need something from them.
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00:07:32.959Talk to colleagues outside your immediate team.
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00:07:35.360Ask what they are trying to achieve.
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00:07:37.759Learn what creates pressure for them.
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00:07:40.079Follow through when you offer help.
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00:07:44.399Over time, those people become part of your professional reputation.
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00:07:48.319They have experienced how you work, not merely read your profile.
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00:07:50.959A mentor can help you think through your career.
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00:07:52.959A sponsor does something different.
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00:07:58.959A sponsor uses their own credibility to advocate for you when an opportunity is being discussed.
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00:08:05.920You cannot walk up to a senior leader and announce, congratulations, you are now my sponsor.
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00:08:07.839Sponsorship is earned.
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00:08:15.839It grows when influential people see consistent performance, sound judgment, and the ability to operate at a broader level.
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00:08:21.839There is also a trap that affects some of the strongest performers, becoming indispensable in the wrong way.
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00:08:23.199You know the person.
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00:08:24.959They understand every detail.
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00:08:26.879They fix every crisis.
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00:08:36.080They are the only one who knows how the monthly process works, where the important file lives, and why the system behaves strangely every second Thursday.
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00:08:38.000The organization depends on them.
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00:08:40.799That sounds like excellent career protection.
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00:08:44.559Unfortunately, it can also make people reluctant to move them.
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00:08:52.320If promoting you creates an immediate operational problem, somebody may decide that the safest option is to leave you exactly where you are.
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00:08:55.759Nobody will describe it quite that honestly, of course.
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00:09:02.159You may hear that you're too valuable to the team, which is flattering, right up to the point where you realize what it means.
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00:09:05.039The answer is not to become less valuable.
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00:09:07.519It is to make your value scalable.
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00:09:09.679Document what only you know.
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00:09:15.919Develop someone else, improve the process so it does not depend on heroic intervention.
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00:09:20.399Show that you can build capability, not merely provide it personally.
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00:09:22.720That is evidence of leadership.
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00:09:30.080It also removes one of the quietest barriers to advancement, the fear that everything will fall apart if you leave your current seat.
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00:09:32.159Your manager is part of this.
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00:09:36.320But your manager cannot carry the entire responsibility for your career.
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00:09:41.360A good manager should give feedback, create opportunities, and help you develop.
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00:09:44.080But they may not know exactly what you want.
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00:09:53.440They may assume you are happy, they may be focused on keeping a strong performer exactly where they are because moving you creates a rather inconvenient vacancy.
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00:09:55.120So have the conversation.
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00:09:58.159Do not say only I want to be promoted.
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00:10:02.960That tells your manager the outcome you want, but gives them very little to work with.
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00:10:04.720Try this instead.
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00:10:09.039I would like to be considered for a larger role over the next year.
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00:10:13.519What would you need to see from me to feel confident recommending me?
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00:10:18.879That question is useful because it turns a vague ambition into observable evidence.
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00:10:20.559Then listen carefully.
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00:10:23.360If the answer is unclear, ask for examples.
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00:10:29.279If they say you need to be more strategic, ask what strategic behavior would look like in your role.
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00:10:34.000If they say you need more visibility, ask with whom and around what work.
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00:10:37.039Vague feedback is difficult to act on.
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00:10:39.919Your job is to make it specific enough to test.
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00:10:44.240So how do you become more visible without becoming unbearable?
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00:10:46.639Start with a simple habit.
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00:10:49.679Keep a record of outcomes, not just tasks.
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00:10:53.440At the end of each week, write down three things.
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00:10:54.639What changed?
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00:10:55.919What did I contribute?
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00:10:57.200Why did it matter?
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00:10:59.840This is not a diary of every email you sent.
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00:11:02.159It is a short record of evidence.
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00:11:12.240Perhaps you reduced a delay, prevented a risk, improved a customer experience, helped a colleague make a decision, or found a simpler way to do something.
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00:11:15.120Capture the result while you still remember it.
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00:11:23.519Six months later, everything tends to become worked on several important initiatives, which is accurate but not especially persuasive.
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00:11:27.039Next, create a sensible rhythm for communicating progress.
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00:11:32.879This might be a short weekly note to your manager, a project update, or a regular one-to-one conversation.
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00:11:34.000Keep it brief.
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00:11:38.799Focus on progress, decisions, risks, and what happens next.
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00:11:41.840A useful update can be four sentences.
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00:11:44.320Here is the outcome we are working towards.
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00:11:46.320Here is what changed this week.
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00:11:49.759Here is the risk or decision that needs attention.
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00:11:52.000Here is what I recommend we do next.
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00:11:56.639That structure makes you easier to manage, which is more valuable than it sounds.
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00:12:02.000You are showing that you understand the work, the wider objective, and the decisions that matter.
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00:12:08.960You are not asking your manager to reconstruct the story from 17 status items and a color-coded spreadsheet.
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00:12:10.879Then look at your relationships.
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00:12:14.320Choose a few people whose work connects with yours.
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00:12:16.799Not necessarily the most senior people.
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00:12:23.440Often the strongest professional relationships begin with peers, partners and colleagues in other teams.
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00:12:30.480Ask them what they are trying to achieve and where your work creates friction or helps them.
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00:12:38.159You may learn that something your team considers a minor detail is a major problem for somebody else.
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00:12:44.240Solving that kind of problem builds a reputation quickly because the value is experienced, not advertised.
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00:12:50.399You should also look for work that demonstrates the next level, not merely more of the current level.
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00:12:53.600This is where many strong performers become trapped.
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00:12:58.159They respond to ambition by taking on a larger quantity of the same work.
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00:13:01.919They become the most overloaded version of their current role.
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00:13:04.080More work can prove stamina.
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00:13:06.480It does not always prove readiness.
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00:13:10.159Instead, look for an opportunity that requires a broader skill.
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00:13:12.240Lead a cross-team discussion.
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00:13:21.440Present a recommendation, coach someone, resolve a disagreement, take ownership of an unclear problem, and bring structure to it.
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00:13:26.399The objective is to create evidence that people can use when they discuss your future.
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00:13:29.759And ask for feedback before the annual review.
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00:13:36.639Annual reviews have a remarkable ability to contain information that would have been far more useful eleven months earlier.
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00:13:40.159Ask a focused question after a meaningful piece of work.
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00:13:42.799What did I do that helped?
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00:13:47.039Then ask, what would have made me more effective?
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00:13:51.200Those questions are easier to answer than do you have any feedback?
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00:13:56.960Which often produces the deeply actionable response, No, you're doing great.
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00:14:01.039You are trying to build an accurate picture of how other people experience you.
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00:14:09.360Some feedback will be useful, some will be vague, occasionally some will be complete nonsense delivered with impressive confidence.
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00:14:12.480You do not have to accept every comment as truth.
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00:14:14.000Look for patents.
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00:14:18.399If different people are giving you similar feedback, pay attention.
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00:14:21.919It can help to perform a simple reputation check as well.
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00:14:25.759Write down the three qualities you would like people to associate with you.
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00:14:30.320Perhaps calm judgment, clear communication, and reliable delivery.
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00:14:32.799Then ask yourself a harder question.
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00:14:37.200What have I done recently that would cause somebody else to use those words?
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00:14:40.000Intentions do not create a reputation.
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00:14:42.080Repeated experiences do.
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00:14:48.320If you want to be seen as strategic, bring a thoughtful recommendation that considers the wider business.
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00:14:52.399If you want to be seen as a leader, help another person succeed.
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00:14:57.519If you want to be seen as dependable, communicate early when a commitment is at risk.
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00:15:01.679Choose the reputation you want, then create honest evidence for it.
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00:15:05.759One final point visibility cannot be occasional.
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00:15:12.639If you suddenly begin promoting your achievements two weeks before a promotion decision, it feels like a campaign because it is one.
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00:15:23.279Reputation is built through a steady pattern, good work, clear communication, reliable judgment, helpful relationships, evidence of readiness.
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00:15:28.240None of this requires you to become louder, more political, or less genuine.
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00:15:34.080It requires you to stop assuming that your work explains itself, because it usually does not.
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00:15:40.399Here is your action for this week.
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00:15:45.360Take one piece of work you are proud of and describe it in three sentences.
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00:15:48.559First, what was the situation or problem?
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00:15:51.840Second, what did you contribute?
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00:15:54.159Third, what changed as a result?
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00:15:56.399Keep it factual, keep it brief.
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00:16:04.399Then use it in your next conversation with your manager, your next project update, or your own career notes, for example.
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00:16:09.360The team was losing time because ownership of the approval process was unclear.
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00:16:16.799I brought the affected groups together, clarified the decision points, and agreed a single owner for each stage.
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00:16:19.840Approval time fell from 10 days to four.
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00:16:21.360That is not boasting.
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00:16:23.360It is a clear account of value.
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00:16:30.399Do this once a week, and within a few months you will have something many people reach review season without evidence.
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00:16:32.879That is your put it to work for this week.
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00:16:39.039If this episode was useful, follow or subscribe to How Work Really Works with Steve.
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00:16:48.720Next time we are going to talk about how to communicate with senior leaders, including why more detail is rarely the answer and what they actually need from you.
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00:16:52.399Until then, keep doing good work, just don't make it a secret.