ABOUT THIS EPISODE
In the latest episode of the Dad AF podcast, host Stephen DeLong is joined by Casey Franco, who shares their remarkable journey of self-discovery and resilience. From an early autism diagnosis to embracing their identity as a transgender individual, Casey’s story is a powerful testament to overcoming challenges and finding one's true self.
Casey's journey began in elementary school, where they felt different from their peers. They described their early experiences as being marked by solitude, often preferring to express themselves through art rather than engaging in social interactions. "I was always involved with, I would always draw for example," Casey recalls, highlighting how art became a refuge. This early indication of their unique perspective on life set the stage for the challenges they would face later on.
As Casey transitioned to middle school, their struggles became more pronounced. The pandemic in 2020 exacerbated these difficulties, with remote learning proving to be a significant obstacle. "I struggled to reach out, so my teachers didn't really know what was wrong," Casey explained. This lack of communication led to a spiral of anxiety and assignments piling up, ultimately causing them to nearly fail seventh grade. Casey’s experience resonates with many students who faced similar barriers during this tumultuous time.
Finding Support: It wasn't until Casey's recent diagnosis of autism in August 2022 that they began to understand their experiences better. "I had been thinking about it since 2020," they shared, illustrating the internal journey they undertook before seeking help. With the support of their parents, Casey navigated the process of diagnosis, a pivotal moment that allowed them to embrace their identity. "My parents are very supportive... they do support me all the way," they affirmed, emphasizing the importance of having a support system.
Casey’s high school years were marked by struggles, often feeling isolated and unsupported. They developed a coping mechanism focused solely on passing classes rather than excelling. "My only focus was just passing because even after doing remote online work in middle school, it still impacted me heavily throughout high school," Casey reflected. This sentiment echoes the experiences of many students who feel the pressure to perform without the necessary support.
A New Chapter in College: In contrast, Casey's college experience has been transformative. They are now enrolled in an art program, where the structure and flexibility have allowed them to thrive. "I've actually really loved college. It is a lot more like doing things myself, but I think it's like a perfect balance of what is expected of me and how they lay it out versus what I have to do on my own," Casey explained. This newfound independence has enabled Casey to flourish in ways that high school never could.
Conclusion: Casey Franco's journey is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit. Through challenges of autism, identity, and the impact of the pandemic, Casey has emerged stronger and more self-aware. Their experience highlights the critical importance of support systems, understanding, and finding environments where individuals can thrive. Key takeaways include the need for open communication, the significance of supportive relationships, and the value of understanding one’s own journey.
