ABOUT THIS EPISODE
Now what did you think about what I said in this week's episode...
Welcome to this week's Blonde Intelligence. I am your host, Ms. Roni, and I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. Somebody can be rich, famous, and still make choices that put everyone else in danger. We open with a blunt take on the Tiger Woods DUI story and the repeated “it was my medication” explanation, because at some point the headline stops being shocking and starts being a pattern. If a prescription warns you not to drive, the responsibility is on you and the consequences should be real, because other people did not sign up for your risk.
Then we pivot into Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, where the drama is loud but the lessons are practical. Scrappy trying to bring his new girlfriend into the mix with his baby mama sounds grown on paper, until you add blurred boundaries, old hookups, and receipts. We talk self-worth, why some situations keep repeating, and why I hate seeing men argue like it’s a sport. We also get into Sierra’s urge to broadcast someone else’s affair and how that kind of “tell on her” energy can boomerang when your own house is not solid.
We close with Todd and Kandi, divorce settlement confusion, and a simple breakdown of how buying someone out of a shared house actually works. That opens up bigger questions about prenups, money motives, and what a clean breakup should look like when it’s truly over. If you like sharp commentary, relationship red flags, and real talk that connects pop culture to real life, hit play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs boundaries, and leave a review with the one red flag you never ignore.
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Welcome to this week's Blonde Intelligence.
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I'm your host, Ms.
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Ronnie, and I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire.
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There's a few things that I want to talk about today, very briefly.
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The first thing is Tiger Woods and this DUI.
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And I know that he got arrested because he refused to take like a field sobriety test.
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And his excuse was that he takes medication.
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And the previous time that he got a DUI, it was because he takes medication.
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Now there was no um alcohol in his system.
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But my problem is, are you not thinking about the other people on the road?
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You keep using the same damn excuse about your own medication.
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And I know on the side of that medication, sometimes it tells you that you do not need to operate a motor vehicle.
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So the fact that you keep using it as an excuse and you can read, you need some repercussions for your actions.
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And I don't know what you got going on, but everybody else can't do it.
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So you can't either.
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You are not finessed two times.
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It's cool when they do it.
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It's a problem when I do it.
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It's a problem when you do it too.
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It's a problem.
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I just don't understand that one.
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But that's what I got to say about that.
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Then I know a lot of people have been reporting about this on last week when it happened.
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Love and hip hop Atlanta.
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For some reason, Scrappy felt like he needed to let his new girlfriend meet his baby mama.
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All in all, in the real world in the scenario, that is what should be done.
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What I cannot understand is the look on his face when Shakira was telling this girl Brit or Brittany, whatever her name is, that her and Scrappy were still sleeping together, that he would come over and all these things and had printed out text messages.
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I got to say, and I'm gonna get to Scrappy ass in a minute, but I got to say that Shakira, you're too old for that, to keep letting the men come playing your face just because you have a baby, and he, but you say he only kept your baby one time and he was crying and he brought him back 30 minutes later.
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So my question is why you keep popping it open to him and he's showing you that he's not interested like that.
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So I'm just wondering when is she gonna realize herself worth as a woman?
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Because number one, this is just my pet peeve about men.
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I hate this about men.
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Do not argue with women.
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It is unmanly to me for you to argue with women.
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I don't see how couples have arguments.
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We've been arguing all night.
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No, we're not gonna argue all night.
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You're gonna say what you got to say.
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I'm gonna say what I got to say.
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Now, I might have bursts of anger, but I'm the type of person, if I care about you, we're gonna, I'm gonna come back.
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No, I was wrong about this.
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But I didn't like how this was done.
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I didn't like the way I was treated, I didn't like what was said to me.
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And you try to give the person a chance to make it right, I call it make it right.
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But Scrappy likes to get up and argue.
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And I've noticed that before.
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He argues with people.
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And I just think that's just so unmanly.
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So when he said um something about, I'm gonna call a lawyer, I'ma have him, I'ma have him.
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See that right there?
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Ignorance.
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And I know him and the girl Britt them broke up now, probably was the best thing.
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The best thing.
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Because beyond the fact of when you marry him or in a relationship with him, you have to be in a relationship with his mama.
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And this man is in his freaking 40s and just wanna had a whole heap of kids.
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I have met many of men, and I don't know if they go through like a midlife crisis or what be going on, or they feel like they have to see if they still have it or whatever.
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But I don't date men who have kids, especially under the age of 16.
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And that's just me.
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And I never did get mad at men who, when they were young, didn't want to date women who had children.
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Fine, don't.
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But when you start having yours and things don't work out, and you want to get out and date, and you 40, 45, you expect for somebody to put up with all that drama?
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All I got to say is Scrappy is a red flag.
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Now, let's move on to Sierra.
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I could not understand the storyline of her needing to tell people, not her husband, but people that Selma was having extramarital affairs.
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And they're deep into the season, and that's all she talked about.
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All she had to do was keep it real, and all you had to do was mind your own business.
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Because whatever she's doing with your brother-in-law, that wasn't your business to tell nobody anything.
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So then comes to find out her husband has been cheating on her.
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And I'm just sitting there thinking, like, did you ever think that birds of a feather flock together?
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Did you ever think that?
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Did you ever think that while your brother-in-law didn't care about screwing this married woman?
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And I know y'all in y'all late 30s didn't think about that.
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What did you think he was gonna do?
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When he was out with his brother, and his brother screwing a married woman, he a married man, but they really all single.
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I just don't see how she even felt the need, the right, the audacity.
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She got me befunked with this shit about the need to tell on Selma.
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And Sam, I think, handled it pretty good to keep having to have a conversation with people about business that is not theirs.
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So Sierra Rome, if they have a reunion, I think Selma, she needs to get Sierra.
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I'm gonna say that.
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Now I'm gonna move on to Todd and Candy.
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And I know I wanted to hold out for that because I didn't know if things were true with the settlement.
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But I'm glad to find out that Todd trying to use the kids, because he was trying to use the kids as he was the anchor for the kids being there or whatever.
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I'm glad that that did not work.
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And I saw that Candy done an interview with, I don't know what her name was, but she was talking about the settlement.
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She said that she wasn't paying Todd any extra money per se.
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I don't understand why people are not understanding.
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When you are married and you have property together, and it's a physical property that you cannot take a chainsaw and have down the middle, one person has to buy the other person out.
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So if the house is worth$100, let's just say Todd and Candy had a house and it was worth$100, right?
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And Candy wants to keep the house.
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So Candy owns$50 of the house, and Todd owns$50 of the house.
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But Candy wants to keep the house.
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So in order for her to keep the house and make it equal, she has to pay Todd what his part is for the house so she can retain possession of it.
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So she gives Todd$50, his$50 of his part in the house.
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And now the house is hers.
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He got his money worth, she kept the house.
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I am wondering have these people been married?
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Have you not divided property before?
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What is going on?
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But I think that if you think about a reverse situation and don't put Todd and Candy Name in it.
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Women, especially like with basketball wives and stuff, because it was like two sisters on basketball wives that kept having babies.
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One of them, I know, kept having babies by different NBA players.
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No, securing her future.
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But let's just think about if it was not them, it was just a Jane Doe and a John Doe.
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Women have babies all the time to secure money for their future.
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Not necessarily wanting to be married.
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They cool.
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We could be married as long as I pop out a baby in a couple of years.
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I know my future be set.
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And I feel like that's what Todd did.
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I felt like that he wanted to have kids to secure his future.
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And I feel like Candy wanted to have kids because she wanted a family.
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And no, they got some cute little kids.
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The little boy looked like Candy, the little girl looked like Todd.
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You know, I wish they could have made it.
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But there were red flags before, especially that girl, the one that went when I think with Christopher Williams, he another one that seemed like he liked to argue with women too.
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But she said that Todd always be looking for a come-up.
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And I remember listening to a tarot reading one time about a man that was trying to get a woman pregnant to secure his future.
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And I'm like, who would do that?
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But I think Candy is also like a little close fist.
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She's kind of cheap on some things.
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And I'm just the type of person, oh, I don't want to be with you no more.
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You want the car?
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Take the car.
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You need some money.
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Here's the money.
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Don't ask for no more.
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Sign this agreement, and we're done.
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I think Todd got a little selfish and a little greedy when he wanted to contest the prenup, for which I have mixed feelings about it.
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It's like you knew what you was going into, but also the fact that you knew what you was going into, and then you tried to do things that would be favorable for yourself in court.
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So I'm just gonna say about relationships.
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I look at the Sierra, the Scrappy, the Todd and Candy, and everybody handle it different ways because I'm the type of person, if a relationship is over, it's over.
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There's no need to continue to sleep together.
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Or I was just calling to see how you was doing because that prolonged that prolongs the breaking off process.
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Just don't talk to me no more.
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Maybe if I see you in passing later on, I may speak.
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But if we're broke up, there's no need to still be friends, I don't think.
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And I feel like that with Ty and Candy, they'll be cordial or whatever.
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They may even sleep together again.
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You know, you never know.
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But with Sierra, no ma'am.
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With Scrappy, no, sir.
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And I'm out.
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Bye.
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