Being Weird Is Perfectly Fine

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Welcome everybody to Dead to Dream and I'm your host
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from Broa Winimson and we are on News Streaming Network
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and wgsn dB GOO and Solo Network Radio. Welcome to
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my show. Today's topic. Oh okay, yeah, being perfectly sorry.
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Being weird is perfectly fine. And the reason why I
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say that is because I am a third generation international
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intuitive evidential medium, psychic and I've been doing these shows
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now for nearly four years, and everybody in my family
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calls me the black Sheep. Why is that because I'm weird?
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But you see what is weird actually mean? In Monday,
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there's so many people that have learned to open up
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their gifts, be more aware and in tune with energy
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around them and energy flowing through them. One point of
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life that I just said to Sissi, We're perfectly imperfect,
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and we've become imperfect because of the way other people's
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opinions seem to try and control arms. Oh that's nice,
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but can you do it this way a little bit?
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Treat this and that. I've finished being receptive to other
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people's opinions many years ago because I could see the
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ulterior motive behind it. Everybody bit the same. Everybody follow
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this rule. Everybody followed that rum. Sorry. I didfort in
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our fears in the Royal Navy, and I followed the
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rules to the letter. I became a security guard. I
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became a specialist in surveillance and stuff. I absolute things
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all purl book, But what is the book? What is life?
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Life is an experience our spirit having a human experience.
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And the point of our experiences are that we want
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to try the material aspect that our spirit was seen
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before they came into our physical bodies. And what I've
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found when I talked to people, and that I'm going
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to stopped to say. There's a lady phoned me up yesterday,
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an older lady in the eighties nineties, and she was
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panicking about a spirit in her home and could I help?
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And I said, what do you mean a spirit? And
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she'd describe what she was feeling, hearing and hearing I said, oh, yeah,
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that's no problem. And I told her how to rectify
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this unwanted guest in her home. It wasn't harmful, it
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was just bothering her when she didn't want to be bothered.
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So I told her what to do. And then this
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is weird that I just saw somebody yesterday and they
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told me, oh, Graham's good at this, and gave me
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on a burning it up, and you give me the answer.
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And she foed me again this morning, said it's gone.
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That's the weird thing. How did it all happen the
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way it did? I said, well, there's no such thing
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as a coincidence. Everything's in the plan, everything step by step,
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or whatever controls it. I don't control it, You don't
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control it. It's whatever controls everything. And we're all weird
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when we step away from that energy. When we become
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ego driven, we concentrate on what we've got to do.
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This is my aim, My ego says, I want to
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do it this way. No, if you don't feel comfortable
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with your heart and your guts in tune with each
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other and you feel peace, then it's not going to
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work properly. It'll work for temporarily. Temporarily, I'll prop the TV,
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but it won't always work out the way you expect
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it to. You've got to think back how man has evolved,
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and they'll say man the male female. We've all evolved
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over the centuries, thousands of years. But remember we all
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came from our ancestors, and our ancestors were very much
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in tune with their feelings their gods. If it wasn't
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for them, we probably wouldn't be here now if they
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didn't listen to their instant, their psychic abilities. And later,
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as Manivold, we got to understand the connection between those
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that have passed on to the other side. We call
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it death, but the spirit doesn't die. And there's so
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many things that we hear about from churches and religions
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and all the rest of it. How we going Hang
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on a minute, we're the weird ones, and you've got
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to go into a church to speak to the creator. Now,
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I'm not going political, I'm not going religious. It's just
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that when the weird is directed it yourself. Like people
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call me weird, I'm happy because I don't want to
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be like everybody else. I don't want to follow everybody else.
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I'm not a sheep, and I'm not a bolt either
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or a wolf. I'm just me. I've been through all
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those things in my past that I survived for a reason,
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help weird things, the best friend taking my ship, never
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coming back, be in a car accident, survived all these
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things that happened to Why did I survive? That's the
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weird thing. Why is it? I can talk directly to
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the energy of the spirit on the other side with
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the recipient that's normally with me physically and pass on information.
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I did that this weekend in Novel and it's next
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to a church I go to, or used to go
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to quite a lot, and I've been busy doing fairs
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and stuff at home, and people coming from the church
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into the event I was out for a reading. He said,
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everybody talks about it. You're so weird, and I take
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it as a compliment because the no, I'm not like
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the normal people. But I'm not negative. I'm not selfish.
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You See, to be weird is to listen to your instincts,
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listen to your energy, your spirit from your heart and
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your goots, and it is to react to that in
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a positive manner. I never give a negative reading if
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I feel something's wrong, I tell the person I'm not
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feeling too good, make some logical, plausible excuse. And I've
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got a spirit trying to get me to talk by channel,
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and I try not to do that on my show.
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But I'm very tired, and when I'm very tired, my conscience,
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my ego is a little bit more relaxed, and that's
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when Spirit normally acts it. You can get in now,
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we can stop working with him. No, I'm in control
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of my body, into control of my energy, and I
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asked Spirit to back off, to guide me, but not
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to control me. You see, the viewer have gifts. You
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have so many gifts. If you don't label them. As
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soon as you label them, you limit your gifts. I've
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put up all that third generation and everything, but that's
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just to show you I'm varied. But when people ask
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what are my gifts, I don't really know. Whatever's needed
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is my response. Whatever's needed. Remember, in oldern days, the
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ladies of healing were called witches, and the guys will
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walks and all this sort, and ostracized by the churches
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and all this. Why because the weird ones stepped away
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from conforming to the same as everybody else. Everybody else
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was under the control of belief system, the churches, religions.
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I know being a spiritualist is a religion because it's
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a different type. We have ethics, well, prayers, we are
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hymns and all the same as a church. But you
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don't have to do anything, you don't have to pay tithes,
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you don't have to do what you're told. A church
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for spiritualism is a place where you can go and
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trust your instinct and a medium will give you a
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message to say, would you mind me giving you a reading,
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Here's what happened feeling and tell that recipient whatever it is,
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and the person's all pray, Love's come through. But as
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soon as you tell somebody in a church or something
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like that, or somebody was really strong religious beliefs, oh
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that's weird, that's evil. You see people use the wrong words.
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People have been listening to the wrong words for a
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very long time. I quit listening to those words back
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in early eighties when I was still in the forces
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because I knew my gifts were pretty strong. I knew
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I was accurate and what the task I needed to
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fulfill at the time, and people never called me weird
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in the Navy did when I left ATE because I
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found out the forces we wanted to use my gifts
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more more more, which is the onely reasons why I
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put my notice in the left. It took a long
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time to leave. It took me eighteen months to leave
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that job. But the end of it, people hounded me.
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And when they didn't do, oh, you're weird. When they
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didn't wanted, You're even more weird because I wasn't conforming
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to their expectations. You see, we're all individuals. We're all
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here to follow our own purposes, our own intention of
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being here, our life's path, journey, whatever you want to
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call it. And you have to follow your heart, not
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your head. Yeah, because I feel from what my experience
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of connection with spirit is, we want to experience physical
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things on this time on earth, and you've got to
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trust what you feel. You see when you trust yourself
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and you know yourself and your eyes are wide open
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and it's what you feel comfortable doing. It's not weird.
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It's been controlled self without the limitation. It's difficult to
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put it into words in a way that you would understand. Fully,
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I'm not a scholar or anything like that. But I
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understand that when you work with your gifts, that's listening
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to your heart and your guts, and you speak openly
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with positivity, then it will come out as it should
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come out. But as soon as you start thinking what
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you're going to say, it can twist the message or
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become a totally different message. To be weird is to
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be in full control of your heart. And I say
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full control means you listen, you allow, you're in sync,
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you feel comfortable, makes you feel positive, It does all
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these things, and you feel this warm glow. I went
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for a job interview to do an event next year
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at the local fairground, and I was describing to this
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boss that I was going to be working with that's
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success all your interested in the spirit. And I said, ooh,
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you're getting goosebumps. How do you know that, I said,
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because I'm feeling them as well. I'm the first person
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to ever say that to her. But she has been
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wanting to hear those words for a very long time.
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He says. My husband calls, I think I'm weird. I said,
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isn't it good? And the relief on her face because
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I said that made them more relaxed. She says thank
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you's ever said that to me before. I've always had
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to keep my mouth shut. That said, that's weird having
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to keep your mouth shut, and she started laughing. You see,
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when you let other people control you and that becomes
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the norm. To me, that is not right. That's weird.
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It's not what we're here for. We're not here to
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follow other people's rules and regulations. We're here to be
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courteous and uplift each other in a positive manner and
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to learn from it and be at peace with it.
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But if somebody calls you weirds turns to thank you,
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that means it's working. I thought many years ago, when
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I first started doing this show, that would people treat
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me as different when they say I'm odd, weird or whatever.
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And you know what, I have never really bothered. I
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didn't bother what people would think. It matters to me
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that only that what I'm saying to you means something
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to you in your heart, because I'm here to show
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you we are all weird if you so wish to be.
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But you've got to listen to yourself. You've got to
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know yourself, know what makes you ache and feel tired.
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Why the way hyper whatever you want to be, You've
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got to know what your body feels like. You've got
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to know what your mind's like. I also have what's
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called sleep at here, and I used to have big
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gaps in my breathing, and then now I had eight
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big interruptions in my sleep. And I used to migraines
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and others went obviously seapap and I went to see
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sleep dot two days ago. He says, how are you
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doing this? And what from eight interruptions to two? This
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is that good? How are you doing it? So? I
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told her anything that is automatic can be changed if
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you put your thought behind it, and you can make
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something automatic if you think about it with your heart.
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I used to be able to hold my breath for
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five minutes thirteen seconds, which I thought was pretty good
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until I heard about Trait Wins, the actress seven and
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a half minutes curious to her. But with that I
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forgot to breathe properly, start breathing. I was holding my
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breath for twenty minutes or twenty seconds, and then breath,
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breathe in, hold twenty seconds out, twenty seconds in. So
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now I've got it down to five and the doctor,
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but how do you do that, I said, being weird.
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Anything can be controlled if you trust yourself, and she
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did say the word, but that's weird. I'm a doctor
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and this is irreversibal. You see. My point is I
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break the mold because I don't fit in the mold.
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You don't fit in the mold. You just told you
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fit in the mold. But when you know yourself, your body,
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your conscience, your aura, your energy, whatever you want to
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call it, you could say no, I don't want to
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do that no more. I want to follow myself. I
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want to follow my heart. I want to follow my
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guts now and I think about it afterwards. I'm changing
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how my body works. And they told me many years ago,
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because I have such a high metabout it right, that
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it would get better when I got older. I used
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to have to eat every hour and a half because
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my body processed stuff and I don't have a fact result,
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which sounds wonderful, but when you wake up in the
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middle of the night three or four times to eat,
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it becomes a hindrance. But luckily, over the years, I've
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managed to get down to two and a half hours
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three hours when I sleep. Sometimes a rare occasion, I
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can do four hours, but more often I wake up
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a little. It was so about to sleep. But you see,
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this is the weird thing everybody tells me that I'm doing.
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You're not supposed to be able to do that. It's
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not in the books. And when it's in the books,
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it's not in compliance with what we think it should be.
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You're not in complaint. Everything is different for every single person.
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It's how you perceive it. When I was three and
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a half and I went to school at four, I
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used to see fairies and I'll get the story right.
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Three and a half, I used to play the ferries
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of Bond and gone far. At school, everybody laughed at me.
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Came home miserable. So my grandmother told her the story,
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and she put a glass of water in front of me.
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I told the stories of the and this perspective because
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when I turned nine, the degrees the glass of waters
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on the left and I kind of the right, instead
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of being in front like this. It's all the stuff,
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same thing, different viewpoints. I've always seen things differently. I've
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always been the weird one my family, my siblings, and
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that they call me the black sheep, or used to.
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But I'm definitely the weird one. Do things that not
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everybody does. But we used to do it many years ago.
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Our ancestors used to do that, three, four or five
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generations back. We used to do this, following our guts,
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following our hearts and doing better. We knew when we
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were feeling very well. We knew what to do about it,
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having natural remedies. Nowadays you have to take a pill
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because see you don't have four out of fortune. That's
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weird to me. Healing should be natural. You shouldn't have
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to buy medicine. You shouldn't have to buy time to
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go X rays, all the rest of it. It should
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be to help you heal. But they don't. They only
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treat you. They don't heal you nine times out of ten.
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They will make you better to a point. But some
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people break that mold and heal one hundred percent because
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they listen to their bodies. I've done that many times,
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where my body works. I don't know how or why
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I'm here. I hope what I'm saying is making sense
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to you about how you feel about yourself. If you
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don't listen to yourself, that's a weird part. Be fine
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in yourself. Trust yourself. It stops being weird. Then I
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took a load of wood to a relative because I'd
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build an eighty foot pint in my garden a couple
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of weeks back and I want to get rid of it.
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So I took some logs over to the property and
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it didn't want it to works. That's a lot of wood,
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I said, yeah, it's at your foot of it. But
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I'm only bringing you about fifteen What are you going
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to do with ala? So I don't know. Yeh, that's weird. Okay.
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The weird thing is if I hadn't just taken the
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tree down, it could have own over onto my property,
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onto the house and damaged it, which would have cost
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thousands of dollars, and if we were lucky, nobody would
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be injured. But the way the tree was, I thought, no,
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it's coming now, it's safe that it's rotten, and it's
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come down. Fifteen minutes of study, breakfast got the chain
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saw out down twofold from where I wanted it to land,
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two foot away. My brother, one of my brothers, should say,
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how can you do that? That's weird. You've never used
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a chainsaw? I said, oh, I do. That's weird. You see,
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it's automatic. Anything that's against the norm is weird. Anything
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against being able to trust yourself is weird. It's not.
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It's perfectly fine. Being weird is fine. There is nothing
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wrong with standing up and listening to your heart. If
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you know beyond out you can do something, do it
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nine times ten it's going to work. And on the
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first one to say sometimes it isn't, and it won't.
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But the fact you've done it and it worked or
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it didn't, it's curios to you. I didn't know that
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I could make birds birds nesting boxes. I didn't know
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I could make part racks from my life to planters.
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I didn't know I could do a lot of things.
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Make an RV, put an RV in tobacco, the trop
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all these bits and pieces that I've done, And hey,
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that's cool. It's not weird, it's cool. You see. I
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take ownership for what happens around me, what happens for me,
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for my family, for the people I love, And do
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the best I can is what I mean. It would
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be weird for me not to do the best I can.
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To give negativity out, that's just something I don't agree
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with one bit. Because my folks work with a mentally
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and physical challenge and impaired people. I grew up going
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onto wards with these patients. They took a hot to
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play crab cards, darts, dominoes, amazing people. I was one
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with the disability, not them. They didn't know. They didn't
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think about it. That's the point. They didn't think about it.
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They didn't think they were weird. I've been onto site
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walks and people there don't dup the barballs completely out
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of it. Don't know what they're weak it is, or
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because they had a nervous breakdown so they won't allow
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the person to come back to normality, just keep them
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trucked up. That's weird. I don't agree with it. I'm
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a recovered alcoholic, but I haven't touched the drop in
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early twenty five years. I know I have a high
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capacity for liquid. That's what it was to me. It
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wasn't the fact that it was being I was getting
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drunk and getting high. Now, It's just I was thirsty,
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which was worse. But I learned the hard way. I
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learned how badly it could have turned out for me.
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But I decided to stop doing bad things to myself
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and living a life that's productive helpful to my wife,
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to myself, to my family. Have two step daughters and
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their families, and my family in England. I've got grandsons,
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I've got two grandchildren and siblings. I've got a lot
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of family, but this is my family here. I can't
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afford to go to England. Nothing. And the fact that
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we've all got chances to go through the internet, to
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do shows like this, to do live stream zoom or
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whatever you want to do a messenger, to talk to
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family all over the world. You don't feel isolated, you
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don't feel alone, and being alone isn't weird. You have
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to live your life to the best of your ability,
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with all the things behind you, those family members and
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loved ones, even the pain that you've suffered from whatever
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happened in your past. That it all makes you aware
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that you've survived. Yes, some of the things we do
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aren't happy or good, but learning from it gives you
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that strength to enjoy your life again. And if people
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want to call you weird, say thank you. That means
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I'm doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable, not me.
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So whatever you do that makes them feel uncomfortable, keep
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doing it, but only with a positive attitude only with
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love and care and passion empathy. Don't pick on people
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with disabilities. Don't pick on people that are drowning in
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their psychological stuff, emotional stuff. It's weird that people do
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not think of other people in a positive way. If
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somebody's really bothering you're making you angry, think about why
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what they're saying is annoying you. Is it reminding you
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how you shouldn't be. Is it causing you to feel
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guilty frustrated alone? Then do something about it in a
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positive way. When I get angry, I have to stop
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it up. Okay, What did I do that makes me
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feel this bad? Why should I feel angry? Oh? I
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remember something similar? Okay, And I work through it. And
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the first thing I do is apologize to myself and
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to the people concerned, if anybody else is involved, because
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we all get frustrated. And I know people I've worked
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with saying you were really annoyed earlier. That's weird, and
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you just come around it. It's changed. That's weird as well,
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But is it? Is it weird when you know how
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to calm yourself down, respect yourself, had others, be positive,
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even when it looks dire straight. You've only got one
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life on this earth as we know it, and I
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don't think many remember anything of this period when we
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go to the next wrong and then possibly come back,
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because I do believe we being connect a couple of times.
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I don't know how many times. I just know that
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being a teacher tends to be the last cycle that
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you have. So I've been doing this and say so
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four years now, and it's been wonderful to be able
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to share these bits and pieces that spirit guide me
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to share with you. So stop thinking being weird is wrong.
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It is perfectly fine if you feel from your heart
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doing things that are creative and loving is one of
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the best ways of helping yourself and others. Each of
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my shows, this one's a little bit not flowing as
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smooth as it normally does because it takes a lot
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to actually think, which I don't normally do when I
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do my shows. But I'm happy I'm doing my show
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to show you you're not odd, you're not crazy, you're
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not isolated with part is. All you're going to do
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is trust yourself, know yourself, honor yourself, do the best
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you can for yourself and others. But stop thinking of
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others first. If it means that you've got to feel hearted,
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you've got to feel alone, you've got to feel anger, frustration,
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or whatever it is. If it's negative, don't do it.
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Don't apply to the rules, don't follow their ruling. You
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don't have to be a sheep. You're an individual. As
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I said at the start, to show be true to yourself.
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You see, I take my glasses off because I know
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the lights and reflection and everything. But also when I
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got that picture, what is it that picture there? I
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was thinking about that wall is a bit blank. It
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has a tired of London picture on it from many
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years ago. And my friend, but one of my best friends,
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came over. When he was going to throw that picture away,
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he said, Graham, it's weird. I was going to take
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this to the dumb but then I suddenly thought, oh,
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Gread could use that. Now. He's not a spiritually minded
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person who has got a very good heart, he is
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a very he's like a brother. I said, that was
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just perfect. It's the lady looking at this lady and
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they're both carrying the same thing. Faces Why she's actually
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wanting to help this one. My daughters wanted to help me.
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She knows I love wildlife birds. My mom helped me
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with the dare to dream, my wife talk that beautiful
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sunset picture and all those things behind me. That's my corner,
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that's my home, that's my memory. It'd be weird. In fact,
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I looked this afternoon on the bottom of that calling you,
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and it used to be a hat on My late
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brother in law and nephew came over and asked if
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he could have his grandfather's and I said, it's weird.
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I have not had here because anything that feels different
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we label weird. But I knew why I said it.
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I knew what it meant. And you have to understand
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what that word means to you. It's not what other
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people dictate of their opinion. Don't let other people control you.
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You are perfectly fine when you trust yourself. Nature gives
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you the opportunity, Time gives you opportunity, your spirit gives
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you the opportunity, and literally listening to your heart, it's
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perfectly fine. It's not weird. You have a choice on
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this earth. I fact, sir, give me an idea. Being
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weird is about learning a different viewpoint. Being weird is
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about not following everybody's expectations. And if you can survive
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understanding that and doing it differently, then you're not weird
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at all. You see, you become weird when you don't
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follow your heart. You become weird when you follow everybody's
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rules and regulations and pinions. Because you're supposed to be
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an individual. You're supposed to be in control of your
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own destiny. You choose to be with people or not,
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whether it's good or bad. You choose to stay because
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financially vibe. Yeah, I'm a little bit upset, but I'll
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stay because I can't afford to be on the street.
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I can't walk to this code. All those are choices
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I know that are very very difficult, and some seem impossible.
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But the weird thing is there's so much about that
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you can do with knocking on somebody's door, asking people
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that you trust. Stop thinking yourself as weird. Just think
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of yourself as an individual. And what I've shared with you,
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there's been very many aspects of being yourself. Now, before
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we go in for a few minutes, I want to
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say I want to thank you for coming to my show.
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There to Dream our new streaming network. It is an
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honor being here. My next show will be August the thirteenth,
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which is a thirty seven PM in the standard time,
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because I'm in Florida. If you want to contact me,
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I have two email addresses, a medium seventy seven at
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gmail dot com or the brit seventy seven helpmail dot com.
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Or you can phone me on Florida, USA three five
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two four zero nine one zero six zero. Leave a
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voice message and I will get back to you. But
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my point of being here is to help you. If
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you're go any questions, you need anything, let me know.
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I'll do my best to help you find out. I've
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also got a book out called The Spirit Rall Nations
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and Awakening Begins. It's a fantasy fiction book. It was
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released in October. It's on Amazon. If you type in
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a Spirit Raw Nation and Awakening Begins, fine, or contact
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me and we can meet up if you're local. I
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have some copies myself, which would be cheaper than buy
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them online. But I love my book and I'm writing
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book two. But you see that booked over forty five
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years from start to finish, with a forty year gap
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in the middle of all that. What was weird was
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my daughter twenty nineteen said, did you ever write that
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book that? No? Can you? Yeah? So I did two
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and a half months and soon and a half years
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later and edited and then it was published October twenty
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twenty five. The weird thing is my daughter asking me
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forty years later about it. So I hope what I've
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given you helps you. And I've really got to thank
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cc shots for putting my show on air, and I
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hope that you will like, comment and share it. I
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am Reverend Brown Williams and third generation into that intuitive,
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evidential medium and psychic and host of my show to Dream.
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Yeah listening to news streaming network dot Com and wgson
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and tv go Solo Network Radio. Welcome to my show.
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Oh want to thank eaching every one of you. Please
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like Sharon Common and I'll see you beak after next
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taxz and our wonderful night. Bye.
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