Shelf to Self development

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Yeah, welcome everybody to a secret
area and in today's episode. I know

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haven't done an episode in a little
while. Don't don't judge me. Okay,

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don't be on my stuff. Not
just kidding. I haven't been uploading

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as much podcast as I'd like to. It's been a mind battle's been a

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struggle of selfdevelopment and self trust,
self confidence, a lot of self isssues

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that I've been struggling with. But
you know what, this is why I

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credit this podcast. So we can
talk about this topics, we can talk

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about self debiliment, we can talk
about the growth and and to show up,

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you know, to be there and
to just do it, you know,

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get that night spirit on that three
percenter mindset of a it doesn't matter

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what already happened. What matters is
that you hear now and what you're gonna

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do now. So now, what
I'm going to do is that I'm going

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to have an incredible conversation with my
friend Rob Card and as this man,

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wait until you hear him. He
has a very interesting topic for today,

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and it's Selfdevelopment, to know,
shelf development, to selfdevelopment. Was that

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the topic? Rop Yes, yes, so let me introduce this man to

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you. I met him in my
community, the daily awakening. Right.

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He's from Michigan, right turn outside
of Detroit. Wow, this man.

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He has opened so many restaurants,
he has been with so many world class

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leaders, he has got so much
knowledge inside of wind that every time he

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opens his mouth he just blows everyone
away. He has in incredible ability to

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capture and remember moments and just bring
him back to the now. That is

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just astonishing. So, Rob let's
talk about this interesting topic that you brought

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up and let's hear it. Man, how are you doing today? What's

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up, my friend? I were
the most colorful, or that colorful,

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but the most patterned shirt I own
because I thought, yeah, I didn't

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know where to wear a shirt today. Or you know, if you don't

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have we're going to have a color
so I wanted to dress up for you.

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That's it. Thank you, man, I appreciate it. So,

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yeah, so some of that has
occurred to me recently and it was it

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was opposed to me about selfdevelopment,
and you know how important it is everything

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else. And you know, one
of the things that you mentioned our community,

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and we are you and I met
through the daily awakening calls with stron

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g Murphy and if you haven't heard
about it, please get with Louis Louise

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and you know he'll hook you up. But I've actually been a part of

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the daily Waking Group since the first
week is started. So now we're at

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six hundred and eighty some episodes and
I can't believe it, but my the

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thought of, you know, the
shiny new object. Everybody wants something new.

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Everybody wants the like, you know, the greatest, the latest,

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whatever, you know, the the
Buzzword, the you know, the quick,

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the quick, get rich quick,
or the or the scheme or this

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or that. It occurred to me
that, you know, I you know,

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I have a lot of stuff.
I A lot of notes, I've

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been to a lot of events,
I bought a lot of books. I

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try to, you know, you
know, educate myself and say abreast of

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what's going on in the you know, and news and the media and on

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top of things. But you know, you have to put them in action,

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my friend. So that's kind of
what I've been I'm working on this.

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You know this, you know,
a podcast theme myself, shelf to

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self development. So we have,
you know, I have all these books

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on the shelf. I mean like
you know, some of the top ones

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and you know, but if you
don't actually put the stuff into action,

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and I'm calling myself out, you
know, I mean you have to actually

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read some stuff, you know,
like listen. Listening versus hearing two different

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things, two different things. That
can be a whole other topic, but

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it's it's a big deal where you
know and you don't have to. You

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don't have to do big, big
leaps. Everybody wants to. Actually,

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you know, just you know I'm
going to do. I'm going to go,

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you know, zero hundred and sixty
and three point five seconds. You

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don't really have to do that.
You know, the power of Kais on.

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You know, I want one tenth
of of you know, one percent,

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you know, getting better every day, to you know, to make

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incremental change. That's what's going to
be the magic. So, you know,

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I often talked about Hashtag missit magic
with our morning group because, you

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know, we tell ourselves morning misses
because we know we don't really we might

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not. Actually, we wouldn't have
been friends probably, you know, anywhere

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else in society. But we found
a community that we found online and from

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all over the world. It is
the most special group I've ever been a

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part of, and you know that's
why I'm here today with you. I

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mean I you know, it's just
amazing. So that's kind of that's kind

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of like, you know, the
better the basis. Yeah, man,

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it's very interesting that you bring up
the action part and obviously it's going to

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show up into conversation because we all
know that action is what gets those results.

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But on this past day's I've been
thinking about it very, very hard.

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Why? Because I haven't been doing
my podcast that that has had me

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like, Whoa, I started this
movement, this action, this thing that

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a lot of people actually would love
to be doing, and I got it,

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I'm not doing it. And then
I started reading my journals. I

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got a lot of journals to from
all the trainings that I've been on,

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and I was like, Whoa,
I got all of this knowledge that change

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is lives. Definitely, one hundred
percent can change everyone's life that reads it.

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But it's bottled knowledge. It's knowledge
that I'm not using because, yeah,

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I recollected it, but when am
I putting in into action in my

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day to day life? And you
got it's very, very, very powerful

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when you start applying that knowledge that
you've actually received over the years and you

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got a lot of it, so
I want to hear more about it.

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Well, okay, so let me
just say is so. It W it

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occurred to me also, is,
as I have been reading, and I'm

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going to say this, reintroduced to
thoughts, ideas, concepts. I started

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going over my journals and I can't
stress it enough. I mean, and

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I call myself out again, I
don't journal as often as I should.

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I am but I'm not going to
kick myself in the you know what,

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because I've actually gotten so much better
in the past year and, as I

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told you before, you know,
when we spoke just before, I started

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catalog and look at and put tabs
on my old journals with, you know,

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maybe the speaker or the the topic, and you know, I started

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a number, page number, so
I can actually then quick and quick reference

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things when I'm, you know,
either in front of somebody or with the

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group or UN a zoom and you
know, it's there is no wrong way.

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You organize it how you want your
own mind. I'm actually working on

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a new with a new computer program
that actually is going to help me to

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do like a d model, especially
it's a it's I don't know, place

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it like my mind is, which
is extremely exciting. So that's something that's

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coming soon as well. But it's
it's interesting because you know you don't know

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what you don't know, but when
you journal and you when you realize that,

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it's like this isn't new stuff,
like I'm hearing this same things it's

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been. Maybe it's got a new
bow on it or this or that,

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but you know all you know.
It's been said that you know your journals

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are your on cash checks. Rayhangen
says that and it's it's true. I

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mean it's like you have all those
ideas and I actually do like three columns.

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I'll just really quid when I read
my notes, like I'll actually,

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you know, write down what I'm
listening to. That I actually might write

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down my you know, a second
column or you write down what, you

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know, what action I need to
take or maybe a goal, and then

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I'm the small area on the far
side or even know, the far left,

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depend upon the paper you have,
if you have the little lines in

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the margin, that I might write
down like like like some neither quick dates

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of what I want to accomplish that
or, you know, maybe an additional

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action step. So I call like
third column. Like you know, we're

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on tabling my idea and that just
allows me to organize it. Again,

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do however you want, but it's
just when I'm able to write down a

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couple little keywords or my own little, you know, cleigraphy or my own

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code or something, or then I
when I'm going back and reviewing that I

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can actually get back to where my
thought was. Because this is what happens.

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Is like you have so many thoughts
per day that you don't even.

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You know, you can't even.
You can't get them all, you can't

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remember them all. But I'm learning
and I'm practicing, that's the keyword,

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practicing to actually get better at it
every day. And it's crazy. Now

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you mentioned my hospitality background. I
I'll remember, maybe not somebody's name from

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ten years ago, but I'll remember
what they drank, you know, and

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I'll be able to actually give them
their, you know, their cocktail the

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exact way or the type of wine
that they had. And again, that

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just takes practice to you know.
But you know, however you do it?

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I don't know what are some of
the things that you do to try

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to remember things. Yeah, here
we go. Here we go. I

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I turned off my microphone. I
really take notes during training specially. I'm

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not a big journaling guy during my
day to day I know it. I

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should add it to my daily habits
because it is very good to remember everything.

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But how I how I take my
notes and how I journal? I

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don't have really a style. I'm
very creative with it. Sometimes, for

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example, out here a word like
men, I don't know the how to

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make someone smile and I just draw
a smiley face with a question mark.

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No, I try to save as
much time and get as much information as

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I possibly can and as less words, because here's the thing. During a

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training, during a class, everything
is going fast pace, time is not

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stopping. We know that, right. So how can I get the most

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value to pass on to other people? Because when I'm taking notes, I'm

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not thinking Josh on me, I'm
thinking on, wow, this can serve

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so much people, and I take
notes as if I were as if I

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were the teacher. So for me
it's very, very important to to take

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sharable notes, to take notes that
I can actually teach in a way,

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that that I can transmit the message
and make it as mine, right,

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because there's something that showns always says, take my knowledge and use it for

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your own benefit. So I really
really focus on that. Let me,

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let me check my notes. Oh, this is a perfect example for the

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people who are watching the video.
I draw, I touch out, I

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do it's literally a thing I can
to to get the message out and as

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few words as I can. So
yeah, I'm very definitely I don't have

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a style of taking notes. I'm
just very creative with them. Well,

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that's your style. Yeah, and
again, that's what I'm saying. We're

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like, you know, use that
other you know why I call third column,

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where you just basically you know however
you can remember yourself. That's that's

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for you. I mean some people
are righthanded, some people are lefthanded,

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some people you know, whatever you
know. I don't know. Some people

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are curly, are some people don't, but you know, it's to s

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their own and whatever works for you, then do it. I mean,

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done is the new perfect. That's
one of the big key phrases that I

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heard this year. That's, I
one of my takeaways. Done is,

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Ye, perfect. I turned this
off again. So talk to me a

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little bit more about this shelf knowledge. What what do you call this shelf

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knowledge, and why do you say
it's selfdevelopment? Well, the whole idea

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really is to you know, the
idea of shelf to self is put it

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into action. So you can buy
the book, you can, you know,

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buy the program the video, the
DVD, the Bluetooth, Yada,

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Yada. But if you don't put
it into action and really make it sell,

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development, that it's that it's only
as good as it, you know,

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as as the the amount that you
paid for it. But yeah,

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yet I keep going back to some
of the old classics, though. I

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mean, you know, but it's
but it's really fun to be able to

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actually just just honestly, fifteen minutes, fifteen pages, just do it.

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I mean, I'm I'm still dealing
with procrastination. I mean, you know,

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I come on, be honest.
Everybody like just you know who's who

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procrastinates, you know are or they're
scrolling through their technology or, you know,

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before that it used to be the
you know, like just the TV

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and you know and videos, and
you know you're going to always find stuff

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that you know get interrupted by.
I find out, and you know I've

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found in my life you get you
get complacent, you get busy. Right

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now I have, well, I
have three kids and, you know,

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just got married. You know,
it's exciting and everything else, but you

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know, with jobs and kids and
their activities and everything else, you know,

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it gets it gets bogged out and
you know, so you get it's

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easy to get complacent and then fall
in line to whatever job you have or

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wherever, you know, what activities
you're doing, and it becomes mundane.

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And I'll be honest, you have
to break out of it. You have

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to break out of it, like
we want so much more out of life.

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But it doesn't have to be the
you know, the you know,

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the big right, the race car, the Big House on the shot on

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the hill or by the beach or
whatever. You know, it can and

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you can get there and he can
be there, but you know, celebrate

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your little victories, celebrate the you
know, the family that you have,

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I mean right now with you know
all this. You know lockdowns, and

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right now Michigan's actually lockdown in some
met fashions. So like the hospitality industry

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and hotels shows down for three weeks
in Michigan again, and it's a real

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serious thing and people are people are
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I'm very blessed to have in ninety
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just saw for her today and she's
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to get out. And fortunately she's
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not on zoom. She does go
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to actually connect with people is so
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That's a big buzz word for two
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been and should be forever, it
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a friend that has a gratitude call
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about the magic round the burn and
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actually the exercizes in this book and
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to start really envisioning things, and
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We need that. You know the
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of the Munday, my friend.
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it off, pulled out, pick
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of powerful things right there. One
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as humans, procrastination comes from wanting
big wins. It's like Oh yeah,

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for me, for me it's I'm
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not getting one hundredzero abuse, so
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things we have in life, the
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seeing your mom, your wife,
people forget about this and that's I

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think that it's when we start getting
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small things. We don't celebrate when
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It's like wow, look at what
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It's there's a sun out, I'm
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but we always want something big,
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Our Birthday are anniversary balance and say
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forget about Whoa I'm here right now. I'm with my friends, I'm with

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I'm alive, and that that goes
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that and I'm having a breakthrough right
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procrastination comes from not celebrated. So
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not wings, from not being grateful, because that's another huge thing. That's

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why Daniella is doing so good with
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grateful and through that book that is
so powerful. Rob Can you show the

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book again? I don't have it
with me for but for the people who

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are watching the the visual experience,
the magic by Ronda Bird, I so

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encourage you to buy this book right
now. I'm going to live a link

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to an Amazon shopping who's selling this
book. It's just not in a philly

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link, just by the book.
Really it's such a good book. That

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will get you in that gratitude state
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we do is based on the state
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I met a lot of cool people. Wow, it was an amazing day.

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I am such a good dude.
I'm a cool dude, but the

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other day, the next day I
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Oh, I'm so stupid. What
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I was such a great person,
a cool dude, and today I'm a

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stupid guy? It was the state
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getting into this celebrating the small winds, the being grateful, you are changing

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your state, and this is something
sewan Jim Murphy, so amazing that I

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gotta give the props to this dude
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He's a state changer and we both
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our state, therefore creating more connection, not only with other people, but

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with ourselves, with our mind.
It's this is something so powerful because we

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all, we all need, we
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times, tell me, if you've
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people, yet you feel alone,
it's because you don't have that intimacy with

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yourself, you don't have that connection
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mind, with your subconscious right and
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small winds. If you're not grateful
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then you're not going to be grateful
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This you're always going to be waiting
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be waiting for the perfect day,
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probably it's never going to come.
The Perfect Day. Rob Tell me if

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something in your wedding they didn't go
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let me decide the one of the
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was that nobody gave the bride to
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had planned it, but then she's
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walking out. And she was about, you know, three or four minutes

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behind actually starting to walk down the
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yeah, no, I mean.
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pivot, you know, two thousand
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everything. You know, we had
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got married ten two thousand and twenty. And I got to tell you,

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and as we were ever reflected here
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and and it's we basically we're like, you know, we kind of forgot

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about, you know, this challenge, this challenge that, and what we

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did. Oh well, we have
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you know, fire that person in
the higher this person, actually our

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efficient, texted us, what five
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it. We're like what, it's
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rolled with it. So I we
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was we had it at our house
and our backyard. The weather was absolutely

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perfect in Michigan in October and it
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make sure we had tables far apart, a big huge ten the back,

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so, you know, social distance
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and get their food. It went
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bottom line is we wanted our date. We wanted to do it for ourselves

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and nobody else. And I'll be
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else, and if you can learn
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you know what we could have pushed
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well, you know, we can't
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I had a lot of my family
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that's okay. They wish me well. They loved me. I was very,

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very blessed and very excited. I
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and you know. And so people
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from all of the world and that
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that. But I almost didn't do
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know what I mean. You know
they don't. You know, really they

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don't. You know, we're not
like I've never met a blocking these people

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in person, but yet for almost
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you know, develop this relationship online
and have more of a connection than some

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people I've known for twenty years.
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to actually feel the love, but
show the love, and I wanted him

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to be able to share the love
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for both of us and it was
extremely special and we're we're not going to

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take any for granted anymore. We're
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don't know excuses. So our law
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going to do the best for our
kids and for ourselves and just to be

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you know, I want to be
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better mom, but we want to
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each other first and just you got
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got to roll with the punches.
It's never going to be perfect. That's

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what we said. Done is the
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I don't have my story down pad, I don't have all the answers,

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but the circle of people that I'm
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know, you talked about changing your
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to actually in this house that had
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I want some blackout shades and because
so I can actually maybe sleep extra hour,

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because the sun comes directly in and
this time of year, right now,

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in November, the sun at you
know, at sunrise, it comes

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directly through my window and hits me
Right Square in the face and I'm okay,

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I'm an early riser anyway. But
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It's amazing. I mean I used
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you know when I was a runner, that's another story, but it's you

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know, I could choose. It's
like, Oh God, you know,

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it's like I gotta wake up or
this, that, whatever, and you

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know it's like, you know,
black, black, my eyes, what

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not. I absolutely love it.
I absolutely love having this son actually wake

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me up in the morning. I
don't need to send an alarm. I

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do occasionally just because, yeah,
I want to make sure I'm you know,

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I'm time for you know, either
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kids, but the sun way be
up. You said again a lot of

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things, and the first thing you
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to pivot. It's something we've been
listening we've been hearing a lot, I

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think the past three months you,
pw you. Tony Robins has been all

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over it. Dean Grescio, she
has been all over it. pivoting a

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lot of times we think we'RE gonna
we're gonna do something a certain way,

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it's gonna turn out perfectness. Oh
Yeah, yeah, I'm going to start

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my career. I'm going to open
this new restaurant. This is the topic

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I'm this is the the theme I'm
wanting for it. This the location.

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Then covid hits, everything change.
What the fuck am I going to do

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now? I was simply are three
almost four months ago, never imagining I

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would be here, and then suddenly
quarantine. I went crazy. I said,

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okay, I cannot be here anymore. I got plans, I saw

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them here, but it's time to
pivot. Let's do something different. I

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when I move here out to New
York, first start, I don't know,

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new career. I'm a real estate
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I I never would have imagined I
would be getting into real estate. I

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like real estate, I just never
saw myself in it. But pivoting,

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it's such an advantageous thing to do, because here's a thing family. It's

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never gonna turn out like you want. It's a truth. It's most probably

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not gonna be the how you imagined
it. Opportunity has a very interesting thing

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about it, and it's that it
a lot of times come from a different

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door, in a different shape and
color than you thought you would have it.

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You thought you would going to get
rich by trading right. It's a

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hot topic, and then suddenly you
realize that what you really liked was making

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cotton shirts, and you started making
cotton shirts and your thing and you got

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a big ass company. Now it's
called pivoting. People do it. Don't

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be afraid of change. Don't be
afraid of doing something different. Now,

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another thing you said what rub was
do it for yourself first. It's not

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for anybody else. I'm Young,
I'm twenty, I'm turning twenty one and

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two months, four months, three
months. So, oh, it's something

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that I'm I'm getting to hang on
now, and especially to me, it

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comes in and love. Right,
I'm crazy with relationships. I love being

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in love. I hate being out
of love too, because it's like it's

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a balance. But that's that's something
me, you know. But the thing

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is that a lot of the times
I want to be in a relationship because

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I want to do something with someone
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Right. That that union, that
partnership. But I've noticed in the

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in the couple past months that a
lot of the Times I take that as

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as an excuse to do something for
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I want it. I've always wanted
to open a clothing brand. I

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started with the idea of three years
ago. I let it go. I

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don't know why. It's something I
do. I start something, I don't

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finish it, then I take it
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the girl will listen to this and

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it's she'll say, okay, she's
talking about me, that Dick. But

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I was reading this girl and and
I was talking about my ideas of the

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clothing brand and I was like,
Oh, yeah, I want to do

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this, but I don't know,
I've never liked I started it on my

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own, but I want to do
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leaning on her to start the brand
and then I noticed, way I'm not

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doing it for myself, I'm doing
it for her. She wants it,

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she wants to do it. I
want to do it but I'm doing it

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more for her, because if I
really wanted to do it, I would

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do it for myself. So when
you said that phrase, it's not for

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anybody else, it really hid me
because I do that a lot. I

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I try to impress people by doing
things for them without first doing it for

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me. So thank you for that
one. I think it's going to Ristin

408
00:31:52.299 --> 00:31:56.660
night with a lot of the young
people who are listening to this podcast,

409
00:31:56.259 --> 00:32:00.579
because it's something that I think we
deal with. This just part of the

410
00:32:00.819 --> 00:32:07.609
growth in becoming aware and the experience
right. For me, I've I think

411
00:32:07.650 --> 00:32:10.529
I have a lot of knowledge for
my age. I like the experience.

412
00:32:12.089 --> 00:32:15.200
Yeah, I know you do.
And again this was awesome, though.

413
00:32:15.200 --> 00:32:21.119
I mean you get to actually say
in your s make his name mistakes as

414
00:32:21.160 --> 00:32:22.720
you can. You know, obviously
don't be you know, make sure they're

415
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:28.640
not too serious, but I mean, but you know, but try and

416
00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:34.309
ask why? Ask. That's it. That's going to buzz word. Yeah,

417
00:32:34.390 --> 00:32:38.230
that's yeah, that's another one.
So these are the two books I've

418
00:32:38.230 --> 00:32:42.190
got I'm actually reading right now.
I've o what I already finished, but

419
00:32:42.230 --> 00:32:45.859
I mean I'm rereading it though by
it. It's interesting, though, but

420
00:32:45.980 --> 00:32:52.700
I asked why. My high school
principle. You know, I laughed when

421
00:32:53.460 --> 00:32:57.779
read the book and everything else,
but because he asked to me. He's

422
00:32:57.819 --> 00:33:01.450
like why do you ask why?
You asked why so many times and I

423
00:33:01.529 --> 00:33:04.890
said I well, I said,
I just want to push the OPLOPE.

424
00:33:04.890 --> 00:33:07.329
Well, we've been doing this for
twenty years this way. I'm like why?

425
00:33:08.049 --> 00:33:13.799
Like why, why can't we do
it this way? And there's been

426
00:33:13.839 --> 00:33:15.400
a couple things that he added has
on. You know that. I remember

427
00:33:15.480 --> 00:33:23.039
in high school and he actually when
I graduated and even years later he said,

428
00:33:23.519 --> 00:33:28.509
he says, you know what he
goes. I like it. I

429
00:33:28.630 --> 00:33:30.789
like it the way you you suggested, and we even doing it. And

430
00:33:30.910 --> 00:33:37.029
then even in my twenty year reunion. Now it's thirty year reunion this year.

431
00:33:37.269 --> 00:33:42.339
Was this year, but they've been
doing a couple things in my old

432
00:33:42.339 --> 00:33:47.579
high school the same way that when
you know the group and the Sud Council

433
00:33:47.660 --> 00:33:52.460
that I was involved with, because
it was never just me that, but

434
00:33:52.700 --> 00:33:57.210
they now those became the new traditions
and they've been doing it the new way

435
00:33:57.730 --> 00:34:02.410
for thirty years now. I mean
again, it's all and how you want

436
00:34:02.450 --> 00:34:06.170
to present it and everything else,
but challenge you know, go ahead and

437
00:34:06.210 --> 00:34:08.050
sit. It's okay to challenge things, I mean, you know, and

438
00:34:08.170 --> 00:34:12.119
have good discussions. I think so. I think right now, though,

439
00:34:12.159 --> 00:34:15.880
we're so, so, so charged
up about, you know, the politics,

440
00:34:15.960 --> 00:34:19.519
and then you know and you know
either you know this covid and this

441
00:34:19.679 --> 00:34:22.480
that, whatever that you know.
You can't have a civil conversation anymore and

442
00:34:22.599 --> 00:34:27.070
that's unfortunate and we need to really
get back to that. You know,

443
00:34:27.389 --> 00:34:30.389
and have that just that stability and
understand that, you know, there are

444
00:34:30.510 --> 00:34:37.190
going to be people with difference of
opinions and different backgrounds and ideas, and

445
00:34:37.579 --> 00:34:40.219
they're they're in the same thing.
They're in the same boat. They're trying

446
00:34:40.219 --> 00:34:45.179
to challenge they're trying to ask why
I and themselves ask why I of you

447
00:34:45.260 --> 00:34:50.699
know where they're at and what they're
doing, and as long as we understand

448
00:34:50.780 --> 00:34:54.409
that, you know, this world
will be a better place. And you

449
00:34:54.530 --> 00:35:00.289
know so in your s Louis,
have at it, my friend, you

450
00:35:00.369 --> 00:35:04.809
know, and if I can actually
just be you know, you know,

451
00:35:05.050 --> 00:35:08.000
help on some of my experience that
you know that you could actually maybe do

452
00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:14.519
something quicker. That's really my goal
right now and I'm going back actually into

453
00:35:14.559 --> 00:35:22.469
my s through my notes, through
my journals, through some experiences and quickly

454
00:35:22.550 --> 00:35:27.869
playing them in my mind to actually
help with my road map for my future.

455
00:35:28.670 --> 00:35:31.670
And it's been fun. And I
also am hanging out with you and

456
00:35:32.150 --> 00:35:37.940
some other people that are younger,
and it's fun because it's making my mind

457
00:35:38.019 --> 00:35:43.260
spark again. You know, I
mentioned to you. Know, I mean

458
00:35:43.300 --> 00:35:46.539
I fail, I fear the business
I love if I failed, you know,

459
00:35:47.619 --> 00:35:51.409
but I'll be honest, instance just
part of my journey, as part

460
00:35:51.409 --> 00:35:52.690
of who I am, as part
of where I we you know how I'm

461
00:35:52.809 --> 00:35:58.730
where I'm at, and that's okay. And then and there's there's some really

462
00:35:58.769 --> 00:36:01.449
good things that have come out of
some of those failures. You know,

463
00:36:01.570 --> 00:36:06.119
I just we talked about it.
I just got married again and I we

464
00:36:06.280 --> 00:36:09.079
both couldn't be happier. I mean, you know, it's unfortunate that,

465
00:36:09.480 --> 00:36:14.760
you know, the first time around
didn't work out, but some great experiences,

466
00:36:15.119 --> 00:36:19.030
some great loves and you know,
we have wonderful children and I wouldn't

467
00:36:19.030 --> 00:36:22.949
I wouldn't change it. I wouldn't
change it. I've grown and I've gotten

468
00:36:22.949 --> 00:36:25.710
better and you know, that's all
you, anybody, can do. You'RE

469
00:36:25.829 --> 00:36:30.909
gonna you're going to have some,
you know, like some things along the

470
00:36:31.030 --> 00:36:35.019
way that are going to be bumpy, but it's how you actually, you

471
00:36:35.059 --> 00:36:37.420
know, dust off and pick pick
yourself back up and and, you know,

472
00:36:37.539 --> 00:36:42.340
make it happen or make something of
yourself. But I really can't stress

473
00:36:42.340 --> 00:36:46.059
enough, though, do it for
yourself first. You know, too often

474
00:36:46.099 --> 00:36:54.130
we're always trying to, you know, measure up or impress. It's not

475
00:36:54.329 --> 00:36:59.170
really worth it, I mean,
it really isn't. I mean, you

476
00:36:59.250 --> 00:37:01.039
know, I mean I just,
you know, be a good human being,

477
00:37:01.119 --> 00:37:04.320
you know, and then try to, you know, just get better

478
00:37:04.400 --> 00:37:09.360
yourself and challenge yourself, but also
challenge yourself with the people that you are

479
00:37:09.920 --> 00:37:14.039
hanging out with, because, as
you know, you truly are the you

480
00:37:14.119 --> 00:37:16.590
know, the sum of pretty much
the five people you hang out with all

481
00:37:16.630 --> 00:37:21.750
the time. And I'm blessed to
have found this, you know, morning

482
00:37:21.789 --> 00:37:25.070
group and it gets US recharged and
our mindset set up for the day.

483
00:37:25.630 --> 00:37:30.659
PODCASTS like this and talking with you, you know, every time, I

484
00:37:30.059 --> 00:37:32.940
know we talked, I get something
out of it and so that I can

485
00:37:32.980 --> 00:37:36.980
actually, you know, I'm writing
notes right now I self, you know,

486
00:37:37.139 --> 00:37:39.340
where as a just, you know, full little bullet points and everything

487
00:37:39.380 --> 00:37:45.610
else, the clothing line thing.
Ironically, I have some friends that are

488
00:37:45.650 --> 00:37:51.289
involved with some of their own clothing
lines and, you know, I actually

489
00:37:51.489 --> 00:37:54.650
thought about, you know, putting
together our little another line, if you

490
00:37:54.769 --> 00:38:00.679
will, last week because, you
know, I I love direct some of

491
00:38:00.800 --> 00:38:05.519
my own sayings and some of my
own thoughts and and because I think I

492
00:38:06.199 --> 00:38:07.440
think it's pretty good. I think
that most of us, you know,

493
00:38:07.599 --> 00:38:10.239
would agree that. You know,
you need to actually, you know,

494
00:38:10.360 --> 00:38:14.429
be able to do something, pick
up you know, pick up a good

495
00:38:14.469 --> 00:38:19.150
book to motivate yourself music. I
mean, you know, it's really interesting

496
00:38:19.150 --> 00:38:22.909
because you talked about how Sean is, you know, Sean g Murphy has

497
00:38:22.949 --> 00:38:28.179
changed and everything else. So when
we started this morning misfit group, it

498
00:38:28.300 --> 00:38:31.380
was a word of the day and
he expanded on a word and then it

499
00:38:31.579 --> 00:38:36.139
just got into more stories and more
interactive and we know, we have the

500
00:38:36.420 --> 00:38:42.210
rest of US shared and and now, after a forgetting how the exactly it

501
00:38:42.329 --> 00:38:45.409
was, like it was after six
hundred or he started actually saying nothing,

502
00:38:45.530 --> 00:38:50.090
doing music and everything else and work, you know, and he was learning

503
00:38:50.130 --> 00:38:54.289
from Tony Robbins and and I'm not
afraid to say it shows a whole me.

504
00:38:54.690 --> 00:38:57.800
And so, you know, you
can learn it. I learned.

505
00:38:58.039 --> 00:39:04.519
That means you know who's young,
kids can learn whatever. Definitely, definitely,

506
00:39:04.519 --> 00:39:08.159
definitely man and I remember when Sean
started standing up, and I remember

507
00:39:08.239 --> 00:39:13.710
that he said, why have I
been doing all of this calls sitting down

508
00:39:14.510 --> 00:39:19.510
if when I'm on stage I'm standing? Yeah, and it really changed his

509
00:39:19.630 --> 00:39:24.900
state and it changed our state and
it's definitely small tweaks can make a big

510
00:39:24.980 --> 00:39:30.340
difference. I agree one hundred percent
on that. It's very, very true.

511
00:39:30.980 --> 00:39:36.699
Now, something you said earlier to
was feel the love, show the

512
00:39:36.860 --> 00:39:42.170
love, shared the love. This
is something I cannot stress more about and

513
00:39:42.369 --> 00:39:46.929
it's mainly because I don't show the
love. I feel the love, I

514
00:39:47.130 --> 00:39:53.360
shared the love, I don't show
it. So it's something that, if

515
00:39:53.360 --> 00:39:57.920
you're listening to this, feeled the
love, shared a love and showed the

516
00:39:58.000 --> 00:40:01.639
love and shared the love. But
I think most importantly, and it's mainly

517
00:40:01.760 --> 00:40:05.960
I just think this because I don't
do it, is showing the love,

518
00:40:06.159 --> 00:40:12.070
like how much people are in your
life that are important to your family members

519
00:40:12.949 --> 00:40:16.190
that you don't show them that you
care about them. Maybe it's your partner

520
00:40:16.389 --> 00:40:22.699
that you've been with for a couple
of years now and it's gotten monotonous and

521
00:40:22.860 --> 00:40:29.019
you don't you don't show that that
love anymore. It's so important to show

522
00:40:29.300 --> 00:40:34.539
that affection towards people because it's free. That's that's it's great. It's literally

523
00:40:34.980 --> 00:40:38.530
you don't have to pay absolutely anything
to say Ay, I love you too,

524
00:40:39.210 --> 00:40:43.769
to go and take her out to
the park and have a nice conversation,

525
00:40:44.730 --> 00:40:52.320
to ask about how has been your
day, and it's it's so important

526
00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:57.360
because if we're seeking connection, and
we know that during this time specifically,

527
00:40:57.360 --> 00:41:00.440
we're in the middle of a pandemic. This hasn't happened since like one thousand

528
00:41:00.440 --> 00:41:05.670
nine hundred and forty, I think
it was. It's yeah, one thousand

529
00:41:05.710 --> 00:41:10.829
nine hundred and eighteen. It's a
rare occasion. So right now we're in

530
00:41:10.909 --> 00:41:15.030
a disconnect. Even though we got
social media and all that bullshit, it's

531
00:41:15.110 --> 00:41:21.659
not enough. We need that real
connection with people, and I the most

532
00:41:21.739 --> 00:41:25.059
effective way of doing that is showing
the love to people, to actually reaching

533
00:41:25.139 --> 00:41:30.460
out. Hey, how are you, how have you been house the family?

534
00:41:30.860 --> 00:41:34.250
How? Why are you doing lately? I don't do this and I

535
00:41:34.409 --> 00:41:37.769
just had a conversation with my mom. I think was like three or four

536
00:41:37.769 --> 00:41:40.969
days ago. She was like Hey, call your grandpa from time to time.

537
00:41:42.010 --> 00:41:45.610
You know they die and after they
died there's no coming back from it.

538
00:41:45.610 --> 00:41:49.400
And I was like Shit, you're
right, I don't, because I

539
00:41:49.519 --> 00:41:54.880
don't call anybody, I don't sex
anybody. I'm really I talk a lot,

540
00:41:57.119 --> 00:42:00.159
but I'm not a person to reach
out. I don't. I've never

541
00:42:00.280 --> 00:42:06.190
been like that. I'm kind of
closed in that sense, and lately it

542
00:42:06.309 --> 00:42:10.030
has been like reaching to me,
like damn, Louis, like there's so

543
00:42:10.110 --> 00:42:14.550
much people in your life that actually
care about you, because they do show

544
00:42:14.590 --> 00:42:17.500
it, but it's like if they're
talking to a wall, and I feel

545
00:42:17.539 --> 00:42:24.139
bad because it's like I'm not,
I'm not. That would be in the

546
00:42:24.260 --> 00:42:30.250
Houl low do you say this word
returning? I'm not returning that affection towards

547
00:42:30.329 --> 00:42:36.769
them. But why not? Why? Why do we close our feelings towards

548
00:42:36.849 --> 00:42:40.449
the people who we care about,
or even if it's a new relationship?

549
00:42:40.809 --> 00:42:45.800
A lot of times, and and
this is more for the young generation,

550
00:42:45.880 --> 00:42:52.159
because the old people, like Robbie, what's no, no, no,

551
00:42:52.199 --> 00:42:58.199
I'm like kidding, but yeah,
like Aust people, also young people that

552
00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:02.829
are still like understanding this thing about
love and don't have a lot of experience,

553
00:43:04.070 --> 00:43:07.510
and I'm a pisces. I don't
know if this has anything to do

554
00:43:07.670 --> 00:43:14.579
about it. Robs, are you
up? These too are so sex so

555
00:43:14.739 --> 00:43:17.539
you understand me a lot of this. We're sentimental. I think we're very

556
00:43:17.579 --> 00:43:24.659
emotional. So I I I lean
a lot towards the love side. So

557
00:43:24.940 --> 00:43:29.369
you're going to hear me in a
lot of podcasts complaining about love, not

558
00:43:29.489 --> 00:43:32.250
complaining, but just wishing my love
situation was better. And I know we

559
00:43:32.329 --> 00:43:37.769
will get better with time. But
you know, when when we're getting into

560
00:43:37.889 --> 00:43:45.239
this of meeting someone new, I
know that we feel like we've been let

561
00:43:45.360 --> 00:43:49.760
down. We're probably this happened.
Yeah, you're totally right, it happens

562
00:43:49.800 --> 00:43:53.599
a lot. But I feel that
a lot of times we close ourselves to

563
00:43:54.639 --> 00:44:01.550
showing our feelings and showing our love
because someone else in the past let us

564
00:44:01.590 --> 00:44:07.949
down. So when you said feel
the love, showed the love, shared

565
00:44:07.030 --> 00:44:10.260
the love, that's what I thought
about, like, because I know in

566
00:44:10.420 --> 00:44:15.699
my circle, it's like my young
people circle, there's a lot of people

567
00:44:15.739 --> 00:44:21.219
who are scared of falling in love
because someone else fucked them up in the

568
00:44:21.260 --> 00:44:30.010
inside and they closed themselves completely to
feeling and showing and it's I know it's

569
00:44:30.050 --> 00:44:36.010
very detrimental to them. So,
rob what could you say, because I'm

570
00:44:36.050 --> 00:44:39.199
not in the best situation to talk
about it. No, but you know,

571
00:44:39.960 --> 00:44:43.480
yeah, no, I mean,
I don't know you have a specific

572
00:44:43.519 --> 00:44:45.760
question, but no, no,
I have some thoughts, just some advicens

573
00:44:45.880 --> 00:44:55.469
on that. So let me okay, thinking back, I'm basically I always

574
00:44:55.469 --> 00:45:02.349
try to put myself out there and
it's funny. Actually all you really have

575
00:45:02.510 --> 00:45:07.860
to do is just be real and
have a real conversation. You know,

576
00:45:07.940 --> 00:45:10.940
if you know, you find somebody
alike. You know you you're nervous,

577
00:45:12.460 --> 00:45:15.340
your maybe your palms are sweaty.
You know, your our kids and whatever.

578
00:45:15.500 --> 00:45:21.650
I mean, everybody has their own
thing, whatever, but I'm always

579
00:45:21.650 --> 00:45:25.289
had the opportunity to actually just be, you know, be me and just

580
00:45:25.449 --> 00:45:31.250
say, you know, say hello
and everything else, and I put myself

581
00:45:31.289 --> 00:45:37.800
out there's, you know, early
on to basically, you know, get

582
00:45:37.840 --> 00:45:43.480
let down. But I look back
and I think it's like, you know,

583
00:45:44.159 --> 00:45:46.000
that wasn't really meant to be.
And sometimes when you know there are,

584
00:45:46.039 --> 00:45:50.389
there are reasons why doors close in
your life, whether it be your

585
00:45:50.429 --> 00:45:53.630
relationship or a job or, you
know, different things. You don't know

586
00:45:53.869 --> 00:45:59.269
what you know God has in store
for you. So they know something that

587
00:45:59.389 --> 00:46:04.110
maybe shut. You have to be
just open minded to actually truly just say,

588
00:46:04.780 --> 00:46:07.539
you know, maybe the maybe that
wasn't really meant to be. Maybe

589
00:46:07.579 --> 00:46:12.340
there is some being better. And
if you believe that, I guarantee there

590
00:46:12.420 --> 00:46:16.940
will be. So you mention,
you commented about you know, you kind

591
00:46:16.980 --> 00:46:22.170
of maybe have. You're basically worried
about you know, setting, you putting

592
00:46:22.170 --> 00:46:27.769
yourself out there because you got hurt
before. It's it is going to happen.

593
00:46:28.050 --> 00:46:31.880
But now I also think that communication
is so vital in any way,

594
00:46:32.000 --> 00:46:37.159
and even even now at my age
and second marriage and everything else. You

595
00:46:37.239 --> 00:46:42.440
know, it's one of my favorite
quotes and it's been ever since I was

596
00:46:42.559 --> 00:46:47.989
in college, so in my early
s Alfred Lord Tennyson and he he said

597
00:46:49.070 --> 00:46:53.230
the word, even the most contradictory
word, preserves contact. It is silence

598
00:46:53.269 --> 00:46:59.909
which isolates the word, even the
most contradictory word. So you know,

599
00:47:00.070 --> 00:47:06.579
you can argue, you can,
you know, have discussions, but if

600
00:47:06.619 --> 00:47:09.340
you're able to, you know,
at least be open and honest with each

601
00:47:09.340 --> 00:47:15.329
other and tell you tell each other
how you feel. That's preserving contact.

602
00:47:15.730 --> 00:47:20.050
Now the yelling, the shouting,
the whatever, the social media, you

603
00:47:20.130 --> 00:47:22.329
know, I kidd in the you
know, the keyboard and this and now

604
00:47:22.409 --> 00:47:27.889
whatever, and and and, or
believing what other people that aren't even involved

605
00:47:27.929 --> 00:47:32.079
in the situation, what they're saying, because I think we buy into all

606
00:47:32.119 --> 00:47:37.119
of that other rhetoric and the other
people and the other stuff that's happening and

607
00:47:37.599 --> 00:47:40.440
somebody else's comments. Or you trust, maybe you know, you think it's

608
00:47:40.480 --> 00:47:46.110
your best friend and that person got
hurt and then you present your situation and

609
00:47:46.389 --> 00:47:49.829
you know, and I'll be honest, they're going to be like, Oh,

610
00:47:49.869 --> 00:47:52.710
yeah, you know what, that
happened to me too, and you

611
00:47:52.789 --> 00:47:54.309
know, yeah, that's going to
happen to you. Oh yeah, that's

612
00:47:54.349 --> 00:47:58.659
going to be that's exactly what's going
to happen. No, it's not.

613
00:48:00.380 --> 00:48:04.380
How are you kidding me? It's
like it's not. Every situations different,

614
00:48:04.940 --> 00:48:09.860
but we trust our advisors and sometimes
they're really close. And not that you

615
00:48:09.900 --> 00:48:15.050
can't get good advice, but we
made mountains out of molehills. If you

616
00:48:15.409 --> 00:48:21.090
literally just talked to somebody up front, honest, in a nice tone,

617
00:48:22.090 --> 00:48:28.840
with no judgment, you're gonna go
so much farther to resolve the conflict and

618
00:48:29.159 --> 00:48:37.239
realize it wasn't that big to begin
with, I almost guarantee I wouldn't have

619
00:48:37.239 --> 00:48:42.150
been divorced. And so it can
happen in your s s. You know,

620
00:48:42.349 --> 00:48:45.829
and I know people s and s
that you know that issue and people

621
00:48:45.989 --> 00:48:49.309
have issues. You all have issues. But we listen to all this stuff,

622
00:48:49.710 --> 00:48:53.309
you know that it doesn't really make
any it's not even it's all small

623
00:48:53.349 --> 00:48:57.219
stuff. You know, don't sweat
the small stuff. It's all small stuff.

624
00:48:57.940 --> 00:49:01.619
So again, the word, even
the most contradictory or preserves contact.

625
00:49:02.539 --> 00:49:06.139
You know, if you're able to
talk about it in a nice, you

626
00:49:06.219 --> 00:49:12.210
know, professional, easygoing manner,
you can resolve it and if you can

627
00:49:12.289 --> 00:49:17.690
do that you can move forward,
you can pivot and make the best of

628
00:49:17.809 --> 00:49:22.849
the situation and then decide as together. There's nothing better than to actually find

629
00:49:23.210 --> 00:49:29.639
I had what Carolyn and I almost
passed on our love together because we had

630
00:49:29.679 --> 00:49:32.039
kids. We were both, you
know, within a couple years of divorce.

631
00:49:32.519 --> 00:49:37.039
Thinking it's like yeah, well,
you know second, second marriages.

632
00:49:37.480 --> 00:49:39.550
People said, Oh, you got
to be careful. You know, we've

633
00:49:39.590 --> 00:49:45.630
had some friends that you know that
unfortunately they couldn't. They had his shoes

634
00:49:45.030 --> 00:49:50.030
and they couldn't actually see that,
you know, this was something real and

635
00:49:51.789 --> 00:49:54.699
even getting engaged in going forward.
We're like, you know what, we're

636
00:49:54.739 --> 00:50:00.619
worth it, like we're worth it. Maybe it won't work out, but

637
00:50:00.980 --> 00:50:02.980
damn it, we believe that.
We we think we can do this and

638
00:50:04.139 --> 00:50:07.050
we love each other and are and
we got our kids together and they found

639
00:50:07.170 --> 00:50:13.409
to be good friends and and,
you know, and again with our wedding

640
00:50:13.449 --> 00:50:16.050
date, like we didn't want to
change because of covid you know, we

641
00:50:16.170 --> 00:50:20.409
wanted our ten, two thousand and
twenty. That's just something that we talked

642
00:50:20.409 --> 00:50:25.079
about and we thought about and you
know, and so we we were grateful.

643
00:50:25.119 --> 00:50:30.039
So, you know, we felt
the love. We showed the love

644
00:50:30.559 --> 00:50:32.239
with, you know, we shared
it with our friends, our family first,

645
00:50:32.320 --> 00:50:36.630
and then, you know, with
technology, I was able to show

646
00:50:36.630 --> 00:50:42.030
the love, you know, at
our zoom for the wedding, and that's

647
00:50:42.309 --> 00:50:45.909
that's sharing it and we're sharing it
every day. We're opening our hearts in

648
00:50:45.989 --> 00:50:49.110
our home to friends and family when
we can, you know, in small

649
00:50:49.190 --> 00:50:52.780
groups now, but at the same
time on zoom and everything else. And

650
00:50:53.940 --> 00:50:57.219
I can't even tell you how many, how many, you know well,

651
00:50:57.300 --> 00:51:00.260
wishes I got from my family and
friends and from, you know, you're

652
00:51:00.300 --> 00:51:07.090
in far the thank you for actually
showing, you know, the zoom ceremony

653
00:51:07.570 --> 00:51:12.369
and, you know, we had
again, we were socially distance and,

654
00:51:12.809 --> 00:51:15.170
you know, outside and everything else, but it was, it was the

655
00:51:15.289 --> 00:51:21.440
event for almost all of our guests
of the year, because there's not many

656
00:51:21.480 --> 00:51:24.400
events happening. You know, we
were a small group, but yet,

657
00:51:24.679 --> 00:51:29.039
you know, the same time,
they were just like this was this was

658
00:51:29.159 --> 00:51:31.719
really awesome, and thank you very
much for including you know. And as

659
00:51:31.840 --> 00:51:37.030
much as they gave us, you
know, are rather as much as we

660
00:51:37.110 --> 00:51:42.309
gave, they gave us much more
in return, and you have to do

661
00:51:42.510 --> 00:51:46.460
that. I was very blessed to
have some childhood friends to be in attendance

662
00:51:46.500 --> 00:51:53.460
as well. And nothing more special
than being able to actually connect with people.

663
00:51:53.579 --> 00:51:57.699
And it doesn't take much, you
said it. It just, you

664
00:51:57.780 --> 00:52:01.730
know, picking up that phone send
in a text. You know, I

665
00:52:01.929 --> 00:52:06.010
challenge you that. You know,
just send out three, three well wishes

666
00:52:06.090 --> 00:52:08.250
a day, three messages, say, in contact, and it doesn't have

667
00:52:08.369 --> 00:52:12.170
to be something big, you know, you don't have to actually, you

668
00:52:12.250 --> 00:52:15.079
know, spend it, you know, an hour talking to somebody and whatever.

669
00:52:15.159 --> 00:52:19.960
It can be just something simple or
something in your day that reminds you

670
00:52:20.039 --> 00:52:23.039
of somebody else. Those, those
are that, those are God, God

671
00:52:23.119 --> 00:52:29.000
sidences you. Basically, something comes
in your head, act on it,

672
00:52:29.199 --> 00:52:34.670
write it down, don't delay,
because there's, you know, so many

673
00:52:34.710 --> 00:52:39.869
thoughts that happen in our head every
day that there's there's a reason why you've

674
00:52:39.909 --> 00:52:45.699
been reminded of something, and I'm
learning to act on those more than ever

675
00:52:45.980 --> 00:52:51.579
and I'm I'm going to succeed more
than I ever have because of it.

676
00:52:51.699 --> 00:52:59.650
I know it, I just know
it. I love the the God sidence

677
00:52:59.969 --> 00:53:05.130
and for the people who have never
heard this word, it's a God coincidence.

678
00:53:06.610 --> 00:53:13.039
Basically, we believe that nothing happens
for any sine H hi. It's

679
00:53:13.119 --> 00:53:16.920
not by chance. Trust me,
everything has a purpose. Every thought that

680
00:53:17.159 --> 00:53:22.800
comes across your head is purposely put
there. where, where do you think

681
00:53:22.880 --> 00:53:30.110
they come from? Really think about
it. They come from somewhere far,

682
00:53:30.269 --> 00:53:35.269
far away. Then it's not the
next room, trust me, it's not

683
00:53:35.389 --> 00:53:38.909
the next room. Everything, every
thought we have, is for a reason,

684
00:53:39.070 --> 00:53:45.019
and that that that you said was
perfect, rob there's a reason why

685
00:53:45.539 --> 00:53:50.460
you've been reminded of something like,
Oh, my computers out of battery.

686
00:53:50.619 --> 00:53:55.690
Oh Wow, but yeah, let
I'll strap you this up, all right,

687
00:53:55.690 --> 00:53:58.969
but really quick though. I will
say, though, but it's also,

688
00:53:59.050 --> 00:54:00.570
again, I can't stress enough,
it's who you hang out with,

689
00:54:00.929 --> 00:54:04.969
because like talking to you and talking
through there are, you know, there

690
00:54:05.090 --> 00:54:08.250
are mutual friends. That's what gets
you going and that's what motivates you.

691
00:54:08.650 --> 00:54:14.079
You have to find that, find
those five people, find those five songs,

692
00:54:14.519 --> 00:54:19.320
find those five good feels. That
really just motivates you and get keep

693
00:54:19.320 --> 00:54:22.360
you going and gets you going and
you know, start sparking all that in

694
00:54:22.440 --> 00:54:29.789
your head, because when you do
that, the world is yours. Yes,

695
00:54:30.309 --> 00:54:36.429
yes, wow, rob this has
been such an amazing podcast. I

696
00:54:36.829 --> 00:54:40.739
loved every second of it and I
hope you guys who are listening and watching

697
00:54:40.900 --> 00:54:45.219
this right now also enjoyed and got
some good notes from it, because I

698
00:54:45.860 --> 00:54:51.179
definitely did. I got some good
ass notes from it. So, rob

699
00:54:51.500 --> 00:54:54.130
thank you for coming on with me, thank you for sharing just a little

700
00:54:54.130 --> 00:54:59.610
bit about yourself. And Trust me, people, this man has a lot

701
00:54:59.730 --> 00:55:02.849
of more layers than what you just
heard and I will be bringing him back

702
00:55:04.010 --> 00:55:07.239
con on another episode, because there's
a lot. Just a sneak bick.

703
00:55:07.360 --> 00:55:12.719
He has open twenty eight restaurants.
That's we're gonna talk about it eventually,

704
00:55:13.679 --> 00:55:16.920
but, Yo, he has a
lot of layers and I want to digest

705
00:55:17.840 --> 00:55:22.389
everything he has on his head and
we're gonna pick on it because as this

706
00:55:22.630 --> 00:55:27.429
was a wonderful episode. Any time, rob. Thank you, thank you

707
00:55:27.469 --> 00:55:30.510
for coming on here, thank you
for your words of knowledge, for your

708
00:55:30.590 --> 00:55:34.110
good advice. Trust me, I
took a lot of it to hard this.

709
00:55:34.710 --> 00:55:38.900
I had an awakening during this podcast. So wow, if you like

710
00:55:39.139 --> 00:55:45.139
this episode, please like common share
and rate with a five star. Radis

711
00:55:45.219 --> 00:55:49.139
and also other people know that we
are sharing bother you on this podcast and

712
00:55:49.260 --> 00:55:54.489
you and if you think that we
gave some value to you, please let

713
00:55:54.530 --> 00:56:00.489
us know what phrase, what word, what part, was of the most

714
00:56:00.570 --> 00:56:02.329
value to you, and we will
reach out back to you and we will

715
00:56:02.449 --> 00:56:06.639
do anything for you. Literally.
We Love You, guys. Thank you

716
00:56:06.719 --> 00:56:09.639
for listening, thank you for tuning
in and thank you, rob, for

717
00:56:09.880 --> 00:56:14.519
this amazing opportunity to have this nice
conversation with you. I Love You,

718
00:56:14.599 --> 00:56:19.349
man, Louise Family. Thank you
very much for siate. Yes, we'll

719
00:56:19.349 --> 00:56:22.829
see you all on the next adventure. This was Leez Martinez, founder of

720
00:56:22.909 --> 00:56:27.989
a CITUELA Viva, together with rob
C cardiness, and we will see you

721
00:56:28.150 --> 00:56:31.030
together on the next episode. See
You, take care. My Friend