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Check, check, check.
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We back with another one.
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Every day above ground is a blessing, y'all.
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Always remember that.
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He'll deliver great audio, great visual, great experience, great everything.
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As we get ready to check into this game, y'all, y'all know how we do.
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Right about this time.
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I can do this all day.
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We can do this all day.
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Yeah, I know.
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We can do this all day, baby.
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Let's get to it.
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Millennial Music Wire, your boy, checking in for the warm-up.
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Let's do it.
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Take you out to a little different place today.
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Take it back to a time, take it back to a place, take it back to an era.
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They don't make them like they used to.
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Come along with me, ladies.
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Fellas, let's go.
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She found all the numbers I had in my car.
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She did.
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Oh.
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She caught all the ones I had in my foot star.
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Star though.
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Oh Star is crazy.
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Oh I can do this all day.
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Do it wrong, doing wrong.
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Word for word, if you know it, let's sing it.
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Wherever you have, wherever you watch it from, wherever you listening from right now, turn us up to ignore volumes.
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Let's five.
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They call up my phone and saying you think you a DJ now.
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My running answer is now just a real nigga with real tunes.
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Real slaps.
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Let's go.
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Talk to him, fellas.
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Tell her.
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Don't go, baby.
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I was gonna get right back.
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Shout to Tank 2.
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Seen him on the little men's health podcast.
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Talking about his regiment.
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It's good to see the OGs taking care of themselves.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Now you buy the biggest.
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Make sure health and wellness is the is a thing.
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Let's go.
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Just vibe for now.
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Fellas, stay with me.
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Ladies, stay with me.
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Let's stay right here.
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Please don't go, baby.
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One time.
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What the fuck are you doing?
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I can do this all day.
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Yeah, I know.
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One time.
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Everybody in the floor right now.
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Tell the DJ to turn it loud.
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Display girls who got their own car.
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Display girls who got their own creep.
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Display girls who got their own teeth.
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Warm it up with me now.
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Get them joys loops.
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Break that sweat.
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You know the deal, throw a little bit more weight on that bar.
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Get a little deeper into that range of motion if it's your mobility day.
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Put a couple more inches on that box.
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If it's your power performance day, whatever you're doing, just vibe.
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And I know they say you know the whole RB vibe for the playlist for the workouts isn't a thing.
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But if you really, really know, sometimes the best workout music is the RB.
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And ladies, hike them shorts up.
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You know the vibes.
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Fuck these niggas.
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They told me not to talk about it.
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We gon' do it.
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Only to the sunny boat.
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Got my whole queen at home, you heard?
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Thanks for coming and check in.
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Hopefully you feel that body heating up.
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Get ready for the task ahead.
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Getting ready for some good talks.
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Good monologues.
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We smooth today.
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We smooth today.
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We smooth in that warm-up line.
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I'll be a boy.
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Get ready to dominate it.
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Talk to us.
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And just like that, we keep this thing rolling, man.
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Stay with me, millennials.
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If you're from that time, that place, that era, vibe with me.
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We can do this all day, baby.
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Let's go.
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I can say you know, but now I want it more than anything.
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If I walk away and just let you leave.
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You'll be stuck in my head like a melody.
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I know you want it.
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I'm hesitating.
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Why?
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You must be crazy.
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I gotta make you gotta lady.
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I know we here together, so this must be something.
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Little link up.
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Lil' sneaky link in the corner that club.
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Find that wall, hold it up.
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No coincidence, it was meant to be.
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Don't be shy, gon' let your boy get.
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So you can tell all of your friends who was don't gonna remix.
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Talk to a stop on you, you'll be scared.
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Take this up.
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Side to side, head knot with it.
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No shoulder roll, ain't nothing wrong with it.
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No, we gotta rock to the B verse.
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You know we gotta rock to the B-verse.
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I can do this all day.
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One time.
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Baby, you'll know what we found.
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But we can't have all these people staring, standing around.
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But you get him carried away.
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Keep this one up on stay with me.
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I'ma make it feel ticked in your heartest to make me give in.
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But I'ma give you what you're if you keep it up.
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Go ahead and get loose, y'all.
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If you ain't there yet, we still got a little bit longer.
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We'll get to it when we get through it.
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Just vibe for now.
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You know this warm-up is a trans viral experience.
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Something for everybody.
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Any given day, any given moment.
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Just kept the vibe with your boy a little bit longer.
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We're going through the wavers, fuck it.
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Started on a go.
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Started with a hook.
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Do it like a spec.
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I mean we could do it like a D.
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VIP.
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Get it on.
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I'm like, J for playing this sound.
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Yes, we could.
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Remember how this feel when it's out of here.
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And we started with a hood, but now we making love in this club.
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And we make a style just big cows.
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The people in the crowd are watching us.
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Yes, sir.
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They watchin'.
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They don't give a fuck about these niggas.
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Keep on doing our thing, baby.
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Remix, big babe.
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Listen, man, we got one more for y'all.
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We got one more for y'all.
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Completely consensual.
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Completely two parties.
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Involved in the same kind of spirit, same vibe.
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We ain't with these creep niggas.
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That ain't even my type.
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That ain't even in my my anatomy, my chemistry.
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That ain't in my bill, baby.
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Let's talk though.
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Baby, you summer time fine.
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I let you get on top, I be the underline.
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Um like the number nine.
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Dime, you fine as hell.
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I guess I met you for a reason.
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Only time could tell.
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But well, I'm wondering what type of shit.
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But you a simple woman.
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Would you drink with a nigga?
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Do you smoke?
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I could just talk to me.
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Girl, I caught the vibes like you do something to me.
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So I throw 'em back.
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Now my niggas holler.
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Big part of his self-awareness.
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You gotta catch the vibe first, fellas, before you pursue.
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Different time, different place, different.
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We got a little bit longer here, man.
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Get them joints, please.
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Get that body right dump on somebody.
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The sun rising while you're moaning.
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Uh baby, you winter time cold.
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The night is still young.
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Drink that dinner wine slow.
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I'm tryna make the goosebumps on your inner thigh show.
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I'll let you beat me there as far as finish lines go.
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Yeah, and if you gotta leave for work, I'll be right here in the same bed that you left.
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I love big women.
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I used to go to the stables and get them kids to bet me.
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And I would always ride the stallions whenever she let me.
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I mean that thing is up.
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I mean, you kinda like that curves and then you a soap.
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I mean, I got this hidden agenda that you provoking.
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I got bad water.
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Things I can do with ocean.
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No need a tie, we could drive in the covers.
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And when you think you like it, I promise you gon' love it.
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Yeah, when light's coming through the drapes, and we both yawning.
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I roll up one more question.
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Ask if I can hit it in the morning.
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Can I hit it in the morning?
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Yeah, can I hit it in the morning?
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Yeah, the sun rising while you're moanin', baby.
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Can I hit it in the morning?
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I can do this whole day.
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Yeah, can I hit it in the morning?
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The sun rising while you're moaning.
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Hey, and listen, man.
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Thanks for coming to check in.
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Thanks for coming to warm up.
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Hopefully, you feel good and ready to roll now.
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Cause as always, we are back for another audio occasion.
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It is a podcast for self-starters and those willing to make the utmost out of any situation.
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The EFS Podcast is back.
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Here's your boy here to deliver.
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Great audio on the way in.
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Once I get my shit queued up, let's make it happen.
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There we go, man.
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A little motivation on the way in.
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Let's get to it.
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When did I don't feel like it?
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Become a good enough reason not to do it.
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Because somewhere along the way, we started confusing acknowledging how we feel with believing every feeling needs to be accommodated.
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Listen, no, you know me.
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I'm Coach Robert Blackwood.
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I've spent decades developing young athletes.
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And one thing this game has taught me is you can absolutely acknowledge how you feel without allowing how you feel to make every decision.
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And that's what I call the mild inconvenience principle.
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Listen, I'm not talking about injury, I'm not talking about legitimate mental or physical health concerns.
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I'm not talking about recovery when your body actually needs recovery.
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I'm frustrated.
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I'm uncomfortable.
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Today wasn't a good day.
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I just don't feel like going today.
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Okay, I believe you.
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But here's something we're gonna have to get comfortable saying again.
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Not every uncomfortable feeling requires accommodation.
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Sometimes you just don't feel like it.
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And you know what?
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You can still go, you can still practice, you can still live, you can still study, you can still show up, you can still honor the commitment you made when you felt completely different than the way you feel today.
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Because here's what I think we're getting confused.
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It doesn't mean that the feeling gets authority over your decision.
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You can just like that, man.
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We leave it at that before we go too much longer with the OG talking to y'all.
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But as always, as we get this thing rolling, cue my theme music, let my shit run.
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Couple air horns on the way in.
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Get this cord off my arm.
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Couple more air horns on the way in.
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Round of applause on the way in, man, because we are back for another episode number 91 of the EFS Podcast.
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As always, if you made it to the audio slash visual, please do not forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe.
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It is your boy, the man, the myth, the legend from the biggest brand you don't know about yet, the EFS brand himself, Mr.
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1% Two Times, D Burke here for number 91.
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As I said, man.
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So as we tip, uh as we make our way to the top of this thing, of course, let's get this theme music faded out.
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And then we will check in, open up some conversation.
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Hopefully, I ain't getting canceled with some of this conversation we got coming.
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Hopefully I ain't getting, you know, attacked.
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Uh, I think I'm gonna handle it responsibly though.
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Um I will say first and foremost, this is the hottest thing on my timeline over the last few days, so you know why not pick up and share my perspective.
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It does fall close to uh areas and places that I frequent and the industry that I'm kind of in.
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Um and uh uh I I have thoughts on this one uh in general.
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Um and respect to everyone.
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But we're talking about the whole Shane Gillis situation.
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I was told specifically uh by Queen Christine not to touch this one just because she knows you know some of my thoughts and perspectives may be a little bit different than others.
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Uh but I told her I can I think I can handle this responsibly, so we're gonna broach we're gonna broach a talk on it.
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Um so if you hadn't heard We Must Live Under a Rock for Shane Gillis, uh the comedian was on Saturday Night Live and said some things uh within his monologue that were a little offensive to uh a lot of people, I would say.
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And there's been a lot of reaction, a lot of backlash, a lot of just opinions swirling around uh off the topic itself.
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Um basically, uh we'll read the comments, but you know, we don't necessarily say we're condoning them, we're just giving you the facts.
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Uh in his monologue, he said, I haven't been to a gym in so long.
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I just I didn't know women just dress like fours now.
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Um from there he continues to say, Look, I'm sorry, there's no other way to describe it.
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Uh you have you seen it?
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I've seen it, you've seen the shorts, and don't look.
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You're not allowed to look.
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Uh so these are just a couple of the comments that he said uh during his monologue, which have then received a lot of backlash online, uh definitely from the female community, uh the women community.
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Um and I also think the women are kind of split on this one because I have seen a lot of women uh who lean on one side of the fence and then who lean on the other side of the fence as well.
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Uh so I think it has been an interesting conversation uh to kind of take part in, um not take part in from like really in that way, but to kind of witness, I would say, more of more than more than take part in.
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Um my thoughts on the whole situation I think that sometimes men just gotta do the proper thing and shut the fuck up.
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And it's pretty much just you know, just that part of it for me.
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Um just sometimes you just gotta shut up as a man.
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Um and not to say that Shane Gillis has to shut up.
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Uh I do think that Shane Gillis is as controversial as he is as a comedian.
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Um I do think that he, you know, shares a lot of his opinions under the g the guise of comedy, um, and uh maybe some truth to it, maybe some not.
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I do think there is a safe space for comedy.
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Uh I also think society itself has gotten a lot, you know, PC within the last 10 or 15 years or so, so it does make it harder on comedians, uh, because jokes that they would have been able to get off in the past they might not be able to get off now.
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Um so I don't know Shane Gillis personally.
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I've seen some of the things he said.
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Do I think he's funny sometimes?
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Do I think he crosses the line sometimes?
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Yes.
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Uh I do think using the word whores to describe women uh can be a little bit touchy, even it is a c even if it is a comedic bit, uh, which I think that's what he was using his monologue at Saturday Night Live for is as a comedic bit.
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Um and if you've seen a lot of his comedy, if you've seen comedy in general, the comedians are meant to kind of like push the line a little bit when it comes to things that they're speaking about and how they speak about them in general.
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Um so do I think it's comedy?
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I do think that it is comedy and sometimes the jokes just don't land.
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And if your joke don't land, then for me, then you know, you're open to people's critique of your comedic, you know, whatever you put out there.
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Um so the whole whores part, I ain't really agreeing with calling women whores in that way.
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Uh even if it is a comedic fit, again, just because of where we're at in society nowadays, uh things can be very triggering.
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Uh so to the second point of it, with the whole shorts thing and then just having the the perspective on, you know, what women are wearing nowadays in the gym.
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Um, I do think that here's where men, you gotta kinda tap out on the issue as far as giving your perspectives on it uh in front of women, you know.
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Um and I might have my own perspectives on it in general, but I do not think it is a time for me to share them because this issue or this I wanna say, you know, this situation itself is kind of their lane to defend themselves for.
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Or the lane to, you know, have it out with each other for because again, there are women who think one way and there are also women who think the other way.
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Um and we're seeing a lot of it now, uh, just because of everything that this conversation or excuse me, the monologue opened up for conversation on.
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Um and I do think that again, men gotta gotta sit this one out and let the women have their perspectives.
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Uh and even more so, I would say, in support of the women in this conversation that feel like what he said was out of line.
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Um I know that as a trainer, someone who works in a gym, someone who's around women, a lot of the women may dress the way that Shane Gillis was describing uh when I see them in the gym.
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Um my thoughts on it is just that ladies gonna wear what they wanna wear.
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Like we've gotten past the point of being able to tell women what to wear, being able to control what women wear, and being able to, you know, really, really critique what they're doing with their bodies.
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We adjust we just at that state of society right now.
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So again, sometimes you gotta sit it out and let the women have their thing.
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Uh and I do think that a lot of the conversation, to add to what I was just saying, I do think a lot of the conversation for women uh kind of goes around the whole creep thing.
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Uh and that is the guys that creep on them in the gym or while they're at the gym, and uh, you know, the fact that what they're wearing may be something that can, I guess, give them a little bit more attention from that.
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Not to say that that's what they're looking for.
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Um, some of them, yes.
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I would say there are women that wear those kinds of things for the attention.
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Uh but I do think there are also women who just ain't really putting that much into it.
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You know, they just trying to get a lift in, they think it's cute, they want to rock it.
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Again, that's just where we're at right now.
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And I respect it for women, I respect it for men who, you know, want to wear whatever they want to wear in the gym, the hoochie daddy shorts, the cutoff tank tops.
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Like, people wear what the fuck they want to wear when they work out.
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Like, so for me, any kind of like I guess creep vibes around that is what our women are kind of standing up for themselves on because I've seen women on online sharing stories about how, you know, they were wearing sweatpants and then they still got hit on a gym.
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I've seen women online talking about how they wore shorts and were followed to their car just because guys, you know, are you know thinking that you know they're what they're wearing gives them license to.
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Than you know, creep on them or hit on them or whatever, you know.
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And a lot of that shit is just the male, like horny, just and also again, creepy and horny, all of that shit mixed in one.
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Uh, but I do understand that a lot of women have to deal with that kind of shit.
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As someone who you know doesn't really move that way, I can check the fellas when it gets to be a little bit creepy in that way too.
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So, fellas, we got to do a better job of making sure that, you know, the ones, the real ones, I would say, got to do a better job of speaking up with our voices and letting them know that there are guys out there that are like that, the creeps, but they're also dudes who can respect you in the gym, you know.
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And maybe the only thing I'm coming over to help you with is uh putting a little bit more weight on your bar or something like that, you know, or helping you critique with some form.
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Because I think a lot of that gets cross-wired, and then there is a wall-up for women uh as far as uh letting men enter their space.
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And with respect to them, with the way things have been in society for a long, long time, I do understand that, you know.
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So in this situation, overall, I just think it's not men's real job to give an opinion on, you know.
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And one man went out there and said something, but that don't mean the rest of us now got to stand up and start speaking up for him or speaking against him or whatever.
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You know, I just think that in general, like women have their space, and this is the time for them to exercise and make space for themselves to share their opinions, and that's just how I feel about it.
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All right, so real quick moving forward from there, I want to hit the sports world for a quick spin, seeing some things going around.
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Uh the NFL weekend was wild as hell, I would say.
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Um, and currently the Giants are still sitting at the top of the NFC East.
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So shouts to the Giants for everything they're doing.
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Uh, but also not really shouts out to the Giants because they kind of put themselves in a shitty position that last game and could have got the win.
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Um and uh off of the weekend, it was funny to see the stat that you know the in the NFC East, this is the first week where no team had a win, uh, but two of the teams within the NFC East played each other.
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So very interesting and funny stat uh to kind of along with call go along with the tie between my Giants and the Washington Commanders over the weekend uh with a very poorly executed fourth quarter and uh well not fourth quarter, overtime, excuse me, by both teams, uh, which ended in a draw, and that's just how it goes.
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So we'll take the win uh as a draw, or we'll take the draw, excuse me, as a win.
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Um and we still sit at the top of the NFC East.
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So listen, we'll take it.
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We'll take it.
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Moving on from there, we will talk football, uh, the other football we'll say.
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Um, and that is kind of just furthering the conversation that we've been having for decades now.
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Well, over a decade now, I would say, not decades, but uh the Messi and Ronaldo conversation has now been re-ignited.
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Um, and I don't think it's ever really not been ignited ever since the World Cup and the end of the World Cup with the way that Ronaldo's career has gone, plus the way Messi's career has gone and the things we're seeing from both of them.
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Um Ronaldo has now recently went out there and basically staked his claim as the greatest player of all time.
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Um I don't really know if he said the greatest player of all time.
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I think he specifically said he's the greatest goal scorer of all time and kind of, you know, defended himself just because of the way things are going for him with the whole Portugal and him being off the team, him being on the team situation, and him having the list of things to, you know, make the coach apologize about before he can come back to the team.
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This is just another one of these moments where I think he's exercising his prima donna um and a lot of his inner child and a lot of his inner bitch.
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Like, you know, for me, this is kind of why I hold back on the Ronaldo conversation because I operate from it with a specific bias as a Messi fan.
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And I know Messi fans, you know, have our feelings about Ronaldo and they're not a monolith, so you can kind of feel one way or another.
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I think I'm at the point where I respect what both of them have done in their careers, uh, but I also don't really like this motherfucker Ronaldo's personality.
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And I can be honest and say that, which is why I try not to go back and forth with both of them too much because I'm operating from a biased perspective.
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Like I don't fuck with Ronaldo's personality.
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Like what he does on the field, what he does on the pitch, I can respect it.
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But as a person, I think he is very fucking annoying.
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Um, and he runs around with this whole like facade that he's you know ironclad and he's unbreakable, but then he's had many moments where he's come up small.
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Um, but always is the loudest about you know, shouting out his accomplishments or you know, where his stake is at in history.
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And as someone who's a confident individual, I'm an athlete.
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I shout about a lot of the shit I've done at any point as an athlete.
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I get it, I understand it.
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But for me, when it comes in competition with one other person who they've been putting pitting you against since both of y'all was really lit and really popping again about a decade or so ago.
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Um, and y'all have had this back and forth for so, so long, I do think that it burns him up inside that everyone is starting to consider Messi as the real, real, real GOAT just because he actually is.
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Um, and a complete player is one thing, goal scorer is another.
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And I do think that both of these guys score a lot of goals.
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The statistics say that they do.
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Um, but I do think that in Ronaldo's situation, he ain't really got much more than that over top of Messi.
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And Messi is going to be top one or two in multiple categories you can look at as a football player, as a soccer player.
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Um, and I think that's what gives him the edge over Ronaldo.
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And he's won more than Ronaldo, and he's done everything in his career as far as awards bigger than Ronaldo and better than Ronaldo.
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So I don't understand, you know, why this constant back and forth still has to continue.
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Uh, but I do think it also continues because the people involved in it, i.e.
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Ronaldo, are opening his mouth to say, like, yeah, I'm the best at this, I'm the best at that.
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Like, you know, I uh at some point at this age, you should just be worried about riding out the rest of your career and making the most of your actual experience within the soccer that you have left.
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And Messi has never been one to speak up and call himself the GOAT.
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I think he just goes out there and does what he does and let the people speak for him, which is what I feel like true GOATs do.
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Um, your legacy is left behind you for the other people to talk about, you know, and that's the way I look at it.
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And I know that, you know, I might be coming off a little bit harsh on Ronaldo, but I really just don't fuck with the dude, like as far as personality.
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Player, great player, all time, maybe number two, uh, depending on who you're asking.
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But at the end of the day, bro, we you know we know who the number one is, and just ride it out into the sunset, bro.
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Ride it out to the sunset.
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Like, you ain't playing the best football right now compared to Messi in general, and all we're really hearing about from you is more of the stuff off the pitch than on the pitch, which is where it gets even more annoying for a player who's in the twilight of his career, plus 40.
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Like, come on, bro, just relax.
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Play ball and decide when you want to retire.
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And that's about it.
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Moving on and moving away from the sports world, just a couple other things wanted to touch on, and one of the main things that kind of sat on my heart and spirit this week.
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Uh, after reading or seeing a post that I saw uh on came across my feed on Instagram, I can't find it right now.
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Uh I won't waste time trying to do that.
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But uh it went into the whole concept of inspiration uh and how people who are inspired by someone else can take that inspiration and then turn it to like hate, you know, um, and how it takes a real self-aware person, how it takes a real confident person to appreciate the inspiration that they receive from others, uh, and then use that for whatever motivation they need or you know can have for their own life or whatever they're trying to achieve.
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Um and that one kind of sat with me, man, just because I've been in a state recently to where, and I put out something on my story basically the other day about this, but uh I wanted to further elaborate on it just because I've been in a space of like trying to draw inspiration from different things in different places outside of just myself and my own internal drive.
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Uh, just because uh I feel like those kind of things help me push to you know get further or push for more, or just like you know, my inner competitiveness with myself uh needs something to kind of grasp onto to say, alright, cool, let's get to it, you know.
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Um and uh I do recognize that not everyone feels that way.
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Uh and again, how that process processes for them as people uh can turn into a position to where they really just shit on you and hate on you, you know.
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Um and not to say that I am someone who's never felt that way in my life, but I'm not really a paider kind of person.
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Like I can appreciate other people doing well, and what I normally do when I see that is uh put it in the lens of like, oh shit, if he can do it, I can do it.
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You know, like if he can get so many followers, then yeah, I can probably do it too.
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If they can get to this dollar X amount, then I can probably do it too.
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You know, as a player, if he can get to the point where he's a 35, 40% three-point shooter, then yeah, I can probably do that too.
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You just gotta put the work in and literally get to the solution, which is the goal, you know.
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And I don't think that it gets highlighted enough that the people that don't look at it like that are the ones that really don't get far in their own life because they're so worried about giving negative energy towards someone else's success that they're not putting enough positive energy into their own success, you know.
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And those would be the people that five, ten years down the line you're looking at and they're blaming everyone else for the reason they weren't able to achieve uh XYZ, you know.
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Um, so for me it is important to recognize that others around you can give you inspiration, and it'd be okay with looking at them to say they might be this far ahead of me, but I can catch up to them little by little by little.
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Or maybe as they get further, I get further, and the rising tide lifts all ships, you know.
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And I don't think that mentality is prevalent enough and something that people are more uh supportive of within even more so, you know, just a competitive community like the fitness space, you know.
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Um, and what I do often realize when I get into you know conversations with other trainers, other gym owners now, I'm always checking for the initial reaction to, you know, either how I reach out, either when I reach out to them or when we meet up face to face, you know, uh, because I've always been a person who's big on energy and picking up other people's energy uh off of our interactions and then uh using that for what I need to know outside of what they're saying with their mouth, you know.
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Um and I've been in a position where even myself trying to inspire others, like they would look at it like, you know, it's a negative thing to start hating on me, or copying my moves and then make it their own, and then try to, you know, act like I wasn't the one that either lined them up to do that or was helpful in their process of doing that, you know.
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And I try not to do things for people or try not to put myself into a place of where I do something for you and I'm expecting something back from it.
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Um but I do recognize when uh I do something for someone and then the appreciation and the reciprocation is shown, and that makes me feel like you know I was in the right space with helping them in the first place, you know.
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So I've seen it on that side, but I've also again seen it to where now I feel like I need other people who are doing better than me to be the ones that help, you know, and goes along with the cliche saying of like, you know, you're only as successful as the people you surround yourself with.
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Like I'm at that point now where the people I want to be connected to are usually gonna be the ones that I think can get me a little bit further in my uh in my mission, I would say, and my purpose for myself, you know, and it's not to say that I won't ever be around other people that, you know, aren't of that nature, but at the same time, like I kind of put a lot of those relationships to the to the back burner right now just because the people that love me love me and they know that I'm trying to get to something and they may not hear from me for a little bit, but you know, I'm on a mission.
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Or they're gonna see me post something online and be like these I, you know, like ain't no need to really check in that much.
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But the conversations that I really seek out now and the people that I really want to soak energy up from are the ones that I feel like I want to know how they did something.
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I want to know how they were able to execute this, or you know, what they can, you know, what learning curves they can help me overcome uh by giving me some of the game that they've you know learned from themselves.
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And that's the way I I operate with anybody who may be quote unquote behind me and whatever they're chasing, you know.
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And you know my motto and this whole you know EFS thing started with the mentality of if you foreign veins, excuse me, you have acquired knowledge if you do not impart it to others.
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So, you know, for me, if you're not sharing the game and you're a gatekeeping kind of motherfucker, like to me, that that that shows itself that you also are someone, you know, who who may be the one that's hating on the the people that may be inspired dumb and got it, and however have gotten ahead for yourself.
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Because uh I never was a gatekeeping type of person, but I do know that uh it happens very, very much in the training industry, whether it be sports performance training, whether it be skills training, whether it be personal training.
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Like I feel like we hate on each other too much when there should be enough room for us all to grow if we just understand that what we offer is necessary and we just gotta spread it to the point where more people want it, you know.
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And I think we get so crabs in the barrel when it comes to our clients, comes to the people that, you know, we want to uh keep for ourselves, but we won't refer out someone if we know that someone else can help them better, or we won't, you know, just be the person to shout another trainer out or repost another trainer that may be in the area just because we feel like you know it's a threat to us.
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And that mentality for me is something I want to put to bed and and really just start to push more positivity in that way.
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Uh, so much so that I do want to start having conversations with other people that are literally direct competitors of me, uh, and then open up for real connection and understanding each other's mission, and then maybe being able to help each other along the way just because the rising tide lifts all ships, you know.
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And I've always been in that perspective.
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Um, but again, I know there's others, another side of it that we always got to weed through.
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Um, but that said, man, that's really it for today.
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Wanted to tap in with y'all for a couple perspectives, share a couple thoughts.
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Um, and uh as we move forward, you know, we'll we'll start to mix in some of those other combos.
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Guys are people that I've spoken to for sure.
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Um, some people I'm looking to, you know, get on the podcast and start having more in-person conversations to where we are really just bouncing off ideas and connecting, because again, that's what I'm all about.
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Uh so as always, as we leave you, don't forget to stay sharp, stay safe, mentally, physically, spiritually, and all things in between.
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Stay safe in this crazy world.
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And as we are out of here, man, as always, episode number 91 of the EFS Podcast is out.
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Peace later.
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Check, check, check.
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We back with another one.
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Every day above ground is a blessing, y'all.
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Always remember that.
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He'll deliver great audio, great visual, great experience, great everything.
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As we get ready to check into this game, y'all, y'all know how we do.
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Right about this time.
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I can do this all day.
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We can do this all day.
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Yeah, I know.
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We can do this all day, baby.
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Let's get to it.
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Millennial Music Wire, your boy, checking in for the warm-up.
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Let's do it.
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Take you out to a little different place today.
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Take it back to a time, take it back to a place, take it back to an era.
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They don't make them like they used to.
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Come along with me, ladies.
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Fellas, let's go.
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She found all the numbers I had in my car.
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She did.
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Oh.
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She caught all the ones I had in my foot star.
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Star though.
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Oh Star is crazy.
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Oh I can do this all day.
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Do it wrong, doing wrong.
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Word for word, if you know it, let's sing it.
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Wherever you have, wherever you watch it from, wherever you listening from right now, turn us up to ignore volumes.
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Let's five.
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They call up my phone and saying you think you a DJ now.
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My running answer is now just a real nigga with real tunes.
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Real slaps.
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Let's go.
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Talk to him, fellas.
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Tell her.
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Don't go, baby.
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I was gonna get right back.
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Shout to Tank 2.
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Seen him on the little men's health podcast.
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Talking about his regiment.
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It's good to see the OGs taking care of themselves.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Now you buy the biggest.
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Make sure health and wellness is the is a thing.
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Let's go.
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Just vibe for now.
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Fellas, stay with me.
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Ladies, stay with me.
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Let's stay right here.
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Please don't go, baby.
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One time.
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What the fuck are you doing?
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I can do this all day.
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Yeah, I know.
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One time.
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Everybody in the floor right now.
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Tell the DJ to turn it loud.
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Display girls who got their own car.
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Display girls who got their own creep.
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Display girls who got their own teeth.
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Warm it up with me now.
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Get them joys loops.
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Break that sweat.
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You know the deal, throw a little bit more weight on that bar.
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Get a little deeper into that range of motion if it's your mobility day.
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Put a couple more inches on that box.
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If it's your power performance day, whatever you're doing, just vibe.
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And I know they say you know the whole RB vibe for the playlist for the workouts isn't a thing.
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But if you really, really know, sometimes the best workout music is the RB.
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And ladies, hike them shorts up.
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You know the vibes.
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Fuck these niggas.
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They told me not to talk about it.
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We gon' do it.
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Only to the sunny boat.
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Got my whole queen at home, you heard?
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Thanks for coming and check in.
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Hopefully you feel that body heating up.
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Get ready for the task ahead.
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Getting ready for some good talks.
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Good monologues.
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We smooth today.
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We smooth today.
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We smooth in that warm-up line.
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I'll be a boy.
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Get ready to dominate it.
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Talk to us.
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And just like that, we keep this thing rolling, man.
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Stay with me, millennials.
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If you're from that time, that place, that era, vibe with me.
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We can do this all day, baby.
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Let's go.
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I can say you know, but now I want it more than anything.
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If I walk away and just let you leave.
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You'll be stuck in my head like a melody.
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I know you want it.
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I'm hesitating.
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Why?
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You must be crazy.
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I gotta make you gotta lady.
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I know we here together, so this must be something.
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Little link up.
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Lil' sneaky link in the corner that club.
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Find that wall, hold it up.
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No coincidence, it was meant to be.
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Don't be shy, gon' let your boy get.
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So you can tell all of your friends who was don't gonna remix.
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Talk to a stop on you, you'll be scared.
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Take this up.
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Side to side, head knot with it.
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No shoulder roll, ain't nothing wrong with it.
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No, we gotta rock to the B verse.
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You know we gotta rock to the B-verse.
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I can do this all day.
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One time.
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Baby, you'll know what we found.
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But we can't have all these people staring, standing around.
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But you get him carried away.
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Keep this one up on stay with me.
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I'ma make it feel ticked in your heartest to make me give in.
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But I'ma give you what you're if you keep it up.
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Go ahead and get loose, y'all.
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If you ain't there yet, we still got a little bit longer.
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We'll get to it when we get through it.
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Just vibe for now.
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You know this warm-up is a trans viral experience.
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Something for everybody.
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Any given day, any given moment.
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Just kept the vibe with your boy a little bit longer.
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We're going through the wavers, fuck it.
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Started on a go.
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Started with a hook.
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Do it like a spec.
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I mean we could do it like a D.
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VIP.
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Get it on.
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I'm like, J for playing this sound.
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Yes, we could.
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Remember how this feel when it's out of here.
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And we started with a hood, but now we making love in this club.
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And we make a style just big cows.
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The people in the crowd are watching us.
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Yes, sir.
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They watchin'.
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They don't give a fuck about these niggas.
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Keep on doing our thing, baby.
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Remix, big babe.
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Listen, man, we got one more for y'all.
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We got one more for y'all.
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Completely consensual.
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Completely two parties.
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Involved in the same kind of spirit, same vibe.
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We ain't with these creep niggas.
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That ain't even my type.
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That ain't even in my my anatomy, my chemistry.
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That ain't in my bill, baby.
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Let's talk though.
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Baby, you summer time fine.
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I let you get on top, I be the underline.
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Um like the number nine.
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Dime, you fine as hell.
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I guess I met you for a reason.
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Only time could tell.
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But well, I'm wondering what type of shit.
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But you a simple woman.
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Would you drink with a nigga?
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Do you smoke?
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I could just talk to me.
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Girl, I caught the vibes like you do something to me.
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So I throw 'em back.
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Now my niggas holler.
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Big part of his self-awareness.
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You gotta catch the vibe first, fellas, before you pursue.
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Different time, different place, different.
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We got a little bit longer here, man.
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Get them joints, please.
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Get that body right dump on somebody.
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The sun rising while you're moaning.
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Uh baby, you winter time cold.
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The night is still young.
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Drink that dinner wine slow.
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I'm tryna make the goosebumps on your inner thigh show.
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I'll let you beat me there as far as finish lines go.
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Yeah, and if you gotta leave for work, I'll be right here in the same bed that you left.
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I love big women.
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I used to go to the stables and get them kids to bet me.
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And I would always ride the stallions whenever she let me.
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I mean that thing is up.
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I mean, you kinda like that curves and then you a soap.
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I mean, I got this hidden agenda that you provoking.
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I got bad water.
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Things I can do with ocean.
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No need a tie, we could drive in the covers.
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And when you think you like it, I promise you gon' love it.
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Yeah, when light's coming through the drapes, and we both yawning.
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I roll up one more question.
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Ask if I can hit it in the morning.
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Can I hit it in the morning?
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Yeah, can I hit it in the morning?
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Yeah, the sun rising while you're moanin', baby.
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Can I hit it in the morning?
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I can do this whole day.
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Yeah, can I hit it in the morning?
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The sun rising while you're moaning.
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Hey, and listen, man.
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Thanks for coming to check in.
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Thanks for coming to warm up.
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Hopefully, you feel good and ready to roll now.
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Cause as always, we are back for another audio occasion.
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It is a podcast for self-starters and those willing to make the utmost out of any situation.
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The EFS Podcast is back.
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Here's your boy here to deliver.
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Great audio on the way in.
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Once I get my shit queued up, let's make it happen.
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There we go, man.
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A little motivation on the way in.
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Let's get to it.
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When did I don't feel like it?
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Become a good enough reason not to do it.
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Because somewhere along the way, we started confusing acknowledging how we feel with believing every feeling needs to be accommodated.
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Listen, no, you know me.
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I'm Coach Robert Blackwood.
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I've spent decades developing young athletes.
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And one thing this game has taught me is you can absolutely acknowledge how you feel without allowing how you feel to make every decision.
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And that's what I call the mild inconvenience principle.
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Listen, I'm not talking about injury, I'm not talking about legitimate mental or physical health concerns.
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I'm not talking about recovery when your body actually needs recovery.
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I'm frustrated.
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I'm uncomfortable.
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Today wasn't a good day.
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I just don't feel like going today.
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Okay, I believe you.
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But here's something we're gonna have to get comfortable saying again.
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Not every uncomfortable feeling requires accommodation.
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Sometimes you just don't feel like it.
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And you know what?
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You can still go, you can still practice, you can still live, you can still study, you can still show up, you can still honor the commitment you made when you felt completely different than the way you feel today.
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Because here's what I think we're getting confused.
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It doesn't mean that the feeling gets authority over your decision.
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You can just like that, man.
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We leave it at that before we go too much longer with the OG talking to y'all.
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But as always, as we get this thing rolling, cue my theme music, let my shit run.
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Couple air horns on the way in.
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Get this cord off my arm.
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Couple more air horns on the way in.
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Round of applause on the way in, man, because we are back for another episode number 91 of the EFS Podcast.
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As always, if you made it to the audio slash visual, please do not forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe.
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It is your boy, the man, the myth, the legend from the biggest brand you don't know about yet, the EFS brand himself, Mr.
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1% Two Times, D Burke here for number 91.
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As I said, man.
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So as we tip, uh as we make our way to the top of this thing, of course, let's get this theme music faded out.
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And then we will check in, open up some conversation.
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Hopefully, I ain't getting canceled with some of this conversation we got coming.
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Hopefully I ain't getting, you know, attacked.
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Uh, I think I'm gonna handle it responsibly though.
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Um I will say first and foremost, this is the hottest thing on my timeline over the last few days, so you know why not pick up and share my perspective.
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It does fall close to uh areas and places that I frequent and the industry that I'm kind of in.
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Um and uh uh I I have thoughts on this one uh in general.
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Um and respect to everyone.
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But we're talking about the whole Shane Gillis situation.
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I was told specifically uh by Queen Christine not to touch this one just because she knows you know some of my thoughts and perspectives may be a little bit different than others.
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Uh but I told her I can I think I can handle this responsibly, so we're gonna broach we're gonna broach a talk on it.
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Um so if you hadn't heard We Must Live Under a Rock for Shane Gillis, uh the comedian was on Saturday Night Live and said some things uh within his monologue that were a little offensive to uh a lot of people, I would say.
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And there's been a lot of reaction, a lot of backlash, a lot of just opinions swirling around uh off the topic itself.
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Um basically, uh we'll read the comments, but you know, we don't necessarily say we're condoning them, we're just giving you the facts.
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Uh in his monologue, he said, I haven't been to a gym in so long.
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I just I didn't know women just dress like fours now.
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Um from there he continues to say, Look, I'm sorry, there's no other way to describe it.
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Uh you have you seen it?
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I've seen it, you've seen the shorts, and don't look.
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You're not allowed to look.
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Uh so these are just a couple of the comments that he said uh during his monologue, which have then received a lot of backlash online, uh definitely from the female community, uh the women community.
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Um and I also think the women are kind of split on this one because I have seen a lot of women uh who lean on one side of the fence and then who lean on the other side of the fence as well.
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Uh so I think it has been an interesting conversation uh to kind of take part in, um not take part in from like really in that way, but to kind of witness, I would say, more of more than more than take part in.
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Um my thoughts on the whole situation I think that sometimes men just gotta do the proper thing and shut the fuck up.
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And it's pretty much just you know, just that part of it for me.
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Um just sometimes you just gotta shut up as a man.
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Um and not to say that Shane Gillis has to shut up.
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Uh I do think that Shane Gillis is as controversial as he is as a comedian.
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Um I do think that he, you know, shares a lot of his opinions under the g the guise of comedy, um, and uh maybe some truth to it, maybe some not.
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I do think there is a safe space for comedy.
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Uh I also think society itself has gotten a lot, you know, PC within the last 10 or 15 years or so, so it does make it harder on comedians, uh, because jokes that they would have been able to get off in the past they might not be able to get off now.
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Um so I don't know Shane Gillis personally.
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I've seen some of the things he said.
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Do I think he's funny sometimes?
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Do I think he crosses the line sometimes?
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Yes.
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Uh I do think using the word whores to describe women uh can be a little bit touchy, even it is a c even if it is a comedic bit, uh, which I think that's what he was using his monologue at Saturday Night Live for is as a comedic bit.
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Um and if you've seen a lot of his comedy, if you've seen comedy in general, the comedians are meant to kind of like push the line a little bit when it comes to things that they're speaking about and how they speak about them in general.
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Um so do I think it's comedy?
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I do think that it is comedy and sometimes the jokes just don't land.
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And if your joke don't land, then for me, then you know, you're open to people's critique of your comedic, you know, whatever you put out there.
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Um so the whole whores part, I ain't really agreeing with calling women whores in that way.
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Uh even if it is a comedic fit, again, just because of where we're at in society nowadays, uh things can be very triggering.
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Uh so to the second point of it, with the whole shorts thing and then just having the the perspective on, you know, what women are wearing nowadays in the gym.
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Um, I do think that here's where men, you gotta kinda tap out on the issue as far as giving your perspectives on it uh in front of women, you know.
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Um and I might have my own perspectives on it in general, but I do not think it is a time for me to share them because this issue or this I wanna say, you know, this situation itself is kind of their lane to defend themselves for.
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Or the lane to, you know, have it out with each other for because again, there are women who think one way and there are also women who think the other way.
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Um and we're seeing a lot of it now, uh, just because of everything that this conversation or excuse me, the monologue opened up for conversation on.
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Um and I do think that again, men gotta gotta sit this one out and let the women have their perspectives.
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Uh and even more so, I would say, in support of the women in this conversation that feel like what he said was out of line.
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Um I know that as a trainer, someone who works in a gym, someone who's around women, a lot of the women may dress the way that Shane Gillis was describing uh when I see them in the gym.
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Um my thoughts on it is just that ladies gonna wear what they wanna wear.
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Like we've gotten past the point of being able to tell women what to wear, being able to control what women wear, and being able to, you know, really, really critique what they're doing with their bodies.
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We adjust we just at that state of society right now.
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So again, sometimes you gotta sit it out and let the women have their thing.
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Uh and I do think that a lot of the conversation, to add to what I was just saying, I do think a lot of the conversation for women uh kind of goes around the whole creep thing.
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Uh and that is the guys that creep on them in the gym or while they're at the gym, and uh, you know, the fact that what they're wearing may be something that can, I guess, give them a little bit more attention from that.
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Not to say that that's what they're looking for.
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Um, some of them, yes.
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I would say there are women that wear those kinds of things for the attention.
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Uh but I do think there are also women who just ain't really putting that much into it.
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You know, they just trying to get a lift in, they think it's cute, they want to rock it.
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Again, that's just where we're at right now.
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And I respect it for women, I respect it for men who, you know, want to wear whatever they want to wear in the gym, the hoochie daddy shorts, the cutoff tank tops.
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Like, people wear what the fuck they want to wear when they work out.
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Like, so for me, any kind of like I guess creep vibes around that is what our women are kind of standing up for themselves on because I've seen women on online sharing stories about how, you know, they were wearing sweatpants and then they still got hit on a gym.
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I've seen women online talking about how they wore shorts and were followed to their car just because guys, you know, are you know thinking that you know they're what they're wearing gives them license to.
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Than you know, creep on them or hit on them or whatever, you know.
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And a lot of that shit is just the male, like horny, just and also again, creepy and horny, all of that shit mixed in one.
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Uh, but I do understand that a lot of women have to deal with that kind of shit.
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As someone who you know doesn't really move that way, I can check the fellas when it gets to be a little bit creepy in that way too.
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So, fellas, we got to do a better job of making sure that, you know, the ones, the real ones, I would say, got to do a better job of speaking up with our voices and letting them know that there are guys out there that are like that, the creeps, but they're also dudes who can respect you in the gym, you know.
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And maybe the only thing I'm coming over to help you with is uh putting a little bit more weight on your bar or something like that, you know, or helping you critique with some form.
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Because I think a lot of that gets cross-wired, and then there is a wall-up for women uh as far as uh letting men enter their space.
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And with respect to them, with the way things have been in society for a long, long time, I do understand that, you know.
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So in this situation, overall, I just think it's not men's real job to give an opinion on, you know.
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And one man went out there and said something, but that don't mean the rest of us now got to stand up and start speaking up for him or speaking against him or whatever.
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You know, I just think that in general, like women have their space, and this is the time for them to exercise and make space for themselves to share their opinions, and that's just how I feel about it.
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All right, so real quick moving forward from there, I want to hit the sports world for a quick spin, seeing some things going around.
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Uh the NFL weekend was wild as hell, I would say.
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Um, and currently the Giants are still sitting at the top of the NFC East.
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So shouts to the Giants for everything they're doing.
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Uh, but also not really shouts out to the Giants because they kind of put themselves in a shitty position that last game and could have got the win.
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Um and uh off of the weekend, it was funny to see the stat that you know the in the NFC East, this is the first week where no team had a win, uh, but two of the teams within the NFC East played each other.
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So very interesting and funny stat uh to kind of along with call go along with the tie between my Giants and the Washington Commanders over the weekend uh with a very poorly executed fourth quarter and uh well not fourth quarter, overtime, excuse me, by both teams, uh, which ended in a draw, and that's just how it goes.
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So we'll take the win uh as a draw, or we'll take the draw, excuse me, as a win.
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Um and we still sit at the top of the NFC East.
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So listen, we'll take it.
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We'll take it.
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Moving on from there, we will talk football, uh, the other football we'll say.
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Um, and that is kind of just furthering the conversation that we've been having for decades now.
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Well, over a decade now, I would say, not decades, but uh the Messi and Ronaldo conversation has now been re-ignited.
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Um, and I don't think it's ever really not been ignited ever since the World Cup and the end of the World Cup with the way that Ronaldo's career has gone, plus the way Messi's career has gone and the things we're seeing from both of them.
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Um Ronaldo has now recently went out there and basically staked his claim as the greatest player of all time.
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Um I don't really know if he said the greatest player of all time.
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I think he specifically said he's the greatest goal scorer of all time and kind of, you know, defended himself just because of the way things are going for him with the whole Portugal and him being off the team, him being on the team situation, and him having the list of things to, you know, make the coach apologize about before he can come back to the team.
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This is just another one of these moments where I think he's exercising his prima donna um and a lot of his inner child and a lot of his inner bitch.
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Like, you know, for me, this is kind of why I hold back on the Ronaldo conversation because I operate from it with a specific bias as a Messi fan.
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And I know Messi fans, you know, have our feelings about Ronaldo and they're not a monolith, so you can kind of feel one way or another.
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I think I'm at the point where I respect what both of them have done in their careers, uh, but I also don't really like this motherfucker Ronaldo's personality.
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And I can be honest and say that, which is why I try not to go back and forth with both of them too much because I'm operating from a biased perspective.
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Like I don't fuck with Ronaldo's personality.
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Like what he does on the field, what he does on the pitch, I can respect it.
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But as a person, I think he is very fucking annoying.
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Um, and he runs around with this whole like facade that he's you know ironclad and he's unbreakable, but then he's had many moments where he's come up small.
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Um, but always is the loudest about you know, shouting out his accomplishments or you know, where his stake is at in history.
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And as someone who's a confident individual, I'm an athlete.
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I shout about a lot of the shit I've done at any point as an athlete.
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I get it, I understand it.
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But for me, when it comes in competition with one other person who they've been putting pitting you against since both of y'all was really lit and really popping again about a decade or so ago.
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Um, and y'all have had this back and forth for so, so long, I do think that it burns him up inside that everyone is starting to consider Messi as the real, real, real GOAT just because he actually is.
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Um, and a complete player is one thing, goal scorer is another.
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And I do think that both of these guys score a lot of goals.
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The statistics say that they do.
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Um, but I do think that in Ronaldo's situation, he ain't really got much more than that over top of Messi.
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And Messi is going to be top one or two in multiple categories you can look at as a football player, as a soccer player.
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Um, and I think that's what gives him the edge over Ronaldo.
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And he's won more than Ronaldo, and he's done everything in his career as far as awards bigger than Ronaldo and better than Ronaldo.
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So I don't understand, you know, why this constant back and forth still has to continue.
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Uh, but I do think it also continues because the people involved in it, i.e.
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Ronaldo, are opening his mouth to say, like, yeah, I'm the best at this, I'm the best at that.
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Like, you know, I uh at some point at this age, you should just be worried about riding out the rest of your career and making the most of your actual experience within the soccer that you have left.
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And Messi has never been one to speak up and call himself the GOAT.
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I think he just goes out there and does what he does and let the people speak for him, which is what I feel like true GOATs do.
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Um, your legacy is left behind you for the other people to talk about, you know, and that's the way I look at it.
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And I know that, you know, I might be coming off a little bit harsh on Ronaldo, but I really just don't fuck with the dude, like as far as personality.
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Player, great player, all time, maybe number two, uh, depending on who you're asking.
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But at the end of the day, bro, we you know we know who the number one is, and just ride it out into the sunset, bro.
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Ride it out to the sunset.
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Like, you ain't playing the best football right now compared to Messi in general, and all we're really hearing about from you is more of the stuff off the pitch than on the pitch, which is where it gets even more annoying for a player who's in the twilight of his career, plus 40.
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Like, come on, bro, just relax.
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Play ball and decide when you want to retire.
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And that's about it.
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Moving on and moving away from the sports world, just a couple other things wanted to touch on, and one of the main things that kind of sat on my heart and spirit this week.
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Uh, after reading or seeing a post that I saw uh on came across my feed on Instagram, I can't find it right now.
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Uh I won't waste time trying to do that.
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But uh it went into the whole concept of inspiration uh and how people who are inspired by someone else can take that inspiration and then turn it to like hate, you know, um, and how it takes a real self-aware person, how it takes a real confident person to appreciate the inspiration that they receive from others, uh, and then use that for whatever motivation they need or you know can have for their own life or whatever they're trying to achieve.
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Um and that one kind of sat with me, man, just because I've been in a state recently to where, and I put out something on my story basically the other day about this, but uh I wanted to further elaborate on it just because I've been in a space of like trying to draw inspiration from different things in different places outside of just myself and my own internal drive.
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Uh, just because uh I feel like those kind of things help me push to you know get further or push for more, or just like you know, my inner competitiveness with myself uh needs something to kind of grasp onto to say, alright, cool, let's get to it, you know.
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Um and uh I do recognize that not everyone feels that way.
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Uh and again, how that process processes for them as people uh can turn into a position to where they really just shit on you and hate on you, you know.
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Um and not to say that I am someone who's never felt that way in my life, but I'm not really a paider kind of person.
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Like I can appreciate other people doing well, and what I normally do when I see that is uh put it in the lens of like, oh shit, if he can do it, I can do it.
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You know, like if he can get so many followers, then yeah, I can probably do it too.
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If they can get to this dollar X amount, then I can probably do it too.
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You know, as a player, if he can get to the point where he's a 35, 40% three-point shooter, then yeah, I can probably do that too.
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You just gotta put the work in and literally get to the solution, which is the goal, you know.
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And I don't think that it gets highlighted enough that the people that don't look at it like that are the ones that really don't get far in their own life because they're so worried about giving negative energy towards someone else's success that they're not putting enough positive energy into their own success, you know.
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And those would be the people that five, ten years down the line you're looking at and they're blaming everyone else for the reason they weren't able to achieve uh XYZ, you know.
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Um, so for me it is important to recognize that others around you can give you inspiration, and it'd be okay with looking at them to say they might be this far ahead of me, but I can catch up to them little by little by little.
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Or maybe as they get further, I get further, and the rising tide lifts all ships, you know.
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And I don't think that mentality is prevalent enough and something that people are more uh supportive of within even more so, you know, just a competitive community like the fitness space, you know.
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Um, and what I do often realize when I get into you know conversations with other trainers, other gym owners now, I'm always checking for the initial reaction to, you know, either how I reach out, either when I reach out to them or when we meet up face to face, you know, uh, because I've always been a person who's big on energy and picking up other people's energy uh off of our interactions and then uh using that for what I need to know outside of what they're saying with their mouth, you know.
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Um and I've been in a position where even myself trying to inspire others, like they would look at it like, you know, it's a negative thing to start hating on me, or copying my moves and then make it their own, and then try to, you know, act like I wasn't the one that either lined them up to do that or was helpful in their process of doing that, you know.
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And I try not to do things for people or try not to put myself into a place of where I do something for you and I'm expecting something back from it.
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Um but I do recognize when uh I do something for someone and then the appreciation and the reciprocation is shown, and that makes me feel like you know I was in the right space with helping them in the first place, you know.
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So I've seen it on that side, but I've also again seen it to where now I feel like I need other people who are doing better than me to be the ones that help, you know, and goes along with the cliche saying of like, you know, you're only as successful as the people you surround yourself with.
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Like I'm at that point now where the people I want to be connected to are usually gonna be the ones that I think can get me a little bit further in my uh in my mission, I would say, and my purpose for myself, you know, and it's not to say that I won't ever be around other people that, you know, aren't of that nature, but at the same time, like I kind of put a lot of those relationships to the to the back burner right now just because the people that love me love me and they know that I'm trying to get to something and they may not hear from me for a little bit, but you know, I'm on a mission.
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Or they're gonna see me post something online and be like these I, you know, like ain't no need to really check in that much.
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But the conversations that I really seek out now and the people that I really want to soak energy up from are the ones that I feel like I want to know how they did something.
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I want to know how they were able to execute this, or you know, what they can, you know, what learning curves they can help me overcome uh by giving me some of the game that they've you know learned from themselves.
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And that's the way I I operate with anybody who may be quote unquote behind me and whatever they're chasing, you know.
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And you know my motto and this whole you know EFS thing started with the mentality of if you foreign veins, excuse me, you have acquired knowledge if you do not impart it to others.
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So, you know, for me, if you're not sharing the game and you're a gatekeeping kind of motherfucker, like to me, that that that shows itself that you also are someone, you know, who who may be the one that's hating on the the people that may be inspired dumb and got it, and however have gotten ahead for yourself.
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Because uh I never was a gatekeeping type of person, but I do know that uh it happens very, very much in the training industry, whether it be sports performance training, whether it be skills training, whether it be personal training.
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Like I feel like we hate on each other too much when there should be enough room for us all to grow if we just understand that what we offer is necessary and we just gotta spread it to the point where more people want it, you know.
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And I think we get so crabs in the barrel when it comes to our clients, comes to the people that, you know, we want to uh keep for ourselves, but we won't refer out someone if we know that someone else can help them better, or we won't, you know, just be the person to shout another trainer out or repost another trainer that may be in the area just because we feel like you know it's a threat to us.
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And that mentality for me is something I want to put to bed and and really just start to push more positivity in that way.
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Uh, so much so that I do want to start having conversations with other people that are literally direct competitors of me, uh, and then open up for real connection and understanding each other's mission, and then maybe being able to help each other along the way just because the rising tide lifts all ships, you know.
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And I've always been in that perspective.
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Um, but again, I know there's others, another side of it that we always got to weed through.
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Um, but that said, man, that's really it for today.
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Wanted to tap in with y'all for a couple perspectives, share a couple thoughts.
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Um, and uh as we move forward, you know, we'll we'll start to mix in some of those other combos.
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Guys are people that I've spoken to for sure.
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Um, some people I'm looking to, you know, get on the podcast and start having more in-person conversations to where we are really just bouncing off ideas and connecting, because again, that's what I'm all about.
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Uh so as always, as we leave you, don't forget to stay sharp, stay safe, mentally, physically, spiritually, and all things in between.
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Stay safe in this crazy world.
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And as we are out of here, man, as always, episode number 91 of the EFS Podcast is out.
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Peace later.
