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Speaker 1: Welcome to Deckheads, a production of IR Radio. Welcome to Deckheads with your hosts Nick and Anna, broadcasting from the bottom of the boat below below deck. Whoa, I'm horny, all ya talk all the time. I'm having a party. We're shoveling cold to keep this show afloat. I love cocaine. We're off the map in international waters. I need some drama. Me hide that cocaine. Never in my nose. Just see you know I'm in an open relationship below deck. Woo me Deckheads. Hello, everybody, This is Deckheads with Anna and Nick usually, but unfortunately in this episode, Nick is not here. I know you guys are like, what the hell happened? Nick couldn't watch the episode. It's a long story. Something came up. You know. The guy is he is living life. I almost said covid. I don't know why he doesn't have covid um. But yeah. So I'm here by myself, but don't worry. I have a great guest to cover this episode with me. So um we are talking below deck season eight, episode twelve, on this episode, and I have a great guest. She was on one time before. So this is our repeat guest. If you will and she was great and I love there's so much on the show that I was like, I gotta get her back on asap. She gets the whole vibe, the whole reality TV vibe, A fun person to recap with. So I am joined again by Lydia Popovic. Hello, I'm so happy to be here, and especially in you know this episode of need What what a blessing. I'm saddened by uh, you know, not having Nick on here. But I also fully understand COVID. That is the fielt the field. I don't even know how to say words anymore. That's like the default excuse. I feel like you can just walk it anywhere and be like COVID and they're like, you're late, you're dressed wrong. Sounds great? Yeh yeah, so it is. We got it, man, I mean, what are you gonna do? It is what it is. He's not here. He will be missed. Um hopefully he'll be back on the next episode. But until then, let's let's talk about let's talk about this episode. Episodes. There's no shortage of things to talk about, so you know, I think we're going to be just fine. Oh, I know, this was this was a good episode. I was, man, Rachel never seems to like bow way. I mean, straight up, I'm not gonna lie. Like my love for Rachel between last episode and this episode has only grown stronger. It's grown so strong. I went on a full deep dive, like what can I find out about Rachel Hargrove? Like what is she doing right now? I wasn't following her on social media? I now do. I even dug up her episode of Freaking America's Next Top Model. Watched that four and a half minutes. You know what I mean? I need more. I want to know because I listened to the last episode. You guys did as well, and I was equally excited by the walking up to midnight Google It, Let's go, Like that's just google in This episode started with Google it, Let's Go. I was like, see that's It's gold. You know she is so she's just damn good TV. I know she clearly her drinking turns into like kind of evil vibe, but like she's great TV though, he gotta she's such good TV. She knows she's good TV. But here's the funny thing that I think is hilarious, Like there's no she doesn't make any chooses for her drinking. She just says, I don't get hangovers. Yeah, she's obviously a nightmare. Everyone who's around her says she's a nightmare. I mean, we have the footage. We we saw it. It's a nightmare. I'm not saying I would enjoy it if I was with her. I like watching it, you know, so I'm empathetic. But something I found out about miss Rachel that struck me as fascinating as uh, she currently touts herself as an r you Veda healer, right, I remember her briefly mentioned it at the beginning, which I'm like, which is this fucking half a pita? Like what what where does excessive binge alcohol drinking come in onto the r you Veda scale? Like I'm really really curious, Like I want her to tell me how excessive alcoholism really works into a healing, right, I don't know. Like she is so interesting to me in the sense like she will heal you through her food, but she will destroy herself. Right, that's a tough That's tough for me. I also like I would like to know her maybe off this Like another part is like is it because coronavirus is spreading? Is she just stressed out that she's on a TV show, Like there's a lot of pressure because clearly she says she's not sleeping well enough. You know, she has to cook for all these people. Like I don't know exactly what it is. I also I feel like, you know, sometimes like when you are at work, you're a different person than when you're not at work. So maybe this is just like chef boat Rachel right, like like sea rules, like you know what I mean, Like in the old days, they're like, yeah, man, like I'm not gay because I'm on a boat, Like maybe she's living someone like this is like I'm not are uvetic now because like I'm on the boat, like I'm I'm I'm cooking meals like I'm in chef mode, so like I'm just going to be the most savage chef I know how to be because chefs, I mean, they like to party, they do they like to get wasted. Their schedules are unconventional. But uh, I mean she's really inspirational just taking it there. I am kidding. Is iuvetic? Is that the one where you're healing through like food? Did I just make that up? I don't even know. You're right, it's basically all about it's it's about food and body and movement. So basically the concepts are that like every food has like a temperature range and according to your personal body, like you need more wind, more air. It's like tied to the elements and also temperature. And I know it's like kafa at a half a something else, but basically these four elements. So you have to create a diet based on what your body needs. It's really similar to the idea of chea of like balancing your cheat, but it's done through what you eat and what you drink. So some people it's only advised that like they only drink hot liquids, some people only drink cold liquids. Like you should have more foods that are warm, you should have more grains. It's like this whole thing that has to do with like heat and temperature and the time of the day you eat and fasting, and like it's really intense, Like it's not something you just kind of casually slink into, like it's pretty it's a whole situation, Like you change your whole life. That's why I'm like this doesn't add up for me, Like yeah, sounds like she's preaching it but not living it. Yeah, exactly, which is I guess she took that don't get high on your own supply fairies. She's like, I will how as I say, not as idea, I will help you, but I am slowly killing myself. Oh my god, truly truly fascinating. Start it further. So yeah, so we we We start the episode again at the beach Club, Catherine's Beach Club, where Rachel is drunk as funk with the band. Um. Eddie is so embarrassed and he just said, can't handle it. Uh, he's so embarrassed that he has to walk it off. He just like leaves. He's like, I can't witness this any further. But I love that Eddie has like his full dad grumbles right, like he's he's his body, whole body language. But he's also just like under his breath but not under his breath, like oh god, I can't believe he's pissed. He's just so pissed. Uh. And then yeah, he is like a total dad. He's got the like kind of dad vibe of like he's got his jokes, uh, and then he's got his unchecked anger Like I mean if you really are paying attention. He's straight up turning into Captain Lee like he's getting like this is how it starts, Like you have a whole seers of grumbles and then you start getting catchphrases. And then once that lexicon gets locked down, I feel like that's when Mike you have to make a hairstyle and also a gold chain choice something in that area. I'm just I can't wait for him to start wearing jewelry. That's what I'm really looking for. Eddie, give me a necklace, you know what I mean, Give me a charm bracelet, something cold jewelry, just like chest open gold jewelry, so tan, just the Tannes chest you've ever seen? Just that leather baseball mit? I love that. So the sea like yeah, so uh yeah. Eddie walks off and Francesca has to go and get Rachel off the stage, and she is able to get her off the stage, which I was surprised by. I was like, Rachel's names set on singing. What is the song midnight Walking to midnight or something walking after midnight, Walking after midnight? Um, it's just so funny. Google it. Let's go. Let's go again with what Where are they googling here? There's on Alexa near like there's not. It's so and it's also kind of insulting to be like to assume like, oh, maybe you don't know this standard song, Like okay, okay, Rachel. I want someone to walk into her kitchen and just be like a shrimp canopies. Google, Let's go, let's go, let's go. I'm looking for mozzarella sticks. Google it. Let's got's go, buffalo chicken wings, actually scratch that lemon pep google it, let's go, let's go, google it, let's go. Yeah. So the band just stares at her blankly. They're like, no, honey, get off the stage. So yeah, Francesca gets her off the stage and she immediately passes out. Rachel is out cold hard snoring asleep. Yeah, for several hours untouched. Looks like she's using the reservation sign as an actual pillow, which is just gold. I don't know if you clocked that, but like there's a scene where she's literally got it like tucked under half of her head and I it was like I had to pause it and I was like, oh, oh yes, good job. Once again, the Bravo camera team really making it happen. She's she's I don't even know what to say. Like there's a point where she wakes up again and someone's like offering her like a key line Pine. She's like, you, that's actually one of my favorite things. Like I wrote down on my notes as I was watching that, I was like, that's perfect. Much like Rachel. I am similar, like if I am sleeping, do not bother me unless you have snacks, like I will wake from the dead if they're snacks, Like you can walk past me and I'll be like, hold on, is that a shrimp tempera? When you got there a key line pie? Yeah, come back and back. They're like, come back to sleep like a mummy, just like where is it exactly? But I'm sad that they didn't show what I know happened, which is her shoving that into her face literally as she's lying back down, like she for sure did lay down eating, which is the laziest of all eating. It's it's also the best. It is interesting that like, while she's such a great chef, she doesn't really discriminate with other people's food, like she'll just eat it. No, she's just ready. She's down, She's down to go. I think she probably just has low standards where she's just lying, like I don't want this fancy ship that I cooked all day. Like it's like when you cook a really big meal and then you're not hungry when people come over to eat it, and you're like, I don't are you? Do you want to this? I've had I've had nine hundred bites of this. I have no interest in eating this anymore. Yeah. I do wonder what she eats herself. That's a what is she making? I mean, well, she's are uvetic. We know that. So maybe it's just a series of air shakes or something. And then she off puts that with all the alcohol. Maybe that's maybe that her recipe. Maybe I'm being negative, Maybe she needs that alcohol. Yeah, Lyddy, you're being you're being really naked. I am, I am. I should be more open minded this poor woman trying to kill herself. You're being very negative towards her, so shortsighted. Yeah, um yeah, so she wakes up for a snack. But anyway, Elizabeth and James are hanging out together because Elizabeth feels ostracized by Francesca and she's like, I feel like I can't go over there, because she's like give me a look that says like, what are you doing here? But it's like, well, it seems like you and James are having a good time for now, so yeah, it also seems like she's looking for an excuse just to be alone with James so she can just consistently talk about the relationship she doesn't have. Right well, James says he feels like he can talk to Elizabeth about anything and she's like fun and makes him smile, but like the future is not looking good. Woof. I also am impressed with how visibly drunk she starts to look before anyone besides Rachel. Yeah, like she seems to be slurring early in in this day, already slurring, which is like Elizabeth, honey, slow down, I guess there he is. As Rachel said, drink the espresso martini's right, and then you just stay alert like yeah, I can't I cannot imagine. I mean, I've had an espresso martini before. They're delicious, but it's so sweet that like as soon as you're done with it, I can't imagine being like, yeah, let me have seven more. You have to like go back and forth between like a normal cocktail, espresso martini, normal cocktail, just like I feel like the espresso martini will just keep you up, like your head up. The rest of what you're saying, what you're slurring, that's sessotic, like yeah, fartin catalyst for bad discussions Like that seems to be the consistent across all of these seasons of below deck. Also is the espresso martini, Like no one is unlocked that that is the drink to chaos because exactly what you just said, you are rev the funk up on espresso, but then you have a hardcore depressant is the other half of it all alcohol Like yeah, but that's not that's not good. Mixed that's not that's that can't be good. That can now It is basically just like doing cocaine. It's like you when you hang out with your friends to do cocaine and you're like, can you chill the funk out? Drinking? Well, I used to like drinking as much as an experson. Don't drink nearly as much as I did, but like even when I was really in the height of my boozing, Like you kind of have to know your limits, Like if you have to drink a stimulant drink to stay awake long enough so that you can get drunk. Yeah, you probably shouldn't be at the bar. Yeah, people were siding red bulls and vodka and like, yeah, otherwise I don't get drunk. And I'm like, oh, because you're an alcoholic, you can't stay awake long enough to drink the amount of alcohol. Guys, that's the problems on the wall, that's the problem. I mean. It's also like I have similar Rachel vibes. When I black out, I just become an asshole. I'm a monster. I've I've made poor choices drinking a lot. And you know, after a while, I had a few friends to be like you sucked. Does that have a million? Like your friends tell you that and you're like, wait me, I thought it was fun and like we tolerate you. Yeah, and that's you know, that's the energy I was getting. And so I was like, oh, yeah, I guess I'll drink less. And I mean, of course, self control it's very hard in these situations, and especially like I don't know what it's like to work on a fucking super yacht, absolutely right, And I don't know. I mean too in Elizabeth's defense, I can't even possibly know like what the horny nous must feel like, right like, because you can probably even like you can't even rub one out properly because there's somebody literally right below you exactly. We definitely know you can't fuck in the cabin because that smells like a maky feral mess as as as you described, and I wouldn't anticipate itself otherwise. So she's super horny, she's super lonely, right and Francesca is being a dick to her, to her, you know, her Smoky Courts is definitely like there's no way that that smoky quartz has I mean that thing was on Fumes two episodes ago, you know, So she doesn't really have anything to do right now besides like, let me just drink this because I feel so nervous about all this love that I want to put into James. Yeah, I can't even handle sitting next to him. I want to fuck him on this beach and I can't. I know, I feel bad for her, even though she's somewhat of a dummy, but like I just she has a good heart, but she just is like she's missing a few things. Yeah, well, she also you can tell like she needs a man to validate her. She really does just need someone to tell her that she's beautiful. Like there's nothing that she wants more right now than to be validated by James. That's all like as a very pretty girl on the middle of the ocean, Like she's really just like dying for that. And it's actually was cracking me up because she's laying there and she's already talking about getting proposed to all slurry drunk, and I'm listening to her talk about like she's sucked this guy twice, right, maybe maybe twice. What we know for for sure, they spent one full night together, basically definitely fucked once at least, right, maybe twice. Let's give him twice, just to say there's maybe somewhere different to screw, right right, um, And she's already talking about Mary, and I was just like, oh my gosh, it is Elizabeth Darcy. Like this is giving me very Darcy ninety days vibes. But she's just like she is like please proposed to me and break like she's setting herself up to get shut on, Like I just see it happening, and I'm just like, man, I don't I want. I want her to call Darcy and just like get some support during these certainly trying times, because there's no way on this next episode he's not going to take a big shot on her. Yeah, I'm not see that coming. There's what else is gonna happen. He's going to come around and be like, oh, you're right, list Like he's looking for an out, yeah, and he's got so much emotional baggage, but dude. Yeah. While at the beach club, we also learned that Rob lost his best bud recently due to a lot of drugs, and he was like, yeah, he would always sit at the sunset and how at it. Okay, that's interesting, and he says, don't take life for granted because it's a beautiful, beautiful adventure and you have to experience it as it comes. And everyone's just seeing there like yeah, totally Rob. But I was like, Jesus, dude, are you Okayre's your brother? Okay, That's what I was thinking too. Every time he's I mean, I know this is edited, but like it seems like he every three or third time he opens his mouth, it's something real sad. Well, yeah, he's like, um, I used to being alone. I don't know how to talk to women. I don't know how to talk to anyone. I'm not very good at socializing. I used to be whatever, like very lonely. I my brother's hit me up in a suitcase and left me at a park, like, exactly, what are you okay? My best friend died because of a lot of drugs. Does that mean that you did drugs? I mean you didn't do drugs, like, dude, Like just trauma trauma, trauma, trauma. I feel bad for him, even though he seems like that's things like, but like, outside of these stories, he seems like very well adjusted, like he seems normal, he does. He seems like a very nice, very chill guy. I'm like, truly, I do wish that Francesco would just suckered suck his dick because she needs to calm down. I'm like, he needs to get some confidence, like I just I feel like they definitely need some Like, hey, guys, I need you to go talk to each other and tell each other you're beautiful and just let go a little bit, because you guys are both super fucking tightly wound and you don't need to be Yeah, I think they would be good for each other to like have his like hook up release people like France needs to cut fucking come so she can chill out on Elizabeth dude big time, because yeah, Elizabeth's the dummy, but like, come on, dude, like you you can't have five star expectations of a dummy. Yeah. Yeah, And also it feels like she does do her job. That's the problem. It's like Elizabeth seems like she's doing her job. She just like misses a few things here and there, which is just like not okay. But I'm like, dude, have you seen some of the stews that have been on this show, Like you are lucky to have Elizabeth, Yes, exactly. Well, it's also or just like I don't know, make some signs, like you're doing the same ship over and over. So if you have to keep telling her the same ship, then like maybe save like you're printing out menus, so maybe just print out a thing and be like, hey, change the laundry. Means this, like maybe you need to look at how effective of a leader you're not being, because if you literally have to like give her a bird seeds worth of information, she's probably like I'm just gonna wait for her to tell me how she wants it, because if I do it the way I think it needs to be done, She's not gonna like it anyway. Like how to I'm starting to get where she's coming from, where I feel for her, Like I want her to win, but she can't win if somebody's just not telling her how to do it. Yeah, that's true. Also, she was again promoted prematurely, so that was kind of that whole situation was just a dick move. Yeah. And then there's just so many ways you can like give feedback to people, like she could actually do it for her, you know what I mean. So it's not coming directly from her all of the time, Like there's so many better ways that she can handle that. Or she could just be like, hey, sister, girlfriend, like do that ship lean in and be like I love you girl, and I want you to win. Like I don't know, I think Francesca just wants someone to pitch at a little bit she needs. I'm just like, she's not holding someone under a thumb. She's not feeling great about herself. Yeah. So back at the beach, they're getting ready for dinner and Rachel's really drunk, and she overhears James joking about marrying Elizabeth for a green card, and Rachel's like, fucking ass hole and wanders off, and then Elizabeth gets a little upset. She's like, it's not funny to joke about, like because I guess, And on the after show she says that James couldn't come to America like at all or something like that because he didn't have it. Like I was like, he can't even get a travel visa. I don't. I don't get yeah, I don't. That doesn't make sense. Yeah, so I guess they were joking to marry each other so he could come to the US and visit. I don't know. But Rachel again very wasted, and she's like screaming at dinner like can't wait take can we get an order? Can we get some order? Can we order our food? And everyone's like horrified by her, and then she's like I'm bored, and then like immediately starts fully has turned into like the charter guests she hates. She's she's just a mess in this at this dinner, which is, you know, to me funny. But if maybe if I was part of her team, her crew, and she was doing this, I might not feel the same, but I also like, don't really get embarrassed by other people's drunk behavior. I almost I have a problem where I encourage it because I just find it so funny because like to me, it's like there's nothing to me. It's like, why be embarrassed being the one thing that like America like encourages so heavily, which is to drink, Like, yeah, that's like what we do. I mean, yes, they drink m a bit more in your but like everyone's so much more like to got their ship to Like America is a ship show. We are a known ship show, So why do we need to be embarrassed when we're being a ship show? Like at this point, it's like who cares? You guys are also being filmed, like it is what it is. You could be like I'm so embarrassed, and it's like you're so embarrassed. Don't go on a reality show because it is. But part that's the part of the cracks be because I'm like, you guys are not just like at a dinner with friends, Yeah, you were on a reality TV show, So I think you should be thanking her for getting drunken off so that you guys have something to talk about, even though it's incredibly boring to her, and she's saying, so, uh, you're making that there because I've been to those dinners in real life and nobody was taping, where like two of your friends are so wasted that like one of them has to be taken away to talk to another one become sold and like their meals are sitting there and you have to get their meals boxed up, and like I always am just like so thankful to that person who decides to go with that drunk person to sit outside and watch them smoke nine cigarettes and talk about absolutely nothing. Emily, they said that, like it's just like not just exactly like I know that's like, but I just like that letten to me and I don't even understand. And I told Christie I didn't want to come, and she was like, but Christie what, I'm like, it's weird because it's Christy and Christy and then you're like, oh my god, like that like I fucking like that's one of the reasons I love not being in my twenties anymore, because like people in their forties don't try to have big dinners like that anymore. We're just like, hey, listen, uh, let's just have cocktails, come over for some wine. Let's just keep like let's we're not doing this. Yeah, it's ridiculous. And also they're on a beach club, so like how like there's sand on the ground, Like you're not at a fine dining establishment, you guys, you guys aren't literated a beach club that people be getting shit faced all day and then they're trying to sober up so that they don't puke off of a boat. Yeah, to me, I was like, this is um, how do you say? And not a big deal to me, like who cares? Will survive? You'll all survive, You'll go back to bet and just work and whatever. But it's like they're just still like mortified, and it's like you're on a reality show. That's the point. Yeah, it's you're you're going to get embarrassed. And actually this is relatively mild, Yeah, it really is. She's just like she could be on the table. She really could be flipping the fucking table, and you should be grateful that she's. Oh yeah, but there's not not a glass was broken. Not I was spilt like the real Housewives would never do you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, yeah, they would literally flip the table. But so also here's the thing. This is the part where gets a little shady, which I thought was kind of shitty, but like Rachel so drunk, She's talking shit about James to Elizabeth in front of James, which I was like, now, this is cold blooded, cold hearted ship. And then Elizabeth is like very light like, oh, don't say that, but like why are you saying that? Wait? How come you feel that way? Like? And poor James. I really felt for James. Poor James is sitting there just taking it like what do you I mean? Because also what is he supposed to do? He can't fight back in any of those situations, not looking like an asshole? No, no, Like I was actually very impressed with how he handled it, like he charged like to largely ignore it. Yeah, he excused himself. He said one shitty remark to Rachel about like do you want your dishes washed? Which I thought was like, yeah, that's that's good to remind him. So I'm not gonna wash your dishes in the galley anywhere, which is understandable because she's actively being like he's a piece of ship, Elizabeth, He's a piece of shit. It's just like, dude. But then, like I didn't think that. I didn't see Elizabeth green with her. She's just being like, why are you doing this? Yes, that's where I think he But I understand that he was getting upset because I think he was if she's so all day like oh, I want to marry you, you need to carry me, and then she's just like, I think you're being harsh instead of like that's my man. He's going to be my husband and I'm not going to have you talk about him like that. Yeah, Like she was not being assertive in any way. You know, she went to console her. It almost looked like she was like Elizabeth got up from the table and walked her away from the table, you know, to go have a conversation about it. I guess. But I mean I feel for James, and also like James is kind of like a girl, like James wants a big showy you know what I mean. If she would have defended him, I feel like he would have been like I'm going to eat your pussy all the way back to the boat, you know what. I mean, but she was too drunk and too wrapped up, and I think it was just excited that someone was talking to her about James right. And I think a part of me is like I don't think she was fully cognant, Like she was drunk, so she was like what what are you doing? Like she I don't think she was ready in that moment for what was like being given to her, So like I would have been shocked to like, wait, what are you talking about? Like why are you doing this? Like I would have been like, hey, bitch, Shore, you goddamn map when you talk about that man, you know, like I would not have. But it also but it seemed like it was going on for like a while, like at first you get your catching on, but then like at the point where you step away from a table to go have a conversation so long that like your meal is still there and needs to be boxed up. At some point there should have been an assertion, and not that it needs to be loud and showy, but like at that point, I feel like I would have been like, Okay, I've tried my best. I don't feel comfortable talking about this. You need to sit over here, I'm gonna go finish my dinner with with my boyfriend or whatever, you know what I mean. With the rest of our team, like they're just But then again, she is ship faced, so I don't even know if she can put those storylines together. I think she was just as ship faced stuff off, more should face than Rachel. So like it's not fair to expect her to act rationally, right, she's not. She's fucking wasted and someone's going crazy. And I think she was just more concerned also about Rachel not liking her, right, like I just want to be liked by everyone. Yeah, that's true. She was very she has very people pleasy, like she doesn't really stand up for herself in that regard. That's a good point. Uh yeah. So of course Elizabeth gets in trouble by the rest of the crew for trying to defend James and talk Rachel down and now says James says, the whole situation has turned him off Elizabeth. Now, so they head back to the boat. Yeah, they like crashed for the night. Francesca says she's very happy that they don't have to deal with drunk Rachel on charter and only on whatever, which is like, yeah, she's not drunk at work. I mean when you think about all the other ship show chefs that we're fucking ship housed, like or just Ruin or me, and it's like, you know what, she's a handful off boat, but like on boat she's fine. So I know. The thing is like she's just so good at what she does. It's hard for me to be like she's out of control because I'm like, well, if I was maybe that much of like creative genius when it comes to cooking my asshole too. Yeah. Man, And she's also fucking carrying the show. Yeah, so I feel like she's kind of like I'm going to see how wild I can act, Like how how ridiculous can I be before someone really tells me to call the fun to Yeah, because I also assume they're not paying for anything. I have no idea how these like how dinners work and stuff, because like Rob at one point like orders caviar and I'm like, damn right, I was like, oh, you're just okay cool. Didn't she just get a shitty tips and then throw it out and got sucking caviar money? All right? Yeah? I don't know how though, that ship works I'll look it up. Let's take our first quick break and we'll be right back after this, and we're back. So yeah, everyone went to bed, and it is officially the next day, new charters coming. Rachel says she can't remember anything because she drank a ton uh no ship, and she drank while she was like exhausted, which is always a recipe for disaster for her. And you don't say, but of course she doesn't get hungover, so whatever, nobody, I don't I don't believe that. I just don't believe it. What I don't get Maybe it's a state of mind. I just think maybe she like takes she drinks a little more in the morning, and I tamp tamp that down. There's no such thing as not getting Like what do you mean you don't get hangovers? Your body is different, Like are you an alien? Because like you was like, oh, when I was younger, I didn't got hungover. I'm like, no, I always got hungover every single time I've ever drank. I've always been hungover. It's varying degrees, and the more sugary drinks I get the worst is like are you kidding me? Like you just don't feel these effects. Well, that's why I'm like espresso Martini's got. That's exactly why I said that about them, Like the hangover I can imagine from that, like I used to power or swill down Cosmopolitans and that's pretty sweet too. And then I was like, oh, yeah, just cut back on the juice and it's less sugar. And then I was like, oh, now you're just drinking vodka by the gallon. This is not this is this is terrible. This is terrible. I have to do my research on that because I don't get it. Is it. I need to meet more people who don't get hungover and like interview them because I don't believe this ship. Yeah, I think she's lying or I think you're right. I think she's having a little little snizzle for the nizzle on the morning and just you know, keeping it moving, you know what I mean, which I feel like swigs out of the cooking sherry never hurt anybody. Yeah, And I think, like when you drink as much as she does, like that's not going to affect your work and under I don't think. But no, but yeah, so Eddie said, is he still sick? So Eddie sends her to the doctor, and Elizabeth feels bad that James doesn't think she would stand up for him, so she apologizes to him and he accepts, but like he in his interview is like, I don't trust her anymore, but I'm not going to tell her that because I don't want to create drama. So he's just to her face being like, thanks for the apology, and so she thinks they're okay, but it's like, what do you just tell her the truth to be like, I have a ship ton of baggage, so this really fucked me up. I don't know. I just I don't have a lot of sympathy for like not expressing yourself or it's like, if you obviously are hurt by it and you have any intentions of sharing time with that person, just say it just fucking saying and be like, hey man, that really bumt me out. I didn't appreciate it, or y, I appreciate you saying that, but I'm still bummed out about it, So give me some time, or just be like, look like, I've been shaded like this in the past, so it's gonna be hard for me to trust you again. Instead of making her think everything's okay, so she's out here like James in her head, sucking polishing brass something else, you know. Yeah, So, like Rachel goes out for provisions and when she comes back, she's like radioing people to help, and no one will respond because they're mad at her. And so this, of course Captain classic Captain Lee response, Yeah, and he's like, no one answering in our radio, really like pisss me off. It's my number one thing. Always answer your radio. So that leads to a meeting with Eddie and Francesca and Captain Lee, in which Eddie tells Captain Lee that Rache was drinking and anger is an issue, and Captain Lee, being Captain Lee, is like, look, bitch, she's gonna go job. Basically is like, so what you're telling me is she's a chef, and I don't frankly give a fun what's happening off the boat. I barely give a funk what's happening when you guys are on the boat. Corona, and then he throws it in Corona means yeah, like what do you want to do? Get someone in here that's not gonna be a great chef? And then we got problems. And then I love that they panted to Francesca's face and she's like totally nodding like fuck yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, which is like and Eddie's just still kind of like fucking hate this bitch. Yeah yeah, key, just like look, she's the fucking best. So yeah, maybe she she fucking punches you when she's drunk. That's just what we get used to, Okay, because this this is fucking motor yacht life. Nothing matters, problematic issues, don't worry about it. We'll just brush it under the rug. Everything's okay, we'll talk about at the reunion. Wow, coolie. I also love it because like he's ate so much of her food, how many meals as Captain let got to go to every dinner, every dinner. Now he's just like, yeah, man, let me have that, let me have that. I love these little pans. I love this to he likes his slabberries, his strawberries get s. Yeah, he's a celebrity now, so everyone wants him at their dinners, Like you're always gonna and Captain Lee will join us because you just want this like person who you've watched or have heard tell of, like at your dinner. So Captain Lee knows damn well the situation and he is not going to have another like Kevin or I'm trying to think who else. Ben was good. Kevin was good, but Kevin had his moments of fucking up. Yeah, once you hit Rachel, it's very hard to be like, let's risk, like he says it, like, we can't risk bringing another person and having them being straight up ship. I mean that lady's name that was from Russia, who was like, but what if me La applies? Yeah, you could get a Mila who like doesn't know how to use a microwave. But it's like I copied my like a resume of m s word for chef. It looked great. Yeah, I just went with it. Yeah exactly, Yeah yeah, and then she's like no gaze and you're like, what the fuck you? And putin dude, get the funk out of here. But yeah, so Rachel stays and gets to I guess emotionally abused Eddie some more. And so Elizabeth and Ash are sitting in the crew mess and James comes out and he winks and like air kisses Ash in front of Elizabeth, which is like strange, right also, but not strange, super childish, a classic nug Yeah, you know what I mean, like classic nugging behavior, like let me just divert some attention. I know that Elizabeth loves attention. I'm mat at her, like that's some passive aggressive bullshit. Though I didn't like it. Was also weird because Ash was like, what yea, she really uncomfortable. She's like, don't bring me into this crap. I'm not. I never wanted to funk him in the first place. I'm trying to suck the weird boy on this this is the weird sun on this trip. Yeah, I didn't care for that. James is weird. Sometimes I'm like, oh, maybe he gets it, or like maybe he's a nice guy because he seems to speak like he is and then he'll just go in his actions are just trash. So I think he's just a young man. He's just you know what I mean. You can tell he's been babied, Like he's just he's a grow up. He just needs to grow the funk up and he needs to have some things not go his way. Let me tell you it's gonna happen. Yeah, so is he comes back from the doctor and we learned that she has a double kidney infection, a U T and strep throat. All I can say is when Eddie's like shot to drinking the water, I'm like, can you give everybody water breaks? Because that all of those things come from not drinking water? Well, what is is she drinking sea water? What is she drinking? I had strep throat at the beginning of quarantine, which when we think I had COVID, but it's just a really bad case of strep throat. You felt like knives in my throat? Knives? How are you? How do you casually have strep throat and a U T? I which, by the way, when I have a U T, I also feels like knives. Yes, I can't do anything. I can't lay down, I can't walk around. I'm so upset the whole time. And a double kidney infection? What the fuck? Or would they trying to kill is he? That's what I'm saying. And I'm like, does she just been drinking saltwater? Like I don't understand like that is? I mean, obviously she has existing issues, so like her body probably you know, inflammates rather quickly. But holy crap, how was she like pulling lines and like walking around and like polishing ship, and like blowing up things and like dealing with the Laura's yea, which means they probably gave her some strong as fun antibiotics out quick big time, which also some of those things make you really light sensitive. So now I'm super worried about her skin. I'm like, I want her to be wearing like rash guards, like all the way down. I'm like, poor baby Trooper after learning all that, and she was still trying to work. That's a fucking Trooper. She's a good decade, big time, big time man. Can you imagine even going to the beach with a U T I. The idea of even a grain of sand anyway with my pussy just fucking makes me want to double over and die. And that bitch spent a whole day laying in the sun next to drunk Rachel. Yeah I would, Um, I would die. She's like, no, I'm getting the screen time. I agreed to do this fucking dumbass ship. You are not going to put me in a bunk. Well, if they were, like, you have to stay back like a beach club, though, I think, yeah, I'll lay on the beach yeah, oh you want to stay in the stinky ass boat that I've been on for six weeks? No, yeah, yeah, I'm with her, but what fucking oh my god. Yeah, that's a gnarly report. And I guess, like what a way to come back to be like yeah, by the way, this is what was wrong with me instead of like, oh, like I've got the flu? Yeah, yes, is better than corona. Um. So it's the next charter meeting with Eddie, Francesca, Rachel, and Captain Lee. We have this couple Chris and Erica from Friendswood, Texas. It's a full family coming on with the four pound Yorky name g G. Unfortunately don't have Nick here to ask about the likes and dislikes, and I didn't write them down, but it's unfortunate. They seem decently easy going. They want a cowboy themed dinner party the first night, and they want Captain Lee to join them for dinner both nights. And Francesca says she doesn't know much about Texas other than they have cool hats, so oh, I don't forget. She says that they like ranch and root beer, which I don't know where she got those two fat um but I love hearing what people from other countries sort of hold onto where She's like cool hats, ranch dressing, root beer Texas. Yes, like ranch and root beer over barbecue. I want big Barbecue to know the big ranch has has got a better marketing campaign. I know, and I love ranch and I live in California never lived in Texas, so same. I mean, I kind of think of ranches an American thing, you know. Yeah, it's not just Texas. Yeah, barbecue is Texas ranch, ranches, ranches for everyone in America. Let's go Californian weird. Yeah. Well, I guess Australia to us the world just like do you want your vegimm oh you know what? They always want to put it out the barbie. They maybe don't recognize big barbecue in America, like no, no, no, no, no, that's not a barbecue. This is a barbecue. Yeah, that's right. They don't get it. They have their own idea though, and we have our own idea and maybe one day we'll meet them in the middle. I guess that's surfing turf, isn't surfing turf us meeting them in the middle and Sef and Tiff so Captain Lee says he sees Rachel having all the talent in the world and he just doesn't want to see her squander it, and it reminds him of his son who died recently. So he calls Frinchskin to have a glass of wine with him and to talk about Rachel and how she reminds him of his son and how he passed away, which I was like, that's so sad that you like see that, right Rachel, of like this person is so much like I don't know what his son was up to. He just says that he um he found him having overdose on opioids, and he says, the worst of his life and he just got if he had just got over to his place earlier, things could have been different. But like what you never know what a right, Like, I'm curious what his son was like the talent that he squandered, I don't know, also feels like too fresh for him to almost like beyond this show like it just happened talk about. And I'm also I was curious if they were gonna address it with him, right, I mean, I think they kind of have to because it's like such a thing, But I'm curious if it was something they pressured him into doing, or if he was like I wanted to I want to have a moment to reflect you know what I mean, I don't, or maybe it came up naturally, but he just was like, this person has joada vive just like my son did. Yeah, maybe it was that as opposed to like talent. You know, it's an interesting choice to talk to Francesca about it though. That's what I thought too. I was like, Man, he's really mad Cat's not here because this is I feel like he would have really preferred to have had that, not Cat, but Kate, Kate. Yeah, you know what I mean Like that, I feel like that moment with Kate would have been like a very different moment than with Francesca, right, who seems sort of like, oh god, I didn't know, terrible. I want to be professional, but I also want to be caring, but this is also awkward. Yeah. Well, he also got to be a big tattoo of his son, which I thought was he didn't seem like he had any tattoos, and he did get it like a like a memorial tat of his son on his chest, which I thought was for someone who I didn't think had tattoos. It's like a very deep dive into the tattoo world. Right, it's a it's a memorial. But I've never I guess I've never just like come across anyone who's done that. But I found it very interesting because it was very well done, very well done tattoo. I must say, I'm gonna have to google it. We'll just go on his instagram because he posted a photo of himself shirtless getting the vaccine, but I'm pretty sure he's also posted photos of the tattoo. But I was like, that's like, like, that's a like I can't imagine my own father like getting a tattoo of me, Like he fucking loved that boy to get tattoo of I mean, of course it was his son, but still like that's ah wow, yeah it is. It's also I mean not surprisingly because it's a son looks a lot like him, so it kind of looks like he has a picture of himself young Captain Lee. I wonder if people did call him that, like he's like it says, where's Josh. That's a random statement to have underneath it must mean something that we don't know, No intense it is a good tattoo, though, fascinating. Curious, I gotta I think I'm gonna buy his book and read it. I'm curious. I've been thinking about doing that too. I've had it in my cueue for a while. I haven't I haven't read it yet. I wonder if he does. Actually, I would like to do like aet inaudible or whatever of what is it called where he read it. Yes, I would actually be curious to hear an audiobook of his. All right, it is again the next day. I said earlier the day before this was the new charter day, But I guess today is actually a new charter day. We learned a few quick hits. Is he has constipated from her meds. Rachel is farting it up in the galley, and Ash is starting to feel sick. Her stomach doesn't feel well, and I guess Rachel's stomach doesn't feel well either, hence the farts. Hence the farts. Yep, And so the new guests are arriving. The little Yorky g is adorable. She's so tiny, super cu super tiny. The little tiny patch of grass is adorable. The whole thing is adorable. It's just like just goes to the grass to patch and just like peepees, which my dog did that. I know, that's what I'm saying to I was like, Oh, that's that's that's a great trained dog where they're just like, Okay, I'm not it's cool because some dogs, like if they're not even they don't like the feel of fake grass or if they can't smell it, or you know what I mean. I am curious how they train dogs to that, because I don't, like, I've never had to train my dog to pan a little patch like that, but I am I've had friends who've struggled with it. I wonder if it's easier if the dog is smaller. I mean possibly, I don't I don't know. I don't know enough about dogs to like presume that, like just because they're smaller. They're like, hey, I'll do it wherever. I'm fine. You gotta get in. This world is huge. This tiny put me down about ship and then pick me up, pick me up. Don't you know one day this is I can't about fool? Are pounds four pounds four? You can get kicked by accident, that's horrible. God. You can get sneezed by another dog. That's super scary. Yeah, found my dog is thirteen pounds and I'm always worried he's gonna get stepped on. But just imagine a whole human baby just a few me or more pounds than that Yorkie. I know. Wow, still shouldn't be on a boat, but the Yorkie Okay? Was I am really scared of dogs on a boat because especially dog that tiny on a boat. It would make me very nervous. Wasn't it? What season was it when somebody brought a dog and they had the dogs staying like at a shore shelter, but then they would like tinder the dog back. There was a season five of Med because the Wellington didn't allow pets, so they had to like the dog had a dog sitter. Yeah, imagine taking your dog on vacation and then the dog had to go to a dog sitting like a dog hotel. Like that's the that's rich people ship. That's should because it's also very hard to get your pets through customs, so like you have to pay money to get your pets around like that, Like that's real rich people ship. I feel like that's straight up like we're flying private like I'm not you know what I mean, Like, I'm the manifest includes an animal. Well, do you remember like Johnny Depp and I think Amber heard the time gotten a lot of trouble for taking their dogs Australia or something like that story where they gotten a lot of trouble for like trying to like squeeze past customs doing something and that was in hissues. So that's how i've ever since I've known, Like it's it's really hard and also just like the entitlement of like, oh, you you can't put your dog in a kennel, but like everyone else should, but you shouldn't. Well it's their emotional support four pound yorkey. So yeah, the guests arrive and one of the guests is really into ash and I think at one point he says he'd like to put his poison in her, which I was like, I'm sorry, that's like the first thing we hear him say. Actually, I was like, wow, what an opener you did you want? Who? What now? And he said that to his parents or I don't know. I think he's like the friend of the Sun. He's like a weird Rando friend who also came along, but he's still to your friends, pry. Yeah, it's pretty fucking weird. I was like, yeah, wa wa watch the language, ross, sir, that's gross. Yeah, and like violent, Yeah, poison anything. Get the funk out of here, bro, you want to put it in her mother, you're pretty much you're telling me your dick is trash. Yeah. That guy he's very also texting, like how he talks. He's like, yeah, he's got the southern accent. I love ranch dressing and root beer. Yeah, got me a funny hat, got me a root beer at a party. Yeah. So, but like now Ash is starting to really struggle because her stomach doesn't feel well, and Rachel says she as well doesn't feel well, and she says she has bubble guts, which I thought was funny. Bubble guts? Did she say toots at one point too? Yeah, she can't. She can't stap too, And she's just like farting up everywhere she goes, which is also like hilarious. Like the chef is just like running back and forth, like taking ships and then just like coming back and being like cool, let me remember to put my gloves on, like remember wash my hands. That's how coronavirus started actually it was just Rachel. It also various that Rachel is not putting any connections at all to like the literal twenty four hour binge drinking fest, like the three like espresso martinis that she may or may not have drink, might anything to do with the ships or the bubble guts. Right, that's not a hangover, is it? That makes sense. I've had some terrible bubble guts after drinking. Yeah, it's hangover. Yeah, that's the whole time. I was like, Oh, Rachel, do you know what this is called hangover? Called a hangover? Yeah, you just don't have a headache, you have a stomach ache. Yeah. All right, Um, we're gonna take another quick break. We'll be right back to finish off this episode, and we're back, all right. So James says that Rob is his boy because he doesn't take the job too seriously and has really good banter. And I'm like, oh, it's very similar to you, except for he's not emotionally manipulating any women around him, right, because he doesn't know how to put a sentence together deep enough that to manipulate. And he can't even manipulate a hello correctly, which is just sad, like I want James to give him and just give Rob just a few little pointers. Just maybe if Rob just pretended that every woman was James, he'd have a better banter. Yeah, I agree. And meanwhile, James is like, it sounds like I'm falling in love with them. I know, well that's something. The way Rob talks about James, it's like a weird love story between them. It's great. And James like, Rob is like, I just hope bra or James looks at me today. But now I just want to you know, I just want to see how I can help them. And then I like, Rob is like it sounds like no, James is like, it sounds like I'm in love with him, and I'm like, yeah, exactly, you should be, because you sounds like you can make your relationship with him work better than your relationship with Elizabeth at this point. Yes, there's much much more potential, I think, Yeah, for sure, I do. Like while Rachel is working on dinner that she goes Hi, I'm just trying to focus on the sooner and trying to focus on not charting myself that that was like, which if you've ever felt like you were going to shart is a struggle, Like that's a you do have to have one part of your brain fully focused on your asshole while you're doing something else, because if you if you stop paying attention even one second, man, Short City, you got a clench man. You guys just keep them. Yeah, So that was interesting. They brought out like appetizers and called them canopies, and the guests had no idea what canopies were, like a rich and I think that maybe there's like a a nomenclature difference because I've heard of the word canna bise uh, and my understanding of canna bass cannapa always has some sort of like a there's a layer, so it's like I could be a sliced cucumber, it could be a bread, it could be a cracker, it could be a brochetta, right, and then there's something on top of it, like there needs to be like a philo shell filled with like something. But she seemed to have onion rings and something else, which I would refer to as appetizers right or in much too big for a moose boosh. So I don't know. I'm like, I gotta I want to do some googling on cannapais to see if I maybe misunderstood fine dining service. Interesting, it must be like just yeah, like maybe Australians call it one thing. And then yeah, I was like that's wrong or is this another thing where like like bugs. He had never heard of wavos rancheros by the sancho. Yeah, so that was interesting. But they love the dinner. Rachel may them. And they're talking about a twat tournament, which is the women's angler tournament, and Captain Lee's like, thanks for clarifying, because I have no yet. I saw you guys to talk about twats. He was like, I thought it was a conversation I was going to be interested in having. He's like, no, thanks checking out. Uh what I don't fish? What I don't even is that angler? Is that a fish? I don't even know? Yeah, angling means fish. Yeah, it's a it's a fishing competition. Okay. So I've just googled canope okay, and I mean, I don't want to put our friend on blast, but I'm gonna put her on blast. According to the Internet, it says a cannope is a type of order of a small, prepared and often decorat of food consisting of a small piece of bread, puff, pastry, or cracker wrapped around or topped with some sort of savory food, held together in the fingers, and often eaten in one bite. So yeah, man, Francesca's out of goddamn mine. I don't know what she's talking about. She's wrong, She's Australian, man, I don't know. Yeah. Well, Francesca also like just keeps nitpicking Elizabeth about everything it's been. It's getting annoying now, Like she's like, you need to check the laundry. Oh, you can do this. Well you clearly didn't do right, Like it's just like just fucking back off. That whole laundry conversation was infuriating, Yeah, because I was just like, why are you asking her about the laundry if she's telling you that she hasn't switched anything over. She's supposed to sit there and like wrap her fingers and wait for it to like buzz and switch it over. I don't, I don't. I don't understand. I really don't understand. Yeah, And Elizabeth upset that James hasn't been talking to her all day, and she says frustrating and weird and she doesn't want to play any games. But then like as soon as the guests go to bed and after dinner, James and Elizabeth like talk and he says that he likes her and he wants it to carry on, but she didn't have her his back to Rachel, and he has all this emotional baggage and he's seen this item in the baggage before. It doesn't know what to do with it, and he wants to pull back as a defense mechanism. This defense mechanism is a thing he doesn't want to change currently down a rush to change. And I was like, okay, so he seems like fully cognizant of his situation, like he's into psychology, we get it, but like I mean, like, what am I supposed to do with this info? It's like, okay, why don't you relay this to Elizabeth? Yeah? And it's also really weird to say like I'm not willing to work on this, Like I'm not willing to share this with the person who needs to hear it. I'm also not willing to work on it, okay, which to me is sounds like a fancy psychology way of being like I'm just not that into her. Bro. Yeah, exactly. It's like, why aren't you just if if she's not worthy of like hearing this, then you shouldn't be fucking with her period, which I also and I know this is last episode, but like whose sheets were they hanging? If he was underneath sheets, like those were is he sheets that got sprayed with calm? Yeah? I don't know that was confused. Still, I'm still disturbed by that whole song. It went from like you could see them to like a full on like blanket over them. I didn't get a fun curtain. It's called a fun curtain. Fun that's what you're paying. They hung a when you're trying to put in your long stroke and you don't want to be restricted by a blanket over your ass. And he's like, oh, I want to do the dipping whip and I can't do that if you can't see me, you know, very valid? Yeah, so yeah, man, like being grown up, you're not into her. It sucks, dude, It really sucks because let's tell her I'm into fucking you while we're here, but I really have zero desire beyond that. And you're already mentioning marriage and you've already hurt my feelings so like, I just want you to know that I'm not into continuing this outside of the boat. Do you want to suck my dick? Still? Are you trying to s my d um even though I'm shading you big time? But the worst part is Elizabeth is now struggling with a U T I, which is like, damn, it's not even worth it. This will give you even which also like, girl, do you know how musty those things must have been? Like you've been working all day? You musty? He's musty, Like it does not take long to take a washcloth to your parts. If it's one thing that I can say, everybody gets some wet wipes. Man clean your parts before you fuck. It is not worth the U T I and then go p afterwards. Pe so easy, just go pay and save yourself the struggle clean up, you know what I mean? Hopping, get a wet washcloth, like these things are are avoidable, avoidable. Yeah, but still again I feel for her because it is a painful situation. Anybody who's ever had one knows. So now we got two U T s. We've got two U T A s cuts. Everyone's skinning. U T I is left and right? But is he's not bone in, so hers is just I think I think that's the kidney thing. But that's all connected. Yeah. So, like Elizabeth struggling to sleep that night, So she sends a text to Francesco about it in the morning, being like, I'm a little worried about tomorrow. But obviously Francesco a sleep. Uh. It's the next day, and Francesco except annoyed that Elizabeth isn't feeling well, and which is county. Yeah, She's like, well, ash and Rachel work through it and Elizabeth isn't. So she's taking advantage of the situation. And it's like, isn't she going to work through it? Like sounds like she is. She's just asking to see a doctor to get any biotics. Yeah, and she's letting you know she's not well, which is also what she's supposed to do, right, she's not supposed to say anything about it. I don't think she's taking advantage. I think she's just telling you my fucking pussy burns, right, and also her pussy burns and Ashley's Tom Tom hurts, you know what I mean, Like, this's two different degrees of what you're feeling, especially if you can't sleep all night because of it. Yeah, And meanwhile, is he just killing it? He is? He is a fucking beast. Yeah. So Francesca gets approve from Captain Lee to get a doctor to come out and check on Rachel, ash and Elizabeth and anyone else who isn't feeling well. And James is upsetting Elizabeth in the crew mess by ignoring her and he's like looking at Rob's Instagram and like, we don't follow enough like hot girls. He's like, I only follow birds and stuff like that, and Rachel's right there and he's like ignoring her presence, and she gets really upset and walks out, and I was like, I didn't even notice her. How am I in the doghouse already? And Ashon is You're like, well, you've fucked up, so you deserve to be there, which I thought was I thought it was nice of them to stand up for why. I think so too, and also just to like tell him like a guy, no, no, no, no, no, that you did, because that was kind of sucked up, Like that's just rude, you know what I mean? You know you've been treating her kind of shitty. You know, she's confused, you know what kind of person she is, and then you're just gonna be talking ship like I'm only follow hot women, that's why I'm on insta, Like it's just like a whole lot of things and you're not even acknowledging her presence. But again, it's like that's like just super one oh one fucking dick moves right where it's like, now I'm gonna like be the ultimate asshole, so you don't like me anymore because that's easier to be an asshole and deny I'm being an asshole than to actually tell you my real feelings. Yeah, well that's the end episode, Season A, episode twelve. Nick isn't here to do boat facts, so I guess I'll do a boat facts with a tease myself. I looked up Texas Women's Anglers Tournament, also known as TWAT, which is a woman's only, family run fishing tournament held every summer in Port Aran Sauce, Texas. It was found in the nineteen eighties with the mission to raise funds for the Women's Celter of South Texas, now named the Purple Door UH. In eighteen eighty nine, eighteen boats registered for the tournament, with over fifty women anglers. Today, an average of seventy boats and over four women. Anglers gather in port arenas are in sauce aran sauce to fish the tournament and raise money for the Purple Door. Um, what's an angler? Let's look up what an angler is? Angler? Fish? I think just an angler just means you're like a fisherwoman. I'm pretty sure. Oh cool, And angler is just another word for just piecient and fishes and it I think it means that you use a rod in a line as opposed to like a net or like a trap. And it usually refers to someone who's standing in a boat or a shore. I think, oh yeah, person who fishes with the rod a line. Okay, hell yeah, there we go. My dad was an anglers. Angling is a method of fishing by means of an angle. To hook is usually attached to a fishing line, and the line is often attached to a fishing rod. Very simple. Modern fishing rods are usually fitted with the fishing rold that functions as a mechanism for storing, retrieving, and paying out the line. Well, there you go. Boat facts with Anna tease for this episode while Nick is gone, Thanks so much for listening. Lydia. Where can people find you and follow you? You can find me on the internet at hater Tuesday for Instagram and Twitter, Lydia Popovitch dot com is my website. Not a whole lot going on there, so just find me on social media somewhere, you know what I mean. That's that'll work. I like that. And if you see me in real life, don't talk to me, don't talk. Yeah, thank you again for coming to do the show. Hey man, appreciate I love talking about this show. So, like I said, I if I don't talk to you about it, it's just me pacing around my room and putting it on Twitter. So I love it. This is this is a great time for me. I feel that. I mean we learned the last minute, literally right before we were going to start that Nick couldn't make it, so we really had to swing in make this happen on our own. So I appreciate you being my partner in crime today. Happy to help, Happy to help. Thank you. 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Speaker 1: Welcome to Deckheads, a production of IR Radio. Welcome to Deckheads with your hosts Nick and Anna, broadcasting from the bottom of the boat below below deck. Whoa, I'm horny, all ya talk all the time. I'm having a party. We're shoveling cold to keep this show afloat. I love cocaine. We're off the map in international waters. I need some drama. Me hide that cocaine. Never in my nose. Just see you know I'm in an open relationship below deck. Woo me Deckheads. Hello, everybody, This is Deckheads with Anna and Nick usually, but unfortunately in this episode, Nick is not here. I know you guys are like, what the hell happened? Nick couldn't watch the episode. It's a long story. Something came up. You know. The guy is he is living life. I almost said covid. I don't know why he doesn't have covid um. But yeah. So I'm here by myself, but don't worry. I have a great guest to cover this episode with me. So um we are talking below deck season eight, episode twelve, on this episode, and I have a great guest. She was on one time before. So this is our repeat guest. If you will and she was great and I love there's so much on the show that I was like, I gotta get her back on asap. She gets the whole vibe, the whole reality TV vibe, A fun person to recap with. So I am joined again by Lydia Popovic. Hello, I'm so happy to be here, and especially in you know this episode of need What what a blessing. I'm saddened by uh, you know, not having Nick on here. But I also fully understand COVID. That is the fielt the field. I don't even know how to say words anymore. That's like the default excuse. I feel like you can just walk it anywhere and be like COVID and they're like, you're late, you're dressed wrong. Sounds great? Yeh yeah, so it is. We got it, man, I mean, what are you gonna do? It is what it is. He's not here. He will be missed. Um hopefully he'll be back on the next episode. But until then, let's let's talk about let's talk about this episode. Episodes. There's no shortage of things to talk about, so you know, I think we're going to be just fine. Oh, I know, this was this was a good episode. I was, man, Rachel never seems to like bow way. I mean, straight up, I'm not gonna lie. Like my love for Rachel between last episode and this episode has only grown stronger. It's grown so strong. I went on a full deep dive, like what can I find out about Rachel Hargrove? Like what is she doing right now? I wasn't following her on social media? I now do. I even dug up her episode of Freaking America's Next Top Model. Watched that four and a half minutes. You know what I mean? I need more. I want to know because I listened to the last episode. You guys did as well, and I was equally excited by the walking up to midnight Google It, Let's go, Like that's just google in This episode started with Google it, Let's Go. I was like, see that's It's gold. You know she is so she's just damn good TV. I know she clearly her drinking turns into like kind of evil vibe, but like she's great TV though, he gotta she's such good TV. She knows she's good TV. But here's the funny thing that I think is hilarious, Like there's no she doesn't make any chooses for her drinking. She just says, I don't get hangovers. Yeah, she's obviously a nightmare. Everyone who's around her says she's a nightmare. I mean, we have the footage. We we saw it. It's a nightmare. I'm not saying I would enjoy it if I was with her. I like watching it, you know, so I'm empathetic. But something I found out about miss Rachel that struck me as fascinating as uh, she currently touts herself as an r you Veda healer, right, I remember her briefly mentioned it at the beginning, which I'm like, which is this fucking half a pita? Like what what where does excessive binge alcohol drinking come in onto the r you Veda scale? Like I'm really really curious, Like I want her to tell me how excessive alcoholism really works into a healing, right, I don't know. Like she is so interesting to me in the sense like she will heal you through her food, but she will destroy herself. Right, that's a tough That's tough for me. I also like I would like to know her maybe off this Like another part is like is it because coronavirus is spreading? Is she just stressed out that she's on a TV show, Like there's a lot of pressure because clearly she says she's not sleeping well enough. You know, she has to cook for all these people. Like I don't know exactly what it is. I also I feel like, you know, sometimes like when you are at work, you're a different person than when you're not at work. So maybe this is just like chef boat Rachel right, like like sea rules, like you know what I mean, Like in the old days, they're like, yeah, man, like I'm not gay because I'm on a boat, Like maybe she's living someone like this is like I'm not are uvetic now because like I'm on the boat, like I'm I'm I'm cooking meals like I'm in chef mode, so like I'm just going to be the most savage chef I know how to be because chefs, I mean, they like to party, they do they like to get wasted. Their schedules are unconventional. But uh, I mean she's really inspirational just taking it there. I am kidding. Is iuvetic? Is that the one where you're healing through like food? Did I just make that up? I don't even know. You're right, it's basically all about it's it's about food and body and movement. So basically the concepts are that like every food has like a temperature range and according to your personal body, like you need more wind, more air. It's like tied to the elements and also temperature. And I know it's like kafa at a half a something else, but basically these four elements. So you have to create a diet based on what your body needs. It's really similar to the idea of chea of like balancing your cheat, but it's done through what you eat and what you drink. So some people it's only advised that like they only drink hot liquids, some people only drink cold liquids. Like you should have more foods that are warm, you should have more grains. It's like this whole thing that has to do with like heat and temperature and the time of the day you eat and fasting, and like it's really intense, Like it's not something you just kind of casually slink into, like it's pretty it's a whole situation, Like you change your whole life. That's why I'm like this doesn't add up for me, Like yeah, sounds like she's preaching it but not living it. Yeah, exactly, which is I guess she took that don't get high on your own supply fairies. She's like, I will how as I say, not as idea, I will help you, but I am slowly killing myself. Oh my god, truly truly fascinating. Start it further. So yeah, so we we We start the episode again at the beach Club, Catherine's Beach Club, where Rachel is drunk as funk with the band. Um. Eddie is so embarrassed and he just said, can't handle it. Uh, he's so embarrassed that he has to walk it off. He just like leaves. He's like, I can't witness this any further. But I love that Eddie has like his full dad grumbles right, like he's he's his body, whole body language. But he's also just like under his breath but not under his breath, like oh god, I can't believe he's pissed. He's just so pissed. Uh. And then yeah, he is like a total dad. He's got the like kind of dad vibe of like he's got his jokes, uh, and then he's got his unchecked anger Like I mean if you really are paying attention. He's straight up turning into Captain Lee like he's getting like this is how it starts, Like you have a whole seers of grumbles and then you start getting catchphrases. And then once that lexicon gets locked down, I feel like that's when Mike you have to make a hairstyle and also a gold chain choice something in that area. I'm just I can't wait for him to start wearing jewelry. That's what I'm really looking for. Eddie, give me a necklace, you know what I mean, Give me a charm bracelet, something cold jewelry, just like chest open gold jewelry, so tan, just the Tannes chest you've ever seen? Just that leather baseball mit? I love that. So the sea like yeah, so uh yeah. Eddie walks off and Francesca has to go and get Rachel off the stage, and she is able to get her off the stage, which I was surprised by. I was like, Rachel's names set on singing. What is the song midnight Walking to midnight or something walking after midnight, Walking after midnight? Um, it's just so funny. Google it. Let's go. Let's go again with what Where are they googling here? There's on Alexa near like there's not. It's so and it's also kind of insulting to be like to assume like, oh, maybe you don't know this standard song, Like okay, okay, Rachel. I want someone to walk into her kitchen and just be like a shrimp canopies. Google, Let's go, let's go, let's go. I'm looking for mozzarella sticks. Google it. Let's got's go, buffalo chicken wings, actually scratch that lemon pep google it, let's go, let's go, google it, let's go. Yeah. So the band just stares at her blankly. They're like, no, honey, get off the stage. So yeah, Francesca gets her off the stage and she immediately passes out. Rachel is out cold hard snoring asleep. Yeah, for several hours untouched. Looks like she's using the reservation sign as an actual pillow, which is just gold. I don't know if you clocked that, but like there's a scene where she's literally got it like tucked under half of her head and I it was like I had to pause it and I was like, oh, oh yes, good job. Once again, the Bravo camera team really making it happen. She's she's I don't even know what to say. Like there's a point where she wakes up again and someone's like offering her like a key line Pine. She's like, you, that's actually one of my favorite things. Like I wrote down on my notes as I was watching that, I was like, that's perfect. Much like Rachel. I am similar, like if I am sleeping, do not bother me unless you have snacks, like I will wake from the dead if they're snacks, Like you can walk past me and I'll be like, hold on, is that a shrimp tempera? When you got there a key line pie? Yeah, come back and back. They're like, come back to sleep like a mummy, just like where is it exactly? But I'm sad that they didn't show what I know happened, which is her shoving that into her face literally as she's lying back down, like she for sure did lay down eating, which is the laziest of all eating. It's it's also the best. It is interesting that like, while she's such a great chef, she doesn't really discriminate with other people's food, like she'll just eat it. No, she's just ready. She's down, She's down to go. I think she probably just has low standards where she's just lying, like I don't want this fancy ship that I cooked all day. Like it's like when you cook a really big meal and then you're not hungry when people come over to eat it, and you're like, I don't are you? Do you want to this? I've had I've had nine hundred bites of this. I have no interest in eating this anymore. Yeah. I do wonder what she eats herself. That's a what is she making? I mean, well, she's are uvetic. We know that. So maybe it's just a series of air shakes or something. And then she off puts that with all the alcohol. Maybe that's maybe that her recipe. Maybe I'm being negative, Maybe she needs that alcohol. Yeah, Lyddy, you're being you're being really naked. I am, I am. I should be more open minded this poor woman trying to kill herself. You're being very negative towards her, so shortsighted. Yeah, um yeah, so she wakes up for a snack. But anyway, Elizabeth and James are hanging out together because Elizabeth feels ostracized by Francesca and she's like, I feel like I can't go over there, because she's like give me a look that says like, what are you doing here? But it's like, well, it seems like you and James are having a good time for now, so yeah, it also seems like she's looking for an excuse just to be alone with James so she can just consistently talk about the relationship she doesn't have. Right well, James says he feels like he can talk to Elizabeth about anything and she's like fun and makes him smile, but like the future is not looking good. Woof. I also am impressed with how visibly drunk she starts to look before anyone besides Rachel. Yeah, like she seems to be slurring early in in this day, already slurring, which is like Elizabeth, honey, slow down, I guess there he is. As Rachel said, drink the espresso martini's right, and then you just stay alert like yeah, I can't I cannot imagine. I mean, I've had an espresso martini before. They're delicious, but it's so sweet that like as soon as you're done with it, I can't imagine being like, yeah, let me have seven more. You have to like go back and forth between like a normal cocktail, espresso martini, normal cocktail, just like I feel like the espresso martini will just keep you up, like your head up. The rest of what you're saying, what you're slurring, that's sessotic, like yeah, fartin catalyst for bad discussions Like that seems to be the consistent across all of these seasons of below deck. Also is the espresso martini, Like no one is unlocked that that is the drink to chaos because exactly what you just said, you are rev the funk up on espresso, but then you have a hardcore depressant is the other half of it all alcohol Like yeah, but that's not that's not good. Mixed that's not that's that can't be good. That can now It is basically just like doing cocaine. It's like you when you hang out with your friends to do cocaine and you're like, can you chill the funk out? Drinking? Well, I used to like drinking as much as an experson. Don't drink nearly as much as I did, but like even when I was really in the height of my boozing, Like you kind of have to know your limits, Like if you have to drink a stimulant drink to stay awake long enough so that you can get drunk. Yeah, you probably shouldn't be at the bar. Yeah, people were siding red bulls and vodka and like, yeah, otherwise I don't get drunk. And I'm like, oh, because you're an alcoholic, you can't stay awake long enough to drink the amount of alcohol. Guys, that's the problems on the wall, that's the problem. I mean. It's also like I have similar Rachel vibes. When I black out, I just become an asshole. I'm a monster. I've I've made poor choices drinking a lot. And you know, after a while, I had a few friends to be like you sucked. Does that have a million? Like your friends tell you that and you're like, wait me, I thought it was fun and like we tolerate you. Yeah, and that's you know, that's the energy I was getting. And so I was like, oh, yeah, I guess I'll drink less. And I mean, of course, self control it's very hard in these situations, and especially like I don't know what it's like to work on a fucking super yacht, absolutely right, And I don't know. I mean too in Elizabeth's defense, I can't even possibly know like what the horny nous must feel like, right like, because you can probably even like you can't even rub one out properly because there's somebody literally right below you exactly. We definitely know you can't fuck in the cabin because that smells like a maky feral mess as as as you described, and I wouldn't anticipate itself otherwise. So she's super horny, she's super lonely, right and Francesca is being a dick to her, to her, you know, her Smoky Courts is definitely like there's no way that that smoky quartz has I mean that thing was on Fumes two episodes ago, you know, So she doesn't really have anything to do right now besides like, let me just drink this because I feel so nervous about all this love that I want to put into James. Yeah, I can't even handle sitting next to him. I want to fuck him on this beach and I can't. I know, I feel bad for her, even though she's somewhat of a dummy, but like I just she has a good heart, but she just is like she's missing a few things. Yeah, well, she also you can tell like she needs a man to validate her. She really does just need someone to tell her that she's beautiful. Like there's nothing that she wants more right now than to be validated by James. That's all like as a very pretty girl on the middle of the ocean, Like she's really just like dying for that. And it's actually was cracking me up because she's laying there and she's already talking about getting proposed to all slurry drunk, and I'm listening to her talk about like she's sucked this guy twice, right, maybe maybe twice. What we know for for sure, they spent one full night together, basically definitely fucked once at least, right, maybe twice. Let's give him twice, just to say there's maybe somewhere different to screw, right right, um, And she's already talking about Mary, and I was just like, oh my gosh, it is Elizabeth Darcy. Like this is giving me very Darcy ninety days vibes. But she's just like she is like please proposed to me and break like she's setting herself up to get shut on, Like I just see it happening, and I'm just like, man, I don't I want. I want her to call Darcy and just like get some support during these certainly trying times, because there's no way on this next episode he's not going to take a big shot on her. Yeah, I'm not see that coming. There's what else is gonna happen. He's going to come around and be like, oh, you're right, list Like he's looking for an out, yeah, and he's got so much emotional baggage, but dude. Yeah. While at the beach club, we also learned that Rob lost his best bud recently due to a lot of drugs, and he was like, yeah, he would always sit at the sunset and how at it. Okay, that's interesting, and he says, don't take life for granted because it's a beautiful, beautiful adventure and you have to experience it as it comes. And everyone's just seeing there like yeah, totally Rob. But I was like, Jesus, dude, are you Okayre's your brother? Okay, That's what I was thinking too. Every time he's I mean, I know this is edited, but like it seems like he every three or third time he opens his mouth, it's something real sad. Well, yeah, he's like, um, I used to being alone. I don't know how to talk to women. I don't know how to talk to anyone. I'm not very good at socializing. I used to be whatever, like very lonely. I my brother's hit me up in a suitcase and left me at a park, like, exactly, what are you okay? My best friend died because of a lot of drugs. Does that mean that you did drugs? I mean you didn't do drugs, like, dude, Like just trauma trauma, trauma, trauma. I feel bad for him, even though he seems like that's things like, but like, outside of these stories, he seems like very well adjusted, like he seems normal, he does. He seems like a very nice, very chill guy. I'm like, truly, I do wish that Francesco would just suckered suck his dick because she needs to calm down. I'm like, he needs to get some confidence, like I just I feel like they definitely need some Like, hey, guys, I need you to go talk to each other and tell each other you're beautiful and just let go a little bit, because you guys are both super fucking tightly wound and you don't need to be Yeah, I think they would be good for each other to like have his like hook up release people like France needs to cut fucking come so she can chill out on Elizabeth dude big time, because yeah, Elizabeth's the dummy, but like, come on, dude, like you you can't have five star expectations of a dummy. Yeah. Yeah, And also it feels like she does do her job. That's the problem. It's like Elizabeth seems like she's doing her job. She just like misses a few things here and there, which is just like not okay. But I'm like, dude, have you seen some of the stews that have been on this show, Like you are lucky to have Elizabeth, Yes, exactly. Well, it's also or just like I don't know, make some signs, like you're doing the same ship over and over. So if you have to keep telling her the same ship, then like maybe save like you're printing out menus, so maybe just print out a thing and be like, hey, change the laundry. Means this, like maybe you need to look at how effective of a leader you're not being, because if you literally have to like give her a bird seeds worth of information, she's probably like I'm just gonna wait for her to tell me how she wants it, because if I do it the way I think it needs to be done, She's not gonna like it anyway. Like how to I'm starting to get where she's coming from, where I feel for her, Like I want her to win, but she can't win if somebody's just not telling her how to do it. Yeah, that's true. Also, she was again promoted prematurely, so that was kind of that whole situation was just a dick move. Yeah. And then there's just so many ways you can like give feedback to people, like she could actually do it for her, you know what I mean. So it's not coming directly from her all of the time, Like there's so many better ways that she can handle that. Or she could just be like, hey, sister, girlfriend, like do that ship lean in and be like I love you girl, and I want you to win. Like I don't know, I think Francesca just wants someone to pitch at a little bit she needs. I'm just like, she's not holding someone under a thumb. She's not feeling great about herself. Yeah. So back at the beach, they're getting ready for dinner and Rachel's really drunk, and she overhears James joking about marrying Elizabeth for a green card, and Rachel's like, fucking ass hole and wanders off, and then Elizabeth gets a little upset. She's like, it's not funny to joke about, like because I guess, And on the after show she says that James couldn't come to America like at all or something like that because he didn't have it. Like I was like, he can't even get a travel visa. I don't. I don't get yeah, I don't. That doesn't make sense. Yeah, so I guess they were joking to marry each other so he could come to the US and visit. I don't know. But Rachel again very wasted, and she's like screaming at dinner like can't wait take can we get an order? Can we get some order? Can we order our food? And everyone's like horrified by her, and then she's like I'm bored, and then like immediately starts fully has turned into like the charter guests she hates. She's she's just a mess in this at this dinner, which is, you know, to me funny. But if maybe if I was part of her team, her crew, and she was doing this, I might not feel the same, but I also like, don't really get embarrassed by other people's drunk behavior. I almost I have a problem where I encourage it because I just find it so funny because like to me, it's like there's nothing to me. It's like, why be embarrassed being the one thing that like America like encourages so heavily, which is to drink, Like, yeah, that's like what we do. I mean, yes, they drink m a bit more in your but like everyone's so much more like to got their ship to Like America is a ship show. We are a known ship show, So why do we need to be embarrassed when we're being a ship show? Like at this point, it's like who cares? You guys are also being filmed, like it is what it is. You could be like I'm so embarrassed, and it's like you're so embarrassed. Don't go on a reality show because it is. But part that's the part of the cracks be because I'm like, you guys are not just like at a dinner with friends, Yeah, you were on a reality TV show, So I think you should be thanking her for getting drunken off so that you guys have something to talk about, even though it's incredibly boring to her, and she's saying, so, uh, you're making that there because I've been to those dinners in real life and nobody was taping, where like two of your friends are so wasted that like one of them has to be taken away to talk to another one become sold and like their meals are sitting there and you have to get their meals boxed up, and like I always am just like so thankful to that person who decides to go with that drunk person to sit outside and watch them smoke nine cigarettes and talk about absolutely nothing. Emily, they said that, like it's just like not just exactly like I know that's like, but I just like that letten to me and I don't even understand. And I told Christie I didn't want to come, and she was like, but Christie what, I'm like, it's weird because it's Christy and Christy and then you're like, oh my god, like that like I fucking like that's one of the reasons I love not being in my twenties anymore, because like people in their forties don't try to have big dinners like that anymore. We're just like, hey, listen, uh, let's just have cocktails, come over for some wine. Let's just keep like let's we're not doing this. Yeah, it's ridiculous. And also they're on a beach club, so like how like there's sand on the ground, Like you're not at a fine dining establishment, you guys, you guys aren't literated a beach club that people be getting shit faced all day and then they're trying to sober up so that they don't puke off of a boat. Yeah, to me, I was like, this is um, how do you say? And not a big deal to me, like who cares? Will survive? You'll all survive, You'll go back to bet and just work and whatever. But it's like they're just still like mortified, and it's like you're on a reality show. That's the point. Yeah, it's you're you're going to get embarrassed. And actually this is relatively mild, Yeah, it really is. She's just like she could be on the table. She really could be flipping the fucking table, and you should be grateful that she's. Oh yeah, but there's not not a glass was broken. Not I was spilt like the real Housewives would never do you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, yeah, they would literally flip the table. But so also here's the thing. This is the part where gets a little shady, which I thought was kind of shitty, but like Rachel so drunk, She's talking shit about James to Elizabeth in front of James, which I was like, now, this is cold blooded, cold hearted ship. And then Elizabeth is like very light like, oh, don't say that, but like why are you saying that? Wait? How come you feel that way? Like? And poor James. I really felt for James. Poor James is sitting there just taking it like what do you I mean? Because also what is he supposed to do? He can't fight back in any of those situations, not looking like an asshole? No, no, Like I was actually very impressed with how he handled it, like he charged like to largely ignore it. Yeah, he excused himself. He said one shitty remark to Rachel about like do you want your dishes washed? Which I thought was like, yeah, that's that's good to remind him. So I'm not gonna wash your dishes in the galley anywhere, which is understandable because she's actively being like he's a piece of ship, Elizabeth, He's a piece of shit. It's just like, dude. But then, like I didn't think that. I didn't see Elizabeth green with her. She's just being like, why are you doing this? Yes, that's where I think he But I understand that he was getting upset because I think he was if she's so all day like oh, I want to marry you, you need to carry me, and then she's just like, I think you're being harsh instead of like that's my man. He's going to be my husband and I'm not going to have you talk about him like that. Yeah, Like she was not being assertive in any way. You know, she went to console her. It almost looked like she was like Elizabeth got up from the table and walked her away from the table, you know, to go have a conversation about it. I guess. But I mean I feel for James, and also like James is kind of like a girl, like James wants a big showy you know what I mean. If she would have defended him, I feel like he would have been like I'm going to eat your pussy all the way back to the boat, you know what. I mean, but she was too drunk and too wrapped up, and I think it was just excited that someone was talking to her about James right. And I think a part of me is like I don't think she was fully cognant, Like she was drunk, so she was like what what are you doing? Like she I don't think she was ready in that moment for what was like being given to her, So like I would have been shocked to like, wait, what are you talking about? Like why are you doing this? Like I would have been like, hey, bitch, Shore, you goddamn map when you talk about that man, you know, like I would not have. But it also but it seemed like it was going on for like a while, like at first you get your catching on, but then like at the point where you step away from a table to go have a conversation so long that like your meal is still there and needs to be boxed up. At some point there should have been an assertion, and not that it needs to be loud and showy, but like at that point, I feel like I would have been like, Okay, I've tried my best. I don't feel comfortable talking about this. You need to sit over here, I'm gonna go finish my dinner with with my boyfriend or whatever, you know what I mean. With the rest of our team, like they're just But then again, she is ship faced, so I don't even know if she can put those storylines together. I think she was just as ship faced stuff off, more should face than Rachel. So like it's not fair to expect her to act rationally, right, she's not. She's fucking wasted and someone's going crazy. And I think she was just more concerned also about Rachel not liking her, right, like I just want to be liked by everyone. Yeah, that's true. She was very she has very people pleasy, like she doesn't really stand up for herself in that regard. That's a good point. Uh yeah. So of course Elizabeth gets in trouble by the rest of the crew for trying to defend James and talk Rachel down and now says James says, the whole situation has turned him off Elizabeth. Now, so they head back to the boat. Yeah, they like crashed for the night. Francesca says she's very happy that they don't have to deal with drunk Rachel on charter and only on whatever, which is like, yeah, she's not drunk at work. I mean when you think about all the other ship show chefs that we're fucking ship housed, like or just Ruin or me, and it's like, you know what, she's a handful off boat, but like on boat she's fine. So I know. The thing is like she's just so good at what she does. It's hard for me to be like she's out of control because I'm like, well, if I was maybe that much of like creative genius when it comes to cooking my asshole too. Yeah. Man, And she's also fucking carrying the show. Yeah, so I feel like she's kind of like I'm going to see how wild I can act, Like how how ridiculous can I be before someone really tells me to call the fun to Yeah, because I also assume they're not paying for anything. I have no idea how these like how dinners work and stuff, because like Rob at one point like orders caviar and I'm like, damn right, I was like, oh, you're just okay cool. Didn't she just get a shitty tips and then throw it out and got sucking caviar money? All right? Yeah? I don't know how though, that ship works I'll look it up. Let's take our first quick break and we'll be right back after this, and we're back. So yeah, everyone went to bed, and it is officially the next day, new charters coming. Rachel says she can't remember anything because she drank a ton uh no ship, and she drank while she was like exhausted, which is always a recipe for disaster for her. And you don't say, but of course she doesn't get hungover, so whatever, nobody, I don't I don't believe that. I just don't believe it. What I don't get Maybe it's a state of mind. I just think maybe she like takes she drinks a little more in the morning, and I tamp tamp that down. There's no such thing as not getting Like what do you mean you don't get hangovers? Your body is different, Like are you an alien? Because like you was like, oh, when I was younger, I didn't got hungover. I'm like, no, I always got hungover every single time I've ever drank. I've always been hungover. It's varying degrees, and the more sugary drinks I get the worst is like are you kidding me? Like you just don't feel these effects. Well, that's why I'm like espresso Martini's got. That's exactly why I said that about them, Like the hangover I can imagine from that, like I used to power or swill down Cosmopolitans and that's pretty sweet too. And then I was like, oh, yeah, just cut back on the juice and it's less sugar. And then I was like, oh, now you're just drinking vodka by the gallon. This is not this is this is terrible. This is terrible. I have to do my research on that because I don't get it. Is it. I need to meet more people who don't get hungover and like interview them because I don't believe this ship. Yeah, I think she's lying or I think you're right. I think she's having a little little snizzle for the nizzle on the morning and just you know, keeping it moving, you know what I mean, which I feel like swigs out of the cooking sherry never hurt anybody. Yeah, And I think, like when you drink as much as she does, like that's not going to affect your work and under I don't think. But no, but yeah, so Eddie said, is he still sick? So Eddie sends her to the doctor, and Elizabeth feels bad that James doesn't think she would stand up for him, so she apologizes to him and he accepts, but like he in his interview is like, I don't trust her anymore, but I'm not going to tell her that because I don't want to create drama. So he's just to her face being like, thanks for the apology, and so she thinks they're okay, but it's like, what do you just tell her the truth to be like, I have a ship ton of baggage, so this really fucked me up. I don't know. I just I don't have a lot of sympathy for like not expressing yourself or it's like, if you obviously are hurt by it and you have any intentions of sharing time with that person, just say it just fucking saying and be like, hey man, that really bumt me out. I didn't appreciate it, or y, I appreciate you saying that, but I'm still bummed out about it, So give me some time, or just be like, look like, I've been shaded like this in the past, so it's gonna be hard for me to trust you again. Instead of making her think everything's okay, so she's out here like James in her head, sucking polishing brass something else, you know. Yeah, So, like Rachel goes out for provisions and when she comes back, she's like radioing people to help, and no one will respond because they're mad at her. And so this, of course Captain classic Captain Lee response, Yeah, and he's like, no one answering in our radio, really like pisss me off. It's my number one thing. Always answer your radio. So that leads to a meeting with Eddie and Francesca and Captain Lee, in which Eddie tells Captain Lee that Rache was drinking and anger is an issue, and Captain Lee, being Captain Lee, is like, look, bitch, she's gonna go job. Basically is like, so what you're telling me is she's a chef, and I don't frankly give a fun what's happening off the boat. I barely give a funk what's happening when you guys are on the boat. Corona, and then he throws it in Corona means yeah, like what do you want to do? Get someone in here that's not gonna be a great chef? And then we got problems. And then I love that they panted to Francesca's face and she's like totally nodding like fuck yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, Yeah, you're right, which is like and Eddie's just still kind of like fucking hate this bitch. Yeah yeah, key, just like look, she's the fucking best. So yeah, maybe she she fucking punches you when she's drunk. That's just what we get used to, Okay, because this this is fucking motor yacht life. Nothing matters, problematic issues, don't worry about it. We'll just brush it under the rug. Everything's okay, we'll talk about at the reunion. Wow, coolie. I also love it because like he's ate so much of her food, how many meals as Captain let got to go to every dinner, every dinner. Now he's just like, yeah, man, let me have that, let me have that. I love these little pans. I love this to he likes his slabberries, his strawberries get s. Yeah, he's a celebrity now, so everyone wants him at their dinners, Like you're always gonna and Captain Lee will join us because you just want this like person who you've watched or have heard tell of, like at your dinner. So Captain Lee knows damn well the situation and he is not going to have another like Kevin or I'm trying to think who else. Ben was good. Kevin was good, but Kevin had his moments of fucking up. Yeah, once you hit Rachel, it's very hard to be like, let's risk, like he says it, like, we can't risk bringing another person and having them being straight up ship. I mean that lady's name that was from Russia, who was like, but what if me La applies? Yeah, you could get a Mila who like doesn't know how to use a microwave. But it's like I copied my like a resume of m s word for chef. It looked great. Yeah, I just went with it. Yeah exactly, Yeah yeah, and then she's like no gaze and you're like, what the fuck you? And putin dude, get the funk out of here. But yeah, so Rachel stays and gets to I guess emotionally abused Eddie some more. And so Elizabeth and Ash are sitting in the crew mess and James comes out and he winks and like air kisses Ash in front of Elizabeth, which is like strange, right also, but not strange, super childish, a classic nug Yeah, you know what I mean, like classic nugging behavior, like let me just divert some attention. I know that Elizabeth loves attention. I'm mat at her, like that's some passive aggressive bullshit. Though I didn't like it. Was also weird because Ash was like, what yea, she really uncomfortable. She's like, don't bring me into this crap. I'm not. I never wanted to funk him in the first place. I'm trying to suck the weird boy on this this is the weird sun on this trip. Yeah, I didn't care for that. James is weird. Sometimes I'm like, oh, maybe he gets it, or like maybe he's a nice guy because he seems to speak like he is and then he'll just go in his actions are just trash. So I think he's just a young man. He's just you know what I mean. You can tell he's been babied, Like he's just he's a grow up. He just needs to grow the funk up and he needs to have some things not go his way. Let me tell you it's gonna happen. Yeah, so is he comes back from the doctor and we learned that she has a double kidney infection, a U T and strep throat. All I can say is when Eddie's like shot to drinking the water, I'm like, can you give everybody water breaks? Because that all of those things come from not drinking water? Well, what is is she drinking sea water? What is she drinking? I had strep throat at the beginning of quarantine, which when we think I had COVID, but it's just a really bad case of strep throat. You felt like knives in my throat? Knives? How are you? How do you casually have strep throat and a U T? I which, by the way, when I have a U T, I also feels like knives. Yes, I can't do anything. I can't lay down, I can't walk around. I'm so upset the whole time. And a double kidney infection? What the fuck? Or would they trying to kill is he? That's what I'm saying. And I'm like, does she just been drinking saltwater? Like I don't understand like that is? I mean, obviously she has existing issues, so like her body probably you know, inflammates rather quickly. But holy crap, how was she like pulling lines and like walking around and like polishing ship, and like blowing up things and like dealing with the Laura's yea, which means they probably gave her some strong as fun antibiotics out quick big time, which also some of those things make you really light sensitive. So now I'm super worried about her skin. I'm like, I want her to be wearing like rash guards, like all the way down. I'm like, poor baby Trooper after learning all that, and she was still trying to work. That's a fucking Trooper. She's a good decade, big time, big time man. Can you imagine even going to the beach with a U T I. The idea of even a grain of sand anyway with my pussy just fucking makes me want to double over and die. And that bitch spent a whole day laying in the sun next to drunk Rachel. Yeah I would, Um, I would die. She's like, no, I'm getting the screen time. I agreed to do this fucking dumbass ship. You are not going to put me in a bunk. Well, if they were, like, you have to stay back like a beach club, though, I think, yeah, I'll lay on the beach yeah, oh you want to stay in the stinky ass boat that I've been on for six weeks? No, yeah, yeah, I'm with her, but what fucking oh my god. Yeah, that's a gnarly report. And I guess, like what a way to come back to be like yeah, by the way, this is what was wrong with me instead of like, oh, like I've got the flu? Yeah, yes, is better than corona. Um. So it's the next charter meeting with Eddie, Francesca, Rachel, and Captain Lee. We have this couple Chris and Erica from Friendswood, Texas. It's a full family coming on with the four pound Yorky name g G. Unfortunately don't have Nick here to ask about the likes and dislikes, and I didn't write them down, but it's unfortunate. They seem decently easy going. They want a cowboy themed dinner party the first night, and they want Captain Lee to join them for dinner both nights. And Francesca says she doesn't know much about Texas other than they have cool hats, so oh, I don't forget. She says that they like ranch and root beer, which I don't know where she got those two fat um but I love hearing what people from other countries sort of hold onto where She's like cool hats, ranch dressing, root beer Texas. Yes, like ranch and root beer over barbecue. I want big Barbecue to know the big ranch has has got a better marketing campaign. I know, and I love ranch and I live in California never lived in Texas, so same. I mean, I kind of think of ranches an American thing, you know. Yeah, it's not just Texas. Yeah, barbecue is Texas ranch, ranches, ranches for everyone in America. Let's go Californian weird. Yeah. Well, I guess Australia to us the world just like do you want your vegimm oh you know what? They always want to put it out the barbie. They maybe don't recognize big barbecue in America, like no, no, no, no, no, that's not a barbecue. This is a barbecue. Yeah, that's right. They don't get it. They have their own idea though, and we have our own idea and maybe one day we'll meet them in the middle. I guess that's surfing turf, isn't surfing turf us meeting them in the middle and Sef and Tiff so Captain Lee says he sees Rachel having all the talent in the world and he just doesn't want to see her squander it, and it reminds him of his son who died recently. So he calls Frinchskin to have a glass of wine with him and to talk about Rachel and how she reminds him of his son and how he passed away, which I was like, that's so sad that you like see that, right Rachel, of like this person is so much like I don't know what his son was up to. He just says that he um he found him having overdose on opioids, and he says, the worst of his life and he just got if he had just got over to his place earlier, things could have been different. But like what you never know what a right, Like, I'm curious what his son was like the talent that he squandered, I don't know, also feels like too fresh for him to almost like beyond this show like it just happened talk about. And I'm also I was curious if they were gonna address it with him, right, I mean, I think they kind of have to because it's like such a thing, But I'm curious if it was something they pressured him into doing, or if he was like I wanted to I want to have a moment to reflect you know what I mean, I don't, or maybe it came up naturally, but he just was like, this person has joada vive just like my son did. Yeah, maybe it was that as opposed to like talent. You know, it's an interesting choice to talk to Francesca about it though. That's what I thought too. I was like, Man, he's really mad Cat's not here because this is I feel like he would have really preferred to have had that, not Cat, but Kate, Kate. Yeah, you know what I mean Like that, I feel like that moment with Kate would have been like a very different moment than with Francesca, right, who seems sort of like, oh god, I didn't know, terrible. I want to be professional, but I also want to be caring, but this is also awkward. Yeah. Well, he also got to be a big tattoo of his son, which I thought was he didn't seem like he had any tattoos, and he did get it like a like a memorial tat of his son on his chest, which I thought was for someone who I didn't think had tattoos. It's like a very deep dive into the tattoo world. Right, it's a it's a memorial. But I've never I guess I've never just like come across anyone who's done that. But I found it very interesting because it was very well done, very well done tattoo. I must say, I'm gonna have to google it. We'll just go on his instagram because he posted a photo of himself shirtless getting the vaccine, but I'm pretty sure he's also posted photos of the tattoo. But I was like, that's like, like, that's a like I can't imagine my own father like getting a tattoo of me, Like he fucking loved that boy to get tattoo of I mean, of course it was his son, but still like that's ah wow, yeah it is. It's also I mean not surprisingly because it's a son looks a lot like him, so it kind of looks like he has a picture of himself young Captain Lee. I wonder if people did call him that, like he's like it says, where's Josh. That's a random statement to have underneath it must mean something that we don't know, No intense it is a good tattoo, though, fascinating. Curious, I gotta I think I'm gonna buy his book and read it. I'm curious. I've been thinking about doing that too. I've had it in my cueue for a while. I haven't I haven't read it yet. I wonder if he does. Actually, I would like to do like aet inaudible or whatever of what is it called where he read it. Yes, I would actually be curious to hear an audiobook of his. All right, it is again the next day. I said earlier the day before this was the new charter day, But I guess today is actually a new charter day. We learned a few quick hits. Is he has constipated from her meds. Rachel is farting it up in the galley, and Ash is starting to feel sick. Her stomach doesn't feel well, and I guess Rachel's stomach doesn't feel well either, hence the farts. Hence the farts. Yep, And so the new guests are arriving. The little Yorky g is adorable. She's so tiny, super cu super tiny. The little tiny patch of grass is adorable. The whole thing is adorable. It's just like just goes to the grass to patch and just like peepees, which my dog did that. I know, that's what I'm saying to I was like, Oh, that's that's that's a great trained dog where they're just like, Okay, I'm not it's cool because some dogs, like if they're not even they don't like the feel of fake grass or if they can't smell it, or you know what I mean. I am curious how they train dogs to that, because I don't, like, I've never had to train my dog to pan a little patch like that, but I am I've had friends who've struggled with it. I wonder if it's easier if the dog is smaller. I mean possibly, I don't I don't know. I don't know enough about dogs to like presume that, like just because they're smaller. They're like, hey, I'll do it wherever. I'm fine. You gotta get in. This world is huge. This tiny put me down about ship and then pick me up, pick me up. Don't you know one day this is I can't about fool? Are pounds four pounds four? You can get kicked by accident, that's horrible. God. You can get sneezed by another dog. That's super scary. Yeah, found my dog is thirteen pounds and I'm always worried he's gonna get stepped on. But just imagine a whole human baby just a few me or more pounds than that Yorkie. I know. Wow, still shouldn't be on a boat, but the Yorkie Okay? Was I am really scared of dogs on a boat because especially dog that tiny on a boat. It would make me very nervous. Wasn't it? What season was it when somebody brought a dog and they had the dogs staying like at a shore shelter, but then they would like tinder the dog back. There was a season five of Med because the Wellington didn't allow pets, so they had to like the dog had a dog sitter. Yeah, imagine taking your dog on vacation and then the dog had to go to a dog sitting like a dog hotel. Like that's the that's rich people ship. That's should because it's also very hard to get your pets through customs, so like you have to pay money to get your pets around like that, Like that's real rich people ship. I feel like that's straight up like we're flying private like I'm not you know what I mean, Like, I'm the manifest includes an animal. Well, do you remember like Johnny Depp and I think Amber heard the time gotten a lot of trouble for taking their dogs Australia or something like that story where they gotten a lot of trouble for like trying to like squeeze past customs doing something and that was in hissues. So that's how i've ever since I've known, Like it's it's really hard and also just like the entitlement of like, oh, you you can't put your dog in a kennel, but like everyone else should, but you shouldn't. Well it's their emotional support four pound yorkey. So yeah, the guests arrive and one of the guests is really into ash and I think at one point he says he'd like to put his poison in her, which I was like, I'm sorry, that's like the first thing we hear him say. Actually, I was like, wow, what an opener you did you want? Who? What now? And he said that to his parents or I don't know. I think he's like the friend of the Sun. He's like a weird Rando friend who also came along, but he's still to your friends, pry. Yeah, it's pretty fucking weird. I was like, yeah, wa wa watch the language, ross, sir, that's gross. Yeah, and like violent, Yeah, poison anything. Get the funk out of here, bro, you want to put it in her mother, you're pretty much you're telling me your dick is trash. Yeah. That guy he's very also texting, like how he talks. He's like, yeah, he's got the southern accent. I love ranch dressing and root beer. Yeah, got me a funny hat, got me a root beer at a party. Yeah. So, but like now Ash is starting to really struggle because her stomach doesn't feel well, and Rachel says she as well doesn't feel well, and she says she has bubble guts, which I thought was funny. Bubble guts? Did she say toots at one point too? Yeah, she can't. She can't stap too, And she's just like farting up everywhere she goes, which is also like hilarious. Like the chef is just like running back and forth, like taking ships and then just like coming back and being like cool, let me remember to put my gloves on, like remember wash my hands. That's how coronavirus started actually it was just Rachel. It also various that Rachel is not putting any connections at all to like the literal twenty four hour binge drinking fest, like the three like espresso martinis that she may or may not have drink, might anything to do with the ships or the bubble guts. Right, that's not a hangover, is it? That makes sense. I've had some terrible bubble guts after drinking. Yeah, it's hangover. Yeah, that's the whole time. I was like, Oh, Rachel, do you know what this is called hangover? Called a hangover? Yeah, you just don't have a headache, you have a stomach ache. Yeah. All right, Um, we're gonna take another quick break. We'll be right back to finish off this episode, and we're back, all right. So James says that Rob is his boy because he doesn't take the job too seriously and has really good banter. And I'm like, oh, it's very similar to you, except for he's not emotionally manipulating any women around him, right, because he doesn't know how to put a sentence together deep enough that to manipulate. And he can't even manipulate a hello correctly, which is just sad, like I want James to give him and just give Rob just a few little pointers. Just maybe if Rob just pretended that every woman was James, he'd have a better banter. Yeah, I agree. And meanwhile, James is like, it sounds like I'm falling in love with them. I know, well that's something. The way Rob talks about James, it's like a weird love story between them. It's great. And James like, Rob is like, I just hope bra or James looks at me today. But now I just want to you know, I just want to see how I can help them. And then I like, Rob is like it sounds like no, James is like, it sounds like I'm in love with him, and I'm like, yeah, exactly, you should be, because you sounds like you can make your relationship with him work better than your relationship with Elizabeth at this point. Yes, there's much much more potential, I think, Yeah, for sure, I do. Like while Rachel is working on dinner that she goes Hi, I'm just trying to focus on the sooner and trying to focus on not charting myself that that was like, which if you've ever felt like you were going to shart is a struggle, Like that's a you do have to have one part of your brain fully focused on your asshole while you're doing something else, because if you if you stop paying attention even one second, man, Short City, you got a clench man. You guys just keep them. Yeah, So that was interesting. They brought out like appetizers and called them canopies, and the guests had no idea what canopies were, like a rich and I think that maybe there's like a a nomenclature difference because I've heard of the word canna bise uh, and my understanding of canna bass cannapa always has some sort of like a there's a layer, so it's like I could be a sliced cucumber, it could be a bread, it could be a cracker, it could be a brochetta, right, and then there's something on top of it, like there needs to be like a philo shell filled with like something. But she seemed to have onion rings and something else, which I would refer to as appetizers right or in much too big for a moose boosh. So I don't know. I'm like, I gotta I want to do some googling on cannapais to see if I maybe misunderstood fine dining service. Interesting, it must be like just yeah, like maybe Australians call it one thing. And then yeah, I was like that's wrong or is this another thing where like like bugs. He had never heard of wavos rancheros by the sancho. Yeah, so that was interesting. But they love the dinner. Rachel may them. And they're talking about a twat tournament, which is the women's angler tournament, and Captain Lee's like, thanks for clarifying, because I have no yet. I saw you guys to talk about twats. He was like, I thought it was a conversation I was going to be interested in having. He's like, no, thanks checking out. Uh what I don't fish? What I don't even is that angler? Is that a fish? I don't even know? Yeah, angling means fish. Yeah, it's a it's a fishing competition. Okay. So I've just googled canope okay, and I mean, I don't want to put our friend on blast, but I'm gonna put her on blast. According to the Internet, it says a cannope is a type of order of a small, prepared and often decorat of food consisting of a small piece of bread, puff, pastry, or cracker wrapped around or topped with some sort of savory food, held together in the fingers, and often eaten in one bite. So yeah, man, Francesca's out of goddamn mine. I don't know what she's talking about. She's wrong, She's Australian, man, I don't know. Yeah. Well, Francesca also like just keeps nitpicking Elizabeth about everything it's been. It's getting annoying now, Like she's like, you need to check the laundry. Oh, you can do this. Well you clearly didn't do right, Like it's just like just fucking back off. That whole laundry conversation was infuriating, Yeah, because I was just like, why are you asking her about the laundry if she's telling you that she hasn't switched anything over. She's supposed to sit there and like wrap her fingers and wait for it to like buzz and switch it over. I don't, I don't. I don't understand. I really don't understand. Yeah, And Elizabeth upset that James hasn't been talking to her all day, and she says frustrating and weird and she doesn't want to play any games. But then like as soon as the guests go to bed and after dinner, James and Elizabeth like talk and he says that he likes her and he wants it to carry on, but she didn't have her his back to Rachel, and he has all this emotional baggage and he's seen this item in the baggage before. It doesn't know what to do with it, and he wants to pull back as a defense mechanism. This defense mechanism is a thing he doesn't want to change currently down a rush to change. And I was like, okay, so he seems like fully cognizant of his situation, like he's into psychology, we get it, but like I mean, like, what am I supposed to do with this info? It's like, okay, why don't you relay this to Elizabeth? Yeah? And it's also really weird to say like I'm not willing to work on this, Like I'm not willing to share this with the person who needs to hear it. I'm also not willing to work on it, okay, which to me is sounds like a fancy psychology way of being like I'm just not that into her. Bro. Yeah, exactly. It's like, why aren't you just if if she's not worthy of like hearing this, then you shouldn't be fucking with her period, which I also and I know this is last episode, but like whose sheets were they hanging? If he was underneath sheets, like those were is he sheets that got sprayed with calm? Yeah? I don't know that was confused. Still, I'm still disturbed by that whole song. It went from like you could see them to like a full on like blanket over them. I didn't get a fun curtain. It's called a fun curtain. Fun that's what you're paying. They hung a when you're trying to put in your long stroke and you don't want to be restricted by a blanket over your ass. And he's like, oh, I want to do the dipping whip and I can't do that if you can't see me, you know, very valid? Yeah, so yeah, man, like being grown up, you're not into her. It sucks, dude, It really sucks because let's tell her I'm into fucking you while we're here, but I really have zero desire beyond that. And you're already mentioning marriage and you've already hurt my feelings so like, I just want you to know that I'm not into continuing this outside of the boat. Do you want to suck my dick? Still? Are you trying to s my d um even though I'm shading you big time? But the worst part is Elizabeth is now struggling with a U T I, which is like, damn, it's not even worth it. This will give you even which also like, girl, do you know how musty those things must have been? Like you've been working all day? You musty? He's musty, Like it does not take long to take a washcloth to your parts. If it's one thing that I can say, everybody gets some wet wipes. Man clean your parts before you fuck. It is not worth the U T I and then go p afterwards. Pe so easy, just go pay and save yourself the struggle clean up, you know what I mean? Hopping, get a wet washcloth, like these things are are avoidable, avoidable. Yeah, but still again I feel for her because it is a painful situation. Anybody who's ever had one knows. So now we got two U T s. We've got two U T A s cuts. Everyone's skinning. U T I is left and right? But is he's not bone in, so hers is just I think I think that's the kidney thing. But that's all connected. Yeah. So, like Elizabeth struggling to sleep that night, So she sends a text to Francesco about it in the morning, being like, I'm a little worried about tomorrow. But obviously Francesco a sleep. Uh. It's the next day, and Francesco except annoyed that Elizabeth isn't feeling well, and which is county. Yeah, She's like, well, ash and Rachel work through it and Elizabeth isn't. So she's taking advantage of the situation. And it's like, isn't she going to work through it? Like sounds like she is. She's just asking to see a doctor to get any biotics. Yeah, and she's letting you know she's not well, which is also what she's supposed to do, right, she's not supposed to say anything about it. I don't think she's taking advantage. I think she's just telling you my fucking pussy burns, right, and also her pussy burns and Ashley's Tom Tom hurts, you know what I mean, Like, this's two different degrees of what you're feeling, especially if you can't sleep all night because of it. Yeah, And meanwhile, is he just killing it? He is? He is a fucking beast. Yeah. So Francesca gets approve from Captain Lee to get a doctor to come out and check on Rachel, ash and Elizabeth and anyone else who isn't feeling well. And James is upsetting Elizabeth in the crew mess by ignoring her and he's like looking at Rob's Instagram and like, we don't follow enough like hot girls. He's like, I only follow birds and stuff like that, and Rachel's right there and he's like ignoring her presence, and she gets really upset and walks out, and I was like, I didn't even notice her. How am I in the doghouse already? And Ashon is You're like, well, you've fucked up, so you deserve to be there, which I thought was I thought it was nice of them to stand up for why. I think so too, and also just to like tell him like a guy, no, no, no, no, no, that you did, because that was kind of sucked up, Like that's just rude, you know what I mean? You know you've been treating her kind of shitty. You know, she's confused, you know what kind of person she is, and then you're just gonna be talking ship like I'm only follow hot women, that's why I'm on insta, Like it's just like a whole lot of things and you're not even acknowledging her presence. But again, it's like that's like just super one oh one fucking dick moves right where it's like, now I'm gonna like be the ultimate asshole, so you don't like me anymore because that's easier to be an asshole and deny I'm being an asshole than to actually tell you my real feelings. Yeah, well that's the end episode, Season A, episode twelve. Nick isn't here to do boat facts, so I guess I'll do a boat facts with a tease myself. I looked up Texas Women's Anglers Tournament, also known as TWAT, which is a woman's only, family run fishing tournament held every summer in Port Aran Sauce, Texas. It was found in the nineteen eighties with the mission to raise funds for the Women's Celter of South Texas, now named the Purple Door UH. In eighteen eighty nine, eighteen boats registered for the tournament, with over fifty women anglers. Today, an average of seventy boats and over four women. Anglers gather in port arenas are in sauce aran sauce to fish the tournament and raise money for the Purple Door. Um, what's an angler? Let's look up what an angler is? Angler? Fish? I think just an angler just means you're like a fisherwoman. I'm pretty sure. Oh cool, And angler is just another word for just piecient and fishes and it I think it means that you use a rod in a line as opposed to like a net or like a trap. And it usually refers to someone who's standing in a boat or a shore. I think, oh yeah, person who fishes with the rod a line. Okay, hell yeah, there we go. My dad was an anglers. Angling is a method of fishing by means of an angle. To hook is usually attached to a fishing line, and the line is often attached to a fishing rod. Very simple. Modern fishing rods are usually fitted with the fishing rold that functions as a mechanism for storing, retrieving, and paying out the line. Well, there you go. Boat facts with Anna tease for this episode while Nick is gone, Thanks so much for listening. Lydia. Where can people find you and follow you? You can find me on the internet at hater Tuesday for Instagram and Twitter, Lydia Popovitch dot com is my website. Not a whole lot going on there, so just find me on social media somewhere, you know what I mean. That's that'll work. I like that. And if you see me in real life, don't talk to me, don't talk. Yeah, thank you again for coming to do the show. Hey man, appreciate I love talking about this show. So, like I said, I if I don't talk to you about it, it's just me pacing around my room and putting it on Twitter. So I love it. This is this is a great time for me. I feel that. I mean we learned the last minute, literally right before we were going to start that Nick couldn't make it, so we really had to swing in make this happen on our own. So I appreciate you being my partner in crime today. Happy to help, Happy to help. Thank you. 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