Trusting Yourself First

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Welcome.
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My show is That to Dream, and the topic for
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today is trusting yourself First. I'm your host, Grad Williferson,
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the brit the generation International and intuitive evidential Mediums. I've
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been doing this show for a while, as I've said
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many times at the start of my shows, and the
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topic been through to yourself is literally about trusting yourself.
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We're all born with psychic abilities and we all have
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a choice, have you simple moment of our lives. We
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have a choice of listening to those gut feelings, something
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not right, or whatever.
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You want to call it.
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If you don't listen to it, it doesn't get stronger,
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it doesn't get any better. You stop listening to what
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you're born with. And that's sad for me. I see
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so many people that I know have marveless energies are
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more than capable of doing show similar to what I do.
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We all have gifts for a reason, our spirit having
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a human experience, because when our body dies, our spirit
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goes back to whatever realm energy you want to call it, heaven, whatever,
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and that's what you take with your memory and feelings.
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Can you say now at this moment that what you've
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done is for the highest and best for you and
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those that are in your life. If I've listened to
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all the people that told me, oh, you can't do that,
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that's wrong, well it's not going to work, or no, no, no,
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put a wall up, I wouldn't be having this show now.
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Many years ago, I fell in love with a lady
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in America and I was in England, and over time
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we fell in love. And I said to my family
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in England or the sisters arts uncles of us, I'm
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going to meet this lady and I doubt I'll be
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coming back to England and go yah no, no, it's
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your past. Record is not going to work now because
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I've been married twice before, I have two children, and
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the first marriage and things happened and it didn't work,
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and then from that would be from the seventies.
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To ninety four and things didn't work.
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My life was up and down, and I said, I'm
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never going to get married again. Yeah, because the day
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I met this lady, I knew beyond doubt things have
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changed for the better. And I said to a remember
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of my family or friends who said it's not going
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to work, I said, Hi.
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See you later.
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And one of our elitists said, you'll be back a
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couple of years, three years almost.
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You'll be back. You'll be back, you'll be back. Well
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that's not five years later. I'm still here.
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I'm still happy and living a life I never thought
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I could ever live. Because I've trusted myself. I listened
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to my heart. I listened to the guts, the area
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of my body that says something right or something wrong.
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I've been a medium. I learned to listen, really honestly listen.
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I didn't analyze it deeply, because when you analyze something,
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you're thinking about it and got to get it just
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right with your guts, yes or no. If it's not sure,
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you step back. If you're sure, you step forward verbally
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or physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever you want to call that
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moment that says, this is real. That's how I've got
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my show because my mother did the dare to Dream
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tapestry for me and said, that is you. You dare
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to dream of my life, of my future, of my happiness,
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or whatever label I want to put on it at
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the moment. And I've always wanted to speak from my
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heart and spirit on my shows, and CC Jacques, the
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producer of this wonderful network, allowed me to do so
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because she trusts herself to create.
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This wonderful platform.
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She trusts me to do my show, and she knows,
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and a lot of you know that I can't planet
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a show. I can't write down when I've got.
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An A B C. D.
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It doesn't work that way for me because every single
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show is spontaneous. Even the title each week, well each
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week I do the show, every other one, every other Thursday.
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I just ask spirit, what's the title? And I trust
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the image and the feeling I get. My mind does
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go through things and sensations or a song or whatever
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it is. It triggers something in my head that goes,
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that's the one that's shit. Title, tell CC. Then I
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leave it, go get it. I have to check when
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I come on the show fifteen minutes before we do
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the show. What's the title again? Oh yeah, okay, Spirit,
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there we go. I do my affirmation before I cecc
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and literally ask for guidance. I asked Spirit to guide
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my works and.
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My show and like new the viewer, about what can be.
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In your life if you trust yourself, if you listen
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to your instincts. Every single person on this earth as instincts,
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and we.
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All know the good ones and the bad ones.
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But when you see somebody in a bad situation, what
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do you do about it? Do you feel like helping
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them or taking a step back. I was just talking
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to Cecie about something that happened to me, just going
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to a bag, a simple thing, and the system was wrong.
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The staff was fantastic, but because of the system, electronics,
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whatever they're connected to, for me to cash a check
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from England, Hey, yes, it wasn't working very well because
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one of the trains. One of the staff wasn't one
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hundred percent shore on the system, but the systems she
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knew had been changed. So instead of fifteen twenty minute
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transaction it should normally take for me, it was an
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hour in the bank. So I found up the head
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office I'm not going to mention the bank. I told
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him we have a problem, Well you have a problem,
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and I told him and the gus sorry, yeah, the
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valid points all he says, well, thank you deeply. Nobody
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else comes back and tells us what's wrong or what's right.
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I affirmed that the staff were doing the best they could,
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but the system was faulty. What's that going to do
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with spirit? Our system is faulty in our bodies and
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our minds, our spirit when we don't listen to them,
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when we don't listen to our gods. Will you have
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all the equipment or the programming in our bodies? And
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I'll use the word programming with hyphen because I don't
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know what it really is, but it seems like a problem.
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Because our spirit has intention of learning things in the
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physical world. We've planned to come here to experience things.
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And mine was to open my mouth. Mine was to
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say what I felt was to be true, that without
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any doubt. I listened to me from my guts, from
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my heart before I open my mouth. I know it
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drives my wife notes sometimes says, oh, you're not going
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to struggling, and I yes, I'm causing people to take notice,
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it's not therefore, it's the system. You are born with
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everything that you need if you listen to it. As
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soon as you put ego and conscious thoughts into what
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you're going to do, and things tend to go a
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little bit screw with don't really work out of the cent.
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But if you trust yourself, trust what you feel, what
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you know, and follow that, it works out. Now I'm
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amazed she puts up with me for all these years.
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In a good way. Don't get me wrong, because.
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I never know what the heck I'm going to say.
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But that's the beauty of daring to dream. Be in
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a medium. I have a little bit of an advantage.
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I know I need spiritual guidance. I know I have
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guides helping me. I know how I listen to my guts,
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my heart more than most people. I do shows. I
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do readings for the people to help them up lift them,
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because all my energy is to uplift and make people
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feel notice noticed. Yeah, they're trying to interfere again, and
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they always trick my words. But I won't channel on
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my show.
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Spirit.
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No. I have to be fifty to fifty here with
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spirit and material because the show has to be in
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a way that doesn't scare people. It has to show
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people that every single one of you can do things
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more when you stop thinking.
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I had a bump.
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Into somebody the other day in the market, and that
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child is learning how to drive the vehicle, and the.
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Mother was panicking and stressing out. I said, can you
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remember when you.
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Oh yeah, yeah, I was terrible. I had to and
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across the car and I did all the negative stuff.
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I said, So you're putting all that onto your child. No, no, no,
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clever about or you've got to do this because this
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will happen if you don't do that. This will happen
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all the things that happened to you. You're telling them indirectly. Yeah,
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I'd never thought of that, But what you're saying feels right.
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And then I've bumped into recently, he said. He actually said,
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I'm glad somebody talked to you, mom, because you're scaring me,
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and I'll nearly quit learning to drive. You See, our
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words have meaning, even to ourselves. If we're negative to ourselves,
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they will use a few pip persons made another mistake
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and about yourself. You amplify that energy, You amplify it
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in such a way, it becomes a reality. Your words
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are communication and also conduates for your future. Think about
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that conduits to your future. So by saying negative, you
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lay the pathway into something that you don't really want
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to experience, or you choose positivity. And I'm not that,
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Oh our Pegel, Gabriel and all come down and ABCDF
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for me.
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No.
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I know people do that, and I admire them and
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I love them for it their way.
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This is my way.
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I don't do that because I see spirit, I feel spirit,
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I hear them, I send them. Sometimes can smell on
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somebody that's a smoker or wasn't very clean when they
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were here or whatever. I recognize them down here being
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around me. Yes, they're in another realm, right, Gabriel and
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Michael and all the rest of them. They're up there.
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But I'm a little bit busy for them, or give
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them too much work. So I work with the people
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that are near and dear to me. Occasionally I do
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get higher angels coming through and guides, but not very
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often because I know they're busy. And I know that
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sounds a little bit, that's a bit weird, grehm, But no,
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I know the energy around me. I know what feels comfortable.
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And if somebody somebody says, oh okay, calls over your ground,
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I say, okay, prove it.
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Prove it.
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You see, I learned years ago. You can get good energy,
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that says ABC. But that can also be negative energy
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pretending to be good energy when you think about it.
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But if you listen to what you have within you,
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all those abilities within you, you know, beyond doubt, what is
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truly real and truly false. You listen to yourself first.
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You trust yourself first, even for a heartbeat. If you
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think something is not right, stop, take a step back
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and say prove it. I know I did the opposite
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verbally physically then, but I'm emphasized on the point I
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have to prove what happens in my life to a
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lot of people. Being a medium, my job is to
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show people this is real. I also talk to somebody
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the other day.
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I talked to a lot of people mad.
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About being in the Falkland is about taking pictures of
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mountains and all the rest of it. And I said, well,
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we're going on a cruise up in Alaska. What do
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you recommend? I said, I can't vouch for digital, but
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I can vouch for the film. The higher pixelation of
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cameras today are fantastic, But I like film, the emotions
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and the best camera setting, the best camera for the
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four that time I've got pictures I still remember in
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my heart. I said, I think the amount of costs
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for cameras today to get really top quality pictures. It's
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like something this size, the big picture behind me from
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a digital camera, which cost a lot of money. I
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have pictures of Big Ben and Tower Bridge and had
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it really blown up where that picture is used to
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be the Tower Bridge.
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The picture.
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And the person wandered off me two hundred dollars, sorry
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two hundred pounds when he first saw the picture on
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my ship back in the sentence A.
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Hundred pounds for a sickle picture. I said, no, it's copyrighted.
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It's mine, it is, but you.
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Can make a lot of money. I said, no, it's
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a picture for me. And I enjoyed the picture. It
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reminds me of the time I was on a warship
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in London. Tarror of London birth to a picture of
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the taverage. It's not for sale and if I see
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a picture of it, I know who to contact to
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suit the copyright or you can't do that, try it,
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I trust myself. I am not perfect, I'm perfectly imperfect,
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But my intention, my heart, my guides all lead to
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one thing.
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To do the best.
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Of my life, live the best of my life, and
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give other people the chance to live the best of
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them likes.
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Because we have a limited.
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Time on this earth, I am in over time living
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on the earth because I couldn't see living past thirty
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many years ago. I really couldn't, because I was a
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drunk and alcoholic, failed marriages and all the rest of it.
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Couldn't see myself living past thirty. But here I'm seventy
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two years of age, living a life. I absolutely adore,
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growing things in the garden in Florida, having the time
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of life. But trusting yourself first is about being honest
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to yourself, looking inside what makes you tick, what makes
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you feel happy, even the stuff that makes you sad
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and ashamed and angry and fed or whatever emotion you've got.
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You've got to face yourself. You've got to know who
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you you truly are. You can't lie with your brain,
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but you can lie with your voice and your actions.
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Your brain doesn't have a live actor, it think seemed
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that way, and then you choose what to say. I've
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learned to switch off and let's do all the talking
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for me. Not lied on anything. I stayed in my shows.
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You can check them up. I don't care because my
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truth is because I know myself. I trust myself because
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I've been in all our negative stuff before. I learned
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a long time ago. You can't stay there. You can't
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listen to somebody else for your actions. It's what you
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choose to do that makes you. You have to trust
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yourself enough to say what you mean. If you're going
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to be a liar, you're a liar. If you're going
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to be happy, you can be happy. If you're going
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to be in love, listen to your heart, listen to
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your guts. Being told this is not going to work
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all those years ago, and you'll be back. And you
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failed before and you failed this and you didn't work there. Yeah,
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all these lovely negatives around my head and letting everyone
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spin around. So my guide says, why are you doing
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this career? Do you want to be stuck here? Do
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you want to stay in the past, bringing your past
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up and say.
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Yeah, I'll listen to you. I'm looking back all the time.
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No, the past is still there, like I've got all
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these things behind me, but I choose to go all
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look at lastness that was from a relative, all the
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pictures that that's another relatory. Oh that's my mom, or
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that's my daughter, or that's the picture, or that's my grandson.
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All this, all these pictures are in my past. All
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these things are in my past, but I can use
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them as I feel. I trust myself first. To talk
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on this show is literally a joy to my heart.
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You the listener, have choices, and I totally understand the
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negative choices and the positive ones. Being a recovered alcoholic,
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two fail marriages, been in through your car. All the
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things that happened in my past made me what I
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am today because I choose to live for now to
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make a better future. I trust myself now to do that.
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I didn't know that what I say can affect people
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in a positive way. I thought, well, if I interfering trouble,
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not always the thing that happened with a bank in
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my check it turned out, oh we weren't a wear
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of that, or thank you for talan us is oh yeah,
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well we'll pass it on down the line. You know
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this is this shouldn't happen. Thank you for talin us.
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Nobody's haven't done that before. Oh that's sad, isn't it.
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And I'm saying to you think about it. If you
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see something wrong, yeah.
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Or walk away.
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There's a time sometimes you have to step up and
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say no, May I suggest something and say it that way?
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May I suggest? But listen to your heart. If it's
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a negative incident, do you want to get involved in it?
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Can you bring a positive slant to it or motion
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into it to alleviate problem? Even a person on the
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street that's begging for something.
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My goods.
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On many occasions, I was going to donate something to
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somebody on the street.
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There's something. Nope, hang on a.
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Bit, and I disappeared, went around the corner apart the
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truck and waited. This person got up on all the
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stuff that they looked destitute. We got all the things
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that you look at and you think, oh, I feel
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for it. And I followed them to a brand new BMW. Yeah,
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that destitute person had a BMW. And I've seen this
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person a few times and last time I went to
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see them, I said, you've got two choices quit or
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suffered the consequence of being found out.
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This is what do you mean? I clicked to the camera.
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What you're doing?
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I said, you're in public and I'm taking a picture
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of that tree that just happens to be behind you.
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And I love taking pictures of wildlife and treats. They
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packed up and dispaired, and they were outside a bank.
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I wanted to start exad you just almost person. Yeah,
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what happens? I told them, really mean again into trouble?
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Why should I I'm not a coward and I'm not
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a hero. I'm just a guy that doesn't believe in
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not listening, not paying attention. I listen and I pay attention.
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I'm not perfect, as I just said, I'm perfectly imperfect.
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But I have to trust myself first, as so do you.
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You have to listen to your instincts. What makes you happy.
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It's all right.
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I was saying, I'm here to look after somebody else,
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that they come first. No, how can you look after
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somebody else first if it's detrimental to your well being.
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A nurse cannot look after a patient if that nurse
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is sick. Think about it. Who looks after the care
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is yourself. You have to look after yourself first. I've
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been fortunate to have been on wards with people with
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mental and physical disabilities and challenges, and I've been the
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known horses, and I've seen death, and I've saved lives
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help people throughout my life.
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I'm no hero.
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I just was in the right place at the right town,
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and I listened to myself first.
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That stepped up.
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The one time traveling in the Mediterranean Gerrolton and Colision
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to Intero ships Ibs Potto.
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And then the other.
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And on a dinghy, I just trust my man in
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the water, grab something pulled up guy in my mouth,
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save his life. I instinctively did what was needed. You
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all have abilities that if you listen to your instincts
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here in your heart and your guts and don't think
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about it, you can do more than saving lives. You
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can save your own. You can make your life better.
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You can enjoy the journey that you're on. You can
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go to places, whether it be physically or spiritually. Your
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energy exactly what's the word expands, It goes beyond your
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physical body. It's called the ethic aoric fields. I'm not
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conversant with all the wording that they use now is
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But the energy that you exude from your spirit is
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because your spirit has all the answers and it works
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with the energy that you came from. That everything is
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from that makes up the pictures of all everything around
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you is made up by energy, and that energy is
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inside you as well. And when you connect to it
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by trusting yourself first, there's nothing you can't do. Yes,
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it may take time, and yes you make mistakes, but
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the stepping stones for the next time and the next
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time until you achieve what purpose you're here to achieve
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because you are spirit having a human experience, and the
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whole point of your life is to enjoy it.
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To the best of your ability.
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You can't do it if somebody tells you, oh, you
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can't do that, because I tried it and it didn't work. Well,
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I want to try and see if it works for me.
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But it's like edition of the light bulb. There was
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ninety nine times work differently to what he expected. Then
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he got the one that he was hoping for, the
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light one. That's rough translation of what I heard. But
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you see, when do you keep trying to do your
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best every moment of you, each day of your lives
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you add another step forward. When you don't listen to
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yourself and you listen to everybody else, you go backwards
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because that's not your journey, that's theirs. If you ask
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for somebody's opinion, that's fine, but if they give it
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without being asked, I'm sorry, Yeah, yeah, I don't you
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mean well, but no, thank you. This is our point
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of your journey on this earth to do the best
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you can even when you feel ill. Is how do
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you think about? What did I do? Could have done
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something different? And will this medicine work? You've got all
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these things racing around you. I've been in the hospital
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a few times for those things with pericarditis, which is
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an inflammation of the lining around the heart. Got a virus,
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and every now and again, on temperature changes, sudden temperature changes,
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it goes into spasm. It feels like a heart attack
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when it does after take an aspirin. It's not a
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heart problem. It's the lining around the heart that's the problem,
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and it will periodically appear. I've had this problem since
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nineteen eighty seven. You work it out in forty years.
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But I learned to listen to my body. I learned
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to say Okay, what do you show me? What are
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you telling me? What are you giving me? What can
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I do now to help? What can I do to
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make it better? Can I show you whatever?
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And I'll step up.
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There's a gentleman I bobbed and do today at a
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fair ground. I go to it has a market, open
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air market, and my friend he's going for major heart
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surgery in a couple of weeks, so he's taking time
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off next week and then the week after is doing
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it and I end up doing I said, can I
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have a hug because I always have a hug from
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my friend. He says, you're a bit early for your
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hohog ground. I said, what are you going to be
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away next week? And you're away for three months, so
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I'm not going to be able to just give you your own.
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And I made him laugh. He says, you're the only
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guy I know there's not into guise. I said, that's fine.
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I said, but you're my friend and I make you
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laugh because he lost his wife not too long ago,
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and I promised that I would be around kick his
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butt and make him smile, and that's what I do.
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My wife, Sadie, calls me the comedic medium because I
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tend to make people laugh when I do readings. But
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you see, we all have gifts. I've learned to listen
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to mine. You have a chance by my shows to
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look back and you see all the different topics we've got,
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or go on to any of the new streaming network
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on YouTube and stuff. It's all there for you. There's
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so many varieties of shows that will help you have
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a better life. And we've got about nine minutes left
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to go. But what I want to say to you
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is never listen to somebody else without trusting yourself. First,
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ask somebody for advice after you've listened to yourself, because it's.
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Your journey to walk it your way.
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And yes you're going to make mistakes, and yes you're
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going to find yourself.
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Oops. I did something wrong, but you might do something right.
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In the process of doing something wrong. For example, I
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was asked to help somebody shift some boxes. Okay, I'll
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try and do that, but something happened and I couldn't
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and sorry, I find do it. Oh it's okay, because
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somebody came and that wanted to be employed, and I
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paid them to do it. That person needed the money
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more than you see every opportunity you have. It's not
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a fault, it's just a different perspective of your journey.
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That's why it's important you trust yourself first. You listen
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to yourself first. You follow what your heart and your
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guilts tell you. Every minute of every day, you've got
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a chance to do better. I am not very often
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serious on my shows in one sense of self. You've
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got to do something, But the choice is what you
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have to do. What you have to listen to the choices,
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but pick the choice that makes you feel comfortable. Trust
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yourself in following your own intuition.
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Now, i'd better give.
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You further details about who I am in the show,
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and you know you've watched trusting yourself first. But the
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whole point of my show is communication. If you want
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to contact me for any reason, there's two email addresses,
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A Medium seventy seven at gmail dot com or the
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brit seventy seven at hotmail dot com.
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Send me a text email.
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Or you can phone me in Florida, USA three five
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two four zero nine one zero six zero leave a
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voice message, or you can contact me on Facebook or
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Messenger dm me. I'm here for you and spirit and
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for myself and to be honest myself first, because I
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have to look back in myself and say did I
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do the best I could? And I can honestly say
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I did my best because my show on the new
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streaming network is for you to uplift you and show
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that you're.
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Not alone, not going to fail if you listen to yourself. Now,
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I have a book, thanks.
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I have a book that I wrote after forty odd years,
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called A Spirit for All Nations and Awakening Begins, and
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it's a fantasy fiction. It's about my past indirectly and
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the things that I encountered. It's a bit of an
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adventure hero stuff, but a lot of the things in
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my story are literally things that I encountered. Yes, there's
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a couple of bits of fantasy that I've exaggerated as
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a bit, but it is the purpose of the book
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to show the versatility of your past and to use
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it to your best. That's why I wrote my book,
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and also to keep a promise to my daughter who asked,
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over forty years here, did you write that book now? Nope,
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I'd better write it so my past.
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Talk with me.
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And now it's on Amazon Ulu. If you need to
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contact me, look it up. On Amazon. It's got the
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prices up there, but I do have the book paperback
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and half back. I thank you deeply, each and every
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one of you for being here to today. My next
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show is Thursday August twenty seven, seven pm Eastern Standard Time,
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and I'm the host of Dare to Dream. I want
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you to know that I value you watching my shows
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and I hope that you will give me a message.
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Now.
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I'm Reverend Graham Williamson. I'm third generation international intuitive evidential
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medium and pside and host of my show Dare to Dream,
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and I want to thank each and every single one
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of you a wonderful life and trust yourself first, and
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I'll say goodbye for now. Thank you for watune.
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