ABOUT THIS EPISODE
After a breakup, it is normal to feel some discomfort, and it can be challenging to sit with it. Instead, we might be tempted to numb ourselves, find coping mechanisms. But maybe sitting through it enough - and not too much - is a key to working out deeper themes that need addressing. And sometimes old thoughts surface, memories, that can help us better understanding what happened, and why, and maybe be a bit kinder with ourselves.
I share some thoughts on the topic, I hope you find a few helpful ideas.
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